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  • its funny they usually never are there until ou're gone then they are crying that we need to come home

  • This was my favorite song when i was 6

  • to women everywhere, if there not tears of joy, he's not worth it

  • @MrCaserious I agree with you completely, but I can tell you from experience that most of them won't listen.

  • i love this song

    and my friend pick this song for my ex

  • Nice backing and Steel Guitar.Barry.

  • When the "World of warcraft" Advertisment is by the video and looks like the guy is dancing to the music.

  • Guys, stand up to the people who hurt girls. If it comes to a fight you cant lose:

    If you win, your their hero

    If you lose the fight, they think your the bravest people alive.

    Trust me, i know (wince)

  • Story. of my life. except this would be my step dad talking to my real dad

  • definitely one of his best songs

  • this is for my ex

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  • what no video ,rats ! I still love Gary Allan anyhow. I wonder if my exes ever think of my when they hear this song .LMAO if they do .NO more sorry jerks for me though . I got a good guy minus the couch potato dirt poor part of it all . OH well you can't always get /have everything in life ,um.

  • i mean you would stand up to the one that would hurt your girl

  • i love this song it is number 1 to me and if you were a real man then you would stand up for the people who hurt your girl

  • love this song!!!

  • Gary Allen is the MAN Toby Keith is a wanker. Thats the truth

  • @penn707 The truth is... there both good....

  • a guy callin another guy out for the way he treats a women... epic (:

    

  • love this song

    

  • This song sounds like a direct reply to Doug Stones "Why didnt I think of that". Listen to Doug Stones song, then listen to this one. Its pretty crazy!

  • @Escobar9300 thats crazy it really does lol

  • mmm mmmmm mmm Gary Allen <3

  • love this song

  • Were you ever there when she needed you??

  • people need to stop judging him is an awesome singer and i love his songs

  • what year did this come out 2002?

  • Im 16 years old i was with a guy for 5 years and he cheated on me for 4 years and got 3 girls prego then stared beating the last two, i wish i could see him face a real man, He beat me so many times, and i was scared to leave him because i knew he would try to hurt

  • @brittlievsay Did somebody ask you about your ex?

  • @chunkapher Did somebody ask for your input?

  • @fordtruckman013 Did somebody ask YOU for YOUR input? Stupid ass cunt.

  • @chunkapher No, but you don't have to be a fucking douche just because someone said something that doesn't have shit to do with you. Let her say what she fucking wants and quit tryin' to be a dick.

  • @fordtruckman013 Oh you're the boyfriend?? suck my cock.

  • I can remember ridin' to school with tunes like this playin' in my dad's old chev 3/4 ton (forget year, think it was around a '81-'83)

  • i really wish radio would give him the air time he deserves. alot of people are judging him because of the tattoos or whatever. it has no affect on his music and he continues to crank out the same emotion filled and meaningful music that he has for years! i for one will never stop listening to his music!

  • This song has made me start listening to country a lot more.

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  • i think hes sexy with all the tattoos

  • @frostymommy79 you and me both! XD

  • I wish every guy could be like Gary, so nice to women and kids! im only 15 but still!! i know what i want in a guy! lol

  • I went to his house when i was in TN! he has a nice house and a cute dog! :)

  • it won't play for some reason and its friven me crazy

  • this song is to my ex from my husband. my ex never did and thing for me and treated me like shit

  • I love this song and can relate to it soooo well..think this is the first song I heard by him so dedicated to yes an ex of course. If you truly love someone you do treat them well period

  • I wish he'd put out more songs like this. The pop-country gig is not working for him.

  • i loveeeee this song! wish i could meet his sexy self someday!!! xoxoxo

  • @HNJ1005 I saw him in concert, he sang to me!!!!

  • if you really loved her why'd you make er cryyie??

    answer me!!

