Thank you for teaching me how to love my beautiful Black Queen. We've been married for three years and I swear I am learning everyday. To all the haters who said we wouldn't last because we were too young (only 23 when I married) - we are still going strong!
this dedicated to all niggas listen to wat yo gurl got to has to say make her feel special and wanted cuz us women do have feeling so dont jus tawk show action for real and if u ladies feel me leave a comment under me
Mary Say: you'de rather tell me with your words, and thats alright but I'de gotta see it in your actions cuzz they dont lie. Man, I'm so sick of me.. I dont know what to do. Can somebody please send me the recipe for " How not to love the wronge mutha-fuca".
This song is true per most men will not continue to do what they did to getyou per they take us for granted or try to use reverse things to justify their actions. Good song
You gotta remember the way that you got me, cuzz thats the way to remember the way to keep me. Spend some time make me smile Ya ya yah.. Truth Be told. He can say anything right about now and I'm still gone. I cant do it no more.
WOOOOOW! TreySouljah you are awesome, you always have something good to say about our girl Mary. She would be proud to know of such loyal friends aswell as fans. I tried to leave you a personal messege TreySouljah but im not a friend of your page.
im really feelin this song!!i wonder if it works for a man to hear this!! will he do better?? idk im not havin these problems but im sure all women have these feelings at some point in her relationship
this song is some real s**t i can dig this song mary is a great inspration to me we yhe bad is gettin bad she knows wat to say to bring you back but n e wayz the real ones konw wat to to do keep they girl/ or man
I love this album!! Being in a relationship, I can relate to so many of these songs. Sometimes its good and sometimes its bad but if the love is worth it then it will be all good. My man really needs to hear this record!!!!
Well i sure do hope dat ma man hears dis song! hes been acting weird lately and i hope he changes!! he needs to start acting like Im THE ONE just like he tells me!
this is my favorite song on Mary J bige cd and shaking dOWN FEAT usher aslo I've my own version song (lyrics) of this song up since i've listening 2 this song.
mann i luv this song i cant get enough that beat just hits and her beautiful voice mannn and her words she is so real since forever thats mary j dis woman is the best
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! All day yo! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! And my lighter is truly up cannon! This song is going to burn a hole in the game watch. She is on some therpy shyt for all.Women,Men,Gay,Black,White,need i say more or do you already Know. Oh thats rite you know cause we waving and nodin and keepin our lighters up.(Have a good day yo!WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW(MJB here to stay)All day everyday.
Sing it Mary! Let men know what we women be feeling and thinking . "You gotta remember the way you got me is the way you gotta keep me".......
LovlyLelia 2 days ago
This is my shit!
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Mary is the true definition of a beautiful, strong, black woman.
Djaco007 3 weeks ago 3
thats one hell of an intro!
bydududu 1 month ago
see u gotta remember the way that u got me cuz thats the way u remember the way to keep me, spend some time, make me smile, yeah, yeah.
MimiLovesMJ 2 months ago
SO REAL
MimiLovesMJ 2 months ago
what a sexy mutherfkn song its real music that speaks 2 u
silenthill307 2 months ago
Mary gives me life!! I luv her!
Nyfittedboi 3 months ago
this is so real... i love this song
janae2012ful 3 months ago
I love dis song
prettymamaz21 3 months ago
so reallllll
ServantOfAllah0264 4 months ago
2 people are definitly not loved lol
jshankia 6 months ago
i love this song...
60shirley600 6 months ago
Mane im going thru this right now!!!!
TheDreachill1 6 months ago
this my song...it still be going off,, especially when its blasting in the car
tiarenemanigo 8 months ago 3
Damn, Mary must've live my life once before.... this song is exactly what I just went thru lastnight.... U need to prove u love me!
Qwenetta 8 months ago 4
( if u wanna be with me act like it be wid me) .. i love mary
theewifeytype15 10 months ago
If you love me...hold me, show me, ACT like I'm really the one...
or...
