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  • in reality it all comes down to attraction and what we feel like doing. you only feel bad for what youv been taught but marriage was created by us. Ignorance is bliss.. humanity vocabulary is insignificant, every word created could mean any other word, the marriages and relationships are only words made to organize actions that could just as easily be named other things! depravation of the human need is not the right choice it's the unintelligent uninformed one, holding on to obsolete traditions

  • I personally like this video. It's not only talking about sex, it has subliminal messages in it. Why would you chose to do something that risks pregnancy, stds, being used, and having your dignity shattered? you're only reward is temporary, "to satisfy another person and bring them joy". But I'd rather pay for sex counseling after I'm married than to have to pay an on going therapy session for a stupid decision I made when I was younger. Would you want your relationship only built on physicalne

  • "So why chance it?"

    Well, because having sex before marriage does not make you any more likely to get hit by a bus. In fact the chances are exactly the same if you have sex after marriage. The events are completely untied. So whoever came up with this idea is an illogical spastic.

  • We watched this at church and also I don't want to argue but it's sad how against God some of you are God made you and he loves you no matter how bad you've been. If you have had sex before you get married he still loves you and will forgive you. This video is funny but it makes a good point.

  • @thebbenji10 I dont see the point it was trying to make. Do you?

  • Yeah, and there's still the chance you CAN get hit by a bus even if you wait. Or get shot, or mugged, or get bird flu. Nothing is guaranteed in that sense. However, it is probably better to wait till marriage or longer anyways, but not absolutely necessary. That is my opinion, if you don't like it, too bad. I am entitled to it.

  • Haha what the fuck

  • my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me. we started dating for 2 month she started talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who loves me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard to find the right girl :(

  • LOOOOLLL!!!!

  • didn't see that one coming ....

  • not everyone wants to get married and mathematically it is impossible for all to marry. yet we all have the desire for sex, and doctors say sex is good for you mentally and physically. where exactly is the harm in 2 consenting adults having sex?

  • Only people who don't believe in God have sex before marriage.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity Alot of people who are not religous or athiest choose to wait until marriage to have sex. It is a personal decision tat you have to make for you,re self not believing in God does not make you promiscues Christians are always judging people in order to feel better about themselves and alot of people who claim to be religious are very promiscues themselves.

  • @SuperBigdude77 ONLY PEOPLE WHO DON'T BELIEVE IN GOD HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity You're full of shit

  • @veryberrykayla Wow, nice childish insult. It's the truth, that's why you're denying it. Only non-believers have sex before marriage. Doing that is the ultimate symbol they don't believe in God because they don't follow the most important tenants that cause the most temptation.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity I guess you're right because I've had sex and I don't believe in god. And, guess what, It was great every time.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity yeah pull out the god card as always, so pathetic. sex is perfectly natural thing if there is a god i think god would be annoyed with you and others like you. no wonder god never shows up eh, he/she is too busy rolling her/his eyes at your stupidity.

  • @theMaraudersrock It's your fault for displeasing God.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity i displeased god oh well i don't give a toss and i shall continue to live my life how i please 

  • @theMaraudersrock And burn in hell after death. You sinner.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity i'd rather be a sinner than god's bitch

  • @MagatsutheCalamity not true hormones get the best out of everyone

  • @chocolatemilkyum And thus you've renounced God by giving into temptation.

  • @MagatsutheCalamity This is the 21st century. Get a grip.

  • @chocolatemilkyum That isn't a refutation of the point I made.

  • Wow that was dumb...

  • However... My resech shows that it DOES mak you 40% more likely to be struck by a moving vehicle due to hormones - Karl Holton,

  • I WOULD NEVER PERFORM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE! and im an athiest - Karl Holton.

  • hahahahahahha.

  • HAAHAHAHAHHHAAHHAHAHAAHHA

  • this is a joke right?

    nvm doesnt matter, i still laughed my ass off at it

  • Stupid shit!

