OKAY LADIES! TIME TO BOYCOTT SEX & MARRIAGE! DON'T GIVE MEN ANYTHING! THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT US! SO MAKE SURE YOU DON'T GIVE THE SERVICE, HOSPITALITY, SEX, OR ANY OTHER PLEASURE!!! BOYCOTT MEN!!!!!!
Made perfect sense talking about girls who shack up with guys who give them a little bit of attention. My ex's dad growing up used to tell her she looked like shit and would buy her make-up as a joke for gifts and now she is 22 years old and addicted to sending nude pictures to guys and posts naughty facebook pictures all the time just as a sub-concious desire for approval/attention from the opposite sex. I think in lamen terms this is called "daddy issues"
This is as simple as people do not respond well to negative reinforcement. On the contrary positive reinforcement is extremely powerful. If your child or wife is generally a lethargic person and they do the slightest bit of picking up after themselves or exercise they must be graciously rewarded in one of the 5 love languages, touch, words, time... ect. Oldschool NLP.
My dad doesn't give a crap about me at all. He's never there for me, and he never will. I'm just someone that he can get away with calling me stupid and worthless. That's a MAJOR part of why I'm gonna be running away when I turn 18.
@28scotland Thats because men were never designed by mother nature to be there for you. Look at all the other animals on earth and you will understand what I mean.
okay men who are listening to this better listen up! im a young teenager and ma dad isnt a man! he used to hit me alot when i was little. men if u arent there for your daughters, (take it from me, and my suicidal freind who has been abused) they will go suicidal, and will not want to live anymore. seriously listen to this guy because no body should have to go through childhood with a daddy who wasn't there.
so if my wife is fat, i should tell her she looks perfect so she could be happy and not worry about her weight, and health? if my kids are lacking in school, i should say good job?. He does have a point at times we could be more supportive, but this is more like the job of the mom, where she's all loveedobby. We men teach our kids dicipline and the meaning of respect. We're the dad, husband, and man of the house, not the sister, mom, or girlfriend. We should be at our place where we belong.
@ackroh What you are describing is called flattery. If your kid is failing, and tell them they're doing a great job, that is a blatant lie! Mark is not telling men to flatter their wives and children. He is saying that men should find the good things, encourage them. I am a woman and detest being "loveedobby", give honest compliments and encouragement, not flattery. If your wife works hard every day to keep the house clean and cook, thank her. If you child is creative, encourage that.
@26Kunoichi i agree with the idea of embracing. Yet it isn't quite what he says. "Mark is not telling men to flatter their wives and children. He is saying that men should find the good things, encourage them" but what is he saying about the bad ones? -show them love that is the way. -That is a BLATANT lie!. you hate loveedobby? you must be the one with the cojones in your relashionship, often this leads to problems in the relashionship. depending how much of a man you get.
@ackroh I Love my fiance, and I look up to him and respect him as the man he is. He is the leader in the relationship. By saying that I hate "loveedobby", I was saying that I do not like flattery, or the googoo gaga kind of "love". As for pointing out the faults in another. Yes, if a husband, wife, or child has a fault, by all means point it out. But don't tear them down while you do it. Constantly complaining about your wife's cooking, instead of helping her improve, only tears her down.
@26Kunoichi there's a way to tell things and communicate i agree, that is what should've bein said. Embrace the good things yes but, DEFINETLY not avoid the bad ones just because you might sound "horrible". Get to the point of things and that's that there's is no reason to act like wild monkeys, because we aren't.
Ppl often get mad when ppl tells them stuff. It is maybe because they don't look up to them or have the respect needed towards them.
@ackroh Yes, exactly. It all boils down to a lack of respect and Love. If you truly want what is best for the other, then the other person will usually see that (especially if you downright tell them before the criticism comes). No one likes having their faults pointed out, but if you do it in a respectful way, then that is the best thing to do for the person.
Sometimes people need some bitter medicine, a little sugar about the good things they do helps it go down much easier though. :)
@26Kunoichi Lots of times what you're saying is the best thing to do. althought, the love for someone could make us not make the right desicion. Many times our love for someone is so great that our decisions will lean towards the benefit of the ones we love the most. I think the mentality shouldn't start or finnished with the love formula/base, but rather the thing that's important the most. with the blind decision, where we don't see names,colors, relashionships, but rather the action itself.
@ackroh read 'whale done'. get it from a library, borrow it from someone, buy it through amazon. read it all the way through, twice, and then if you still think you need to say ONE HURTFUL THING to ANYONE, EVER, just try it. For a week, try it. And you'll see.
And there, I thought that there was not a single man on earth who was able to think this way. I was brought up under the idea that I was not worth flippance, not so much in words but very much in deeds and tones, etc. Such an eye opener! (I don't suppose Mark Gungor has any young cousins...?)