WE girls will be with the ones that do...;) xxx
SatanicAngelxxx 10 months ago
this my shit. i can listen to the whole cd [growing pains] without skipping any songs <3
MiaaniDaprincess 1 year ago
@MiaaniDaprincess ME 2!
myblock2007 10 months ago
Luv this song.....I used to play this for my husband when he started acting up lol!!! 20 times in a row.....he got with the program real quick!!
shirajai 1 year ago 4
Mary is doing the damn thing! She will break a brother down! Real Talk!!!
bklyn1209 1 year ago
Man o man.. thiis iis myy joiint....!!!!!!
NekeySoSweet 1 year ago
WOWWWW! GOOSE BUMPS!!!
tonia7172 1 year ago
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tonia7172 1 year ago
action dnt lie ....i love u boo
nishaylove22 1 year ago
This song goes hard...like it a lot.
919NigGa 1 year ago
Love this song!!! "I expect that you treat me the best"
SuperSmiles7 1 year ago
On our trip to SC, this played on my dad's Zune, fell in love with it <3
GirlYouDontKnow1237 1 year ago
i love this songg
shayshay12ish 1 year ago
them ol timers know what they be talkin bout she done been through it all
Nyblatino12 1 year ago
mary always hits home gotta love her
fashiongurlygurl18 1 year ago
Hey Mary does it again... a major hit...
lynda000 1 year ago
Luv dis tune!!!
wish the girl I LOVE WUD LEMME LOVE HER
Guess Im unlucky as I have done exactly what this song says
Great tune
VinceAubrey 1 year ago 2
RANDOM BUT... THIS WOMAN HAS HELPED ME LOVE MYSELF AND KNOW ITS OK TO EMBRACE YOURSELF. I LUV YOU MARY!
shayboogie1231 1 year ago
love how she mixes hip hop beatz to keep tha melody alive***---**
miiluv11 1 year ago
Me and my baby song!
blacksjazz1096 1 year ago
This Is One Of My Favo'ss ? .
fursedivastyle 1 year ago
i love this song always and forever my baby james "danielle"
youngtroydalumberjac 2 years ago
i love this song mary really uplift me with all her songs
The2Pretty4u 2 years ago 2
ii LOVE DiiS SONG !!! =]
09Dria 2 years ago
Dats My Shit!!!!!!
wokenia235 2 years ago 3
The tru
chyniloves 2 years ago 2
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i LOVE THis SONG SO MUCH
N00KAFBABi 2 years ago
Thank you for teaching me how to love my beautiful Black Queen. We've been married for three years and I swear I am learning everyday. To all the haters who said we wouldn't last because we were too young (only 23 when I married) - we are still going strong!
marriedblackman11415 2 years ago 5
thats bueatiful congradulations
dimedame1 2 years ago
thats whats up
Dee49546 2 years ago
WELL gOD BLESS YOU ANND YOUR WIFE!! STAY ENCOURAGED!!!
Trininow526 2 years ago
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Sounds like i'm a flirt by r kelly
ILuvOmarionG 3 years ago
good song
markuon 3 years ago 4
u gota rememba the way that u got me cuz that the way to rememba the way to keep me (i luv this song)
sexyke08 3 years ago
if he really loves you damn't if this song can't teach him theirs no hope love is love
easthigh101 3 years ago 3
nice shit rite here
markuon 3 years ago 3
its tha queeeeeen!!
getthatgaupe 3 years ago 9
im loves dis song it speaks da truth im cryin rite now cuz it fit me n my bf relationship
AugPeach706 3 years ago 2
CJ~ Listen to every word of this song... it's what I've been feeling.... Love, Nina
titan0419 3 years ago 4
this is soooo real..i love this song
kristenloren08 3 years ago 26
this is definitely a message i would like to get through. mary writes lyrics that are real. they're not phony.
missemiko 3 years ago 3
DiS iS MY SONG
ZiABABi12 3 years ago 2
why he hurt me y could'nt u tell me 8yrs never been so hurt he was my everything i just hope that i be ok man it hurt
BEDSTUY35 3 years ago 2
My fav song of the album..n mjb is so real.. yeah she iz def. ma role modle!!
