I think everyone did because I'm labeled as inferior. I was punished for existing and anything positive. I was locked in a basement without food and water for days after being beaten. My school wouldn't let me do anything, and I wore the same clothes everyday and ate the pbj sandwich that the cafeteria dished out. Eventually, they called child services, and I went to go live with my mother who is an alcoholic and punished me a lot as well. I'm immune to abuse.
Boy...if you had just ran the car into the tree that sure would have taught him to listen to ya! LOL When you are a teen you do seem to think ya know everything about everything! But, oh man you don't know shit! LOL
When my nephew was six, he was enrolled in Tae Kwon Do. At the time, my mother lived with my sister and her son. One day, I dropped in to visit and caught my nephew kicking my mother (who was about 70). All I saw was "red" and I picked Christopher up by his clothes, carried him to his room and I threw him across the room where he bounced off the wall and landed on his bed. Yes, yes, he was crying, but fine. He never kicked my mom again.
Hmmm... Bryan is proponent of throwing children across rooms, too. The two of you also like to carry knives. I can't imagine what would happen if the two of you were ever to meet for dinner and the waiter forgot to bring out the appetizers. Poor waiter.
good luck with the drive's ed, young person! I also recommend typing. Do they still teach typing in high school? We learned on type writers, but they don't have those anymore.
I'm sure I wasn't the easiest kid to live with- that's what I'm told all these years later, at least. I only weighed about 115 pounds at 15 and 16, so I was easy to toss across a room.
I am either a freak of nature or extremely blessed. I grew up the baby of 5 kids with only my mom raising us. I dont recall ever being wrongfully punished by her. Now my brothers are a diff story, they would throw us girls across the room and pick fights with us etc! lol
I did some awful things to my little sister when we were kids. In big families there is often a food chain of abuse. It's a wonder she still speaks to me.
Living proof here that seatbelts are an excellent idea, I'd be missing out on the last 17 years of my life if I hadn't worn mine. Now that would have been a real shame 'cos it's so much fun now. L x
Oh, dear! I went to reply to the other Lesley's comment, Lesley, and I accidentally hit remove. I hate when that happens. Now I'm so befuddled that I don't even know what I was going to say. How embarrassing. I'm glad you're alive, though. I'm glad you're both alive.
And of course he's like a different person with my sister's kids, the grandkids. But that's the way it usually is. As Van said, we are strange beasts.
Michael ! No..you wouldn't really have wanted to see him fly thru the windshield. Back in the 50's there weren't any seatbelts. Kids climbed around inside the car like monkeys in a cage. It is a wonder we survived! Hugs, Chris
when I was a little kid we were all over the car, too. Sleeping on the floor behind the front seat, lounging on that shelf under the rear window. We lived... I had a friend, though, who wasn't so lucky. Her whole family was in the car on a trip and they got into an accident- their mother was killed and one of the sisters was paralyzed for life... gosh this comment got depressing fast. sorry.
OK My brain is working now. Yes at my age I do tend to be the hall monitor. Sorry..Ok , I do see where you would insist he buckle up but then again he was letting you drive his car so .... Hard to call but throwing you across the room was over the top. I confess I have wanted to throw my kids across the room at times but their dad put them through so much hell I was always the parent that cuddled and praised to try and balance their lives.
Despite being the good kid, I, like many kids, have parent horror stories. Lets just say that after seeing the movie Mommie Dearest, I knew I was not alone. I have always liked Oscar Wilde's statement, "If you live long enough you learn to forgive your parents." As a teacher I learned that parents do the best they can. It's just that too many of them just suck at it.
Seeing that movie at age 13, I felt more appreciative of my parents. That little girl in the movie was so annoying, though. I'm not saying she deserved it, but she WAS kind of a bitch. Is that too awful to say?
Not awful at all. My sister was like her(bitch) but in her defense she got that way trying to deal with Mommie Dearest. I, of course, was the sweet brother trying to make peace between the two. Thankless job. Buckle up its going to be a bumpy childhood.:)
You know, Gina, I'm not sure about his current seatbelt wearing status. He was in a bad car accident a couple of years ago, and there's some controversy about whether or not he was wearing one. I think he wasn't. He hasn't been the same, physically, ever since. Oh well.
