I love you more than anything, I know you'll never feel the same for me and that's okay. I'll love you from a distance, and wish you every happiness in life.
I trust you with my life and your the only one I would ever let see me cry. As you fell for for other people I fell in love with you more and more. When you finally noticed me was the best month of my life. The second you said this would never work I wanted to break down in your arms and cry, begging you to try, but I was broken in that one second. I pray everynight I can relive that month at least one more time and now I have no one to hold me when I cry myself to sleep every night.
I love someone right now... but i cant tell them because i know there is no possibility that it could happen. Im a coward but i try to be happy in the moments we are together even if they are just as friends. At least i can be happy in those small and simple moments.
Unrequited love is an F-ing POS. I know someone who currently has decided to think of me as a friend again. I had an unrequited love for him, but I realized that if he were so quick to leave me for liking him, he wasn't ever relationship material, let alone best friend material. I try to love someone before anything else, because I know that anything in one's life should be based on love, but no one whom I love, ever returns the affection. Ultimately, I feel that I'm destined for nothing.
I think I fell for you from day one. I wanted you but you have a gf. I fell in love with you anyway, I just couldn't help it. And I love you still in spite of the circumstances. Catching up with you recently made my whole week. I miss you terribly, if you only knew. I savoured our embrace. I'm still in love with you. From day one I felt you were mine and I know not why. I'll never give up hope. There's a reason we met... And since I can't say it to you now I'll say again here: I LOVE YOU<3
This reminds me of someone I at least use to love. Danny, I was in love with you for months and you had no clue. Carl and I are happy and everything, but I only went after him because you weren't there. I wish you had some idea...
I'm in love with one of my closest friends. I have loved her for ages now, and she used to be attracted to me, but i was to scared to say anything. When i found the courage she had moved on. Now she is with my best friend. I see them together all the time. She knows i love her, but she thinks of me as one of her closest friends. I rips me apart whenever i see them together. I can't take it and try to ignore them both, but i can't.
I was so deeply in love with her, that at one point I was going to ask her to marry me. Now she doesn't speak to me, doesn't even look at me anymore, and it kills me.
I want nothing more than for her to be happy and smile, but when she is happy or smiling because of another man, I die a little inside and I can feel my heart shatter...
(Cont.) Then, once, I heard from another friend that he likes someone... another guy. At first, I didn't believe her, but another friend, two years older than me, knows him, and she said the same thing. So now, I believe them. But I still love him, no matter what they say... I don't know why, but I just do...
I like this guy who's a year older than me... We've known each other since two years ago, and now we're in high school, we talk to each other like close friends... Little did he know of my love for him... Sometimes, since my best friend knows of this, when she saw him, she went and did stupid things, which, I think, is what made him realize my love for him. Sometimes, he ignores me, sometimes, he talks to me, it's so confusing. But, lately, it's been three months and he still ignores me. (Cont.)
most of you fools know nothing of love or unrequited love and I laugh when i read your comments saying the person you think you love left you for someone else.
And what heart last forever, you will all die, your hearts will turn to dust and the person you leave behind will just find someone else to love.
I like this guy and he totally ignores me I poke him on fb and he ignores it, I sent him a message trying to start a conversation and he ignores it,I look for him on fb and had to add a bunch if plp with his name to see if it was him when I found him I sent him a friend request and he ignored it but I kept tryin until he added me. Can anyone tell me if I should delete him? All he does is ignore me
I'm a guy, in love with my best friend; another guy. We're both bisexual, but he seems completely in love with this girl, and I've been right beside him the entire time, helping to make it happen for him, because I want him to be happy. Now they're a couple and very into each other, and I'm getting more depressed and heartbroken each day I see them get closer and closer. I feel I need to tell him because I can't take it anymore, but fear losing him. But will their love drive me away anyway?
She has my heart...My love thats turned to pain. And she doesn't even know. I would run head first into hell for you. You're more beautiful than the sun! I just want to tell you so much!! would you even care? Do you care? I've never been so afraid of anything in my life... God if this passes I would be so greatful....But i don't want it to pass!!! I only want you! ......because i'm to weak to say it to her. Fuck!! It hurts so bad!!!!
here we go again... Once again my feelings are just crumpled aside like garbage... Because of loving her, I'm now suffering from severe apathy.. I ruined my own birthday crying all week... I dont think I can do this anymore.. I already spent ten agonizing years longing for her, and she hates me. I dont think I'll survive another ten...
@TaoBujin - I read what your comment said before you removed it...(it sends to my hotmail)...and my advice? Go for it. Seriously, just ask her. You've already said I love you, and the only way to know her true feelings is to ask. If she says no, forget her and find someone who will deserve your love. :)
I like this girl in my class. She's pretty, smart, athletic, artistic and funny. I can't really take beating myself up over her. Everytime I see her, my heart skips a beat and when I see her with other guys it breaks my heart. I want to tell her how I really feel, but I think she'll just stop talking to me. I just wish that we could be more than friends. What a hopeless dream...
@TheKeeblerFactory - If you're friends, you could always make it casual to begin with? Ask her to come shopping with you because you need to buy a present for your mum/sister/aunt ect and you need a girls opinion. Or just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, but make sure you follow through by arranging something. If you dont try, you might spend your life wanting things you could've had. Sieze the day :)
Made the decision (after 5 years of being desperately in love with one of my best friends) to tell her. Not the best reaction I could have received.. I'm still trying to figure out whether it Was the greatest or worst decision of my life. I essentially have lost her friendship, but a MASSIVE weight was lifted off my shoulders
Magical thing love is... Magnificent if it's mutual, seems to be best feeling in the world. But if it's unrequited love, then it is even better. Yeah that's right, i said better. But with some downsides. First of all it's not real and i'm sorry to say that it will NEVER be real. If you have that kind of love, my advise would be that don't do anything about it. Just live the feeling and wait for it to end. Otherwise you'll only hurt yourself.
karmun, i really love you. i tried not to fall in love with you but i just couldn't.i'm so weak, please help me. i can't go on like this. i really miss your voice when you're talking to me. i'm just so hopeless. i don't know why this feeling just won't go away. i really love. im so confused please karmun let me love you.
I love him, but I can't tell him because he has a girlfriend. I can't tell him he's the only one I trust. I can't tell him how I dream about him at night.The worst part is that I can't tell if he secretly likes me to, or if he's just leading me on.
I had this really hard time where I had real deep emotional feelings for a girl who never knew I loved her. It was well and truly past having a crush or being a secret admirer... it really screwed with my head. It was a work colleague, and it had been going on for a good 3-4 years. Eventually it exacerbated me going into depression and anxiety.
I still have strong feelings for the woman I love. She just wants to be friends and isn't interested in a relationship. I've somewhat moved on and realised that she isn't 'Miss right', but it still hurts, especially after rare dreams about her. I guess you never completely move on. Bless all who have suffered the same fate. We walk a truly difficult path to partial recovery
Respond to this video... Thank you OP for putting this here. And to all who put this together. Especially the brave souls who share their tale and continue to go on, no matter what their situation is. Thank You.
