Though most of you won't believe me, the drummer is my Uncle Mark! Really he is! He 1 out of 5 siblings. My dad is Erik, the middle brother. If you ever met him in person, my uncle I mean, he is awesome! If you see them is concert, if they are continuing I mean, then try saying hi to the drummer! Love you Uncle Mark!!
The first few times I had heard this song I had no idea what they were saying, when I finally figured it out. . .I realized what an amazing band this is!
Such a shame the band fell apart. They were so much better than some many other people, and people like rebecca black got famous for how bad she was? Bullshit
i love the way this song is constructed, the love/hate thing. It feels very bipolar like !!! It is one of the rare tracks i took time to learn the lyrics, i love to sing along
I really like this band. I like this slower version of this song too. Don't know much about them but I love the singers style and the emotion he puts in his performance and voice.
@favio14 I actually love the fact that this didn't turn into a hit. Dear and the Headlights is a band that's way bigger than the hit lists that are around.
@favio14 who says it can't still be a hit, but i see what you guys are saying. POP artists don't even write their own shit, and nowadays they hardly even sing it. it's all about the image for the pop market
Really? like the representation of a major label? I love this band too much to have them be sucked in to a degrading and insulting 360 degree contract deal that any major label would force upon them. then that same label would make them produce an almost double Platinum album before even breaking even on sales. rinse and repeat for 4 maybe 5 entire albums. where they receive 64 cents maximum from each record they sell. please don't ever speak again. This Song IS a hit.
@favio14 Really? like the representation of a major label? I love this band too much to have them be sucked in to a degrading and insulting 360 degree contract deal that any major label would force upon them. then that same label would make them produce an almost double Platinum album before even breaking even on sales. rinse and repeat for 4 maybe 5 entire albums. where they receive 64 cents maximum from each record they sell. please don't ever speak again. This Song IS a hit.
@favio14 Im glad it wasnt :) these guys hold a place in my heart just they way they are:) If You got a chance to read their letter to the fans written by the bassist you would love these guys so much more... They choose lives of modesty instead of becoming bigtime sellout artist.. They were offered a huge contract and turned it down because in his words" We got together just as friends wanting to make music for fun, Money would complicate things and couldnt take a chance of lossing the magic" :)
i have a version of this song that's got more of a punk feel. I think it's better than this version even though it's not recorded as well... i still think this one is good, but i think they should've kept the intensity of the other one- or at least picked up the tempo on this one it's all slow... :(
they just arent over rated like the other physco babel that every other band plays so no one is intellegent enough to listen to or so intrest in something this great and different
FUCKING amazing. Saw them on the 5th. and they were so kick ass. I jumped up on stage before leaving and hugged Ian. I was all giddy when he said hello to me.
seems like the guy is reminiscing about the girl he's feeling and that she has a new boyfriend. the chorus, "i bet he likes you more than he likes me" is just taking a duh statement and turning it into a great lyric.
asciiguy283 I completely agree with you on the underground part. It seems like the music producers today are either completely for rap or really suckish bands (not to point any fingers but... Buckcherry after Crazy Bitch got old). Let some of us actual music listeners in for a day and see what we do to the industry.
I went to see Motion City Soundtrack back in September. Margot and the Nuclear So and So's were supposed to open. Instead, these guys did at last minute. Their set was better than Motion City's. And I love Motion City. These guys are for real. Its a shame we are stuck listening to shit like Lady Gaga on the radio, while real talented artists like this are stuck underground. Maybe some day things will change. Anyway, keep rocking guys. Awesome stuff.
@asciiguy283 People are speculating that the mainstream music industry is gonna crash and be no more within a few months seeing as they are loosing so much to piracy...This will see the birth of artists self releasing music more. Hopefully this will cut out all the mainstream top 40 cycle we are stuck with now, and actually give artists like this band a chance to succeed.
