Minutes Off of Your Life Vol: 5

[jennifer8994]

I've seen some of your videos, but decided to go back to the beginning. I really enjoyed this video. Very well said. I agree with your position and share your beliefs! It's always hard when people don't understand who you are and why you're doing what you're doing. It's sad that people are not more open and accepting. Transition brings out the best and the worst from our family, friends, and co-workers.

[cryingsoftly]

I was recently in a relationship as I thought that by dating a girl I would not want to be a girl. It ended when she dumped me because she felt "that we were competing to be the woman in the relationship" We are still friends though she has said things that hurt my feeling when I tried coming out to her recently. I have started coming out to my closest friends but do not know where to go form here.

[TGBrooklyn]

I relate to your video; I m 41 year into a marriage and this still had not gone away, though I have had a great marriage.

What I have never had was a chance to meet me; or have anyone else meet me. Repression gets me through the day but leaves me sad.

[Canimakeit]

I'm a thinker like that. I read too far into thing's and I end up back and step one.

Read into things but set a limit for yourself.

In other words, after you end up spending 15 minutes thinking about something cut it off, move to the next or change locations for a while.

It almost seems like the guy side of you is arguing with the girl side.

Sorry if that's an insult, tryin to help.

[TGkaren]

awesome...I totally agree. Hopefully some you've schooled a few people. I've had way too many guys who only talk about having sex, and nothing else. Even when it's only for sex you'd think some small talk couldn't hurt.

I know I'm way behind here but I Love your blogs and had to comment.

[packamacka]

Everyone should be treated with dignity. Its a basic human right.

[Sanctient]

You look really familiar. Did you used to live on Otis Air Guard Base, located in Massachusetts.

[kiashamed]

WOw.. You're really pretty!

[karmatic1110]

Thanks hun! That video was forever ago!

[LadyAmarant]

I absolutely agree. Tranny-chasers just make me feel like a ... thing.

[shayne8448]

Hey, I'm a lesbian and I find you very attractive, honest and intelligent. I would definitely love to go on a date with you if I didn't live on the other side of the world... I hope you find what you are looking for :)

[kylee0006]

How about some full body shots ?

[karmatic1110]

Refer to Minutes Off of Your Life: Volume 10...thanks

[karmatic1110]

Aww tyty :)

[karmatic1110]

Its a tough subject to touch but eh.

[Lunaxekiese]

I completely agree!!! Escorts are there for guys that only want sex! I have guys promise me things and then they never keep them...ugh so frustrating

[karmatic1110]

Yes, well as much as I hate condoning it, it is there they need to use the services and leave us girls alone.

[manniefaces]

Having done the married thing myself I so understand. I am lucky that I have no children to put through my transition.

[karmatic1110]

Yes, children can be hard. Losing a relationship is hard as well however in the end I believe it is worth the sacrifice.

[manniefaces]

You are so amazingly well spoken.

[karmatic1110]

Oh I wish that were true in real life lol!

[Advoken]

Thank you for your candid comments. You are lovely and feminine, and your honesty and openness adds to your natural beauty. I am now 78 yo, father of five, and I have suppressed my femininity all my life. Your comments about marrying and having children hit home; I am fortunate to have a close family, but have been tortured with these feelings. Transitioning was hardly an option in my early years (before Christine Jorgensen was a woman). Now, my family must come first. Thank you again.

[karmatic1110]

I understand. I believe what you are doing takes more courage than transition itself. To be that selfless for others is something I admire. I tried and failed. We make the best of things I suppose.

[guymade]

great video and good topic as well

[karmatic1110]

Aww I am so glad your watching my vids :)

[johnnycheese]

You are an amazing, beautiful, wonderful WOMAN!!! You knock my socks off!

[karmatic1110]

I have always wondered how someone would go about that. Thank you hun :)

[faerynthemoon]

You are so cute!

[LollymcMuffin]

You know who your facial structure/features remind me of? Paris Hilton! :O

[karmatic1110]

HAHA! I guess I can see it a little. Its the nose I think.

[ouchmycrank]

I stumbled across your blogs and watched them all. At first I couldn't put my finger on why they are so fascinating. I really had to think about it. Now I know. It's because you are the most down-to-earth, emotionally centered, self aware transgendered person I've ever seen. It's remarkable. My god, you would be so easy to fall in love with. I wish you peace and happiness throughout your life.

[karmatic1110]

That has to be the nicest comment I have ever received! Thank you so much! You made my day.

[LollymcMuffin]

Aww, great! I also thought it was your lower lip and jawline. You're super pretty ^-^

[karmatic1110]

:P Thank you babe!

[Purchases53]

Thank-you for the video. =)

[EvilOverlord1]

i love your blogs. you alway talk in such an soft and sensetive way that i can actualy feel with you.

[karmatic1110]

I only talk soft and sensative so I don't scare people :P No, I am kind of shy in person unless I know a who I am speaking with. I do much better just doing sexy poses against the wall or something.

[icecoldbath]

Haha, sometimes I feel you and I have lived the same life. I also dated a transgirl to "transition vicariously," didn't work. The blog was very good. I had been thinking about how to blog about "chasers" and you nailed it with grace and sensitivity. Rock on!

[karmatic1110]

Yes, It was such a stupid notion but hey lol. All it did in the end was make me more miserable because she was doing what I knew I needed to do for myself and hurt her.

[grishno]

What a great blog! I think that Ritesofspr hit it right on the head that you're a women and you should be treated like one... but even beyond that, you're a human being and you deserve to be more than just a sex object... you have all the feelings and desires as gg's and those need to be taken care of.

Thanks for the blog!

~Erin

[karmatic1110]

I thought it was a subect I wanted to touch on, however I didn't know how to go about it. I was very nervous that I was going to upset some people unintentionally as I hate making broad statements like that. It seems to have worked out.

[grishno]

I think that you did it in a really sensative and comprehensive way... which is sometimes really hard to do when talking on these subjects.

[karmatic1110]

Next topic will be "How every woman should act stereotypically and like pink and stuff." I hope it works out! :P

[grishno]

Oh Hell Ya! I can't wait! :P

[jle1979]

Love tha video. Tell this men girl we r not sex objects although we r sexy were more then that. Love Ya, Naomi S.

[TrannyBot]

lol... at some point it sounded like a dating tape... "I like to cuddle, but not so much that it's annoying." keep em coming

[ritesofspr]

Excellent vlog Charlotte. You bring up a really good point. You are a woman, plain and simple. You are a woman who wants to be treated like a woman, nothing wrong with that, hopefully the guys on here understand that!

[karmatic1110]

Perfect first comment :) I am going to put on my running shoes just in case :)