The Psychotic Game Black Women Play On Good Black Men

[spiggington]

I'd date you. You're a great catch :-)

[spiggington]

This isn't race specific trust me. I'm a white woman, and I see white women doing this ALL the time. I've actually pulled away friendship-wise with certain women because it kind of freaked me out.....

[25were1]

STOP PLAYING GAMES FEMALES NEVER GO FOR THE ABUSE GO FOR THE RESPECT. YOU BRING THIS ON YOURSELF. PREACH ON BROTHA.

[theadviseshow]

@Brandy2008Jones i appreciate the compliment. my experiences have only made me to become smarter and stronger so believe it or not im glad I went through that

[Brandy2008Jones]

Your a really good lookin Black Man Cant believe you had to go through this.

[ChosenPriest]

Great video, brutha!

[RazielJonathan]

I have no problem with being a bachelor until I find a well balanced sister. Me, Yahshuah and my money...is all I have in the end is what I found out.

[redstar7311]

For real ass video! These same females who diss you will grin up in awhite man's face at the drop of a hat!

[piperadio]

@sadelove100 Drop chilvary and being a gentlemen? Do you have a daughter, mother, or grandmother you care about? Every woman plays one of these roles. I treat my daughter extravagantly. If a man in the future can't shower her with affection, protection and loyalty, he won't be a thought to her. Fathers spend time with your daughters. It will teach them how a man should treat them. It will also save your grandsons.

[NightwingBMV1]

@dazeguy513 You should be VERY scared.

[sadelover100]

I wouldn't put it ALL on the women for their behavior...there's a lot of soft, over accomodating, Feminized dudes out here kissing females azzes..it doesn't help Men who's simply trying to meet a nice gal the old fashion way...ie gentlemen manner...If more brothers reject Western societies efeminization and stop rewarding and encouraging Bad behavior..the BS would stop and we can restore order ourselves.

Personally you can mitigate the negativity by dropping the chivalry and Gentleman acts

[technologic21]

Women are crazy today. They're coping in our post-feminist era by being sluts, expecting all the freedoms of a man, but we guys see through their bullshit...

cause it's (still) A MAN'S WORLD.

[suchafool990]

if you try to be a good person in the traditional sense these days you're just asking for a world of abuse and torture from the modern day woman. fuck them all.

[WESTCOAST253]

I consider myself a Good Black man and I've been havin the same problem, I jus don't understand, I've been called too nice, well let me go join a gang, and come bak, do u like me now... I gave them a chance, its time for other races

[YAKUBEL]

@WESTCOAST253 LOVE DIS COMMENT

[Terrealimthetruth]

i know a chick, who i used to babysit her son,and shes one of the women you describe,she is too immature and doesn't handle responsibility well. she absolutely hates when i talk with her friends or even to see me smile from a txt,, she says its annoying im like WTF.. she cant stand to see pay attention to other females and im sure she doesnt want my attention..she was causing me unnecessary problems so i cut her off. and its sad cause she drove a wedge between me and my god son,SMH :(

[harveysuperboy]

Brother you should see that hate I'm get from the sisters.

[theadviseshow]

@harveysuperboy The reason for this is you told the truth to them and they don't want to hear it. I got a hater fan club full of them lol. But it's all good it comes with the territory of making videos on here. There are a lot of sisters who get it and who are very supportive. I'm glad i got to know some of them. My wife made a video long ago about how to treat a man. They got so mad about it and even one made a video in response but at me not my wife. It's a big joke to us lol

[harveysuperboy]

@theadviseshow I see that now. And you're right some sisters who get it. And what get me I've defended blackwomen on the Tube. Remember That vid were I called out that white girl awhile back? They never seem to remember that stuff.

[jiggy588]

@theadviseshow yeah something is really wrong most of these females they hate truth its either they are just ignorant and stupid,or they came from crack head parents,and they actually have a slow learning disorder,this real some real scary shit i think they be drugs,or the government must used them for a experiement or something cause these chick are just getting more dumber by the generation,women in 70s and 80s were4 not as dumb as these ones today.LOL

[Hatazayalzion]

@feminineandfeisty ok have fun voting for obama smart guy

[Hatazayalzion]

@feminineandfeisty i presume you think someone like Barak Obama is a real black man right???

