I'm in grade 6 an I really like this guy that was in my 4th grade class and he moved schools but may go to my highschool and I don't know how to tell him I like him!!! Aaah help me
im in 8th grade, and i have a HUGE crush on a 10th grade guy. is that weird? i mean is it weird for the guy? i want to talk to him, but im not so sure...
@Hanlng98 lol i think thats the most normal thing in the entire world. Eigth grade guys are miles away from puberty, but girls get into puberty earlier. Therefore, its completely normal to like someone whos older than you, because you and 10th grade guys are as mature as you, like, both physically and mentally.
@sojourntoperfection hii im racheal and i need advice i was a freshman this year and a grade 11 asked me to be his gf after seeing eachother and flirting for 3 months he was nice at first but then he started taking a long time to respond to my texts and ignoring me infront of his friends then he dumped me on new years eve cause apparently i yell too much ....i only got mad2 times he says were getting bk together but hes basically ignoring me at school...should i let it go?does he wanna be with
What do you do if he's your best friend? I can't live without him. I know it would ruin our friendship if I asked him out but I just like him SO freakin much!!
@ILuffWarriorCats If you guy's were really good friends to begin with like you say you are, telling him that you liked him wouldn't ruin your friendship. If it does, then you guys probably weren't good friends, or he's just not a good friend to you as you thought he was. Hope I helped, and take a chance, you never know until you try!
I'm afraid of rejection. I know this. But i really do want to become this guys friend before i go out with him. What do you think i should do to help me become his friend?
OK PLEASE RESPOND and send me a link. i already watched your videos. the guy that i like locker is right next to mine.He sometime picks up small talk with me at my locker about test and, homework. Once he offered me tutoring he said "if you ever need any help you can come ask me".But sometimes he doesnt say anything to me. sometimes when we are at our lockers he doesnt say "hi "he just gets he stuff and leaves. do you think he is intrested or playing hard to get or just being friendly.
There is this guy I liked and I told him I liked him and then he said he liked me but then the next day he goes out with another girl. But we been liking each other for months but I ust didnt tell him tll yesterday :/ Everybody says I should get over it. But how? I try to not think about him but I cant help it :'(
Ok I have this guy that I really like... and I want to date him..... but I have never said 2 words to him.... I would just talk to him but I used to like one of his friends about a year ago.... I'm affraid that that is all he will be thinking about if I do.... I know you just said this in the video but what should I do??? BTW I'm only 14 so cant really ask him to a club or somethin lol
Omg. Wow. When you said "there is a possibility that he might as YES" -- that was seriously a revelation for me! I've never thought about it that way. I just assume that there's no way ! lol. But when I think about it that way, it makes me realize that I need to take a chance to find out. Thanks! (:
Thers this guy he asked me out 3 times I keep on saying NO but he keeps on asking me out but theres one thing hes my best freind how do I get him to stop???
@feardapenguins14 Because she can duh! Why do you eat? Do you think there's a possibility that she has had these experiences and wants to HELP girls or guys? Think about it!
hey i just graduated from college and when i was i high school i never went up to a guy and ask them out and the guys that approached me mehh , wasnt what i wanted, so i never really got into much of relationships. now im 20 im tryin to figure out how to talk to a guy or how to kiss and all that. so do your thing in high school as much as you can, cause it aint that fun when ur no longer a teen and still have that problem..let high school fulfill its purpose in teaching about life <3
ok so i usually am really shy but i found this guy i really liked and for some reason at the homecoming dance i decided hey you know what ive seen them look at me in class(like eye contact)then talk to their friends and then they look at me so i decided to ask him to dance he said no thanks so i thought ok he's not into me case closed but then monday he walks right up to me in the hall and just walks like an inch away from me.and he just moved this year from Germany to here and he does speak eng
ok so i usually am really shy but i found this guy i really liked and for some reason at the homecoming dance i decided hey you know what ive seen them look at me in class(like eye contact)then talk to their friends and then they look at me so i decided to ask him to dance he said no thanks so i thought ok he's not into me case closed but then monday he walks right up to me in the hall and just walks like an inch away from me.and he just moved this year from Germany to here and he does speak eng
I have a crush on an 8th grader, I'm a 7th grader. He's on my bus + bus stop. I want to talk it never works. At night I picture what would happen If I made the first move. It doesn't turn out well help?
