The point the show was trying to show was that SBW tend to be overly selective in mates. I would guess all the profiles read were from white men. She was interested in the man's personality but not then refused to date him due to race. He could very well have been her soulmate and everything she was looking for but she let color get in the way. You don't let your car run out of gas because you only buy BP gas and there are only Speedways.
@2323bw This is true to a certain degree. There are other race men who will marry black women. When dating other races, black woman just have to be very picky when choosing...take it back to the old school and make him court you to finf out his true intentions.
You're an ADULT woman and yet the title alone was enough to make me lose some brain cells. "Now I got to date a white man"? Please, black american people, put some effort into grammar and speaking. Please.
Other races of men would only want to EXPERIMENT with a black woman so they can say they had one.: they do not want to FALL IN LOVE AND MARRY BLACK WOMEN!
The crazy thing is some people act as if there is something wrong with same race couples.And those people are usually one's who are in interracial relationships,and they think that's the answer to ALL of love's questions.
I am with you,i am a Black man that have dated Black, White and Asian women and i prefer Black women if some people have a problem with that who cares, get over it..!
You are right, when you say you only want to date black men, it doesn't directly mean you are racist. Altho the double standards annoy me tho. If a white woman says she only wants to dates white men, 99% of black people would say she's a racist b*tch.
Thank you Ebony Woman for setting the facts straight. The media will always misrepresent and distort Black women because they're not really interested in us. All they do is to exploit us.
I would like to date a sister but I feel I would not be compatible. Many black women are on the matriarchy/strong independent black woman I wear the pants band wagon. I find myself more compatible with white women.
I'm only attracted to black men, only ever dated black men, will only ever date black men, doesn't mean I'm racist, just my preference, but I would never knock a black woman that chooses to date outside the race, that's her preference. As for me, I'll just stick with the brothas. thx
if you understand me to say that you can date whomever you please, then you understand what i'm saying. because I only want to date a BLACK MAN does not mean I am racist. that's the only message I am trying to convey. if you date outside your race (especially black women) , I don't feel as if you're giving up on black men at all. if you think you hear me saying dating other races is wrong then you miss the whole message. date who you want to love, not because you have something to prove.
this is just another mentally plan against real dark skin black men/sons and race just like interracial bullshit in white/jew's porno, media and tv or BIRACIAL light skinned boy in white house!
I have been accused of being racist...bcuz i have a preference....i ONLY want a black man...i said i wud never date outside my race...BUT i did....and now i will NEVER date outside my race AGAIN....I agree wit u if we dnt like something or dnt want to eat goat then we dont have too....im entitled to my preference....im just not attracted to any other race...doesnt mean i cant befriend men of other races thats not the issue wit me...i know ME...to each his/her own
@kaiingalls you smart ma respect yourself stay black and proud! i am black man who only date black women and i want real dark skin black sons/kids who will be look like me! black love the best!
I haven't seen either show. I believe the young matchmaker you're referencing might be Paul Brunson and I think what he did has much validity. As I'm in my late 20's, I've already ascertained that I more than likely will not end up with a black man. I don't have debt, don't have any children, I've already lived abroad and traveled quite a bit. To many black women waste precious time sifting thru issue riddled men and still end up w/ a man who can't deal w/ commitment. No thanks.
I a black woman married to a East Indian. I NEVER stayed within the lines of dating in our race becasue I am human. Men are men and women are women. Every race deals with the same issues like adultry, baby daddy, money issues, bossy women, alcholics, drug addicts.. but as individual races, we do handle them differently. And blacks on in the spotlight while whites and others are undercover or overlooked.
@MaybachMusicBOSS99 We my child is not yours...i could care less what you want because i dont want your type...which is ignorant just like the rest of the racist whites and blacks and hispanics! Now get your life! haaaaaaaaaa!
@globalhealth4 i hope you die in hell you dirty racist mixed fake azz white man's whore!! you know you will be dirty single babymama with ugly white looking looking kids for white race very soon! karma is bitch!
