I don't have a fear a BBW.I like dating plus size women.Plus size women are often better than skinny women.I am physically attracted to all types of women.
All of u punk ass " so called men" saying that u won't date a phat girl or a thick girl because u aren't attracted to them? Wtf, grow tf up and try hanging out with a thick chick, u might even like us better than them skanny skinny hoes that y'all be so in to ?!
(ignore username) ok so I don't if ppl realized this but there are more than 2 types of women not just obese and anorexic what about ppl like me who do not starve themselves or have an addiction to food. I eat when I'm hungry and if I ever get married then I will go for someone who likes ME not my tits (well he can like those to but he has to also like my personality)
i commented earlier but i have to say this ppl who dnt like bigg women just dnt like them because its the way their brain is used to workin so girls dnt change for them just look for the better men ;) lol all i gotta say
You are a sweetheart. I think you are so right, a person should not settle for someone. At the end of the day, it is important that someone loves you for the long term. : )
This is great advice for someone who is in a relationship or is thinking about starting a relationship with someone. I'm 21 years old and I have had 1 boyfriend my entire life. I very self-consious about my weight and I find it very difficult to meet guys because I am embarrased of how I look. For me, it sucks being single. I fall deeper and deeper into a depression when I see couples and even more when family says "oh you don't need anyone your beautiful" thats like a slap in the face for me :(
On the reversal side, i have no problem with my man's weight. But he does. I wish he knew it doesnt really matter. The only thing is that when he is on top and gets tired, its hard to breath. Communication and honesty is key.
Thank you its really good advice, but how can a big girl win over a man. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend. I know I'm not ugly but being a solid 1x is hard to compete with when the whole dang town seems to be skinny if you not over the age of 40. It's a small town.
Little women kinda get skittish, and big women can be volatile. I've never been successful with women from either one end of the weight/height/build spectrum.
@GirlTalkkTV - I'm a Big Woman who is currently "under construction"; I've lost 70 lbs thus far & I'm doing it for ME! Question: If a man loves my personality & states that I am a good woman but I'm not an option for him due to my size, should I give him any consideration if he pursues me after weight loss? I have a problem with someone wanting to reap the benefits afterwards but not wanting to be with you through it. Also, wouldn't there be pressure to stay small in order to keep his interest?
@GirlTalkkTV - I really enjoyed this video. I never considered the fact that a man might experience attraction to a woman who does not meet their personal 'Physical Preferences'. Scenario: In working closely together, he loves the way she thinks, her personality, beliefs, etc & thinks she's a rare find. However, his insecurity about choosing someone he normally wouldn't, coupled with his friends & others thinking he can do better may be too much so he doesnt' pursue it. Many men experience this!
Don't worry sisters because I notice it's really the faggoty fruity men that go for skeletor girls, while built and toned women like us get all the athletic basketball hunks.
It's not what we "fear" big girls, it's just guys are superficial people and we like a girl who is good looking. Most guys don't find big girls attractive.
@Gorillazfreak18 Well guess what buddy? I'm a 'superficial' woman that is literally into tall, nicely dressed, well built hunks with nice muscles, lavish hair, plush and thick lips, moist tender and soft skin, beautiful gorgeous sharp eyes, and has a rockin' manly voice. Face it! You guys are just not man enough to handle plus size women like me. Hell, I may not be like Rosanne but I'm not a mosquito off the cover of a magazine either.
Big girls and me don't get along....They will fight you for the last chicken wing....LMFAOOOO_o great vid my dude!! Its amazing how people take general advice and get offended....even while you was being positive, honest, and sincere.....which is why the asshole route is usually the one most guys take when addressing these issues.....Its also funny how a fat girl will say if you dont like it then to hell with you..nooo btch to hell with you because if Im not attracted to big girls--> its my life
@stef4243 Fat women have on average a lower with self esteem than a healthier looking woman. Which is completely natural. An overweight person (even me) will see something that needs changing; and will hopefully care enough to be disappointed in themselves and will act and feel accordingly. And yes, 2 outta 3 fat chicks are easier than a justifiably confident woman.
@loonneye i just dont understand that, god made us the way we are so why not just embrace it? you kno?? i mean yea its hard but still, every person can find that one special someone if they believe they can find him/her.
@lilmspoobah281 True but god didn't make all of us be be Big. Maybe some, but not as many as we have. I think it was slightly insulting to hint that god made them that way.
@loonneye it wasnt meant to be an insult, it was meant to be a fact that there are still some of us who perfer to be known as "plumped" but to some people thats unattractive, and when yuh sed that god didnt make all of us big i was refering to the big women out there who carry big hearts that some men jux cant seem to uncover. under the skin .
If a man can't be with a woman without worrying about with other ma fuckas think then fuck him! he is not worth any part of your time. natural attraction to fat women? finding himself in a usual situation? chile fuck that and move on.
