I have Aspergers and now that I'm out of school I hardly ever see my friends as much as I used to. They're all in work , ect and I'm trying to too. But I've got so much time on my hands and nothing to do in it but write songs, which is a hobby, but I just feel more and more depressed when I never go out and have no social interactions with new people.
At school people ask me why are you so quiet and never talk? I won't say a godamn word why? They don't understand they don't understand that you can't stop being shy and some of us are in that condemned period of times in our life.
Can anyone help. After a bad past in school(involved other people, u should know what I'm on about)it's fucked me up!! my confidence if extremely bad and now I'm in a different class. I want to gain my confidence. Any help on how ??? Please
people that have SA or low self confidence ask too much of themselves and are never satisfied with who they are or what your doing...Just be happy with who you are
I'm happy being alone reading books and drawing...constant noise bugs me anyways, and the crowd is so overwhelming because it's like a washing machine back and forth back and forth...that's when the anxiety kicks in.
However? When I'm with one or two people in a table...I dig that type of Environment because I could focus better and become more confident socially, but with groups there is always that one person that loves to dominate the conversation and will not give you a chance to speak.
Hi everyone. I recently started a blog and video series on social anxiety. I have a PhD in psychology and a lot of experience helping people with social anxiety. My goal is for the videos to be interactive and to cover topics that are important for you, so I'll hope you'll check them out and give me feedback about your questions or topic you're interested in related to social anxiety.
hey everyone I had Social anxiety & I overcame it, with tools I have learned the past months, & Im here to help you out! Check out my channel, and I will be posting videos to help you out! Its curable, its how you think!
Some people are shy beacuse they don't fit in or are mistreated. So the question is for a person is when is not being shy an option. If all shy people were alike then nothing would get done.
I dont think its horrible. I like it cuz guys c me bluch nd they make me laugh. Some dueds actually like shy girls so I think im perfect even if im shy
this makes you feel like you don't have to be the way you are but allows you to start off fresh and make that feeling of anxiety disappear, which works, because knowing what other people think of you maintains that anxiety. So the best way is to just be yourself, make a good first impression and 'maintain' that and some of that will go away. Also don't think about yourself so much but focus on the person.
this makes you feel like you don't have to be the way you are but allows you to start off fresh and make that feeling of anxiety disappear, which works, because knowing what other people think of you maintains that anxiety. So the best way is to just be yourself, make a good first impression and 'maintain' that and some of that will go away. Also don't think about yourself so much but focus on the person.
I never used to be shy, but a few years ago i was traumatised by an event where my teacher told me off so badly i got embarrassed and 'closed up' and stopped speaking less and less till i didnt talk to anyone, but ever since its taking me a long time to climb back up and ive never got back to who i truely was, but i feel if you are taking out of an environment that is fimilar to you or people you know, then you can kinda reinvent yourself and everyone that doesn't know you wont judge you and
There's a small and excellent online depression support group called Depression Hangout that is always open to anyone who is struggling with mental health problems (not just depression). It's run in its own chaotic way by its members who meet regularly in the chat room and it's a great place to seek and provide help and support, make new friends and even just have a laugh. (We all need that too!) To join just go to depressionhangout-dot-blogspot-dot-com.
I have got a English Applied Studys to do. I have to do it on a movie star and do 8 slides about him/her. Then put it onto a board and on my own talk through each slide to my class. I am apsolutely shy. I can't even talk to my friends. I hardly talk in school i only say stuff like "uh-huh" so i don't talk. When i talk my voice goes quiet and weird. Please Help me. I got less than 3 weeks till i do it :(
@CrafterRuneGuide i know how you feel they can be really hard but maybe if you just forget about being the shy person and just be whoever you want for a bit? it could be a good way of trying to become less shy if the presentation makes people notice you more :) it could be a break through for you but don't worry about it at all you'll be fine! the less you think about it the better you'll feel about it!
Ehh I just got to get to know the person. Just like I like this girl at my school we talk all the time. That's the only person I didn't have to get to know. :/ I just hate being shy towards others in my school.
i always feel like a scared puppy compared to the other girls at school i talk to. i can make them laugh or agree with me for a second, and then i start asking questions like i don't fuckin understand. but once i get to know someone, i'm a lot more confident. i blame my dad. he's the anti-social parent, so i got screwed there. i swear sometimes when i talk to him its like talking to a four year old...
Here's the thing I'm able to switch into social mode here and there but I don't seem to be able to maintain and its fuckin annoying. I start feeling awkward and my facial expressions will look awkward so I just say f it.