  • Trust "ME" when I say "Wait" ! ! ! "WAIT."

  • lol what was that

  • that just made me shit myself!

  • ROFL

    that was sadly hilarious :(

    :) snickering

  • @adamparker13 but why buy the cow when ur getting the milk for free?

  • u do know our race has been having sex without marriage for 65 million years marriage has nothing to do with it. sex is natural part of humanity without sex we wouldn't exist.

  • @theMaraudersrock You do know that the human species has not been around even close to 65 million years right? You should check your facts before stating something stupid.

  • this is the dumbest video i have ever seen...

  • Look Both Ways Before Crossing The Street!

  • this is completly and utterly sick. which deranged psycho would equate having sex with guilt, hate, death and all this negativity? the people who made this video probally masturbate violently while watching "Saw", "Evil Dead" or "Faces of Death"

    further more, they're not even adhering to their own doctrines, that being based on love forgiveness, love thy brother, go forth and multiply etc etc, they pervert christian doctrine to fit their own phobia and hate for sex and the human body

  • Remember look both ways before crossing the street. Also remember to get condoms and get birth control wow so hard.

  • @adofri.why should christians add them?, if they got any benefits.?.if god wrote in bible that 'sex before marriage is sin' would u follow it? U all know well that sex before marriage and fornication r not so good. But u wanna justify ur fault.

  • @shumak13 you are absolutely correct.!

  • My youth pastor created this video. The statistics show that people that have sex before marriage are more likely to get a divorce. If their spouse is not as good in bed as a person they had before them. Therefore they are more likely to leave for someone else. If they wait then that person can only give them the best sex they have ever had and therefore will not want to leave them. Spiritus is awesome.

  • @schumak13 The statistics are wrong. If anything there are more divorces from people that wait because when they finally ended up having sex it sucked because neither person had any idea what they were doing. Not to mention these people get married early because they can have sex which also ends up ending in divorce because they realized they didn't really care about the other person, but instead only cared about having sex. Sex before marriage solves this problem across the board.

  • The end is stupid --"

  • Stupid!!!!!!

  • You know who else waited?!?!

    HITLER.

  • I love watching this video at SpiritUs!! For all you commenters who disagree with sex after marriage, I personally, want to save myself for my husband. And we aren't Bible thumpers. Some "Christians" shove the Bible in your face, but people who really know and understand what God has done for us aren't like that. We want to share His love and we want you to see what wonderful opportunities there is for those who follow Christ.

  • @Christrocks2348 I too have been to spiritus and it was my youth pastor that created this video

  • god never wrote in the bible that sex is a sin before marrige, christians have added so much to the bible

  • @adofri because god didnt write the bible... lol

  • @adofri First of all god didn't write the bible. Second of all the bible does not sanctify sex before marriage.

    Hebrews 13:4Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

  • @schumak13

    God didnt write the bible?

    lol

  • i think "waiting" needs a better campaign....

  • So.....this is the first video I have ever disliked on youtube....

  • Sex before marriage? Do you buy a car without a test drive?

  • I get hit by a bus everyday!

  • Hmmm, when I lost my virginity, I didn't get hit by anything.

  • @darkshiv lmfao!

  • What?

  • WTF? That's gotta be the most retarded scare tactic ever. You could get hit by a bus? What does that have to do with Anything relating sex? If anything, because of that very possibility alone, YOU SHOULD have sex. Random accidents happen all the time. Imagine never getting to experience sex only because of the esoteric, improperly interpreted, society-controlling rules of a religious cult told you not to. Not ever getting to have sex in your life. Think about it. Then go get laid. Stat.

  • @pfunkslex If only more women believed this. I hate how Christianity separates people like that. I've seen many questions on sites which are problems being caused by women who don't want pre-marital sex. How can people still think this way? It only causes more misery. If Christianity's God was so benevolent, He wouldn't force people to suffer like this. It's sad people still allow religion to control their lives and allows it to stop them from living to the fullest.

