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  • THAT GOT-DUNE GIRL IS GREAT!

  • Saying to myself this shit aint fareee

  • The audience was feeling it

  • Fantasia is really great; what a talented performance! She has lots of soul.... this song feels pretty heartfelt. I wish her the best

  • Is the background singer with the braids tied back and standing next to the Big guy a man or a woman???

  • Anyone who Thumbed Down on THIS song is a PURE SICK PSYCHOPATH - PERIOD!

  • Who every dislike this song is song Damn haterz cuz Fantasia can sing

  • THIS SONG IS FOR THE STRONGEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD MY MUM RAISED UP 4 OF US bY HERSELF WORKING A 9-5 JOb

  • @lolsDRRY No offense but I am sure lots of people feel that away about their Mom. And I am no exception.

  • this is that junk fantasia yeah

  • when you can sing a song about baby mamas and take it church.. you know you need to be singing gospel!!

  • 1:23 cracks me up. I wasn't expecting that.

  • congrats on the new baby boy fantasia

  • This is my favorite Fantasia song!

  • Nobody can say she use auto tunes...cause she dnt she sing nature...I wish I can sing nature

  • this is mi song and she is a single mom and do a good job with her daughter zion and this is song that she kan relate tew

  • Screw all her haters! Single moms (with or without support) take the world on their shoulders when they need to raise a child on their own. There is no greater gift than your own children- and when you are a single/divorced/widowed mother- life doesn't "level the playing field" for you. God bless single moms who love and give everything they have to their kids. They give up more than anyone who hasn't walked in their shoes can imagine.

  • @mommarthini AMEN!!!Grl u said that.I LOVE it!!!!!

  • @mommarthini AMEN!!!Grl u said that.I LOVE it!!!!!

  • ellen threw so much shade with the intro!

  • Been there done that; watched my mother perservere, a Master's degree later she's proud of me and I of her. She NEVER gave up and neither did I.

  • Mommydom can happen to any woman. Shame on those passing judgement. They wouldnt be so voistrous if it happened to them or their mothers! Motherdom happens to all races and almost any age. There's no disparity. There are good men, confused men, insane men and men that have all of the above. Either way, it takes two to tango. Moms aren't single out of choice- not this one anyways.

  • White ppl may go through the same thing as a single mother but I dont think white ppl could ever live the lifes we live. We are strong.

  • It's NOT a badge of honor! Stop having all of those babies out of wedlock!

  • It's NOT a badge of honor!

  • Inspirational for all of those single mothers and appreciation for never giving up. Motivation is what women want and we get that here. Great song and performance. I wouldn't mind doing some backgrounds with this awesome artist.

  • Rico use to be big huge

  • thanxs for the LOVE thinking about BABY MAMA's around the world. Thanxs for acknowledging ME. this really touch my heart.

  • She killed it with this song in Barbados!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Can you imagine when her voice REALLY matures it will be like!!! She is the bomb and so REAL!!! Irrespective of what you do.....This one fan that does not judge you x Again.Daquan. NO. UGLY. PEOPLE. ALLOWED!!!

  • TO ALL OF THE STRONG WOMEN OUT THERE STAND UP!!!

  • fanasia song so good and i likle the song baby mama

  • Fantasia she is really talented

  • BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD FANTASIA!!

    

  • How she get ruben studdard to sing back up for her?

  • @quisthe3 thats her brother idiot

    

  • @aerobpu18 Get out your feelings bitch, i know that isnt Studdard..

  • @quisthe3 iight imma bitch but u uh fag thats makes since ok..

  • nice arrangement 

  • rather ur a single mother or not, its still hard!!!... i enjoyed this performance.

  • A CLASSIC song! Love it! This song HAS given me strength!!!

  • A CLASSIC song! Love it!

  • happy mothers day babymamas

  • @1:56 That back-up singer was SO off key! OUCH!

  • @shaundalove1975 .. Nah, I don't have to call you slow.

