Real Housewives of Atlanta Fiance Killed

[squeirbugz]

I Think Theyy Were A Very Great Couple I Watched The Reuion Last Night And Kandi Said That She Doesnt Know The Exact Cause Of Death And When She Was At The Hospital He Looked Like Himself With No Bruses Or Anything Kandi Also Said They Got Engaged In January And They Split Up In June Of this Yr Kandi Was Seen In Tears On The Reuion Kandi Were So Srry 4 Yhur Lost Prayers Are With The Family And Kandi

[guccigrl93]

i loved A.J

[mZHollywoodJ]

MEDIATAKEOUT has the article...

[mZHollywoodJ]

A MEDICAL EXAMINER TOLD E that he had SICKLE CELL and that might have contributed to his DEATH thats CRAZY!!!

[214InnocentGirl20]

if you all read a letter that lych wrote you woud see that they trained us to be slaves for hundred of yrs.. so just because we became free didnt mean anything. back in slavery they spearated the man from his family..

why do you think its some many single black women homes.. thats the mind set that they put in black mens head that it was ok to not be there for there family..not all black men and women are like this but most are

[chamles]

That is so far from the point here! Let us look to the appropriate reason for this horrible tragedy; more than likely what the gentlemen inferred "somebody probably stepped on somebody's shoe" is the cause. It's so tragic. He sure seemed to be a nice man and she just wrote the book on class. Anybody who would have a respectful conversation with her mom no matter what the outcome ON TV... please... need I say more?

[TreblePop]

I don't support government censorship either. If you want people to have certain values and to be respectful it has to start at home. But people can and should criticize certain rappers and certain record labels for peddling the stuff they do. Freedom of speech doesn't mean that any one with a filthy mouth is guaranteed a recording contract.

[PhantomLyric]

That is true.

[TreblePop]

People can blame the rappers and the rap music. Ok, fair enough. But if people stopped buying the music, the big labels would stop backing it and producing it.

That's how capitalism works.  Whatever sells.

[PhantomLyric]

Not just that, parents need to do better. I am not big on censorship, but something has to happen to stop this senseless violence.

[polycitymom]

Today, they do not know what it means to be proud to be black. There is far too much slave mentality going on and has been for quite some time. When women allow themselves to be called out of their names and think its okay, when strong, black mean think that selling dope and being in and out of jail is okay then we have become no less than slaves again. As blacks we are enslaving ourselves and no one is to blame but ourselves. RAP MUSIC NEEDS TO GO AWAY. That mentality has hurt us so much.

[PhantomLyric]

There is no rap mentality. Saying rap needs to go away is saying all music needs to go away. Ignorant people need to go away. I have heard plenty of negative country, rock, and pop....

[truthhurts28]

Yea but the majority of rappers are glorifying things that they know most of these inner city youths can't afford. So what do the youths do. Rob, Kill,.do whatever they can to fit in with what these rappers rap about. Some youths think that being smart in school isn't cool.  Why is it this race that think doing the wrong shit is what's going to consider them to be "HARD"!!!

[panther1171]

Sorry for urlost Kandi my prayers go out to ur family and his as well,I wish this never happen its just do F***ed up

[tmh1996]

Not only did she loose her fiance but she and me(we are second cousins)lost our Uncle ralph who appeared on the show.Too much is going on.kandi is heartbroken and the family is trying to keep her lifted as much as we can.We could see it in her face when we saw her at the dinner before our uncles funeral.she wasnt doing to good.Thank you for your prayers..im sure kandi appreciates it.and so do I.

[PhantomLyric]

Let her know that Phantom Lyric is praying for her...

[rudielor]

I know this is a sad time for Kandi, her family and his. Your heart actually hurts when you are really sad. I know It may be different for some people, but I understand it takes approximately two years for people to begin to heal. Stay close family. I pray for all.

[Singaway2009]

aw, i feel really bad . Kandi we love you ! & my prayer's go out to you mama ; stay up . & always rememberr : everything happens for a reason sweety ; it might be extremely hard to face it now, But everything HAPPENS for a reason ; much love signed ; Tamabaybee!

