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  • WHY WOULD ANYONE DISLIKE THIS SONG

  • This is the "Phil Collins version" of this song (peaked #4 in the US). You can hear his backing vocals throughout the song after the drums kick in.

  • Check out my cover of "No One is to Blame" on iTunes!

    Thanks,

    JULES LARSON

  • I was 18 yrs young when this song hit no. 1. I loved it then and I still do.

  • "Aspirations in the clouds but your hopes go down the drain "

    the story of my life!!

  • 38 PPL WITH ABSOLUTELY NO TASTE FOR A CLASSIC

  • Love the collaboration with Phil Collins on this track. Classic stuff.

  • My favorite song from the '80's. I started working for a company on February 10, 1986, and about a month later this song came out on the radio. We had about seven people in a large room and we all listened to one radio. I heard this song so many times, but I loved it - I could not get enough of it. It brings back memories of working for a great company with great people.

  • I only lived 3 years in the Bay Area, but having a Howard Jones tune on the car radio, driving in at 4 a.m. to Palo Alto to work from Portola Valley (we lived in a cabin! in the foothills), or up the Bayshore Freeway to San Francisco, was/is a touchstone memory of that time in my life ... :)

  • If you want to blame anyone it's the 38 ppl who disliked this video

  • not only that the music of the 80s were great, their lyrics makes sense as well....

  • The Eighties were the decade when music stopped being Black or White. There was still R&B, pop and rock music, but the lines blurred in the decade. Everybody sang everybody's music. In the crowds at the concerts you saw teased up blonde hair next to drippy Jheri curls, preppy shirts next to parachute pants. We all dug the music the same. I miss those days.

  • I love the complexity of this song. It acknowledges natural temptations, but also the strength and worthwhile sacrifice of doing the right thing.

  • He's a great artist. Today's generation has no idea what they missed out on.

    80's music defined a lot of emotions.

  • To throbbin87...don't be sad. You don't know how things might have turned out with the one you think you should have been with. You may have dodged a nightmare. You will never know. What you do have is the person you did wind up with, and that person is with you. Anybody who is with us is worth far more than the memory of a person who isn't. Good luck and be happy.

  • In this song, I don't think the intent was to describe a romantic relationship, but instead, Jones refers to her/she to represent life fulfillment...attainment of Maslow's highest need...self-actualization. The song can be interpreted, in that context, by both men and women of any sexual orientation. I do believe that was the artists intentional message.

  • 38 ppl ARE to blame!!!

    

  • @darian137 nah, those 38 people were brave enough to take the shot and ask the girl out :(

  • 38 ppl ARE to blame!!!

  • There's a lot to be said for music that shares softer emotions like regret, loss, and longing. That may be the seeming disconnect in today's music. Angst and crude lust seem to dominate.

  • Howard's finest song made 10x better by the production, drum playing and backing vocals provided by Phil Collins.

  • who wrote it ? who sings it ? who plays it ? believe it or Not,,,, The guy in the Video,,, who woulda thought.

  • One of the greatest gifts of music is its ability to take you back in time and relive experiences and people. Music of the 80s makes me remember great times.

  • "Aspirations in the clouds but your hopes go down the drain" the story of my life!!!

  • gay

  • @mexicandamon Shut up you idiot! I will never understand anyone who cannot simply appreciate this sort of music for how brilliant it is. Yes, the 80's was agreat decade for music. Why can'r we have anything like it today. It makes me sad.

  • @proto1type

    i just don't like dis guy

  • Lets not forget Phil Collins providing the percussions for this song people!!!

  • One of my favorite songs from the 80's! What a great song - I thank God everyday I was a child of the 80's! I tell the young kids today they have been robbed of good music. I feel bad for them....

  • My mom laughs at me when I walk around the house with my I pod listening to her 80's music. I just laugh and tell her I love it.

  • The 70s and disco awesomer.

  • Ah... the memories.. 80's was an awesome decade. I even miss the 80s fashion.

  • @iceman1292

    Do you miss the big hair? lol

  • Howard Jones rules!

  • Ahhhh, the memories! : )

  • This is a super awesome song. I get sentimental listening -- I am taken back to really nice 80's memories. I never took the time to attend a concert, but sure wish I had. Listening now is almost just as good! Thank you, Howard! And, thank you, You tube!!

  • This is a super awesome song. I get sentimental listening -- I am taken back to really nice 80's memories. I never took the time to attend a concert, but sure wish I had. Listening now is almost just as good! Thank you, Howard!

  • I wish I could have listened to it with my true love....

  • I wish I could have listened to it with my true love....

  • I don't know what he is saying (outside the chorus), but it sounds good.

  • this version has always been my favorite. that phil collins is a nifty producer & worked well with hojo on this version.