    I was just explaining how I felt about that particular verse.

    It really doesn't matter if she was referring to single mothers or not, MOTHER'S DAY is MOTHER'S DAY . . . there's not a SINGLE MOTHER'S DAY / MOTHER'S DAY. Either way your a MOTHER & that's all there is to it. But don't take this as me being mean & nasty, I just don't think it made sense. #briana_mercedes

  • @MercedesMelody well you can agree that the song was a shout out to "single moms" which at the time was relevant for myself .....all the verses make sense IF you are or were a" Baby Mama "as they say or single mom, as for Mothers Day its no real relevance in my life, I can always remember hustling as usual ~ its not mean & nasty lol...i appreciate the feedback

  • OmG!!... I LUV this Song!!...

  • Love this song

  • attention fans the time as come to start requesting her new single "collard greens and cornbread" on your local radio station and buy it on itune so we can get her to number one

  • OKAY BLACK WOMEN ARE not the only people with a baby by them sevles and they are not a statistic if they are a baby mam cuz what if their man lefted them during the time they had a baby in the tummy

  • So you telling me NO ONE paid attention when she said "She thinks it should be a Holiday for single mothers trying to make away.. but until then here's the song ( or whatever)" ? That was just pure ignorance! Especially due to the fact that MOTHER'S DAY has been existent since like 1914 ! I like the song, but that part was pure stupidity. Nonetheless, I love you FANTASIA <3 Keep doin' you boo ( Nh*)

  • @MercedesMelody i think the verse and song was referring to "single mothers" ,but call me slow???? and meanwhile back at the ranch....

  • actually "DAQUAN" that's not a REAL statistic you're quoting. do some research and come back w/ something else. if white woman only represent 5% of single mothers, fool, how is it that they represent a larger percentage of women on welfare than black women? don't be a dumb ninja and let white devils tell you what YOUR reality is. try thinking for yourself.

  • Tore Ellen's stage up!

  • AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG­GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG­GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

  • @Daquan88 STOP BEING CHILDISH, while Fantasia is singing her hit u sit lifelessly on the computer being a hater. I LOVE U TASIA EMBRACE THE SINGLE MOTHERS

  • love the song

  • It's like a badge of Honor to be a baby mama....LOVE IT!!!!

  • Love this song! I don't think it matter what race you are this is a song that is for Baby Mama's of any race, and for all you Ignorant people that are so closed minded I think your missing the point of this song!

  • CONGRADS

  • congrats to tasia on her grammy win

  • i felt like i was a church!lol

  • Sang child..

  • It is difficult to define Bela FANTASY, she can give us absolute delight when he sings his songs. I feel very happy to have their music to enjoy and rejoice.

    She can spend an emotion that only a singer able to Whitney Houston. I can believe she has anointed as his voice.

    Fantasia Barrino God bless you always.

  • gal u bettah sanggg!!!

  • guys dont miss fantasia in japan performing at billboard live in tokyo and osaka on jan 24-26

  • thz izz an awesome song but itsz not cute to to bring kids in this world and u cat take care of them thats the worst thing you can do to a child

  • @cherisewhite2008 you never know some one elses situation. Not all mamas are single mothers from the get go. Many have failed relationships then become single mothers.... And where in the song does it say anything about not being able to care for a child. This song is about strong single woman who succeed with little or no help from any one else.

  • This is a great song.

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  • some tupac shit here

  • From the very first time i heard Fantasia,There was some thing in me that said she is truly blesses ,She is a jack of all treads with music .she works the hand she has been given I thank God for him given us Her .i wish one day to meet her .

  • Fantasia is a FANTASTIC singer, and there are plenty of single mothers raising responsible young adults, but plenty of teenage girls and young adult women will take this song the wrong way.....thinking that having several children by several different men is "cute".

  • I GOT <3 FA ALL THE BABYMAMAS..

