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  • this song touched my heart

  • this song should touch every heart of every Dad , that has a daughter,,I have three daughters,,and i can say right now,,if someone raped one of my daughter,,I'll kill them if I can,,good song Kenny! and thanks John for your support!

  • its also about rape

  • <3

  • CEDAW

    Maputo Protocol

    Inter-American Convention on the Prevention, Punishment and Eradication of Violence against Women

  • Weather beaten or raped... same body, same psyche, same scars... Still very hard to heal from... this song brings tears to my heart as I have suffered from both... May all women (and men) have the strength to stop the cycle of abuse and raping in the world... Neither one is acceptable... Blessings...

  • I hold back tears every time I hear this. The lyrics speak exactly what I've gone through. God bless all women who've gone through this <3

  • It has always stirred somthing in me, that makes me count my blessings.

  • Always loved this song

  • to all you guys who are arguing, dude they are talking about girls who got raped and what they have to go thru and if you want to keep doing the ting your doing then you will not got to heaven with our creator, instead you will go to hell with lucifer

  • Joshua 1:9

    Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go

  • I want to thank Big and Rich for this song. This song holds special meaning to me.

  • Actually people i think she was raped, not beat, raping is more serious, beating doesnt leave such a mental strain.

  • @XzHeartszX I am so sorry to hear that. They played this at my dad's fiance's funeral. Hope your doing ok.

  • this song is good when i hear i think of me n my dad because we used to have so much fun but now wer in a big fight

  • Wow this gave me goose bumps. What a powerful song.

  • Wow this gave me goosebumps. What a powerful song.

  • They played this song at my Mom's funeral i love it

  • I personally love this song. Though, everyone is saying that it's about abuse, it seems more to be about someone getting raped to me "Someone ran away with her innocence" for example.

  • @SetItOnFire1992 rape is a form of abuse its all about control and the power they can have over you. when they control you they run a way with their innocence.

  • This is such a powerful song, even when I hated to listen to Country Music back when I lived in Mississippi I still loved this song. I am almost 19 now and this song makes me cry ever single time. God bless everyone and I hope that you have a great day.

  • This song is right from my heart to the Father, Son, & Holy ghost!!!

  • abuse is the kind of thing that you never get over.unless you have been through it you really will not understand .no matter how hard you try.

  • "love everybody"

    nuff' said

  • @christy01able get a restraining order AND DONT TAKE HIM BACK NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS- also change your name and if possible move out of state. get a new cell phone number- i will pray, hopefully he gets shanked in jail!

  • @poolplayers21 Trust me i have done all the above.Just keep me in your prayers.I am going to get on with my life.I am going to try any way.Thank you

  • I just moved back home after my husband beat the hell out of me in mississippi.Yeah i put him in jail but he wont stay there forever. Please pray for me!!!!!

  • the emotional abuse from my father has plagued me since childhood. Appearently I wasn't perfect enough for him seeing as he still won't accept me as I am being that I have to live with High functioning autism. Because of the lack of acceptance, I have been sterilized, he has (twice) threatened to place me in a group home or take away my rights and independence by petitioning for legal guardianship (thank god nothing has happened yet tho and nothing will)

  • Luv this song

  • I love this video, have since it first come out.

  • I beat men who beat women, help me out

  • i love this song i start to cry every time i hear it.

  • Country music stinks

  • @Bigalwannabe then dont listen to it

  • @Bigalwannabe no it dont

  • great song

  • I cried watching this so much

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  • I first got sexually harassed when I was 12, then again by a different guy when I was 15, and then after 4 years I thought I'd found a nice guy, but he turned out to run away with my innocence, he would throw things at me, hit me, and on our first date after he had his way with me, he cut my hair and held a blade to my head telling me I better trust and love him or else. And at 23, I've decided Im perfectly fine being single.

  • @DanniElizabethS im really sorry to hear that has happend to you, its a real tragedy that there are men like that out there, im a guy but my mother and father always raised me to respect my elders and especially respect women, I am truly sorry that you and any other women have had to go through that, im sure your a strong person <3

  • @DanniElizabethS after reading that i would certainly say so im sorry for whats happened to u =/ im the same way

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  • Dear guys, I would like to inform you, that if you make one of my friends cry.

    I will be making you cry just as hard.

  • My wife was raped when she was a little girl and this song makes her feel better everyday and give her the strength that she needs to be with me now and forever. I love this song just as much as her. Thank you Big N Rich for writing this song.

