Divorce Sucks

[PGM128]

ya know what you selfish little brat, it suxs for your parents too. you think they wanted this to be the way therir family ended? you think this is what they planned? STFU and move on.

[monkeyslikepineapple]

even worse when it happens twice:,(

[LullabyLaura]

This just made me burst out in tears...found out today my parents are getting a divorce :/ and i really don't know how i'm going to cope

[pizzaqueen2230]

everything changes.....

[DJstillill555]

i never knew who my mom was she just left me when i was 4 and it was on my birthday which was yesterday august 21, 14 years passed im now 17 and i wish my mom was with me :( but i guess she hated me and left me....

[JessicaWalsh14]

Made me cry. Im a little luckier. My parents are split up, they may eventually divorce. Your video is touching. Thank you :)

[lemondale11]

This totally told my life story. </3

[iluvpets21]

I kno how u feel and worse. My dad married a bitch and is embarrassing me on fb abt it and I nvr c my dad anymore and I'm moving away frm my 9 yr home which is neighbors w my 9 yr bffl and my dad is moving and there rlly close moves (June 13 and June 30th) and I only hav my moms side of the family putting me 1st. Ppl thin k o lulu u get 2 houses but they don't realize that u wud sacrifice anything and everything for a whole family.

My dad also cheated btw. 4 any1 without a family issue plz don'

[makeone88]

Thanks for the video. This video will help me speak to my son in a later age of why his mother and I did not work. Thanks for the vantage point. God Bless

[SoCiAlHoLicS]

Thank you for making this video, i am 15 my parents got divorced about 3 months ago and it isn't the same with every divorce do people with your negative comments take them and shove them up your fucking ass! I think this is a good video this is the only one i could relate to b/c i feel the same exact way. I am still emotionally broken and i pretend everythings fine but it's not i feel like everything get's worse. I wish i could say divorce was easy but its not i will NEVER do this to my kids!

[InfectedNomad]

I hear yah, my mom and dad are getting a divovce. My sibillings are really sad and crying a lot but I don't get why I am not sad about it I am a little sad but my parents have fought so much that I guess I don't care anymore. This video basicly discribed my life:(

[TheSitemodelsinger]

My parents are getting a divorce this summer. My moms moving in with someone else. All the way in Africa. I'm going to have to choose. It's hard. But I want to live with my dad. More like he would take care of me more. I love my

Mom. She's my bestfriend. But I can't live with both. I can't wait till it's over. :(

[supersportrsz28]

Parents should see this and realize the damage being caused to children through selfish prideful decision that affect everyone involved. I pray God will open our eyes...

[Grapes428]

Divorce rates keep being high because the I think the wrong people are getting married. More people get married too soon or feel obligated to be married. It's better to be conservative about things if you want the marriage to last. The high rates are making marriage seem dead and more and more people every year don't want to get married. I think it's a sin to get divorced, if I get married I'm going to make sure that there is no chance for divorce.

[briakandice93]

Sometimes expressing your feelings in other ways other than words can really make you feel better. I think that you are a really intelligent and smart person! not only for making this video but you realize that no matter what your parents are going through they still love and care about you! you are an amazing person =). and to all those people making extremely rude comments they are probably hurting and just don't want to face their problems.

love Bria M.

[cediem11]

I have a lot of respect for you and what you're going through. The song went perfectly with what you were talking about. People need to respect the fact that this is your way of getting your feelings out. Don't let these other people bring you down, you do matter and don't let anyone tell you differently. I hope you are doing better, and I hope everything is going okay.

[ntsibiski]

The song you used was very moving. I know people who have gone through divorces and even though they act like they're okay with it, it tears them apart inside. Them seeing this showed them that they are not alone in how they are feeling and you couldn't have put the feelings into better words.

[kAti11lol]

i liked the song you used because it must have said exactly what you were feeling. Don't listen to what the other people are saying to put you down, it is just them trying to feel better about themselves and you don't deserve it. you were just expressing yourself in a way that you felt was right for you. i liked your video and i hope you are doing better with the divorce. know that you do matter and you always will.

[prettynoose89]

Your parents got divorced, so fucking what? My parents got divorced too, it's not that big of a deal because divorce is pretty damn common. You really need to stop acting like your problems are so much bigger than they actually are, and realize that they are not more significant that the problems most people go through.