@MsFavorited Really! There's me thinking I was the only one with that thing. Its weird its kinda a habitual thing. Sometimes I'm just feeling confident and I can override it but other times I'm so aware of 'it' that I can't get rid of it lol!!
one of my parents has this illness so i've inherited it too
i'm solely trying to recover from it by my self...and it's working (altough i must admit sometimes the feelings come back)
to start the process of self healing you must read about social anxiety (SA)
that's the first step because you will know exactly why you feel like that and you must think to do the opposite (also try to copy and idol;that helps too)
Well there are dozens and dozens of testimonials on our website if that helps. I agree though, there arent that many really excellent NLPers. There is however now a really good book which does provide a solid 'scientific' basis for NLP, it is called Magic In Practice by Garner Thomson and Dr Khalid Khan. Designed for doctors & other medical professionals it is very thoroughly sourced and referenced. Anyone who wants to examine NLP from a scientific angle should read it and decide for themselves.
sigh* i feel real useless, i cant even chat online because of this fear of Social situations let alone talk in real life, im afraid of not bein accepted, bein a burded to everyone, i feel that people just hang around me so not to to hurt my feelings but i know that am not accepted, thats how i feel evrytime im in a social Situation,
Is it Just ME?am i Mentally ILL? this is so fusterating! why is it LIKE THIS!
Of course it isn't just you =) there are billions upon billions of people in the world, and millions of them probably have similar feelings to you.
And being mentally ill is quite serious. If you are able to comment here saying all of that, and if people DO hang out with you, then that is an indication that you are not mentally ill. You just need to practice socialising. The best way to be accepted is to be happy, and accepting.
Just be nice and others will be nice to you. If someone doesn't like you, don't hang out with them. Find someone else. I'm in a big friend group so I don't really know what it feels like to be rejected.. but honestly, if you can smile, help someone, be nice, listen to what others have to say.. be a genuinly good person, then people are going to like you and accept you =)
that happens to me a lot too...oftentimes i feel regret for not saying something when I'm in a group (a class, a gathering or something similar). it is really frustrating...
every1 has a PBA (Personal bank account) what goes in2 tht account affects what comes out. Overtime Small steps will become big changes, even if its somethin as simple as sayin 'hello' 2 sum1 every day tht u r afraid 2 talk 2 will make a difference. Believe me i know this from experience
i want to be so confident that i will run butt naked on the road when theres cars driving and i will fart when ever i want in the restraunts and laugh so loud that i can just be so happy
I have Aspergers and now that I'm out of school I hardly ever see my friends as much as I used to. They're all in work , ect and I'm trying to too. But I've got so much time on my hands and nothing to do in it but write songs, which is a hobby, but I just feel more and more depressed when I never go out and have no social interactions with new people.
shyko95 3 weeks ago
WUBBLE10@ with all respect, you don't have sosial phobia or sosial ansiety, maybe anti-sosial conduct
LITTLETUTUCUTS 3 weeks ago
At school people ask me why are you so quiet and never talk? I won't say a godamn word why? They don't understand they don't understand that you can't stop being shy and some of us are in that condemned period of times in our life.
mrsuns10 1 month ago
@mrsuns10 that is so me!
ChristineLexus4 1 month ago
@mrsuns10 i have the same problem
rish087 1 week ago
Can anyone help. After a bad past in school(involved other people, u should know what I'm on about)it's fucked me up!! my confidence if extremely bad and now I'm in a different class. I want to gain my confidence. Any help on how ??? Please
Piano0397 2 months ago
I'm starting to overcome this! And I have never felt so happy in my whole life!!!! :)
Littlemonsterr12 2 months ago
I hate how angry I get..
that's why im socially anxious.. i get very impatient with people.. BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE SO STUPID..
where the hell did common knowledge go in this generation.. seriously? i hate everyone and everything
Wubblez10 3 months ago
Yes, but within a relative situation, some clients cannot be hypnotised...
jjojjorge 5 months ago
GIVE US A CALL? I'm petrified of making phone calls....
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mariusww1 5 months ago in playlist psych
people that have SA or low self confidence ask too much of themselves and are never satisfied with who they are or what your doing...Just be happy with who you are
Shanongao 6 months ago
I'm happy being alone reading books and drawing...constant noise bugs me anyways, and the crowd is so overwhelming because it's like a washing machine back and forth back and forth...that's when the anxiety kicks in.
However? When I'm with one or two people in a table...I dig that type of Environment because I could focus better and become more confident socially, but with groups there is always that one person that loves to dominate the conversation and will not give you a chance to speak.