Lemme add this...black women are suffering a bad image wrap that not only do most whites believe but a lot of blacks believe too. When have we seen a black woman on tv without problems/issues with baby daddys or personality conflicts? Ijs
Is “marriage for white people” and yes I saw it to ridiculous!! I’m NOT dating a white man to get a brotha I’m just gonna date a brotha! I wanted to hit the floor when Tyrone or what ever his name was gonna say black women have attitudes that white women don't have.. I find that very stereotypical
@damone70....I did...and what I heard was black women are too much work... which is fine, my mother always told me anything worth having is work fighting for so... with that I will wait for the man who is willing to fight/ work just as hard as I am.... a man who will love me and my "attitude", because I am beautiful in all my natural brown beautiful imperfections!!!
@naturalbrownbeautie Aright, I feel ya on dat. Dat fool who said u is too much work, be missin out on da pay off from all da hard work he didnt put in. :)
well, love is it , if you find it go get it..and Brad Pitt used to be with Robin Givens..I think that if you want to only date black men, that is not racist. that is preference...
I often joke that my youngets sister dated like the United nations..she dated EVERY body..and they were all pretty cool guys.. she ended up marrying a black guy who was a LOOSER ..go figure...
first off, I was trying to focus on the conversation, but your hair is just so fabulous that it had me distracted for a minute! I saw the Anderson Cooper show, and let me just say right off, I am married to a black man , but I find that AC very attractive! ..I think that love is love, some of my best friends are married to white guys..going on 20 years now and they have wonderful husbands and the I have friends , like myslef , who are married to black men and just as happy..
I think that they are just letting bw know that they can expand their dating pool by ADDING other men to the mix. I prefer black men myself but I know what they means....more of us than them and less of a chance to find a mate. Sisters like ourselves who prefer our own have to (quietly) accept that your odds are slimer. A lot of Sisaz are complaining though that they cannot find a one on one mate.
We should not give up on our brothers but a lot of us aren't getting married and a lot of them are not either. When we figure out why we are not marrying each other as much, it will probably help us out.
Men are always giving dumb advice to women. Then when the woman listens to this dumb advice the relationship is short-lived or goes nowhere and it's still the black woman's fault for listening.
For a comprehensive understanding of 'why' what you describe is being 'pushed' on the US population right now I recommend the books "Death of a Dark Nation" and "The Inter-racial Con Game" by Umoja.Both are printed by 'Trojan Horse Press'.
I've never heard of that book or author. But IR is definitely being pushed now, like every week there's a different article/show about why bw should date out. I am waiting on the article telling Asian men to date out.lol
ALL THAT U SAID! Saw the show followed by Anderson's show ON THE SAME TOPIC. I blame Michele Obama w/ her 2 Fab self. I think interest/beatdown of BW escalated when she came on scene. That used 2 b relegated 2 Essence. Russia got into it when Naomi got w/ her dude. Like Essence, I'm giving them the side eye!!!
@ebonyrose316266 we are a special kind. so special people want to study usand get all in our lives. that's why I feel black girls should be very proud and love themselves and yes, be your sisters keeper...can we live...yes we can!!!! thanx for stopping through.
@EbonyGirlSpeaks No, it is not about that. They want to get in our lives to CONTROL! They envy us and are using THEIR power to control us. That is NOT a compliment. That is genocide.
i agree and disagree i agree with having to open up because its always good to try new things....i disagree because every race tends to feel the same way as you and that woman does...he's not saying to give up black men he's just telling her to live and have fun while searching...he's just showing her that you can find things in common..because their are some women who dont take a look and different races and its not just black people.
@sweetazkandy09 don't mistake what i'm trying to convey as if people should not open up their world to people of other races. you should try new things only if you really want to, not because someone tries to tell you if you don't want to date outside your race you're racist and close minded. i'm just saying respect people and the choices they make and why are people surprised that the majority of the world wants to date within their race?? thanks so much for leaving a comment.