I don't remember being punished because I was the "good" one. Between having frustrated nuns at school and an erratic father that drank too much at home, the world was an uncertain place. I was very careful not to piss people off, and that mentality stayed with me for a long, long time into adulthood!
frustrated nuns and drinking fathers- there's a lot to be said for a strong Catholic upbringing. And yet if you survive it, there ARE worthwhile things to learn, as you say.
my brother and sister caused so much trouble.I knew better I was angelic.I have a family member who refuses to wear a seat belt.but I say put on your seat belt or get out of my truck.lol thrown across the room.bless your heart you learned at a early age never tell another man what to do.
Punished? I was a perfect child. Seriously. It was my M.O. I waited until adulthood to practice my adolescence, which like most adolescence was a character study in imperfection. No parents were around to punish me then, but instant karma had a way to even the score, whether that be hugging a porcelian altar, calling a wrecker to haul away my car or simply going to bed alone yet again. Karma's a bitch on the rag,... & not a rag like a regular rag, but like the type used in the old Soviet Union.
your story is confusing to me- wreckers and Russian rags. It all sounds very stressful. But you survived. I suppose it's true that karmic punishment can be far more severe than anything some parents can dream up. Sometimes.
Dolores, you're like the hall monitor. Don't mind that kid- he's all talk and sort of my friend. He's got a great career ahead of him writing screenplays for the porn industry. It's a living, I suppose.
Today I just got an ass woopen with the leather bealt, OLD STYLE -_-... I got a bad call from my teacher.
ArianaAndMalinaShow 1 year ago
I think everyone did because I'm labeled as inferior. I was punished for existing and anything positive. I was locked in a basement without food and water for days after being beaten. My school wouldn't let me do anything, and I wore the same clothes everyday and ate the pbj sandwich that the cafeteria dished out. Eventually, they called child services, and I went to go live with my mother who is an alcoholic and punished me a lot as well. I'm immune to abuse.
returnoftheramble3 1 year ago
The video is private. What's the big fucking deal? It's just about did your parents wrongfully punish you.
FlowingGeisha 3 years ago
No but I hated eating supper in my bedroom or staying there.
FlowingGeisha 3 years ago
Oh, wow! I don't know who to be more scared by .. you or your step-dad! :P
Glad it all worked out in the end ;) Thanks for your vids!!
Zyjil 3 years ago
Boy...if you had just ran the car into the tree that sure would have taught him to listen to ya! LOL When you are a teen you do seem to think ya know everything about everything! But, oh man you don't know shit! LOL
Loved this video!
Lisa
Lisa072167 3 years ago
As If your not freakin out on drining when you first drive...Right!
DawndeeDALLAS 3 years ago
ha! That would have learned him.
I don't get irrational parents either. I still have an irrational parent.
silverscreamgrl 3 years ago
"drive into a tree & watch him go through the windsheild"!!! I like the way you think!
mrobertb 3 years ago
You have a streak of evil in you, boy.
I like that.
:-D
OhCurt 3 years ago
yeah that shit was daily in my house.
dubaiedge 3 years ago
When my nephew was six, he was enrolled in Tae Kwon Do. At the time, my mother lived with my sister and her son. One day, I dropped in to visit and caught my nephew kicking my mother (who was about 70). All I saw was "red" and I picked Christopher up by his clothes, carried him to his room and I threw him across the room where he bounced off the wall and landed on his bed. Yes, yes, he was crying, but fine. He never kicked my mom again.
- roc
popparoc46 3 years ago
Hmmm... Bryan is proponent of throwing children across rooms, too. The two of you also like to carry knives. I can't imagine what would happen if the two of you were ever to meet for dinner and the waiter forgot to bring out the appetizers. Poor waiter.
mickmusing 3 years ago
Ha ha ha. Between Bryan and me, the waiter would never survive. At best, he would need therapy. (the waiter, I mean)
popparoc46 3 years ago
lmfao that story was crazy. im 15 now. ill be doing driver's ed. in september
and ill remember not to do that :)
kappaktv2 3 years ago
good luck with the drive's ed, young person! I also recommend typing. Do they still teach typing in high school? We learned on type writers, but they don't have those anymore.
mickmusing 3 years ago
FASTEN THE DAMN BELT, DAD!