@asciiguy283 You know what's also a shame? When people like underground stuff and say that they 'deserve success' and shit like that and then they get really mad when people start to know about them and get more well known. =/
I wasn't really planning on buying any of this Warped Tour pack for Rock Band because I don't like Thrice or The Devil Wears Prada but this song is awesome.
bummer go campin the week after lol...id rather go to the warped tour then go campin....but thats me...and as i realize im stoned typing into youtube (this is my business why?)
Hey guys check out my band!! We are called Notte Bella!! Look up Notte Bella Don't Look Away. If your interested, we are playing with story of the year and escape the fate on Saturday!!
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JimmyChiffels 2 days ago
if your idea of a good song not being a "hit" is sad, then you've got some weird mainstream issues
waterthegrass 3 weeks ago 8
Oh shut up, you know its every bands dream to become famous.
Besides, he's not saying the song is bad he's saying had they been properly represented the been would have benefited more.
colbysheaclonts 5 days ago
Though most of you won't believe me, the drummer is my Uncle Mark! Really he is! He 1 out of 5 siblings. My dad is Erik, the middle brother. If you ever met him in person, my uncle I mean, he is awesome! If you see them is concert, if they are continuing I mean, then try saying hi to the drummer! Love you Uncle Mark!!
Chrysyn 4 weeks ago
The first few times I had heard this song I had no idea what they were saying, when I finally figured it out. . .I realized what an amazing band this is!
BleedingHeartLove219 1 month ago
I love them so much <3
IVleaveitallVI 1 month ago
Anyone got chords/tabs for this song?
Sakarazu3563 2 months ago
1:55 overshot the landing.
JapJapJapluanda 2 months ago 2
These Commercials Are Killing Me. :'I
xSteezyTaco 3 months ago
Why wasn't this song huge?
TippedCowpat 4 months ago
@TippedCowpat Because their haircuts aren't swoopy enough.
Lateralus347 2 months ago
Margot and the Nuclear So and So's, Dear and the Headlights, and Death Cab for Cutie.<3
Aturnipxlovesxyou 4 months ago
I<3 how its the good version with that gorgeous rift towards the end
FFAPossum 4 months ago
Love it. <3
killthecoolkidss 4 months ago
Such a shame the band fell apart. They were so much better than some many other people, and people like rebecca black got famous for how bad she was? Bullshit
xxxllamaturtlexxx 4 months ago
@metalhero000 xD lolololol pure emotion
FerraretionGx 1 year ago
this song is amazing of course
juniorg928 1 year ago
Fuck, what a song. Just great.
superbond2 1 year ago
These guys are unreal
danielbattersby 1 year ago
love this band
Lateralus347 1 year ago
....isnt it deer?
PurpleDice622 1 year ago
@PurpleDice622 No.
LordCatfish 1 year ago
@PurpleDice622 sory, didn't mean to thumbs up your comment.
LordCatfish 1 year ago
@PurpleDice622 it's not supposed to be like the animal
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LordCatfish 1 year ago
@HalflifeDream it's just cuz they dont sign with a major label. which is good for them in most cases
RelapseGuitarer 1 year ago
There is a different version to this song that is way better.
Vman27 1 year ago
@Vman27 Like a live version or a cover? I've heard some pretty good live versions but the sound quality gets in the way.
RANAE30 1 year ago
No it's a studio version. It has more energy and I think the sound quality is even better.
Vman27 1 year ago
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lfcrule2 1 year ago
@Vman27 Here: watch?v=VLpAduBDXxo
lfcrule2 1 year ago
@Vman27 Oh that's awesome hopefully I'll hear it sometime.
RANAE30 1 year ago
wow cooool
cretinhop25 1 year ago
woop
angelicaorh 1 year ago
I wish Ian was my boyfriend :D I love him<33
peacenlove637 1 year ago
this song is amazing the vid is amazing this band is amazing!!!!!!
sandigoman567 1 year ago
they are great!!! :)
CountingTheRaindrops 1 year ago
This is like their worst song and it's still amazing. Love this band
dannypoissant 1 year ago
I LOVE DATH :] I have this CD signed by all the band members :D i met the lead singer at a concert where they played before Jimmy Eat World.