  • i believe everything and everyone deserves love not just an man everyone. women dont deserve abuse both physical and mental. simple. love

  • this song is like the story of my life. Guys, p;ease think twice before you do ANYTHING to a woman. You may forget, but she never will.

  • Love this song! very moving

  • My mom was raped two years ago. She was beat with metal poles on her legs. Punched in the face. Black eyes, bruises all down her body. I dedicate this song to her. I thank God everyday that she's still alive. She's so lucky when some people aren't. <3

  • thats really nice

  • this song gives me chills all down my spine and my hairs stand everywhere, duckie bumps too....puts tears in my eyes everytime I hear it or watch the awesome video, depicts my life to the tee....

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  • FUCK THE GODDAMN ADS!!! FUCK U FUCK U FUCK U FUCK U FUCK U FUCK U FUCK U7

  • @volcomshredder13 If you use firefox web browser you can eliminate all the ad's with a add on called ghostery. Greatest tool since the computer was invented........=)

  • this song truly made me appreciate what i have. i was feeling bad for myself a few days ago but now i know that i was wrong to feel so bad when there are people out there in such worse situations than mine. the song is truly inspiring

  • I tear up everytime i hear this song. Every word is me all over! I can't beleive sometime that there is a song that speaks and says every word i feel constantly. This song has actually has helped me feel better on occasion. I love this song.

  • this song makes me think of my childhood.....the good and not so good parts of it....but it made me who i am today....and excelent person <3

  • my dad beat my mom and i have hurt a couple of my fiends for doing the same.NOT ACCEPTABLE!

  • @kmarin2881 So you're saying you beat your friends? hahahahahaha

  • hold me like holly water

  • @GoSkateHefty Holy, not holly. Big difference.

  • <3 love this song

  • I would hate for this to happen to anyone but it does so im gonna fight against it i treatmy GF right and not hurt her in any way shape or form i trust her completely i would hate for ANYONE to hurt her.

  • This song has alot of meaning to me. I was molested at the age of 6 and everyman i chose wasn't a good choice for me, but now i have the love of a real, true man, who treats me like an equal. I have never been happier, and treated like a true woman. I hate to hear of women who have been abused one way or the other, and i pray that one day this will all end. We all should love each other, not hurt each other.

  • I may not have a religion, i may not be a republican, but goddamn country music is beautiful in it's reasoning of dealing with heartache, death, and political stand points.

  • "Everything would shine wherever she would go

    But lookin' at her now you'd never tell."

  • 19 people are men abusing their women

  • Oh and BTW my mother raised me to respect women. There have been times When I have been mad as hell at my girlfriend, but never would I dream of violently laying a hand on her. What I normally do is grab her and hug on her till we both calm down and discuss it like rational people. Violence should be saved for the movies, treating anyone like they are less than you or like property is just wrong and those people who act like that need to grow the hell up.

  • I have seen the aftermath of abuse, I once met the family of a woman whose husband beat her so badly, she is unable to move or speak. I met another woman who is currently incarcerated, because her boyfriend who (after she left him), broke into her father's house where she was staying and she shot him. He beat her every day, yet she goes to jail for attempted murder? We need stronger laws to deal with any violent crime.

  • This is one of my fav. songs EVER grew up listening to it it allwayas makes me cry.

  • This song hits home for me, from age 5 through age 13, I was a victim of rape. I still feel it was my fault. Thanks for making such a wonderful video.

  • God Bless you all. Tears again.

  • have been thru all types of abuse, thanks guys for making a wonderful song like this it makes me feel better each and every time I listen to it

  • @MrsLoveBug1996 uhhh, guys can be abused by girls too =/

  • Thank you for this video..I got raped and beat by two brothers when my car broke down....not good...

  • What a beautiful song.

  • I have been sexually, physically, & emotionally abused to no end. It breaks your heart, life, & soul. It's almost like murder... someone has taken your innocence & life.

  • @theshermfam6 yes it is...took me 12 years to break away from the man who thought i was his personal punching bag......has taken me the past 4 years to come to realize that it was NOT my fault!!! smile and enjoy life again.....not easy but soooo worth it!! you are in my thoughts!!

  • @MrsLoveBug1996 i don't understand why guys beat girls. i'm a guy, but i would cut off my arm before i hit a girl. i'm so sorry about what happened to and other girls. just know that not all guys are like that.

