Guess What I Did?? I Did it 9 Times!!

[cocoakeke]

LOL @ not being attractive "At first sight"

[Thinknappythoughts]

Oh my, was is sooo much fun?? That seems like it would be a lot of fun. Aw man, I wanna ask so many stupid questions but I won't go there. You sold that ish, I wanna do it just for kicks...but if one goes just for fun not really looking for "love", would that be blasphemous? WEAR THAT B-DAY SUIT GIRL, ROCK YO SPECIAL DAY IN STYLE!! *cheers* *applause* *sTAnDInG O!!!* Happy Birthday Bella!!!!

[SheSingsLovely]

@Thinknappythoughts major blasphemy!! It was a ton of fun though! I can't wait to go back ;0)

[BuenaventuraAvenue]

I'm not that good at small talk either and it's hard for me to keep a conversation going with someone I don't know very well. I like your idea of steering the conversation to something specific.

[Giggra]

Happy b day.

[74sandfire]

Love, love, LOVE the new intro!!!!

[sultry1231]

Two thumbs up for your birthday and your birthday suit! lol

[Uniquelise3]

Good for you speed dating! Hope it all works out for you to find that special someone!

[wesleyanne2007]

I feel you on that small talk thing... my bf now even tells me that I just shut off when people try to ask my the "general" questions... I'm not trying to be rude, but that's just how I am!

[benjaminscameron]

I really like your intro...Great video!

[nae0420nae]

I really like that song I have heard it on some of your other vids..who is it?

[SheSingsLovely]

@nae0420nae Glad you like it. All of the info is in the description box

[nae0420nae]

I thought about speed dating just for fun...like u i'm in the dmv. Maybe i will get some friends together and give it a try. Thanks great vid.

[LuBellaCoils]

Hey SheSingsLovely! I was suppose to go to my first speed dating event last wkend! I've been procrastinating big time. This is a sign that I need to get on the ball. I loved the part about the enlightened guy loving your natural hair :) Any prospective men in my life has to love it or leave it! I also love your new intro. Love the music and everything. Welcome back!!!

[SheSingsLovely]

@LuBellaCoils thanks so much! Yes, you must go! You will have more fun than you could imagine!

[SheSingsLovely]

@Eden2Gethsemane It's a texting world nowadays. That's everyone's main way of communication. Just mention to him that you'd like to speak to him one on one on the phone sometimes. If he's really interested, he'll follow through to make you happy...and if he refuses then he may be interested, but not invested

[missvirgo1978]

Thanks for the vid. This is a pretty cool way of meeting new guys. Also, happy early birthday.  Today is my grandmother's aka Madea's, 100th Birthday!!

[SheSingsLovely]

@missvirgo1978 oh wow!! Happy Birthday Grandma!!! :)

[missladyhott]

U crack me up. Have a great birthday!

[ebonyrose316266]

...that sounded like fun; I need to try speed dating.

[ImitationBarbie]

Ok, so I've tried speed dating too.. IT WAS SO MUCH FUN! it was crazy...

And lastly.. I sub the dude that made your intro song. BUT, he doesn't have it up anymore.Can you send it to me?

[SheSingsLovely]

@ImitationBarbie the song was never up there. He has a facebook though, if you go to his website (which should be on his YT page). Or you could just write him on YT and ask him to send it. That's how I got it.

[beautiful2mee17]

I get emails from Professionals in the City all the time about speed dating and other events in the area. I keep telling myself I'm gonna do just for fun and like you, I'm not good with small talk lol.

[Haitian1130]

You made me think of my speed dating experience.lol! Like yours, the guys were not all that attractive and the women (we were rotating) out numbered the men.

[SheSingsLovely]

@Haitian1130 the women rotated? Hmm, that's interesting..

[Haitian1130]

@SheSingsLovely

I think there were only 6 to 10 men and about 20-25 women.

[marque235]

I hear you on the small talk. I'm socially awkward when it come to that too~ Good vid - Peace.

[RacquelNM]

Looking good, looking great lady!! Great video!

[onelove471]

Love the intro.

[MsMagnolia3]

I would just like to say that I'm glad you had fun and I really like your new intro. Every time I watch one of your vids it makes me want to go jewelry shopping! I really like how your display area has come together in your new place.

Thanks!

[SheSingsLovely]

@MsMagnolia3 Thank you so much! It's like that cubbyhole was made just from my displays lol

[BIGBKELtheGOD]

Ha! Females always break something or claim they lost something around their Birthday, or Christmas! I'm LOL @ 1:05.

And I did the speed dating thing years back and it is fun and sad at the same time. I dated 6 Women on my speed date and I couldn't take it anymore because they wouldn't let me get a word in at all.

[SheSingsLovely]

@BIGBKELtheGOD lol it's true though..my camera stay breaking around the same times every year. I have no clue why :-/

Try the speed dating again...maybe the ladies might allow you to speak up more.

[MsMommyw2]

Cute intro, you go girl, lol!!

[VictoriousLat]

Love the intro!

[secretsandlies09]

Sounds like fun. 