[feminineandfeisty]

@Hatazayalzion - I told you I'm done so let it go.

[dazeguy513]

MAN HE GOT ME SCARED OF BLK WOMEN AFTER THIS VIDEO LOL THAT SHIT SCARY Y MAN

[Oooohhbaby]

alot of stuck up woman looks men up and down when being approach...lol...there's no such thing is being to nice...i praise my blk men and support them and encourage them to be strong. the woman that u are talking about are conditioned to thuggish and bad men..they feen to be hurt cuz they use to it... its mostly the women who sees nuthin but bad things, like the ones who live in the hood, and ghetto...later in life they will learn!! its up to good blk women and blk men to teach young girls

[AllieEmet]

Why can't she just say she's uninterested? Do you realize how often women are hit on, on any given day, by unsavory characters who cannot, will not, and do not stop at the slightest, most polite hint of rejection? This is why women resort of wearing faux-wedding rings... and that still won't stop most dogs from sniffing, lol! Peace :)

[Terrealimthetruth]

@AllieEmet so Basically your saying since all the dogs approach you, the genuine guys get backlash from a hostile woman.??? and that faux-wedding ring just shows how far women go to be fake, lie to themselves, and i bet you cant name more than one personal situations where a guy tried to even though shes wearing a wedding ring...SMH i know teenagers who have rings on their wedding finger thats not a strong argument you bring.

[AllieEmet]

@Terrealimthetruth I did not offer an argument, but rather another perspective to consider while out in the real world. Of course I can name specific situations, otherwise I wouldn't have mentioned it. I don't believe wearing faux-wedding rings is a good idea. It only keeps decent men from approaching. Like I said, it will not stop most DOGS from sniffing. Peace :)

[feminineandfeisty]

As long as black men are shallow they are not going to find a good black woman. What do I mean, black men tend to base a black womans worth on the size of her ass. I know of black men who won't even talk to a black woman if she don't got junk in her trunk. Just like there are black women who base a mans worth on the size of his penis and/or his wallet. Remember shallowness always begets shallowness.

[Yawitazashar]

@feminineandfeisty most black woman don't have or want to offer anything but their bodies so don't blame it on men

[feminineandfeisty]

@Yawitazashar- Why not? Does the truth hurt so bad that you wanna avoid it? Like it or not its your responsiblity to choose your mates wisely as a man. If not and you choose to be shallow then whatever negative consequences that comes with it, is YOUR PROBLEM.

[Hatazayalzion]

@feminineandfeisty the truth is u hoes aren't woman and have no idea what a real woman is. I wouldn't even spit on u cum stained tramps

[Hatazayalzion]

@feminineandfeisty Bitter? Maybe so but its bitterness balanced with realism, i bet u don't even kno 2 black women who lost their virginity to their husbands

[feminineandfeisty]

@Hatazayalzion- How many VIRGINS PERIOD are getting married. Are you a virgin? No! So shut your bitter stupid mouth up then. How are you gonna knock somebody else for something that YOU YOURSELF ARE NOT??? I saw your channel and see what you and your kind is all about. You have more hatred for black women then a KKK leader. So there is nothing that you have to say to me far as I'm concerned. Because you don't have the intellect nor the class to converse with me. What you

[whitebitchnigga]

@MsCurlyQT You got some "daddy issues" please seek somw help and i hope you aint raising kids as a single mother..God help us

[whitebitchnigga]

@MsCurlyQT Stay out of black men's affairs ugly ass harlot

[whitebitchnigga]

It's not that sisters dislike "nice" guy's its that they dislike "normal" guys...it's much deeper. Sisters hate dudes that do normal things like work go to school,striving for positive goals. they like abnormal dudes that dont work have 5 kids by 5 different women, dudes that play video games and dont work and live on the streets.

