How to Attract Women and Stay Out of the Friend Zone

[williamkunggg]

BEING NICE GUY WONT WORK. GIVING HER GIFTS IS CRAP AS WELL ! TEASE HER AND BE PLAYFUL.. IT CREATES ATTRACTION AND GIRLS LOVE IT !

[jarden69]

This makes sense, and I'm going to try it...BUT...

1) I work with the girl and everyday she stops by my office to visit me.

2) I am quite a but older than her, and have a higher position in the organization (she does NOT work for me) and she sees me as an older brother and mentor.

WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE HELP because I have reached my breaking point!!! HOW can I break the relationship with her without crushing her?

[Sungsang21]

Great insight. I did it unconsciously & it's working. thanks.

[ZePopTart]

This should be a titled How to Attract Women (whose IQ is below 70). You say that just ditching a girl and then showing up a few months later all oozing in testosterone is a good idea. It's not. She's going to be pissed at you unless she has the memory span of a goldfish. How do you take it from friends to romance? Treat her like a fucking person. Be chivalrous (open doors, give her a jacket if she's cold etc), spend time with her alone, maybe treat her to lunch or a movie or something.

[PIEMANC3P0]

shit i fuck up but thanks for the advice but you kind of look like a douche

[brozac101]

First I just treat her as a friend but now I like her fffffuuuuuuu

[Fredisyodaddyo]

I have a movie idea...its called alpha males

[careersgm]

Dam, I feel like I'm at the border line... we are more then just friends but she doesn't want to take the extra step cause she's afraid she'll loose me as a friend. What to do?

[RealMarid20]

@careersgm keep going for it. you live once.

[mrstix2306]

what happens if she doesn't want a relationship because of her EX and your in the friendzoned

[lettuce623]

Nice advice dude!

[mrstrongable]

i have to say that actin alpha an dominate is not the type of person to be for all women cus their not all the same... but i completely agree with confidence though that usually attracts women without you even tryin lol... and dude is right though other than the alpha dominate thing...

[JoeCaliforniah]

Emm I NEVER been in a friend zone. i just got rejected by girls. never in friend zone though, once i got rejected, i dont see that insufficient bitch ever, and 1 day they be beggin for me dick, coz i made 100k usd per month.

[SemiAquaticRhino]

@JoeCaliforniah i think anyone would rather be in the friend zone than rejected.

[Bonusbananas311]

Kurt Spelling has got the pussy down to a science

[allthatgaming18]

i went from not knowing this girl to getting to know this girl then being friends and now im best friend with her but now i want to go to the next step ( relationship ) but i still dont no quite how to step into that zone .......... help ?

[SemiAquaticRhino]

@allthatgaming18 what do you think this video is for?

[JorEl7771]

Interesting video! For me, every time I meet a woman that I like, I find out that she has a boyfriend or she is moving a way or going off to school - long distance. When I do have a chance, no matter what I try to do or how nice I am, I always fail.

[UltraDOG17]

Fuck a friendzone! Smh. These silly american hoes are heartless game players & NOT suited for an decent guy that COULD be her GREATEST boyfriend or even an husband ever had in their life. Instead they put up shields against good dudes like myself. So for guys like me of my advice: even u like me as who i am 100% or stop wasting time, BITCHES! I refused 2 pay 4 anything 2 impress an skank. When u get an whore 4 an decent price

[wagz0216]

this guy knows his stuff. i was in the "friend zone" with a girl for about a year and then i was sick of it and stopped talking to her for 2 months and boom, she comes back to me and we end up dating\

[SRT4LIFE75]

I would have to agreed to certain extend. I personally had a frienship turn into a sexual marathon...hehe. I think you can still be friends and at the same time have the benefits....it happened to me. :P

[soccer81894]

I meet a girl this year at school who I has lots of classes with, first time I saw her I didn't really

Like her because there were hotter girls, so i became friends, since I had at least two classes with her everyday. with her because i wasn't really interested, but I ended up going to the movies with her recently and now I can't stop thinking about her so I'm wondering if I'm just stuck in the friend zone

[ahawhatever19]

*JUST sex I meant.

[ahawhatever19]

If you want sex,go ahead, keep showing off your prowess but in case you don't you are sooo going about it the wrong way.

[ahawhatever19]

2.Humiliated ding ding ding!To me, and I'm sure a lot of women with a healthy self-esteem would agree, a masculine man is someone who is on his grind,who goes after what he wants career-wise, who takes care of his loved ones (HIS MAMA) emotionally and financially,who is good to other fellow human beings and other living species, and most importantly,who understands that it takes time to get to know one another.