.oh yeah..he was also my first love. He kinda liked me back then too but he never considered going out with me.. so yeah..it hurts..but coping up with it is fun.. i think i'm weird for thinking it's fun. but seriously. a kid can learn many things..I actually haven't gone out with anyone before..since no one is trying to persuade me..but atleast..i wish someone will like me. i mean..c'mon..i'm 15..geez..still 0% of getting like by a guy..
@IndefiniteLies Get out there and you will find someone. Convince yourself of that 0% and it will become a reality. Enjoy life. You've still got a very long time ahead. Best wishes
I'm in love with also.. a friend of mine but i never once considered it..since I'm still a kid back then (12 and a half)..then i'm now 15 and a half still haven't liked anybody else other than him..though, i tell my friends that i like someone else now...well, they give me useless advice...but I still don't want to consider ...I don't want to get tied by it so..i kinda stick myself to studying.
me and this guy really like each other alot, and we hav the potential of being something amazing, but we're both graduating and going two different paths and hes just been ignoring me and avoiding me. the only thing on my mind is him, and i just feel like im the last thing on his mind... i don't want to bother him, i just want him to tell me whats going on, i want him to find what makes him happy
14 years, half my life, in love with this man. I was 14 he was 50. Now I'm 27 and he's 64. Literally broke down & wrote him, twice last September, & he didn't respond. I fell into a depression for close to 3 months. He's still a part of my psyche & it sux. I talk about it w/ my therapist, but it's embarassing. I feel like she's judging me! I still love him, but he's emotionally detached...my favorite. I tell her, "Ill give it a year. Maybe I won't feel anything & move on." But I DONT WANT TO!
I love you more than you will ever know, Marilyn. The sacrifices I'm willing to make for the sake of our friendship. Your happiness is more important to me than my own desires. I hope one day I'll get the chance to show you how I truly feel. Love, Rob
If I had to choose between the love of my life and my career, I would leave him in a heartbeat..... which is what I'm currently in the process of doing and I pretend to be blind to it. My whole life has amounted to these critical years of college and I can't let him ruin what I've always dreamed. I wonder how I'll feel about this once I hit my peak in academia and want to settle down.... Most likely a fool.
i haven't liked someone in 4 years and now i think i don't just like him, i think i love him. this feeling is not just attraction or lust, he makes me happy, breaks down my walls, i can be vulnerable around him, i can be me. its not a crazy attraction but a calm one. i feel like i'm suppose to like him. it feels so natural. but of course he said that doesn't see us going anywhere more than friends. right now, i just want him to be happy. that's all. i think i love him.
I wish it was that easy to tell someone you love them. Except the fact that there's rarely any hope for things to happen. I guess we're all afraid of rejection.. ♥
For five years I have been waiting for the day when you are done chasing after other girls and realize that I'm the "perfect" girl you've been describing all along. I'll keep waiting. Even if that day never comes.
him so bad. But I want him to be happy. I know he doesn't have a clue how I feel about him and it hurts to hear him talk of her, but it also makes me happy that he's so happy with her. What can I do? I do and don't want to break up their relationship and it makes me feel horrible. But I couldn't stand to stop being his friend.
@MidNightDream4e I know exactly how you feel... I'm in love with one of my best friends, who is also my classmate. Weve been in the same class for two years and at first I did'nt realise how I felt, but when I did (it kind of hit me like a bomb) it was allready to late. He had a girlfriend... They've been together for over a year now and can't bare seeing him with anyone but me. It's killing me slowly to have to listen to him speaking about "what they did on valentine's day" or stuff like that..
@MidNightDream4e And at the same time I sometimes get the feeling that he feels the same way about me... But I'm to scared to tell him. Cause what if he doesn't? What if he declines me, what if it ruins our friendship? I just couldn't take that... School would suck without him, my life would suck without him! I think about this all the time and it's driving me crazy...... I don't know what to do!
@CreepyCreeks Wow. Hun, I'm really sorry that you have to go through this. I know its hard to go up to him and tell him, but I honestly think that its even worse to keep it to yourself. Sometimes the best things we can do for ourselves are the hardest and seem to be the worst. I would tell him and its great if he feels the same way about you, but if he doesn't its okay...at least now you both know where you stand and you won't have to hear about what they did on valentine's day/about her
Unfortunately, a year after I've decided this about my ex. I meet a guy at work and I become interested in him. He's an amazing guy, sweet, talented, affectionate, and more....but when I finally started wanting to see where it would go he had already established us as "just friends" and started telling me about a girl he like...I want him to be happy so I supported him and listened. Now I find out they've been with each other for a few weeks now and I lost my shot..I'm so jealous of her and want
I was in this situation for a good four years with my ex-bf. I ended it and then realized how much I "needed" him, but he wouldn't give us a second shot, yet he would and still does give me false hopes that he has feelings for me. I've finally made the decision of not initiating a conversation with him, if he wants to talk to me he will initiate and I refuse to give us a chance now. I'm not going there with him again
sometimes you have to stay with what is the decision you made, the vow you took. I love this guy he is just awesome and he knows but has erased me from his social network, I do not blame him. I am leaving, going, auf weidersen, farewell, he must be happy about this.
A few months ago, I told my close friend how I really felt about him.
He acknowledged my feelings, but emphasize that I am very good friend, and that he hopes we will always be. A nice and polite response...that somehow irrationally gave my heart false hope. For Christmas yesterday, I gave myself permission to let him go. It hurts like hell. But it is right thing...maybe one day we really can be friends again.
i'm in love with a friend of mine and i can't let that love go. we went out for a while, then she told me that she was just "attracted to the idea of being with me", and broke it off. yet she still seems to care and it kills me. i've never met anyone who's broken my heart more times than i can count, yet i still care about them more than anything. I've never met someone that made me cry as much as her, yet i long for her to come and wipe my tears away... what should i do?
@itsumo212 You need to learn to love yourself first. You are the one who is being hurt in this. You need to think about what makes you happy and go for it. If its really her that makes you happy, but you keep getting shot down, you can either live a misery longing for her to change your mind, or you can keep the faith that there really is someone else amazing out there, who will love you in return. But most of all, do what makes you happy. :)
@DarkGlitt3r Would you please hurry up and get a relationship advice column :) I love that you posted a video about unrequited love, then went on to council all the heartbroken people who commented. Awesome.
i cried for 5 minutes, but i don't want them back. It's a bit of relief to know that there are people out there feeling the same shite as you do. If they could go through, maybe you can do it as well. Maybe one day you'll wake up and pain will be gone. God oh god... why, why can't you love me. Why do i still care.
i dont understand things sometimes. i mean im pathetic and i know that because im only 16 but i have liked the same girl for 2 years but she is my best friend who loves my other best mate. and she always tells me how much she loves him, shes cried to me about him, everything. and it really really kills me because i want to get over her cause she is way out of my league and i dont want to say anything. what should i do? :(
I miss my ex wife. By strange circumstances I sometimes see her or have an encounter. Strange dream like images haunt me. I am a happy and optimistic person, but my life has a dark side. For in the reuniting of darkness and light life is born. I do not like to indulge in sadness or desperation, but somehow it is like a powerfull drug wich makes me want to achieve something impossible. In good times we tend to party, in bad times we tend to ponder. Out pondering comes power.
I miss my ex wife. By strange circumstances I sometimes see her or have an encounter. Strange dream like images haunt me. I am a happy and optimistic person, but my life has a dark side.
