G Marks the Spot

[dabrigil]

how common is it that the guy is unable to achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse? when i was with my ex i would go for nearly an hour and still not get there

[kicesie]

@dabrigil Perhaps google "delayed ejaculation"

[minahselebet]

i like the info! superb!

[narutozr]

I have a question kicesie, I wanted to know if there are any other methods of helping the girl achieve an orgasm through penetration besides stimulating the clitirus. Does it depend on the angle of entry? I ask because I know how to help a girl achieve an orgasm orally through G spot stimulation but I've heard from girls that an oral orgasm isn't as good as a penetration orgasm. Is that true? I would like for her to enjoy sex as much as possible because frankly as a guy I'll enjoy it either way.

[IndyRockStar76]

you sex advise is great. But just a tip on other stuff. NO matter how cute, or funny you cat is nobody wants to see it!

[kicesie]

@IndyRockStar76 I get emails every day asking when she'll be in another video... *laughs*

[futureblade7]

@kicesie don't be fooled, your cat is adorable

[bunniXbabi]

@IndyRockStar76 that's bs. her cat is beautiful, id love to see it in videos. :] i love cats.

[29264j]

thanx for the vid:)

[TheJoniscool]

i find that my gf LOVES when i rub her whole area while we're having straight intercourse i do both at the same time and she has climaxed most of the time

[maxipriestgurl88]

kicesie ur amazing, u'll b a gr8 sex therapist, helped alot thx :) x

[karlakarliable]

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[dogg2727]

This was very informative...thank you I appreciate you making this video. Informative and in simple terms

[ankitz13]

hey kicesie i really gained a lot from you..

thank u love u muaaahhh...

[montemontemontemonte]

sweet hat tilt

[hackeley]

Every guy should see your videos... seriously!

[appacana]

pretty informative

[bridgetyourbud]

what weezer video?

[kicesie]

@bridgetyourbud search for the Weezer Pork and Beans Video

[SuperCahl]

this was great. for whom it may concern stimulating the clit with you toung while using ur fingers to stimulate the g spot iv found to have the quickest and most pleasurable orgasams

[uberfriponne]

A great way to hit the g-spot during penetration is to have the woman lie on her back and the man almost « sitting » in front of her

that way the penis is gonna rub the upper vaginal wall mostly

[idc49]

Thank you

[rj60000]

very informational thank you

[williecantrell72]

I found your videos from the suggestion bar by looking at videos of Banjo's haha? I've only seen 4 or 5 of your videos, and they've all been quite educational and interesting topics to say the least. Its also cool that the fact that your answering peoples question that they might feel hesitant to ask someone that they know.

[TEAMEEXTREME]

i was hoping this was a how to.

[bakariboss]

Interesting. This info bunks all that size matters garbage. I heard women prefer girth over length anyway.

[bobdalethalhobo]

hey, you're really hot!

[Lalaloveeee]

I cant achieve a vaginal orgasm. The penetration feels good but I just never seem to reach an orgasm. Is it suppose to feel good if you can't get a vaginal orgasm? I don't know if it's me or the guy who's not getting me there.. If I went to a Gynecologist would they be able to examine me and tell me if my body just isn't able to reach an orgasm? Sounds confusing but Idk how else to explain! lol

[Guyslaptop]

What happened to a b c d e f . Did I miss the videos. Will search now.

[goodlookin41]

I got a question for you the maker of the video. is their something inside the vagina about 3-4 inches in that feels like a soft ball. the g-spot is suppose to be a few inches in but I had a girl that had something about 4 inches in that was like a soft ball. any info on that? is that the g-spot cause her reacted like it was but they also talk about it being just in a little and up.

[kicesie]

@goodlookin41 There are also spots called the A spot, the U spot and all sorts of stuff. Much less research on that. You could have just been feeling a fold in the vaginal wall.... And when you're talking 4-5 inches up there you're getting close to or ON the cervix.

[goodlookin41]

@kicesie well when I put pressure on it and stimulate it it got the best reaction from her. the g-spot itself wasnt getting as much reaction. this spot made her go crazy.

[syizm]

@goodlookin41 That's the cervix my man - if what you were feeling was round and (hopefully) smooth. The cervix retracts farther in to the vagina (of most women) when they're highly aroused, but even then you can run in to it with fingers and...errr.. other things. The g-spot will be before the cervix and generally feels somewhat like the ridges roof of the mouth; it stimulates a nerve bundle that some girls love, some hate, and some urinate or squirt over.

