im a lezbian and ive been a lezbian for almost 6years i love being me my first time was with my ex girlfriend alexzandra she had such beautiful eyes i love that she was a gothic chick but i lost touch with her when i was 12 it sucks couse i did fall in love with her
lol I have mostly bi friends, actually. I don't know how that happens.... they kinda understand, to a certain extent, but I just want a lesbian to hang out with too. lol I get so sick of hearing my friends go on and on about how how a guy is.... seriously... I did know one person who was totally gay, like I am, it was so refreshing not having to explain things to her. I also get sick of being asked stupid questions like "so... how are you a lesbian?" etc. Straight people are too curious.
@kimchichick both. sometimes if you have good "gaydar" you're more likely to pick up on people being gay, so perhaps you set your interests on other lesbians, but mostly its not about orientation, its about personality and looks, same with straight people.
oh man! haha you live in the bay?! Im moving out of the bay. lol that's not ironic like at all. Miss it already though. Go to gay clubs! (: Im sure youll find lezzie friends there... (;
so... even tho this video is ollddd, YES I definitely wish I had more gay friends! currently I have only 2 gay girlfriends, but yeah I def wish I could go up to random lesbians and chat!
well, i'm with you,,, i have mostly straight girl friends a nd i thnk i only have one gay girlfriend, i mean i know some gay girlfriends but not really close... and my straight friends are ok , but of course they would still wish for me to have a bf..lol were both femme looking and i am laways attracted to someone like that...gee...lmao...
ive never felt the need to seek out to make friends with other girls just because theyre lesbians but i do have the need with other nerds its just a insecurity device i think
i know how ya feeel lol. but i havent made my secret public to my family yet lol i kinda feel like its not there bizz ya know but i think im kinda in a confused state? my last relationship was with a guy and i think he like turned me off guys? but i've always felt like being with a guy wasnt just didnt feel like it made me happy? ugh...figure'n it out is sooo hard lol
lmao, psycho?? really? i find her adorable not psycho...lmao SkinnyBeautifulRich if you want to see real psycho behaviours try hanging out with some of my friends... you'll be surprise the kind of shit they do just to spice their own miserable lifes... lmao... im just saying..anyway i think its cool that your open about your sexuality ... peace babe
i have mostly gay friends, its alot more fun and relaxed for me because you can be like oh that girls is hott with out like straight ppl like :PPP gay friends are alot of fun im more close with gay ppl than straight ppl.
I think your urge to connect with other lezbians is totally natural. You just long to be with your "own kind." You want a sense of community. You need a "created family" of gay women. So. . . .find a lesbian social group and GO!
yeaaaa.. i live in new york. its the same shit here too lol. like all my friends are straight. my gf has alot of gay friends.. but i dont alll my close friends are straight. i think its because im really femme. and she isn't and like you can tell shes gay but you cant tell that i am.. u no.. i feel the need to talk to other lesbians too..
Mostly straight but have gay friends too. Funny when you live in a more traditional culture gay people kind of 'move' towards you because as a westerner they feel you are open minded. At the same time you feel bad for them being gay in a shall we say an oppressive culture...
I totally understand, and yes, I do want other queer people to know I'm a lesbian, especially because I'm really femmey and they probably just assume I'm straight. *eyeroll* Also, I agree that it's really important to have queer friends, because it gets really shitty to be the token gay person in a sea of straight people. I like being able to feel like I can be "me" rather than being someone's learning experience all the time. I also live in CA and my wife and I are moving to socal :)
Man, I know how that feels. My wife and I are the only lesbians amongst our party friends and they love pointing that out to new people. We met one of other lesbian couple there one time and one of them hit on my wife, followed her into the bathroom. Not a way to make friends. We have one other lesbian couple who are dear friends and one gay guy. But the rest of our friends are straight. Sometimes you just want to be around people who are like you. You know what I mean?
lmao i do the exact same thing i feel like i need to let other people know that im gay because its not obvious...and i feel like i need to be included in the gay world because its something small and special and everyone knows everyone
lols, sorry but - tis rather comical - btw before you think im hating. im bi. so whatevs. and you're normal, u just didint have to put it on youtube.. duno. lol x
You are not a freak, I too have found myself doing the same things. I have more straight friends than gay and I wish I had more lesbian friends. So don't worry you are OK, I am OK, I like that you speak your mind. I am going to check out some of your other vlogs!
omg...in real life and online...most of my friends are straight. i always wanted a big group of gay guy friends but for some reason...it never happened.
I have the SAME problem....and you're not a freak of nature, I always want to talk to lesbian couples too!
It's a weird weird thing. I also live in North Carolina...in a city where all the gay girls know each other --it's a big circle of gay drama. I pretty much stear clear of the local celeb gays; therefore, all my friends are straight too. Hurray...lets me token lesbian friends!
You sound just like Khloe Kardashian!!!
