Dating Tips : How to Stop Dating Sociopaths

[zerker12568901]

How to stop dating astronaughts who routinely play chess with pieces of ham.

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How to stop dating mass murderers

[Mardasee]

@PigEviscerator What you heard is not true. Sociopaths congregate with one another. Only when one burns another seriously enough that an everlasting grudge will take affect.

[Skitzopsychorpv]

i have been disgnose with antisocial personality disorder the doctor saids i am a sociopath so stop beening a cock blocker

[Textynn]

and if you go to counseling and your counselor is drinking wine and wearing a smoking jacket and reclining on a bed like sofa surrounded by candles..........

[faceofclaire]

i love dr paul hes awesome, is shit myself laughing at what he says but i also agree

[Gasparro18]

Man, I wish I had seen this video a little earlier before I knew an old friend will turn out to be like a total fucking nut job drunk like his dad. Well, too late now, I had to friends who've been going out for a year now. My buddy who I used to hang out with treats her like shit he cheats, says rude things to her, and asked to cheat on her. Asked to cheat on her. At least he was nice and asked. He even treated me like shit. Well, he'll knock her up, turn into a drunk, and whoop her ass. Sad

[jimmyjohnsman1]

EVERY SINGLE GIRL I HAVE EVER DATED IS A FUCKING SOCIOPATH

[TheNYCbarbiegirl]

i wanna be friends with a sociopath... sounds like fun.... hehehehehe

[hunt458]

Psychological advice from a guy that always has a drink in his hand.

[messiahschild]

the sociopathic spin ,hot one moment cold the next, gas lightning games they play are the worse.......it makes you question your own sanity....the thing about sociopaths is their behavior and sometimes their words doesnt make sense!!! pay attention/ this is always a red flag...or....they will have you in a heap on the floor!!!!

[kuhlka]

Pan out to champagne and glasses at :32... Why?

[Antiks72]

@kuhlka because he's one classy motherfucker, that's why.

[ColoradoSon19]

Become a bigger sociopath so they'll fear you - that's the best advice I've heard all day

[guydecervens]

A sociopath can play games with counsellers. Don't waste your time trying to coerce or fool them - you wont. Just get away from them really fast.

[guthywoodry]

Dr Paul is funny -But for all the wrong reasons.

Its doubtful he's ever seen the movie Dr Strangelove.

'Boomer' girls indeed.....

[NickTheGreek4umyMILF]

i fake emotions with people that i dont know allot,i dont fake when i laugh but i fake when i try to understand someones problem ,im i a sociopath???

[ImYoPuDdIn2005]

@NickTheGreek4umyMILF not enough information to tell, but I don't think so :/

[NickTheGreek4umyMILF]

@ImYoPuDdIn2005 thnks

[kisuke17]

@NickTheGreek4umyMILF Being s sociopath is directly related to narcissism, the fact that you came on here and wanted to learn if you are a sociopath is an indicator that you are not, it shows you care for others above your self, your just a fake person and you feel bad about being fake... if you came on here wondering how you can attain more skills at manipulating people for your own pleasure like I did, then you are a sociopath that likes to gain pleasure because ppl suck... think tony stark.

[NickTheGreek4umyMILF]

@kisuke17 i like your comment

[sake521]

lol this guy is a sociopath

[abby495]

If you become a bigger sociopath then you have transformed into a monster. The best solution is to detach and move even for family members. Sociopaths have masks that hide their true self. If you disagree when them they retaliate against you even get you locked up or some other scary totalitarian move. They think everyone else fakes emotions like they do. I think of them as robot impersonating a human. They don't understand that others feel pain they think it is all just speech.

[computerjero]

When I read the title I though it was comedy ! It's so sad he's actually serious about this !

[drktigger]

"Become a bigger sociopath" how the fuck does that even make any sense? Being a sociopath isn't a choice. Also sociopaths don't fear anything.