[SoCiAlHoLicS]

@prettynoose89  There is no reason to be a bitch. Not all divorces are the same, my dad got tricked into one and everything stole from him and my mom is already moving us in with her new bf...my dad is broken and depressed and crys.alright so shut the fuck up, at least she made a video and described what she was going through and obviously alot of people are going threw the same shit. your divorce must of been easy..other people have hearts and it is hard ! so dont comment any negative comments

[MingMoezelMoesje]

@SoCiAlHoLicS No divorce is easy.

[animesoul13]

You guys have to remember that even thought it sucks, your parents are people too and they are having a hard time dealing with it. Can u imagine if your life changed like that and you were so depressed but you had to take care of a child?

The reason I found this was because my dad was dropping me off at moms and they got into a huge fight that ended with me saying FUCK YOU to both of them. I wanted to relate to some1 because its not easy.

Divorce fcking hurts for the mother, child and father.

[WRladyraider]

know how you feel, my parents are going through a very rough divorce and it hurts like hell. but im stuck in the middle of everything. its an emotional rollercoaster for me, and i want off of this stomach churning ride.

[shelbiebear1987]

I need someone to talk to about my parents up comming divorce

[jackjumperfreak]

Man after like 7 mothns this vid makes me cry, and believe me im 15 and i hardly cry.

All my friends forgot about it....the first few weeks they said to me that they knew how i felt etc. But now nobody seems to care.

Everybody sees me as the cool school boy that plays soccer with a cool life.

But its not, its all fucked up. Love is hardly in my life and im not enjoying thingsd anymore that much. I have the feeling that i have to choose between my partensn live isnt the same anymore......

[UgIzZz]

@jackjumperfreak Same here. I'm 15, 1 year and 2 months passed. Nobody cares, everything is going at it's way. The phrase "I know what you feel" fits here, because you live practically the same life as I do. A fucked-up one.

[Yankeegal567]

i talk in past tenses cause theres no way out i was happy now filled with doubt my mommy and daddy dont love no more i watched daddy walk out the door the sound of his tires skidding on the street haunt my dreams while i sleep the crying and screaming dont really help i suffer in silence but i know they can tell there little girls going through hell i dont think they realized wat one word can do they dont know how divorce has power over you...

[Madelen98z]

My mother told me today that my mom and dad was going to devorce

[Shadowmov3r]

My parents devorced when I was little, now, my mother and my not-biological dad are going to divorce, it fucking sucks, why do adults have to involve others in their stupid inlogical cesspool of sadness and half-assedness?

Thanks mom, for ruining those 10 years of making friends, learning other places, people, things, thanks for fucking shitting up my whole school and making me depressed and destroy my learning process by putting me on another school, yay!

Have a nice day.

[theviinniiee]

this was very powerful thank you

[TycoonKidd21]

My dad just told my siblings and I that he and my mom are having a divorse, what is there to live for? Why did this happen? I love my mom + dad. I hate my life ;(

[alovingfather1]

Hey Brother give me a call any time? My name is chris.

[Genesis2Jesus]

Hey @TycoonKidd21, I'm sorry to hear this happened to your parents. Sometimes life sucks, but hang in there - you'll make it through this. I wish I could find the right words to say to help you. Unfortunately, divorce effects kids a lot more than what people realize unless they've been through it themselves.

[TycoonKidd21]

@Genesis2Jesus thank you so much for caring for me, im slowly getting over this and i'll be back to somewhat normal soon. but anyways, thanks for taking your time to make me feel better.

[endlessroad124]

I don't care what anyone says...A stepmom or stepdad doesn't make anything better... :( divorce sucks

[Ilovetoact13]

omg, this made me cry! i <3 this video!

[Ilovetoact13]

I know how you feel. My parents are divorced. and it sucks!

[vraiser79]

Unlike you said in the video, I am pointing my finger and I can honestly say I hate my parents even though I want to be with them at the same time. What they have done to me by their arguing and neglecting me is terrible. I always took it as my fault and shame. But it was their fault not mine. They made me believe lies and ruined my life. I still hope I will get pass this and heal. But it's a long journey and very hard.

[Mayonnaiseman22]

I think my parents will divorce as they hav huge arguments in front of me- now I'm left in between nd it feels like a deep hole I can't get out of. True vid

[Genesis2Jesus]

@Mayonnaiseman22, there is help out there for you, counseling will help you find coping mechanisms. I also have faith in Jesus Christ. Reading His Word and understanding why humanity is in such a mess helps me to put faith in Him.