The fact we have an unrequited love is that we'd rather feel something than feeling nothing at all, even though we know damn well that the other person we're 'in love' with is not with us anymore, who's changed for good and barely remembers who we are. Somehow, the time they spend with us seems like the only happy memory we know, and we'd rather keep it that way just to feel this sweet pain. We're afraid to admit that we hate being alone, thus we're alone, lock ourselves away in isolation...
this song reminds me of the situation im in, I always had a crush on this guy but was too scared to tell him because he was a heartbreaker so me and his friend dated for a year but i could never get this guy off my mind! me and his friend broke up a couple of months ago and my crush recently told me that he liked me! i was so panicked that i lied and said i would never have feelings for him:( cuz i did love my ex and wouldnt do that to him but my heart bleeds for my crush, so that was the end.
this song reminds me of the situation im in, I always had a crush on this guy but was too scared to tell him because he was a heartbreaker so me and his friend dated for a year but i could never get this guy off my mind! me and his friend broke up a couple of months ago and my crush recently told me that he liked me! i was so panicked that i lied and said i would never have feelings for him:(
Does anyone ever wonder the what ifs?? do people rlly believe that "if its meant to be its meant to be" crap, I was in love with my coworker, today was my last day and im moving to another city,, I never told him how i felt and I rlly regret that:(
this song reminds me of what i'm going through now. i'm in love with my best frined but he's in love with another girl who's in a relationshipo. he says he only wants her and won't even think about giving another girl a chance. he knows how i feel and tells me to hang on just in case. it still hurts. he's attracted to me, but won't do anything about it. he'd rather have her. I love and hate him at the same time......
@AerieyalleKingdoms Hun, I really think you should get outta there while you can. He doesn't sound like he wants to let go of her, and is only telling you to hang on because you are a rebound if he cant get what he wants, then at least with you he can still get some. If he really cared for you, he would make some sort of effort. I know its hard, but it's best to let him go, and find a guy who will love you back :)
@AerieyalleKingdoms Uh yeah, gotta agree with DarkGlitt3r, don't mean to sound cruel, but tell him to "shit or get off the pot". You break it off, do it quick, do it clean, but do it on your terms...
I wish I could be mad at him. It'd be easier to be mad at him. But he was just so sweet about the whole situation. And it makes me feel guilty to be mad when he was only doing it to prevent me from more pain. And then I feel pathetic because he's probably moved on...
I can't take it anymore someone has to know how I feel. I found out yesterday that my boyfriend cheated on me and I feel absolutely horrible. I forgave him and we are still together but, I wonder if I even made the right decision. He says he won't do it again and she means nothing to him but, how can I believe him. I never wanted to see him unhappy, little does he know how unhappy he really has made me.
@Ravgriff18. You poor thing. :( I know that its going to be a hard thing to do, because Ive been there, Ive been cheated on and it hurts so much. But no matter what anyone says, the person you need to make happy right now is YOU. You come first, and he comes second. You need to tell him how you feel, and if he cant fix it, then find something that can :) Friends are helpful in times like these.
The worst is when they like to spend time with you and they like having you around...She likes to fucking tell me about her guy problems...SERIOUSLY...is this what my life is about? I keep getting myself into this same place...when am I going to LEARN?!?!
I can never forgive myself for losing you without telling you how much I loved you. You're not dead, but losing you is still the greatest regret of my young life.
Just so as you know, I'm half thinking of arranging to meet up with my unrequited love via facebook. I have no idea, what she'll think. I'm just trying to pretend to myself that I couldn't give a damn what she thinks if it turns out wrong, and not take the responsibility or embarrassment, like my alter ego would be able to.
If you have guts, it may. Fortune favours the brave. You're less likely to succeed if you can't accept failure.
Anyway, the whole love thing only lasts for 3 years max. Then you've gotten your kick. Trick is, get the kick, but get out quickly or you my be trapped with someone you may eventually get bored of.
@Karlos1234ify They go on about a relationship breakup as being the worst, but unless they've experienced unrequited love, then they have only felt half the agony and misery... at least in a relationship, BOTH parties are aware of the emotions and sadness , as opposed to one suffering away in silence... I had this feeling go on for nearly 6 years and Iam just coming to grips with it now.
It has been officially doagnosed as a disorder and can either lead to fatal consequences if not treated.
even though you're the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last as I fall asleep, I know you're gone forever and that you've never felt that way for me once in youre life. But you could have......
I have a friend who is in love with me but, I don't love him back. Now I have to keep him at a distance because it kills him that I don't want to be with him. I feel horrible and guilty for causing him pain which I never wanted to inflict. I just want somebody to know how sorry I truly am.
@mmmmmarcus Someone ran away from me. He was so afraid of being hurt, so he ran Thank you for being so incredibly honest. I gave him several opportunities to tell me what was on his heart, but he chose to embrace fear rather than me. When will people learn that they are hurting not just themselves but the other person when they behave this way? Marcus, I hope you can heal from this pain!
Four years, four beautiful years. Now I'm changing and because of that change I'm losing you. And there is no way I can stop it. Why can't I love you the way I used to?
You said you thought I've always hated you. The ugly truth is this: I was in love with you a long time ago. I thought about telling you, but there's nothing you can say now that will help. I miss our whacky friendship, but after all that happened, there can be no going back.
I fell in love with a married man. I tired to reach out to him anonymously but he discovered it was me. He lost all respect for me and shunned me for the remaining time we worked together. I moved 2 years ago and soon fell in love with another married man. I won't go near him because I don't want to hurt him the way I hurt the first, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I still have feelings for them both and I know I'll never find anyone to love me back, because I always get there too late.
I've never been in a relationship and finally I met this guy who actually seemed to feel the same way. After spending all these times together, today I found out he was newly in a relationship.. with someone else.
I hate that everywhere I go, I see someone and I see you. I hate that everytime I'm alone with my thoughts, they always come back to you. I hate you, the memory of you.
Because I see the real thing everyday, and I love it more.
It's bittersweet, but you were my first love. And I want to remember it that way, even as I'm letting go.
my first love was my best friend in high school. i was truly in love with him, but he wasnt patient with me, and moved on. To this day, I believe I'm the only girl he's had feelings for but has never kissed. I dated someone else in high school, thinking that trying to move would help. It didnt. And now, Ive finally broken up with this guy, and 3 years after high school, the boy who was my best friend is still the love of my life. I have no idea what to do with this heart ache...
the worst part is, she blocked my from yahoo, so i cant even speak to her and tell her its not her fault, I just wanted her to be happy.. decades of friendship destroyed in less than one minute... Even worse, i found out this one girl liked me, and I was too busy hurting over the other girl, that I ignored the other one.. Dont dwell.. i lost a WONDERFUL girl that really loved me because of this.. Right there in front of me, she would be with me today.. Now im afraid of love...
I called her a bitch and said i hated her rotten guts, and told her shes going to hell.. Im such a monster... She didnt deserve that, we were childhood friends.. As a result i started to hate myself... please dont allow yourself to end up where I am. Every day I hear her laugh, see her smile, feel her hugs..
I just picture her crying because of my fucked up words.. and it wasnt even her fault.. ALL MY FAULT!! This is going to haunt me til I die.. dont ever end up like me!!!