You said, Men "fear the judgment of being with a big woman". Imagine dealing with that feeling EVERYday, nobody wants to have to deal with that, it's not fair. Your right when you say what other people think doesn't matter, because it doesn't, it just takes some women a long time to relize that :/
@ visionimagnify, don't flatter yourself women date the ugliest types of men and don't judge nearly as harshly as men vs. women. There's a standard thanx to the porn industry & women killing themselves to be thin thanx to the fashion industry. Women have a hard time loosing weight bc we have less muscle mass & slower metabolism so we can give birth to stupid people like you.
There isn't nearly enough pressure on men to perfect their body image as it is with women...
I do not like fat women. They're disgusting, and have the most attitude. Here's a tip: BLACK MEN DO NOT WANT FAT WOMEN. Clearly we know what is a woman's true body-shape and it ain't a big whale mammie either. This is the same reason why black men are leaving you and why you're still on the couch pigging away at Ben & Jerrys. Grow-up, and get it together. We as men aren't belittle ourselves to such drivel and desperation enough to give honor to these whale hussies.
@visionimagify You know a lot of people found that very offensive? I cant believe you just said that. "Fat women" are the same as a women with a "true body shape" but they are stronger people. They stand up for their selves more and are just as attractive.
@visionimagify you know if you got something negative to say shove it up your ass and then read my shirt which says DOES IT LOOK LIKE WE GIVE A FUCK WUT THE HELL YOU HAV TO SAY!?!?! no, so go find someone who gives a shit about your fucking 2sence and leave the rest of us HUMAN beings alone cause obviously you had your heart broken by a plumped rose female and cried. so basically your having a little boy trantum why dont YOU GROW UP into some big kids boxers cuz yur friggen retarded nd immature.
@visionimagify here's a tip: WOMEN DONT LIKE MEAN ASSHOLES. Women wan't men that treat them right and love them for what's on the inside. No woman wants to hear that you are only with her for her looks. There's more to a relationship than looks. Granted you want to be attracted to the person. And if you ARE attracted to big women then I don't see how that's anything to be ashamed of. But what's on the outside is only a little factor in the whole scheme of things.
first reason is well put, im glad you understand everyone has a type, and for many people larger size isnt what they find to be what they are looking for.
@Jokerfest Curvy is an hour glass shape which is the ideal size of a woman, not two stomachs at the end of each love-handle. That's not curvy, that's just plain disgusting.
@visionimagify i feel like youve never seen me, ever. but, uh, thanks for the input. i'll be sure keep that at the very back of my mind, right under "guy who likes to judge people because he's perfect and has less than 3% body fat" , yeah? btw try taking prednisone for 2 years and see where that gets you, i'm sure you wouldn't be saying anything now.
Because they have small penises. I've loved large ladies all my life. Married 9 yrs to my soft goddess with second kid on the way. Good guys are not nerds. Give us a chance. Working and studying hard, speaking "white",not being interested in sports, and having goals is NOT a bad thing!
Failure leads to pain. Pain leads to anger. Anger turns into resentment......AND RESENTMENT LEADS TO THE DARK SIDE!!!! I was waiting for the line, but it never came! So I had to add it in a comment so I could feel complete.
@CrappingRainbows well im sorry i made YOU sad. I know there are some girls who are big and still have boyfriends and husbands but they are few and far between. Where I live, if you're fat your single. That's just how it is.
I don't feel hesitant at all I love big women now by big I mean plump!!! There's nothing wrong with some extra meat but on a side note I don't want a women so big and unhealthy she's goin to have a heartatack on me !!! So as long as we are as healthy as possible and happy fuck wut people think!!
Really? I guess I'm the stereotypical lanky white guy that has a thing for big girls. Skinny girls are aesthetically pleasing, but the ones I've talked to seemed about as deep as a picture...pretty to look at, but nothing there. Husky girls now... daddy likes.
My suggestion to the bigger women is to start to make small changes and stick with them over time. Eat less of fried foods, sweets, soft drinks, etc., and become active. Take the stairs, walk around the block, go bike riding. But the number one thing is eating. Don't make excuses. Educate yourself and handle your business. With patience and consistency you'll see changes over time. And for those that want immediate results, hit that gym & hit that slim, lol! Take care of you yourself!
I'm baffled as to why you didn't mention the health reasons associated with being overweight and how as they get older, the medical expenses that accompany diseases such as high blood pressure, diabetes, bone and joint issues start to add up. Women can handle it while they're young, but I've seen too many older people have to deal with obesity related issues and it's not nice. I work too hard now to spend my life's savings on medical bills.
I'm a big girl, and I've already accepted the fact that I'm disgusting and there's no excuse for choosing the pasta over salad, and I know I'll be alone forever, unless I make a change. The only thing that bothers me are these big girls who can't realize that.
@xOhLookItsAMYx you are not disgusting and you shouldnt feel like you need to lose weight to be with someone. only do it if it makes you happy. there's a lot of guys who love curvy girls. you just need to be confident with yourself and ignore the idiots who dont deserve you :) trusttttt me, the right person will come along and love you the way you are.