  • I danced to this song in high school with a guy I really liked, but never suspected he liked me. At the end of the song, he gave me a long, passionate kiss, & then asked me out. I felt like I was the luckiest girl in school, until we broke up 6 months later...

    Still love the song, though!

  • Loved this song back then & still do. It helped me through the heart breaks & we all know what that's like.......just like the song says!

  • @TheDJTee - I hope it will help me get through also...

  • its amazing how much better songs from the 80s sound nowadays. what a great song !!!!

  • beautiful song... just exquisite

  • in the 80's. i usually thought i would hear another good songs or even better songs tomorrow. but i didn't even know i had already been and grew up in the best decade of music.

  • So lets break the rules, and cut the cost,,,saddle up and lock and load....its go time skippy!!!!

  • Great song :)

  • the best male vocalist of the 1980s.i can hear every word he sings!

  • Music in the 80's was fundamentally complete. It was the foundation of who we were then that extends to the present. I'm still me...from back then... to today. Those days and those sounds are alive and well with me in my heart and in who I am.. I don't dress like that anymore lol, but I know music like this will live on when my 15 year old daughter walks through the house singing "no one is to blame". It puts a big smile on my face when she says "dad the 80's were awesome"! I say yes...they were

  • @jessyoutwo But they weren't awesome. They sucked. I was there. Still, I had a yen for this song.

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  • @jessyoutwo Amen brother, amen. I was 15 in 85 and the 80's will forever live as the best years of my life.

  • @jessyoutwo - thanks for the wonderful sharing of your thoughts. You make my day!

  • @jessyoutwo

    I fundamentally agree, I was into Howard, Echo & Bunnies, Nick Kershaw, Duran Duran, Gary Numan. Still love them. But rarely listen now. I have moved well past this period of my life and you are more likely to find in my collection; Muse, Radiohead, MGMT, Tame Impala, Interpol, Empire Of The Sun, Psytrance, GOA Tech House. Ive been very progressive with my music. I still like the 80s bands, but that sound has moved into and is inherent in some fantastic new retro groups & sound.

  • @jessyoutwo My children and I safety dance through the house. That music held magic.

  • @jessyoutwo ...I agree 100% (Class of 84 here)...and thats AWESOME!

  • Good song, good sound, good musician 

  • This is one song that got me through the my senior year in high school all the way to graduation. I can't believe it's been 25 years since that song came out. Where has time gone by? Wow!

  • Heart and Soul. Give a little bit of... t'pau.

    And then we all grew up. Enduring all the pain, wondering when someone would come along and give us a little bit of...

    Heart and Soul. Aspirations in the clouds.

  • Really miss the 80's

  • One of the greatest hits of the 80's!! All the best to you guys, thanks for the beautiful music and the nostalgia.

  • there was so much great music in the '80's and hearing howard sing this great song bring back the fun of listening to the music then and this song sounds even better now. the vocalists of today need to take a listen to some real music.

  • there´s no dout the best decade for music....the 80´s,wht a beautiful song

  • HJ - you ever think about touring again?

  • 尾崎豊のライブ前にかかってた曲かな

  • 25 years old...and the song still has a message....well for me at least it did, whom I should have been and who I wound up with....both...very sad...

  • @throbbin87 ...check out another 80's song "NEVER SURRENDER!"....you're still young, Life DOES go on AND when the shit hits the fan remember...."This too SHALL pass!".....Good Luck!

  • DR. said your cure but you still but you still fill the pain you just love HOWARD JONES the best years of my life thanks this shit they have out here now is bull shit peace out

  • DR said your cure but you still have pain thats no shit guss ill just take a dilaudid or a oxycontin wont let my hope go down the drain love this song

  • I forgot to mention Phil Collins Back Up Vocals are a very noticable in the mix. Just perfect!!

  • I agree. Phil Collin's drumming on here is perfect!! Typical Phil Sound, Phil's Fills, Phil's snare sound.. 

  • what a beautiful song

  • I SO MISS THE 80s

  • How odd. To take the blame for the past...but forgetting how much it hurts the present. It just keeps tearing you down. But it also takes away from others...leaving you totally alone. I have to thank you....for the heartache. I take the blame for allowing it tho. You see...I fell in love.......and my love does not seem to be enough. You don't let go of that past......and live for now. I need to be happy with someone who will be happy with me....and the past will be erased....if you let it.

  • 36 people have been blamed.

  • Some of Phil Collins' best drumming & BVs!

  • THIS IS GOING TO TAKE A LOT OF BALLS...BUT I HAVE FINALLY FREE MYSELF OF THIS..I AM THE ONE THAT FUCKED UP THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, WITH MY X WIFE LAURA OF LONG ISLAND..DAMN....I WAS TO BLAME, 100000000%..IM SO SORRY I SCREWED YOU UP AND KILLED THE RELATIONSHIP WE HAD FOR 19 GREAT YEARS, TIL I BLEW IT...

