I have a Question, Is your BF still in the Army? If so what would happen if the army moved him to another military base in another state? Would you go and move with him or stay home? The reason why I was asking B/c I was in a relationship with a woman that was in the military and when she left that was the end of our relationship. (This was in HS btw, 4me)
Does it apply to girls as to guys? cause most of what ur saying is like what my girlfriend has been doing to me, she use to smile alot and play with me. but all of a sudden she seemed so cold, does this mean she lost interest in me???
@twinkie8892 Yes! Iused myself as an example of me treating my ex badly when I wanted out. But your gf may be going through some issues, I would give her some space.
totally agree about men wanting women to break up with them. seriously, if men break up with women, they have to deal with a wave of emotions from the woman. if a woman breaks up whit the man, then the man can just leave. it's a way cleaner break up.
@nkki23tx eehh..i dunno. People grow up at different times in their life. Most women and men know that once a person cheats the relationship is over so in new relationships they learn from their past mistakes and have better judgment.
@nkki23tx If you're talking about men in general I don't know of alot of men who haven't cheated in the past, like h.s relationships for example. As they grow they either keep cheating or learn from their mistakes. My ex bf cheated on me long ago and as of today he hasn't cheat on his wife, they've been together over 5 years. He's found his soulmate, so you never know.
@SportsMusicGirl11 yes. he's deployed right now but this was a video i made for a contest. It's based off of my own experience dating in my early twenties.
If you love someone for any reason that in involves that someone you love then you were never in love. Loving someone is a personal choice that involves no outside influence from the recipient of that love. Only by doing this can you demonstrate real love. Once you love someone by choice nothing they do can faze you. And once this love is established you make your existence depend on it. Only when 2 people do this can there be true love bitch.
Some of this same advice can be applied to knowing when a friendship is over. When I had a "friend" that I no longer cared to be around, I would find myself jut getting annoyed with everything that person did, where at another time, I would have just shrugged off that same behavior. But when you really don't want to be around that person anymore, everything they do just grates on your last nerve. Good advice. I am currently in a relationship that I'm not happy with, and this all applies.
Ha! Each and everything you said is TRUE! Everyone must be the same lmao. Putting my pride aside for a moment, my first bf did all these thgs to me (effin jerk). Almost a yr later, after I refused to have any type of contact w/him he calls me to tell me about his life (like I actually gave a *&%$). Anyway, he has a girlfriend that he is absolutely miserable with. Good for him, justice is served! HA! My question is, why does an ex call you months or years later to give you an update?
@TheMsAshleyS usually to find out what you've been doing? who you've been doing as well..lol.. my ex did the same and when I told him i moved on he drove down to see me unexpectedly. He wanted me back badly but if you've moved on, you've moved on for good. There's no feelings anymore towards him. In my case, he is married and still thought about me. It wasn't worth my time, I told him how I was doing and never spoke to him again no matter how often he called afterwards.
@amabelscorner Wow you're so right he def did ask me if I have a bf or dated anyone since him. I surely told him that I have been dating and having a fun time doing so. I also said I'm not interested in a serious relationship b/c I need a serious break after him lol. He is very immature, he does little thgs here and there to try and get under my skin. I just say good riddens b/c my life has been exceptional since he's been gone (not even saying that out of spite lol).
@TheMsAshleyS ya so crazy/funny when they call to just get a cup of coffee and "talk" I call this the ex check up. My ex did me dirty and not only cheated on me but cheated on me with his bestfriends girl. Ya and he wanted to be friends with me after and I'm just like get away please!!
wht do u do if your now ex said he loved u and the next day he broke up with u because he heard lies syaing shit that was true and didnt even ask me about those lies he just broke u with me? and now treats me really badly and theres still a part of me that still love shim and idk why
Lmao my ex definitely had no problem breaking up w me several times... First relationship n I tried to keep it going and he kept ending it n coming back. It was weird too cause he didn't show most of these signs... Actually he only showed 2... but I guess it's just a general thing. Well no more of that lol 5 years *sigh* well I wish him the best.
@arthuria123 I can relate with you when u said "u woke up one day and didn't want him"..same with me. I finally realized one day that the guy I was with couldn't and didn't offer anything to me, in any way not only financially so I made up any excuse to get mad at him and eventually left him. It's sad but as u grow older you realize what ur looking for and make better choices in suitors.