@Willsr14 but then u'd be leaving them to die alone, and then they'd have to live without you, so if anything thatt's selfish hahaha, but nah yeah it's a cute quote
Perhaps you could drop subtle hints? Maybe just go see a movie and see what happens. Hold his hand, or compliment him. Thats how my so and I started, we were best friends who were to shy to admit our feelings, and once we did, it was magic. 4 years and still going strong.
If he doesnt feel the same way, that's okay. It's nothing to do with you, it's just how he feels and sometimes people cant help how they feel, just like you cant help being in love with him. I hope it all works out for you :)
@DarkGlitt3r that'd be great! I totally support opening up, it feels GREAT! Mine didn't work that long. I wish I'd met him, doing things like that together before it's too late..it's just too late now :(
A year ago tonight I made you a valentine's card. I stayed up all night working on it. We went skating. I made you Hot Chocolate with milk. Because you don't like the stuff from Tim Horton's.
I've given him my heart and he doesn't know it. Now he's slowly breaking it and I don't know what's worse: The fact that he's leaving and taking my heart with him, or the fact that I wouldn't reverse my situation for anything?
This is one of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard.
Taraatjeh 2 hours ago
I love you more than anything, I know you'll never feel the same for me and that's okay. I'll love you from a distance, and wish you every happiness in life.
RaidersRock 3 days ago in playlist sad songs
I love you Nothing will change. Ever.
thrillzandfrills 1 week ago
Ive loved you from the day ive met you. It will never happen between us. But if youre happy then Im happy. I love you so much xx
desperadojukes 1 week ago
I trust you with my life and your the only one I would ever let see me cry. As you fell for for other people I fell in love with you more and more. When you finally noticed me was the best month of my life. The second you said this would never work I wanted to break down in your arms and cry, begging you to try, but I was broken in that one second. I pray everynight I can relive that month at least one more time and now I have no one to hold me when I cry myself to sleep every night.
7827melody 1 month ago
I love someone right now... but i cant tell them because i know there is no possibility that it could happen. Im a coward but i try to be happy in the moments we are together even if they are just as friends. At least i can be happy in those small and simple moments.
gustibank95 1 month ago
Unrequited love is an F-ing POS. I know someone who currently has decided to think of me as a friend again. I had an unrequited love for him, but I realized that if he were so quick to leave me for liking him, he wasn't ever relationship material, let alone best friend material. I try to love someone before anything else, because I know that anything in one's life should be based on love, but no one whom I love, ever returns the affection. Ultimately, I feel that I'm destined for nothing.
Sovairu 2 months ago
I think I fell for you from day one. I wanted you but you have a gf. I fell in love with you anyway, I just couldn't help it. And I love you still in spite of the circumstances. Catching up with you recently made my whole week. I miss you terribly, if you only knew. I savoured our embrace. I'm still in love with you. From day one I felt you were mine and I know not why. I'll never give up hope. There's a reason we met... And since I can't say it to you now I'll say again here: I LOVE YOU<3
JaidThaMaid 2 months ago
This reminds me of someone I at least use to love. Danny, I was in love with you for months and you had no clue. Carl and I are happy and everything, but I only went after him because you weren't there. I wish you had some idea...
simonimyours 2 months ago
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nice :) I was the only one to hear your dreams and aspiration
TonyHujek 2 months ago
I'm in love with one of my closest friends. I have loved her for ages now, and she used to be attracted to me, but i was to scared to say anything. When i found the courage she had moved on. Now she is with my best friend. I see them together all the time. She knows i love her, but she thinks of me as one of her closest friends. I rips me apart whenever i see them together. I can't take it and try to ignore them both, but i can't.
celticsdude11 4 months ago
I was so deeply in love with her, that at one point I was going to ask her to marry me. Now she doesn't speak to me, doesn't even look at me anymore, and it kills me.
TaoBujin 4 months ago
I want nothing more than for her to be happy and smile, but when she is happy or smiling because of another man, I die a little inside and I can feel my heart shatter...
thesugarfatman 4 months ago
(Cont.) Then, once, I heard from another friend that he likes someone... another guy. At first, I didn't believe her, but another friend, two years older than me, knows him, and she said the same thing. So now, I believe them. But I still love him, no matter what they say... I don't know why, but I just do...
CloseAndFarAway 4 months ago
I like this guy who's a year older than me... We've known each other since two years ago, and now we're in high school, we talk to each other like close friends... Little did he know of my love for him... Sometimes, since my best friend knows of this, when she saw him, she went and did stupid things, which, I think, is what made him realize my love for him. Sometimes, he ignores me, sometimes, he talks to me, it's so confusing. But, lately, it's been three months and he still ignores me. (Cont.)
CloseAndFarAway 4 months ago
I love him...He's going to New York to marry his boyfriend.
simonimyours 5 months ago
To me he's wonderful...and amazing...but he doesn't even know my last name, I barely exist to him
plasmoidi 5 months ago
I was the only one to hear your dreams and aspiration; now I am the only one who is not going to witness them happen. What the fuck happened?
ThisPoisonTree 5 months ago
most of you fools know nothing of love or unrequited love and I laugh when i read your comments saying the person you think you love left you for someone else.
And what heart last forever, you will all die, your hearts will turn to dust and the person you leave behind will just find someone else to love.
Camouflagentears 5 months ago
I really can't enjoy this video when I have to read each one that fast.
draigess 6 months ago
I like this guy and he totally ignores me I poke him on fb and he ignores it, I sent him a message trying to start a conversation and he ignores it,I look for him on fb and had to add a bunch if plp with his name to see if it was him when I found him I sent him a friend request and he ignored it but I kept tryin until he added me. Can anyone tell me if I should delete him? All he does is ignore me
Loveisblindness89 6 months ago
I'm a guy, in love with my best friend; another guy. We're both bisexual, but he seems completely in love with this girl, and I've been right beside him the entire time, helping to make it happen for him, because I want him to be happy. Now they're a couple and very into each other, and I'm getting more depressed and heartbroken each day I see them get closer and closer. I feel I need to tell him because I can't take it anymore, but fear losing him. But will their love drive me away anyway?
karatecarnage 6 months ago
I could have written the secret at 4:36...sometimes I dont know if I should smile because he's my friend or cry because he doesn't love me back.
wickedfantasy18 6 months ago
When twilight creeps by thy silent distant loves speak
I'm afraid I'm in too deep and when velvet mornings
break the night I sigh for a heart beyond her heavens
reach despite of rest theres a pain upon my chest
for cupids arrows are entwined much to deep that
shelters me from restfull sleep :(
FidelCastro128 7 months ago
The only thing worse than the fact that he doesn't love me back is when he *did* and never told me.
"Yours as long as life endures..."
MissReeves 7 months ago
when you experience unrequited love everything becomes unreal...like a dream you are not dead nor alive....