[angelinasarah96]

i know how you feel

[SuzLa1]

I think it's sad how people don't make any effort to stay together once they have children.

[Thunderstarcat]

my parents are divorced and i hate it. its torture. keep goin strong. i kno how u feel

[Gargirello1127]

omg same here bro same problem

[yodylz]

sweet angel I am sad because my husband cheated not just on me but on our family..so did my dad

there are no guarentees

[jewishjoy]

Amazingly strong and beautiful dreamer, my parents are divorced too--divorce sucks! I am proud of you for making this video. I read the comment about you not being important, but I disagree! God is the one who created you and He knew you before the world was made. He knows the plans He has for your life, plans to give you a hope and a future.  You are not your parents and their mistakes are not YOU. You can have a great life and marriage. You have much to give to the world. Dream big!

[colortheworld123]

I hate how all of this seem to have turned into a competition of who has it worse. Its one of the worst tragedies a kid could go through because they still can hope for it to change. I also hate how parents preach about how to feel, and how it will be okay. Have they ever done this? Anyways, sorry for ranting, I loved the video. ^_^

[YensidFreak11]

i hate tht my parents r getting a divorce becuz one night i heard my parents fight a tiny fight and i got scared and i told my dad tht ashleys parents got a divorce and her grades were falling and he said yes but her is broken and i was like but my grades are slipping nd everytime i hear yall fight i get scared yall are going to get a divorce and he said ashleys family is broken but ours isnt i nd i promise it will never b. ok. nd now tht promise is broken u dont know what u have until u lose it

[YensidFreak11]

btw this is crazy4life24 im just on my bro's account right now

[sammy123109]

atleast you didnt find out that your own dad doesnt love you all that much and you only get to see him once every 2 years because he doesnt ever come visit you and your mom is the only one that has loved you your intire life and your now suffering financial problems and its only you and your mom left in the family and my parents have been divorced since 06. Be thankful, because when your dad doesnt care about you and cares about his girlfriend hes only known for 3 years more than he cares for u.

[BubbGumAK]

my parents are divorced but one lives on one side of the country and one lives on the other i still i cry even though they divorced like 4 years ago

[CraftLover100]

that day we were having fun in the beach with my mom, dad my tow sisters and my tow brothers. the next day they divorced and i went to school the day after like a dead body because of the shock and since that day my life changed forever.

[djbanks3]

My parents are getting a divorce i understand how you feel.But my mom told me what was going on but that is personal.What happened just like messed up my world

[Smexty9]

Thanks for this video it really helped my depression and gave me closure because finally someone could explain everything I was feeling. My parents divorced a few years ago and it was really hard. Thankyou so much for helping me understand..

[AfreeQueen]

I'm sorry, Taylor, Nikko, Angel, Chickita and Nayomi. Daddy and I don't hate you and our problems aren't yours to bear. We love you but it's just that we can't be together. Know that you were our prized posessions and that you can NEVER be replaced.

[JorJackie]

Sorry the dream didn't work out, babe, but just keep letting your children know how special they are, and that the separation between you and you husband will never happen between you and your children, they need a lot of reassurance even if they show no signs that they do, take care of yourself, make life better for you and your (5) precious jewels.

And as hard as it may be, grieve hard, and move on fast. life's too short.

God bless!

[starburstgirl44]

i cried during this video cuz m parents are going thru a divorce and it really is a sad depressing thing!

[ihaveatwin09]

4 every1 going thru divorce..i no how u feel. my parents are going thru a divorce.i live with my mom & im visiting my dad.2day he took me 2 the mall 2 spend time with me. it was fun but he just started 2 care & it confuses me bcuz hes never spent time with me like this. its like he just now wanted 2 bcum a dad & im 14. 4 the 1 who made this video..i no how u feel. i cry myself 2 sleep every nite bcuz of it. but no 1 knows. 4 all the people who post negative comnts..you can shove that up ur ass!

[JorJackie]

It's not that he just started caring about you, it's just that now je's not so busy, emotional and depressed from fighting with your mom all the time, and he can finally give you the attention he always knew you deserved but was too emotionally drained to do it!