Thanx, that really helped with my confidence in myself:) but what the hell do I do if I've never even talked to him before? I don't even know his name! :(
Right now I'm not so scared of rejection but whether or not we will still be able to be friends after… We haven't known each other for that long and I don't wanna seem like a creeper. Got any advice for that?
I told a guy I liked him n he said he's not ready for a relationship n then deleted me off of facebook n every1 is saying I shouldn't have done that normal high school girl talk, now I saw this I don't feel bad anymore I feel more confident abt myself, thank you!
please help. k i like this guy. we are friends and some days it seems like hes interested coz we hug and stuff but other days he rarely talks to me. why? theres also this other guy who told someone he thought i was hot but recently ive tried to talk to him and he doesnt even stop to talk to me anymore, hes just like "hi" and walks off...
hold up im soooo confuzzeled, k i like this guy and we r friends and stuff and some days it seems like hes into me like we hug and stuff but other days he rarely talks to me. HELP ME. thers also this other guy that told someone he thought i was hot and hes also my friend but ive talked to him recently and hes just like hi and walks away with out even stopping to talk to me, bearly making eye contact............
but the thing is i did ask the boy out and he said no, soo i ask him again load of times he got pissed off with it but at the and of that i could'nt be bother with it,well i like some other boy and i dont no if im going to do the same thing again soo... i dont no weather if its 50 50% of the time he really like me!!!!!!!
I have a crush at my school and we always hang out but then I'm getting visions like "hey should I ask him out" or "does he like me?" I keep getting scared that the fact that when or if I ask him out he would reject me and I had like 2 crushes that I asked out and then they wouldn't talk to me at all, but I think he is very cute and I don't want to be weird at all or being a creeper lol, my point is how can I ask the guy out and if he said no how should I react so that we don't ruin our friends
I used to be petrafied of rejection so i wouldn't event atempt to ask a guy out, but then one day in grade 8, i was like omg grade 8 and still never been on a date sad. so i ask some one outthat i thought was cute and they said yes. i was shoked perperd for the worst and got the best.
I AM GOING TO TOTALLY MAKE YOU MY DATING GURU!!..you're the best you know..YOU DESERVE THE NICEST COMPLIMENT..i'm not saying this out of pure generosity..i'm saying this cause YOU ACTUALLY DESERVE IT!!..somehow..girl..you're the best thing ever happened to youtube beside raywilliam johnson,mystery guitarman,dave days..all the youtube celebrity..you just needed to be notice..you have the potential!...
So I go to a small high school, a guy just joined this semester he keeps staring at me and smiling at me when I look at him, he keeps going out of his way to be near me (even if we haven't talked yet hehe) and I really want to get to know him. He's pretty shy and doesn't talk to many people. I don't think he's seeing anyone in this school but how would I know if he's dating someone outside of our school? I know I have to talk to him first, but when I do how do I casually ask him?
your videos are so great! u have a great attitude :)
so it's okay to tell them "you're cute" over text or facebook?
i'm a freshie in high school so it's all so scary, ya know?
is it true to still like, "become friends" first and all that? u can't just go out there and after a few convos be like "hey, i think ur cute"? good idea?
First, check out my "Is He Interested" video first to try and figure out whether you've got a chance with this guy.
If you think you do, go ahead and be bold. "You're cute" seems to be lacking. Since the average high school boy has a Romantic IQ of -23, I'd probably say a little more. Maybe something like, "Hey, I like your personality and think you're cute. Want to hang out sometime?" That way, he won't just respond with an "Uh, thanks" and leave you feeling like a loser. ♥
You are so right in this video! I have sooo much fear which is probably the reason I'm still single. Its not only in relationships I'm scared of rejection its everyday life :(( I need to fix that.
Thank you soooo much for your dating 101 videos. Im 17 And i have neverrrr evvverrrr once asked a guy out just because im scared of rejection. I think i will try it out some time. Im tired of wondering does he like me or not im just gonna go for it :P
im in 7 th grade and i rly like my best guy friends. i want to ask him out. but if he says no will tht hurt our friendship?