I didn't see that show. When I wasn't married and much younger I did date other races but then I knew when I was ready to settle down it would be with a black man. btw your hair is growing lovely
@trixieaunt I feel people should date who they want. as black women it just seems everyone wants to analyze our lives, behaviors and future. it's just so surprising that someone now comes to say black women should date other races if they want to be married. I would tell any young woman to date who she has a great time with and who treats her well whether they are the same race or not. thanx for the compliment on my hair. I really do appreciate your taking the time to comment.
this big lip, buck tooth, buckweat looking nigger baboon could never get a white man...
eyeh8ngrz 2 weeks ago
The point the show was trying to show was that SBW tend to be overly selective in mates. I would guess all the profiles read were from white men. She was interested in the man's personality but not then refused to date him due to race. He could very well have been her soulmate and everything she was looking for but she let color get in the way. You don't let your car run out of gas because you only buy BP gas and there are only Speedways.
thealphamoore 3 weeks ago
@2323bw This is true to a certain degree. There are other race men who will marry black women. When dating other races, black woman just have to be very picky when choosing...take it back to the old school and make him court you to finf out his true intentions.
girlinwonder 4 weeks ago
You're an ADULT woman and yet the title alone was enough to make me lose some brain cells. "Now I got to date a white man"? Please, black american people, put some effort into grammar and speaking. Please.
lovece7 1 month ago
Other races of men would only want to EXPERIMENT with a black woman so they can say they had one.: they do not want to FALL IN LOVE AND MARRY BLACK WOMEN!
2323bw 1 month ago
I don't want or need a white man !
2323bw 1 month ago
The crazy thing is some people act as if there is something wrong with same race couples.And those people are usually one's who are in interracial relationships,and they think that's the answer to ALL of love's questions.
82BlackPower 1 month ago
Accept your own and be yourself. Do For Self!
MosqueNo7 1 month ago
I am with you,i am a Black man that have dated Black, White and Asian women and i prefer Black women if some people have a problem with that who cares, get over it..!
tjohnson7771 1 month ago
You are right, when you say you only want to date black men, it doesn't directly mean you are racist. Altho the double standards annoy me tho. If a white woman says she only wants to dates white men, 99% of black people would say she's a racist b*tch.
MrJOJOJJJJ 1 month ago
Thank you Ebony Woman for setting the facts straight. The media will always misrepresent and distort Black women because they're not really interested in us. All they do is to exploit us.
angylgyrl 1 month ago
I would like to date a sister but I feel I would not be compatible. Many black women are on the matriarchy/strong independent black woman I wear the pants band wagon. I find myself more compatible with white women.
EandA23 2 months ago
I'm only attracted to black men, only ever dated black men, will only ever date black men, doesn't mean I'm racist, just my preference, but I would never knock a black woman that chooses to date outside the race, that's her preference. As for me, I'll just stick with the brothas. thx
jenntopp1 3 months ago
i like other race men that just me they do it for me , i like black men but is only black men from other country that just me.
cecinia23 3 months ago
if you understand me to say that you can date whomever you please, then you understand what i'm saying. because I only want to date a BLACK MAN does not mean I am racist. that's the only message I am trying to convey. if you date outside your race (especially black women) , I don't feel as if you're giving up on black men at all. if you think you hear me saying dating other races is wrong then you miss the whole message. date who you want to love, not because you have something to prove.
EbonyGirlSpeaks 3 months ago
@EbonyGirlSpeaks no, it doesnt make you racist. Just prejudice. But more power to you.
bdharper1024 1 week ago
this is just another mentally plan against real dark skin black men/sons and race just like interracial bullshit in white/jew's porno, media and tv or BIRACIAL light skinned boy in white house!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
I have been accused of being racist...bcuz i have a preference....i ONLY want a black man...i said i wud never date outside my race...BUT i did....and now i will NEVER date outside my race AGAIN....I agree wit u if we dnt like something or dnt want to eat goat then we dont have too....im entitled to my preference....im just not attracted to any other race...doesnt mean i cant befriend men of other races thats not the issue wit me...i know ME...to each his/her own
kaiingalls 3 months ago
@kaiingalls you smart ma respect yourself stay black and proud! i am black man who only date black women and i want real dark skin black sons/kids who will be look like me! black love the best!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
Don't worry, very, very few hite men will be interested in dating you.