[theadviseshow]

@legendarygospel i have noticed hispanic women like our color and us as black men sometimes a little more than our own women. it is a hurtful thing to have the women that look like u ridicule you for your color. yet non blk women i have noticed praise our color. Maybe i need to cover this topic

[Mercedesman2020]

@theadviseshow It is a big world brah where beautiful ladies outnumber us. I know that for a fact and I love to travel. Love the vids keep your head up. I subbed

[feminineandfeisty]

@theadviseshow- What are you talking about. Most black women like dark or brown skin men. Remember dark hair and skin on a man represents masculinity.

[legendarygospel]

coming from a light skin brother, sisters talked about my skin color all the time, just because my skin is the same color of white people. But i still love my sisters for sure. just had a hard time with my own, but hispanic women show me much love always. Interesting huh?

[nomyaw]

Women say the like a dude with confidence, but if she don’t like him the first thing she will tear down is his confidence.

[jadapoo1]

2:55 Dude, one black guy told me I could be cute if ...I was lighter, got a weave and got some green contacts. This is normal AA behavior, in BOTH the males AND the females. BP are self hating in many ways. The reason BP are so critical of other BP's features is if they get with that person it's likely their babies will look the same, especially if they have the same kind of looks. They seek someone who can genetically "water them down" thus the light skin, WW/WM, AM/AW etc. obsessions.

[toonzguy]

5:03-5:27.....you called it PERFECTLY, bruh!

[wrathofslaves]

A chick that tells u that ur too nice! It means their puzzy too dirty and they don't want to feel guilty about giving u VD, putting u on child support, or trying to cut you in a bipolar fit! Here is how u fix that complex u get away from what u think is average black woman! Leave them fine hoodrats alone! NEVA' TRUST A BIG BOOTY & PRETTY SMILE! They represent the fkn curve that are bittered by their younger and younger ill azz motherz like them, training them to be this fucked up!

[YAKUBEL]

@wrathofslaves TRUE!

[magirecords2004]

Lol!!

[theadviseshow]

@NightwingBMV1 i already did a video on that called so now you want a good black man

[NightwingBMV1]

The other scenario you forgot are the brothas who are smart, not thuggin out and trying to make something of themselves. How many times have we seen BW snub these kind of brothas only to try to talk to them AFTER they're 30+, with kids by some good for nothing nigga? They're really not serious about getting married or producing strong families otherwise they would correct themselves.

[mreconomics1000]

@NightwingBMV1 Yeah! Tell me about it, I see this all the time now, there are soo many used up sistas out there who have been plowed through and abused by 20, 30, 40 different sorry trifling ninjas when they were young but now they want to step to you.

[RazielJonathan]

Well said!! @NightwingBMV1 

[rang3r34]

This video is the DAMN truth! Perfect example of how these women are.

[tohellwithesau]

All black ho's suffer from Stockholm's syndrome.

In psychology, Stockholm Syndrome is an apparently paradoxical psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and have positive feelings towards their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness.

[vincent15641]

@tohellwithesau Most black women and black men suffer from Stockholm Syndrome. If this were not true, then there would not be so many blacks who still salute the flag of the Red necks with White faces and Blue eyes!

This message was approved by the producers of mind control.

[keta4332]

when a female is NOT interested, they should say: i'm not interested/ i got someone, b/c we shouldn't insult folks IF WE CAN AVOID INSULTING. i've seen young, black men in my college classes that wasn't interested UNTIL THEY SEEN WALKING & TALKING TO A WHITE GUY CLASSMATE i'm not interested in those black men classmates. when someone is interested in me; they have to show me immediately!

[theadviseshow]

@RafayahYeramih ok since u know how to bring this division to a end tell me since u know. how should this be done because in my family we dont sugar coat problems we deal with them so a change can be made.

