Dating Tips For Shy Guys - What Really Stops You From Attracting Women

[victorjr09]

sometimes i feel a little ugly which sometimes i ask my friends(girls) how do i look they say cute. Which i relize i held back from girls bc a past experience.Starting tomorow im going to talk to this girl i sometimes look at and she looks at me i dont what that measn but im going to talk to her.Any suggestions im really nervous but im going to suck it up and do it. The thing is shes always with her friends how do i talk to her or gt her away. (i dont know her, but i want to:) )so please help ty

[Bloodwrath9650]

What uf im not shy? Im a serious guy

[henry51563]

to be honest who likes loosing -nobody

[johnmas25]

Great video job well done!!!

[Kingstevedaboss]

llol you didn't even have a computer lol, but it's funny because i just started to typing properly myself lol. coincidentally I ran into this vid. typing course too funny.

[zdb669hwjrfan88]

I'm happy you give free advice that works for free you are building my confidence to approach a girl I appreciate it thank you.

[sk8emerica248]

My only problem is I cant talk to girls who I dont know or if I think they are too pretty. Any advice?

[Deadpool534]

I used to be afraid of talking to girls in general but then I got a friend who's a girl. I've been getting a lot more comfortable around average or less good looking girls. However, I still freeze up around hot girls. I would say I'm making progress though

[alexandersunivers91]

@Deadpool534 man chill out we are all equal and you are telling yourself that they are hot and your a nerd ...of course you will freak out , try to be yourself and try to look the best you can be dont buy expensive stuff ....just look decent and weel cared u will get a boost of self esteem

[XxGothGiirlxX]

But what if you like shy people? lol

[YouPromisedHer]

Great metaphorical story about typing to relate this with taking the first steps to change. Your advice is really helpful and you're very warm and caring toward us random viewers. You'd make an awesome speaker. I'm actually not a shy guy at all, but I have a friend who is and he's been asking for help, but I've told him everything I feel I could. I'll be showing him this video. I'm hoping this will snap him out of his, "ZOMG I'M SO AFRAID OF GIRLS- I'LL BE SINGLE FOREVER" behavior.

[1234JSteffen]

your are brilliant. You make so much sense and i can relate to everything your saying. Thanks alot

[BloggerJulian]

check my channell out for advice lots

[aslkfja]

I couldn't help noticing, but are you wearing your pyama's by the way?

[vpierre19]

this video was made for me



[MichaelMoon1000]

I always learn something new watching your videos. Thanks for the help.

[1986Lonelyguy]

i will never ever in a billon years have a girlfriend, i no longer hope for it, dream of it, find it, desire it, or nothing, its getting to the point were i dont even know what a girlfriend is, the skills and advise cannot be replaced in me, so thats all i have to say, but good videos though i hope they help all the other guys out there

peace out

[1986Lonelyguy]

im 25 and still have not found the right girl, i have accepted the fact that i have a 100% zero chance in getting a girlfriend, a dead guy in his grave has a much much better in getting a girlfriend then i ever will, no girl wants to be with a worthless loser like me. it just that i have NO more hope left, i thought it was not possible to be in a hopeless situation, boy was i wrong, the skill of talking to girls and approaching them is just no longer in me so i just learned how to deal with it

[solarcquence]

@1986Lonelyguy man, I'm 25 too and I don't think like you think. It's not late.

[geishathor]

@IconListening its not about failing to attract women.. its about being shy to approach them.. i m good looking.. and i woo girls wherever i go.. but i fear talking to them.. these videos are for people like us :D

you re just at the wrong place

[azizal]

heheheheheheheheheheheheh why all this hard work just get money and going to fuck bitch you'll be fine and relaxed and enjoy your life

[priyochatterjee1]

@IconListening women don't prefer good looks they prefer an interesting talker. you can be extremely ugly but if you are a smart talker she WILL fall for you.how else do people pick up girls on Facebook.

[TheMostDefinately]

yo i just wanna say that I've got a really big dick and I can suck my own cock so I don't need women

[lawshorizon]

Hey Stephan ... Good Advice! - but the pink shirt has to go.

[Kidrobot169]

i know a girl but we only say hi to eachother in the hall but i wanna get closer but what if she gives me nothing to work with like all her responses dont send cues how could i still continue

[FeelXtreme]

@Kidrobot169 if she doesn't give you any cues then she most probably isn't interested in you ... so just try and talk to her and see how she responds ... if she gives you enough feedback to start a strong conversation then she's interested in you , otherwise she's either dumb or not interested in you ...

[bombwow]

this is so correct, what you said from 1:25 up to 2:45 was so true.. it definatly fits me :x

[stephanerdman]

@bombwow glad it gave you a realisation of sorts. Stephan

[515Diya]

The word you are looking for is self-confidence ...

[jambrandon531]

if you feel you are a corny dude that women dont want can they sense your insecurity even if you are doing your best to hide it

[michetox]

@jambrandon531 you'll never be able to completely hide it unless you become truly secure. it's not that they sense it, if you're insecure it just shows.

[JonJon3794]

Stephan, man need help. I get all the positive signs that the girl likes me, tossing of the hair, smiling, and the eye contact... we talk. But then sometimes she just acts like i don't exist? Confused? (she's potential girl friend material)

[anzac2404]

Spot on dude! Thanks for all the tips, your advice has been a great help; hope 2011 is good to you to, cheers.

[Apophlc]

stephanerdman i think this girl that likes me i catch her looking at me from time to time i haven't talk to her yet but judging by how she turns a lot of guys down she seems like shes plays "hard to get" how can you get a girl who plays "hard to get"?

[mfgunit]

You are German but you sound British... weird

[MindLagP]

@mfgunit he is german??? o_O

[joeyluvshouse]

@mfgunit he is german but lives in london..when you live some places for a long time you pick up the accent!!

[bombwow]

@stephanerdman have you got any tips on how a shy guy can get to know a shy girl without making her umconfortable when approaching? :s

[stephanerdman]

@bombwow check out my Approach At Will book or any of my "approaching women" videos on youtube. Stephan /;-)

[Blad771]

I can say this is very true.... not only about attracting woman but also about success in other segments of the life too!

Very very helpful for me, thank you Stephan!

[stephanerdman]

@Blad771 thanks, good to hear! S.

[MrRulleKebab]

man.. I think this is me.. HELP:( ( I'm 15)

[LLOYD19851012]

I can get loads of girls, the only problem is that we become friends to quick. they say i just want to be friends, or i dont want to mess up our friendship. In my head im going (FUCK IT)

[Lvieru96]

@LLOYD19851012

You know why girls say "i wana be just friends" ? Because you acted like one.It's true my friend.You act like a friend,confort,help them out with problems etc.You ask her out in time and dont act exactly like a friend,but rather flirt all the time,you got it.Man seriously i know what im talking about,i did the same thing you did,it pissed me off,i decided to listen to their problems and flirt,not help with problems and other crap.

[JonJon3794]

@LLOYD19851012 I know the feeling.. and its only recently I've just started being flirty and teasing... guess what? IT WORKS!!!!!!! Girls totally like that. But then i always get to the point where its "THE" convo where it's like ... where's this heading.

[climbingtothetop]

Like a wise person I knew once said, "Whether you believe you can, or you believe you can't, you're right."

[JdMetal]

Can u improve the sound for your next vidz plzz? i find that your vidz very useful thx :)