  • @pfunkslex It is an analogy if you have sex before marriage it could have effects similar to getting hit by a bus

  • @pfunkslex

    The bus could represent unplanned pregnancy, stds, etc....

    

  • Omg This was hilarious i was totally caught off guard but there's no reason to argue about it its just some people on here arent mature enough to wait. for such a young age im not influenced to do it until the right time i wanna only let my husband take that from me plus alot of my peers have theirs gone and they regret it cuz they arent even with there bf/gf anymore, its better to be safe than sorry and protect yourself from diseases but some people have no morals and no respect for their body.

  • Freewill \m/ .. But I personally think sex is something which should be done with someone you love.. Why else would they call it making love? :D Anyway am gonna try stay a virgin till am married ! :D

  • Plz..wait untill marriage! it is great! Is love a physical need? Pure love is related to modesty! There is no value for love without modesty!! it is 100% true!!!

  • hahaahhahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!

  • if you have sex before marriage you might be hit by a bus.

    if you don't have sex before marriage you might be hit by a bus and die a virgin.

  • seriously? I mean FUCKING SERIOUSLY?! ... What an argument!

  • Awesome!!!!!!!!

    

  • I dont understand why you would get married if you're going to have sex before marriage and act as if you were married if your not. It makes no sence to me. Just dont get married if you want to live in sin.

  • Soooooooooooooooooooo dumbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb!

  • OMG OMG OMG that sooo amazing!

  • Sex is great, it may be better with just 1 person, but this stupid ignorant christian propaganda is bullshit, An opinon is a opinion, but if u want to post ur opinons, u better be able to intellegently back them up, christians cannot back up anything they say, accept "the bible says so", ur not convincing me bible thumpers

  • @zacktruth Thanks for commenting on the video. I had similar feeling in the past. Let me know what you think about this site: iamsecond

  • @zacktruth

    Actually we are able to back up some of the things we say.

    As a matter of fact a vast majority of people who have sex within marriage have a longer lasting relationship, and have a better family life.

    And as for sexual diseases, forgettaboutit lol.

    Realistically it is only logical to have sex within marriage first.

    I know that you probably think this but please don't offend us christians.

    While some of our views might sound annoying, we are only doing it for the greater good :)

  • @zacktruth It is a matter of choice, just like going to the doctor and trusting him to prescribe something or doing open heart surgery. Sex is a lot more than that. Trust is an absolute. Either you will or you wont. You should get a bible and soften your heart. If you think that your actions, especially with another person, does not affect anyone other than yourself, you are a dumbass. Get your head out of your rear and quit observing only your opinion.

  • @zacktruth Dude it was a comedy video calm down!

  • @zacktruth

    waoh you really are ignorant. you need to get a proper idea of life

  • @zacktruth to the man of no faith it cannot be explained only experienced..and even still think about it like a huge cookie and every time u have sex before ur married ur taking a bite out of that cookie and taking the fun and joy out of it.

  • This...was added on my birthday... XD

  • i don't know if sex before marriage is any good, from what i hear it gets boring. all i know about is sex before marriage and it feels great.

  • @delli2011 what????

  • @delli2011 You've gotten the hole marriage thing wrong...

  • Never getting married and im going to have as much sex as possible before I do!

  • Sex is an important part of marriage, so wouldn't you want to know what you're getting into before? Just sayin'.........

  • I don't really believe in that god/bible bullshit, and I know I'm not fit for marriage (ever), so what's wrong with enjoying myself?

  • I agree with the comments about educating rather then scaring. I think teenagers need to know what they are getting themselves into and know about birth control. I don't see the point in waiting to be married but I think it is important to know who you are consenting to have sex with really well. Wait a year or two getting to know your partner. It is also important to be ready to have a child in case pregnancy does occur.