[Lovelyladybug12ify]

cooool my best friend & I have been talking bout the speed dating.. (from watching an episode of Fantasia For real) I think it wud be so cool!! & a cool way to meet new ppl..congrats' on ur speed dating...lol

[purehappiness84]

LMAO @ the birthday suit

[zheahra]

Hi,

Good to see you. Nice look. Like the scarf. Very interesting and fun. Times have changed so I guess I have to get with it. When you think about it, it make sense if ppl are serious or make their intent know from the start.

Thanks 4 sharing,

Zheahra

[mahoganybella]

@SheSingsLovely ohh forgive me for asking girl. I'm watching videos from an iPad. cannot see any add-ons like your box. I will be sure to check it out when I get on a pc. thank you!

[enaruvie]

Happy Birthday for Saturday. 

[mahoganybella]

Thanks for this video. I'm in Atlanta (as u know) and I have always been curious about doing this. I'm just chicken. Lol but I seriously need to get out and explore the dating scene. It's getting tough here as far as dating goes. I'm also interested in online dating but no one in my circle can give me any advice. If you have any advice or can offer good sites I would greatly appreciate it. Again, thanks for sharing. Happy early Birthday! Don't hurt em' in your birthday suit. Lol

[SheSingsLovely]

@mahoganybella i have a little red box in the top corner of this video...that box is my "14 Tips to Online Dating" video. Thanks for the birthday love :-D

[ssikmoi88]

I love your colour backdrop (jewelery). As long as you have fun x

[mindyourbizok]

That must be expensive!! The average speed dating cost $39.

[SheSingsLovely]

@mindyourbizok oh...it was $10

[braun3treasures]

Thanx for sharing,I'm married but I'll pass this to my sis!

[beautyxbabii]

im the same way when it comes 2 small talk...

[ElleNuMi]

aawwwww! I'm in MD---I wanna go to one of these! It sounds like fun!

[TheRealShortyBrown]

Did you have to pay to speed date?

[SheSingsLovely]

@TheRealShortyBrown yes...$10

[greenedwan]

excuse me... you sell those pieces??? where can i BUY!!!!?

[SheSingsLovely]

@greenedwan no, they are all my own personal jewelry collection. I do have a couple vids up that are all about where i purchase my jewelry though

[diva5757]

Meetup is a great site. Its very helpful when you move to a new area. It also helps instead of dragging one friend everywhere...You can meet people with common interests. They even have one for charity work. Glad you had a fun experience. Enjoy your birthday suit :)

[pinkrosesfly]

Where did you get you scarf?

[SheSingsLovely]

@pinkrosesfly H&M a year ago

[kittybaby900]

Hi, I miss you!! Luv your new intro!

[SheSingsLovely]

@kittybaby900 thank you!!! :-D

[NgoziLady]

Happy Birthday! I suck at small talk too. Most ppl think I'm stuck up or weird. But I don't care. ; )

[brownshuga24]

I love your intro!!

[007BUTTERFLYKISSES]

I'm so glad u did this video. I was just talking to my mom about trying speed dating. I'm getting ready to move to a big city and I that would be a great opportunity to meet someone new,but like you I don't do well with small talk and on top of that I'm shy so we will see lol Happy early Birthday!

[SheSingsLovely]

@007BUTTERFLYKISSES I'm all of those things as well...which is why I was shocked that I was so open and talkative. I think the situation forced me to be.

[hwiley09]

Do I see Ice trays being used to organize jewelry? I like it!

[SheSingsLovely]

@hwiley09 yes ma'am...for my smaller and clip-on earrings.

[mpenny226]

Good for you! It sounds fun. Happy Birthday! (early)

[PhillyDiva19154]

Happy Birthday Doll (in advance). Wish I could come party with you and Kristen...

[SheSingsLovely]

@PhillyDiva19154 Ahhhh you can!!!!! Come on down (like forreal forreal)

[ChooChoogirlelle]

Wow! I don't think I would have the guts to do it. You seem like you had a good time, good for you.

[crazycurlienatural]

Every time I see your jewelry collection I drool :-)

[SheSingsLovely]

@crazycurlienatural me too! lol

[chatchickchat]

HaPpY EaRlY BiRtHdAy!!!!! So go ahead and party in your Birthday Suit...lol

[SheSingsLovely]

@chatchickchat yep...i'm in it now! lmao (just kidding...or am i??)

[AllisonLPayne]

hmmm...Very interesting. You've definitely expanded my mind on speed dating.

[SheSingsLovely]

@AllisonLPayne give it a try. It was so much fine. I'd definitely do it again

[anaturalbeauty3]

I enjoyed hearing about your experience. You go girl!

[mecadsmith]

Sounds really fun!!! Its hard to make friends in general! so many picky people! it really disgusts me! I am glad though you had fun! I am liking that scarf!

[mecadsmith]

Sounds really fun!!!

[tbsmiles]

Thanks for the video, SSL. I think meetup.com is great! Since I speak French, I joined a group that does exactly that. It's really fun :)

[LUCANDIS]

I thought that myself only having 5 minutes... I don't think I'd open up.

[SheSingsLovely]

@LUCANDIS you'd be so surprised! I think because everyone knows the time is limited, you naturally try to get so much discussion in

[StormyHair]

sounds interesting....

[coilbliss]

Girl you are too much, that's why we LOVE YA so much!! You are fearless and adventurous and your so gonna find a guy that completely compliments you!! Keep having fun. Awesome intro. and your right your camera is crystal clear..