[ahawhatever19]

I keep hearing the words "sexual" and "dominance" a lot.What am I supposed to do, admire your manliness and accept you as the alpha male that you are--nnnno.This wouldn't work on me or any self-respecting woman I'm sorry.Many guys take masculinity as having the permission to say lewd comments/catcalling no matter what they're wearing (not that that's relevant because IT'S NOT but it should be pointed out).How do you think I feel after being told "nice tits or other nonsense not worth repeating?

[337429]

@ahawhatever19 lmao chicks like you get no dick ahahahaa how old are you 40 ?

[ahawhatever19]

@337429 How old are you 12? Your identity is just a number that's what you'll always be.

[337429]

@ahawhatever19 oh wow what a great come back, i'm so insulted that you called me a number looool...still didn't get any dick i see

[ahawhatever19]

@337429 Of course not just any dick, just top quality ;D

[337429]

@ahawhatever19 quality over quantity i always say ;)

[mfirebird3000]

IF a girl does this to me i just avoid her for ever.. cause i cant stand it blue ball @#$.

Just be confident and fun..

[TrueDominguez]

hahaha fuck i did every prt 2 become a friend ima try this dissappearing thing

[fans111111]

Awesome! I followed your advice and disappeared totally for about a month hoping to get out of the friend zone. Even when she emailed me three times, I did not reply. But I am worrying if she would get so disappointed that she would turn to somebody else instead. Sounds risky! Will she return to me? Will I lose her by playing hard to get for months? How long should I disappear?Please reply asap either here or make a video response entitled something like “Friend Zone problem”?

Poor FZ man

[Wolfy1277]

Hmm sexual entity?? i hate it when guys think of girls as some kind of sex object, sure you can go screw around with girls who have screwed around with lots of other guys and get stds if thats what your into. But alot of girls will just be totaly appalled by guys who act like some sexy freak atleast all the girls who dont have stds and who wont cheat with you the same month you met. Be YOURSELF dont try to do anything to impress a girl and they will really wanto get serious with you

[mackrveli]

great advice, friend! Also use that 2-3 month break to improve every aspect of yourself (way you dress, working out, career). You will naturally be more confident and not only will she take notice of the new you, but other girls would notice as well!

[robi2000]

Haha this guy is funny. Smart too. I cannot even count how many girls have wanted to hang out with me as freinds over the years LOL it's annoying after a while cause they often want the benefits of being 'treated like a lady' and the option of being jealous of other women in my life - but still be just friends. In time i actually enjoyed having a few female friends as long as they offered some substance and mutual respect. It's the ones who just want you to be another provider only-thatAnnoy

[PeasLoveHarmony]

@robi2000 = MissTeenPregnancy = MrsBirminghamInHell = sad, lonely, racist paedophile wife-beating cunt who posts comments such as: “every week I dig up your rotting mother from Hell and masturbate over her dried up old cunt before smashing her Paki-bashed skull in then sending her straight back to Hell.” The comments are all still there if anyone wants to check (rather than remain in blissful denial).

[MsTeenBirmingham]

@robi2000 @robi2000 I've just seen your comments at watch?v=fJuNgBkloFE about how "all niggers, Moslems and Eurotrash should be raped and gassed along with their wives and kids" and the comments in which you boast about being a paedophile, necrophile and wife-beater. You disgusting little man.

[jane2responsible]

gentlemen:

a friend did this same bs thing to me - broke contact, and then tried to bust back into my life with "sexual energy" spilling out of his ears. wtf? that kind of unreliable, crazy person does that? not someone i would ever sleep with or date. my current boyfriend was stuck in the friend-zone for a year (hey, i didn't know!), and finally just told me how he felt. simple. if you're dealing with a reasonably intelligent person, being a reliable and honest will get you further.

<3, a lady

[garfieldfan0]

@ JKno1 exact same problem...same problem..tried saying something by myself..but nothing..it just sucks so bad

[DjFoofighter]

what if have classes and shit with her? cant really ignore her there:(

[MrBmm31]

fuck you! lol

you r just a fat guy

[TheBigbob323]

lol

[MultiQuickscopeZz]

cheers for advice

[resilienceman]

I personally think it's to do with scaring a girl in a way that's perfectly innocent so she goes weak at the knees, I suppose a bit like hypnotising her.

[potpolima]

sideline/friend guyz are ugly lol.

[MarxIzalias]

This video ignores the obvious point.

[tubehows4life]

@MarxIzalias which is?

