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  • I'm guilty of the first one D:

  • im gonna try to get me a girl tommorow

  • damn, i wish my english would be better, so i could understand more! great video man

  • 0:56: 'Now you become aware of me' Oh no, believe me, I was already painfully aware of you at 0:50!..

    But you are very right, all three situations are indeed quite creepy from a woman's point of view (though mostly hilarious the way you acted them here).

    Instead of starting, glance now and then. Instead of dreading having to leave, let us know you enjoyed talking to us, and instead of acting high, focus on doing as much listening as talking, any woman worth your time will feel special enough.

  • @sbojify Agreed! So how are you.. like, doing..? *cough*

  • I need to get a British accent

  • yea ok i am goin to jail because she is sensitive,way to sensitive i try my best not to creep her out by callin her or lovein her

  • you look like Jeffrey Donovan from Burn nortice

  • This is complete BS. Nothing says true love more to me than when a guy stalks and stares at me.

  • wow no wonder i havent been getting girls

  • cool

  • Where are you from?

  • Just wanted to say, even though you're selling some of your advice or something, i believe you're one of the most genuine guys I've seen and you truly want to help some of us out. Thanks you.

  • kickypee kickypoo is all you gotta do

  • You are FUNNY!

  • talking 2 females are so hard.. i feel that ill never find have a girlfriend.. its so much rules to all of this =/

  • heyim talking to a girl and i think its going pretty good and she seens to like me so how do i take it to the next step with out messing things up?

  • @hhhhhhhhhh1421 if she really likes you it will be hard to mess it up. If she makes you feel like you have to put more effort into it you should move on

  • Number 3 fucking cracked me up

  • thanx for the lesson...now i am on my way to freak a girl out...haha..great tips dude..i love ur videos..

  • Fear-based marketing is the laziest way to sell products Stephane, and it's also unethical.

  • @AlekNovy ummm his name is stephan...

  • You look like Real Madrid's Xabi Alonso!

  • 85% of men do this? LOL roflahahaha naaaah Ive never been that mind numbed

  • ohh aahh yeahh oooh ahhh......NO -.-

  • This is me: I'll be in class and then I look at her for like 2 seconds she turns and looks at me and then she's like giving me the "what are you looking at?" look then i think "shit shit" and look away

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  • lol today at work i was acting like i was on crack with the girls lol, thnx stephan

  • Thanks for the tips dude, really helpful, now I can harass women properly :D

  • i hate when im just looking around and i acccidently stare at someone for like 5 secs and they see me. then they think i like them or im creepy

  • Why wud u get arrested

  • im Guilty of number one and two and a little of the last, hope get this right someday..

  • I kinda do number 3, and I wont ever do it again after watching this video!

  • None of this is common sense. :)

  • When the girl does the stare then look away to you it means she likes you, a small look at you and then away means right there she wants you to talk to her. What men think and do is totally different from women. The for men advise is not the same as for women.

  • @INTPmetalfan well if they (men) look at you but it's more like a glare and they look away, then THAT'S creepy. But if it's a look or a stare followed by a friendly smile, then it's a good thing of course. I don't see that as flirting unless it's accompanied by a raise eyebrow, leaning in a little closer trying to follow her gaze and trying to mirror her actions. lol

  • i know for a fact that these tips are going to be handy in a tight spot. i personally have a bad habbit of looking at girls and when they look or smile at me, i going into a trance, i don't know whether to look away and act like i wasn't even looking or whether i should smile back and eventually hit on her when she alone haha. I don't hover because i know for a fact you look like a complete weirdo if you do such a thing. I put enthusiasm into my sentences whilst speaking to girls. It helps.

  • good advice but lets be honest here its kinda common sense already.

  • couldnt stop laughing at 2nd one

  • Man you are amazing!

    Thank you very much!

  • Very educational, yet hilarious!

  • I do 1

  • fuck number 2 is the one i do.....goddamit lol. number 1 and 3 don't apply at all.

    but i am kinda out going and talk alot so maybe 3 goes to me but i dont think so.

  • This guy is fucking hilarious.

  • So don't appear rapey, stalkey or like your on crack?

  • @mtbers This man gets me! :-)

  • @stephanerdman not unless the girl is a slut who will fuck anybody =]

  • @mtbers Nahh, those are illegal ;)

  • Ohhh, role play, I like where this is going ;D,

  • Thank you for your advices. It's very helpful.

  • So THATS why girls dont talk to me... lol

  • You are very attractive Stephan, and I think you are of a Russian descent, you look like Gagarin. Whatever you talk is very true.

  • @Abina34 Yuri Gagarin, huh? Well, you're not far off there...got a Russian grandfather..;-)

  • what if the girl caught you doing the stare and avoid but then you caught HER doing to you??? this happened to me today and i was just wondering.

  • 0 people is... Thats right, NoDisslike :)

  • It's probably easy to be confident around women when you look and sound like every woman's wet dream.

  • LOL Im a girl and have had all 3 done to me... the first one is creepy but I don't really mind if I find the guy cute to me. but it can get to a point where it's just like ohmygod stop looking at me. the second one Hahahha worst experience ever, this guy hovered during lunch when me and my best friend were walking to lunch an back, and during. he would just walk with us smile and not say a word. like wtf dude.....talk or go away.

    not trying to be rude btw just helping

  • ehh guys,females are so complicated but life without them is nothing.