I have a Question, Is your BF still in the Army? If so what would happen if the army moved him to another military base in another state? Would you go and move with him or stay home? The reason why I was asking B/c I was in a relationship with a woman that was in the military and when she left that was the end of our relationship. (This was in HS btw, 4me)
ABVNRML2U 2 weeks ago
Your young so I won't fault you, but all your doing is making your viewers insecure.
Blashbanderwit 3 weeks ago
Your right on point with this!
HoneyLove210 4 weeks ago
@HoneyLove210 no she's not
Blashbanderwit 3 weeks ago
scary how accurate this is..
onthepeachtree 1 month ago
why cant people just say it straight up?
xxdarkheartsxx 2 months ago
Yeah let me call my bf right now and tell him its over! lol thanks 4 the advice!
BXTALE 2 months ago
Does it apply to girls as to guys? cause most of what ur saying is like what my girlfriend has been doing to me, she use to smile alot and play with me. but all of a sudden she seemed so cold, does this mean she lost interest in me???
twinkie8892 2 months ago
@twinkie8892 Yes! Iused myself as an example of me treating my ex badly when I wanted out. But your gf may be going through some issues, I would give her some space.
amabelscorner 2 months ago
High maintenance!
TABOOVSKNOWLEDGE 2 months ago
i don't care for these type of videos.
acestarone 2 months ago
I see.....
sith369 2 months ago
....Thank You
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arwelle1 3 months ago
THIS THE REALEST S%$T I EVER HEARD....I'M LOVIN IT.
arwelle1 3 months ago
"The road to Hell, is paved with good intentions"
opendtuning 3 months ago
why did you leave your ex....?
1tana3 3 months ago
@1tana3 bc i saw more and more he had no ambition. I am very driven and wanted that trait in a partner. He was also so annoying..lol
amabelscorner 2 months ago
totally agree about men wanting women to break up with them. seriously, if men break up with women, they have to deal with a wave of emotions from the woman. if a woman breaks up whit the man, then the man can just leave. it's a way cleaner break up.
ryaN6T4 4 months ago
hey i seen you and josh downtown in savannah at the festival walking together. and i told my sister hey i know her for YouTube!
cookiecutter4luv 5 months ago
@cookiecutter4luv haha yeah that was us. Next time say hello! :)
amabelscorner 5 months ago
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Pbobo19 6 months ago
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Pbobo19 6 months ago
Something about the title of this video is haunting. I also think you will have to take your own advice) the title one day soon.
SilenceIsPeace 6 months ago
@misshoneyz2dabify neither. lol. but it's funny you say that bc ppl say i do look alittle Asian, it's probably the mexican in me.
amabelscorner 7 months ago
My mom always told me if you get a guy by cheating that it's a matter of time before he will do the same to you.
nkki23tx 7 months ago
@nkki23tx eehh..i dunno. People grow up at different times in their life. Most women and men know that once a person cheats the relationship is over so in new relationships they learn from their past mistakes and have better judgment.
amabelscorner 7 months ago
@amabelscorner OR continue the cycle. You have to take the chance with odds against you already.
nkki23tx 7 months ago
@nkki23tx If you're talking about men in general I don't know of alot of men who haven't cheated in the past, like h.s relationships for example. As they grow they either keep cheating or learn from their mistakes. My ex bf cheated on me long ago and as of today he hasn't cheat on his wife, they've been together over 5 years. He's found his soulmate, so you never know.
amabelscorner 7 months ago
@nkki23tx i don't know what you're implying but no.
amabelscorner 2 months ago
R u and Josh still together?
SportsMusicGirl11 7 months ago
@SportsMusicGirl11 yes. he's deployed right now but this was a video i made for a contest. It's based off of my own experience dating in my early twenties.
amabelscorner 7 months ago
@misshoneyz2dabify ok, thanks for the advice.
amabelscorner 9 months ago
All of you people are retarded. You are all fake.
If you love someone for any reason that in involves that someone you love then you were never in love. Loving someone is a personal choice that involves no outside influence from the recipient of that love. Only by doing this can you demonstrate real love. Once you love someone by choice nothing they do can faze you. And once this love is established you make your existence depend on it. Only when 2 people do this can there be true love bitch.
