0:56: 'Now you become aware of me' Oh no, believe me, I was already painfully aware of you at 0:50!..
But you are very right, all three situations are indeed quite creepy from a woman's point of view (though mostly hilarious the way you acted them here).
Instead of starting, glance now and then. Instead of dreading having to leave, let us know you enjoyed talking to us, and instead of acting high, focus on doing as much listening as talking, any woman worth your time will feel special enough.
Just wanted to say, even though you're selling some of your advice or something, i believe you're one of the most genuine guys I've seen and you truly want to help some of us out. Thanks you.
@hhhhhhhhhh1421 if she really likes you it will be hard to mess it up. If she makes you feel like you have to put more effort into it you should move on
This is me: I'll be in class and then I look at her for like 2 seconds she turns and looks at me and then she's like giving me the "what are you looking at?" look then i think "shit shit" and look away
Thanks for the tips dude, really helpful, now I can harass women properly :D I just gotta hover, overreact to everything she says, and stare at her even when its obvious shes uncomfortable by my staring ^.^
When the girl does the stare then look away to you it means she likes you, a small look at you and then away means right there she wants you to talk to her. What men think and do is totally different from women. The for men advise is not the same as for women.
@INTPmetalfan well if they (men) look at you but it's more like a glare and they look away, then THAT'S creepy. But if it's a look or a stare followed by a friendly smile, then it's a good thing of course. I don't see that as flirting unless it's accompanied by a raise eyebrow, leaning in a little closer trying to follow her gaze and trying to mirror her actions. lol
i know for a fact that these tips are going to be handy in a tight spot. i personally have a bad habbit of looking at girls and when they look or smile at me, i going into a trance, i don't know whether to look away and act like i wasn't even looking or whether i should smile back and eventually hit on her when she alone haha. I don't hover because i know for a fact you look like a complete weirdo if you do such a thing. I put enthusiasm into my sentences whilst speaking to girls. It helps.
@stephanerdman heyim talking to a girl and i think its going pretty good and she seens to like me so how do i take it to the next step with out messing things up?
LOL Im a girl and have had all 3 done to me... the first one is creepy but I don't really mind if I find the guy cute to me. but it can get to a point where it's just like ohmygod stop looking at me. the second one Hahahha worst experience ever, this guy hovered during lunch when me and my best friend were walking to lunch an back, and during. he would just walk with us smile and not say a word. like wtf dude.....talk or go away.
SHIT!!! I always do the first thing in class. but what the fuck am I supposed to do if the most beautiful girl in the whole school sits in front of me on the other side of the class room?!
Guys and girls are more alike than we give ourselves credit for. Everyone just be yourself 'cause if they don't like the real you then the attraction you feel for him/her will fizzle out anyway. You have to choose to be confident in yourself....it just takes years for some people (late bloomers like myself)....and no time at all for others (those ones are people we envy 'cause they're always in healthy relationships).
I am sick of these gurus talking about how to get women when all they talk about it initial attraction and getting a phone number and call so many days later. what about after that?
@TheShootTruth10 Well, dude, that`s the whole thing. For me, for instance, the "APPROACH THE TARGET" part is difficult. Showing a girl le good time once she`s actually "hooked" does not pose a problem of any major significance(unless all that she likes is expensive cars, fur coats and diamond necklaces lol).
So, I guess people are just really different in this department.
As sad as it sounds I don't know if i'll ever be able to attract women. Seriously, I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. Worse than that, I never knew a girl just as a friend. So I basically have close to zero experience with women. Oh, and I have no friends. I'm in a rut...a deep one.
lol i have experienced tip #1 in person and felt the response, like them talking to someone next to them and pointing out the fact that i was starring at them. It really kills your confidence :/
just act cool and like a boss. if girls come up to you and she is one of your mates friends. just introudce yourself and say can i add you on facebook and make a few jokes when they talk to you. it works trust me.
I think body language in the first one may actually be able to help. Stare longingly at her, then when she looks back you look away to show interest in her hut you are too shy to actually talk to her on your own. Sounds plausible. Think I should try it? I take suggestions from all.
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
You always bring me out of a sour mood. This shit is so funny! because I have done these things and seen my friends do this. But now I have names for these retarded things we do. Great job Stephan. More vids please, Im addicted
This is honestly one of the best videos I've ever seen. The information is thorough and not just latent. To be honest with you, I've been doing ALL 3 of these things in this video. lol Gotta break that habit.
I'm guilty of the first one D:
jahnomerules 12 hours ago
im gonna try to get me a girl tommorow
pocketfrog01 13 hours ago
damn, i wish my english would be better, so i could understand more! great video man
xxobiwan11xx 4 days ago
0:56: 'Now you become aware of me' Oh no, believe me, I was already painfully aware of you at 0:50!..