Sounds like you were a drama queen back then,
good thing you haven't changed much! :)
Holy god! He threw you across the room?!
My father used to threaten me that he'd throw me across the room, but at well over 240 lbs, that was just a threat!
Thanks for sharing!
ShordansWorld 3 years ago
I'm sure I wasn't the easiest kid to live with- that's what I'm told all these years later, at least. I only weighed about 115 pounds at 15 and 16, so I was easy to toss across a room.
mickmusing 3 years ago
I am either a freak of nature or extremely blessed. I grew up the baby of 5 kids with only my mom raising us. I dont recall ever being wrongfully punished by her. Now my brothers are a diff story, they would throw us girls across the room and pick fights with us etc! lol
mizzie37 3 years ago
I did some awful things to my little sister when we were kids. In big families there is often a food chain of abuse. It's a wonder she still speaks to me.
mickmusing 3 years ago
Living proof here that seatbelts are an excellent idea, I'd be missing out on the last 17 years of my life if I hadn't worn mine. Now that would have been a real shame 'cos it's so much fun now. L x
flydarling 3 years ago
Oh, dear! I went to reply to the other Lesley's comment, Lesley, and I accidentally hit remove. I hate when that happens. Now I'm so befuddled that I don't even know what I was going to say. How embarrassing. I'm glad you're alive, though. I'm glad you're both alive.
mickmusing 3 years ago
It doesn't make any sense that's why it just sticks with you! Not a nice memory but I'm glad that you have a good relationship now. Cheers, Lesley
flydarling 3 years ago
And of course he's like a different person with my sister's kids, the grandkids. But that's the way it usually is. As Van said, we are strange beasts.
mickmusing 3 years ago
Poor Mickey... To a a tree? A brick wall would have been better! lol you are great!
ThePricanBouncer 3 years ago
We didn't have any brick walls in suburbia. Darn.
mickmusing 3 years ago
What a strange thing to dig his heels in. We are strange beasts. I guess throwing you across the room was his way of saying I am the man. Grunt.
timido66 3 years ago
I wish someone would have told me that THEN- "people are strange beasts". That would have made sense to me.
mickmusing 3 years ago
Michael ! No..you wouldn't really have wanted to see him fly thru the windshield. Back in the 50's there weren't any seatbelts. Kids climbed around inside the car like monkeys in a cage. It is a wonder we survived! Hugs, Chris
bugsinrug 3 years ago
when I was a little kid we were all over the car, too. Sleeping on the floor behind the front seat, lounging on that shelf under the rear window. We lived... I had a friend, though, who wasn't so lucky. Her whole family was in the car on a trip and they got into an accident- their mother was killed and one of the sisters was paralyzed for life... gosh this comment got depressing fast. sorry.
mickmusing 3 years ago
I have never heard about seat belts on desks, that is serious. This story is also generally serious, glad you guys worked things out as adults.
seNCationDrop 3 years ago
My high-school education was fairly lousy, but the drivers ed stuff has stuck. You should see me parallel park.
mickmusing 3 years ago
I just woke up. I will come back and comment after my brain wakes up..
Dlorezzz 3 years ago
The brain can be a tricky organ, Dolores.
mickmusing 3 years ago
OK My brain is working now. Yes at my age I do tend to be the hall monitor. Sorry..Ok , I do see where you would insist he buckle up but then again he was letting you drive his car so .... Hard to call but throwing you across the room was over the top. I confess I have wanted to throw my kids across the room at times but their dad put them through so much hell I was always the parent that cuddled and praised to try and balance their lives.
Dlorezzz 3 years ago
@Dlorezzz I'm that parent, as well.
thornekatt 2 years ago
Despite being the good kid, I, like many kids, have parent horror stories. Lets just say that after seeing the movie Mommie Dearest, I knew I was not alone. I have always liked Oscar Wilde's statement, "If you live long enough you learn to forgive your parents." As a teacher I learned that parents do the best they can. It's just that too many of them just suck at it.
