In my case, there are loyalty issues, but no Triangulation. I know enough not to try to communicate with my ex through my children, and I refuse to put her down in front of my kids, even to explain my position. But they have come out firmly on their mother's side to the extent that they no longer wish to communicate with me. Because of their ages, I am helpless to to effect any change. I no longer have any parental influence on them and lawyers won't go there.
In my case, there are loyalty issues, but no Triangulation. I know enough not to try to communicate with my ex through my children, and I refuse to put her down in front of my kids, even to explain my position. But they have come out firmly on their mother's side to the extent that they no longer wish to communicate with me. Because of their ages, I am helpless to to effect any change. I no longer have any parental influence on them and lawyers won't go there.
DiaryofaDivorcedDad 1 year ago