I restrain myself from initiating a relationship because I worry about my size. Most of the guys I find myself attracted to seem to typically be attracted to skinnier girls. Because of this I am very hesitant and guarded with giving things a shot because of me being self conscious about my size and body. It's nice to find a an honest and genuine guy who speaks positively for women. Woman really do need somebody like that to look up to for respect&guidance. Keep doing what you do!
I like your approach to this topic -- and your advice is very insightful. I've never heard anyone be so rational when it comes to "robust" bodied women (or men for that matter). Nicely done! This is the first video of yours I've seen and I am pleasantly impressed.
If you are a real man and you love big girls then there should be no fear of dating big girls....There are too many dudes out there that like big girls and dont care what anyones says..... So I think that fear men say they have is cowardness..Im confident and my weight has not been a issue in any of my relationships..
your second reason doesnt make much sense because there are guys that date women that everyother guy has had or the call a "hoe" and when u tell the guy the first thing he says is so what people can change ...so men dont really care what a person thinks about who they date thats bull crap now its the truth about some are not attracted thats sooooooooooo true because everyone has someone they are not attracted to i dont like guys that are under 6'0" i would never talk to them
I feel like this. Just like woman apperance can change so can a mans. that why looks should not play the biggest role when looking for a mate. Dont get me wrong it matters especially when u first lay eyes on someone, you are going off attraction or whats pleasing to the eye. In the long run if a man is stuck on looks and not loving a woman for her hes not a keeper anyways cause theres gone always be someone else to catch his eye. He not stable in the head. Alot of these guy think their Denzel
i agree most men are afraid of the jokes but when i was in high school i can remember all of the boys talkin makin jokes?but a lot of them was?givin props,cuz her azz was?so big,and i was smashin?that.i dont care?who ever lol i luv big girls.it a?strong man to love a?big girl the?rite way,cuz a lot of men dont really?be lovin there big women like they?r suppose to
It's all about insecurities. People do care about what others think of them. Men and women fear that other people are going to tease them about who they choose to date. What is sad is that people don't realize that the human body is changeable. A person can gain or lose weight and a beautiful person can turn what society thinks is ugly within years. Its sad that people ignore the personality of a person. Very sad.
I'm a big girl but I exercise at least 4x a week but I am big boned just like my mom :/ so I will never be a tiny size 2 or anything but I do have a pretty face and a nice personality :) and I'm pretty much the athletic type...but I still love myself....kind of :P
What a joke. Just tell them to stop eating fast food, cake, pizaa, and every other thing that makes them fat and join a gym. Men dont like big women because being romantic with a big woman is a nightmare. It looks disgusting.
@mropal100 Now I understand what he's talking about when he says childish men. Don't think your the best thing on earth because the human body changes a lot. I've seen plenty of skinny girls that were way worse off than me, let me tell you XD
@xXxSourxJanexXx zzzzzzzzzz... the human body only changes if you let it change by eating burgers, ice cream and other shit. Stop acting like being fat is just how you are... as if it's some act of nature. You're fat because you eat too much shit and you're lazy. Women who are not fat are always better off than fat chicks. There is nothing more disgusting than a big meatball looking chick.
@mropal100 Listen closely because I don't think I'm coming in clear. First off, I'm not fat I'm chubby, there's a difference. Second, if anorexia nervousa is sexy, then more power to ya. I am just saying some people are considered over weight if they are like 20 lbs from the goal so to speak. There are plenty plus-sized models that are the right weight for their height and age. What's up with that? Anyways. your still a tool bro so live with it :)
@xXxSourxJanexXx Listen closely because you're in denial. If that's you in that pic then you're not chubby... you're fat. Just because I dont like fat women does not mean that I like women who look like they're starving to death. Both are gross.. but few women are that skinny compared to the number of water buffalo chicks in the world.
@mropal100 Honey, for one. That's an old pic of me because if someone likes me I want it to be because they like me for me. It works because your a superficial asshole so my old pic deflects your shallow ass. Another thing, not all plus sized women are enormous. Some are but the way I was I honestly wasn't that big. So next time you decide to be rude as hell be careful sweet heart, because your ignorance is showing :)
@xXxSourxJanexXx Also, your no LL Cool J either so honestly you have no right to judge anybody. Actions can make people ugly sugar and from how I see it, your actions make you a flavor flav XD
@xXxSourxJanexXx Fat is fat. Fat women are always trying to say that they're "not that big". Funny, because they're usually the only ones who believe that. I don't believe you've changed much from that pic. I DARE you to post a recent pic of yourself up. I'll be the judge if you're a fat meatball or not. Get on a diet. Practice discipline. Stop trying to rationalize your fatness.
@mropal100 I have nothing to prove to an ignorant jackass such as yourself. End of communication. I only reveal myself to true men in a more personal setting, not to assholes who thing their better than other people but won't even put a pic up because you probably know your ugly as fuck :) I'm done son. PEACE!