  • love this song and yes i lived it too my ex was a ass and hit me all the time so i feft his ass and married a real man

  • LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!!!!!!! GIVES A LITTLE MORE UMPH WHEN YOU HEAR SOMEONE SAYING THAT SOMEONE ELSE BROKE THE RELATIONSHIP UP, BUT YET DIDNT TAKE THE TIME TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TURNED THAT PERSONS HEAD. THE ONLY REASON PEOPLE CHEAT IS CAUSE THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT THEY ARE NOT GETTING..... SIT BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE RELATIONSHIP, EVEN IF YOU THINK ITS PERFECT. IF YOU LOVE THAT PERSON SO MUCH, YOU WILL KEEP HER FOREVER. <3

  • this song has been stuck in my head for days! :)

  • a real man don't hit his girl or wife he treats her with patience,lots of attention and take her places she'snever been before,atten her needs and desires,and help her do things at home and other ways a girl is to held and loved and touched ,now thats a real man thats what i do that is a man who hits his girl or wife is just going to lose her to the next man

  • @etat5866  well said

  • @etat5866 you are so right

  • 20 people are pansies bcuz they wont settle anything man to man

  • Um....wow this just freaked me out this morning.......can there be two....and are they the same lol......hmmmm well I Love Gary Alan he is the bomb...

  • without the hat, he looks JUST LIKE Johnny Knoxville

  • I Love This Song!!!!!

  • this is my bf's (a real man) and my ex bf (just another shitfaced guy) song. my ex cheated and beat the shit outta me i got outta the relationship and when my bf and i got together (almost 11 months ago) he came home from his deployment and went to my exs house and asked him the same questions. thanks for posting this song it really puts things into other views and relates to some people

  • I love this song!!

  • What I can't figure out about the girls that I went to high school with, never figured out that a long term relationship with me would not have turned into a short-term gain long-term loss situation. I'm also can't figure out why those girls never had enough common since to break up with the boys that didn't treat them how they should be treated according to the Holy Bible. I stood up to the worst bully in my class once. Let's just say that didn't exactly make a chick magnet out of me.

  • @TheWiseTyronian i have no clue why someone wouldn't like u i think it is cool how u stood up to that bully!

  • @TheWiseTyronian then they where stupid to not realize what u did standing up to that bully u did the right thing and as long as u know it was u should be proud of urself i am proud of u me bing in an abussive realtionship i am glad u stood up to that bully i wish i had the courage to do the same

  • @TheWiseTyronian then they where stupid to not realize what u did standing up to that bully u did the right thing and as long as u know it was u should be proud of urself i am proud of u me being in an abussive realtionship i am glad u stood up to that bully i wish i had the courage to do the same

  • good jam seen him at wefest 2 years ago,,,i was drunk lol but i remember his show was awesome!!!

  • good jam seen him at wefest 2 years ago he puts on a great show...

  • heck i would date someone like Gary. this is a real man. 

  • @SaturdayNites91

     have you ever met Gary Allen? he is an asshole rude and disrespectful to woman.. the songs do not tell you who the man himself is..

  • @trishaginer ..yes i have met him and he was actually nice. because i actually got to sit down with him and got to know him.

  • were you even there when she needed you i love it!!!!!

  • if a man cheats on a woman he is scum, but if a woman cheats on a man he must not have been there for her? this song is what is wrong with the world today.

  • @aj19bcx The song never states she cheated on him. And also says "you're throwing around a lot of serious accusations." She left him for another man. The guy is merely saying who's the one who screwed up and he's got her now.

  • That why u men who are my ex who asked two later to get back together with him dirt bal some other man who treats me better got this

  • i piss off my best friend and i pop the question my girlfriend on valentine's day infront him and he didn't like it and he found out me and her have baby together too and

  • my sisters ex is so fuckin srry he wnt even claim his kids and wnt come see them i hope like hell he does. i love my nieces an nephews and when my nieces get older any guy who hurts them will find himself in a deep hole

  • every womans new mans song to her ex!!

  • don't exactly have a girlfriend but me and my sister are going through something like this right now. late last year my sister gave birth to a little girl who I love and even before the pregnancy my nieces father has been acting like a jerk wadded jackass and basically been giving my sister a hard time. If the economy didn't suck right now I would do everything in my power to support my niece and show him that I am a bigger man than he is.

  • @vegitoth ..well you are a very nice brother.

  • Just dumbfounds me how tough one can be toward a woman, yet so weak when another man is in thier face. My girls ex beat her up, when i saw him he couldnt do anything but stutter and choke. I wanted her to hit him so bad but she wouldnt, so I did. I tell you what, with how hard he hit the tree behind him, I bet he will think twice next time!!!

  • i would like to dedicate this to t hey man sorry

  • ok let's hear about everyone's love life. great! this is you tube where you watch any thing you want. not bitch tube where you tell about all your dam problems. i don't know why you would want the world to know that shit any way!!!! dang it!!!

  • @LateNightRebel LMAO!! 