KKCvids 7 months ago
I had something amazing and i wasted it, now he's with her i'd do anything to be with him.
eternalXxXmemorys 7 months ago
i'm so in love with her and she'll never know :(
Paranormalaccnt9 7 months ago
she's gone..
fgism 7 months ago
Im stood here practically throwing myself at you, but you still stare at the girl who is disgusted by even your name
chriscrockerrules08 7 months ago
beautiful
olivegirl1989 7 months ago
She has my heart...My love thats turned to pain. And she doesn't even know. I would run head first into hell for you. You're more beautiful than the sun! I just want to tell you so much!! would you even care? Do you care? I've never been so afraid of anything in my life... God if this passes I would be so greatful....But i don't want it to pass!!! I only want you! ......because i'm to weak to say it to her. Fuck!! It hurts so bad!!!!
fartgard 8 months ago
here we go again... Once again my feelings are just crumpled aside like garbage... Because of loving her, I'm now suffering from severe apathy.. I ruined my own birthday crying all week... I dont think I can do this anymore.. I already spent ten agonizing years longing for her, and she hates me. I dont think I'll survive another ten...
mmmmmarcus 8 months ago
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TaoBujin 8 months ago
@TaoBujin - I read what your comment said before you removed it...(it sends to my hotmail)...and my advice? Go for it. Seriously, just ask her. You've already said I love you, and the only way to know her true feelings is to ask. If she says no, forget her and find someone who will deserve your love. :)
DarkGlitt3r 8 months ago
I like this girl in my class. She's pretty, smart, athletic, artistic and funny. I can't really take beating myself up over her. Everytime I see her, my heart skips a beat and when I see her with other guys it breaks my heart. I want to tell her how I really feel, but I think she'll just stop talking to me. I just wish that we could be more than friends. What a hopeless dream...
TheKeeblerFactory 8 months ago 7
@TheKeeblerFactory - If you're friends, you could always make it casual to begin with? Ask her to come shopping with you because you need to buy a present for your mum/sister/aunt ect and you need a girls opinion. Or just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, but make sure you follow through by arranging something. If you dont try, you might spend your life wanting things you could've had. Sieze the day :)
DarkGlitt3r 8 months ago 8
@DarkGlitt3r thanks, I'll try to arrange some stuff :)
TheKeeblerFactory 8 months ago
@TheKeeblerFactory take the risk and ask her out. don't runaway if she says no! Spend time with her more this way. Be open!!!! FIGHTING!!!!
Isehu 3 days ago
Made the decision (after 5 years of being desperately in love with one of my best friends) to tell her. Not the best reaction I could have received.. I'm still trying to figure out whether it Was the greatest or worst decision of my life. I essentially have lost her friendship, but a MASSIVE weight was lifted off my shoulders
908daysofgrace 8 months ago
Magical thing love is... Magnificent if it's mutual, seems to be best feeling in the world. But if it's unrequited love, then it is even better. Yeah that's right, i said better. But with some downsides. First of all it's not real and i'm sorry to say that it will NEVER be real. If you have that kind of love, my advise would be that don't do anything about it. Just live the feeling and wait for it to end. Otherwise you'll only hurt yourself.
differentialgain 8 months ago
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typhon3808 9 months ago
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mmmmmarcus 9 months ago
karmun, i really love you. i tried not to fall in love with you but i just couldn't.i'm so weak, please help me. i can't go on like this. i really miss your voice when you're talking to me. i'm just so hopeless. i don't know why this feeling just won't go away. i really love. im so confused please karmun let me love you.
KaKaGaNu 9 months ago
I love him, but I can't tell him because he has a girlfriend. I can't tell him he's the only one I trust. I can't tell him how I dream about him at night.The worst part is that I can't tell if he secretly likes me to, or if he's just leading me on.
littlezippocat 9 months ago
@littlezippocat Tell him, and respect his answer. But... what if you tell him now? What if...
Otonium 9 months ago
The one where it said i said yes to him because you never asked is wat happened to me iy broke my heart in half i just cant ask idk why :(
crazyxyful 10 months ago
It frustrates me that when someone talks about their unrequited love, and they use the word 'love', they are sometimes thought of as melodramatic
DSFalcon47 10 months ago
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ColdDarksteele 10 months ago
I had this really hard time where I had real deep emotional feelings for a girl who never knew I loved her. It was well and truly past having a crush or being a secret admirer... it really screwed with my head. It was a work colleague, and it had been going on for a good 3-4 years. Eventually it exacerbated me going into depression and anxiety.
TCFan25 10 months ago
I still have strong feelings for the woman I love. She just wants to be friends and isn't interested in a relationship. I've somewhat moved on and realised that she isn't 'Miss right', but it still hurts, especially after rare dreams about her. I guess you never completely move on. Bless all who have suffered the same fate. We walk a truly difficult path to partial recovery
DSFalcon47 10 months ago
@DSFalcon47 I share a similar path as yours. It really is difficult. I want it to go away so badly, but then again, no I don't.
machetetrejo69 3 months ago
Respond to this video... Thank you OP for putting this here. And to all who put this together. Especially the brave souls who share their tale and continue to go on, no matter what their situation is. Thank You.
machetetrejo69 3 months ago
.oh yeah..he was also my first love. He kinda liked me back then too but he never considered going out with me.. so yeah..it hurts..but coping up with it is fun.. i think i'm weird for thinking it's fun. but seriously. a kid can learn many things..I actually haven't gone out with anyone before..since no one is trying to persuade me..but atleast..i wish someone will like me. i mean..c'mon..i'm 15..geez..still 0% of getting like by a guy..
IndefiniteLies 10 months ago
@IndefiniteLies Get out there and you will find someone. Convince yourself of that 0% and it will become a reality. Enjoy life. You've still got a very long time ahead. Best wishes
DSFalcon47 10 months ago
I'm in love with also.. a friend of mine but i never once considered it..since I'm still a kid back then (12 and a half)..then i'm now 15 and a half still haven't liked anybody else other than him..though, i tell my friends that i like someone else now...well, they give me useless advice...but I still don't want to consider ...I don't want to get tied by it so..i kinda stick myself to studying.
IndefiniteLies 10 months ago
me and this guy really like each other alot, and we hav the potential of being something amazing, but we're both graduating and going two different paths and hes just been ignoring me and avoiding me. the only thing on my mind is him, and i just feel like im the last thing on his mind... i don't want to bother him, i just want him to tell me whats going on, i want him to find what makes him happy
5alazain 10 months ago
14 years, half my life, in love with this man. I was 14 he was 50. Now I'm 27 and he's 64. Literally broke down & wrote him, twice last September, & he didn't respond. I fell into a depression for close to 3 months. He's still a part of my psyche & it sux. I talk about it w/ my therapist, but it's embarassing. I feel like she's judging me! I still love him, but he's emotionally detached...my favorite. I tell her, "Ill give it a year. Maybe I won't feel anything & move on." But I DONT WANT TO!