@xXxSourxJanexXx Don't write me again umm kay? If you don't like someone for something okay but don't be rude about it. Think about if some dude was talking about your mother. Saying she's fat, she's disgusting, she should feel bad about herself. Don't even tell me if you heard that you wouldn't be ready to jump, ya dig?
@xXxSourxJanexXx And not all plus sized women say their not that big. Some I've seen are enormous, I'm not going to lie. And I said I wasn't that big because my breast size. They are 46DDD and they make me look bigger than I am. You can't tell in that pic cuz I'm wearing black but it is apparent when people are up close to me. I was only 40 lbs over my weight for my height which was like 4' 11''. Now I'm like 5' 1' and 180. So forget you. It doesn't matter how cute you are if your disrespectful.
@xXxSourxJanexXx And what? Are we kids now? " I dare you to post a recent pic," yeah man, right after I find out who stole the cookies from the cookie jar XD
it does entertain me to interact with idiots. You haven't even graduated high school right? It's not becuas eyou didnt try, its because you wern't smart enough to, right? LoL...
i dont think men fear dating big women i think men fear dating insecure women... women that are so self contious about appearance that they forget to enjoy the date/relationship... those very same women will blame every flaw of the relationship on weight. "i know im not your ideal size but..."
I don't date fat women because it's disgusting. Other from that, the state I live in is filled with fat women...which leaves the alternative even more desirable
This video is amazing:) It is positive for all shapes, sizes, ages, genders ext. It truly reminds you that no matter you size, shape, age, gender or whatever; you have to ask yourself if the person you are in love with loves you unconditionally. You must also never settle weither you're big or small just beacuse you think you can't get anything else. You need a true, unconditionally loving relationship. (size has NOTHING to do with love, if it did you'd be in lust not love)
I don't have a fear a BBW.I like dating plus size women.Plus size women are often better than skinny women.I am physically attracted to all types of women.
pineboy23 2 weeks ago
i'm a "big" girl but not fat .. and i love it .. because it's more to love, more to grab on, and it's more cushion for the pushin !
AshlynPagieDixon8 3 weeks ago
All of u punk ass " so called men" saying that u won't date a phat girl or a thick girl because u aren't attracted to them? Wtf, grow tf up and try hanging out with a thick chick, u might even like us better than them skanny skinny hoes that y'all be so in to ?!
MissBeautyrelated 4 weeks ago
Big is beautiful;)
VAAMPGL 1 month ago
I'm a big girl and so what ♥
TheBellagummybear 1 month ago
Truth
tlashawn871978 1 month ago
This is totally true :)
TheSaira101 1 month ago
(ignore username) ok so I don't if ppl realized this but there are more than 2 types of women not just obese and anorexic what about ppl like me who do not starve themselves or have an addiction to food. I eat when I'm hungry and if I ever get married then I will go for someone who likes ME not my tits (well he can like those to but he has to also like my personality)
theplushfatty01 1 month ago
This is a big confidence booster, thank you.
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MYopinionTIME 2 months ago
Fat Woman are Fat, Fat Men are not Fat.
TheOfficialiKON 2 months ago
i commented earlier but i have to say this ppl who dnt like bigg women just dnt like them because its the way their brain is used to workin so girls dnt change for them just look for the better men ;) lol all i gotta say
lilmspoobah281 2 months ago
You are a sweetheart. I think you are so right, a person should not settle for someone. At the end of the day, it is important that someone loves you for the long term. : )
pieladypeace 2 months ago
will you marry me?
hbeeteevee 2 months ago
I love this guy. So honest, yet kind.
IndigoBeagles 2 months ago
I'm a big lady and I hate it. There are no attractive men who like bbws.
foxxy6959595 3 months ago
@foxxy6959595 thats a lie! you just haven't found one yet! attractive men like attractive women cause i havent had any issues.
bonafiedbeauty1 2 months ago
This is great advice for someone who is in a relationship or is thinking about starting a relationship with someone. I'm 21 years old and I have had 1 boyfriend my entire life. I very self-consious about my weight and I find it very difficult to meet guys because I am embarrased of how I look. For me, it sucks being single. I fall deeper and deeper into a depression when I see couples and even more when family says "oh you don't need anyone your beautiful" thats like a slap in the face for me :(
spicasso09 3 months ago 4
On the reversal side, i have no problem with my man's weight. But he does. I wish he knew it doesnt really matter. The only thing is that when he is on top and gets tired, its hard to breath. Communication and honesty is key.
TC78obsessed 3 months ago
Man use big women only for sexual needs
1234jjjohn 3 months ago
Thank you its really good advice, but how can a big girl win over a man. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend. I know I'm not ugly but being a solid 1x is hard to compete with when the whole dang town seems to be skinny if you not over the age of 40. It's a small town.
gardengirl17 3 months ago
oh gawdd ur really nice, great advice :D
sairax14 4 months ago
Little women kinda get skittish, and big women can be volatile. I've never been successful with women from either one end of the weight/height/build spectrum.