[dhlunlimited]

Very informative from a lay perspective. Thank you!

[TheCrash2233]

rainbow sox girl nice lmao hey ur doing a great job but to be homist my boyfriend is hard to to turn on unless he's drunk... so i was wondering... what is the best way to turn a guy on??

[tripleswirl]

I believe Orgasims for a woman is deffinatly more of mental thing, just like your romance books;)

[charmingmale209]

I am in love!

[Uhmeplay]

lol

[Fucas101]

great vids

[rossboom100]

ur hot

[foshobmx]

Very helpful thanks!:)

[MsTinkerbelle87]

this is really great advice..it's so awkward to ask these question to other people but you answer them so well thank you!!

[nnigro14]

your nice

[nnigro14]

your very pretty

[belsen89]

how to know that you're an informative speaker:

people (such as myself) pay attention to you despite the fact that they're completely aware that they may not even be able to act on, or put to use of the information you're distributing.

[kochirakoso]

Wow, I love your videos. I'm seventeen, female and as a virgin, I still have a lot of confusion about sex. All they teach you in health or sex ed is STI's, and all of the frightening things about sex leaving us young girls with questions that we're too shy to ask... It's not only admirable that you make these videos, but it's very helpful and puts my mind more at rest so that when that day does come that I feel I'm responsible and ready enough to go all the way I don't have to be afraid. :)

[Bassisnevertooloud]

you are hot

[iloverent23]

You have like amazing information!! U shud be a councler or teacher of some sort! Amazing(: 5starts.

[mindtrue63]

You had me with "hey guys" :-) You have a sweet video personality appearance.

[AznInterwebzDood]

nice legs

[SSony001]

Thaank you...

[energypillar182]

I've only watched a couple of your videos so far, but I can see why you have multi-million views on them. I'm impressed. I think a good teacher can keep it simple but still get the point across, and you do that pretty well.

[blewj]

@energypillar182 My sentiments exactly.

[TPainMan123]

I Believe that what you are doing is an amazing thing. educating both the youtch and the older couples nowadays. helping them to be both comfortable with their and their partners sexual preferences. i love you Kicesie :) and also i DIDN'T see the sock video first :D

[calscott1]

i love your videos

[kicesie]

@calscott1 thanks!

[calscott1]

@kicesie thanks for responding to my comment :)

[qMaddixp]

@kicesie Me too. Really, i startet listen to you like 1 or 2 hours ago, instead of radio... its informative, interesting, and good explaination... really, nice work :)

[babyface35903]

@kicesie I want u to know this video really gave me insight! I am a married woman and have been with my hubby for 12 years and we are very sexual with each other. I do have a G spot and we hit it but I on the other hand did not know how to hit it with him and the fingers but I do now and also I didnt know about elongating the canal and I do now...also can you do a video on sex after a hysterectomy? I have had one and I am curious how to make it feel better for both and any tips on that....

[chrisandelly]

@kicesie were is the best g spot

[oONosxtenOo]

@kicesie

& i Love u ;D

[Zetexc]

Your Hot :D!

[DarkKnightBob1o1]

Where the hell did this "philly girl represent" attitude come from?

[kicesie]

@DarkKnightBob1o1 LOL! I was in a mood.... what can I say? I'm quirky sometimes. I try to keep it all in the same tone and mood, but sometimes I'm just extra quirky. Then again, all my quirky videos seem to get the most views.... damn... I just now realized that. I guess I just might be making a lot more videos where my personality is 'off'....

[DarkKnightBob1o1]

@kicesie Nothing wrong with a personality :D

[kicesie]

@DarkKnightBob1o1 *hugs* thanks! :-)

[trevorleonard1]

@kicesie you know alot about sex

[fallintoyesterday]

I've heard that the minority of women who acheive orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone reach that point not because of the physical sensations, but because of psychological triggers that include feeling womanly, or powerful in the fact that they are pleasing their male counterparts. Plus, I mean, Kegels probably didn't hurt them either.

[MrMeanderthal]

let it rain!

[SlapHapGranPap]

Toys are always associated with females, but men have a few avalible to them aswell, what toys are safe to use and give pleasure?

[kicesie]

@SlapHapGranPap KaraSutra (youtube(dot)com/hollidaychild­) has great videos on a huge variety of sex toys!

[TheMrbear186]

I'm sorry, my internet is too wretchedly slow to watch the video, where is the G spot?