[ObnoxiousOldFart]

So... I'm still a little sketchy on the sociopath thingy. So being a sociopath is bad?  ;-)

Seriously ..... I find that being a bigger sociopath than my date usually works for me. It comes naturally to me. ;)

[janityy]

Don't be a sheeple a non book reading bar going loser

Don't date Dr.Strangelove

Become the Sage

If uve been hurt understand it was nothing personal u went in the lions cage he attacked he will do to next person who opens the "door"

Be careful what "doors" u open in life

The lions door. ....NO

THE BAR DOOR........NO

THE BOOKSTORE ..............YES ......GET THE POWER

[janityy]

If u were reading almost 5 books a week which is possible ud know that the "devil" symbol means man .man is an animal and ruled by lower level animal passions until he or she elevates up thru reading almost 5 books a week and other means to become a Sage which is 2nd meaning of all seeing eye on one dollar bill

Most sysmbols have 2 meanings

The base of pyramid is the sheeple dumbed down masses called 85% which is meaning of base of pyramid m

[janityy]

U wouldn't date a lion or tiger would u?

Same thing

No conscience

If u went into a lions cage and tried to psychologically get them not to kill ud be called "crazy" as u should be

Walk away read the Diagnostic Manual of Mental Disorder

The Illuminati symbolized by all seeing eye on pyramid on dollar bill are sociopaths, billionaires and geniuses.

Yes scum rises to the top

The question is how do u get the power?

[killertye]

What about killing the sociopath?

[TheRene7777]

I HAVE A QUESTION.

ADMITTING THAT I AM OBVIOUSLY COMPASSIONATE, I FEEL THAT 'SOME' OF

THESE UNFORTUNATE PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY 'LEFT BY THE ROADSIDE'. I AM

AWARE OF THE NEGATIVE TENDENCIES.....BUT TO TREAT THEM LIKE THEY

HAVE THE PLAGUE SEEMS SO INHUMAN, YA KNOW? I THINK OF THE MAJOR

SURGICAL BREAKTHROUGHS FOR EPILEPTICS, FOR EXAMPLE AND WONDER

IF 'SOME' MAY BE FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO BE CANTIDATES FOR POSSIBLE

EXPERIMENTATION BUT THEN I GUESS, THE BASIC SOCIOPATH WOULDN'T

REALLY CARE....

[drjoycepeters]

I was stalked by one, and he got me in alot of trouble while I was breaking up with him.

[bunnykit3]

I was married to one too and it almost killed me. I had bruises not only on my body but my spirit too. he kicked my ass most of the time if I didnt do what he said. what a demon.

[iPMRMakaveli]

any guy who lays a hand on a woman deserves to be shot! fucking cowards

[Chrisbrown762]

Look people just because somebody isn't that into you doesn't mean they're a sociopath it just means that they're just not that into you i've had girls tell me that i'm a sociopath or i just cared about myself before and it was because i didn't call and i didn't cuddle and when things ended i wasn't emotional about it so automatically i'm a sociopath but the truth is there have been girls that i've cared about and girls that i haven't cared about

[MWguitarist]

@Chrisbrown762 you obviously don't know what a sociopath is then- it's not about 'they not into me so they are psycho' sociopath is literally meaning psychopath. they are liars, they are narcissistic, violent, etc. they are incapable of love, or having friends. anyone they associate with, there is a reason. they are using you in some way or another. sociopaths are possible rapists, murderers, etc

[Chrisbrown762]

@MWguitarist Look dipshit I know what a sociopath is i'm just saying some women act like your incapable of love just because you don't love them and they say stupid things like "you only care about yourself" and "you don't know what love is" and finally "your a sociopath" which none of these things are true

[MannySteinerBleeky]

@Chrisbrown762 - sorry but if you were dating / seeing someone, and you didn't call and wouldn't cuddle, then you're at least well on the way to being a psycho then.

If you want a relationship but don't want the usual things that comes with, then you should make that clear from the outset (if you didn't) - cause people are obviously going to want affection in a relationship.

[Chrisbrown762]

@MannySteinerBleeky I don't wanna hear your self righteous bullshit.

[MannySteinerBleeky]

@Chrisbrown762 - what, you actually did date them but didn't call nor want to cuddle?! Outrageous.

[Chrisbrown762]

@MannySteinerBleeky I just looked at your profile and I think your the one who has problems.

[MannySteinerBleeky]

@Chrisbrown762 - yes, other people who are inconsiderate sheelpe scumbags do tend to cause problems for normal decent people like myself.

So - why do you think you can date people but not call them, and not want to cuddle? Did you say before getting into the relationship that you wanted no physical contact or only limited unaffectionate physical contact?

[Chrisbrown762]

@MannySteinerBleeky Obviously not what woman would go for that?