EricSchwin22 6 months ago 5
Hi everyone. I recently started a blog and video series on social anxiety. I have a PhD in psychology and a lot of experience helping people with social anxiety. My goal is for the videos to be interactive and to cover topics that are important for you, so I'll hope you'll check them out and give me feedback about your questions or topic you're interested in related to social anxiety.
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TheResurrectedLight 8 months ago
please make more videos about this subject and self confidence! it helps me a lot! thanks
jesseisdead89 9 months ago
I do have this and have had been having cbt for this but cbt is not a very good thing for social anxiety what is nlp what she says sounds good
marc09676 9 months ago
I suffer from social anxiety also, I'm so glad to know I'm not the only one. I just want to be able to talk to people without fearing rejection.
apx24 9 months ago
@apx24 I have that very same fear as well, social anxiety is terrible.
Cool07Star 9 months ago
Some people are shy beacuse they don't fit in or are mistreated. So the question is for a person is when is not being shy an option. If all shy people were alike then nothing would get done.
clemnext 10 months ago in playlist knowledge
I dont think its horrible. I like it cuz guys c me bluch nd they make me laugh. Some dueds actually like shy girls so I think im perfect even if im shy
Twil890 10 months ago
this makes you feel like you don't have to be the way you are but allows you to start off fresh and make that feeling of anxiety disappear, which works, because knowing what other people think of you maintains that anxiety. So the best way is to just be yourself, make a good first impression and 'maintain' that and some of that will go away. Also don't think about yourself so much but focus on the person.
rickyrickrick1224 11 months ago
this makes you feel like you don't have to be the way you are but allows you to start off fresh and make that feeling of anxiety disappear, which works, because knowing what other people think of you maintains that anxiety. So the best way is to just be yourself, make a good first impression and 'maintain' that and some of that will go away. Also don't think about yourself so much but focus on the person.
rickyrickrick1224 11 months ago
I never used to be shy, but a few years ago i was traumatised by an event where my teacher told me off so badly i got embarrassed and 'closed up' and stopped speaking less and less till i didnt talk to anyone, but ever since its taking me a long time to climb back up and ive never got back to who i truely was, but i feel if you are taking out of an environment that is fimilar to you or people you know, then you can kinda reinvent yourself and everyone that doesn't know you wont judge you and
rickyrickrick1224 11 months ago 2
What is NLP.
mattkin123 1 year ago
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There's a small and excellent online depression support group called Depression Hangout that is always open to anyone who is struggling with mental health problems (not just depression). It's run in its own chaotic way by its members who meet regularly in the chat room and it's a great place to seek and provide help and support, make new friends and even just have a laugh. (We all need that too!) To join just go to depressionhangout-dot-blogspot-dot-com.
MrSolmon123 1 year ago
I have got a English Applied Studys to do. I have to do it on a movie star and do 8 slides about him/her. Then put it onto a board and on my own talk through each slide to my class. I am apsolutely shy. I can't even talk to my friends. I hardly talk in school i only say stuff like "uh-huh" so i don't talk. When i talk my voice goes quiet and weird. Please Help me. I got less than 3 weeks till i do it :(
CrafterRuneGuide 1 year ago
@CrafterRuneGuide i know how you feel they can be really hard but maybe if you just forget about being the shy person and just be whoever you want for a bit? it could be a good way of trying to become less shy if the presentation makes people notice you more :) it could be a break through for you but don't worry about it at all you'll be fine! the less you think about it the better you'll feel about it!
Hobgoblin13O 1 year ago
i just wanna be nice to everybody and have wonderful day before i die
KaKaGaNu 1 year ago
im confident with adults but other teens are intimadating. im a little messed up. any tips?
tizzie13 1 year ago 4
this really helped. thank u.=)
marshmallow2312 1 year ago
genetic? ridiculous...lol
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89murph 1 year ago
Ehh I just got to get to know the person. Just like I like this girl at my school we talk all the time. That's the only person I didn't have to get to know. :/ I just hate being shy towards others in my school.
ivanich08 1 year ago
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AimeebabyUK 1 year ago
Bullshit
willforrhall 1 year ago
I blush :'(
iMULTIPLAYERi 1 year ago
i always feel like a scared puppy compared to the other girls at school i talk to. i can make them laugh or agree with me for a second, and then i start asking questions like i don't fuckin understand. but once i get to know someone, i'm a lot more confident. i blame my dad. he's the anti-social parent, so i got screwed there. i swear sometimes when i talk to him its like talking to a four year old...