  • with all due respect, there are early signs for guys that will beat women, being a guy myself i would never EVER hit a woman, unless they hit me, there is a difference, however you do not need to go to the extent of leaving someone left for dead because they hit you, or disagreed with you. but if you go through one minor beating....it only gets worse from there, i know too many of my lady friends that do that and put themselves in that situation, some guys shouldn't be alowed to walk this earth

  • ther r 19 assholes that think its ok to abuse people guss what its not ok iv been throu this hell and guss wat is bad but we will get thue it

  • I love Big & Rich and this has always been my favorite song by them. I am going to see them September 11th on their Xtreme Muzik Tour. It's been awhile since i have seen their live show and i hope that this song is still a part of it.

  • @MrsLoveBug1996 You should be proud of yourself, so many woman can't break that cycle. It takes a lot of strength to make that move. I worked in a big city ER and seen so much of it and it was always the same ones. This song is the essence of that escape for your life.

  • I agree, abuse sucks. Keep in mind it goes both ways, my brother in law got hit in the face with a shovel by his wife, though he never laid a finger on her. On the same token, anyone who stays to take the abuse, needs as much help as the abuser. I know what love is, and even if you love someone, if they beat you, your better off without them...

  • well the ones who dislike it must do it soooooo you do the math

  • My Fiance decided to go, July 5 '11, & drink( drug?) and come home to take his agressions out on me- my head & neck( that was broken in a car accident in '04).. He caused me some serious pain & an MRI showed that the little bump by my temple was actually because it had been fractured there.. He was arrested and due to family crisis I'm not able to be in court, and courts have not let me know of postponement- Yet I LOVE him & I am planning on going back, because he is going to get help..

  • @TheJellyfishlion Your a fool...don't do it!!

  • @ronnelson82 I know u mean well.. so I am not going to take offense to the "fool" part..lol. Thank u for taking the time to respond & care enough to do so. The courts Did Postpone the date & I will b there for it, He &I need to talk but I think that, with counseling & meds, he can get over his anger & his 2 addictions( even if he IS 55, I am 33) But if he won't talk to me & agree to go see some1 before I come back & then it is not worth it, if he can't work on his addictions then I wont b there!

  • @TheJellyfishlion I apologize for the 'fool' comment. I do mean well. I am 59 and in 1970 -76 I worked in the E.R. at a hospital in Kansas City that was the public hospital and we were the county morgue as well. We got the worst of the worst. I have seen so much brutal ugly violence committed against men, women and children. Many died as we tried to save their lives and failed and many D.O.A. I won't describe what I seen but it is true real life horror.

  • Fuck all people that take advantage of people or abuse them.

  • i agree with you thisolcowboy21 where i come from well all give you a whooping of a life time and skippy just for the record men a differant how many times do you hear of a man being raped never or rarly but the emontional impact that it has on a female is a lot and can ruin there whole life think about that!! and ladies just keep taking each day forward stay strong and god bless you all and for all the worthless men out there who think you can do this keep looking over your shoulder im comming!

  • @mudhog18x Actually a lot of men are raped it's just the fact that there is no or little evidence to prove it...

  • @mudhog18x Skippy was right. I did a report for school. 2/5 victims of domestic abuse are men. AND almost out of every single case the man was sent to the hospital. When women abuse men most of them compensate for there size with a weapon and it becomes even more ugly. All race, age and genders may be subject to abuse. Also, i believe rape should be a hanging offense

  • personaly if i was to ever see a man lay a hand on a women in anger i would kill him cuz im from texas and down in texas you dont do that shit who can relate to that?

  • Women aren't the only one who can be a victim of abuse. Men can as well. Society has bestowed a view of men that they are cold, hard, and emotionless. And somehow, people got it in their heads that they can't be abused by a woman.

  • thank you guys, a perfect anthem for those whose voice isnt always heard.

  • to all the women and girls who got this i just want you to know i am out there everyday getting them god bless you all

  • abuse might not seem to be real to some people but it is there. some people feel the effects from brith and might have it for most of their livies just because its all they know. they might not even know its happening to them.

  • How Do You Get Holy Water?

    You Boil The Hell Out Of It.

    thumps up if you smiled! :D

  • I Hope someday I am loved as she is

  • Be very careful when you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. The woman came from a mans ribs. Not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head for him to be superior, but from his side, under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved and cherished! Ladies, pass the word if you agree!!!

  • @Terry1111ify women are just as treacherous as everyone else. p.s. I want my rib back.