[Chrisbrown762]

@MannySteinerBleeky Obviously not no girl would go for that

[MannySteinerBleeky]

@Chrisbrown762 - but then did you - once in the relationship - decide to withhold any affections?

[Chrisbrown762]

@MannySteinerBleeky I don't sit them down and explain it like there about to buy a car but I give hints and I never call everywhere else pretty nice guy

[MannySteinerBleeky]

@Chrisbrown762 - I see.

[bambirette1]

i dated one and it was and still is the absolutely most terrifying experience of my life...

[bossladym80]

These people are so sick. I know more than one, but they all have the same symptoms. Blame, blame, blame. OMG You could spill your guts out to them and they will stomp on you - no empathy. I think it's important for both sexes to learn about this disease. I actually wrote a blog on it the other day after talking to a good friend about both of our experiences. Check it out if you want: bossladym80.blogspot.com

[bunnykit3]

@bossladym80 Its not a disease. its evil in its form.

[lovito1985]

this is true I just dated a girl,charming is the first sign,she seemed to be my best partner,she was very manipulative,I been searching on google for signs of a psycho women,I can tell she has all the signs, I confronted her she took off her mask,she turns so neurotic and dysfunctional,!! thanks god I didn't get in to a relationship

[Swoon17]

I will be wondering for a long time how I fell in love with a sociopath.... and why he chose me...

[berriesandvine]

@Swoon17 look inside yourself, it's like a neon light, says "pick me!" only sociopaths can see it, that's how they "choose" you....

[Swoon17]

@berriesandvine I guess I was so shocked over the situation (still am a little) that I wasn't ready to see but I guess it does make more "sense" now.

[thestranger11]

Wouldn't a Sociopath wear what this guys wearing?

[zlass55]

@thestranger11 Yeah, a major symptom of antisocial personality disorder is wearing clothes.

[thestranger11]

@zlass55 Haha! Thats obviously not what I said, but he does look rather fopping and controlling. And yes Sociopaths do wear clothes, like any of us. They can be any of us and wish to appea that way. So in a twisted sense, it's quite a metaphor

[thestranger11]

@thestranger11 Foppish*

[NellBrent]

It's amazing how exciting and awesome a relationship can seem with someone like this, until you become a threat to their ideal or reality. This guy... I still can't find words to describe for what he was or did... sad thing is I really forgive him because I really loved him. He actually managed to make me apologize when I never wronged him... he was excellent at destroying me. I don't think I'll ever have peace with that part of my past. I just can't wrap my head around it.

[jarrodm2002]

PFF become a bigger sociopath than the sociopath, rubbish.

[GuadoGirlX]

any sociopaths wanna be with meh.. i like to be controled and possessed

[langengro]

"Wake up! He's a shapeshifter!"

[rtisleo]

Great advice Dr.Paul... I usually just call a taxi and... move on... when dealing with a Sociopath.

[cereregea]

damn right, be a bigger sociopath but forget going to a shrink, your forgetting they think they are correct in what ever they do and they're cocky, they may capable of manipulating even the experts and if not, sorry, you still won't get rid of them, they'll tell you you're the one with the problem and will accompany you to several different shrinks as they won't get the result they want from any.

[MWguitarist]

@cereregea they are capable, they are well known for being able to bypass even lie detectors

[cereregea]

damn right, be a bigger sociopath but forget going to a shrink, your forgetting they think they are correct in what ever they do and they're cocky, they may capable of manipulating even the experts and if not, sorry, you still won't get rid of them, they'll tell you you're the one with the problem and will accompany you to several different shrinks as they won't get the result they want from any. Eventually you will give up and they have control over you again. No other way than to join them.

[cereregea]

damn right, be a bigger sociopath but forget going to a shrink, your forgetting they think they are correct in what ever they do and they're cocky, they may capable of manipulating even the experts and if not, sorry, you still won't get rid of them, they'll tell you you're the one with the problem and will accompany you to several different shrinks as they won't get the result they want from any. Eventually you will give up and they have control over you again. No other way than to join them.

[souly22]

I was in a relationship with one.. Found that when i became that afraid to do anything. She basically went looking elsewere. You want out? just stop doing things. Stay at home and stop doing what they want. I promise you'll be out very fast.

[krstcmjns]

I liked the "humorously become a bigger Sociopath" advice; no use crying over spilled milk...