@hiperjudu you sound like a person who complains a LOT! we man like our peace. if you want to keep your man around i will suggest for you to not complain so much and give him peace.
it's called self image for a reason. It's the image of YOURSELF. If you let anyone tell you that you are not good enough, it's their image of you. It shouldn't affect you. Third party perspective is NOT important for your self image. Be happy with yourself
@sawman85 True, but children and women who have been in abusive situations usually do not have the ability to distinguish between self-image and someone else's image. Especially when it's a husband/father, who is supposed to love them, saying something negative.
@HarmonyinJesus sure... you will need to have someone to tell you a few things. The first thing you could do would be to talk to yourself in the mirror saying:"I am good enough". Or "I am pretty" or what might be your problem. You can do that all by yourself, but if you don't know how, it will be a bit harder. Just look in the mirror and find something good about yourself, and work on it every day. Wake up in the morning, jump out of bed and say:"Today is going to be a good day" (arms high)
@HarmonyinJesus hehe, sorry about that. I wasn't saying you, as in HarmonyinJesus, I was saying you as in anyone. Was not enough letters to write: "If you have been talked down to all your life, you will need..." It was not ment as any kind of personal attack.
the next time my stepdad says something to me offense again, im sending this to him
MrSupasexi 3 weeks ago
HIS WIFE IS SOOO LUCKY !
BQ8911 1 month ago 2
not all womens will appreciate this some women will see this as a singh of wikness, and they'll start to criticise men, they will take that rol
dan82tl 2 months ago
This all goes for women too, you know! WHY DOES THE MAN HAVE TO FUCKING OWN EVERYTHING?
/end rant.
Insomiak 2 months ago
@Insomiak True (although we do own almost the majority of stuff) -__-"
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FeminismIsRespect 5 months ago
Made perfect sense talking about girls who shack up with guys who give them a little bit of attention. My ex's dad growing up used to tell her she looked like shit and would buy her make-up as a joke for gifts and now she is 22 years old and addicted to sending nude pictures to guys and posts naughty facebook pictures all the time just as a sub-concious desire for approval/attention from the opposite sex. I think in lamen terms this is called "daddy issues"
Trox118 7 months ago
This is as simple as people do not respond well to negative reinforcement. On the contrary positive reinforcement is extremely powerful. If your child or wife is generally a lethargic person and they do the slightest bit of picking up after themselves or exercise they must be graciously rewarded in one of the 5 love languages, touch, words, time... ect. Oldschool NLP.
Trox118 7 months ago
Wow so true, My dad has said some horrible things in the past what really knocked my confidence while he walks round with a huge ego.
RobzFanpire 7 months ago
women do this far more then men.
DamienX84 8 months ago
@DamienX84 thats the tragedy
samuelsixvids 7 months ago
My dad doesn't give a crap about me at all. He's never there for me, and he never will. I'm just someone that he can get away with calling me stupid and worthless. That's a MAJOR part of why I'm gonna be running away when I turn 18.
28scotland 9 months ago
@28scotland so..what's your plan after running away?
TheManGuyDude 8 months ago
@TheManGuyDude
What's it to you?
28scotland 8 months ago
@28scotland Just curious to what a 18 year old with NO money and NO life experience is gonna do.
TheManGuyDude 8 months ago
@28scotland Thats because men were never designed by mother nature to be there for you. Look at all the other animals on earth and you will understand what I mean.
BetroS83 8 months ago
okay men who are listening to this better listen up! im a young teenager and ma dad isnt a man! he used to hit me alot when i was little. men if u arent there for your daughters, (take it from me, and my suicidal freind who has been abused) they will go suicidal, and will not want to live anymore. seriously listen to this guy because no body should have to go through childhood with a daddy who wasn't there.
TheLizzieisawsome 10 months ago
so if my wife is fat, i should tell her she looks perfect so she could be happy and not worry about her weight, and health? if my kids are lacking in school, i should say good job?. He does have a point at times we could be more supportive, but this is more like the job of the mom, where she's all loveedobby. We men teach our kids dicipline and the meaning of respect. We're the dad, husband, and man of the house, not the sister, mom, or girlfriend. We should be at our place where we belong.
ackroh 11 months ago 6
@ackroh What you are describing is called flattery. If your kid is failing, and tell them they're doing a great job, that is a blatant lie! Mark is not telling men to flatter their wives and children. He is saying that men should find the good things, encourage them. I am a woman and detest being "loveedobby", give honest compliments and encouragement, not flattery. If your wife works hard every day to keep the house clean and cook, thank her. If you child is creative, encourage that.
26Kunoichi 10 months ago
@26Kunoichi i agree with the idea of embracing. Yet it isn't quite what he says. "Mark is not telling men to flatter their wives and children. He is saying that men should find the good things, encourage them" but what is he saying about the bad ones? -show them love that is the way. -That is a BLATANT lie!. you hate loveedobby? you must be the one with the cojones in your relashionship, often this leads to problems in the relashionship. depending how much of a man you get.
ackroh 10 months ago
@ackroh I Love my fiance, and I look up to him and respect him as the man he is. He is the leader in the relationship. By saying that I hate "loveedobby", I was saying that I do not like flattery, or the googoo gaga kind of "love". As for pointing out the faults in another. Yes, if a husband, wife, or child has a fault, by all means point it out. But don't tear them down while you do it. Constantly complaining about your wife's cooking, instead of helping her improve, only tears her down.