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  • @alishasiegert I'll make you think grow up! I'm sure you're a 500lb drama queen and just love to bitch or you're some kind of butch she boy!! If you want Tom, Dick, and Harry to see your love story then put it on here. I don't understand why people do. I'm just stating my opinion. You're just bitching. Leave me the hell alone alishasiegert or whatever the fuck your name is.

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  • Love this song cant wait to play it for my husband someday when i see my way out the door

  • Totally love this song. Almost sounds like this song is written for my soon to be ex husband. He keeps saying he loves me but is never there and constantly makes me cry. Finding someone who stands by me everyday and loving me more than I ever though possible is a blessing just when I thought there weren't any good men out there.

  • Love it!

  • I love it!

  • This man sings from the heart. Even stars can have a hard life. I can relate to alotta his music. My wifes EX was a coward like this song. Talked bold, but wouldnt stand up to me. Guess an old fashioned ass whipping aint to his liking!

  • I don't see why people have started to dislike Gary Allan cos he has a lot of tattoos. Well his wife did committ suicide. So he can get as many tattoos as he wants, getting tattoos and singing must be the way he copes with his loss. So maybe people should like him for who he is and his music, not his looks.

  • @PinkieCain ..i love the tattoos and the meanings behind them. I have a tat on my ankle and going to be getting another one sometime soon. But what happened with his wife was horrible. But he is definitely an amazing singer.

  • @PinkieCain Do you know why she did commit suicide?

  • @michellelovescena Apparently she suffered from depression and severe for several years prior to her taking her own life, and she was on antidepressants on and off for that time. She may have killed herself to relieve her pain.

  • @PinkieCain I agree. i got tattoos, anlong beard, and I am always a man to women. Always treat my wife with respect. Gary has been through hell, and if this is how he keeps himself on the earth, LET THE MAN PLAY!

  • @PinkieCain umm.. A) I agree ppl shouldn't hate on him cause he has tattoos. B) That has nothing to do with his wife. Why bring it up? C) Agreed ppl should like or dislike him for the music not looks.

  • @PinkieCain gary allen is bad ass

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  • This song goes out to all of those guys who don't treat women right. When a great guy comes along she will fall for him and you will be out of luck. I know that there's a lot of people that can relate to this song, I being one of them.

  • i love this song. it reminds me of my ex who was a total dog and it gives me hope that i'll find a real man who knows how to treat a woman and that she's not a doormat for them.

  • wheres can i get the free mp3 download for this song??????

  • this man can sing i love all his shit

  • I miss these days of country:(

  • I love this song so much

  • This song is like my sisters boyfriend talking to her ex, or my boyfriend talking to my ex, haah :D

  • Hurting doesn't always mean physical- it could have been emotional abuse.

  • any guy woopin on a women needs tobe delt with , you see it handle it or you arnt a man

  • @jerry5631 thats what real men do

  • the truth is i been love her all my life and she was the girl who lived next door I've known her I guess 10 years or more and she's just fifteen and I'm twenty two and i was involve with girl and i tell her that she'll forget me by and by and she did grow up and she get involve with my best friend and they start dated and i didn't like it and it bore me see them together and

  • me and her are engaged to married and me and her expect a babys on christmas day and me and her have twins baby sons and her brother think i am better man her and other guy is and

  • if not for him she'd still be his today and If he really loved her and he should not fool around with her sister and i am there for her and he left her for her sister and i am better for her not him and And he let a woman that he love slip through his fingers and And to this day me and him still won't speak to each other and

  • my best friend is piss with me and i hook his ex girlfriend and me and her been sleep together since they break up and he chest on her with her sister and he lied to her and she found out his chest on her with sister and he back her and he found me and her been serious involve and me and him friendship are not same and i hook with his ex and he is blame she is not with him

  • totally in love with this song! why cant more men be like this?

  • i totaly just raped the replay button twice lol

  • Great song, I feel every bit of it. She is a real woman, not a door mat for you......

  • i love this song..soo much.

  • Good song

  • takes more of a man to love a women than to use or hurt her

  • Man to man, woman to woman

  • Man to man, woman to woman

  • Amen ! my ex is a coward & bully..I would LOVE to see him stand up to a REAL man...

  • @Justweezie I agree completely for my ex's are the same way, they dont got the guts to come up to my cowboy. I think its cause hes can ride a 17.2hh horse and my ex can only ride a pony. lol pride sucks.