  • Vote up if ur a socially-awkward penguin too like moi! xD

  • SHIT!!! I always do the first thing in class. but what the fuck am I supposed to do if the most beautiful girl in the whole school sits in front of me on the other side of the class room?!

  • @Matriculon I DO IT TOO :/

  • Guys and girls are more alike than we give ourselves credit for. Everyone just be yourself 'cause if they don't like the real you then the attraction you feel for him/her will fizzle out anyway. You have to choose to be confident in yourself....it just takes years for some people (late bloomers like myself)....and no time at all for others (those ones are people we envy 'cause they're always in healthy relationships).

  • Dam... Girls are fucked up... U never know what she is thinking -.-

  • dangit. I've done the 1st 2 before. even if I didn't mean to.

    I think sometimes it's unavoidable. as long as it's not a repeatable offense.

  • 0 dislikes.

  • dude you say the three things i always did, i wish see your video before, now i know

  • I got make millions showing people how I am the one of the greatest in intial attraction.

  • I am sick of these gurus talking about how to get women when all they talk about it initial attraction and getting a phone number and call so many days later. what about after that?

  • @TheShootTruth10 Well, dude, that`s the whole thing. For me, for instance, the "APPROACH THE TARGET" part is difficult. Showing a girl le good time once she`s actually "hooked" does not pose a problem of any major significance(unless all that she likes is expensive cars, fur coats and diamond necklaces lol).

    So, I guess people are just really different in this department.

  • "HEY!.. I should propably go now.."

  • I'm a photographer at nightclubs and I see guys doing all three of these "methods" all the time.

  • German?

  • uhh dude I am 13  I like guns ,horror movies and metall, rock ????? is that making me scary or just a normal man ? or a lone dude ?

  • @2013doom

    Makes you a dude.

  • @karbon35 A hour ago I found out that rock and metal is gay music WTF ????

  • @2013doom

    You sir have never played a sport.

  • i do all of these ;/

  • As sad as it sounds I don't know if i'll ever be able to attract women. Seriously, I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. Worse than that, I never knew a girl just as a friend. So I basically have close to zero experience with women. Oh, and I have no friends. I'm in a rut...a deep one.

  • @ryguy2598 What are you doing to improve your social life? Do you go to a college/university?

  • @ryguy2598 Hey i know the feeling man. Im 25 and not an ounce of any experience. Best of luck to ya, i know its fucken hard.

  • 1st thing = FUCK

  • lol i have experienced tip #1 in person and felt the response, like them talking to someone next to them and pointing out the fact that i was starring at them. It really kills your confidence :/

  • just act cool and like a boss. if girls come up to you and she is one of your mates friends. just introudce yourself and say can i add you on facebook and make a few jokes when they talk to you. it works trust me.

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  • nice tips dude =)

    keep it up

  • I think body language in the first one may actually be able to help. Stare longingly at her, then when she looks back you look away to show interest in her hut you are too shy to actually talk to her on your own. Sounds plausible. Think I should try it? I take suggestions from all.

  • Stephan, how do you get your hair cut? Like what lengths on top and sides and back? Thank you

  • thanks a lot. Now i will freak all of those not too beautiful girls

  • Wow..... Uncle charlie could learn a thing or two here.

  • Dawn this man is sweet

  • You always bring me out of a sour mood. This shit is so funny! because I have done these things and seen my friends do this. But now I have names for these retarded things we do. Great job Stephan. More vids please, Im addicted

  • This is honestly one of the best videos I've ever seen. The information is thorough and not just latent. To be honest with you, I've been doing ALL 3 of these things in this video. lol Gotta break that habit.

  • on the third one forget freaking a girl out you're freaking me out ps: i'm a boy

  • when im nervous i talk ALOT

  • I also do step 2

  • Ohhh crap I do step1 all the time!!

  • You re wierd...

  • THIS IS JUST WAYYYY TOOO HILARIOUS LOL

  • you are a great person :D

  • Great re-framing lesson Stephan! Thanks!

  • I do the Stare and Avoid, lol. One Girl gave me the Oogles eyes when glanced over again.

    Sometimes I do 1 and 3 together...when she glances back I give the EXtra smile

  • number one is quite well known actually! :D

  • that was really freaky in the beginning. never doing that again XD

  • thank you for the advises I was just wondering how to freak my girlfriend out :) thanks

  • Haha, well played.

  • i have been using the first tip all my life with out even noticing it lol

  • yeah i did all of this before

  • I rely want to see you in cation :)

    Can you place secret cameras at 1 of your dates?

  • you are great, not usually bullshit that other "dating masters" upload

  • I love this guy...:)) Stephan is the man.

  • @adminq1 I hope you said that with a sort of "Godfather" accent...;-)

  • @stephanerdman could you be m wingman?? haha.. any advice for potential wingmen so they actually help rather than making things more awkward?

  • lol the last one was funny

  • hahhahaa you made me laugh on the last one xD thx nice tips bro !

  • while most of u do this i avoid this

  • Nice tips man!

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