  • @visualbasicide You are correct, sadly abuse happens to both genders but I had found this little gem and decided to put it up on this song because it dealt with females. My heart goes out to ALL abuse victims.

    PS I AM NOT THE AUTHOR.

  • @Terry1111ify you know whts funny? WOMENS RIGHTS!

  • @Terry1111ify well put. as a guy, my parents taught me that treating a girl wrong is one of the lowest things you can do, second to mistreating a child. my ex-friend beat my girlfriend, and i didn't have the balls to do anything at the time. that is my biggest regret in life. if i could go back in time, he would have a concussion.

  • @Terry1111ify i will add a tear even God doesnt count mine. Beautiful comment. If it's not original, it's still beautiful! If it is original, then you were inspired. i'm not a female, but still have been affected.

  • @treestump6969 God does count your tears. Stay strong.

  • @Terry1111ify he hasnt counted mine if he had he wouldve helped me a long time ago which tells me he either doesnt exist or does and really doesnt like me

  • @boggyman168 - It can take a really long time. Don't give up. God helps those who help themselves.

  • @Terry1111ify Wow....amazingly put......again...wow :)

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  • @warriorzin she/he never said that men aren't abused, plus she wasn't "bitching" about it just saying a very sweet comment about (i assume) domestic/hate abuse against women lastly you a are mean about saying she has downs syndrome because a)you can't just assume someone you don't know has a mental illness because they say something (aka don't judge a book by its cover) b)would you tell a inoccent little kid or someone with a young mind that

    any way i love this song =D

  • @tfabumblebeeforever No but I'm tired of all the girl power bullshit, like they feel that they're looked down upon.

    I obviously wasn't serious about the downs syndrome part, I'm just an extreme asshole but I'm at least a logical and honest asshole. Wannhhhh cry about it

  • @warriorzin hey, y don't u just deal with the fact that u can't get any somewhere other than the internet, k? cuz im sick of hearing about it. u don't like the song, or what someone says, fine, u don't have 2 read it. u wanna be a jerk, fine, u can deal with a boot up urs as the next girl ur with kicks u 2 the curb.

  • @iwillkilluslowly Way to make the most illiterate argument in existence. Go to school please and learn how to fucking spell, oh my fucking God. Judging by your text, you're either somebody who lives in the ghetto, a trailer park, or has a bad case of stupid-as-fuck-syndrome.

    YOU ARE THE REASON WHY WHATEVER GROUP OF PEOPLE YOU BELONG TO IS LOOKED DOWN UPON.

    Know why? Cause you're fucking unintelligent. If you are intelligent in any way, please prove it to me without sounding like a ghetto shit.

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  • @iwillkilluslowly You just tried to say something offensive to an unmatchable troll. Nobody is as good at being an asshole as I am, but I realize this at least. My criticism doesn't only fall upon my victims though, remember that.

    You just made a shit ton of assumptions, nothing based on hard fact.

    So in turn, I'm going to do the same.

    You're a single mom, dropped out of high school, unemployed and living with your mom, and have an abusive father. I'm sure one of those is correct.

  • @warriorzin HEY shut the fuck up.

  • @pleasestop1000 I'll shut up once you quit deep throating your grandpa's shit.

    <3

  • @warriorzin Now its my turn, your a pathetic excuse of a human being, all the comments I see from you are talking trash about some innocent person that didnt do anything to you, they make one comment telling you to shut up and you take that as a challenge and need to try and hurt somebody with words, your worthless for getting online in the morning and trying to make people feel bad about them selves, you dont know them, looks like you come on here because your abused and take it out on people.

  • @YamahaRiderz2u Except for the part with the illiterate person trying to tell me who I am or what my experiences in life are.

    I made a logical, non offensive remark and some dumbass who can't even spell correctly tried telling me all about my life, so in turn I did the same back to him/her.

    If you really want to look like a butthurt hick, then by all means continue telling me who the fuck I am from your perspective while I haven't exposed myself to be deducible to your ragefest.

    Understand?

  • @warriorzin See there you go again, you are always using the illiterate term, nobody was being mean to you, your first comment was to Terry1111ify2, your first line "You must have a bad case of downs syndrome" thats messed up, your the first one to disrespect somebody on here, and they just tried to tell you to shut up, and you didnt like it, im not the one having a ragefest, look at all your rude comments to everybody, you're the one talking all the shit. Your pathetic, get life.

  • @YamahaRiderz2u I don't think you understand what the word deducible means, silly little girl.