LemonCake07 10 months ago
I love you more than you will ever know, Marilyn. The sacrifices I'm willing to make for the sake of our friendship. Your happiness is more important to me than my own desires. I hope one day I'll get the chance to show you how I truly feel. Love, Rob
seth1963 11 months ago
If I had to choose between the love of my life and my career, I would leave him in a heartbeat..... which is what I'm currently in the process of doing and I pretend to be blind to it. My whole life has amounted to these critical years of college and I can't let him ruin what I've always dreamed. I wonder how I'll feel about this once I hit my peak in academia and want to settle down.... Most likely a fool.
triscuitmath 11 months ago
i haven't liked someone in 4 years and now i think i don't just like him, i think i love him. this feeling is not just attraction or lust, he makes me happy, breaks down my walls, i can be vulnerable around him, i can be me. its not a crazy attraction but a calm one. i feel like i'm suppose to like him. it feels so natural. but of course he said that doesn't see us going anywhere more than friends. right now, i just want him to be happy. that's all. i think i love him.
sylviedroz 11 months ago
4:49- lol here i come!
raythecoolest 11 months ago
i love this girl....she noes i love her from all the flirtatious behaviour....but its just another unrequited love...*sighs*...
funny how the harder u try to get this person u love...the more the person tries to stay away from u....
o well...i'll meet my soulmate someday...
raythecoolest 11 months ago
I wish it was that easy to tell someone you love them. Except the fact that there's rarely any hope for things to happen. I guess we're all afraid of rejection.. ♥
onlyloner2008 11 months ago
he doesn't know me, but he knows i love him.
annieflx3 11 months ago
For five years I have been waiting for the day when you are done chasing after other girls and realize that I'm the "perfect" girl you've been describing all along. I'll keep waiting. Even if that day never comes.
strtthshw 1 year ago 3
him so bad. But I want him to be happy. I know he doesn't have a clue how I feel about him and it hurts to hear him talk of her, but it also makes me happy that he's so happy with her. What can I do? I do and don't want to break up their relationship and it makes me feel horrible. But I couldn't stand to stop being his friend.
MidNightDream4e 1 year ago
@MidNightDream4e I know exactly how you feel... I'm in love with one of my best friends, who is also my classmate. Weve been in the same class for two years and at first I did'nt realise how I felt, but when I did (it kind of hit me like a bomb) it was allready to late. He had a girlfriend... They've been together for over a year now and can't bare seeing him with anyone but me. It's killing me slowly to have to listen to him speaking about "what they did on valentine's day" or stuff like that..
CreepyCreeks 1 year ago
@MidNightDream4e And at the same time I sometimes get the feeling that he feels the same way about me... But I'm to scared to tell him. Cause what if he doesn't? What if he declines me, what if it ruins our friendship? I just couldn't take that... School would suck without him, my life would suck without him! I think about this all the time and it's driving me crazy...... I don't know what to do!
CreepyCreeks 1 year ago
@CreepyCreeks Wow. Hun, I'm really sorry that you have to go through this. I know its hard to go up to him and tell him, but I honestly think that its even worse to keep it to yourself. Sometimes the best things we can do for ourselves are the hardest and seem to be the worst. I would tell him and its great if he feels the same way about you, but if he doesn't its okay...at least now you both know where you stand and you won't have to hear about what they did on valentine's day/about her
MidNightDream4e 1 year ago
Unfortunately, a year after I've decided this about my ex. I meet a guy at work and I become interested in him. He's an amazing guy, sweet, talented, affectionate, and more....but when I finally started wanting to see where it would go he had already established us as "just friends" and started telling me about a girl he like...I want him to be happy so I supported him and listened. Now I find out they've been with each other for a few weeks now and I lost my shot..I'm so jealous of her and want
MidNightDream4e 1 year ago
I was in this situation for a good four years with my ex-bf. I ended it and then realized how much I "needed" him, but he wouldn't give us a second shot, yet he would and still does give me false hopes that he has feelings for me. I've finally made the decision of not initiating a conversation with him, if he wants to talk to me he will initiate and I refuse to give us a chance now. I'm not going there with him again
MidNightDream4e 1 year ago
Maybe if you gave me another chance to open up, I wouldn't be doomed to glimpse the beauty of your soul from afar.
Marievska 1 year ago
Go to hell
bronxman4u2000 1 year ago
I am in love with a girl. She doesn't know I love her. I can't tell her because I am also a girl. I want her to love me so much. I bleed for her.
inuyashalove1994 1 year ago
sometimes you have to stay with what is the decision you made, the vow you took. I love this guy he is just awesome and he knows but has erased me from his social network, I do not blame him. I am leaving, going, auf weidersen, farewell, he must be happy about this.
gymrachel 1 year ago
A few months ago, I told my close friend how I really felt about him.
He acknowledged my feelings, but emphasize that I am very good friend, and that he hopes we will always be. A nice and polite response...that somehow irrationally gave my heart false hope. For Christmas yesterday, I gave myself permission to let him go. It hurts like hell. But it is right thing...maybe one day we really can be friends again.
laydlo 1 year ago
i'm in love with a friend of mine and i can't let that love go. we went out for a while, then she told me that she was just "attracted to the idea of being with me", and broke it off. yet she still seems to care and it kills me. i've never met anyone who's broken my heart more times than i can count, yet i still care about them more than anything. I've never met someone that made me cry as much as her, yet i long for her to come and wipe my tears away... what should i do?
itsumo212 1 year ago 17
@itsumo212 You need to learn to love yourself first. You are the one who is being hurt in this. You need to think about what makes you happy and go for it. If its really her that makes you happy, but you keep getting shot down, you can either live a misery longing for her to change your mind, or you can keep the faith that there really is someone else amazing out there, who will love you in return. But most of all, do what makes you happy. :)
DarkGlitt3r 1 year ago 6
@DarkGlitt3r Would you please hurry up and get a relationship advice column :) I love that you posted a video about unrequited love, then went on to council all the heartbroken people who commented. Awesome.
conorconnor 1 year ago
Thank you. I needed to let these tears flow.
SumireLaLA 1 year ago 3
A recluse reminds himself, daily, that the only way in is out, but this frightens him so he remains caged.
A recovering recluse minds his manners outside but viciously insults them inside.
A recovered recluse is frightened that the cage existed, but in a aggressively fearful way.
The braggart.
Proselytizer.
The one that never became a recluse never existed so never mind.
This is all becoming a bit sadistic.
- it takes all kinds - <3 forever
epiksonik 1 year ago
i cried for 5 minutes, but i don't want them back. It's a bit of relief to know that there are people out there feeling the same shite as you do. If they could go through, maybe you can do it as well. Maybe one day you'll wake up and pain will be gone. God oh god... why, why can't you love me. Why do i still care.
lessthanjane 1 year ago
i dont understand things sometimes. i mean im pathetic and i know that because im only 16 but i have liked the same girl for 2 years but she is my best friend who loves my other best mate. and she always tells me how much she loves him, shes cried to me about him, everything. and it really really kills me because i want to get over her cause she is way out of my league and i dont want to say anything. what should i do? :(
ambassadorknightftw 1 year ago
says it all ..
gymrachel 1 year ago
I miss my ex wife. By strange circumstances I sometimes see her or have an encounter. Strange dream like images haunt me. I am a happy and optimistic person, but my life has a dark side. For in the reuniting of darkness and light life is born. I do not like to indulge in sadness or desperation, but somehow it is like a powerfull drug wich makes me want to achieve something impossible. In good times we tend to party, in bad times we tend to ponder. Out pondering comes power.
Sesquiltera 1 year ago
I miss my ex wife. By strange circumstances I sometimes see her or have an encounter. Strange dream like images haunt me. I am a happy and optimistic person, but my life has a dark side.
Sesquiltera 1 year ago
The girl he's in love with sang this song to him.
The irony.
katyyy019 1 year ago
I knew it was too good to be true.