Agent1W 5 months ago
Big girls have feelings too y'know.
riverphoenixgurl 5 months ago 4
@GirlTalkkTV - I'm a Big Woman who is currently "under construction"; I've lost 70 lbs thus far & I'm doing it for ME! Question: If a man loves my personality & states that I am a good woman but I'm not an option for him due to my size, should I give him any consideration if he pursues me after weight loss? I have a problem with someone wanting to reap the benefits afterwards but not wanting to be with you through it. Also, wouldn't there be pressure to stay small in order to keep his interest?
Kendra7288 6 months ago
@GirlTalkkTV - I really enjoyed this video. I never considered the fact that a man might experience attraction to a woman who does not meet their personal 'Physical Preferences'. Scenario: In working closely together, he loves the way she thinks, her personality, beliefs, etc & thinks she's a rare find. However, his insecurity about choosing someone he normally wouldn't, coupled with his friends & others thinking he can do better may be too much so he doesnt' pursue it. Many men experience this!
Kendra7288 6 months ago
Don't worry sisters because I notice it's really the faggoty fruity men that go for skeletor girls, while built and toned women like us get all the athletic basketball hunks.
TheLavish99 6 months ago
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TheLavish99 6 months ago
It's not what we "fear" big girls, it's just guys are superficial people and we like a girl who is good looking. Most guys don't find big girls attractive.
Gorillazfreak18 6 months ago
@Gorillazfreak18 Well guess what buddy? I'm a 'superficial' woman that is literally into tall, nicely dressed, well built hunks with nice muscles, lavish hair, plush and thick lips, moist tender and soft skin, beautiful gorgeous sharp eyes, and has a rockin' manly voice. Face it! You guys are just not man enough to handle plus size women like me. Hell, I may not be like Rosanne but I'm not a mosquito off the cover of a magazine either.
TheLavish99 6 months ago
@TheLavish99 I like curvy girls actually.....just not big girls.
Gorillazfreak18 6 months ago
Big girls and me don't get along....They will fight you for the last chicken wing....LMFAOOOO_o great vid my dude!! Its amazing how people take general advice and get offended....even while you was being positive, honest, and sincere.....which is why the asshole route is usually the one most guys take when addressing these issues.....Its also funny how a fat girl will say if you dont like it then to hell with you..nooo btch to hell with you because if Im not attracted to big girls--> its my life
tonyanthemz 6 months ago
Whats the fun having sex with a cow?
sansez 6 months ago
@sansez bitch please find your self a life because im a big gurl and big gurls rule (P.S. bitch got to fucking hell)
mzpooh816 6 months ago
i wouldnt date a big girl because they are not attractive.
dpistons149 6 months ago
@stef4243 Fat women have on average a lower with self esteem than a healthier looking woman. Which is completely natural. An overweight person (even me) will see something that needs changing; and will hopefully care enough to be disappointed in themselves and will act and feel accordingly. And yes, 2 outta 3 fat chicks are easier than a justifiably confident woman.
loonneye 7 months ago
@loonneye i just dont understand that, god made us the way we are so why not just embrace it? you kno?? i mean yea its hard but still, every person can find that one special someone if they believe they can find him/her.
lilmspoobah281 6 months ago
@lilmspoobah281 True but god didn't make all of us be be Big. Maybe some, but not as many as we have. I think it was slightly insulting to hint that god made them that way.
loonneye 6 months ago
@loonneye it wasnt meant to be an insult, it was meant to be a fact that there are still some of us who perfer to be known as "plumped" but to some people thats unattractive, and when yuh sed that god didnt make all of us big i was refering to the big women out there who carry big hearts that some men jux cant seem to uncover. under the skin .
lilmspoobah281 6 months ago
Define "big." I'd have to see the woman in question before I pursue.
MrHav1k 7 months ago
great advice!
MochaBrown89 7 months ago
If a man can't be with a woman without worrying about with other ma fuckas think then fuck him! he is not worth any part of your time. natural attraction to fat women? finding himself in a usual situation? chile fuck that and move on.
justicecarly 7 months ago
This is an excellent video! big women may not like it, but it's true what he's saying!
blackNirishhunee 8 months ago
How is this gurl talk if hes a guy....
cottoncandychic 8 months ago 9
You said, Men "fear the judgment of being with a big woman". Imagine dealing with that feeling EVERYday, nobody wants to have to deal with that, it's not fair. Your right when you say what other people think doesn't matter, because it doesn't, it just takes some women a long time to relize that :/
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hauiakks 10 months ago
@ visionimagnify, don't flatter yourself women date the ugliest types of men and don't judge nearly as harshly as men vs. women. There's a standard thanx to the porn industry & women killing themselves to be thin thanx to the fashion industry. Women have a hard time loosing weight bc we have less muscle mass & slower metabolism so we can give birth to stupid people like you.
There isn't nearly enough pressure on men to perfect their body image as it is with women...
ReesePiecesPooPoo 10 months ago 5
500 or 50 that's a huge gap! And if you were 500 or 50 lbs, you should hospitalized not worried about dating.