  • i love this like i'm not baby mama but it is very nice

    

  • It's funny as hell that she is singing that soung to an all white auddence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PS prob 5% of them are single mom's!!!!!!!!!! WTF

  • @DAQUAN88 It's called advertisement man come on use ya head

  • @DAQUAN88 lol... shame.

  • @DAQUAN88 To your racist comment. Its not a black women fault that white women are infertile nor is it their issue that you racist hillbilly kissing cusin white americans are shooting blanks. So stop hating on others when the problem is'nt their blame genetics. I was watching Steve Wilcox show the other day and a 14 year old white girls was stating how she wanted to have a baby before marrige. I dont think its a "Black" issue. Wow that was severly racist!!

  • @DAQUAN88 Oh wow really? Grow the hell up and take off your prejudice goggles. Being a single mother has nothing to do with color.. You have no idea how many of them are single mothers... I am white and a single mother.... Shame on you and any one else who still notices skin color before they notice anything else. Get with the times.. we should be a more considerate and accepting race of human beings by now.

  • @DAQUAN88 you would be suprise so don't you go passing judgements .! Thankyou.!

    Not Only Black women are single mom's.!

    #watchyourself

  • @DAQUAN88 .........Go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am black and have many WHITE friends that are single moms that can relate to this track....She says "this one goes out to ALL my baby mommas....my single mothers tryna make a way" There was no mention of context......Their is no colour issue when it comes to GOOD music.......DAQUAN. NO. UGLY. PEOPLE. ALLOWED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @DAQUAN88 .........Go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am black and have many WHITE friends that are single moms that can relate to this track....She says "this one goes out to ALL my baby mommas....my single mothers tryna make a way" There was no mention of colour......Their is no colour issue when it comes to GOOD music.......DAQUAN. NO. UGLY. PEOPLE. ALLOWED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @DAQUAN88 lol..mean but very true lol

  • @lingimagz lol

  • no thats not the reason women get no respect, your not degrading yourself by being called a baby momma, alot of you women have high expectations in a man, and walk around with bad breath, ponytails, and not doin nothing with your life, get like Fantasia a rich,beautiful, talented baby momma, oh by the way yall hoes stop hating all the time. give props where props are do.

  • @murdamanmhc u are Fucking RIGHT

  • everybody please vote for her new video "im doin me" on vh1 top 20 countdown so we can help her on the countdown so to vote on to (vh1.com:vspot top 20 countdown) so vote hard and remember you can vote more than one time thanks

  • Ellen is so funny that just saying the song's title is funny!

  • i love your soug a lot

  • @chiefs816kc Honey silence is golden, especially when you speak out of ignorance. Just a thought for you..good day #brilliantsong! Sing Fantasia!

  • GET IT TASIA

  • @chiefs816kc & to anyone other haters of what u think a baby mama is.. you speak as if thats what we planned to do.. be baby mamas.. i was married for 11 yrs to a dallas police officer he never cared for his kids not even now child support whats that.. he makes 100,000.00 a yr i get 300 a month for 2 kids and never wants to see them... so unless u been in the shoes of a "baby mama" stop judging oh yeah love your glass house.

  • @anaversary Love it!!! I don't have any children and I have enough common sense to understand what the song means and applaud the single parents who are actually taking care of their families...

  • ILOVE IT' <3

  • everybody please vote for her new hot video on 106&park countdown so text fan to 79922 to vote or go to 106&park website to vote so we can help her on the countdown

  • I'm ballin' cryin! I love it!

  • this is also one of my favorite songs i can listen at her all night long she is one of the best and shes got the holy ghost spirit in her and thats what separates her from all the other artists.

  • this is also one of my favorite songs i can listen at her all night long she is one of the best and shes got the holy ghost spirit in her and thats what separates her from all the other artists.

  • all yall shut up and enjoy this ghetto anthem.

  • all the finger pointing and accusations by the FATHER'S/DONORS cannot negate the FACTS! Baby Mama's make it happen!