[RafayahYeramih]

@theadviseshow I aint telling you to sugercoat that shit. I am telling you theres a way to go about it...How yall want our women to treat us right, if we ain't acting right?2 I already said...YOU show the sistahs love..then tell em whats wrong. what needs to change...If a sistah don't wanna change after that...Then she a lost cause...the women you tryna reach out to...aint looking at videos like yours...they looking at illiterate videos.

[theadviseshow]

@IshaPeach1 i still have hope for blk men and women getting back together but these behaviors are keeping us divided. if i wanted views and attention i would take the sargent willie pete approach and go on the i hate blk women crusade. im starting to feel there is no hope in getting the blk family back together

[IshaPeach1]

@theadviseshow i've had hope for them always, never stopped having it..but these videos are for yall guys

[theadviseshow]

@4life1deep yea but im so wrong for telling it how it really is. im trying to help these women by telling them how we feel but some of them feel we are wrong.

[4life1deep]

@theadviseshow The truth hurts, thats something a lot of black women can't handle.

[theadviseshow]

@cecinia23 ok where are the good black women hiding at? Good black men want and desire to be with them. Also women who portray this sort of behavior isnt bad just their way of being isnt right.

[xCleverlyx]

@theadviseshow have you dated out side your race?

[theadviseshow]

@QUBECOGNITO it's funny everytime i touch on this subject the females that do this always get mad. i see no matter if im nice or go ham about it they like staying in this condition. i see why the brothers who came before me just got tired of them

[ezekwu]

@QUBECOGNITO LMAOL!!!!!!!!!!

[ezekwu]

@QUBECOGNITO LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cecinia23]

NOW MOST BLACK WOMEN I KNOW LIKE THE DARKER BROTHAS FOR SOME REASON

[cecinia23]

THERE HOOD SISTAS AND THERE HAD BROTHAS SO STOP GOING AFTER THOSE BAD SISTAS THAT WHAT BLACK MEN DONT GET STOP GOING OFR THE BAD GIRLS SISTAS THUG WANT SISTAS, THERE ALOTO F US BLACK WOMEN THAT LIKE GOOD BOYS LIKE MYSELF

[mrkjsmooth16]

Did y'all forget, black men are only here to satiate the needs of black females. Damn your needs black man. Don't get it twisted when a black woman see you with a white girl she thinks why would white girl get wit a nigga just like a white boy would say, but they covertly come out wit that fake pro black shit that in the end doesn't have the black man's interest at heart or benefits him at all.

[marcusinHD]

whoa, man, south poie. whoa

[chessloser28]

I thought they had they own money. Whats the point of them being independent and they dependent on your money. hmm......

[JGvisions]

...end they are to self centered, emotionally unstable, and social culturally belligerent to be reasoned with. so i would suggest you either back off and stay away from them and try dating actual real african women if you want to keep it in the family or to just date outside the race.

[JGvisions]

But to be more specific, its a social/psychological/cultural thing. we have to realize that humans are mindless/tribe/pack mentality where we don't necessarily think for ourselves but are indoctrinated with the precepts of the culture. sadly we don't have choice in the matter and the psychological paradigm adopted by the black women has been infected where they are subconsciously acting out in destructive and inimical ways which are harmful to black men in this day and age. and in the...part1

[StarGyrl]

If a woman deems a man as being "too nice" it could mean a myriad of things but if a guy thinks that this description could mean she's hinting that she likes drama, do guys still continue to pursue her? Also if a woman is looking at you funny prior to approaching her, that's a negative sign, so why bother? I can't relate to the video but I am just curious to know.

[JGvisions]

...to the same dude who gave her the std in the first place and fucked her head up so much she gave the you the shit and the emotional baggage to go with it! if you go through something like that, you find the urge to just murder them or the person who did that so much more intense!