ReesePiecesPooPoo 10 months ago
I love it
PlusSizeKimonica 10 months ago
I do not like fat women. They're disgusting, and have the most attitude. Here's a tip: BLACK MEN DO NOT WANT FAT WOMEN. Clearly we know what is a woman's true body-shape and it ain't a big whale mammie either. This is the same reason why black men are leaving you and why you're still on the couch pigging away at Ben & Jerrys. Grow-up, and get it together. We as men aren't belittle ourselves to such drivel and desperation enough to give honor to these whale hussies.
visionimagify 10 months ago
@visionimagify You know a lot of people found that very offensive? I cant believe you just said that. "Fat women" are the same as a women with a "true body shape" but they are stronger people. They stand up for their selves more and are just as attractive.
PurpleRockstar6 10 months ago
@visionimagify you know if you got something negative to say shove it up your ass and then read my shirt which says DOES IT LOOK LIKE WE GIVE A FUCK WUT THE HELL YOU HAV TO SAY!?!?! no, so go find someone who gives a shit about your fucking 2sence and leave the rest of us HUMAN beings alone cause obviously you had your heart broken by a plumped rose female and cried. so basically your having a little boy trantum why dont YOU GROW UP into some big kids boxers cuz yur friggen retarded nd immature.
lilmspoobah281 8 months ago
@visionimagify here's a tip: WOMEN DONT LIKE MEAN ASSHOLES. Women wan't men that treat them right and love them for what's on the inside. No woman wants to hear that you are only with her for her looks. There's more to a relationship than looks. Granted you want to be attracted to the person. And if you ARE attracted to big women then I don't see how that's anything to be ashamed of. But what's on the outside is only a little factor in the whole scheme of things.
MaydayParadeGroupie 8 months ago
I wish I had found this video a year ago. Sigh.
BrandiLPierce 11 months ago
you're very deep. you're very positive and u make alot of sense
hondurena414 11 months ago
first reason is well put, im glad you understand everyone has a type, and for many people larger size isnt what they find to be what they are looking for.
ozoboy14 11 months ago
Why do men fear dating women that they find attractive?. I'm not saying, a woman that is 'fine', just an attractive woman.
81kiema 11 months ago
curvy and totally okay with it, and im sure the rest will follow, not worried about that :) I know I deserve it
Jokerfest 11 months ago
@Jokerfest Curvy is an hour glass shape which is the ideal size of a woman, not two stomachs at the end of each love-handle. That's not curvy, that's just plain disgusting.
visionimagify 10 months ago
@visionimagify i feel like youve never seen me, ever. but, uh, thanks for the input. i'll be sure keep that at the very back of my mind, right under "guy who likes to judge people because he's perfect and has less than 3% body fat" , yeah? btw try taking prednisone for 2 years and see where that gets you, i'm sure you wouldn't be saying anything now.
Jokerfest 10 months ago
big woman = NOT attractive but easy
mba2ceo 11 months ago
Same reason why most women don't like shorter guys.
rickalex21 11 months ago
Big women are the most attractive women on the planet.
DtroytDave 1 year ago 55
@DtroytDave i wish
gigglefyme 3 months ago
Because they have small penises. I've loved large ladies all my life. Married 9 yrs to my soft goddess with second kid on the way. Good guys are not nerds. Give us a chance. Working and studying hard, speaking "white",not being interested in sports, and having goals is NOT a bad thing!
Bill1275w 1 year ago
@Bill1275w I never understood that whole concept of speaking and/or acting "white"/"black." It just doesn't make any sense to me.
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Words of wisedom; I feel the same way
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What about men that are against tall chiks. im talking about cutesie tall girls not buthchy lesbian acting tallg irls lol
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durk20 1 year ago
@CrappingRainbows well im sorry i made YOU sad. I know there are some girls who are big and still have boyfriends and husbands but they are few and far between. Where I live, if you're fat your single. That's just how it is.
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tamazaratinao 1 year ago
I don't feel hesitant at all I love big women now by big I mean plump!!! There's nothing wrong with some extra meat but on a side note I don't want a women so big and unhealthy she's goin to have a heartatack on me !!! So as long as we are as healthy as possible and happy fuck wut people think!!
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gwynrangeraal 1 year ago
My suggestion to the bigger women is to start to make small changes and stick with them over time. Eat less of fried foods, sweets, soft drinks, etc., and become active. Take the stairs, walk around the block, go bike riding. But the number one thing is eating. Don't make excuses. Educate yourself and handle your business. With patience and consistency you'll see changes over time. And for those that want immediate results, hit that gym & hit that slim, lol! Take care of you yourself!
Mrprich 1 year ago
I'm baffled as to why you didn't mention the health reasons associated with being overweight and how as they get older, the medical expenses that accompany diseases such as high blood pressure, diabetes, bone and joint issues start to add up. Women can handle it while they're young, but I've seen too many older people have to deal with obesity related issues and it's not nice. I work too hard now to spend my life's savings on medical bills.