Rosieluv1141 3 days ago
What if u like a guy and he's going out with your friend and I want to tell him I like him but I don't want to hurt my bff
puppymaster120 6 days ago
I'm in grade 6 an I really like this guy that was in my 4th grade class and he moved schools but may go to my highschool and I don't know how to tell him I like him!!! Aaah help me
MinecraftBuddy2 1 week ago
I feel soooo upset I got rejected from a guy who has pink hair, he can't get a date but when I ask him he says no please help I wanna date him
andikoko1 2 weeks ago
I'm in 7th grade i used to go out with an 8th grader and then he cheated on me so we broke up but i like him so much should i ask him out again?
cam23009 2 weeks ago
@cam23009 No! That is too young to date and eventually the guy is going to want to have sex. If he cheated on you once he will do it again!
akanicolerocks711 2 weeks ago
I love your attitude!! You make everything seem heaps easier. Thank you!!!!
chelseapooNUMBER2 4 weeks ago
im in 8th grade, and i have a HUGE crush on a 10th grade guy. is that weird? i mean is it weird for the guy? i want to talk to him, but im not so sure...
Hanlng98 1 month ago
@Hanlng98 lol i think thats the most normal thing in the entire world. Eigth grade guys are miles away from puberty, but girls get into puberty earlier. Therefore, its completely normal to like someone whos older than you, because you and 10th grade guys are as mature as you, like, both physically and mentally.
AstridWeien 1 month ago
This Might Sound Weird But I Love The Way You Speak Lol
mousie1421 1 month ago
i love how for every video there is a comment down here about how many pairs of sunglasses you have :P
IceOfficialMusic 1 month ago
@sojourntoperfection hii im racheal and i need advice i was a freshman this year and a grade 11 asked me to be his gf after seeing eachother and flirting for 3 months he was nice at first but then he started taking a long time to respond to my texts and ignoring me infront of his friends then he dumped me on new years eve cause apparently i yell too much ....i only got mad2 times he says were getting bk together but hes basically ignoring me at school...should i let it go?does he wanna be with
racheal122 1 month ago
Theirs a ton of sunglasses in the backround!
Diznay7 1 month ago
Sigh, I have to try to talk to him first :P
GabbiXLuvsXYou 1 month ago
What do you do if he's your best friend? I can't live without him. I know it would ruin our friendship if I asked him out but I just like him SO freakin much!!
ILuffWarriorCats 1 month ago
@ILuffWarriorCats If you guy's were really good friends to begin with like you say you are, telling him that you liked him wouldn't ruin your friendship. If it does, then you guys probably weren't good friends, or he's just not a good friend to you as you thought he was. Hope I helped, and take a chance, you never know until you try!
mtrenchFTW3 1 month ago
Please be my older sister. You give amazing advice. You just exude so much confidence!!! I envy you!!! I can't believe you are single:)
ilovepoptarts241 1 month ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
What guy would reject u? Ur so pretty!!
TheFluteplayer98 2 months ago
omygod tommys the guy im going to ask
smoxie44 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
omg i watched a whole bunch of ur videos and i think i am getting high about it cuz i am taking notes and i didnt even know omg i want a man!!!:(
pinkglitterylipz 2 months ago
No Dislikes?
Sorry guys I had to.
Irkski 2 months ago
@Irkski Wow douche bag move :P haters gonna hate though
mamal12395 2 months ago 3
I don't believe you were never attractive! You are extremely pretty an any guy who rejects you is plain STUPID! :P
But thanks for the advice :) you're like the big sister i turn to for advice!
punkprincess6901 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
I probably would ask him out after this video. But we are good friends and if he did reject me, I know him and he would be so damn awkward!
hpxlove6 2 months ago
sometimes this i why i wait for the guy to ask me outt lol
xxawesomegirl22 2 months ago
I'm afraid of rejection. I know this. But i really do want to become this guys friend before i go out with him. What do you think i should do to help me become his friend?
TheKingdomheartscraz 2 months ago
I am realy going to use that! Pusss at least I had the ball to do it so get out my face. thx so much I well use this. Thx you.
emy151 2 months ago
@hrshw16 he's just not that interested.. Simple as that.