[kokofemme]

What disturbs me most is how "Us" just keep killing "us"....when are WE going to learn. Kandi is my favorite housewife personality by far and for this to happen to a more beautiful person....wow! RIP AJ and may God bless BOTH families during this sad time!

♫ kokofemme ♫

[PhantomLyric]

You don't know how much I've tried to defend against the stereotypes and generalizations but when "certain people" bring up this, I can't say a damn thing. Statistically, the rate of black on black crime outnumbers all other race related crime. More than white on black, or black on white, etc... and it's a damn shame. Jim Crow was a genius... that'll be the topic of my next video.

[sylviacalhoun]

man i live in los angeles and i work in the funeral industry,black men under 26 are getting killed like 3 a week to be exact,but the news never covers it,they down play all these killings in los angeles,people need to be aware,i'm scared for mothers raising blk men in south central

[TheLonewolf313]

trust me brother i know what u feelin. i live in the detroit and there is a murder everyday(literally). i just want to know when is people going to wake up and smell the coffee......i mean the writing is on the wall......it is a time for change! its time for the og's to start acting their age, u ain't 20 sumthang know more, talk to these young cats out here that idolize you. steer them away from this bullshit. ain't shit cute about a old ni%#a still sagging their pants....wake the fuck up ppl!

[truthhurts28]

Whew lonewolf I thought I was the only one that notices this shit. You know I for some reason swore that if Obama became president things were going to change. I think even the racist whites were scared. But hell blacks rather kill each other. I mean we are going down as a race. When is this shit going to stop!!!

[TheLonewolf313]

i ask myself that everyday. to see my city deteriorate at an exponential rate is mind boggling to me. the middle class is moving out the city and decent neighborhoods is becoming ghettos very quick. i try to kick it with young dudes to see where they mind is at and from what i see they're lost but don't know it! fuck being a gangster, be a man or woman. if you can't do that, how in the hell are you going to be anything else. the rap game make things look cute!

[vlomond]

where was his sucurity team how do you get killed at your own club

[jamal03]

i heard that it was over money! outside of his club!

[Machelle3200]

this is sad man....our brothers keep killing each other....

[jamal03]

because they're stupid and un educated!

[hourglas39]

Very sad. He was the promoter of the club / bar that he ended up getting killed at from head injuries. They had broke up as well, which I didnt know about.

So very sad though, you don't want to see this happen to anyone, especially someone that you love. I am keeping Kandi and AJ's family in my prayers.

[PhantomLyric]

Yeah, it's like, weren't we all just talking about him and Kandi yesterday and boom... See you never know when your last day is coming. This is why we need to come up off of the dumb stuff and realize we are poisoning ourselves.

[hourglas39]

Very well said ! Life is too short to be tripping / worrying about the little stuff.

I'm not clearly understanding why they broke up anyways, but I'm sure it probably had something to do with Kandi's mom not approving of him possibly and the number of kids he had ?

[PhantomLyric]

She said she didn't mind the kids in the B. Scott interview.... I think her mom not approving may have been the biggest thing. They didn't belong together, and it seemed to me that he was "acting" like he was ready to settle down and "playing" the rolls... even when he called her baby it seemed forced and fake. Kandi, to me, didn't seem like she was sure either. She was holding on to a fairytale.... That was very obvious to me, but I know she's hurting like hell now. God bless their family, man.

[hourglas39]

Yes, I know she is hurting now, I'll have to watch the B. Scott interview again, I only saw part 1. Funny that you mentioned him "playing the part" I'm glad I was not the only one that got the impression something wasnt righte.

God Bless their families.

Thanks for the post as well :)

[PhantomLyric]

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[tinobrownonline]

I was shot when I was 17...in my neck. I was hanging in the streets doing what I do. My friend was killed at 16 right beside me, and four others were shot. Even though parents were hurt and crying, we all knew the consequences to our actions. Though we were young. I say that to say this...If you have a wife like Kandis at the house,someone whos life is on track and youre trying to be a role model for her kids, dont take your ass to the body tap. Be a man and stay home. Family first. R.I.P AJ