TVFMG365 1 year ago
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I saw them at a similar concert, it was in Springfield MO, yeah they were pretty cool.
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MJohn112407 1 year ago
One of the best bands to never hit the radio. \m/ ^_^
ZeppelinFan122 1 year ago
Always loved this song and always will...proves a great point
Jussden1015 1 year ago
My new favorite band.
TheBadreception 1 year ago
i love the way this song is constructed, the love/hate thing. It feels very bipolar like !!! It is one of the rare tracks i took time to learn the lyrics, i love to sing along
man833 1 year ago
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ducci317 1 year ago
ducci317: it's one of those rare songs that is very catchy and at the same time very good
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jkg588 1 year ago
I believe this song about a million different guys' situation in their love life. SERIOUSLY. That's why I love it so much.
MacaronLOL 1 year ago 3
Oh and I forgot to say run in the front is an awesome song too.
Valles075 2 years ago
I really like this band. I like this slower version of this song too. Don't know much about them but I love the singers style and the emotion he puts in his performance and voice.
Valles075 2 years ago
Sigh...it is sad...with the right representation, this song could have been a hit..
favio14 2 years ago 24
@favio14 I actually love the fact that this didn't turn into a hit. Dear and the Headlights is a band that's way bigger than the hit lists that are around.
chicalatina665 1 year ago 2
Yeah...but they are sending a message that goes through lots of guys heads...
it makes me think a bit...
a bit melancholic...
siiiiiigh...
they are a great band, though :3
favio14 1 year ago
@favio14 True about the guys part, I'm not a guy so I didn't think of that. But I guess it's a good song to pass on to guy friends. (:
And damn right, this band is amazing.
chicalatina665 1 year ago
yeah,
don't take it personal personal honey ;)
favio14 1 year ago
@favio14 who says it can't still be a hit, but i see what you guys are saying. POP artists don't even write their own shit, and nowadays they hardly even sing it. it's all about the image for the pop market
AdamXXll 1 year ago
Really? like the representation of a major label? I love this band too much to have them be sucked in to a degrading and insulting 360 degree contract deal that any major label would force upon them. then that same label would make them produce an almost double Platinum album before even breaking even on sales. rinse and repeat for 4 maybe 5 entire albums. where they receive 64 cents maximum from each record they sell. please don't ever speak again. This Song IS a hit.
RelapseGuitarer 1 year ago
@RelapseGuitarer No, more like, the opportunity to travel further.. to make better music and share it with more people.
favio14 1 year ago 3
@favio14 Yeah i remember my first beer.
RelapseGuitarer 1 year ago
@favio14 Really? like the representation of a major label? I love this band too much to have them be sucked in to a degrading and insulting 360 degree contract deal that any major label would force upon them. then that same label would make them produce an almost double Platinum album before even breaking even on sales. rinse and repeat for 4 maybe 5 entire albums. where they receive 64 cents maximum from each record they sell. please don't ever speak again. This Song IS a hit.
RelapseGuitarer 1 year ago
@RelapseGuitarer dude take a fuckin chill pill its a fuckin song
BloodRedBullets 1 year ago
@favio14 Im glad it wasnt :) these guys hold a place in my heart just they way they are:) If You got a chance to read their letter to the fans written by the bassist you would love these guys so much more... They choose lives of modesty instead of becoming bigtime sellout artist.. They were offered a huge contract and turned it down because in his words" We got together just as friends wanting to make music for fun, Money would complicate things and couldnt take a chance of lossing the magic" :)
NakedDave2010 3 months ago
m la rekomendaroon jaja :)
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azuritereaction 2 years ago
This kind of reminds me of The Early November in a way.