Amillionmes 3 months ago
I haven't seen either show. I believe the young matchmaker you're referencing might be Paul Brunson and I think what he did has much validity. As I'm in my late 20's, I've already ascertained that I more than likely will not end up with a black man. I don't have debt, don't have any children, I've already lived abroad and traveled quite a bit. To many black women waste precious time sifting thru issue riddled men and still end up w/ a man who can't deal w/ commitment. No thanks.
MsBrooklynStar 3 months ago
@MsBrooklynStar
We have a lot in common. I am in the DC area.
mostsincere 3 weeks ago
I a black woman married to a East Indian. I NEVER stayed within the lines of dating in our race becasue I am human. Men are men and women are women. Every race deals with the same issues like adultry, baby daddy, money issues, bossy women, alcholics, drug addicts.. but as individual races, we do handle them differently. And blacks on in the spotlight while whites and others are undercover or overlooked.
globalhealth4 3 months ago
@globalhealth4 NAHH YOU JUST MIXED WHITE MAN'S WHORE STFU HOE WE DON'T WANT MIXED LOOKING KIDS!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
@MaybachMusicBOSS99 We my child is not yours...i could care less what you want because i dont want your type...which is ignorant just like the rest of the racist whites and blacks and hispanics! Now get your life! haaaaaaaaaa!
globalhealth4 3 months ago
@globalhealth4 i hope you die in hell you dirty racist mixed fake azz white man's whore!! you know you will be dirty single babymama with ugly white looking looking kids for white race very soon! karma is bitch!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
Lemme add this...black women are suffering a bad image wrap that not only do most whites believe but a lot of blacks believe too. When have we seen a black woman on tv without problems/issues with baby daddys or personality conflicts? Ijs
lexikal 3 months ago
Word, I feel ya.
lexikal 3 months ago
I have to say I agree your hair looks fabulous suits you perfectly..love the conversation ..I'm sticking with my brothers!!
faynadia 3 months ago
Your hair looks great. I would never watch the show you're describing. Ugh. The conversation is tired.
TruthSerum101 3 months ago
Is “marriage for white people” and yes I saw it to ridiculous!! I’m NOT dating a white man to get a brotha I’m just gonna date a brotha! I wanted to hit the floor when Tyrone or what ever his name was gonna say black women have attitudes that white women don't have.. I find that very stereotypical
naturalbrownbeautie 3 months ago
@naturalbrownbeautie U should listen to da brotha. U is showin yo attitude right now.
damone70 2 months ago
@damone70....I did...and what I heard was black women are too much work... which is fine, my mother always told me anything worth having is work fighting for so... with that I will wait for the man who is willing to fight/ work just as hard as I am.... a man who will love me and my "attitude", because I am beautiful in all my natural brown beautiful imperfections!!!
naturalbrownbeautie 2 months ago
@naturalbrownbeautie Aright, I feel ya on dat. Dat fool who said u is too much work, be missin out on da pay off from all da hard work he didnt put in. :)
damone70 2 months ago
well, love is it , if you find it go get it..and Brad Pitt used to be with Robin Givens..I think that if you want to only date black men, that is not racist. that is preference...