00cipher 1 year ago
The fact we have an unrequited love is that we'd rather feel something than feeling nothing at all, even though we know damn well that the other person we're 'in love' with is not with us anymore, who's changed for good and barely remembers who we are. Somehow, the time they spend with us seems like the only happy memory we know, and we'd rather keep it that way just to feel this sweet pain. We're afraid to admit that we hate being alone, thus we're alone, lock ourselves away in isolation...
megustaverlas 1 year ago
Beautifully stated...
"I want to tell you that I love you but I'm afraid of the silence that will follow."
hlawson01 1 year ago
this song reminds me of the situation im in, I always had a crush on this guy but was too scared to tell him because he was a heartbreaker so me and his friend dated for a year but i could never get this guy off my mind! me and his friend broke up a couple of months ago and my crush recently told me that he liked me! i was so panicked that i lied and said i would never have feelings for him:( cuz i did love my ex and wouldnt do that to him but my heart bleeds for my crush, so that was the end.
sanchez111190 1 year ago
this song reminds me of the situation im in, I always had a crush on this guy but was too scared to tell him because he was a heartbreaker so me and his friend dated for a year but i could never get this guy off my mind! me and his friend broke up a couple of months ago and my crush recently told me that he liked me! i was so panicked that i lied and said i would never have feelings for him:(
sanchez111190 1 year ago
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sanchez111190 1 year ago
It's been more than 22 years. I'm over it now. Well, not really.
Stuckinthe6Ts 1 year ago
This is really intense and sad, but these are honest emotions. i was really moved by this.
levar1979 1 year ago
this one just kills me.........."I could love you.........I could." it's like gassing for air but getting dirt instead.
orealcookie1989 1 year ago
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orealcookie1989 1 year ago
Does anyone ever wonder the what ifs?? do people rlly believe that "if its meant to be its meant to be" crap, I was in love with my coworker, today was my last day and im moving to another city,, I never told him how i felt and I rlly regret that:(
laalchimista23 1 year ago
"I don't love you anymore, but I can't bear to break your heart, so I stay."
It's good to know I'm not alone.
nacholibrelito 1 year ago
made me cry. beautiful video, thank you for sharing.
sevvysnape 1 year ago
this song reminds me of what i'm going through now. i'm in love with my best frined but he's in love with another girl who's in a relationshipo. he says he only wants her and won't even think about giving another girl a chance. he knows how i feel and tells me to hang on just in case. it still hurts. he's attracted to me, but won't do anything about it. he'd rather have her. I love and hate him at the same time......
AerieyalleKingdoms 1 year ago
@AerieyalleKingdoms Hun, I really think you should get outta there while you can. He doesn't sound like he wants to let go of her, and is only telling you to hang on because you are a rebound if he cant get what he wants, then at least with you he can still get some. If he really cared for you, he would make some sort of effort. I know its hard, but it's best to let him go, and find a guy who will love you back :)
DarkGlitt3r 1 year ago 8
@AerieyalleKingdoms Uh yeah, gotta agree with DarkGlitt3r, don't mean to sound cruel, but tell him to "shit or get off the pot". You break it off, do it quick, do it clean, but do it on your terms...
ghostly2 1 year ago
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LittleQueen7 1 year ago
What hurts more than losing you...
is knowing you're not fighting to keep me.
=(
LittleQueen7 1 year ago
gorgeous...thank you. so poignant....the tragically romantic unrequited.
kashka333 1 year ago
I wish I could be mad at him. It'd be easier to be mad at him. But he was just so sweet about the whole situation. And it makes me feel guilty to be mad when he was only doing it to prevent me from more pain. And then I feel pathetic because he's probably moved on...
muggle394 1 year ago
I can't take it anymore someone has to know how I feel. I found out yesterday that my boyfriend cheated on me and I feel absolutely horrible. I forgave him and we are still together but, I wonder if I even made the right decision. He says he won't do it again and she means nothing to him but, how can I believe him. I never wanted to see him unhappy, little does he know how unhappy he really has made me.
Ravgriff18 1 year ago
@Ravgriff18. You poor thing. :( I know that its going to be a hard thing to do, because Ive been there, Ive been cheated on and it hurts so much. But no matter what anyone says, the person you need to make happy right now is YOU. You come first, and he comes second. You need to tell him how you feel, and if he cant fix it, then find something that can :) Friends are helpful in times like these.
DarkGlitt3r 1 year ago 5
@DarkGlitt3r Thank you for your encouragement! I love this video by the way its one of my favorites.
Ravgriff18 1 year ago
@DarkGlitt3r - well written.
BusterBroonie 1 year ago
For seven years the only thing I have wished for every night at 11:11 is for you to feel the same way I do. or maybe remember my name.
nyy564 1 year ago 2
Sorry for the F bombs...
ARJ620 1 year ago
The worst is when they like to spend time with you and they like having you around...She likes to fucking tell me about her guy problems...SERIOUSLY...is this what my life is about? I keep getting myself into this same place...when am I going to LEARN?!?!
ARJ620 1 year ago
I am the definition of unrequitted love. I'd rather be the definition of comfort for someone special.
wouldntyoulike2know 1 year ago
Wow. that is an awesome video you've made .thanks for sharing
kwiyeountwaeji 1 year ago
I've already sent this, but...
I can never forgive myself for losing you without telling you how much I loved you. You're not dead, but losing you is still the greatest regret of my young life.
kryptomanik 1 year ago
Just so as you know, I'm half thinking of arranging to meet up with my unrequited love via facebook. I have no idea, what she'll think. I'm just trying to pretend to myself that I couldn't give a damn what she thinks if it turns out wrong, and not take the responsibility or embarrassment, like my alter ego would be able to.
1091Floyd21 1 year ago
Though she is with another, I can't let go. I'll never forget those 10 months.
Even the word "hopeless" has "hope" in it.
PinstripeShirt 1 year ago
Oh, fuck. Some of these just hit me so hard... I can't believe I'm fucking crying.
DoesntThink 1 year ago
Nothing worse than living in false hope when it comes to unrequited love.
TCFan25 1 year ago
@TCFan25 Too true you just keep hoping it'll change for you but deep down you know its never going to happen.
AntonIsMarksBaby 1 year ago
@AntonIsMarksBaby Much like finding a job as well (partic. long term unemployed)... frustrating as fuck.
TCFan25 1 year ago
If you have guts, it may. Fortune favours the brave. You're less likely to succeed if you can't accept failure.
Anyway, the whole love thing only lasts for 3 years max. Then you've gotten your kick. Trick is, get the kick, but get out quickly or you my be trapped with someone you may eventually get bored of.
1091Floyd21 1 year ago
congrats im all teary eyed now :C
TheKillaComa 1 year ago
its this kinda crap why some people in society do heinous deeds out of love murders / suicides shootings, rape, etc
4 me 2 cope with this i'll just say the hell with them
Karlos1234ify 1 year ago
unrequited love is the worse type of love there is
you may tell that special person in your life that you have feelings for
him or her and that special person might reject , disregard , or ignore those said feelings. i can relate 2 this
Karlos1234ify 1 year ago
@Karlos1234ify They go on about a relationship breakup as being the worst, but unless they've experienced unrequited love, then they have only felt half the agony and misery... at least in a relationship, BOTH parties are aware of the emotions and sadness , as opposed to one suffering away in silence... I had this feeling go on for nearly 6 years and Iam just coming to grips with it now.