SKAMANDO 2 years ago
really? I don't see it
soupdz28 2 years ago
the tambourine player is insane!
sopheeyaa 2 years ago
i have a version of this song that's got more of a punk feel. I think it's better than this version even though it's not recorded as well... i still think this one is good, but i think they should've kept the intensity of the other one- or at least picked up the tempo on this one it's all slow... :(
insanepony 2 years ago
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interesting they made a vid on this one, this is the only song i dont like from their album
renZenKuKen 2 years ago
@renZenKuKen r u kidding.this is one of their best songs.
jiniton 2 years ago 3
these guys are so awesome live too
necromagyck 2 years ago
I agree. I actually discovered them at Warped this year. I really enjoyed it.
zizzix08 2 years ago
the stupidity of people never ceases to disgust me: a kickass band like this should deserve more attention.
numbkid 2 years ago
Wish these guys could of got bigger :(
Btw it's not about his mom!
SaveDreamdrain 2 years ago
indie music is tight :)
ElTriple7 2 years ago 12
sweet song
redkdrum 2 years ago 2
met these guys at warped tour kinda bummed because there was only like 5 people in line to meet them. but the guys are all really cool
redbatshoes 2 years ago
they just arent over rated like the other physco babel that every other band plays so no one is intellegent enough to listen to or so intrest in something this great and different
xPlayxEvansxPlayx 2 years ago
These guys are Fuckn aces live.
TheRussianCommando 2 years ago 5
kinda like the wombats. i like it. :)
koigecko 2 years ago
kinda?
xPlayxEvansxPlayx 2 years ago
this band should be way bigger than they are. i fucking love them
theshadowskiss 2 years ago 4
Ian's voice makes my heart flutter :]
peacenlove637 2 years ago
love 'em
famoussherbondy 2 years ago
FUCKING amazing. Saw them on the 5th. and they were so kick ass. I jumped up on stage before leaving and hugged Ian. I was all giddy when he said hello to me.
peacenlove637 2 years ago 2
they are fantastic! :D
i have their new cd<3
but i liked this one better.
ILUVANTH0NYP 2 years ago
seems like the guy is reminiscing about the girl he's feeling and that she has a new boyfriend. the chorus, "i bet he likes you more than he likes me" is just taking a duh statement and turning it into a great lyric.
my take, anyway
PromisedMilk 2 years ago
my friend told me its about the singers mom getting a new boyfriend
i thought that was kinda neat
josegui 2 years ago
That makes the "I'm the former one, he's the latter one" line creepy.
giai0z 2 years ago
thats just what i heard
josegui 2 years ago
anyone know what hes talking about in this song?
ericschoon 2 years ago
goodness i love this song.
Totally reminds me of an ex, cuz she gave me the Cd with this song on it.
thetophun8r 2 years ago
kinda looks like a heavier version of ben affleck in extract! ahahaha
AttackOfTheBrandon 2 years ago
I love them SO damn much. <33
I listen to them everyday.
peacenlove637 2 years ago 4
asciiguy283 I completely agree with you on the underground part. It seems like the music producers today are either completely for rap or really suckish bands (not to point any fingers but... Buckcherry after Crazy Bitch got old). Let some of us actual music listeners in for a day and see what we do to the industry.
justinDISASTER 2 years ago 2
i adore this band and especially this song cause its a definate thing that we all will experience and it is so artfully, yet simply expressed.
miranniebananie 2 years ago
Amazinggggg (:
bellerz4295 2 years ago
haha that looks like fun in the music vid.
