how do you find happiness in life? i find that right now i am no where near happy in my life which could be the reason i, along with other people, could be staying in bad relationships? i feel if we could learn to be happy outside of a relationship, we wont get ourselves involved in bad relations.?
@afrprincess07 Yes, you may email me here on youtube at sosoblessed1, I would love to hear from you. thank you for watching and commenting, sharing your heart
OOOhhhhh man i needed this, i really did. I just randomly clicked your vid but im going through some things right now and this helped, thank you so much girl....
so glad i foud you and you are so right. i want your twitter name so i can forward these on to my gurls tha stay stuck. dont get me wrong i wanted to hear a sweet voice too..but i recalled quickly HWY I LEFT HIM the first time...I LOVE TASHA MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE.
look my sister its alot of dynamics going dowm with our people and we need to come back together as one trying to follow are oppressors isnt working for us and it never will the family structure must be saved it wher every thing starts if you cant build a family u cant build a community of good balanced people a family teaches use these life skills so u cant fuction as a productive adult male or female i think we my need to revisit aranged marriages so the children can be groomed at a young age
well I don't agree with arranged marriages unless that's your culture's custom, but you definitely hit the nail on the head when you said "family structure must be saved it's where everything starts. if you can't build a family, you can't build a community." Amen. thanks for adding comment
THE REASON THAT BLACKMEN TREAT BLACKWOMEN BAD SOME OF THE TIME IS WHEN A MAN IS GOOD ALL THE TIME THE BLACK WOMEN SEEM TO NOT LIKE HIM THEY CRAVE THE BRUTAL TYPE I HAve 5 sisters when nice guy dated them did nice things they called him weak so basicly its the blackwomen who are the first teachers that create this behavior in the young boys and they react to what they see stop useing good men and teach the boy this is how you act not like the thugs u bring around them peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree wholeheartedly. as a matter of fact, I think I'll continue the conversation in another vid. but I agree with you 100% and it's sad how we overlook good guys and addicted to the not so nice ones. thanks for sharing your opinion
Thank you for your video. I respect the fact that you tell the truth and have provied sufficient evidence to support all of your claims. Please continue to keep up the good work. I'm a single male and your video has opened my eyes to some of the behavourial patterns exibited by abused women.
Very wonderful! If only there were more role models like you for us younger women who can't seem to get everything straight, the world would be a better place!
I appreciate that. It's all about learning, living and making mistakes but learning from them. it's a process. just keep learning :) thanks for watching and commenting such kind remarks
Those were fantastic words of encourage and truth. I know that there will be many that will be helped today and many tomorrows. God gave you those words to bless us and remind us that we are loved and worthy of so much more than we think we are worth. Happy Holidays and a Blessed New Year.
thank you so much for watching and leaving such encouraging comments. I truly pray that this vid has and will help someone realize they are worth being treated with love and respect as God desires us to be. be blessed
This was straight to the point and no nonsense GOSPEL! For those, that this sounds new to LISTEN! Truth has been spoken! For those that it isn't new to sometimes u might need a refresher! If u help one, sosoblessed1, u have saved many. Keep up the blessed work!
SOSOBLESSED1 thanks for replying to my comment, the reason I made 2 comments was because after I refreshed my screen the comment was not there so I did another one and that one did not show either. I think there was a delay in the system and that is why it showed up later, I just wanted to clarify that I don't anyone else to think I'm crazy or getting senile.......................lol!!!
they won't think you're crazy. there are no crazies in The Blessed Place. lol I just have to approve your comments if you haven't sent a friend request
:) thank you. but that's for all of us. everything I know it was through experience, trial and error or watching others. Lord if I could go back about 20 years :) thanks for watching
Let's build a time machine, I wish I could go back 20 years too. In my opinion you have to listen to what men are saying and observe their actions! When the trust is gone it's very hard to get it back, that is why I left my ex seven years ago and I've been single ever since. I'd rather be by myself than to stay with a liar who is not worthy of my love and attention. I'm ready to be in another relationship but it will have to be on my terms I will not settle!
both comments were so good I had to approve them both. You can send a friend invite if you like, then I won't have to approve your comments and they will show up automatically. thank you for watching and cmmenting. also enjoyed the email :)
Let's get together and build a time machine, I wish I could go back about years or so as well!! Women have to listen carefully to what men say and observe their actions; what a man says and does are two different things. When the trust is gone it's hard for a man to regain it; I left my last relationship because of this 7 years ago. I would rather be by myself than to be wasting my time w/a liar. I've been single now for 7 years & I'm ready to love again but it has to be on my terms!