  • you will never hear a white girl singing a song called "baby momma" committing an affair with a married man. People have the audacity to continue to support her...

  • @Shay8810 well, there is a video on here of white women singing "Slob On My Knob" as a Christmas Carol, so what is that about? I know plenty of white baby mommas and that's exactly what they call themselves...The song is just about single mothers...

  • @ALThickMadame you can get on youtube and sing or talk about whatever, but as an Entertainment artist I dion't approve to have a song title as that. Its trashy. The White "babymommas" that you know are probably poor and trashy.

  • They could have started off with being married, had a planned pregnancy, and ended up divorced or like Fantasia and the father is not around or shows up whenever he feels like it...I swear, people try to read more into a song than it really is...I don't have kids and I know what the song actually means...

  • @Shay8810 Obviously you haven't heard many songs from any race of people before to say that in such a matter of fact way...What's exactly wrong with her and any single parents taking care of their children? If she can sing, she can sing...You can't take that from her...

  • @Shay8810 oh realllllyyy ( in my best Jim carey voice ) never hear a "white" woman sing a song about an affair with a married man... well 1 im not white... im mixed hispanic / black... yet i listen to country music.. have we heard of "STAY" by Sugarland... its a true story listen to the song.. now I am a baby mama i wear this badge with HONOR... I was married 11 yrs planned 2 children , had the house the cars the dream of growing old with this man... I am educated and have a wonderful career... 

  • @Shay8810 yet my man left me for a woman he met in a chat room, cause he has cheatiing issues - he never wants to see his kids even told the judge they cramp his style.. that they will get in the way of his single life and job a DALLAS POLICE OFFICER.. protect & serve my ass... but honestly i hold no grude his the father w/o him i wont have my babies... but some woman out there dont even have that... its an honor to raise respectful young adults.. i give it to all the woman how stopped ...

  • @Shay8810 living for them selves and living for their kids.. i have worked 3 jobs at one time.. no car.. on the bus from 4am to 11pm daily for years.. i now have a great career.. not everyone has that chance.. i live in a city with no family cuz of what he put in our divorce papers... im i get happy when i hear this song.. its the meaning of the song... just like all artist they want us to FEEL the meaning.. hear what they are saying not listen to it... artist are human not GODS!!

  • i use to love this song back in 04

  • TASIA SONG THE HELL OUT OF THIS SONG, AND FOR ALL YOU HATERS WHO DONT LIKE THIS SONG JUST BECAUSE OF THE TITLE, SAVE THAT DRAMA BECAUSE THE SONG ACTUALY PRAISE STRONG SINGLE MOTHERS, AND IT INCOURAGING THEM TO KEEP THEIR HEADS UP IN TOUGH TIMES SO PLS TELL ME WHATS WRONG WITH THAT, I'LL TELL YOU MsMERISING YOUR TO CUAGHT UP IN APPEARANCE THAN SUBSTANCE, THAT WORD HAS BEEN AROUND FOREVER BUT NOW YOUR AFENDENT BY IT..THE SUBSTANCE IN THIS SONG FOR OUT WAYS THE TITLE..LISSING 2`THE WORDS PLS.

  • attention all fans request her new single "im doing me" on your local radio station so we can help her on the charts so if you want more of fantasia you gonna have to support by requesting hard for this song thanks

  • Say what you want but at the end of the day Baby Mama = A mother with a child.! Some how the title baby mama has become a "ghetto" thing..! So simple minded. Im pretty sure Tasia doesnt go around saying im his baby mama but for her to write a song and explain the situation of a single mother like she did the "baby mama" title shouldve been over looked. And she should be appluad for this work not talked down upon.