MindofMichaelMyers 9 months ago
Some of this same advice can be applied to knowing when a friendship is over. When I had a "friend" that I no longer cared to be around, I would find myself jut getting annoyed with everything that person did, where at another time, I would have just shrugged off that same behavior. But when you really don't want to be around that person anymore, everything they do just grates on your last nerve. Good advice. I am currently in a relationship that I'm not happy with, and this all applies.
SuffertheFools 11 months ago
Ha! Each and everything you said is TRUE! Everyone must be the same lmao. Putting my pride aside for a moment, my first bf did all these thgs to me (effin jerk). Almost a yr later, after I refused to have any type of contact w/him he calls me to tell me about his life (like I actually gave a *&%$). Anyway, he has a girlfriend that he is absolutely miserable with. Good for him, justice is served! HA! My question is, why does an ex call you months or years later to give you an update?
TheMsAshleyS 11 months ago
@TheMsAshleyS usually to find out what you've been doing? who you've been doing as well..lol.. my ex did the same and when I told him i moved on he drove down to see me unexpectedly. He wanted me back badly but if you've moved on, you've moved on for good. There's no feelings anymore towards him. In my case, he is married and still thought about me. It wasn't worth my time, I told him how I was doing and never spoke to him again no matter how often he called afterwards.
amabelscorner 11 months ago
@amabelscorner Wow you're so right he def did ask me if I have a bf or dated anyone since him. I surely told him that I have been dating and having a fun time doing so. I also said I'm not interested in a serious relationship b/c I need a serious break after him lol. He is very immature, he does little thgs here and there to try and get under my skin. I just say good riddens b/c my life has been exceptional since he's been gone (not even saying that out of spite lol).
TheMsAshleyS 11 months ago
@TheMsAshleyS ya so crazy/funny when they call to just get a cup of coffee and "talk" I call this the ex check up. My ex did me dirty and not only cheated on me but cheated on me with his bestfriends girl. Ya and he wanted to be friends with me after and I'm just like get away please!!
meikoblock 7 months ago
wht do u do if your now ex said he loved u and the next day he broke up with u because he heard lies syaing shit that was true and didnt even ask me about those lies he just broke u with me? and now treats me really badly and theres still a part of me that still love shim and idk why
67snowball 11 months ago
@67snowball Simple. Leave him alone and don't look back, ur wasting your time.
amabelscorner 7 months ago
@amabelscorner k thanks i did and nows hes dating my best friend it hurts really bad but i moved on
67snowball 7 months ago
Lmao my ex definitely had no problem breaking up w me several times... First relationship n I tried to keep it going and he kept ending it n coming back. It was weird too cause he didn't show most of these signs... Actually he only showed 2... but I guess it's just a general thing. Well no more of that lol 5 years *sigh* well I wish him the best.
teraterakhan 1 year ago
That is so true!!!
naomilyricb1 1 year ago
Word! Your right!
kapgain 1 year ago
thank you so much for making this video! everything you said is so true!
heartoftheocean12 1 year ago
@arthuria123 I can relate with you when u said "u woke up one day and didn't want him"..same with me. I finally realized one day that the guy I was with couldn't and didn't offer anything to me, in any way not only financially so I made up any excuse to get mad at him and eventually left him. It's sad but as u grow older you realize what ur looking for and make better choices in suitors.
amabelscorner 1 year ago
LOL! @ he wants to use u as a free therapist hahaha, that made me LOL. Wich contest is this for?
SKALOLE 1 year ago
@SKALOLE caramel100percent
amabelscorner 1 year ago
@caramel100percent Thanks! I appreciate it :)
amabelscorner 1 year ago
So true! I'm guilty of many of these things. Lol! Keep these videos coming girlie!
topmodelnj 1 year ago
How about when they never call or text you period...lol...they just disappear...lol
chrissyla8706 1 year ago
@chrissyla8706 That's what most guys like to do. Just fade away and not openly break up with u to ur face. If they can do this, they will.
amabelscorner 1 year ago
so true...I love this video...off subj..you are so beautiful! lol
FOXYJ84 1 year ago
lol indeed, i just sent this video toa friend
rainonmebi 1 year ago
First Comment. =]] This helped tons.
Peekaboobabies 1 year ago