I often joke that my youngets sister dated like the United nations..she dated EVERY body..and they were all pretty cool guys.. she ended up marrying a black guy who was a LOOSER ..go figure...
kylahsmom1 3 months ago
first off, I was trying to focus on the conversation, but your hair is just so fabulous that it had me distracted for a minute! I saw the Anderson Cooper show, and let me just say right off, I am married to a black man , but I find that AC very attractive! ..I think that love is love, some of my best friends are married to white guys..going on 20 years now and they have wonderful husbands and the I have friends , like myslef , who are married to black men and just as happy..
kylahsmom1 3 months ago
I think that they are just letting bw know that they can expand their dating pool by ADDING other men to the mix. I prefer black men myself but I know what they means....more of us than them and less of a chance to find a mate. Sisters like ourselves who prefer our own have to (quietly) accept that your odds are slimer. A lot of Sisaz are complaining though that they cannot find a one on one mate.
mpenny226 3 months ago
We should not give up on our brothers but a lot of us aren't getting married and a lot of them are not either. When we figure out why we are not marrying each other as much, it will probably help us out.
mpenny226 3 months ago
Men are always giving dumb advice to women. Then when the woman listens to this dumb advice the relationship is short-lived or goes nowhere and it's still the black woman's fault for listening.
kookoo78 3 months ago
For a comprehensive understanding of 'why' what you describe is being 'pushed' on the US population right now I recommend the books "Death of a Dark Nation" and "The Inter-racial Con Game" by Umoja.Both are printed by 'Trojan Horse Press'.
yorubablk3 3 months ago
@yorubablk3
I've never heard of that book or author. But IR is definitely being pushed now, like every week there's a different article/show about why bw should date out. I am waiting on the article telling Asian men to date out.lol
ebonyrose316266 3 months ago
@ebonyrose316266 Yeah,and i think all should check those books out.They r a real eye opener
yorubablk3 3 months ago
ALL THAT U SAID! Saw the show followed by Anderson's show ON THE SAME TOPIC. I blame Michele Obama w/ her 2 Fab self. I think interest/beatdown of BW escalated when she came on scene. That used 2 b relegated 2 Essence. Russia got into it when Naomi got w/ her dude. Like Essence, I'm giving them the side eye!!!
trini467 3 months ago
ITA with you.
These articles/shows kill me...if they aren't worried about what's in our hair they're worried about who's in our bed...Can we Live!
ebonyrose316266 3 months ago
@ebonyrose316266 we are a special kind. so special people want to study usand get all in our lives. that's why I feel black girls should be very proud and love themselves and yes, be your sisters keeper...can we live...yes we can!!!! thanx for stopping through.
EbonyGirlSpeaks 3 months ago
@EbonyGirlSpeaks No, it is not about that. They want to get in our lives to CONTROL! They envy us and are using THEIR power to control us. That is NOT a compliment. That is genocide.
HappyHooker83 1 month ago
i agree and disagree i agree with having to open up because its always good to try new things....i disagree because every race tends to feel the same way as you and that woman does...he's not saying to give up black men he's just telling her to live and have fun while searching...he's just showing her that you can find things in common..because their are some women who dont take a look and different races and its not just black people.
sweetazkandy09 3 months ago 2
@sweetazkandy09 don't mistake what i'm trying to convey as if people should not open up their world to people of other races. you should try new things only if you really want to, not because someone tries to tell you if you don't want to date outside your race you're racist and close minded. i'm just saying respect people and the choices they make and why are people surprised that the majority of the world wants to date within their race?? thanks so much for leaving a comment.
EbonyGirlSpeaks 3 months ago
@EbonyGirlSpeaks im not i understand what you mean completel and no problem
sweetazkandy09 3 months ago
I didn't see that show. When I wasn't married and much younger I did date other races but then I knew when I was ready to settle down it would be with a black man. btw your hair is growing lovely
trixieaunt 3 months ago
@trixieaunt I feel people should date who they want. as black women it just seems everyone wants to analyze our lives, behaviors and future. it's just so surprising that someone now comes to say black women should date other races if they want to be married. I would tell any young woman to date who she has a great time with and who treats her well whether they are the same race or not. thanx for the compliment on my hair. I really do appreciate your taking the time to comment.
EbonyGirlSpeaks 3 months ago