But you are very right, all three situations are indeed quite creepy from a woman's point of view (though mostly hilarious the way you acted them here).
Instead of starting, glance now and then. Instead of dreading having to leave, let us know you enjoyed talking to us, and instead of acting high, focus on doing as much listening as talking, any woman worth your time will feel special enough.
HijaDelMar6 1 week ago
@sbojify Agreed! So how are you.. like, doing..? *cough*
condemned70 1 week ago
I need to get a British accent
BlountDucks9 2 weeks ago
yea ok i am goin to jail because she is sensitive,way to sensitive i try my best not to creep her out by callin her or lovein her
nicademas617 1 month ago
you look like Jeffrey Donovan from Burn nortice
junior214223 1 month ago
This is complete BS. Nothing says true love more to me than when a guy stalks and stares at me.
sbojify 1 month ago
wow no wonder i havent been getting girls
gostate009 1 month ago
cool
stsr23 1 month ago
Where are you from?
DUPPIXCONQUERER 2 months ago
Just wanted to say, even though you're selling some of your advice or something, i believe you're one of the most genuine guys I've seen and you truly want to help some of us out. Thanks you.
nitrousflash59 2 months ago 8
kickypee kickypoo is all you gotta do
otherside65 2 months ago
You are FUNNY!
ColorfulHyena 2 months ago
talking 2 females are so hard.. i feel that ill never find have a girlfriend.. its so much rules to all of this =/
FreshTooDef100 2 months ago 5
heyim talking to a girl and i think its going pretty good and she seens to like me so how do i take it to the next step with out messing things up?
hhhhhhhhhh1421 2 months ago
@hhhhhhhhhh1421 if she really likes you it will be hard to mess it up. If she makes you feel like you have to put more effort into it you should move on
DjYommy 1 month ago
Number 3 fucking cracked me up
mushymaple 2 months ago
thanx for the lesson...now i am on my way to freak a girl out...haha..great tips dude..i love ur videos..
mulholland1985 2 months ago
Fear-based marketing is the laziest way to sell products Stephane, and it's also unethical.
AlekNovy 2 months ago
@AlekNovy ummm his name is stephan...
Drew27Berna11 2 months ago
You look like Real Madrid's Xabi Alonso!
sultani202 2 months ago
85% of men do this? LOL roflahahaha naaaah Ive never been that mind numbed
ewokboba 3 months ago
ohh aahh yeahh oooh ahhh......NO -.-
Aalnasser1996 3 months ago
This is me: I'll be in class and then I look at her for like 2 seconds she turns and looks at me and then she's like giving me the "what are you looking at?" look then i think "shit shit" and look away
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zooropa84 2 months ago
lol today at work i was acting like i was on crack with the girls lol, thnx stephan
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Thanks for the tips dude, really helpful, now I can harass women properly :D I just gotta hover, overreact to everything she says, and stare at her even when its obvious shes uncomfortable by my staring ^.^
Dazeezd 3 months ago
Thanks for the tips dude, really helpful, now I can harass women properly :D
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GuitarSaver 3 months ago
i hate when im just looking around and i acccidently stare at someone for like 5 secs and they see me. then they think i like them or im creepy
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Why wud u get arrested
100jabby 3 months ago
im Guilty of number one and two and a little of the last, hope get this right someday..
karlbuttler 3 months ago
I kinda do number 3, and I wont ever do it again after watching this video!
ValenciaFan1 3 months ago
None of this is common sense. :)
INTPmetalfan 3 months ago
When the girl does the stare then look away to you it means she likes you, a small look at you and then away means right there she wants you to talk to her. What men think and do is totally different from women. The for men advise is not the same as for women.
INTPmetalfan 3 months ago
@INTPmetalfan well if they (men) look at you but it's more like a glare and they look away, then THAT'S creepy. But if it's a look or a stare followed by a friendly smile, then it's a good thing of course. I don't see that as flirting unless it's accompanied by a raise eyebrow, leaning in a little closer trying to follow her gaze and trying to mirror her actions. lol
QuoGirl 3 months ago
i know for a fact that these tips are going to be handy in a tight spot. i personally have a bad habbit of looking at girls and when they look or smile at me, i going into a trance, i don't know whether to look away and act like i wasn't even looking or whether i should smile back and eventually hit on her when she alone haha. I don't hover because i know for a fact you look like a complete weirdo if you do such a thing. I put enthusiasm into my sentences whilst speaking to girls. It helps.
KyleBarlow93 3 months ago
good advice but lets be honest here its kinda common sense already.
zuluteam01 3 months ago
couldnt stop laughing at 2nd one
yofera50 3 months ago
Man you are amazing!
Thank you very much!