I can only imagine. look for another vid coming soon "Who's Controling Your Spirit?" about letting go. thank you so much for taking time out to watch and leave a comment. It's much appreciated. be blessed
This video reminded me of what my mother began telling me at 9 years old, "You can love, but always love you more because boys [men] are great accessories but self-love and God's love is the outfit so never leave the home without your clothes on." It took me took my 20s to figure out what she was talking about and I thank my momma for her wisdom and I thank you for paying it forward as well. In short, ladies we need to love us so we can have to strength to love others.
Gurl you are the real deal honey! I'm going to post this vid on my channel...if you don't mind! This was great stuff and I try to tell my women viewers to love themselves as well...thanks for the beautiful message!
not only don't I mind, but I'm so honored. keep on reaching out to our women because we are so worth it, but it seems that many don't realize that. be blessed
I know, that is soo true and I can truly understand that. I still say, make a plan and when the time is right, execute your plan. don't ever stay year after year because of lack of finances. stay til you finish school, stay til you get that job or promotion, but I feel so sad for any woman that stays just because he's a provider IF he's treating her really badly. but I do know what you mean because I've seen many women do this and they must do what's best for them
but the saddest thing is that some/many women have no children with the man and often she's the one financing HIM. those are mainly the women I'm talking to
Is that Thanxgiving food in the background? This is a Great vid and you look so cute! I tried to post this comment b4. I hope it doesn't show up twice
Amen! #10 REALLY applied to my relationship with my ex. My school work was really suffering and I found myself settling and she just continued to take and let's just say the only thing she was willing to give was sex. "That gigolo had to go!"
It's so good to hear from a man perspective that he wants more than just sex. I'm glad you decided that your self worth and esteem was worth more than sex or just having someone on your arms. you're a good man. you'll find that good woman. be blessed
SoSoBlessed....I so agree, but usually, it's much bigger than the male/female relationship.
I've always believed that all relationships are the same at the core. We all want to be loved, we all want someone we can trust, and someone we can depend on. I think it is the things we do in relationships that differs. What you'll find is that men/women who don't know how to let go in intimate relationships, don't know how to let go in other relationships. Definitely a self-esteem issue.
wow, I love it. you make such an excellent and very true point. I didn't think about that, but I know you're absolutely right and it's definitely about self esteem and what you're willing to sacrifice to be loved. We ALL want to be loved, but your self esteem determines how much you're willing to take just to have what we all want. thank you for watching and commenting. be blessed
Hi D, hope you had a nice Thanksgiving.. There is a song here on youtube that I listened to yesterday over and over.. seem to have this same point in mind. It's Jann Arden Free .. Says I let you change me down to the color of my hair, til I can't find me nowhere.. goes on to sing how she's giving her soul right back to Jesus..she's free.. feeling better now that his stuffs in the yard, should send God a Thank You card lol. Anyway, you're right your 10 reasons were great..Signs to RUN God Bless
how do you find happiness in life? i find that right now i am no where near happy in my life which could be the reason i, along with other people, could be staying in bad relationships? i feel if we could learn to be happy outside of a relationship, we wont get ourselves involved in bad relations.?
afrprincess07 3 months ago
do you have an email where i can contact you.im going through a tough time right now.
afrprincess07 3 months ago
@afrprincess07 Yes, you may email me here on youtube at sosoblessed1, I would love to hear from you. thank you for watching and commenting, sharing your heart
sosoblessed1 3 months ago
OOOhhhhh man i needed this, i really did. I just randomly clicked your vid but im going through some things right now and this helped, thank you so much girl....
sagasumomo 7 months ago
@sagasumomo you're welcome so much and thank you for watching and leaving such kind comment :)
sosoblessed1 7 months ago
Thank yku
kim102680 11 months ago
You give awesome advise!
blackfemale1971 1 year ago
@blackfemale1971 I really appreciate that
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Only you rule your world; make sure you love yourself first!
LVishere 1 year ago
@LVishere exactly!
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
so glad i foud you and you are so right. i want your twitter name so i can forward these on to my gurls tha stay stuck. dont get me wrong i wanted to hear a sweet voice too..but i recalled quickly HWY I LEFT HIM the first time...I LOVE TASHA MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE.
tashaluvsyou 1 year ago
@tashaluvsyou thank you and thanks for watching my vids. My twitter is sosoblessed1. thank you, be blessed
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
So True!