  • I'd have that girl bent over in like 30 minutes!

  • LMAO thats y i am staying a virgin

  • Hahahahaaa I proper lol'd at this!!! We got shown it in R.E today! That's totally the wrong message! Pahahaaaa

  • Sex before marriage is not recommended. You will end up with a baby, living paycheck to paycheck, living in a trailer park or a house under 50K, receiving welfare, and you will go to hell when you die. Thumbs up to save somebody's life!

  • lol im waiting till 18after that if i love someone that much then sure. im just thinking is there a certain age where if u dont get married its like ok

  • I lol'd.

  • wtf?!

  • this is some lulz

  • IT IS STUPID!!!!! Sorry, this video actually seems to be provided by a serious anti sex-before-marriage campagne and it is nothing but stupid. No arguments, no pros or cons, no explainations....BUS-------

    If all the abstinence campaignes are like this, it makes sense, that waiting is so unpopular!!!

  • @MarielenaElisa Comedy. Look it up.

  • @MrElectroman80

    Thats only the image presented by Hollywood and the liberal media. Many Americans still value sexual restraint until marriage.

  • I don't like the idea of giving my future spouse sloppy seconds, or thirds, or fourths, etc. Any animal knows how to have sex, it takes real discipline and character to wait.

  • Campaign for waiting can suck my big erect cock!

  • u lose alote of things when u comit sex before maridge.ur self respect, ur dignity, ur purity and it doesnt make u unique anymore it makes u like the rest of this filthy planet.grownups are always saying to save it for marridge not cuz they r old peoplle itz cut they had expiriences.be pure its not that hard :3 be someone that people will admire you for.

  • @arrozcubano

    absolutely not true ;) how would you know all that? can you read the minds of all the people that didnt wait till marriage? theyre all perfectly fine. and normal :p

    personally my relationship GAINED a lot from it :) it brought us so much closer. emotionaly and physically.

    and we are actually eventually getting married. so OHNOES

  • @arrozcubano you also lose the ability to spell

  • @arrozcubano You're saying I lose my self-respect. How do YOU of all people know about MY self-respect?

  • This ad is ridiculous. Only in America.

  • im 15 and i pledge to lose my virginity before i finish highschool :D

  • @tallyhoman911 ur 1 of the girls who think thats cool..wow sorry but being a skank isnt cool.

  • @arrozcubano IM A GUY!!!! XD

  • @tallyhoman911 Way to go!!

  • hahahahaha!

    doesn't have anything to do withthe subject, but it made my day! good thing, that i didn't hear somekind of religious crap. not that i wouldn't want to hear every opinion, but i've heard that too many times!

  • Though this is funny, it has a point. ^^,

  • I think this does make you think, because its just as likely to get hit by a bus than it is for a condom to break.

  • Helpful material for those thinking about Sex Before Marriage can be found by searching on New Growth Press. They have a minibook for this and other related issues. Discounts are available for churches, military, or other groups looking to help by calling (877)647-2233.

  • Why wait? Marriage only mean anything for thos who believe in it, mostlt religious people anyway. If youre goal is to protect teenagers the messages comes out a bit wrong IMHO.

    With that said I also think the quality and the idea of the video was fun and good. I am only questioning why marriage would make any differense at all for a grown up couple :)

  • haha lol :)

    watched this in RE. Highlight of my day, thanks :)

  • I respect everybody that wants to wait with it, but in my experience, having your cherry popped hurt (at least with me) and now after it, I have to say that I'm glad my first time is over and that my wedding night will be a night of fun and pleasure and not one of pain and inexperience.

  • hahahaahah this is fuckin hilarious!!

  • watching this while sugar high AND drinking soda was defiantly not a good idea, made me crack up

  • LMFAO!

  • IF people undertook sex before marriage and the marriage relationship did not successfully continue, it would be more psychologically & emotionally painful than if they didn't because of the greater pain caused because of more to regret, therefore having a greater long term effect in their life.