[MarxIzalias]

@tubehows4life

When you DON'T FANCY SOMEBODY, do you want to be their partner???

No...

[tubehows4life]

@MarxIzalias Hmm ok but thats the idea of what he is saying, to get them to like you by changing the dynamic of your relationship.

[MarxIzalias]

@tubehows4life

The video doesn't identify the problem, which means people cannot fix it.

If you want a lass to like you, don't be the guy they don't fancy...

It's simple and obvious.

[tubehows4life]

@MarxIzalias yeah so dont be the "friend guy", and start acting sexual, playful and flirty. No?

[MarxIzalias]

@tubehows4life

Errm, you can be the friend guy, you just have to also be the guy the fancy.

[tubehows4life]

@MarxIzalias Women dont fancy their friends, thats why they dont fancy them! So you have to act differently to how a friend would. And their other other videos of his that talk about giving good game to a girl to help get a girl to like you. Its just that this particular video is how to get out of the friend zone if you find yourself in it.

[MarxIzalias]

@tubehows4life

The friend zone is a myth mate, I have gone out with friends before.

They have this idea of what you look like and who you are, but all you have to do is provide one piece of new information to shatter that preconception, an image change is simple and effective.

[tubehows4life]

@MarxIzalias Well all my experience tells me to avoid the friend zone like the friggin plague. I hate it lol. All the magic, chemistry and spark is fades out once your in that zone, and hard as fuck to get back. An image change is one good way, sure. I would do that after a 3 month break like Kurt suggests, and the new image should be something she hasnt seen of you before.

[leaderofplanet]

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[leaderofplanet]

like the shirt man.

[superbeast126]

Hey, thats nice advice, you go over the main points that infact do keep you from appearing undesirable sexually, but honestly for your own benefit maybe you should appear to be less of the male jerk stereotype, like the names being straight up "howtoseduce" that seems very needy and jerklike, you want to come off as a smooth individual that just plays his cards right, because with confidence every card is right. just so people dont get the wrong idea, you know?

[nabeelballer]

Friend zone=Moodle,a man poodle :)

[TheGeneralMoe]

General Moe- HandSteady Visuals

[TheLeutrimExperience]

Girl's are cunts. Simple as. You truthfully good guys out there are going to find it hard to find an equally good girl.

Truth is, girls are attracted to pricks.

[celestekittie]

@TheLeutrimExperience go figure a retardedly dorky guy has posted this!! (no actual offense to your looks, im kinda attracted to "dorky guys" always have been, but for you to say that about all girls is ignorant and im sure you know it maybe post an apology?

[TheLeutrimExperience]

@celestekittie Well I guess it's a matter of opinions. I consider the vast majority of girls to be complete bitches, and those who aren't will mature into bitches given the right conditions (very easy for the conditions to be created).

And I'm a retarted dorky guy? Your opinion I guess.

And no apology. My opinion derives from experience so until a new one shapes a new opinion, I'll stick with this one.

That was me a year ago, only difference, I ditch girls now and fuck-buddy zone them (Y)

[hawkermana]

damn i fucked up bad........... shit!!!!!!!

[atp155]

Damn it...I watched the girls test video. I failed the tests, got in the friend zone. I ignored her. She came back 2 months later. We were really gettin good, I failed the test again, back in the friend zone. I wish I knew your wisdom before hand, maybe 3rd time is the charm so im gonna try AGAIN, or meet someone else in that time period. thanks man.

[aduitdfeklfhl]

true true true....i asked 7 girls out last month..nd outaa 7, three r nw my bst frnds...

nd dat sucks..i hate it wen de adore another guy in front of me..

[whickedshell]

@aduitdfeklfhl looks like we got the same problem bro

[aduitdfeklfhl]

@whickedshell

wat do do den pal..... i feel like fucked...

[whickedshell]

@aduitdfeklfhl if i only knew that i could tell but i don't

[LegendaryRNT]

@aduitdfeklfhl i hate it when girls do that shit too. they know your round and they continue to flirt and be all on top of another guy...like WTF

[josh1256789]

this girl i like i can't tell its hard for me to tell...

she's always happy to see me and i think she likes me the only thing that concerns me is she calls me "buddy" or "friend" she is foreign too, shes from Germany so it might mean something different but i like her and i don't like looking like an idiot asking her to the movies or something and she turns me down.... if anyone has an idea if she really likes me or not let me know thanksszz.

[ZUS051982]

@josh1256789 just pull your dick out infront of her and tell her how lonely you are lol..