26Kunoichi 10 months ago
@26Kunoichi there's a way to tell things and communicate i agree, that is what should've bein said. Embrace the good things yes but, DEFINETLY not avoid the bad ones just because you might sound "horrible". Get to the point of things and that's that there's is no reason to act like wild monkeys, because we aren't.
Ppl often get mad when ppl tells them stuff. It is maybe because they don't look up to them or have the respect needed towards them.
ackroh 10 months ago 3
@ackroh Yes, exactly. It all boils down to a lack of respect and Love. If you truly want what is best for the other, then the other person will usually see that (especially if you downright tell them before the criticism comes). No one likes having their faults pointed out, but if you do it in a respectful way, then that is the best thing to do for the person.
Sometimes people need some bitter medicine, a little sugar about the good things they do helps it go down much easier though. :)
26Kunoichi 10 months ago
@26Kunoichi Lots of times what you're saying is the best thing to do. althought, the love for someone could make us not make the right desicion. Many times our love for someone is so great that our decisions will lean towards the benefit of the ones we love the most. I think the mentality shouldn't start or finnished with the love formula/base, but rather the thing that's important the most. with the blind decision, where we don't see names,colors, relashionships, but rather the action itself.
ackroh 10 months ago
@ackroh read 'whale done'. get it from a library, borrow it from someone, buy it through amazon. read it all the way through, twice, and then if you still think you need to say ONE HURTFUL THING to ANYONE, EVER, just try it. For a week, try it. And you'll see.
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pheromoneaction 11 months ago
And there, I thought that there was not a single man on earth who was able to think this way. I was brought up under the idea that I was not worth flippance, not so much in words but very much in deeds and tones, etc. Such an eye opener! (I don't suppose Mark Gungor has any young cousins...?)
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marjoriedebbieful 1 year ago
thats sooo true about my father. I know what you mean.
Jennifer009 1 year ago
AMEN!
Apriluv7779 1 year ago
Thank you for caring enough to understand women and their needs from men.
childsweethearts 1 year ago
OMG. Where was this man when I was growing up?! He should have said these words to my dad like 20 years ago! (>_<)
argentodelarosa 1 year ago 44
@argentodelarosa he sould have said this to my dad 10 years ago...
TheLizzieisawsome 9 months ago
@argentodelarosa ditto!
jeshikain 3 months ago
do not even needs to say terrible things it is far enough if you use a rude voice...just a simple question can be so rude, depending on your tone...
hiperjudu 1 year ago 16
@hiperjudu you sound like a person who complains a LOT! we man like our peace. if you want to keep your man around i will suggest for you to not complain so much and give him peace.
ackroh 10 months ago
agree
littlegiant1972 1 year ago
awsome.......
lovelylalitmehra 1 year ago
oooooooo, I know I've been messin that one up
samrayiii 1 year ago
it's called self image for a reason. It's the image of YOURSELF. If you let anyone tell you that you are not good enough, it's their image of you. It shouldn't affect you. Third party perspective is NOT important for your self image. Be happy with yourself
sawman85 1 year ago
@sawman85 True, but children and women who have been in abusive situations usually do not have the ability to distinguish between self-image and someone else's image. Especially when it's a husband/father, who is supposed to love them, saying something negative.
HarmonyinJesus 1 year ago
@HarmonyinJesus sure... you will need to have someone to tell you a few things. The first thing you could do would be to talk to yourself in the mirror saying:"I am good enough". Or "I am pretty" or what might be your problem. You can do that all by yourself, but if you don't know how, it will be a bit harder. Just look in the mirror and find something good about yourself, and work on it every day. Wake up in the morning, jump out of bed and say:"Today is going to be a good day" (arms high)
sawman85 1 year ago
@sawman85 Did I say that I needed that? Of course I like it, but I am pretty good at positive self-talk. I wasn't speaking of myself.
HarmonyinJesus 1 year ago
@HarmonyinJesus hehe, sorry about that. I wasn't saying you, as in HarmonyinJesus, I was saying you as in anyone. Was not enough letters to write: "If you have been talked down to all your life, you will need..." It was not ment as any kind of personal attack.
sawman85 1 year ago
@sawman85 lol, no problem. :)
HarmonyinJesus 1 year ago
@HarmonyinJesus
I totally agree !! and they begin to feel guilty too :S
God ! I hate this kind of men !! and there are mothers who are like this too
yomsha 1 year ago
Love this guyy
royroy3 1 year ago
This is SO TRUE!!!
SuperScreamingEagle 1 year ago 2