Prodesty1 2 months ago
Omg yhu make me laugh ^_^
saragisselle 2 months ago
im 18 lol and wow this was super helpful...just started college, entering the dating game....thanks for the advice!! =)
SparkleyEyes08 2 months ago
Im not afraid of rejection im just scared to ask out this guy i like hes so cute and im 11 your videos really help! how do i ask him out???
anastasiya4186 3 months ago
OK PLEASE RESPOND and send me a link. i already watched your videos. the guy that i like locker is right next to mine.He sometime picks up small talk with me at my locker about test and, homework. Once he offered me tutoring he said "if you ever need any help you can come ask me".But sometimes he doesnt say anything to me. sometimes when we are at our lockers he doesnt say "hi "he just gets he stuff and leaves. do you think he is intrested or playing hard to get or just being friendly.
harshw16 3 months ago
OMG THERES NO DISLIKES!
pwincess2144 3 months ago
There is this guy I liked and I told him I liked him and then he said he liked me but then the next day he goes out with another girl. But we been liking each other for months but I ust didnt tell him tll yesterday :/ Everybody says I should get over it. But how? I try to not think about him but I cant help it :'(
12344happydays 3 months ago
Ok I have this guy that I really like... and I want to date him..... but I have never said 2 words to him.... I would just talk to him but I used to like one of his friends about a year ago.... I'm affraid that that is all he will be thinking about if I do.... I know you just said this in the video but what should I do??? BTW I'm only 14 so cant really ask him to a club or somethin lol
singoutloudful 3 months ago
I looovveee your videos! Oh and your skin is to die for.. Makes me jealous. :/ haha
Mikki1014 3 months ago
Lol I'm in middle school
TheBakerm 3 months ago
Omg. Wow. When you said "there is a possibility that he might as YES" -- that was seriously a revelation for me! I've never thought about it that way. I just assume that there's no way ! lol. But when I think about it that way, it makes me realize that I need to take a chance to find out. Thanks! (:
selphiexfairy 3 months ago
Thers this guy he asked me out 3 times I keep on saying NO but he keeps on asking me out but theres one thing hes my best freind how do I get him to stop???
:(
cujocosmo 3 months ago
are you single if you are, then why are you giving advice on dating?
feardapenguins14 3 months ago
@feardapenguins14
I don't have a man because I don't want one. But I have hella game.
SojournToPerfection 3 months ago 39
@feardapenguins14 Because she can duh! Why do you eat? Do you think there's a possibility that she has had these experiences and wants to HELP girls or guys? Think about it!
punkprincess6901 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
if you're single, im thinking wtf guys are thinking not dating you.(:
MrsPolkahDohtt 3 months ago
@neoncookiecollab
Eff that.
SojournToPerfection 4 months ago 5
Lol your too funny:D
Well from my point of view iam starting to have the balls to ask guys out ... I get skared n nervous bt then its normal :)
ittzy23 4 months ago
i like ur advice it like really straightforward!
MultiTheused 4 months ago
this is some of the best advice ever!!!
ambyleeful 4 months ago
Right when you said, "OMIGOD MISSES TOMMY!" I started to crack up! ^.^
VampireknightgrlKiwi 4 months ago
Hahah! I have a guy named Tommy at my school that is completely gorgeous! Im sure he'd say yes to you though, lol :D I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!