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WynneXanthia 1 year ago
I'm a big girl, and I've already accepted the fact that I'm disgusting and there's no excuse for choosing the pasta over salad, and I know I'll be alone forever, unless I make a change. The only thing that bothers me are these big girls who can't realize that.
xOhLookItsAMYx 1 year ago
@xOhLookItsAMYx you are not disgusting and you shouldnt feel like you need to lose weight to be with someone. only do it if it makes you happy. there's a lot of guys who love curvy girls. you just need to be confident with yourself and ignore the idiots who dont deserve you :) trusttttt me, the right person will come along and love you the way you are.
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Halfcastkidbj 1 year ago
I restrain myself from initiating a relationship because I worry about my size. Most of the guys I find myself attracted to seem to typically be attracted to skinnier girls. Because of this I am very hesitant and guarded with giving things a shot because of me being self conscious about my size and body. It's nice to find a an honest and genuine guy who speaks positively for women. Woman really do need somebody like that to look up to for respect&guidance. Keep doing what you do!
kaymarie888 1 year ago 2
I like your approach to this topic -- and your advice is very insightful. I've never heard anyone be so rational when it comes to "robust" bodied women (or men for that matter). Nicely done! This is the first video of yours I've seen and I am pleasantly impressed.
TheMadambition 1 year ago
What the hell are you talking about? Some men, SOME men, don't want to date big girls because they don't like big girls. There ain't no more to it.
TJ347 1 year ago
The simple truth is big women are unnatractive
BlackBrotherhood1 1 year ago
Don't feed trolls; that only makes them come back
LalyaSarah1288 1 year ago 2
I don't fear it, I just don't want it, it's nasty.
RadioFreeWisconsin 1 year ago
If you are a real man and you love big girls then there should be no fear of dating big girls....There are too many dudes out there that like big girls and dont care what anyones says..... So I think that fear men say they have is cowardness..Im confident and my weight has not been a issue in any of my relationships..
phatmami2 1 year ago
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bribay 1 year ago
@bribay lol i said the same damn thing..xD
misscollegechick2009 1 year ago
@misscollegechick2009 ho gotta be his twin or something
bribay 1 year ago
Hello ,
your second reason doesnt make much sense because there are guys that date women that everyother guy has had or the call a "hoe" and when u tell the guy the first thing he says is so what people can change ...so men dont really care what a person thinks about who they date thats bull crap now its the truth about some are not attracted thats sooooooooooo true because everyone has someone they are not attracted to i dont like guys that are under 6'0" i would never talk to them
lachelle0580 1 year ago
i dont see why men fear them i like them because biiiiiiiig guuuurrls dont cry!!!
ACoreyStory 1 year ago
I feel like this. Just like woman apperance can change so can a mans. that why looks should not play the biggest role when looking for a mate. Dont get me wrong it matters especially when u first lay eyes on someone, you are going off attraction or whats pleasing to the eye. In the long run if a man is stuck on looks and not loving a woman for her hes not a keeper anyways cause theres gone always be someone else to catch his eye. He not stable in the head. Alot of these guy think their Denzel
AjreamcomeTrue 1 year ago 2
thank you. Your words were inspiring
dboom1218 1 year ago
i agree most men are afraid of the jokes but when i was in high school i can remember all of the boys talkin makin jokes?but a lot of them was?givin props,cuz her azz was?so big,and i was smashin?that.i dont care?who ever lol i luv big girls.it a?strong man to love a?big girl the?rite way,cuz a lot of men dont really?be lovin there big women like they?r suppose to
MRmeet22able 1 year ago
It's all about insecurities. People do care about what others think of them. Men and women fear that other people are going to tease them about who they choose to date. What is sad is that people don't realize that the human body is changeable. A person can gain or lose weight and a beautiful person can turn what society thinks is ugly within years. Its sad that people ignore the personality of a person. Very sad.
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earthboundmisfit1983 1 year ago
idk why some of you girls are getting so defensive.
i am a big girl myself and i really appreciate that this guy
acknowledges that everyone needs love. hes being
real and it seems like he is just trying to help a girl out
who might not know how to approach a topic like this
with a loved one.
peglegmandi 1 year ago
I'm a big girl but I exercise at least 4x a week but I am big boned just like my mom :/ so I will never be a tiny size 2 or anything but I do have a pretty face and a nice personality :) and I'm pretty much the athletic type...but I still love myself....kind of :P
LifeIs2Kewl2013 1 year ago
thinks for this video.
greenizDAnublaque 1 year ago
What a joke. Just tell them to stop eating fast food, cake, pizaa, and every other thing that makes them fat and join a gym. Men dont like big women because being romantic with a big woman is a nightmare. It looks disgusting.
mropal100 1 year ago
@mropal100 Now I understand what he's talking about when he says childish men. Don't think your the best thing on earth because the human body changes a lot. I've seen plenty of skinny girls that were way worse off than me, let me tell you XD
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx zzzzzzzzzz... the human body only changes if you let it change by eating burgers, ice cream and other shit. Stop acting like being fat is just how you are... as if it's some act of nature. You're fat because you eat too much shit and you're lazy. Women who are not fat are always better off than fat chicks. There is nothing more disgusting than a big meatball looking chick.