WafflitoTheWaffle 2 years ago
amazing song omg
krispy1391 2 years ago 2
I went to see Motion City Soundtrack back in September. Margot and the Nuclear So and So's were supposed to open. Instead, these guys did at last minute. Their set was better than Motion City's. And I love Motion City. These guys are for real. Its a shame we are stuck listening to shit like Lady Gaga on the radio, while real talented artists like this are stuck underground. Maybe some day things will change. Anyway, keep rocking guys. Awesome stuff.
asciiguy283 2 years ago 41
kick ass story
Zebraboar 2 years ago 2
@asciiguy283 People are speculating that the mainstream music industry is gonna crash and be no more within a few months seeing as they are loosing so much to piracy...This will see the birth of artists self releasing music more. Hopefully this will cut out all the mainstream top 40 cycle we are stuck with now, and actually give artists like this band a chance to succeed.
lfcrule2 1 year ago 2
@asciiguy283 i saw them two years ago they were opening for paramore and jimmy eats world
172196aml 1 year ago
@172196aml DUUUUDE!!! I WAS AT THAT CONCERT!! It was in utah so I dont know if you were at that specific show... :)
compyvirus 1 year ago
@asciiguy283 you saw motion city soundtrack!!!!!!!!!!!! your sooooooooooo lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!
pookie061197 1 year ago
@asciiguy283 You know what's also a shame? When people like underground stuff and say that they 'deserve success' and shit like that and then they get really mad when people start to know about them and get more well known. =/
OmGxiTzxChRiS 1 year ago
lol. metalhero ur rite. that guy DOES look like hes having fun!
gonoles9398 2 years ago
whoa that dude haven fun at 1:37
metalhero000 2 years ago 39
lmfaooo, i know righhtt :P
hardlyasmile 2 years ago
A little TOO much XP
ShShShShara 2 years ago
hahahahah
pollutance 2 years ago
@metalhero000 HAHAHA Thanks for opinting that out.
RANAE30 1 year ago
Sweet bassline.
warrencampbell 2 years ago 6
whats with the tamborine he looks like hes on speed
shadowclothingrider 2 years ago
Hey, thanks for playing this today at Warped Tour in Hartford. You guys were really awesome.
gileschickering 2 years ago 2
Guitarist/back up vocalist looks straight up like Chris Pontius.
Amazing band
latinohomiejo071593 2 years ago
haha yeah he really does.
elimenohpee182 2 years ago
i saw them in san antonio !!!!! the lead singer got a hair-cut
sasorisenpu 2 years ago
I love this song.
PotatoDonki 2 years ago
"won't take it personal personal." :O
gahlex 2 years ago
ims eeing them soon im so excided! the band just needs a makeover=]
leniss33 2 years ago
At least they aren't as trendy as those other faggy, mainstream bands.
EGomezPatrol 2 years ago
Yeah, I love how they're popish, but they're not the shitty pop punk that reigns over our mainstream nowadays.
I mean pop as in like, The Lemonheads
latinohomiejo071593 2 years ago 2
It's more indie to me. But, I can see what you're saying. This is really their only good song, though. The rest is kind of samey.
EGomezPatrol 2 years ago
that is very very true
leniss33 2 years ago
I love these guys.. I saw them the other day and their energy is amazing.
boredohsobored 2 years ago
Awesome song to play in Rock Band! Loving the video!
veggietacos 2 years ago
i like alot...they look drunk thow right?
DinosaursWillDie999 2 years ago
I saw them yesterday and they were amazing! :)
I love this song. <3
koolkari08 2 years ago
amazing.
cxtchphrxse 2 years ago
Awsome bass :)
lollipop8D 2 years ago
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this fucking sucks... y would they put it on rockband
ijustgotmydeanwings 2 years ago
You fucking suck.
Its on rockband cause its fucking awesome. If you dont like it then dont buy it dumbass, and stop bitching about it.