    I HAVE TO LEARN NOT TO DO THAT AGAIN...THANX FOR BEING YOU WHEN WE WERE THE HAPPIEST COUPLE IN THE WORLD.I WISH YOU ONLY THE BEST OF LUCK IN LIFE, PLEASE DO THE SAME FOR ME...pete.ruff from rex

  • hea i was born 1965 and im a black male and was brought up on some of the best music love howard jones and wil be there fore him and his music much love one black brother nothing but the best howard jones love peace and happiesness no one ever is to blame

  • Fantastic !!!

  • Love Howard Jones, but this is my favorite. Probably because it was 1986, my senior year.

  • Never listened to the lyrics before. Great writing!

  • Doctor says I'm cured-Well why the hell don't I feel that way.

  • This song is amazing Thank you!!

  • Good songs are always good songs even 30 years later

  • I agree with you folks about the 80s...............good times, enjoy the music with someone you cared about, night clubs that played good dance music, and hanging out late nights eating at any restaurant that was open :)

  • Class of 1985 here.Great era for music although it seems that we,the people that lived the greatest times of their teenage years are the only ones who love and miss the 80s.I have younger friends that call the 80s the worst decade for music,I constantly defend.Dont insult a time when you were just a small child instead of an adventurous and wild teen,you just dont know,cartoons maybe.Sorry for the rant.Many feelings and memories from the 80s.Miss them dearly.

  • @theburningattack- Its about relationships and the "ground rules" of not cheating on your partner, but you can fall in and out of love- "You can look at the menu, but you cant eat" I seen him live and he talked about it and he is an incredible artist!!

  • When this song came out.....I was living the Primest Years of my life....had a LOT of fun, made stupid decisions...but hey that's the sign of a good life, right? Thanks for the post, and rehashing some Great times, for me.......

  • You are someone else...... I am still, right here......

  • Always loved Howard Jones. Freat artist. 80's was a great time for music that's for sure

  • howard. you and nik are finally being notice again. about time. see u both in concert time. x

  • This is a great song, from a great time, from a great artist!

  • Just watched an episode of Everybody Hates Chris with my daughter, and she said mom you know this song. I couldnt remember who sung the song, but i just typed in the chorus and up it popped. Thanks for posting such a classic from the 80's!!!

  • Okay, it's a yes, that's Phil Collins on the drums; he is also credited with background vocals and producing this album, according to allmusic.com. Cool!

  • @trailerlivin wow, that is very cool, phil collins was the man back in the day, helping with songs and producing all kinds of stuff, we probably truely dont really know how much influence he had on music in general. Phils been in the backround for a long time.

  • This sounds like Phil Collins on the drum kit. Anyone got the info?

  • Oh where, oh where, has all of the musical talent gone ?

  • ohhh what a feeling this song gives you when everything in your life is crazy, just sit back and listen to this song and its all brand new again!!!!

  • this song came out on my 16th birthday!!!!!!

  • Ah The Brits have so much to say!!! I wish everyone would listen???!!! I truly believe we'd be in a better place!!

  • Unforgettable!!!!!!!

  • The 80's..... was the last era of music.

  • A lyrical MASTERPIECE

  • I miss talent. I miss talent really bad.

  • @BartelDoo Talent is everywhere the only problem is that you don't want to move on.

  • Thanks for posting =)

  • I want her, and if she wants me...

  • beautiful,relaxing tune from the 80s ;)

  • This is GANGSTA.

  • Looks like 34 people want to blame somebody

  • I picture my 8th grade, summer picnics, and smiles all around. This was the nice 80s. Good music, not the cheese. Thanks for posting.

  • I picture my 8th grade, summer picnics, and smiles all around. This was the nice 80s. Good music, not the cheese. Thanks for posting.

  • now this is the 80s better then that todays music bring back the 80s

  • Reminds me of being in love in the 80s. Great times.

  • 80s is alot better then todays crap

  • no one one one is to blame!got a video called videostars from the 80s vhs and hes videos on it!!miss the 80s :0(

  • Cmon Howie make a comeback!!

  • No decade of music will ever touch the 80's...Pure heart and soul!

  • One of my all time favorite songs.

  • Fantastic so many memories of the 80's. Howard live @ NEC FAB!!!!

  • coming out music

  • The best part about the 80's is that most of the artists weren't exeactly the best looking.....but....no one cared about it back then. Music is for the ears....the eyes shouldn't have any say in it.

  • @Surannhealz  I was quite the Duran Duran fan then......uh...hmmmm THEY WERE HOTTT

  • @Surannhealz Well said !!!

  • @Surannhealz: Maybe not, but it was difficult to be unattractive AND still be successful, during those first 8 or 10 years of MTV...

