I recently got out of a relationship with a Narc. Matter of fact... I have only dated Narcs... They hurt me in the heart and what not.. But I am unable to cry lol... I can't grieve.. HELP! How do I get past that and move on. Holla
@Dnh3one that mess is tough even if you did really care about them too... Man it depends on how much you want to move on, how much you want to grow from the situation. I had to look at myself and see if I had some traits too. I did... we do attract who we are even if they have SO MUCH more...
@keta4332 thank you Keta if anybody needs to hear this let them see it. ll 3 parts to identify the problem, find the solution, then start healing from it.
@SLIMGOODIES06 3 years ago I was dealing with a Narcissist and had no idea of it. There are so many out there it's crazy I know we each have small narc flaws in us buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut... Those extreme Narcs whoo wee man oh man they quite a hand full to say the least...
@Hmmletmeguess It is toxic that the narc does not see, because they convince themselves that they are ok. It is critical! I respect you so much for this... this is all I am saying reach out to your heart, let it flow let it heal don't hurt others anymore please. Love yourself, allow it to deminish. In time, time heals all if you are willing to. I chose too from what I went through. Hopefully he did too. This is smoething else for you to open your heart like this leaves me speechless.
I never meant to lie to you, fight you, cause battles!!!! Omg!!!!! I can't believe what I am doing right now... I will not erase this nor regret it... This has to happen. I'm sorry Shin for spilling out my guts on here but this open my heart just now!!!........
@Hmmletmeguess Katie I commend you for this and respect you. That made me get caught up in this... I feel your heart is genuine and you really meant what you say. Man... I can relate, I really can. you right hurt people hurt people. When we recieve bad for Soooooooooooooooo long we don't know how to treat something food. So we DEVALUE it and destroy it, and break it down out of fear of losing it. We create the problems, we create the fear and cause others to fear.
Does not want to hear it!!!! So when we finally do listen, rather it be years from now it will still hit there is no running from it. I still remember the last thing I said to Cacey that I can't stand him and he is fucked up, but all that shit I complained about I put it on him I caused it. I cheated on him... I didn't tell him either I'm in tears typing this right now smhsmh......... I really... am sorry Cacey if you stumble upon this somehow I am sorry!!!! I never meant to hurt you!!!!
Beautifully put Shinister One. Its just a shame that some people dont want to heal. They would rather hurt others. U know the saying: Hurt people hurt people.... But i believe that if u love hardest when u are hurt, it can not only change ur life, but those around u as well.
But I brought him down, made him hurt, fearful, cursed out his family, forced him to lose his friends, I tried to play it off like my life was good, I tried to club it up, work hard and just ignore that small voice in my head late at night when I am alone. I realized Shin that I have to be real to myself. I don't know why Shin but these last videos you made have made me go and think about myself. THIS IS WHY I VALUE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH. The truth does hurt and a lot of us women pt2
Smh I can't believe I'm typing this... I told everyone that my ex was the one that put me through bullshit years ago and I held so much pain since then and I did hurt people on the way. I did learn from you Shin HURT people HURT people! You hit my heart I didn't want to listen so much denied it and said it was not me, but it ME! All ALONG! It was the men I chose and how I treated them I brought out the worst in them, and not the best! I hurt a man that loved me that was as sweet as you... pt1
Thanks man
dremanontoppp 1 month ago
great video, thank you!
pray4salvation 2 months ago
I recently got out of a relationship with a Narc. Matter of fact... I have only dated Narcs... They hurt me in the heart and what not.. But I am unable to cry lol... I can't grieve.. HELP! How do I get past that and move on. Holla
Dnh3one 8 months ago
@Dnh3one that mess is tough even if you did really care about them too... Man it depends on how much you want to move on, how much you want to grow from the situation. I had to look at myself and see if I had some traits too. I did... we do attract who we are even if they have SO MUCH more...
