[Dating Advice] Part 10: Can I recover from a bad first impression I made on a woman?

[HercegovacNo1]

Dear friend, I have read your book and watched all of your videos. It has helped me a lot, thank you!

I have one question. There was a girl very interested in me and I had the "control", but I was slow to take the things to the next level. As the time passed I contacted her a lot and she has noticed I am very interested in her and started acting uninterested and I lost the "control". After a while I got the impression she is not interested and I stopped contacting her. What should i do now?

[dpowers1]

@HercegovacNo1 Unfortunately, you failed her test of your confidence and self-esteem. However you can recover. To get back control, you have to remember that she does like you. You also have to stop waiting for her to help you out through the escalation phase of The Flow. Stop “chatting” with her and meet her face to face so you can KISS her. Kissing will change things from being friendly to sexual. Then, have sex with her. Sex will begin the relationship.

[creativeways1]

I also believe that there is ways to turn a bad mistake into a long lasting relationship.

I think these videos are really very good and good for those shy people like me

[totoybandojo]

Hey Dan, all these tips are really amazing and all, but can you give us some tips on meeting women in the online world?

Let's say I found this really hot, gorgeous (and somewhat popular) girl on facebook and I added her up. She approves my friend request some time later. How do I get her attention? And how do I avoid coming across as a creep or a stalker? Thanks

[dpowers1]

@totoybandojo She'll immediately go and look at your photos to see if you're cool or not. Make sure there are photos of you with hot chicks and doing cool stuff. Absolutely make sure that there are NO photos of you on your own where you are holding back and taking a photo of yourself at home alone...nothing screams lonely loser like those photos.

Also, make some interesting and positive comments on a couple of her photos. Start a convo with her in a private message.