It has been officially doagnosed as a disorder and can either lead to fatal consequences if not treated.
TCFan25 1 year ago
even though you're the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last as I fall asleep, I know you're gone forever and that you've never felt that way for me once in youre life. But you could have......
moviebuff006 1 year ago
@moviebuff006 explains why i get up so early and have trouble sleeping... fuck!
TCFan25 1 year ago
Secret: I found my soulmate. I don't think it's my wife......I just here for the children...
seth1963 1 year ago
I have a friend who is in love with me but, I don't love him back. Now I have to keep him at a distance because it kills him that I don't want to be with him. I feel horrible and guilty for causing him pain which I never wanted to inflict. I just want somebody to know how sorry I truly am.
Ravgriff18 1 year ago
He's taking my friend to Prom on the 26th of June and neither of them know I still care for him, after 6 years it's still there.
TheUnderagedLiar 1 year ago
@mmmmmarcus Someone ran away from me. He was so afraid of being hurt, so he ran Thank you for being so incredibly honest. I gave him several opportunities to tell me what was on his heart, but he chose to embrace fear rather than me. When will people learn that they are hurting not just themselves but the other person when they behave this way? Marcus, I hope you can heal from this pain!
surdnickgirl 1 year ago
If I love you, what business is it of yours?
~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
herlastvoyage 1 year ago
This was the first postsecret i saw, and i'm eternally greatful.
thank you.
KatieMinBam 1 year ago 4
I wanna be the one you love.
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lozzielou1235 1 year ago 5
Four years, four beautiful years. Now I'm changing and because of that change I'm losing you. And there is no way I can stop it. Why can't I love you the way I used to?
I miss you.
White0Rose 1 year ago 4
You said you thought I've always hated you. The ugly truth is this: I was in love with you a long time ago. I thought about telling you, but there's nothing you can say now that will help. I miss our whacky friendship, but after all that happened, there can be no going back.
Beautiful video, BTW.
herlastvoyage 1 year ago
I fell in love with a married man. I tired to reach out to him anonymously but he discovered it was me. He lost all respect for me and shunned me for the remaining time we worked together. I moved 2 years ago and soon fell in love with another married man. I won't go near him because I don't want to hurt him the way I hurt the first, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I still have feelings for them both and I know I'll never find anyone to love me back, because I always get there too late.
Ansuzie 1 year ago 2
I've never been in a relationship and finally I met this guy who actually seemed to feel the same way. After spending all these times together, today I found out he was newly in a relationship.. with someone else.
opal615 1 year ago
I hate that everywhere I go, I see someone and I see you. I hate that everytime I'm alone with my thoughts, they always come back to you. I hate you, the memory of you.
Because I see the real thing everyday, and I love it more.
It's bittersweet, but you were my first love. And I want to remember it that way, even as I'm letting go.
iBirdboi 2 years ago 2
i did let go, im just saying i suffered permanent damage as a result, and im using my example as a warning.
mmmmmarcus 2 years ago 2
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i knew you loved her and i knew i had no chance but when he said "i'd like to say they will break up but.. he is smitten sorry" i died a little inside
but i still can't stop thinking about you <3 :'(
ohnoi99 2 years ago
my first love was my best friend in high school. i was truly in love with him, but he wasnt patient with me, and moved on. To this day, I believe I'm the only girl he's had feelings for but has never kissed. I dated someone else in high school, thinking that trying to move would help. It didnt. And now, Ive finally broken up with this guy, and 3 years after high school, the boy who was my best friend is still the love of my life. I have no idea what to do with this heart ache...
vrintige 2 years ago
Im in love with my best friend, yet she doesnt see me...
VarrianoDF77713 2 years ago
he was the one who told me i was beautiful...
now i feel even more ugly...
megustaverlas 2 years ago
after a year...
loving you still haunts me.
megustaverlas 2 years ago 2
the worst part is, she blocked my from yahoo, so i cant even speak to her and tell her its not her fault, I just wanted her to be happy.. decades of friendship destroyed in less than one minute... Even worse, i found out this one girl liked me, and I was too busy hurting over the other girl, that I ignored the other one.. Dont dwell.. i lost a WONDERFUL girl that really loved me because of this.. Right there in front of me, she would be with me today.. Now im afraid of love...
mmmmmarcus 2 years ago 3
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iBirdboi 2 years ago
I called her a bitch and said i hated her rotten guts, and told her shes going to hell.. Im such a monster... She didnt deserve that, we were childhood friends.. As a result i started to hate myself... please dont allow yourself to end up where I am. Every day I hear her laugh, see her smile, feel her hugs..
I just picture her crying because of my fucked up words.. and it wasnt even her fault.. ALL MY FAULT!! This is going to haunt me til I die.. dont ever end up like me!!!
mmmmmarcus 2 years ago 4
@mmmmmarcus there's still hope
Otonium 1 year ago
If you live to be 100
i want to be 100 minus one day
so i never have to live without you <3
Willsr14 2 years ago 5
Winnie The Pooh :) Its one of my favorite quotes from there.
DarkGlitt3r 2 years ago
You don't really have the potential to be cool after 50, which is why I live my life in such a way that I'll probably only die before then.
Anyway, people know that at a certain stage that you stuggle to get a erection.
1091Floyd21 1 year ago
@Willsr14 but then u'd be leaving them to die alone, and then they'd have to live without you, so if anything thatt's selfish hahaha, but nah yeah it's a cute quote
matprithellodave 1 year ago
@matprithellodave who said they wanted to live with/without me anyway?
Willsr14 1 year ago
I'm still so in love, but she never even fancied me.
M14forever 2 years ago 4
I fell in love with him, and believe we're meant to be.
...But I don't know how he feels, and I'm too afraid to mess up our friendship to ask.
cachervosplumes 2 years ago 4
Perhaps you could drop subtle hints? Maybe just go see a movie and see what happens. Hold his hand, or compliment him. Thats how my so and I started, we were best friends who were to shy to admit our feelings, and once we did, it was magic. 4 years and still going strong.
If he doesnt feel the same way, that's okay. It's nothing to do with you, it's just how he feels and sometimes people cant help how they feel, just like you cant help being in love with him. I hope it all works out for you :)
DarkGlitt3r 2 years ago
@DarkGlitt3r that'd be great! I totally support opening up, it feels GREAT! Mine didn't work that long. I wish I'd met him, doing things like that together before it's too late..it's just too late now :(
megustaverlas 2 years ago
@cachervosplumes me 2...it kills me everyday....
pj20081 1 year ago
Whenever I was with her, I always wished it were you.
CommanderAdama13 2 years ago
"No matter what you will always believe there is hope. And you despise yourself for it."
</3 :-(
avatardoly 2 years ago
A year ago tonight I made you a valentine's card. I stayed up all night working on it. We went skating. I made you Hot Chocolate with milk. Because you don't like the stuff from Tim Horton's.
You said it was the best day you ever had....
You didn't even say anything when you left. :(
I miss you Alison.
Vlax321 2 years ago
I've given him my heart and he doesn't know it. Now he's slowly breaking it and I don't know what's worse: The fact that he's leaving and taking my heart with him, or the fact that I wouldn't reverse my situation for anything?
RatStravaganza 2 years ago