[TheTokyo1]

O.k I have question? this girl I asked out turn me down and she said I just wana be friends? that really hurt me. but you said in this video to stop talking to them for a few months? depending on how long you've known them. well this girl I really like. ive been knowing her for like a year now? how long do you recomend not talking to her?

[doctorw2]

this bloke is right you have to be a sexy beast.

[hustlateer]

wat if ur friends wit a girl but u seem to like and flirt wit each other bc i hav dat but idk if she likes me ive looked up videos of things a girl will do if she likes u nd n evry1 it describes most of the things dat she does to me evryday somone plz help me out bc i really like her alot but idk if she feels da same way

[ahole831]

this is better advice than what my friendsgive me

[skate22009]

Fuck!!!! I did this and she was like are u tryin to get out of the friend zone or somefin

[Logarjoon]

you should have done a 180.. like friend zone??? what age do you live in?? lol

[XBlackWolf10]

one of my lady friends slep with me she even liked me for a month

[MrBigfreaky]

what about being lovers and friends

[prutsikas]

5 stars...

[Nuggett420]

I have 2 friends that i've been attracted to for years, and it just seems to escelate. The most porminent of the two i've been "like brother and sister" with her for about 4 years(you guys think i could pull it off with her?), the other knows i want her(bc i've told her, and asked her out) and i've been friends with her since 08

[awsomeman192]

Yo buddy 14 not 16 ain't getting laid yet haha

[Ex1ztGuitar]

YOU ARE THE MAN!!!!

[draussie]

Dude you are wrong. Being in the friends zone keeps you within striking distance. It is the approach that gets you laid not the strategy for the what if's or what should be's.

[gsmitthy]

kurt iz rite dat shit actually works it worked 4 me

[nickvisstick]

Any women aggreeing with this?

[guitarristfrombeyond]

no but my friend it makes sense trust me...

[humanpinata5000]

women have have no idea how they work.. ask a girl to give you advice and she'll probably say some shit that sounds a lot like you see on the movies.. all BS

[JKno1]

O_O i got sucked into the friend zone with a girl that i really liked and a girl that really liked me........BUT, i havent spoken to her for a while! i must watch more of this videos....such wisdom....and im such a loser in need rofl.

[whickedshell]

@JKno1 you don't need to call yourself a loser ;)

[KareemXavierBrown]

Ever hear of "Friends with Benefits"?

[Jackalofdeath]

awsome vid dude, i just get some drinks in me instead, women love me then

[KyleNinja69]

its true i liked this girl and i got stuck in the friend zone but then i kinda gave up and didn't talk to her for about a month or 3 weeks and she reestablished contact after that and i more interested i might have a chance now if i do it right

[tomdamonkey999]

what if she finds a boyfriend in the time you cut yourself off?

[VincenzoisAIAC]

Sucks, Holmes.

[c00lwatter]

Don't be in the friend zone with a woman but if you want to be ina long term relationship with one she had damn well better be able to be platonic with you otherwise there is no point in it other than purile sex.

[luigiperso]

excellent!

[Alexus02]

fucking A... how can I communicate directly with this guy?

[therater2008]

The friends zone is a thing that guys chase or lust a female that they can't have it's really pointless just keep it moving find another dating prospect

[DBlakes]

Nice but u shouldn't remove ur self from her life. U should just establish a connection or vibe that shows passion 4 one another and ten at the peak of it ask her out. Don't take no for an answer make her give it thought. You will get her just do you

[Daood416]

This real pretty girl told me about an ugly guy who pretty much conned her into being his girl. He just spent so much time with her and then at the height of it he just told her "You're my girl you know... we spend so much time together I pick you up from work we do this etc" He pretty much didnt take no for an answer and she told me she was like "oh ....ok"

[stixxy99]

friend zone really sucks... yeah i rly liked this girl and was so close to having sex but then she decided to be friends. i dont even know why

[MrGrim827]

make a video about a grl at your school?

[hollowmenrule]

true true, read this somewhere else, if you don't show that intent right away, what else will she think?

[lookejutube]

Tell me doctor!...is there really a way to reverse this evil?!

Lol

[youbananabuoy]

1:27 . . . so women have a binary attitude with men, friends or date-able

[gallagherrkevin]

man the friend zone is the worst. but i there is a defer way to get out

[Lopeirada]

i cant take 2 or 3 weeks without seeing or talking to her! im in the same school and i love her...we made out but then...she said she just saw me has a friend....

[therater2008]

good advice dude the friend zone sucks

[MysteryManoLove]

Good video, good advice

[snowboardfreak123456]

thank you!

[zabithezabi]

you go to school and work on that kid

[accident7]

thanks alot man