savannahsingsasong 4 months ago
hey i just graduated from college and when i was i high school i never went up to a guy and ask them out and the guys that approached me mehh , wasnt what i wanted, so i never really got into much of relationships. now im 20 im tryin to figure out how to talk to a guy or how to kiss and all that. so do your thing in high school as much as you can, cause it aint that fun when ur no longer a teen and still have that problem..let high school fulfill its purpose in teaching about life <3
nareab 4 months ago
ok so i usually am really shy but i found this guy i really liked and for some reason at the homecoming dance i decided hey you know what ive seen them look at me in class(like eye contact)then talk to their friends and then they look at me so i decided to ask him to dance he said no thanks so i thought ok he's not into me case closed but then monday he walks right up to me in the hall and just walks like an inch away from me.and he just moved this year from Germany to here and he does speak eng
WatchTheBackground 5 months ago
ok so i usually am really shy but i found this guy i really liked and for some reason at the homecoming dance i decided hey you know what ive seen them look at me in class(like eye contact)then talk to their friends and then they look at me so i decided to ask him to dance he said no thanks so i thought ok he's not into me case closed but then monday he walks right up to me in the hall and just walks like an inch away from me.and he just moved this year from Germany to here and he does speak eng
WatchTheBackground 5 months ago
I have a crush on an 8th grader, I'm a 7th grader. He's on my bus + bus stop. I want to talk it never works. At night I picture what would happen If I made the first move. It doesn't turn out well help?
PolishGal4eva 5 months ago
this was made a day after my b-day :D
PolishGal4eva 5 months ago
Fear of rejection test 1: I think you´r really cute. Get to know me and maybe date me ? ;) :D
ineedtorelaxmore 5 months ago in playlist self
Thanx, that really helped with my confidence in myself:) but what the hell do I do if I've never even talked to him before? I don't even know his name! :(
crazychic181 5 months ago
Right now I'm not so scared of rejection but whether or not we will still be able to be friends after… We haven't known each other for that long and I don't wanna seem like a creeper. Got any advice for that?
TheDennyMojo 6 months ago
I LOVE THIS GIRL. you are actually hilarious and real. -3
melleenguyen 6 months ago
You are so helpful and real. I'm definitely telling my friends about you because you're advice totally helps! SUBBED
sweetnspicyayisha 6 months ago
What if other people like his friends laugh and be rude to you for even asking the guy to go on a date with you
MyMakeupStash1 6 months ago
I told a guy I liked him n he said he's not ready for a relationship n then deleted me off of facebook n every1 is saying I shouldn't have done that normal high school girl talk, now I saw this I don't feel bad anymore I feel more confident abt myself, thank you!
Nybby96 6 months ago
please help. k i like this guy. we are friends and some days it seems like hes interested coz we hug and stuff but other days he rarely talks to me. why? theres also this other guy who told someone he thought i was hot but recently ive tried to talk to him and he doesnt even stop to talk to me anymore, hes just like "hi" and walks off...
MrChubbicheekz 6 months ago
hold up im soooo confuzzeled, k i like this guy and we r friends and stuff and some days it seems like hes into me like we hug and stuff but other days he rarely talks to me. HELP ME. thers also this other guy that told someone he thought i was hot and hes also my friend but ive talked to him recently and hes just like hi and walks away with out even stopping to talk to me, bearly making eye contact............
MrChubbicheekz 6 months ago
Well What If You Really Like This Guy And He Is All You Want In A Guy?
MuSiClOvEr8o8 6 months ago
oh god how i love ur vids ur so funny !!!
xxtomfeltonxx 6 months ago
I'm done W/ high school now!!! and I completely understand were shes comin from about hatin it!
reborn0ne88 7 months ago
but the thing is i did ask the boy out and he said no, soo i ask him again load of times he got pissed off with it but at the and of that i could'nt be bother with it,well i like some other boy and i dont no if im going to do the same thing again soo... i dont no weather if its 50 50% of the time he really like me!!!!!!!
sweetpepsicola 7 months ago
♥ thankz 4 that but the thing is what will be the right time to ask the boy out??? ♥
sweetpepsicola 7 months ago
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sweetpepsicola 7 months ago
You made me laugh and your advice is so great! :) Definitely subscribed. <3
RavenAngelxX 8 months ago
u have the prettiest eyes!!