Akom1991 3 years ago
beautiful! i love this song..every word is the truth!!
..lorraine♥
pineapple11891 3 years ago 3
fuckin off da hook dis song!!!! keep it comin Mary...u da shit girl!
Hahyngurrl 3 years ago
Mary would be like a role modle for all women all ages. i mean i could look up to her just because of her music
dmjlolabunny11 3 years ago
carmalfruit i feel u on this holla back!!!!
SwediShspartan 3 years ago
thanx lol
carmalfruit 3 years ago
this dedicated to all niggas listen to wat yo gurl got to has to say make her feel special and wanted cuz us women do have feeling so dont jus tawk show action for real and if u ladies feel me leave a comment under me
carmalfruit 3 years ago
Hallelujah Sistah!!! Say it again please..
TreySouljah 3 years ago
Mary Say: you'de rather tell me with your words, and thats alright but I'de gotta see it in your actions cuzz they dont lie. Man, I'm so sick of me.. I dont know what to do. Can somebody please send me the recipe for " How not to love the wronge mutha-fuca".
Film at 11
TreySouljah 3 years ago
i feel da same fukn way
carmalfruit 3 years ago 4
This song is true per most men will not continue to do what they did to getyou per they take us for granted or try to use reverse things to justify their actions. Good song
awaken1974 3 years ago
dis da best songgg off da album
tisonc13 3 years ago
This song is hot, mary j is the bitch!!!!
melrow24 3 years ago
i<3 it!!!!!!
Bayluv101 3 years ago
this song is fire she always comes back with a hit album
splitu 3 years ago
Just listen and tell me what you think, I say 2 thumbs up!!!!!!
suckaboy69 3 years ago
Now for the past three weeks you've been dippin', slippin', runnin' 'round, through the city through the town...
I love that part. This is probably my favorite track off of Growing Pains.
natedogg7121 3 years ago 3
i completely agree
teaceizme 3 years ago 2
Mary is fire!
alteri 3 years ago 4
You gotta remember the way that you got me, cuzz thats the way to remember the way to keep me. Spend some time make me smile Ya ya yah.. Truth Be told. He can say anything right about now and I'm still gone. I cant do it no more.
TreySouljah 3 years ago 6
WOOOOOW! TreySouljah you are awesome, you always have something good to say about our girl Mary. She would be proud to know of such loyal friends aswell as fans. I tried to leave you a personal messege TreySouljah but im not a friend of your page.
suckaboy69 3 years ago
MARY IS JUST SIMPLY THE BEST
straightouttawest 3 years ago 4
this song is hott and imma let my man hear dis
dancebre92 3 years ago 2
all i can say is damn!! mary never slacks!!
msjas06 3 years ago 2
damn dis song is hot i luv how her vocals are. I feel dis song 100% dis is all i ask from my man.
snowbuny07 3 years ago 7
I'm just glad to hear a real love song
lovelee2k2 3 years ago 4
can we feel the music w/o the "b" reference?
simplym322 3 years ago 6
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im really feelin this song because i can relate to it.Keep it up bitch
lady2332 3 years ago
frm my sister i love uu maryy i love dis songg
hypez1234 3 years ago 4
lOVE tHiS SONG!!!!!!!!!!
howshemove1 3 years ago 5
im really feelin this song!!i wonder if it works for a man to hear this!! will he do better?? idk im not havin these problems but im sure all women have these feelings at some point in her relationship
teaceizme 3 years ago 4
u can really feel wat she is sayin in dis song i luv it so much and her song smoke
mzarab013 3 years ago 3
i love dis song sooooooo much...MJB snapped wit dis song......dis the next best 1 since be without u
bbdc315 3 years ago 5
LUVSDIS SONG IT'S JUST SO REAL
rebel2hott 3 years ago 4
this is my shit. I can listen to this song ten times in a row.