  • @Justweezie where ya from i`ll help out lol

  • @Justweezie I'm sorry if he hurt you. Maybe the next guy you meet will make up for it.

  • @Justweezie - I lived it. My "new" husband (20 years now!) took my ex out, man to man. My ex was an abusive ass. He was terrified to stand up to a real man. And yes, it was just as sweet as you can imagine it.

  • @Justweezie ill step up to him and put his ass down and show him that if you can hit a woman then hit a grow ass man

  • This song is very true, he has beat me and just broke my ankle, and went out on me, but guess what he saids its all my fault.

  • this song is very true about some guys

  • I totally fell head over heels for a guy that sang this song for me at a karaoke bar. LOL! He said he wanted to "dedicate it to all those guys who treat their lady wrong..." He was a friend of mine at the time and he knew how my ex was treating me. Hearing him sing that song made me rethink my whole outlook on the relationship I was in. Now I'm in a much better one with a guy who sings like Gary Allan...

  • I love this.

    makes me think of what i want someone to say to two of my exes..

  • oh, my gosh, i havent heard this song in SO long, this is one of my favorites! XD

  • this song tells it all for the ladies who have had husbands who thought they were punching bags thanks gary

  • This song totally describes my Hubby and my ex. My ex loves to talk shit even though it has been years since we were together. My darling husband has had to put him in his place on more than one occasion!!!!

  • i love this song. this song makes you really think about how you treat your lover.

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  • I LOVE YOU GARY ALLAN, YOU SEEM LIKE ONE HELL OF A MAN ;)

  • this songs amazing

  • i luv this song...i wish a man would sing this me, like gary allan,ahahah... great song,plus check out his song "best i ever had"

  • the bongos in the background dont really add much...

  • Yes, Tell us both why.

  • You're throwin' around a lot of serious accusations Ain't too hard to tell what you're insinuatin' You think I'm the one who stole her away And if not fo rme she'd still be yours today We're both men here so why play games Why don't we call a spade a spade Man to man Tell me the truth, tell me Were you ever there when she needed you Man to man Look me in the eye, tell me If you really loved her Why'd you make her cry Man to man Who cheated who You're the one to blame Tell me it ain't true
  • his a wonderful singer but a real jerk.

  • @trishaginer i agree

  • @trishaginer how is he a jerk??

  • I love this song, and I love Gary Allan

  • I love this song, and I love Gary Allan

  • I can listen to this song over and over and over and over and over again. Awesome song!!!

  • why did he make me cry? cause he did not love me but i was there for him in every way possible and now,,,i only have love for him as a friend,,,and he cant take it,,,but i am OVER him

  • Love Love Love this song!! Gary Allen Rocks!!!!!!!!!!

  • lived this song.....felt the emotions...saw it happen....a spade is a spade.....why hit her if you love her....how can you love someone you put your hands on??I mean really...the relationship of ours didint work..but atleast she isnt being hit

  • My favorite of his songs

  • i was a guy that wasnt good to my girl. this song is about me in a bad way.

  • one of his best songs every guy needs to listen to this song and really listen to the meaning

  • love this song its true

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  • Awesome Song !!!!

  • i realy like this song

  • mt boyfriend sings this to my bestfriend but doesnt know he should be sing it to himself

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  • Very Good Song

  • what the hell how can anyone dislike this song?

  • i like it!!!!

  • Love this song

  • I love this song. It makes me think of my great friend that had a huge crush on me when I was married and he asked my hubby at the time to sing it with him at karaoke and my hubby at the time had no clue my friend was singing it to him lmao...I get such a kick out of this song...

  • I dig this song, exactly how I view my lady's ex. I hear he wants her back but is avoiding me. It's gotten to the point where she won't answer the door she's so worried he'll show up out of the blue. I say let em. I'd like to see how tough he really is, not how tough he 'thought' he was with her.

    well, him not showing up tells me what I want to know.

  • @Coldrum1000 Sounds like your girl likes the nigger dick

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  • @Coldrum1000 Dont do what i did, I waited 4 him and he watch and waited till i left my house he knocked on the door and when my girl opened the door he forced his way in he hit her twiceand tried to rape her, luckly my neighbor saw and called me and the police i got there right b4 the cops and i beat him right there but lookin back if i had just got him 1st he never would have got 2 her again i regret not confronting him

  • When i hear this song i like to think Gary Allen is singing it for me to my ex... kinda like he's defending me.. lol

  • awsom