A55A55iN1000 8 months ago 18
@A55A55iN1000
Thank you. They're my father's. :P
♥
SojournToPerfection 8 months ago 15
@SojournToPerfection YOU STOLE YOUR FATHER'S EYES?!? THAT'S INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alucard1944 4 months ago
I love your advice. It's honest, smart, realistic and most helpful! Thank you :)
JanniPink 9 months ago
hey im about to tell the guy i like that i like him so can sum1 say sumtin encouraging or usefel? thx:)
pearl31st 9 months ago
Soooo true -33
saralovesdrakee 10 months ago
I have a crush at my school and we always hang out but then I'm getting visions like "hey should I ask him out" or "does he like me?" I keep getting scared that the fact that when or if I ask him out he would reject me and I had like 2 crushes that I asked out and then they wouldn't talk to me at all, but I think he is very cute and I don't want to be weird at all or being a creeper lol, my point is how can I ask the guy out and if he said no how should I react so that we don't ruin our friends
musicrocksreally 10 months ago
I used to be petrafied of rejection so i wouldn't event atempt to ask a guy out, but then one day in grade 8, i was like omg grade 8 and still never been on a date sad. so i ask some one outthat i thought was cute and they said yes. i was shoked perperd for the worst and got the best.
JaydeSherry15 10 months ago
"Well at least I had the balls to do it!!" lol your amazing:D
pudgepie14 10 months ago
i love your advice
frigginemo 10 months ago
i love your advice
frigginemo 10 months ago
I AM GOING TO TOTALLY MAKE YOU MY DATING GURU!!..you're the best you know..YOU DESERVE THE NICEST COMPLIMENT..i'm not saying this out of pure generosity..i'm saying this cause YOU ACTUALLY DESERVE IT!!..somehow..girl..you're the best thing ever happened to youtube beside raywilliam johnson,mystery guitarman,dave days..all the youtube celebrity..you just needed to be notice..you have the potential!...
thepulfiqiz 11 months ago
HEY GUESS WHAT? I DEFINITELY WOULDN'T REJECT YOU..THAT'S JUST SILLY! ;)
cnotenesmith 11 months ago
So I go to a small high school, a guy just joined this semester he keeps staring at me and smiling at me when I look at him, he keeps going out of his way to be near me (even if we haven't talked yet hehe) and I really want to get to know him. He's pretty shy and doesn't talk to many people. I don't think he's seeing anyone in this school but how would I know if he's dating someone outside of our school? I know I have to talk to him first, but when I do how do I casually ask him?
MsNinjaLulu 1 year ago
@MsNinjaLulu
I swear, you guys are going to KILL me.
Watch my "Dating 101: FAQ" video and fast-forward to 5:15.
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago 6
Thank you! This makes me feel better! Cuz I wanna give a rose to a guy I like but people say he's an asshole :( lol. So now I feel better:))
glitereye 1 year ago
your videos are so great! u have a great attitude :)
so it's okay to tell them "you're cute" over text or facebook?
i'm a freshie in high school so it's all so scary, ya know?
is it true to still like, "become friends" first and all that? u can't just go out there and after a few convos be like "hey, i think ur cute"? good idea?
haha thx again for the vids!
lolwithfriends 1 year ago 2
@lolwithfriends
First, check out my "Is He Interested" video first to try and figure out whether you've got a chance with this guy.
If you think you do, go ahead and be bold. "You're cute" seems to be lacking. Since the average high school boy has a Romantic IQ of -23, I'd probably say a little more. Maybe something like, "Hey, I like your personality and think you're cute. Want to hang out sometime?" That way, he won't just respond with an "Uh, thanks" and leave you feeling like a loser. ♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago 2
@SojournToPerfection When you were in middle school, were you afraid of rejection?
<3 KenzieIsAwesome221
KenzieIsAwesome221 6 months ago
You are so right in this video! I have sooo much fear which is probably the reason I'm still single. Its not only in relationships I'm scared of rejection its everyday life :(( I need to fix that.
kaurgini05 1 year ago 2
@kaurgini05
The first step is realizing it! Now, all you've gotta do is go for it! :)
Good luck! ♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago
Thank you soooo much for your dating 101 videos. Im 17 And i have neverrrr evvverrrr once asked a guy out just because im scared of rejection. I think i will try it out some time. Im tired of wondering does he like me or not im just gonna go for it :P
baby14gurl205 1 year ago
@baby14gurl205
I'm glad to hear it! Let me know how it goes!
♥ ♥ ♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago
Your videos are awesome and I'm just 14(:
xoxoNessaxoxo221 1 year ago
Hahaha!! I love you and how you deal with things <3 :)
tukab333 1 year ago