[kendrawhisp]

Having a sociopathic father, i found that dealing with him as an even worse sociopath was deeply gratifying. He wasn't a monster by an stretch of the imagination, probably the most mild of this type of character there is, I find that being sociopathic with him helped me over come alot of anger I had towards him, and I would say I have a pretty good relationship with the old bastard.

[detroitsbest]

run forrest, run

[MrKakadoie]

This guy lies... We don't see you as targets, we see you as possessions... Except when we don't like you... Then you are screwed... Anyways, my mother as dated a sociopath, my father, and now she's paranoiac... Doesn't mean some of us aren't good...

[alexandreleverrier]

@MrKakadoie You know better than a doctor ? I don't think you're a sociopath, I think you're just a little pretentious shit.

[MrKakadoie]

@alexandreleverrier I was being sarcastic, moron. It's the crap he said mixed with the bullshit on wikipedia

[alexandreleverrier]

@MrKakadoie How dare you call me a moron, I'm very upset, I'm gonna kill myself !

[MrKakadoie]

@alexandreleverrier I dare you to, I'd be very happy, if you'd kill yourself

[kaisersoce07]

dude. what's up with the Hugh Hef getup?

[navrats]

@dmcc20012 yeah be in with your own sort then,could be interesting to see who murders who first lol.

[enarhk]

I dated one once. They appear charming to others and are very hard for others to catch in the act of abusing. You may think it will change, but it will not. Before you know it, you're neck deep in a nightmare.

[ilresqunow]

Hi,We have organized a new meetup group in South Florida

(called South Florida Survivors of Sociopaths ) . We have had a similar

personal experience with misconduct by a West Palm DCF child abuse investigator who lied and helped the abuser..If you have have survived past abuse by a Narcissist Personality Disorder man (AKA Sociopath)Please check out our Meetup group .Good luck in your journey of healing!! God Bless You

[1holybladex]

@dmcc20012 do bears blink

[Diosibundo]

@dmcc20012

I dunno, can he?

[1holybladex]

@dmcc20012 yes and i fantasize about stabing little lambs until their fur coat turns red

[Mardasee]

@dmcc20012 Sociopath behavior possesses many types of Manifestations and it's the Sociopath individual who manifests it. Some manifest to steal and lie. Others manifest to taint food. Etc. It's what goes through their mind during the manifestation stage that makes them become how they are afterwards.

[1holybladex]

@dmcc20012 good for you?

[1holybladex]

wtf im not sure you know what a sociopath is if your advice is pull the religous card and cousoling being controlling dosnt nessairly mean your a sociopath you could just be a weirdo which is totally different

[Diosibundo]

This guy's an idiot.

How about JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM?

[muserwood]

@Diosibundo Fine , but just don't let him/her know that YOU know they are a sociopaths, that is the last thing they want to be exposed and you WILL pay a price for telling them. they are smart, clever and geared towards destroying if they feel the need. I've date two and they are diabolical . With absolutely no conscience , anything is possible for them.

[Diosibundo]

@muserwood

I think I might have worked with one.., it was pretty disturbing. For months I thought this person was my friend, then come to realize it's all an act and they're actually tryign their best to get me fired. It was super disorienting, like getting kicked in the stomach. Later she went into this weird thing, like she WANTED me to be around just to be nasty, it was weird, I couldnt figure it out.

What was it like with you?

[1holybladex]

@Diosibundo that called being sadistic or it can also being called not liking you proably not liking you

[Mardasee]

@Diosibundo Sociopaths are good liars. They can twist truths by adding lies into a truth. When their lies are discovered and exposed they can become psychopathic next and be nasty lets say in order to defend themselves by villianizing their victim.

[1holybladex]

@muserwood Sociopaths are normal people they just think differently there not criminaly insane you act like their something out of a tim burton movie many you need some traqullizer pillls to calm you down

[Mardasee]

@muserwood Yes, Sociopaths are secretive in behavior and they don't like to be disclosed. But if they come across another Sociopath then they will congregate with one another.

[ohdoshutit]

@muserwood what would happen if you told them? a guy (now i know he's a sociopath) chased me relentlessly for over three months and though the chemistry was through the roof, there was an oddness about it all. he's not around anymore but i just wonder whether had i known then what i know now about it, what would have happened if i told him to his face 'i know you're a sociopath.' ?

[ohdoshutit]

@ohdoshutit cont. remember, i was his target.