MrHossen1223 3 months ago
Very educational, yet hilarious!
TheTruth285 3 months ago
I do 1
ttmprodigy35 3 months ago
fuck number 2 is the one i do.....goddamit lol. number 1 and 3 don't apply at all.
but i am kinda out going and talk alot so maybe 3 goes to me but i dont think so.
LAYITLOOSE 3 months ago
This guy is fucking hilarious.
abasslinelow 3 months ago
So don't appear rapey, stalkey or like your on crack?
mtbers 3 months ago 37
@mtbers This man gets me! :-)
stephanerdman 3 months ago 24
@stephanerdman not unless the girl is a slut who will fuck anybody =]
PhucBui1 2 months ago
@mtbers Nahh, those are illegal ;)
earlectrorgasm13 2 months ago
Ohhh, role play, I like where this is going ;D,
mtbers 3 months ago
Thank you for your advices. It's very helpful.
rurichek1 3 months ago
So THATS why girls dont talk to me... lol
WelcomeGhostsIV 3 months ago
You are very attractive Stephan, and I think you are of a Russian descent, you look like Gagarin. Whatever you talk is very true.
Abina34 3 months ago
@Abina34 Yuri Gagarin, huh? Well, you're not far off there...got a Russian grandfather..;-)
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@stephanerdman heyim talking to a girl and i think its going pretty good and she seens to like me so how do i take it to the next step with out messing things up?
hhhhhhhhhh1421 2 months ago
what if the girl caught you doing the stare and avoid but then you caught HER doing to you??? this happened to me today and i was just wondering.
SwervinCurvin56 3 months ago
0 people is... Thats right, NoDisslike :)
NoDisslike 3 months ago
It's probably easy to be confident around women when you look and sound like every woman's wet dream.
BrosephMG 3 months ago 3
LOL Im a girl and have had all 3 done to me... the first one is creepy but I don't really mind if I find the guy cute to me. but it can get to a point where it's just like ohmygod stop looking at me. the second one Hahahha worst experience ever, this guy hovered during lunch when me and my best friend were walking to lunch an back, and during. he would just walk with us smile and not say a word. like wtf dude.....talk or go away.
not trying to be rude btw just helping
xoallieox07 3 months ago
ehh guys,females are so complicated but life without them is nothing.
otamanlvhs 3 months ago 2
Vote up if ur a socially-awkward penguin too like moi! xD
cMaXeJIJIo 4 months ago
SHIT!!! I always do the first thing in class. but what the fuck am I supposed to do if the most beautiful girl in the whole school sits in front of me on the other side of the class room?!
Matriculon 4 months ago 4
@Matriculon I DO IT TOO :/
FrozenSparky 3 months ago
Guys and girls are more alike than we give ourselves credit for. Everyone just be yourself 'cause if they don't like the real you then the attraction you feel for him/her will fizzle out anyway. You have to choose to be confident in yourself....it just takes years for some people (late bloomers like myself)....and no time at all for others (those ones are people we envy 'cause they're always in healthy relationships).
BadHairsRevenge 4 months ago
Dam... Girls are fucked up... U never know what she is thinking -.-
SeRgA123456789 4 months ago
dangit. I've done the 1st 2 before. even if I didn't mean to.
I think sometimes it's unavoidable. as long as it's not a repeatable offense.
rockxhero 4 months ago
0 dislikes.
RadiantCowbells 4 months ago
dude you say the three things i always did, i wish see your video before, now i know
johnycage367 4 months ago
I got make millions showing people how I am the one of the greatest in intial attraction.
TheShootTruth10 4 months ago
I am sick of these gurus talking about how to get women when all they talk about it initial attraction and getting a phone number and call so many days later. what about after that?
TheShootTruth10 4 months ago
@TheShootTruth10 Well, dude, that`s the whole thing. For me, for instance, the "APPROACH THE TARGET" part is difficult. Showing a girl le good time once she`s actually "hooked" does not pose a problem of any major significance(unless all that she likes is expensive cars, fur coats and diamond necklaces lol).
So, I guess people are just really different in this department.
cMaXeJIJIo 4 months ago
"HEY!.. I should propably go now.."
1pcGAMER4ever1 4 months ago
I'm a photographer at nightclubs and I see guys doing all three of these "methods" all the time.
WhyBeF 4 months ago
German?
jella11 4 months ago
uhh dude I am 13 I like guns ,horror movies and metall, rock ????? is that making me scary or just a normal man ? or a lone dude ?
2013doom 4 months ago
@2013doom
Makes you a dude.
karbon35 4 months ago
@karbon35 A hour ago I found out that rock and metal is gay music WTF ????