[JGvisions]

i see by the title and the word psychotic that you use in it that you have felt the sting of the particular subgroup of women in the black community. there is this insidious subconscious mind virus carried by these women that makes them fuck your life up just to make them feel better. whatever you went through man, try getting an STD, then getting dumbed and the cruelest way possible, then being bothered by that same person who fucked you over, then to top it all off hear she got married..part1

[jehcrazyjehcmy]

pt3 accountable. It's a lose lose. I'm not gonna say that every black woman is rotten to the core because I have good black woman in my family, but I will say a large majority of them are after dating many women from all types of backgrounds, many of which I found out had a man after the fact. I'll make sure to school my sons on the ludicrous dating seen young black men have to deal with out here. I'll let them know to be prepared to be blamed for all of black women they've never met problems.

[MrPrettyBoyChina]

Even my 19 year old cousin and his friends said he tried of black woman.When these 19 years old talking about jumping the fence. You know it's really bad.

[jehcrazyjehcmy]

pt2. Dog, player ect. Finally when I try to explain my logic on why I don't bend over backwards for females I hear blabber about me being hurt. Then when I admit that I was I hear this "Oh it's yo fault you must not have been doing something right". WTF?! Yet if I date multiple women not in a relationship just casually date I'm the one with some kind of problem and I should only need one good woman. When it comes to dating in America the man is always wrong and the woman is never held

[jehcrazyjehcmy]

Advise show this is so true. When I first got seriously involved with a black woman I truly cared about and wanted to marry she not only cheated on me but lied about it and then burned me. Not only was I a good man to her I was good to her family and even they were mad and when asked why she did it she replies that she doesn't know. Ever since then I have never been the same and went through my "fuck a bitch" stage. Then when I finally recover but get into the smart dating stage I'm labeled a

[theadviseshow]

@ISayThisWithLuv now u see what i go through on YouTube,,,frustrating isnt it

[ISayThisWithLuv]

Wow, I just explained a lot of points for why "people" and women in particular do these kinds of things. And ya'll act like you don't even see it and not discussing ANY of the points...

But I forgot one major reason that all this reminded me of... Women don't just say a man is too "NICE" the fact is that's what ya'll HEAR. She women probably did explain more specific whys but men have very selective listening and they are only going to hear what they want to hear.

[RealismOfLife]

Whew this video is powerful and the TRUTH!!!!!But with a lot of these women it's just a mind game being played, and ill go as far as to say THEY DON'T EVEN WANT THOSE GOOD BLACK MEN ON THE SHELF, THEY JUST WANT HIS MONEY ON THE SHELF , AND HIS KINDHEARTEDNESS when these clown ass niggas ,misused and abuse them, they can GO TO THE SHELF AND CRY ON THE GOOD BROTHER SHOULDER , but after a while she's going to leave and go right back to the clown!!!

[effectem]

great video man

[theadviseshow]

@collie123collie at the beginning of the video i gave a disclaimer saying who i was speaking 2. But yea it is sicking and if ur a good woman trust me brothers want to be with u.

[theadviseshow]

@RafayahYeramih There is a solution if u can listen to it. Stop rejecting black men for silly reasons and give these good brothers a chance to be the men they say they want.

[4life1deep]

@theadviseshow Man you are so right, a lot of black women put the good brothers on the back selves while they be fucking and having kids by these thugs, drugdealers, jailbirds and low life hood niggas,then when they get in their late 20s and early 30s they be on a mission to find a good black man to settle down with and get married to. They expect brothers like us to accept their emotional baggage and multiple kids, fuck that. You see these sistas in the church looking so desperate LOL!!!

[collie123collie]

This is coming from a black women and I know what you talking about, I have family and friends that treat guys that exact way, we go to the club and it seems im the only one that has some common decency, the atitude and disrespect towards the men is ridiculous! Im thinking Damn, he cant say hi to you LOL.

But.....with that being said, you shouldn't put that on all black women.

The kicker for me is those are the type of women that men seem to flock to ALL the time and it SICKENS ME!

[JOEYBLACKDAGENERAL]

like my uncle use to say when i was younger women-just fuck em and leave em

[theadviseshow]

@lickemgoodlover buy me a new shirt that i may like with ur money and i will burn it just for u lol

[lickemgoodlover]

Advice to you. NIGGA TAKE THAT SOUTHPOLE SHIRT OFF AND BURN ITT!!!!!!!