[ElleRel888]

'Being Female: The Art of Female Masturbation' by Arlene & Bernard Clendenin is an amazing book. It is actually written by my Aunt & Uncle, and my uncle did all if the illustrations. It is sort of a step-by-step guide to self pleasure. I recommend it for any woman, and to couples as well. Right now, you can find it on Amazon.com as it us not currently in stores... YET! This is a new publication.

I would love to see you discuss the book or it's contents in a later video. What do you think?

[kicesie]

@ElleRel888 I want to do a video on several recommended books. I'll check it out and if it's in my top ten sexual health, knowledge and technique books, I'll definitely throw it in!

[navyman4]

I want to know about FEMALE EJACULATION! My girlfriends would squirt buckets of juice that put me to shame! I've researched that it's not pee. However, I want to know your take of it?

[kicesie]

@navyman4 No, I don't believe it's urine. Scientific literature is very mixed so we don't have a really clear answer yet, but it's my suspicion it's an entirely unique substance.

[navyman4]

@kicesie Thanks. Ever since one of my ex-girlfriends first did it, I have been intruiged by this phenomenon. Since then, I've encouraged my sex partners to "let go" by dropping hints about it. I always do it sponteneously. One instance my girl spilled some wine on the coffee table, I said, "Look at you, squirting all over my coffee table!(playfully)" she said, "I do that in bed" ... the conversation progressed from there. I MAKE THEM FEEL COMFORTABLE!

[TheNikecrazy123]

@mobroes actually, yes u are!

[torso99]

lol i fought the g spot was in the anal

[kicesie]

@torso99 There are references to the 'male g spot', which is actually the prostate that can be stimulated anally.

[xMOmeNtoX]

in a mature way how does it feel inside a VuhhJJ besides good is it like goo-ish or skin feel if anyone knows wat im trying to ask

[crissg33]

@xMOmeNtoX from a guys perspective?

[AngelofApathy1]

Idk if this is TMI, but some advice I took from this Video. I had given my Girlfriend her very first orgasim (using my fingers) it did take a while until she built to it, almost an hour, an hour in a half. I did not give up! lol. and wow it gave me alot more confidence! but I also noticed once I "broke down her walls" so to speak, it was a lot more easier for her to orgasim. I do thank you for your advice and understanding, Kicesie thank you. :)

[AngelofApathy1]

Hello! I have commented on your previous video, "a Woman's Fantasy". You had suggested I talked to a professional about "Roleplaying, whether it was healthy to be dependant on it or not." Before I had taken your advice into consideration, I had talked with my longtime girlfriend, she said, "I just love the adventure and Submission is all, babe." and we have tried new positions and new things and she just likes to be dominated,

[RomanticCrusader]

Kicesie, I have an honest question.

My wife says she doesn't have orgasms, but every time she has sex she cums heavily and shakes a little bit.

What truly is an orgasm for a woman? Is it just cumming, or is it more of a full-body thing or what? If I can get this answer, then maybe I could research and look up some more videos and find out better ways of approaching an even greater orgasm for her.

Thank you, Kicesie.

[kicesie]

@RomanticCrusader Ahh, the indescribable female orgasm. If by cumming you mean she gets really really wet or even ejaculates, that doesn't necessarily mean she's having an orgasm at all. An orgasm builds, peaks, and is like this sensation that runs up your spine to your brain (like you can actually feel that) and then shoots down like lightning into your clitoral area. Often the body tightens or convulses. And immense relaxation occurs afterwards (or another orgasm! hehe)

[kicesie]

@RomanticCrusader If she's having a great amount of trouble orgasming I suggest a quality lubricant and a vibrator like the hitachi magic wand, or something smaller like the Fairy minimini!! Use that along with light friction across the clit and she should reach orgasm! (medications like anti-depressants can make orgasm completely impossible at times).

All that said, please remember that even if she doesn't have an ORGASM, it doesn't mean she's not loving sex.... especially if she's so wet!

[UnderJonathan]

I love you kicesie, you are sooo HOT!!

[justino4567]

damn, 4 min makes a lot of sence...

[kalega311]

ejaculation > orgasm only, and isn't ejaculation from g-spot stimulation only?

[kappkids]

you are to hott.

[superlizard234]

your really hot...

[fingerboy18]

Hey Kicesie, when giving my girlfriend manual stimulation of the clitoris; she gets very excited and gets shaky. But, she tells me to stop after a bit because it's too sensitive. I don't think she is having an orgasm. Is there any way to keep going and help her achieve orgasm?