  • As i read these comments all i can do is SMH!! Fantasia just made this song for single mothers, woman with children, MOTHERS !! And you have the nerve enough to knock the Title of her song. Theres no other female r&b singer who even thinks about putting out songs like this. Instead of dissing the BabyMama title you should be appluading fantasia for putting light on this situation. Listen to the words of the song & stop being so negative & ignorant.! & thats comin from a 16 yr old point of view

  • I'm a mother, NEVER a 'baby mama'. I am not nor ever was a receptacle for someone's nut. Blegh! This song is so trashy.

  • @MsMerising how is this song trashy? have you listen to the lyrics. like she explains everything and the hardships of being a mother at a young age. before you go around saying this is trashy find me someone else in the music world that even though of singing a song like this. this song is beautiful and you need to stop being so god damn ignorant

  • @kdudelol

    I have issue with the term 'baby mama'. If it was 'Single Mama's' I'd be cool with it, but 'baby mama'? The intent behind this term is pretty much 'Hey, I don't want her but I got her pregnant'. I NEVER hear husbands or boyfriends call their partner's 'baby mama's, only men who didn't love the woman they knocked up. And people want to celebrate being throwaways? Ignorant is celebrating this term IMO.

  • @MsMerising its just a song to give people confidence who the fuck cares about your story if your gonna be a hater.

  • @kdudelol

    FYI I am a single mother of a disabled child maintaining a 4.0 GA at a prestigous University. I appreciate any and all love to me but I am nor ever will be a 'baby mama'. I am an educated MOTHER. Full stop, end of conversation.

  • @MsMerising

    Typo - towards me :)

  • @MsMerising What the hell is wrong with these ignorant set of people, please grow up the song is so beautiful baby mother single mother or babty mama the same thing grow up people

  • @chiefs816kc its only a terrm get over it. whether you want to say mother/wives/baby mamas im sure they go through some of the same struggles have have similar outcomes or just the opposite with any case

  • @chiefs816kc

    Pretty much! But you know how people get - when they cannot handle difference in opinion they begin with the whole 'hater' rant. Note none of my comments deride the person (Fantasia) but the intent behind the concept of 'baby mama' which pretty much stands for a woman who got pregnant by a man who could care less about her, point blank.

  • @MsMerising Exactly. Who wants to have a baby w/ someone who they have no connection with. Being proud to be a "baby mama" is equivalent to African Americans being proud of being 'niggas.'

  • @chiefs816kc

    Bing!

  • @chiefs816kc thats not the point of the song...your smart i think you know that this song is meant for women who are single mothers and support their children and are good mother despite all things and obstacles....come on please

  • @chiefs816kc yeah I agree with you

  • @MsMerising They are both derogatory terms

  • @chiefs816kc sweetie some women have had rough lives and believe they are in love please forgive those of us who aren't at your level. Lolz bitch please we baby mam's got class and do it solo boo.... Lmao laughin at the women that think they better then us cuz they married. Not trashy just talking about life and the way it is. It's cuz God knew we could do it on our own bahaha you gotta be kidding me, and we get respect lol dont get it wrong!

  • @chiefs816kc and like she said you us working our jobs you see us paying our bills you see us going to school

  • @chiefs816kc i have to say you speak as if thats what we planned to do.. be baby mamas.. i was married for 11 yrs to a dallas police officer he never cared for his kids not even now child support whats that.. he makes 100,000.00 a yr i get 300 a month for 2 kids and never wants to see them... so unless u been in the shoes of a "baby mama" stop judging oh yeah love your glass house.

  • @chiefs816kc Honey, silence is GOLDEN...especially when you speak out of ignorance...anywho Sing on Fanny, great song!

  • God bless single mothers who are doing it by themselves, however why do the majority of black women who are unmarried think it is ok or cute to allow yourself to be known as a "BABY MOMA"..that is the most embarrassing, ghetto and uneducated term any woman with child could be known as..If your not the wife, then you should be called THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD, and not a BABY MOMA..women get some damn respect for yourselves and make these men respect you, start thinking outside the HOOD for a change

  • sang girl!