MsFavorited 1 year ago
IM so happy to know how many otehrs their are similar to me, I am so fucking shy its rediculous. I hate it.
oldschoolbamf 1 year ago 6
i hate it when people say just walk over and say hi.......jeez, they must not realize that we ARE shy so we actually really cant do that :/
xAdrenalineRushGirlx 1 year ago 4
im very shy! UGH! what am i supposed to say when I meet someone I dont know!?
sonicgrl9 1 year ago
Here's the thing I'm able to switch into social mode here and there but I don't seem to be able to maintain and its fuckin annoying. I start feeling awkward and my facial expressions will look awkward so I just say f it.
coolshit28 1 year ago
@coolshit28 omg, you are just like me...honestly
MsFavorited 1 year ago
@MsFavorited Really! There's me thinking I was the only one with that thing. Its weird its kinda a habitual thing. Sometimes I'm just feeling confident and I can override it but other times I'm so aware of 'it' that I can't get rid of it lol!!
coolshit28 1 year ago
@BellaaMarlene i have it too
one of my parents has this illness so i've inherited it too
i'm solely trying to recover from it by my self...and it's working (altough i must admit sometimes the feelings come back)
to start the process of self healing you must read about social anxiety (SA)
that's the first step because you will know exactly why you feel like that and you must think to do the opposite (also try to copy and idol;that helps too)
alemeyo 1 year ago
Well there are dozens and dozens of testimonials on our website if that helps. I agree though, there arent that many really excellent NLPers. There is however now a really good book which does provide a solid 'scientific' basis for NLP, it is called Magic In Practice by Garner Thomson and Dr Khalid Khan. Designed for doctors & other medical professionals it is very thoroughly sourced and referenced. Anyone who wants to examine NLP from a scientific angle should read it and decide for themselves.
JustBeWell 1 year ago 4
sigh* i feel real useless, i cant even chat online because of this fear of Social situations let alone talk in real life, im afraid of not bein accepted, bein a burded to everyone, i feel that people just hang around me so not to to hurt my feelings but i know that am not accepted, thats how i feel evrytime im in a social Situation,
Is it Just ME?am i Mentally ILL? this is so fusterating! why is it LIKE THIS!
Sonicku 2 years ago 4
@Sonicku
Of course it isn't just you =) there are billions upon billions of people in the world, and millions of them probably have similar feelings to you.
And being mentally ill is quite serious. If you are able to comment here saying all of that, and if people DO hang out with you, then that is an indication that you are not mentally ill. You just need to practice socialising. The best way to be accepted is to be happy, and accepting.
Smile, listen, observe. Just be nice and
LegendaryMoment 2 years ago
@Sonicku
Just be nice and others will be nice to you. If someone doesn't like you, don't hang out with them. Find someone else. I'm in a big friend group so I don't really know what it feels like to be rejected.. but honestly, if you can smile, help someone, be nice, listen to what others have to say.. be a genuinly good person, then people are going to like you and accept you =)
LegendaryMoment 2 years ago 2
@lrchang lol true
MrHygea 2 years ago
you have to want nothing from others in order to truly overcome social anxiety...
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Chriomuz 2 years ago
I could overcome shyness if it wasn´t that I don´t have so many topics to talk to people. When that happends I´m like oh c´mon say something now...
Evilspirit7 2 years ago 8
that happens to me a lot too...oftentimes i feel regret for not saying something when I'm in a group (a class, a gathering or something similar). it is really frustrating...
poj89 2 years ago 8
every1 has a PBA (Personal bank account) what goes in2 tht account affects what comes out. Overtime Small steps will become big changes, even if its somethin as simple as sayin 'hello' 2 sum1 every day tht u r afraid 2 talk 2 will make a difference. Believe me i know this from experience
Torreslegend 2 years ago
i am shy and hesitant by nature....trying my best to change myself and remove this 4m my life
9896000604 2 years ago 11
Most people like my self who are shy suffer from ADD which causes anxiety, anti-social behavior and more.
90sTeenWonder1992 2 years ago
i want to be so confident that i will run butt naked on the road when theres cars driving and i will fart when ever i want in the restraunts and laugh so loud that i can just be so happy
harmonizethelord9 2 years ago 106
lol Amen!
ChIcKiLoVe 2 years ago
@harmonizethelord9 thats crazy already
thefranzrussable 1 year ago
@harmonizethelord9 I want to be so confident that I can sing and dance in public. :)
StellyBellie 1 year ago
@harmonizethelord9 Hahaha
iMULTIPLAYERi 1 year ago
smoke weed
SatoshiBatista 1 year ago
@SatoshiBatista nah! that will fuck up the head.
lastcore1 1 year ago
lmao...ur name doesn't go with your statement
navyseal100 2 years ago 6