MsLadyLocks 1 year ago
I wish I saw this video much sooner! Thank you so much for this. :)
allybis 1 year ago
@allybis well never too late :) thanks for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
thank you. these words are very moving and true
MsGolden82 1 year ago
@MsGolden82 you're welcome and thank you for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
thank u so much.....
miriammcmillon 1 year ago
@miriammcmillon you're welcome and thank you so much for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
This is so relevant andso true. Thank you!
Nubian19702 1 year ago
@Nubian19702 you're welcome and thank you
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Speak on it my sisah! Tell the truth!!!
colakissed 1 year ago
@colakissed lol, thank you
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
omg..you dont know how much your video hepled me may god bless you!!!!!!:D
sayjessytwice 1 year ago
@sayjessytwice I appreciate hearing that. thank you for watching
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
YES LET GO!!!! Its time to cut them loose and love yourself now
mmxbabii01 1 year ago
@mmxbabii01 YES! thank you for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Wow, this reminds me of a relationship I had lol...
fizXgirl314 1 year ago
@fizXgirl314 wow, well I'm glad that's past tense, lol. thanks for watching
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
@fizXgirl314 well I'm glad to hear that sounds like past tense :) we deserve the best
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
Best advise ever
1cutefox 1 year ago
@1cutefox thank you and thank you for watching/commenting
sosoblessed1 1 year ago
look my sister its alot of dynamics going dowm with our people and we need to come back together as one trying to follow are oppressors isnt working for us and it never will the family structure must be saved it wher every thing starts if you cant build a family u cant build a community of good balanced people a family teaches use these life skills so u cant fuction as a productive adult male or female i think we my need to revisit aranged marriages so the children can be groomed at a young age
ANKHRASET 2 years ago
well I don't agree with arranged marriages unless that's your culture's custom, but you definitely hit the nail on the head when you said "family structure must be saved it's where everything starts. if you can't build a family, you can't build a community." Amen. thanks for adding comment
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
THE REASON THAT BLACKMEN TREAT BLACKWOMEN BAD SOME OF THE TIME IS WHEN A MAN IS GOOD ALL THE TIME THE BLACK WOMEN SEEM TO NOT LIKE HIM THEY CRAVE THE BRUTAL TYPE I HAve 5 sisters when nice guy dated them did nice things they called him weak so basicly its the blackwomen who are the first teachers that create this behavior in the young boys and they react to what they see stop useing good men and teach the boy this is how you act not like the thugs u bring around them peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ANKHRASET 2 years ago
I agree wholeheartedly. as a matter of fact, I think I'll continue the conversation in another vid. but I agree with you 100% and it's sad how we overlook good guys and addicted to the not so nice ones. thanks for sharing your opinion
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Thank you for this, it has most definitely encouraged and inspired me to look ahead...and to LET GO!
ThompsonMiss 2 years ago
you're welcome and thank you for wathcing. Let Go and Let God!
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
i needed to here this...
kmoroyalty 2 years ago
well thanks for listening.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I really love this video. I agree with everything you said, and I wish I had of none this sooner. I had to favorite this.
analyticalw 2 years ago 2
thank you, I really appreciate that
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
This was an excellent video. As a single black man I have learned so much from you. Please keep up the good work.
open40000 2 years ago
wow, that really means a lot. I love hearing a man's perspective. thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Thank you for your video. I respect the fact that you tell the truth and have provied sufficient evidence to support all of your claims. Please continue to keep up the good work. I'm a single male and your video has opened my eyes to some of the behavourial patterns exibited by abused women.
open40000 2 years ago
beautiful. than you so much
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Very wonderful! If only there were more role models like you for us younger women who can't seem to get everything straight, the world would be a better place!
karleeb17 2 years ago 2
I appreciate that. It's all about learning, living and making mistakes but learning from them. it's a process. just keep learning :) thanks for watching and commenting such kind remarks
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Wow...thanks!
SoWonderfullyMade 2 years ago
thank you!