Flanole 3 years ago
Seeing that movie at age 13, I felt more appreciative of my parents. That little girl in the movie was so annoying, though. I'm not saying she deserved it, but she WAS kind of a bitch. Is that too awful to say?
mickmusing 3 years ago
Not awful at all. My sister was like her(bitch) but in her defense she got that way trying to deal with Mommie Dearest. I, of course, was the sweet brother trying to make peace between the two. Thankless job. Buckle up its going to be a bumpy childhood.:)
Flanole 3 years ago
Margo, I can picture you on the staircase as you utter those immortal words.
Perroquet51 3 years ago
I had a deprived childhood, no staircases.
Flanole 3 years ago
forgive and forget. Or NOT.
AnneMarie96 3 years ago
The older I get, the more easy I'm finding it is to forget. But not necessarily on purpose.
mickmusing 3 years ago
'morning michael :)
txnrobin 3 years ago
mornin' robin!
mickmusing 3 years ago
Wow... That's fucked up Michael. Yes, I thrwe the f bomb for this story! Does he use a seatbelt now?? I'm sorry that happened sweetheart.
ItalianStallionette 3 years ago
You know, Gina, I'm not sure about his current seatbelt wearing status. He was in a bad car accident a couple of years ago, and there's some controversy about whether or not he was wearing one. I think he wasn't. He hasn't been the same, physically, ever since. Oh well.
mickmusing 3 years ago
I don't remember being punished because I was the "good" one. Between having frustrated nuns at school and an erratic father that drank too much at home, the world was an uncertain place. I was very careful not to piss people off, and that mentality stayed with me for a long, long time into adulthood!
New2UToob 3 years ago
frustrated nuns and drinking fathers- there's a lot to be said for a strong Catholic upbringing. And yet if you survive it, there ARE worthwhile things to learn, as you say.
mickmusing 3 years ago
If you're lucky, you learn how NOT to be.
And most develop a really twisted (in a good way!) sense of humor!!!
New2UToob 3 years ago
my brother and sister caused so much trouble.I knew better I was angelic.I have a family member who refuses to wear a seat belt.but I say put on your seat belt or get out of my truck.lol thrown across the room.bless your heart you learned at a early age never tell another man what to do.
GoretexRobo 3 years ago
You were Angelic? Huh. As for never telling another man what to do- I never thought of it that way, but it's true. It WAS a lesson well learned.
mickmusing 3 years ago
Punished? I was a perfect child. Seriously. It was my M.O. I waited until adulthood to practice my adolescence, which like most adolescence was a character study in imperfection. No parents were around to punish me then, but instant karma had a way to even the score, whether that be hugging a porcelian altar, calling a wrecker to haul away my car or simply going to bed alone yet again. Karma's a bitch on the rag,... & not a rag like a regular rag, but like the type used in the old Soviet Union.
dafttool 3 years ago
your story is confusing to me- wreckers and Russian rags. It all sounds very stressful. But you survived. I suppose it's true that karmic punishment can be far more severe than anything some parents can dream up. Sometimes.
mickmusing 3 years ago
I remember now.
I bought some coke home, and he found it.
bfd, it was the 90s
slider9012 3 years ago
Coke Classic? Diet Coke? I would have grounded your ass, too.
mickmusing 3 years ago
uh, yea... i guess you could call it 'diet'
i was so thin back then.
If I had a kid, I would ask him to share with me.
cum on, who hasn't done a line with their dad once or twice
slider9012 3 years ago
Are you lost ?? I think you are in the wrong comment section..
Dlorezzz 3 years ago
Dolores, you're like the hall monitor. Don't mind that kid- he's all talk and sort of my friend. He's got a great career ahead of him writing screenplays for the porn industry. It's a living, I suppose.
mickmusing 3 years ago
jesus christ, another one with a step father.
CAUTION WILL ROBINSON...
that's what I saw what I meet a guy with a step father...
I was grounded once... I really don't know why my dad grounded me... hmm, it was fucked up tho.
slider9012 3 years ago