Sex and Paraplegia (Wheelchair user) (Paraplegic)

[Kittyrocker999]

i don't know why i'm watching this xD

[Mshollywood101]

very informative. thanks! but my question is when you (i know everyone's injury is unique , but im speaking as a whole,, not just you personally- lol i don't want you ta feel im prying all in your busniess! :] ) get an erection and have sex or whatever,, is it possible feel any sexual sensation? that part is confusing to me . i understand some men w. this situation can get erections and climax but is it all mental? or do you guys receive any feeling?

[WheelzOfFortune]

@Mshollywood101 It can be confusing. ...even for me, actually. I seem to learn something about myself on a monthly or weekly basis. I do feel "sexual sensations," as you put it, but I believe that my sensations from intercourse aren't as intense as someone who doesn't have an SCI. It is difficult to tell, though, because I have nothing to compare it to. Thanks for the comment! =)

[UnscentedMelody]

You are totally hot. :)

[WheelzOfFortune]

@UnscentedMelody Haha, thank you.

[reichertish]

I'm a T10 T12 burst fracture. I can get an erection but can't ejaculate. I'm a womans best dream I just stay hard for hours and hours!!!

[MartKencuda]

Me being new to being a paraplegic (my accident was 4 months ago), it was very reassuring hearing all of this. Ive been looking up stuff about sex but havent found anything subsyantial. Again thank you for posting.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@MartKencuda I'm glad you found the video helpful. Good luck with your rehab.

[RienJen]

You are very brave for posting this video. I am doing research for a fictional story where the main protagonist is a T10 complete paraplegic, and I also happen to work in a PT dept (I'm not a PT, though). One issue I really want to cover is the fact that paraplegics and tetraplegics are sexual beings. I have seen the study you're talking about, and yes, sexual function is ranked #1. Great video, my friend. Thanks for posting. :)

[WheelzOfFortune]

@RienJen Thanks for the comment and good luck with your story!

[kwadeproductions1]

i'm a t9 and i'm 19 i've been like this since 16 years old... very informative thanks for the vid

[WheelzOfFortune]

@kwadeproductions1 No problem.  I'm glad you found it useful.

[miz666]

My sisters fiance was in an awful car crash yesterday morning paralyzing him from the chest down. He had surgery today and they gave him a "slim chance" at ever walking again. While at the hospital, my sister asked me if he could still have kids. Any info you could offer would be great. We're all devestated here and i love her and him dearly so i turned to youtube for a few answers. This was very informative. Will they be able to have any more children? They have a 4 month old now but want more.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@miz666 Oh no, that is horrible, but at least he is still alive. Every SCI's injury is unique, so it is difficult to say considering I don't really know the details and I'm not a doctor. If they can't have kids naturally, though, they'd probably be able to have them with the assistance of a doctor (there are a couple of different methods, I believe). If that is not an option, then they could always adopt, too. Good luck to them.

[CaptainAndy99]

I just find it too damn frustrating. When I was married, for a time, it gave me pleasure in making my wife climax. After a few years it just got boring because I could never have an orgasm. I then tried porn instead, found it addictive and a waste of time because I still could not come even if I tried to masturbate. I lost interest in sex and consequently I am now divorced. After years of denying it, I now admit paraplegia is inconvenient. That's my take on it.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@CaptainAndy99 Yes, it can be very frustrating. I'd be happy to talk about the subject more with you if you'd like. Feel free to message me.

[cistters]

I send this vid for people reading around... when I began going out with my boyfriend (triplegic) I found so few pictures or vids of handi/valid couple... we're just a normal couple and don't have to hide :p

[WheelzOfFortune]

@cistters Amen to that.

[GaBoYnFla]

I'm a c7 incomplete....I can ejaculate and have erections....but it takes more stimulation to reach orgasm....won't happen through intercourse...only intense masterbation.....I have also had some retroejaculations....after it happens, I got a very uncomfortable feeling of the bladder having to empty immediately....until it was out.....but it hasn't happened in a few years now.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@GaBoYnFla I ejaculated while erect for the first time last week. Pretty shocking considering I am 29 and it never happened before. As you mentioned, though, it was not via intercourse. Thanks for the comment!

[cistters]

Great ! It's very interesting... nice for women to lurn that... YES go on with this rolling guy you met last night, it's not gona be platonic ! (it's rather gona be atomic :p)

I wrote a book (romance) involving an handi/valid couple with the close testimony of a T5T6 paraplegic man (it goes from falling together from the wheelchair to full para-sutra). I'd like to add a few precisions about AD and sensations if you please :D

[WheelzOfFortune]

@cistters How very cool. I'd love to read it. =)

[cistters]

@WheelzOfFortune (the book is french... but if you read it we can give you a copy)

About AD : the probabiity of killings SCI partner is happily low :D he'll ask you to stop before feeling unconfortable. It can gives nice sensations during bed activities... not necesserly pleasant at first but can become so (like with smoking cigarets... ) the sweet AD. And for the partner it's the same... instead of a man boucing of love all over the bed you get spasms, sweat, very high heartbeats ;)

[WheelzOfFortune]

@cistters Ah, I can only understand a bit of French, but I am working on improving my skill.