[NYDASH28]

pt2. It makes no sense anymore. it really don't even mean anything by even trying to reach out to black women, why? u MEAN to tell me that these women do not have the basic common sense to go and do their own research, examine a situation or use simple logic to understand what many black men are saying, i mean to tell me that these women are so inept to even understand what the fuck we're dealing with but she swears she's the smartest on earth cause she has a degree? alrighty then.

[NYDASH28]

8:39 i see your frustration brother, oh believe me i know exactly what that look me i really and truly do Wise. I know the feeling man, i do, but these sisters, as much knowledge you dropping to make and help these women understand even not cursing in your videos and degrading them, they still stuck on stupid and refuse to process what is being said. I am even surprised that this so call war is still going on. I know a lot of brothers completely stopped making vids because of exactly 8:39

[NYDASH28]

Wise your not the only one, growing up, going to school, the majority of the bad treatment i've gotten came from black women. n i was just a kid man, just a kid, smh. ...fuck these bitches today, don't mean to bring n e negative energy to your page wise but u gotta understand what i mean man. smh...

[BabyHominid]

"Too nice" is one that amazes me too.

[theadviseshow]

@taptap69tap even though i see the sarcasm i wont refer to blk women as bitches because not all of them are but as a woman u know u met plenty lol. change is what i seek

[taptap69tap]

@theadviseshow I hear you and you are right, I just couldn't believe that he wrapped some disrespectful stuff inside of a compliment. How is he gonna come to your page and have the nerve to say "I thought you were turning into a mangina" That is disrespectful as hell. As long as he views it as "he is not on black womens side" then you are okay with him and that crap is not right. "mangina"? really? He was wrong for that.

[RafayahYeramih]

@taptap69tap I agree. I am a mangina..Or a Captain save-a-hoe because I don't want a white woman talking about my mothers, sisters and daughters. I am supposed to sit here and just hear weak needledick niggas who want division among us talk all this trash. Im sorry but he is attracting agents. There is a way to go about changing our women...this is not one of em. Im sorry if I love the women who gave birth to me...I wanna see one nigga have a football come out his ass for a brutha.

[taptap69tap]

@RafayahYeramih I know, but what can you can you do? Some things/people are a lost cause. There are some good intentions involved, but like you said it brings out agents with malicious intent. They are enjoying arguing and would be the first ones mad if a solution actually did come about.

[AriesBrother78]

@RafayahYeramih, "have a football come out his ass for a brutha" Brother....what do you mean by that statement?? I hope your not going to the old feminism mantra men can't have a baby because they cant take the pain nonsense. Men can't have babies because they are not designed to have babies...it's that simple..If I misunderstood you please forgive me but that statement was some old weak bitch ass nigga shit...real talk, and that would qualify you as Mangina-a.k.a male feminist.

[RafayahYeramih]

@AriesBrother78 See what I mean? I aint never said nigga couldn't take pain. I was referring to muhfkas who hate women. How da fk can you hate women..who the fk is gonna have ur babies nigga? be forreal tho. OF COURSE I know we aint designed to have babies...but Im saying most of these niggas act like if they could have babies by their dam selves they would nigga...I dont give a fk what you or anybody think.Alright Ima magina then because I dont believe in this gender bullshit

[AriesBrother78]

@RafayahYeramih, Nigga you a bitch.

[RafayahYeramih]

@AriesBrother78 Aight.

[theadviseshow]

@TheEndOfYourWorld i speak on behavior not black women. i attack the mindsets my goal is peace not division. if i wanted to just make them mad trust me i know how. this video may be heard by just one of them and they may change that is my goal

[peopleplacethings]

You hit this on the nose

[peopleplacethings]

Them saying your to nice is their way of telling you to want someone to fuss and fight with

[brandell1976]

sound like this blackwomen don,t know what they want if they tell your to nice and then they don,t want you but don,t want any other woman to have you becuase they want you to be happy

[ISayThisWithLuv]

act like the man was disgusting and that way if the man was interested, my gay friend would be put in the position of power by having this gorgeous guy chase him. He didn't want to look desperate or at this gorgeous dudes mercy. Women do pretty much the same thing. Straight men do too actually. How often has a man called a woman a ho, bitch and all kinds of names only to be saying how awesome she is the next day. It's how the game is played and we all (Men, Women, Gay, Straight) do it!