[dianaismymom]

Kudos man, great touch on the yearly gynecologist check-up. Really responisble on that note. Best of wishes on your studies.

[pyroboy1]

Haha "come hither...in more ways tha one!"

[eoxor]

'' you wanna go in an inc or 2.... and then you're gonna feel this kinda rough area... '' best way to describe a womans inside...

[helenight]

You give very sound advice, which is not always true of internet videos. Congratulations! Will subscribe!

[iHASThaCrAZeFOrMaNGO]

i learned so much... wow. :P thnx!

[backcourtviolation]

Damn, you have a million faces (I mean hairstyles...). I've seen some of your vids...Each on of them you have different hair... Funny. :D

[MoBroes]

Lolz, so were stroking a womans penis? (Yea just joking)

[Soesii]

Now I get what that pain came from :) thanks!

[Crisiscore425]

You are very beautiful and very helpful. I showed this video

to my girlfriend and she said u really put everything in perspective for her and you put me at ease. I'm not gonna get into details but ur vid has strengthend our relationship because I also asked her what she likes and we spent hours just talking openly about it. Thank you thank you for your vids. I wish u luck on your Carrer path :)

[kogashuko84]

well said

[Zacheriah1431]

Kicesie,

Thanks for your advice.

It might be benificial if you showed us a chart.

[kicesie]

@Zacheriah1431 You can see charts at 3DVulva(dot)com as I listed in the description box below the video.

[ahaze0311]

U rock... Keep posting for the women who don't understand a whole bunch

[ezsingh]

yo r soooo hot

[abeness88]

Thanks for explaining this. I am really shy about talking about this kind of stuff. :)

[kicesie]

@lese91 I never answer personal questions. Only my husband needs to know stuff like that.

[lese91]

@kicesie fair enough!

[Zain917328]

she's hot!!

[WarshipAngelus]

Thanks, now I learn something new. Knowing is only half the battle. LOL. /(*_*)\

[bojo000]

hey do you do things like that?

[kicesie]

@bojo000 huh?

[Random90sKid]

This is the only woman on YouTube who talks about stuff without being a total slut.

[boogeyratt]

"Come hither". Great friggin' pun. ;-)

Props for encouraging everyone to be safe and to be responsible.

[IBombAmerikan]

We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation.

[LAURENT1710]

I love over analyzing things. Kinda figured out all of this when I was younger. xD

[agent47k]

This info is great but is it necessary that g spot always located in the same location told by you.

[kicesie]

@agent47k You're right, it's always located about the same area! There might be centimeters of differences, but that's about it!

[undercitymusic]

wow ur like smart... and blond... and kinda hot...

[teamforteress]

@undercitymusic lol "kinda"

[socrkool21]

so in your opinion size doesn't matter bc you can make a female climax from only an inch or so of penetratiion?

[kicesie]

That's a good way of putting it. I made a whole video about that titled 'Does Size Matter?'

[lpfan2818]

ok so its not goin in and out thats making it feel good but rubing that certain part, does it matter if you rub it fast or slow? (we are all desperate guys who need to pleasure our GFS/WIfes more)

[kicesie]

It all depends on your partner. Ask her whether it feels better fast or slow... she should let you know!

[171view]

You're pretty ;)

[moonknightbliss]

you are awsome, all of your info are very detailed.

[TheMrHdoggie]

ur hawt..

[DudeitsLandon]

very good info, thanks

[bmw530ci]

is it works if the girl is virgin ?

or she must be not virgin?!

[kicesie]

Virginity has nothing to do with it in my opinion.

[baseball1909]

this is great! when fingering a girl, how will i be able to tell if its the clitoris or not?

[kicesie]

@baseball1909 The clitoris is not inside (fingering typically means putting a finger inside the vaginal canal). See 3dvulva(DOT)com for an awesome illustration of female anatomy.

[personifyingowned]

wow, I love that you're so mature about this. You're very beautiful, and your husband is lucky to have you^.^

[djthegrateone]

omg ure so hot :O

[Bomfunk92]

do really so much men have problems to "find" and stimulate the g spot?._. come on it's not that hardxd

[theuncanspan]

n yea do you get a lots of guys with this?

[kicesie]

Umm, I'm not trying to get any guys. I'm married and have been with the same guy since I was 19. :)

[StillwaterPlaya]

I kinda feel bad that most guys are probably learning something here....lmao

[StillwaterPlaya]

Your the shit <3

[OOMmWtfOO]

Ahh. Thanks. This really helped boost my girls confidence. She always wondered why she didn't orgasm from sex alone. She's really cheered up after this.