MJshannonargent 7 months ago
you are very pretty!
IEatYouForBreakfast8 8 months ago
im a lezbian and ive been a lezbian for almost 6years i love being me my first time was with my ex girlfriend alexzandra she had such beautiful eyes i love that she was a gothic chick but i lost touch with her when i was 12 it sucks couse i did fall in love with her
mizzjuggalette121 8 months ago
lol I have mostly bi friends, actually. I don't know how that happens.... they kinda understand, to a certain extent, but I just want a lesbian to hang out with too. lol I get so sick of hearing my friends go on and on about how how a guy is.... seriously... I did know one person who was totally gay, like I am, it was so refreshing not having to explain things to her. I also get sick of being asked stupid questions like "so... how are you a lesbian?" etc. Straight people are too curious.
heartofalion26 1 year ago
Sorry but, your cute =P just had to say it!
paramorefan1290 1 year ago
be happy that you're a lesbian. this is a straight girl who would do anything if she could be one. =(
i hate that we can't change our sexual orientation!!!
by the way do lesbians ever get attracted to straight girls, or do they only like other lesbians? just curious...
kimchichick 1 year ago
@kimchichick both. sometimes if you have good "gaydar" you're more likely to pick up on people being gay, so perhaps you set your interests on other lesbians, but mostly its not about orientation, its about personality and looks, same with straight people.
heartofalion26 1 year ago
Congratulations on being a lesbian I support you and the gay community.
Cheers Christine
christinepeace 1 year ago
@christinepeace Thanks Christine!
heartsinmyeyesforyou 1 year ago
oh man! haha you live in the bay?! Im moving out of the bay. lol that's not ironic like at all. Miss it already though. Go to gay clubs! (: Im sure youll find lezzie friends there... (;
badazzrockchic 1 year ago
I love this lady!
MissMoneyGreen 1 year ago
Good Stuff.. Keep it Coming..
OutLesbian 1 year ago
TO INTRODUCE URSELF TO A GAY COUPLE, IT IS A NORMAL THING...WINK
jessereyna74871 1 year ago
so... even tho this video is ollddd, YES I definitely wish I had more gay friends! currently I have only 2 gay girlfriends, but yeah I def wish I could go up to random lesbians and chat!
roxyislove 1 year ago
I feel like that as well ... Though I'm not sure at all, if I am lesbian. But I also want to talk to other homosexual persons.
I think it's actually rather normal but how should I really know..
Homolama13 1 year ago
well, i'm with you,,, i have mostly straight girl friends a nd i thnk i only have one gay girlfriend, i mean i know some gay girlfriends but not really close... and my straight friends are ok , but of course they would still wish for me to have a bf..lol were both femme looking and i am laways attracted to someone like that...gee...lmao...
highlanderraven 1 year ago
u sound like me... haha... I feel that way!!! But... im bi...not gay... but still i feel ur pain
luckycharmsk88 1 year ago
ive never felt the need to seek out to make friends with other girls just because theyre lesbians but i do have the need with other nerds its just a insecurity device i think
Kaozkronik 1 year ago
i know how ya feeel lol. but i havent made my secret public to my family yet lol i kinda feel like its not there bizz ya know but i think im kinda in a confused state? my last relationship was with a guy and i think he like turned me off guys? but i've always felt like being with a guy wasnt just didnt feel like it made me happy? ugh...figure'n it out is sooo hard lol
heavenlycharm86 1 year ago
lmao, psycho?? really? i find her adorable not psycho...lmao SkinnyBeautifulRich if you want to see real psycho behaviours try hanging out with some of my friends... you'll be surprise the kind of shit they do just to spice their own miserable lifes... lmao... im just saying..anyway i think its cool that your open about your sexuality ... peace babe
omakuly86 2 years ago
all straight friends , im the only one that is Bi
supergirl123love 2 years ago
I want to make friends with gay people all the time, it's like they're your.....people
sooseiji 2 years ago
all strait im the only bi out of all of them its sort of weird i dNt kno any bis or gays also im only 13 thow :(
halfghalfp 2 years ago
i have mostly gay friends, its alot more fun and relaxed for me because you can be like oh that girls is hott with out like straight ppl like :PPP gay friends are alot of fun im more close with gay ppl than straight ppl.
emozombie6 2 years ago
your a hooooooooooot mass lol
deltron8080 2 years ago
lol yeah ;)
heartsinmyeyesforyou 2 years ago
i am a lesbian too but u are a psycho ahaha
SkinnyBeautifulRich 2 years ago 4
i dont think i've been called psycho in a long time LMAO
heartsinmyeyesforyou 2 years ago
I think your urge to connect with other lezbians is totally natural. You just long to be with your "own kind." You want a sense of community. You need a "created family" of gay women. So. . . .find a lesbian social group and GO!
casualandfunny 2 years ago
I do that a lot as well. I think I do it because I want to be out to more than just my friends. That and fit it...? Maybe?