mropal100 1 year ago
@mropal100 Listen closely because I don't think I'm coming in clear. First off, I'm not fat I'm chubby, there's a difference. Second, if anorexia nervousa is sexy, then more power to ya. I am just saying some people are considered over weight if they are like 20 lbs from the goal so to speak. There are plenty plus-sized models that are the right weight for their height and age. What's up with that? Anyways. your still a tool bro so live with it :)
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx Listen closely because you're in denial. If that's you in that pic then you're not chubby... you're fat. Just because I dont like fat women does not mean that I like women who look like they're starving to death. Both are gross.. but few women are that skinny compared to the number of water buffalo chicks in the world.
mropal100 1 year ago
@mropal100 Honey, for one. That's an old pic of me because if someone likes me I want it to be because they like me for me. It works because your a superficial asshole so my old pic deflects your shallow ass. Another thing, not all plus sized women are enormous. Some are but the way I was I honestly wasn't that big. So next time you decide to be rude as hell be careful sweet heart, because your ignorance is showing :)
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx Also, your no LL Cool J either so honestly you have no right to judge anybody. Actions can make people ugly sugar and from how I see it, your actions make you a flavor flav XD
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx Fat is fat. Fat women are always trying to say that they're "not that big". Funny, because they're usually the only ones who believe that. I don't believe you've changed much from that pic. I DARE you to post a recent pic of yourself up. I'll be the judge if you're a fat meatball or not. Get on a diet. Practice discipline. Stop trying to rationalize your fatness.
mropal100 1 year ago
@mropal100 I have nothing to prove to an ignorant jackass such as yourself. End of communication. I only reveal myself to true men in a more personal setting, not to assholes who thing their better than other people but won't even put a pic up because you probably know your ugly as fuck :) I'm done son. PEACE!
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx Don't write me again umm kay? If you don't like someone for something okay but don't be rude about it. Think about if some dude was talking about your mother. Saying she's fat, she's disgusting, she should feel bad about herself. Don't even tell me if you heard that you wouldn't be ready to jump, ya dig?
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx And not all plus sized women say their not that big. Some I've seen are enormous, I'm not going to lie. And I said I wasn't that big because my breast size. They are 46DDD and they make me look bigger than I am. You can't tell in that pic cuz I'm wearing black but it is apparent when people are up close to me. I was only 40 lbs over my weight for my height which was like 4' 11''. Now I'm like 5' 1' and 180. So forget you. It doesn't matter how cute you are if your disrespectful.
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
@xXxSourxJanexXx And what? Are we kids now? " I dare you to post a recent pic," yeah man, right after I find out who stole the cookies from the cookie jar XD
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
Big women are the scum of the earth. Fat lazy gluttons think they can do nothing and get everything.
Night9989 1 year ago
@Night9989 Go kill urself
TiannaWilliams8 1 year ago
@TiannaWilliams8
it does entertain me to interact with idiots. You haven't even graduated high school right? It's not becuas eyou didnt try, its because you wern't smart enough to, right? LoL...
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Night9989 1 year ago
like afraid of his friends seeing you together
visweetaddie 1 year ago
i dont think men fear dating big women i think men fear dating insecure women... women that are so self contious about appearance that they forget to enjoy the date/relationship... those very same women will blame every flaw of the relationship on weight. "i know im not your ideal size but..."
ACoreyStory 1 year ago
maybe he is not attracted to her.......i know i wouldn't be attracted to a big guy? i am really active and i expect the same from any man i date.
starangel031785 1 year ago
Thanks for this topic.... On point..
IndependenceChild 1 year ago
I'm a bigger girl and I exercise doing kickboxing and jump roping for my footwork not all big people are counch potatoes
MeganAnAmerican 1 year ago 7
I don't date fat women because it's disgusting. Other from that, the state I live in is filled with fat women...which leaves the alternative even more desirable
lun321 1 year ago
If your 50 or 500 pounds thats not healthy
BellaReigne 1 year ago
This has nothing to do with the topic, but you are adorable :)
NonButterface 1 year ago
umm i think that guys fear they cant handle a big girl thats why they dont date them!
mzfreakum 1 year ago 2
@mzfreakum No, but that's what fat chicks tell themselves as a way to not face the disgusting aspect of their appearance.
mropal100 1 year ago
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b1346 1 year ago
This video is amazing:) It is positive for all shapes, sizes, ages, genders ext. It truly reminds you that no matter you size, shape, age, gender or whatever; you have to ask yourself if the person you are in love with loves you unconditionally. You must also never settle weither you're big or small just beacuse you think you can't get anything else. You need a true, unconditionally loving relationship. (size has NOTHING to do with love, if it did you'd be in lust not love)
werheroszz123 1 year ago 6
You do not speak for all men, you speak for one of them.
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