  • @warriorzin What I don't understand, is the concept of getting into arguements on youtube? It's a video, about people being abused.. What's the point of calling people out on things that dont pertain to your personal life. If you, and everyone else your bickering with can only get your jollys off by criticizing people over youtube.. then OBVIOUSLY, you are messed up.

  • @warriorzin Hey tranny yes i'm talking to you, just keeping tabs alway's know My Dick is in you're house and my Ball's are on you're front yard. HAHAHAHAhaaaaaaaaaa.

  • @warriorzin if they were hicks they wouldnt care bout that poor inocent women.

  • @warriorzin Wasn't bitching, just thought it was a beautiful message and since this video pertained to a abused woman I chose to put it up here. I know of one man who was abused and have read of many more which is a tragedy as well. Sorry you felt the need to call names over something that was so sweet for an ugly situation.

  • @Terry1111ify

    Nicely written, hope you don't mind that I've copied it to share. Great reminder for us men on how we should treat our wives.

  • this song could mean alot. everyone has a different point of view. this could mean something different from the person sitting rite next to u. it just all depends wat u went thru and how u feel about it <3

  • If you've ever been abused like what they're describing this song really makes you feel understood..

  • hey this sierra my dad says that is my baby song and it makes me cry when i lintest to it

  • The song was written about domestic abuse because Big and Rich's sisters had both been victims of it.

  • I could be about Rape, Abuse or how one has has strayed from God and family....it hits home with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • it is about abuse in every form and really i know a few that this song fits to the very word

  • this song is very beautiful. i am glad that i found it

  • the love song i about a lady in pain, looking to regain her strenngth. she just wants to be an angel again:)

  • I love their harmony.....orgazmatic bliss. I hope to hear more in the near future

  • 17 people dislike this?! thats bullshit!

  • U nvr kno ne ones story untill u get to kno em and when u find out u want to go find the person who messed with em people shouldnt be walkn the streets tht abuse others thts all i gotta say

  • The song is for their sister who went through domestic violence...sheesh. Wiki is your friend people. If you don't know something, freaking google it.

  • @SumWingTong haha.true

    

  • i love this song

  • @Lex1love - there are more than one type of innocence that can be ripped from you. Even if this song is about rape, those who have had their lives shattered and innocence lost in other ways can find strength in this song. It's a song for anyone who has been abused, broken, crushed, shattered, neglected or abandoned.

  • big and rich thank you for makeing this song i know what it is talking about as i too have lived threw this u gave me stringth to go on with this song to know im not alone

  • I don't get how this isn't about rape.. the line "someone ran away with her innocence, a memory she can't get out of her head" that sounds a lot like rape to me

  • @ShelbieShattered1234 It says Someone Ran Away With Her Innocence... Its about Rape and Abuse

  • I just got out of an abusive relationship. I know exactly what this song is about. I've heard it so many times before, and thought it was beautiful. Now, it touches me in a whole new way, and actually made me cry. Anyone who's been in my shoes knows how this feels.

  • How about playing FB games, Empires and Allies, with my son and this song just popped in my head. He asked for some water. Weird.

  • @odiekansas lolololol

    

  • I know what this song is about, yes it is about abuse and thats why the say someone has run away with her innocence if it was about finding love different words would be used cause when you are abused your innocence is gone Ive been abuse I know

  • I think this song can mean many different things. I think it's just a matter of perception.

  • It can be taken in many way's , they never really say in the song which form of hell his sister went through. It's a great song :)

  • This song is about Big Kenny's sister. She was in a very abusive relationship. Beaten, Raped etc. So They wrote this song not only for her, but for many other women who have been in her position.

  • sixteen people stole halos take me away and take me farther!!!!HOLD ME LIKE HOLY WATER!

  • thumbs up for this great song

  • i love this song =)

  • absolutely beautiful song!!!! love it!

  • watching this video and listening to this song always makes me tear up, because i know someone who went through this. god bless her heart<3

  • i dont believe in god and this song still makes me tear up. very touching song and video to go with it.

  • Pain takes us the strange places and leaves us stranded.

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  • I love how the advert. plays perfect but the video wont play lol.....effin youtube

  • that is a good song

    ps:GOD knows what you are goin through so why not turn to him for love and help

  • My face is wet with tears now.

  • i feel so much joy with every drop of holy water from this video that cleanes those that have been hurt.. god bless you all

  • this song is about women who were victim to domestic violence..

  • im a man and this song makes me cry im going to play it for my girl and hop she takes the hint tht im here for her