RinStarra786 2 years ago
yeaaaa.. i live in new york. its the same shit here too lol. like all my friends are straight. my gf has alot of gay friends.. but i dont alll my close friends are straight. i think its because im really femme. and she isn't and like you can tell shes gay but you cant tell that i am.. u no.. i feel the need to talk to other lesbians too..
swiminchick913 2 years ago
Totally. My and the gf are both pretty fem looking so I think that def plays a part of it for us too.
Good luck finding the lezzys!
heartsinmyeyesforyou 2 years ago
omg thats so scary because im the exact same way
except i dont have a girlfriend butthe girl i like isnt femme at all
i really feel like i need to find lesbian friends
just so i can get advice and talk to them
right now im going through the worst time ever
especially trying to tell my mom help??
smile4tomorrow 2 years ago
big deal ur gay thats not ur problem ur problem is u crazy chic
jokawild5804 2 years ago
im a lesbian,and i need more gay girlfriends too!
BE FRIENDS?! hahahaha
DiamondCrystall 2 years ago
Your Awesome.. but You Knew that..
OutLesbian 2 years ago
Mostly straight but have gay friends too. Funny when you live in a more traditional culture gay people kind of 'move' towards you because as a westerner they feel you are open minded. At the same time you feel bad for them being gay in a shall we say an oppressive culture...
anonbg 2 years ago
I totally understand, and yes, I do want other queer people to know I'm a lesbian, especially because I'm really femmey and they probably just assume I'm straight. *eyeroll* Also, I agree that it's really important to have queer friends, because it gets really shitty to be the token gay person in a sea of straight people. I like being able to feel like I can be "me" rather than being someone's learning experience all the time. I also live in CA and my wife and I are moving to socal :)
evolveordissolve 2 years ago 4
Man, I know how that feels. My wife and I are the only lesbians amongst our party friends and they love pointing that out to new people. We met one of other lesbian couple there one time and one of them hit on my wife, followed her into the bathroom. Not a way to make friends. We have one other lesbian couple who are dear friends and one gay guy. But the rest of our friends are straight. Sometimes you just want to be around people who are like you. You know what I mean?
sidian3 2 years ago
totally... good luck!
heartsinmyeyesforyou 2 years ago
if your anywhere near nyc we can be friends lol
arisfromparis19 3 years ago
ah man... i'm in california or else we totally could! we can be youtube friends though!
heartsinmyeyesforyou 3 years ago
yay for youtube!!! im going to start vlogging as well im just trying to think of topics to do lol
arisfromparis19 3 years ago
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TheAlIslam 2 years ago
lmao i do the exact same thing i feel like i need to let other people know that im gay because its not obvious...and i feel like i need to be included in the gay world because its something small and special and everyone knows everyone
arisfromparis19 3 years ago
well hell if u find a fine girl go hola i cant help myself im 15 im bi and ur not weird
imtaken4good 3 years ago
lols, sorry but - tis rather comical - btw before you think im hating. im bi. so whatevs. and you're normal, u just didint have to put it on youtube.. duno. lol x
bswrocks 3 years ago
You are not weird you are very adorable!!!!
hurtbrok3n 3 years ago
You are not a freak, I too have found myself doing the same things. I have more straight friends than gay and I wish I had more lesbian friends. So don't worry you are OK, I am OK, I like that you speak your mind. I am going to check out some of your other vlogs!
lchaser 3 years ago
So yeah...ur DEF not a freak. lol I totally do the same thing ^_^
EndlesslySheSaid13 3 years ago
omg...in real life and online...most of my friends are straight. i always wanted a big group of gay guy friends but for some reason...it never happened.
JoshSource 3 years ago
haha I get ya XD its not wierd! 8) It's just cuz we all have something in common I mean why not? 8)
WooHooMate89 3 years ago
I have the SAME problem....and you're not a freak of nature, I always want to talk to lesbian couples too!
It's a weird weird thing. I also live in North Carolina...in a city where all the gay girls know each other --it's a big circle of gay drama. I pretty much stear clear of the local celeb gays; therefore, all my friends are straight too. Hurray...lets me token lesbian friends!
Stepisme 3 years ago
I have the same problem! I don't have a lot of gay girl friends and the ones I do have I end up dating...
Which would be fine but I can't really go out with them after that cuz it's weird to hit on girls in front of your ex
QueerMermaid 3 years ago
In HS I was the only gay one. Now, I'm still the only gay one. All my lesboneese friends broke up and dispursed, moving far far away.
I kind of feel the need to make friends with other lesbians when I see them... but just do the "I'm one too" nods.
Can we be friends??
NotYourAverageOne 3 years ago
i have one gay friend...lol
didibiatch 3 years ago
Im not the only lesbian with just gay guy friends lol they do exist funny vid ;-)
betty3122002 3 years ago