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
i agree with ShinisTrue!
keta4332 8 months ago
@keta4332 thank you Keta if anybody needs to hear this let them see it. ll 3 parts to identify the problem, find the solution, then start healing from it.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrue
u r welcome! i'll post these on f/b. my home girl from high school, love ur vids!
keta4332 8 months ago
@keta4332 thank you Keta tell her I said much love and stay strong in these times!
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrue
:)
keta4332 8 months ago
Shin I inboxed you I want to talk with you I need your advice. skype, phone this really set me off... smh...
Hmmletmeguess 8 months ago
@Hmmletmeguess All right I'll check now.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
Where was this video 3yrs ago??
SLIMGOODIES06 8 months ago
@SLIMGOODIES06 3 years ago I was dealing with a Narcissist and had no idea of it. There are so many out there it's crazy I know we each have small narc flaws in us buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut... Those extreme Narcs whoo wee man oh man they quite a hand full to say the least...
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
Wow! Nicely said Shin! Truly! To me this healing process sounds like it could work wonders for a lot of people.
-J
jinsanemaine 8 months ago
@jinsanemaine I hope so bro... I hope so... thank you.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@Hmmletmeguess It is toxic that the narc does not see, because they convince themselves that they are ok. It is critical! I respect you so much for this... this is all I am saying reach out to your heart, let it flow let it heal don't hurt others anymore please. Love yourself, allow it to deminish. In time, time heals all if you are willing to. I chose too from what I went through. Hopefully he did too. This is smoething else for you to open your heart like this leaves me speechless.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
I never meant to lie to you, fight you, cause battles!!!! Omg!!!!! I can't believe what I am doing right now... I will not erase this nor regret it... This has to happen. I'm sorry Shin for spilling out my guts on here but this open my heart just now!!!........
Hmmletmeguess 8 months ago
@Hmmletmeguess Katie I commend you for this and respect you. That made me get caught up in this... I feel your heart is genuine and you really meant what you say. Man... I can relate, I really can. you right hurt people hurt people. When we recieve bad for Soooooooooooooooo long we don't know how to treat something food. So we DEVALUE it and destroy it, and break it down out of fear of losing it. We create the problems, we create the fear and cause others to fear.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
Does not want to hear it!!!! So when we finally do listen, rather it be years from now it will still hit there is no running from it. I still remember the last thing I said to Cacey that I can't stand him and he is fucked up, but all that shit I complained about I put it on him I caused it. I cheated on him... I didn't tell him either I'm in tears typing this right now smhsmh......... I really... am sorry Cacey if you stumble upon this somehow I am sorry!!!! I never meant to hurt you!!!!
Hmmletmeguess 8 months ago
Beautifully put Shinister One. Its just a shame that some people dont want to heal. They would rather hurt others. U know the saying: Hurt people hurt people.... But i believe that if u love hardest when u are hurt, it can not only change ur life, but those around u as well.
-Waise
MannishWaise 8 months ago
@MannishWaise I know the saying all to well Ms Waise...and you are so, right smh.... damn...
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
But I brought him down, made him hurt, fearful, cursed out his family, forced him to lose his friends, I tried to play it off like my life was good, I tried to club it up, work hard and just ignore that small voice in my head late at night when I am alone. I realized Shin that I have to be real to myself. I don't know why Shin but these last videos you made have made me go and think about myself. THIS IS WHY I VALUE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH. The truth does hurt and a lot of us women pt2
Hmmletmeguess 8 months ago
Smh I can't believe I'm typing this... I told everyone that my ex was the one that put me through bullshit years ago and I held so much pain since then and I did hurt people on the way. I did learn from you Shin HURT people HURT people! You hit my heart I didn't want to listen so much denied it and said it was not me, but it ME! All ALONG! It was the men I chose and how I treated them I brought out the worst in them, and not the best! I hurt a man that loved me that was as sweet as you... pt1
Hmmletmeguess 8 months ago