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Those were fantastic words of encourage and truth. I know that there will be many that will be helped today and many tomorrows. God gave you those words to bless us and remind us that we are loved and worthy of so much more than we think we are worth. Happy Holidays and a Blessed New Year.
twistedsista76 2 years ago
thank you so much for watching and leaving such encouraging comments. I truly pray that this vid has and will help someone realize they are worth being treated with love and respect as God desires us to be. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
so true! great video!
tynrobinson 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
5stars!
mustlose20pds 2 years ago
I appreciate that :)
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
This was straight to the point and no nonsense GOSPEL! For those, that this sounds new to LISTEN! Truth has been spoken! For those that it isn't new to sometimes u might need a refresher! If u help one, sosoblessed1, u have saved many. Keep up the blessed work!
snstrong 2 years ago
thank you for those beautiful comments. I pray that I've reached at least one. thank you for watching. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Amen say it Sistah, Great vid..Ive been enjoying them this evening
Peace and Blessings Grace
ZoeyAbena08 2 years ago
thank you. I really appreciate you watching and commenting. I hope you continue to enjoy. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
great video =)
blueberryjuice305 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
SOSOBLESSED1 thanks for replying to my comment, the reason I made 2 comments was because after I refreshed my screen the comment was not there so I did another one and that one did not show either. I think there was a delay in the system and that is why it showed up later, I just wanted to clarify that I don't anyone else to think I'm crazy or getting senile.......................lol!!!
tanyatmr 2 years ago
they won't think you're crazy. there are no crazies in The Blessed Place. lol I just have to approve your comments if you haven't sent a friend request
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I just sent the request,
tanyatmr 2 years ago
ok, approved
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
this video helped me outt =] thank yu keep it up you have alot of wisdom.
dha1yuneedx 2 years ago
thank you and I appreciate you watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
speak on ....it i wish i wouldve knew you 10 yrs ago i wouldve saved a lot of yrs
xxxMzDivaxxx 2 years ago
:) thank you. but that's for all of us. everything I know it was through experience, trial and error or watching others. Lord if I could go back about 20 years :) thanks for watching
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Let's build a time machine, I wish I could go back 20 years too. In my opinion you have to listen to what men are saying and observe their actions! When the trust is gone it's very hard to get it back, that is why I left my ex seven years ago and I've been single ever since. I'd rather be by myself than to stay with a liar who is not worthy of my love and attention. I'm ready to be in another relationship but it will have to be on my terms I will not settle!
tanyatmr 2 years ago
both comments were so good I had to approve them both. You can send a friend invite if you like, then I won't have to approve your comments and they will show up automatically. thank you for watching and cmmenting. also enjoyed the email :)
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Let's get together and build a time machine, I wish I could go back about years or so as well!! Women have to listen carefully to what men say and observe their actions; what a man says and does are two different things. When the trust is gone it's hard for a man to regain it; I left my last relationship because of this 7 years ago. I would rather be by myself than to be wasting my time w/a liar. I've been single now for 7 years & I'm ready to love again but it has to be on my terms!
tanyatmr 2 years ago
u are so right but sometimes letting go is the hardest thing to do this is the message that i needed to hear today thank you so much
TheSexyma68 2 years ago
I can only imagine. look for another vid coming soon "Who's Controling Your Spirit?" about letting go. thank you so much for taking time out to watch and leave a comment. It's much appreciated. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Thank you Sista.. U just "so so Blessed" me!! Keep em comin!
ChoklitMa 2 years ago
thank you so much. I'll keep em comin and I hope you keep watching and commenting. I really appreciate it.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I'm seriously bawling right now because I see more than one of these signs in my husband. A real eye opener, thank you so much.
nachandra 2 years ago
aww, I hope things get better or that you find the strength to do what you might need to do. may God bless you and thank you for watching. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
i needed to hear this....thank you soooo much!
kandie731 2 years ago
you're welcome and thank you so much for watching
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
This video reminded me of what my mother began telling me at 9 years old, "You can love, but always love you more because boys [men] are great accessories but self-love and God's love is the outfit so never leave the home without your clothes on." It took me took my 20s to figure out what she was talking about and I thank my momma for her wisdom and I thank you for paying it forward as well. In short, ladies we need to love us so we can have to strength to love others.
Blessings.
NikiD40 2 years ago
wow, that was some awesome words of wisdom from your Mother. I've never heard that before but definitely won't ever forget it. thank you for sharing.
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Preach it honey!! Great video=)
LuuvBeauti 2 years ago
thank you for watching!