[ISayThisWithLuv]

That's also why some women give men heat when they first meet him. I've seen gay dudes do it too!! I was once with my gay homeboy on the train and this very handsome man in a business suit got on. He was so handsome I assumed he was gay and nudged my friend to have a look. Her glared the manup and down, sucked his teeth, rolled his eyes and sneered like he smelled something bad. The fact is the man was so handsome, he didn't want to show the dude he was attracted to him. he'd rather (cont)

[interpolluter29]

RickScorpio tried to get on this before. But you really blew the case wide open. And let's face it. I don't get it either. It makes very little sense as to why a woman would do that.

[RafayahYeramih]

Ok..Im tired of all this black women ish.

[theadviseshow]

@RafayahYeramih it wouldnt be a issue if there wasnt such a great division among black people

[TheEndOfYourWorld]

@theadviseshow

I thought u became a mangina but you redeemed yo self lol

good video .

[taptap69tap]

@TheEndOfYourWorld I know right, lets keep all the division up.! If he was to start talking positive about these black bitches I was going to think he was a mangina as well (I hope you sense the sarcasm)

[TheEndOfYourWorld]

@theadviseshow

Did i say Good Video No EXCELLENT VIDEO.

[RafayahYeramih]

@theadviseshow maybe provide a solution. if you gonna talk about all the wrongs black women do..provide a solution. Else you'll be just like all the women hating niggas.

[IshaPeach1]

@RafayahYeramih i agree & i just unsubbed...i feel now he's over doing it just to get views & attention

[RafayahYeramih]

@IshaPeach1 I don't know about unsubbing him but I wonder what his wife thinks. I know he got a wife because I been following this guy since he came up. You have a good black woman right? You know that not all black women are snotty and ish...Nobody ever specifies what type of women these videos are for...When yall say black women you are talking about ALL of em..Niggas dont ever specify stuff...I know Bw who are humble..WAY humble and they dont follow the worlds way of women.

[ISayThisWithLuv]

Oh, also NICE can mean desperate. I forgot that one, but that's an important one. Some men come off as desperate by being too nice. The same thing goes for women, Men don't take women seriously if she acts desperate..do they? If a woman is too nice (sleeps with him too fast, pays his bills, pampers him too much) he's going to treat her like shit. I've seen dudes leave "NICE" girls who did everything for them for women who treated them like shit! No one likes desperate people.

[ISayThisWithLuv]

So "NICE" is just the easiest thing to say. Nice can mean BORING. Nice can mean You Dont Have Any Money. Nice can mean she doesn't find you Physically Attractive. Nice can also mean she doesn't find you assertive and you don't make enough decisions. Some "nice" guys are so scared of scaring a woman off, they leave her to make all the decisions and don't have fun and take everything to seriously. I never told a guy that I was breaking up with him because he's NICE though. I try to be honest.

[ISayThisWithLuv]

That's cold! LOL. I never clowned a guy if he came up respectfully and wanted to talk to me. Some dudes come at you wrong and maybe then, but most of the time guys don't approach me seriously if I have a lot of female friends around me. The thing about "NICE" most of the time "NICE" is a code word for deeper issues. She might not want to tell you what the real problem is, or she may not know how to express it or on the evil flip side, she just might not care enough about you to really explainit.

[KN0WLEGE562]

you hit it on the nose...they dont want a nice brotha but dont want any other race to have them

[swpdisciple]

@KN0WLEGE562 right on. They want the good guys to play their role: wait until she's washed-up and then thank their lucky stars and wife her up