    If the marriage relationship was successful and sex was saved for marriage it would be more joyous and emotionally gratifying than if they had not saved it.

    On both sides of the coin saving sex is logial

  • at first i was like "i will never get back this 1:30 of my life" and then the bus thing happend and i was like "TOTALY WORTH IT!!"

  • OMFG I DUN WANNA GET HIT BY A BUS!!!! I HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!! HOW DO I NOT GET HIT BY A BUS!!!! ... Hmmm.. maybe if I ride on a bus.. I won't get hit by it?

  • CyberKiwi?

  • I think, waiting is a better thing in all sort of things. After marriage you will go faster. You know what I mean.

  • @PwnPancake You don't freaking need sex! I am a true virgin and have never masturbated in my life! Don't say it's a need. All of these sexual messages found EVERWHERE in our society makes you think it's impossible to go without sex. Money isn't even a need, only needs are sleep, food, and water.

  • @oO0randomzach0Oo Amen to that, society needs to move beyond such primitive instincts. Especially what with this being an overpopulated world.

    Can't miss what you've never had.

  • This video is absolute bullshit! It calls on the irrational side of people, not on our rational capacity.

  • lol u can get hit by a bus before marriage as well.. and idk about anyone else but i sure as hell wouldnt want to die before having sex... waiting is not the best course of action

  • your logic is flawed sir..

  • Haha, fucking owned. Gf

  • Funny but stupid.

  • Hahaha....LOL...>FISH tht was funny !

  • i'm sorry. but this video is hilarious.

  • Instead of focusing on the negatives and scare tactics why don't you focus on the positives? Just because condoms don't work 100 percent of the time isn't a reason to NOT use them.

  • It was meant to make people think, not scare them. I mean how many people are going to go have sex and get hit by a bus?

  • Nothing about teaching abstinence ONLY makes people think. Studies have proven that full sexual education has both lessened the amount of sexually transmitted diseases, increase condom use, AND has lowered the teen sex rate. The more educated about sex a teen is the more likely they are to wait instead of being scared to wait because they know both the pros and cons of their decisions instead of just the negatives. Google it if you don't believe, which I doubt you do and I doubt you will.

  • this was STUPID!

  • Oh yeah this is definitely going to scare me into waiting...

  • ha ha get hit by a bus lol!

  • funny

  • there's literally no point in waiting if you use protection and aren't stupid.

  • There is the idea of waiting to lose your virginity to the person that you love enough to marry.

    Then there is the idea of controlling yourself and therefore preventing sex from becoming more significant to you than it ought to become.

  • um, pardon me, itsthegreenplatypus, but condoms won't always keep you safe from pregnancy or STDs. And what about the emotional hurt? What about when you break up, won't that hurt like hell? That's all I'm going to say, because obviously you deserve to have awful things happen to you, since you're so stupid.

  • @LizOMFGcookies 1. there are other ways of protection besides condoms such as implantable protection that is 100% effective because it stops the production of certain hormones and if you're not emotionally ready, true, you shouldn't have sex. but if you are, why not.

  • theres emotional damaged that can make a relationship end harder then it would have been if you didn't have sex. Call me a coward but id rather use my youth to AMASS WEALTH AND BE A GREEDY MONEY HOARDER then be hung up on a girl who i didn't really care about anyway. sorry i had a bad break up :P ;)

  • @SmallT2 haha you're either gay or a dumbass. you can't have sex and care about someone?? loll

    you can amass wealth and be in a relationship. bill gates is married.

  • hahaha...O my....that was hilarious.

  • lol

    very freakin funny!

  • omg thats the funniest thing I've seen all day

  • well, im stayin virgin till im married !

  • @partyprash2000 Good on you, also see my logical argument is defending saving sex for marrigae.

  • @partyprash2000 good to hear that me too itsvery hard but i take each day as it comes with Gods help :)