  • @Surannhealz I am glad that you said that, for people today think it is all about looks. Real artists worked on their talent and had style and showmanship. Today's artist look like either prostitutes, or one who just got out of parole. Oh, let's not forget that women in the 80's dressed with class.

  • @Surannhealz << So true... look at Simple Minds. But they were still one of the best back then.

  • @Surannhealz The fashion got rather outrageous.

  • @millertas yeah, good thing we have common sense and toned down outfits now, eh? (sarcasm included) I'd take the most outrageous 80s outfits any day over the bling garbage today. Or rather, meat hanging off of singers.

  • @Surannhealz Your comment made me smile, something I don't do very often. Thanks.

  • @Surannhealz well said

  • @Surannhealz and for the heart. today's artist are so caught up in image and it really shows. so fake.

  • @Surannhealz Exactly. Remember Boy George? No one cared that HE looked like a SHE. We just loved his music. I miss the 80s.

  • This is a song people should slow-dance to, not hip hop ballads! Its just sinful that music just isn't made the same anymore!

    I hope 2011 makes music better, if it doesn't I'll be sorry I ever heard of Lady Gaga. Howard Jones is so long before Lady Gaga, that its just too bad that he isn't as famous at the moment!

  • @SamuraiClinton its also quite creepy how a Lady Gaga video for Bad Romance came up when this video ended.

  • this is when music meant something...

  • @eyvonne1120 Excactly.There was a ton of music in the 80s that two people could slow dance to,really get close,look that person in the eyes,beautiful stuff.What do they do today for that?I was a freshman in highschool in 1980,cant hit the 80s any better than that.Great music and great times,I really miss it.

  • Reminds me of an old girlfriend. All bittersweet.

  • Billboard's #44 song of '86. Howard hit # AC, #4 pop, #20 rock, in the US. How'd he do in the UK? God bless!

  • smell actually triggers more memory than any other sense

  • The Album version is differnt then this. This is the 45 RPM version which includes Phil collins on drums and vocals

  • Why on the greatest hits album did they take the backing vocals of Phil Collins out????

  • family guy

  • great song, crap hairstyle.

  • great song, crap hair (wish i had some left.)

  • With Phil Collins on drums and back vocals, please !!!

  • why did he release this shit.

  • sing it brother

  • 80s-90s music is the best, memorable, not like now, shit music

  • rock music's greatest wuss

  • i remember wanting ot go see howard jones in 1984 to take my girlfriend at the time

    i couldnt get a ticket so we ended up going to see nik kershaw at the royal concert hall about november 84 instead

    then last monday 6th dec 2010 i went to a 80's rerwind tour date at sheffield and saw howard jones, the christians and A.B.C all in one night

    AWESOME !! and he still sounds as good now as he did then

    i do miss the good old days of the 80's

    now where DID i put my time machine ??

  • INDEED..The Good Soul will always ask for music first.....One must always remember themselves...then and NOW!

    That is that...AMEN

  • This songs brings back very bittersweet memories!! 

  • this song reminds me of happier times better days friends and loved ones sadly missed

  • reminds of smoking weed and how i should be smoking weed right now

  • @bte41  like like that

    you think we can get together hahahahahaha

  • This is the 80's best song.

  • @Saltor66 and who made that decision?

    Are you Howard Jones trying to persuade people your song is uber? Granted, it's a nice song.... but I don't think it's remotely close to the best song of the 80's. I'd say it's in the top 20 though.

  • @hospitalbedpan1 It simply is my own opinion.

    Exactly as your reply is.

  • @hospitalbedpan1 Let the person have a favorite song!

  • itsinthenet. Were you kidding when you said you didn't understand what he was trying to say here?

  • Man this song is what I call real music. It is BEAUTIFUL ;_;

  • Condescencion is NOT a virtue.

  • WRONG!

    My lying, cheating ex-girlfriend IS to blame!

    Stupid f**king whore almost killed me AND actually did kill (by abortion) some other guy's baby.

  • I love this song...return to the 80's...it's amazing...his voice is the same today...

  • amazing songwriting skills from Howard here, and excellent backup singing work from Phil...who also helped produce the track

  • I really love this beautiful song, it has stayed with me for over 25 years! I remember rushing to Woolworths record blitz in my school lunch hour (Greggs sausage roll in hand) and spending my pocket money on the Dream into Action cassette... happy days. The other version on YouTube are worth a listen too.

  • 31 people who don't understand wanting something you can't have.

  • I wouldn't say this is my favorite song. But I did like it. This song has always intrigued me because I never could quite figure out what Mr. Jones was trying to say through it.

  • Loved this song...loved the lyrics of Howard Jones songs.

    TheMechwarrior salutes you.

  • Ah, when pop music had a heartbeat and a soul... good times. :)

  • @shinyhappylong you mean when music was made by people not computers