Motherload3000 2 years ago 3
Because it's nice to have a decent song on Rock Band once in a while.
giai0z 2 years ago
i would of rather had saosin or attack attack on there instead, but thats just me
ijustgotmydeanwings 2 years ago
Well, it is nice to have your own opinion.
giai0z 2 years ago
just saw um yesterday and i never heard of them they were good the singers very spastic on stage lol
skott1090 2 years ago 3
heyy! im going to see them tomorrow! could u tell me pleaaaaaaaase pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase at what time did they play when u saw them?
budahgirl9110 2 years ago
your going to have to look at the blow up sign i dont remeber but i think this is a little late sry
skott1090 2 years ago
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I like the first album much better. Bar talk about it's a pretty disappointing follow-up :(
badofcheese 2 years ago
this is a rock band bassist dream song!! =) "s1ckh4nds bass" is gonna shred this song's azz!! =)
taylor1129611 2 years ago 5
I wasn't really planning on buying any of this Warped Tour pack for Rock Band because I don't like Thrice or The Devil Wears Prada but this song is awesome.
theaals 2 years ago 8
Anyone on Equal Visions records is good.
post or present.
usedangel000 2 years ago 7
Sweet, some ´96 style EMO!
wanduz 2 years ago
I'm not gonna lie, this in Rock Band = Win
FDAMY 2 years ago 6
i know heh
Brendabum 2 years ago
THIS TDWP AND THRICE = WIN DUDE :)
theDeAdIsRiSiNg666 2 years ago
omg want
firebreather93 2 years ago
heh the tele guitarists little shenanigans lost him cool points, he almost is off time
whois14116 2 years ago
lol their about 9 guitar sweeps away from mathcore
Belfire4 2 years ago
They're not even close to being mathcore.
MaxDrummr1 2 years ago
Look up the actual definition to mathcore. No sweeps required. Tool could be considered mathcore for most of their songs.
Blackbarticus 2 years ago
I was told that these guys were math core. wtf??
tatenaldo7 2 years ago
dose anyone know the tabs to this song for the guitar of the chords
AustinSkate325 2 years ago
it does not look like he would sing like that at all! AWSOME!!!!
121kamikazi121 2 years ago
sick song !
Skeeter69123 2 years ago
theyre at warped tour this year for anyone who wants to see them :P
woo Indiana..
i cant go :/ im goin campin :D
ZEBRASx5 2 years ago
bummer go campin the week after lol...id rather go to the warped tour then go campin....but thats me...and as i realize im stoned typing into youtube (this is my business why?)
somefridgeman 2 years ago 3
awesome
chubbyapparel 2 years ago
PJ Waxman's dope
ctcheney20 2 years ago
song has been stuck in my head for the past three weeks awesome haha
neoaquato 2 years ago
why do u guys all look so nervous in this video!?
:D
dashboardesi 2 years ago
this song is really catchy.
acw4b 2 years ago
THese guys look legit. cant wait to check them out at bonnaroo
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nottebella08 2 years ago
the lyrics are SO REAL.
michotto 2 years ago
can't wait until warped tour!
i'm so excited!
Definetlykatex3 2 years ago
i remember seeing them opening up for paramore
rockergrl09 2 years ago
LOVE them. seen them 3 times. hopefully 4 more this summer (:
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xxemutoothpickxx 2 years ago
these guys are so perfect live, and I love them to death but this video looks like it was made on a $50 dollar budget lol.
m83shoegazer 2 years ago
it's meant to look like that
Poxneo 2 years ago
i like the video exactly for that reason.
profchaos33 2 years ago
GRIZZLY ADAMS
kellsiexhollister 2 years ago
their Dallas show was amazing, even they said it
Sergio5f 2 years ago
Last time I planned to go see these guys they were opening for Motion City Soundtrack, but I didn't find that out until about a week before the show.
rossovg 2 years ago
nice!
candace1194 2 years ago
This is one of my favourite songs at the moment, only found out about them because someone mentioned them to me.
Love it.
bolo0uk 2 years ago
my band played a show with these guys in seattle like 2 weeks ago and it was awesome. They rocked it...
jewridden 2 years ago
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Naughtie11 2 years ago