2013doom 4 months ago
@2013doom
You sir have never played a sport.
karbon35 4 months ago
i do all of these ;/
vsallbutme 4 months ago
As sad as it sounds I don't know if i'll ever be able to attract women. Seriously, I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. Worse than that, I never knew a girl just as a friend. So I basically have close to zero experience with women. Oh, and I have no friends. I'm in a rut...a deep one.
ryguy2598 4 months ago
@ryguy2598 What are you doing to improve your social life? Do you go to a college/university?
IsItTheBagel 4 months ago
@ryguy2598 Hey i know the feeling man. Im 25 and not an ounce of any experience. Best of luck to ya, i know its fucken hard.
fraddstar 3 months ago
1st thing = FUCK
ilovmc 4 months ago
lol i have experienced tip #1 in person and felt the response, like them talking to someone next to them and pointing out the fact that i was starring at them. It really kills your confidence :/
nelsoncards 4 months ago
just act cool and like a boss. if girls come up to you and she is one of your mates friends. just introudce yourself and say can i add you on facebook and make a few jokes when they talk to you. it works trust me.
TutsModding 4 months ago
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TutsModding 4 months ago
nice tips dude =)
keep it up
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I think body language in the first one may actually be able to help. Stare longingly at her, then when she looks back you look away to show interest in her hut you are too shy to actually talk to her on your own. Sounds plausible. Think I should try it? I take suggestions from all.
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Steps to be scary/creepy like me
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
id493337 5 months ago
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Steps to be scary/creepy like me
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
id493337 5 months ago
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Steps to be scary/creepy like me
Step 1: Just ignore everyone and don't even look at the girl you like.
Step 2: I have a natural scary look so I just look out the corner of my eye and produce a creepy/scary smile when they try to talk to me while I walk by them.
Step 3: When I decide to strike a conversation, I sound bored and uninterested, and I always speak in old English.
id493337 5 months ago
Stephan, how do you get your hair cut? Like what lengths on top and sides and back? Thank you
SourNippls 5 months ago
thanks a lot. Now i will freak all of those not too beautiful girls
gricius 5 months ago
Wow..... Uncle charlie could learn a thing or two here.
Unknnnnn 5 months ago
Dawn this man is sweet
flamingaxe791 5 months ago
You always bring me out of a sour mood. This shit is so funny! because I have done these things and seen my friends do this. But now I have names for these retarded things we do. Great job Stephan. More vids please, Im addicted
Junior4AMG 5 months ago 3
This is honestly one of the best videos I've ever seen. The information is thorough and not just latent. To be honest with you, I've been doing ALL 3 of these things in this video. lol Gotta break that habit.
AnimeSage285 6 months ago
on the third one forget freaking a girl out you're freaking me out ps: i'm a boy
allanpeter7700 6 months ago
when im nervous i talk ALOT
wills22nd 6 months ago
I also do step 2
Pizzaman882 6 months ago
Ohhh crap I do step1 all the time!!
Pizzaman882 6 months ago 4
You re wierd...
thethirdvisioner 6 months ago
THIS IS JUST WAYYYY TOOO HILARIOUS LOL
DKzain23 6 months ago 2
you are a great person :D
hatembigboss007 6 months ago
Great re-framing lesson Stephan! Thanks!
TheStoneRocky 6 months ago
I do the Stare and Avoid, lol. One Girl gave me the Oogles eyes when glanced over again.
Sometimes I do 1 and 3 together...when she glances back I give the EXtra smile
Datruebdizzy7285 6 months ago
number one is quite well known actually! :D
00great226 6 months ago
that was really freaky in the beginning. never doing that again XD
maxs2d2ace 6 months ago
thank you for the advises I was just wondering how to freak my girlfriend out :) thanks
PatriotaIYI 6 months ago
Haha, well played.
bg11215 6 months ago
i have been using the first tip all my life with out even noticing it lol
morielkhaykin 6 months ago
yeah i did all of this before
marinesrock316 6 months ago
I rely want to see you in cation :)
Can you place secret cameras at 1 of your dates?
MANUELBRB 6 months ago 64
you are great, not usually bullshit that other "dating masters" upload
MANUELBRB 6 months ago
I love this guy...:)) Stephan is the man.
adminq1 6 months ago 29
@adminq1 I hope you said that with a sort of "Godfather" accent...;-)
stephanerdman 6 months ago 31
@stephanerdman could you be m wingman?? haha.. any advice for potential wingmen so they actually help rather than making things more awkward?
mizztermaxx 6 months ago
lol the last one was funny
Chippy215Boss 6 months ago
hahhahaa you made me laugh on the last one xD thx nice tips bro !
007626sjoerd 6 months ago
while most of u do this i avoid this
wills22nd 6 months ago
Nice tips man!
iplayhalotoday 6 months ago