  • Will all of you stop knocking the content of the song and just appreciate and applaud this brilliant performance. Her vocals are flawless. She never strays off key, ever! She finds interesting ways to change up the melody to her songs and she attacks every performance with a level of soulfulness and conviction that most singers could only dream of. And it is about the baby mama's had their own song in my opinion. You tell them, Fantasia!

  • i see ya working hard.. I see ya having unprotected sex... Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your dumb asses some condoms and quit fucking dead beats

    Baby Momma = sluts ????

  • @Doubleshot98 that's very close minded..My mother is a single mom and my father was a great man but things just didn't work out for them. My mother holds down 2 jobs and is in school. She's not a slut she's my hero so you need to open you mind a bit. oh yeah and condoms break...instead of putting them down you should applaud them for not complaining and doing their job as mothers instead of aborting or dumping their kid. I'm not a parent but i would hope i could be as strong as my mother is.

  • @wicca4991 you are right.. but the hip hop generation seems so irresponsible.

    A lot of their problems are self inflected. Quit having kids you cant care for. Nobody forced all these "baby mommas" to have unsafe with "playas". Sorry if you were offended.

  • @Doubleshot98 It's not just hip hop it's everyone. People make mistakes..look at Octomom, Jaime Lynn Spears, tv shows like "The Secret Life of an American Teenager" It's not ONE specific group. There are too many factors for you to say that women don't take care of their kids. They might have been in the best financial sitaution when they decided to have a child and then with the change in economy lost it all. Maybe Men need to step up and claim what's theirs instead or blaming the mom.

  • @Doubleshot98 baby momma= woman who chose not to have an abortion :/

  • @Doubleshot98 ok you need to grow the hell up. how can you even have the nerve to say something like that? i swear people are so damn ignorant. im only assuming that it is the hardest thing to be a young mother. and everyone makes mistakes. or maybe the person was raped. you need to stop judging people if you dont know the facts. its freaking 2010 i would think peoples minds would have opened up by now

  • DAMN Rico was BIG

  • u better sang

  • You are just a baby mama. You hoes will never be wives. I swear for every 1 sensible blk woman there are 100 uneducated loud-mouth ghetto blk women.

    Whats next? Being proud about having nice weaves & nails paid for by your welfare check.

  • i love you fantasia

  • damn Rico was BIG!!!!!!!!!

  • @syhnaii007 damn i was thinking the same thing lol....

  • this is my 15 year old bro's fav song

  • She was blessed with incredible talent...

  • @IBloodSweatTears You are so right!

  • I SO loved this song it was just ignorant people that never understood what she was trying to do

  • girl we can do this , its ok

  • Much love for fantasia

  • i am a single mom i know exactly what she is talking about its hard but i am standing strong

  • she know she killed this

  • don t miss fantasia on 106&park tomorrow,regis and kelly thur,and the wendy show friday

  • this is my favorite performance of this sing

  • What a blessed talent!

  • im not a mom but this reminds me of my mom

  • I LOVE this song!! We da BACKBONE....

  • like this song even though some people might have gotten the wrong idea about this song but i understand what she is trying to say and she is understanding that being a single mom is not easy and hard but you got to keep your head up and stay strong. Fantasia is back and glad she is and still makin good music.

  • fantasia new album title "back to me" in stories new everywhere

  • I forgot about this song.. GO HEAD GURL..

  • I love Tasia!!!!! She sings with feeling and heart. I can really feel what she sings. Keep ur head up Tasia. You've come to far to turn back now. Don't let us down!!!!!

    WE LOVE YOU FANTASIA!!!!!!!

  • @MsAngelicangels i agree wit you on that and she is a talented person and she just needs to stay strong for herself and family and keep making good music for her fans.

  • don t miss fantasia on gma in the morning and behind the music tonight

  • shes gone crazy trying to kill her self in shit why

  • @wblady15 watch fantasia for real from vh1