brandnewmap 3 years ago 39
I did yesterday when I discovered and the situation is whats going on right now in my life. Such a good song...
tw6652a 3 years ago 8
I did yesterday when I discovered and the situation is whats going on right now in my life. Such a good song...
tw6652a 3 years ago 3
this is real and i love it because im the type that believes things when i see it, and she really expresses this in the song...luv it MJB!
ladyk0592
ladyk0592 3 years ago 8
wow her songs as real as real can be.
bj1013 3 years ago 5
this song is some real s**t i can dig this song mary is a great inspration to me we yhe bad is gettin bad she knows wat to say to bring you back but n e wayz the real ones konw wat to to do keep they girl/ or man
lola2sexy 3 years ago 4
I love this album!! Being in a relationship, I can relate to so many of these songs. Sometimes its good and sometimes its bad but if the love is worth it then it will be all good. My man really needs to hear this record!!!!
marykaygirl815 3 years ago 7
Well i sure do hope dat ma man hears dis song! hes been acting weird lately and i hope he changes!! he needs to start acting like Im THE ONE just like he tells me!
rachael2213 3 years ago 3
i love 2:21-2:33
Beyonce247 4 years ago 3
looooooooooove diz song it iz currently on my myspace page 2~1~08
BOWWOW1NONLIWIFE 4 years ago 4
is this song in her new album?
i dont see the name in CD!!!
toxicjinni 4 years ago 2
Yeah, da name of da song iz IF YOU LOVE ME
illkickyourass07 4 years ago
I wish my ex woulda heard this
girlgotgame2010 4 years ago 6
i luv dis song she sayin da truth man dis babe is cold wit he lyrics!!!!
vanables 4 years ago 2
this song is hot
l luv u mary
u r the best
shanekawil 4 years ago
love this song
Kennyswifey 4 years ago 3
All I can say is. YEEEAAAAHHHHHHHAYYYYEEEEAAAAAHHHHHHHHH
uknowdastory 4 years ago 3
this is my favorite song on Mary J bige cd and shaking dOWN FEAT usher aslo I've my own version song (lyrics) of this song up since i've listening 2 this song.
brooklie57 4 years ago 3
Mary I have always been your number one fan. Everything you sang sound good. I respect you and yo music to the fullest. This is a good song.
ooiiuu00 4 years ago 4
mann i luv this song i cant get enough that beat just hits and her beautiful voice mannn and her words she is so real since forever thats mary j dis woman is the best
alicia4018 4 years ago 6
this is a st8 hit...I LUVVVVV IT
Scillas3rdChild 4 years ago 2
Oh Mary....ALL I can say is...you are the best!
Dee49546 4 years ago
oh mary..........wot u doin 2me.lovin it.
justwilliam73 4 years ago 3
this song is great i love it!
StrawBerryMuffin24 4 years ago
this song is great i love it!
StrawBerryMuffin24 4 years ago 2
This song is crazy hot. Damn Mary never disappoints
alteri 4 years ago 9
luv it
crunkrat85 4 years ago
I LOVED IT WITHIN THE FRIST 10 SEC.
wlta2 4 years ago 2
ALL THAT I CAN SAY IS HOT MARY!
sexy504slim 4 years ago
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the first note is a k-ci note.
lady1niki 4 years ago
I noticed that as well....tryna jab back at his ass lol
ntg1crip 4 years ago 3
this is the best song in the album.
B. Cox's magic always WORKS!
jerwills 4 years ago 2
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
iccfloors 4 years ago
This song is hott! Can't help but nod your head and put your lighters up, lol. Can we get a wave going? LOL
drew27401 4 years ago 6
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! All day yo! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! WAVE! And my lighter is truly up cannon! This song is going to burn a hole in the game watch. She is on some therpy shyt for all.Women,Men,Gay,Black,White,need i say more or do you already Know. Oh thats rite you know cause we waving and nodin and keepin our lighters up.(Have a good day yo!WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW(MJB here to stay)All day everyday.
greffen123 3 years ago 6
This song rocks
baccari2 4 years ago 4