[kendrawhisp]

@ohdoshutit lol he probably would have laughed at you. Maybe even agreed with you, but it wouldn't have made much of a difference. I told my dad I knew he was a sociopath and that's the reaction I got.

[Mardasee]

@Diosibundo Breaking up with a Sociopath can result in severe consequences. In a Sociopath's mind they are the center of the universe and anything they obtain, a girlfriend or boyfriend for example, in their minds they then own it. Crossing their path is a no no and they can trigger and become psychopathic

[MsDezzyzRayz]

Their children are also their targets. You have to play strong when they abuse the kids.

Mine are grown and he destroyed my oldest son and is now going after my youngest.

He went from stealing from the family to so many awful things. Words cannot tell you how dangerous these peope are and how normal they try to appear even right after DUI's and Drugs. They just wash it away like it never happened. It's insane and more should be done to protect the spouses and kids. The law does NOTHING.

[Mardasee]

@MsDezzyzRayz The law does nothing because in words there are way too many Sociopaths who run the law. Scum normally rises it's way to the top, meaning our political lawmakers for example.

[MsDezzyzRayz]

My name is Cherie and I married an officially diagnosed sociopathy. I am worried about my life : His name is Scott Jaburg. He has made my life a living hell after 28 years my story is almost unbelievable. I am dependent on him for alimony due to health issues. I know that he wants me gone. He poisned me and so many other things. I am in fear for my life and he just keeps re-writing is life and making me look bad. The law does not believe me!

[sergantmine]

Not all sociopaths are like that unfortunatley. Just the majority.

[patriciacarrasco]

my mother is a sociopath..its pure hell living with her...sometimes u cant escape them if you came from them

[MJDoesAKiddyGangbang]

@patriciacarrasco but fortunately you can always chainsaw their body and bury them in the basement. YAY!!!

[1holybladex]

@patriciacarrasco which is why child services is the thing for you because common sense is just that common try it you wont be disapointed

[DylanTh3Villian]

So classy.

[thesparitan]

i was a friend to a sociopath. it was a interesting experience. he wasnt a bad person, or evil. he was just off.  by that i mean he was not right in the head.

i did have to break off the friendship. i would often try to make him feel bad and could not. very strange and interesting individual. i would advise everyone to have at least a short relationship with a sociopath. you will learn more about yourself then with any other type of person

[samwiz007]

i would advise not , - victim of a female sociopath

[thesparitan]

yeah i understand you reasoning. but you did learn a great deal, did you know. an experience is just an experience. we decide the effect it has on our lifes. you always take a bad experience and make it have positive effects. one of them being that you will never let yourself be taken advantage of. a lesson i am sure you've learned well.

[1holybladex]

@thesparitan why would you make him feel bad thats very sadistic of you

[thesparitan]

@1holybladex What are you talking about? You seem strange.

[artemisshock]

Oh, and you can't out sociopath a sociopath-don't even try. No matter how smart you think you are, you cannot think like they do. Forget it. Just leave.

[artemisshock]

Anyone who has been in a relationship with a psychopath or sociopath knows that once the mask comes off, they are definitely NOT sexy.

Once your life and heart and mind have been destroyed for nothing more than amusement, you understand that evil really does exist and you are changed forever.

Leave them and go no contact. No emails, no phone calls, no text messages, nothing. Just get away however you can.

There is help, type "psychopath forum" in google.

[1holybladex]

@artemisshock you need some tranqullizers cause judging by your mood your too nervous visit your local pharamancy and get some more sleep

[cutelittleflowers]

They're sexy :-\

[HeidiIvy]

Dr. Paul- that WAS helpful, wish I heard it 20 years ago! HA! Cheers!

[mariafroess]

I was married to one. Get out while you can and get the courage to heal from the trauma of that relationship.

[samwiz007]

i am just out of it i know what you are talking about

[owzabobo]

Well i must say your answers seem legit. They also seem very 1980's Oriented, noting that psychology and psychotherapy have evolved to the status where now sociopaths have evolved into some of those traits to gain or keep control of there posessions. A sociopath is now more readily using the term for themselves to gain sympathy... staying ahead of what may disrupt there needs.

[ISurvivedOaklandCo]

Excellent advice. Sociopaths are good at manipulating the people who are supposed to protect.

[Mardasee]

Don't bathe is what I recommend

[1787dude]

that actually works...i wont do it but it does work.

[1holybladex]

@Mardasee comedy always refreshing