[cistters]

Very interesting... can be nice for neo-SCI men to lurn that one thing that is gona stay nice in their life is bed activities :) and for women that... YES go on with this rolling guy you met last night it won't be platonic :)

I've been writting a book (romance) involving handi/valid couple with close testimony of a T5T6 paraplegic man... lots of people landing here I'm gona add 2 things if you please :D

[rocdude66]

lets go!!! my mans be getting crazy!!

[skyeangel61]

I live with a Paraplegic wonderful person! He is my life and I have been through alot learning about him. Sexually he turns me on soo much b/c there's so much intimacy .Love Love him and our wedding is July next yr.!

[WheelzOfFortune]

@skyeangel61 That is awesome. Congratulations to both of you. =)

[wheelz23]

@skyeangel61 ima para of 14 yrs...male love my girl huge..married in less than3 weeks hell yeah

[repus63]

Hi,

My name is Lyndon. I am from South OZ (Down-under) I became an incomplete T-12 Para when I was 29. I have a different experience sexually again and I am considering sharing my thoughts on video also.

I want to tell you I think you are a great guy with a bloody great attitude and I commend you for being so open. I had plenty of years prior to my accident that I had experienced great sex and at 46 I still do ,so yes..everyone is different. Great video :) 

[WheelzOfFortune]

@repus63 Thank you. Feel free to post your video as a response to this one.  =)

[justwatching5344]

great my boy has same problem

[147Heart]

I really like the video. You're very smart and I think you can explain these difficult things very well. My only problem: I'm german, so I didn't get some things you said :D

But very very well done!

[WheelzOfFortune]

@147Heart Thanks! I have a transcript of what I said in the video on my blog, so you can pop that into an online translator if it helps.

[147Heart]

@WheelzOfFortune Okay, I'll try it out :) Thank you!

[BoleStellaRossa]

best thing is when i dissliked the video ...

[amachronic89]

Thank you for the great video, and I like the cool guitar in the background! Do you play much?

[WheelzOfFortune]

@amachronic89 One of 10 or so guitars. =) ...and yes I play quite a bit.

[v2brn]

Thanks for sharing! I was actually wondering about this topic while studying SCIs in my 4th semester of nursing at this moment and did a youtube lead me to you. I did have a question now that I've read through the comments left, had anyone discussed sexuality with you during your course of recovery? And if so how did they approach the issue and what did you think about the approach? As a very soon to be nurse I believe sexuality is important to discuss, but at times am unsure how to approach.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@v2brn No, no one talked to me about it during my recovery. However, that was most likely because my SCI happened when I was 6 months old. I'm not really sure if anyone talked with my parents about it either. I'm sorry I can't be of more help.

[bubblesofhell]

haha i love your account name

[WheelzOfFortune]

@bubblesofhell Thanks =)

[budiarsa83]

aghhhhhhhhh,,,,,,,,

[AngelFireVH]

Thank you. I am getting involved with T11 & T12 paraplegic man and want so much to please him. He is a very sexual being and people just overlook that. He, like the man in this vid, is very much into the emotional connection, which fulfills my needs as a woman.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@AngelFireVH That is awesome to hear. Good luck to the both of you. =)

[jeronimot]

Thaaaaaaaaaaaanks a lot! Very informative and clear!

Plus, you're cute, ha! ;)

[WheelzOfFortune]

@jeronimot Thank you

[watchit722]

WOW, what an amazing young man you are, your honesty and openness is truely heart warming.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@watchit722 =) Thanks!

[sparklekitten16]

This is an amazing vid, pretty much a service to the community. Doctors will talk about this, but only if you bring it up first, and then it's awkward, especially because I don't think they get much, if any, training about this sort of thing.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@sparklekitten16 Thanks for the comment. The only time I've ever talked about this with a doctor was once when my urologist and I discussed the ability to have children for about 2 minutes doing an appointment one day.

[nathan000022]

Hey mate, what an awsome video, as a incomplete paraplegic myself I would never have the guts to make a video like that so good on you. You video was informative and very professional, keep up the good work, cheers  Nathan

[WheelzOfFortune]

@nathan000022 Thank you!

[mahksintown]

Thanks for sharing. You are one sexy man!

[WheelzOfFortune]

@mahksintown Thanks for watching!

[springbob]

Thanks, again, for being so open. You dealt with a sensitive subject in shuch a wonderful "professional" manner. Keep up the good work. Yes, "Inquiring minds want to know." :-)

[WheelzOfFortune]

@springbob Thanks!

[belgikske]

Thanks for sharing that information . 

[xingkongxk]

How do you hurt?

How long?

[WheelzOfFortune]

@xingkongxk I'm not sure what you mean.

[xingkongxk]

How do you hurt?

How long?

[swelguy]

Joseph, each video is better than the last! It is so rare to find someone willing to talk about such intimate topics as you have. I feel very fortunate that you have shared them with us. It's good to know that you have a partner, and also good to know that "Mr. Happy" is functioning so well for you!

[WheelzOfFortune]

@swelguy Thanks for the comment. I was speaking about my previous partner, actually, as I am not currently with anyone.

[TheEsotericDesi]

Very informative... Thanks for sharing the knowledge...

[WheelzOfFortune]

@TheEsotericDesi You are most welcome. =)

[jansens2001]

Articulate, compassionate, intelligent... best video yet. Congratulations. Let's just say that your partner is lucky! Thanks for this.

[WheelzOfFortune]

@jansens2001 Thanks, I'm glad you liked it.