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
love this vid....so true.....
mthgardner 2 years ago
thank you for watching
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Gurl you are the real deal honey! I'm going to post this vid on my channel...if you don't mind! This was great stuff and I try to tell my women viewers to love themselves as well...thanks for the beautiful message!
JhenelleDeNa 2 years ago
not only don't I mind, but I'm so honored. keep on reaching out to our women because we are so worth it, but it seems that many don't realize that. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Great video lady ! Thanks for sharing
HIMAY10NENCE 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I feel Worthy!
You Go Girl!
aralight1 2 years ago
awesome! thank you for watching
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
You always say the best things. You really hit the nail on the head here. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. I appreciate you.
LipRouge 2 years ago
you're welcome and I appreciate you allowing me to share with you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
I think a lot of women r staying bcuz she n the kids hv no place 2 go. So they stay bcuz of economics n lack of family support .
It's easy to leave when ur in a good place financially n ur fam has ur back. But many women don't hv that.
106harlem232 2 years ago
I know, that is soo true and I can truly understand that. I still say, make a plan and when the time is right, execute your plan. don't ever stay year after year because of lack of finances. stay til you finish school, stay til you get that job or promotion, but I feel so sad for any woman that stays just because he's a provider IF he's treating her really badly. but I do know what you mean because I've seen many women do this and they must do what's best for them
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
but the saddest thing is that some/many women have no children with the man and often she's the one financing HIM. those are mainly the women I'm talking to
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
You are so right..It really help me...I have to let go..☺ AMEN!!!
happydimples39 2 years ago
you are a Woman of Worth and deserve to be treated well. don't forget that :)
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Very well said, Dee. Thanks for sharing these words of wisdom!
aamarachio 2 years ago
thank you very much and I appreciate you watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Is that Thanxgiving food in the background? This is a Great vid and you look so cute! I tried to post this comment b4. I hope it doesn't show up twice
epoladee 2 years ago
yep Thanksgiving leftovers. lol
thank you for the compliment
be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
beneficioso noticias primero senora! :) I hope that makes sense. :-)
cobyson05 2 years ago
lol, yes it did. gracias :)
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Amen! #10 REALLY applied to my relationship with my ex. My school work was really suffering and I found myself settling and she just continued to take and let's just say the only thing she was willing to give was sex. "That gigolo had to go!"
BigboyHollywood 2 years ago
LOL toooo funny about the gigolo. lol
It's so good to hear from a man perspective that he wants more than just sex. I'm glad you decided that your self worth and esteem was worth more than sex or just having someone on your arms. you're a good man. you'll find that good woman. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
you look so pretty and this was powerful!
epoladee 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
very true, amen
brendainny 2 years ago
very very well said!
MsNappyShay 2 years ago
thank you
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
SoSoBlessed....I so agree, but usually, it's much bigger than the male/female relationship.
I've always believed that all relationships are the same at the core. We all want to be loved, we all want someone we can trust, and someone we can depend on. I think it is the things we do in relationships that differs. What you'll find is that men/women who don't know how to let go in intimate relationships, don't know how to let go in other relationships. Definitely a self-esteem issue.
Great video!
fatchickskinny 2 years ago
wow, I love it. you make such an excellent and very true point. I didn't think about that, but I know you're absolutely right and it's definitely about self esteem and what you're willing to sacrifice to be loved. We ALL want to be loved, but your self esteem determines how much you're willing to take just to have what we all want. thank you for watching and commenting. be blessed
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Hi D, hope you had a nice Thanksgiving.. There is a song here on youtube that I listened to yesterday over and over.. seem to have this same point in mind. It's Jann Arden Free .. Says I let you change me down to the color of my hair, til I can't find me nowhere.. goes on to sing how she's giving her soul right back to Jesus..she's free.. feeling better now that his stuffs in the yard, should send God a Thank You card lol. Anyway, you're right your 10 reasons were great..Signs to RUN God Bless
jaydanpaul 2 years ago
wow, I'm going to have to look for that song, I love those lyrics. thank you for watching and commenting
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Its called Oxytocin, that why is hard to break up. The lust of the flesh.
HairNailsBeautytips 2 years ago
lol. yep, lust of the flesh. BUT also, we all want to be loved, but I say, not at any cost
sosoblessed1 2 years ago
Amen!!!
HairNailsBeautytips 2 years ago
Amen!!
HairNailsBeautytips 2 years ago
well said
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago
thanks
sosoblessed1 2 years ago