[kicesie]

I'm glad to hear it!! :-) I wish more guys would share these videos with their partners and let it start a dialogue between them! :)

[ViralFlow]

yeh u are AMAZINGLY HOT.

[shotonq]

hey love your video!! rated it 5 stars like always and its amazing just like all your videos!! hey i was hoping you could check out my videos!! Thanks if you do or even if you dont.

[Slickrey]

Dude i love that your doing this to help people cuz theres a shit load of couples with alot of questions and u can teach man we lord knows we need alot or teaching. I already knew all the things you said cuz i watch Real Sex lol but thx Please keep it up

[CHOPPERSUlT]

sex ed. isn't supposed to be this sexy [:

come hither? omg!

[Raizen22]

I am so subscribing, this information is very helpful and would hopefully allow us guys to gain a deeper understanding of sex with out significant female other.

[32Pennies]

Soooooooooo hot!!

[akbarthegreat03]

u can make a good sex therapist

[kicesie]

Weezer's video Pork and Beans

[ghopper85]

you are so amazingly hot!!!! are you by any chance married?

[kicesie]

I'm married, yes. :-)

[ghopper85]

@kicesie wow, yo actually wrote me back. :) well, i just want to say i encourage you to keep doing your videos on here i'm sure your info is helping more than enough people out there....now i do have a question for you im not shy but it is personal...so maybe if you want i could pm you the question...lmk.

[kicesie]

Well I don't answer personal questions about myself. But I appreciate your comment!

[ghopper85]

@kicesie ummm, it wasn't a personal question about YOU_ lol it was a question about ME you must be use to guys tryin to get in ur pants too much that ur quick to judge. Lol

[kicesie]

@ghopper85 I'm sorry I wasn't more clear. My brain runs on auto-pilot sometimes when I read comments and try to respond.  What I meant to say was, 'I don't answer personal questions but if it's anything else, I'll be more than happy to try and answer.' I just totally left out the last and most important part.

I just try to give people a heads up in case their question isn't one I can answer.

Again, I'm sorry... reading it back it's clear to me I had a brain fart. :-) Hope we're cool.

[ghopper85]

@kicesie oh, well if you decide to answer my question or want to know about it then pm me....

[kicesie]

If you have a question, you'll have to send it to me in a message.

[JurgenAlboWarrior]

@kicesie

nooooooooooooooo :'(

jk jk, hope ur having a happy marriage

got huge respect for u :)

[kicesie]

Thanks. :)

[mahadragon]

You are Dr Ruth!

[drswerve]

Im listening, im listening........

[suspekt29]

Any man that doesn't know where the G spot is, shouldn't be having sex

[Jakmehauf]

LMFAO! Thats funny man.

[MILLTICKET7]

I remember i made a girl squirt and i thought she pissed on me i was like what the fuck LOL

[SVKmellow]

Do you get one? (If it isn't too personal.) I managed it throught the G spot only with one girl and she kinda guided me through the whole process... it was rather funny :) The others seemed to enjoy it although they never reached climax like with clitoral stimulation.

One thing I don't understand is how long it takes for you to recover from an orgasm (with clitoral stimulation). Sometimes the girls just lay around for 20 min after they calm down, sometimes they just want another go. Please tell

[actualizedconcepts]

Nice Video.

[spanky489]

ur hot

[lilPhil15]

you're hot.

[renano95]

very helpful! someday this will come in handy some day

[technoman1369]

where is the clitoris?

[kicesie]

3dvulva(dot)com is a great resource for understanding female anatomy.

[itank28]

G marks the G spot?

[BeingInTheMessiah]

wow you make such great videos. and you keep up with the often nebulous questions in the comment section. You will make an excellent sexual therapist

[kiltedsamuri]

the come hither motion has always worked well for me.

[fjkk545f]

......You Are HOT

[Potemtole]

lol had no idea what i clicked on, hmmm. I am totally awake now!

[4nstayter]

interesting xD

[Hen2lov]

This has been very useful. Why is it that your partner, the girl, doesn't say anything out of embarrassment. Isn't communication the key to both partners to find their pleasures.?

[kicesie]

If you're talking to me, I don't know what you mean... my partner isn't a girl and isn't quietly embarrassed of anything. :-/

[vclxrr]

@kicesie

You're great! And yes, i love your socks. Who wouldn't? They make you look like a multi-colored candy cane =D (hehe)