[asperigussucks]

my parents are going through a divorce right now it sucks because my dad just now starts caring about me so i feel like hes just trying to prove that me and my brothers love him more

[JorJackie]

like I told ihaveatwin09, maybe he's always cared, but was just too busy fighting with your mom, which left him exhausted emotionally, and he couldn't give any more of himself becuse it had all been sucked away from all the chaos and confusion! maybe he always felt guilty about it and is now trying to make up for lost time!

[godsbmxer]

yea i know how you feel right now my parents are in the middle of a divorce... i guess its better though becuase they wouldnt hide there fighting and im gonna like the peace and quiet but im going to miss being together

[TILLEYJS]

To the person that made this video. Take this as an important lesson, you don't matter. The second you realize that, you will be free from this cruel world. You can be replaced by your parents, job, boy/girlfriend, friends, and country. Realize you are not special and enjoy the imperfections of life. You get one go at this life.

[drenadreamseeker]

I realised that, the day i was born.

[JorJackie]

That's not true, EVERYBODY is important and irreplaceable, the mistakes the grownups in your life made, are no reflection of who you are, though they affect you very much, It was wrong of your parents to make you feel unimportant, and responsible for the chaos, (not their fault, but wrong) they could'nt see at the time what a huge impact it was having on you, and if they did, they probably couldn't stop it anyway, it's hard to see past your pain, into someone else's (even your own child's)

[AfreeQueen]

Tilley, this comment is 5 months in the making so read very carefully, okay? Do you THINK that it was smart to tell a child of divorce that they are hated by their parents? That they don't matter? Are you serious? I am an adult and my husband and I are going through the pain of seeing our daughters go through our divorce. IT IS GUT WRENCHING!!! The one thing I'd like for drenadreamseeker to see is that what they were going through was NOT your fault. Some parents fall out of love

[AfreeQueen]

with each other...NOT WITH THEIR CHILDREN. Would you rather be in a home where both of your parents hate each other but then send you out into the world with a skewed view of what a relationship is supposed to look like, or would you rather that they become happier apart so that it could teach you how to be happy with them apart?

[SoCiAlHoLicS]

@TILLEYJS this isnt true and i hope the person who made this didnt listen to you bc this is straight up wrong.

[kookylover321]

hey thax so much i know what you are going throw my parents are getting a devorice i know i also cry myself to sleep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[a5poundsack]

u think u have it bad. my parents would hit me, and my dad raped me 3 times when my mom went out at night, cas she was a prostitute ill never be the same so dont try talking saying that u have it bad cas i went through hell!

[yourrbadkarma]

I NO HOW YUU ALL FEEL

[Crazy4Candy03]

thx this really is touching

[twizzlersandcameras]

I'd rather my parents be divorced then together they were a bad match they fought a lot.

[23azriel]

To "drenadreamseeker"

I wish I could take away your grief/pain, yet I have to commend you for telling it straight.

I heard too many self centered, idiot adults tell themselves "kids are resilent -they get over it" I know too many adults who were children of divorced parents 30 years later still speak vividly of acute pain /grief.

No wonder GOD hates divorce. Because of its evil hurt on children.

This video should be required viewing BEFORE marriage or in divorce court.

[freddysuzan]

I recognize these feelings. My parents divorced one year ago after 41 years of marriage. I'm a grown-up woman and have my own family. My childhood was full of fights between my mum and dad. I will never put my kids through that, because I myself still feel the hurt and pain of my parents bad relationship. It makes me feel the frightened little girl I always was...

[daredeviljoe127]

my parents are at the court right now im sitting here crying im so mad this is happening pray for me please

[slaphappyizme]

my parents r gettin divorced to it rly sux i kno how ya feel

[FALL3NSK8R1245]

my parents might get together again

[mecrazy123]

.this made me cry like tears are falling ou tof my eyes..no this video isnt heart breaking but just the song made me cry why ?

causemy parents were talking and and sayig they were gonna have a dvorceblbalbabl and ..i don want them to and it makes me cry even mre...im gonnna talk to my bff now...sorry for bothering u. good vid

[Crosscountry618]

my parents got divorced b4 i was even born and i hate it!

[andrewDBX]

nice vid, my parents just divorced 30 min ago so im not sure what to do

[Freaky621]

Indeed m8 it sure does, but still u have to realice that they wont care about u that much during the time they fight at least my parents didnt care about me the time they fighted... it was hell ! but keep it up m8 it wil change sooner or later..

[dothemacarana08]

it sure does keep ur head up things will get better