Stop LYING to your kids

[BRESHEET]

so true bro!

[rebirthofeve]

funny, good vid Dale.

[Spiderwoman74]

lol real talk i agree ! sometimes these kids need a good ole ass whooping or the famous "evil eye warning look" which i give my little boy lol ? ...but when i was a kid my mum wud beat me every other day ! and i still played her up lol ! so one size dont fit all i guess ?, which means you need a plan B ! ... which for my boy is NO TV or play consoles or any sweets ! and it works like magic ! he soon fixes his behaviour with longer lasting effects ! ... letting them know who's boss is crucial !

[ChookyTV]

LOL!! My little cousin sounds like that little boy.

[MissPrettynCurvy]

Preach tabernacle!!

Some people lack parenting skills.

[caramellove614]

lol you are so right.

[BaldButWigged]

my mom would beat me down in the store. shoot. forget about saying she'll do it..she'll actually do it. them kind of kids are crazy. i saw that before, and that sucks. he probably does run the show though. damn. i favorited this. =]

[BigDaleT]

Thank you for watching, replying and favoriting this hun.

[halisyeyo]

BigDaleT, this is the 1st time that I've watched 1 of your vids, I know that u probably didn't mean 4 it 2 b, but this S*** is as funny as H***!U narrated the story so well while doing both the parts of the mom,& the child as well as reciting your own lines. (LOL) But I must admit, I want some candy too!!! OMG, "Girl u n inner city Cleveland, ain't nobody callin no police on u 4 whoopin yo black kid" HA HA HA !! SHE BOUGHT HIS ASS THE F n CHOCALATES & she was'nt ugly & stupid no more! CLASSIC

[BigDaleT]

I was kind of making it funny, lol. Thanks for watching. Feel free to subscribe, lol.

[SoulByDzyne]

Excellent, BigDaleT!

Sounds like you'd make a good Father & keep them in line.

[BigDaleT]

Thanks a lot SoulByDzyne. I appreciate the comment.

[iggy35]

I bet he had seven shades of shit spanked out of him as soon as she got him home tho ;)

[BigDaleT]

I highly doubt it. He was clearly in control and she didn't seem like the type to follow through.

[iggy35]

Then sadly she will be on Maury in 10 years time bitching that "MY SON IS OWWGHTA CONTROWALL!!!"

[yvette404]

if that was my son the second time i told him to put it back and he told me no i would have busted his ass that ain't no lie i have done it b4 in walmart and a old white lady tried to tell me to stop and i told her to get out of my face b4 she got some 2 and he was so embarrassed that he never did that shit again

[BigDaleT]

I KNOW that you would have Yvonne. I like mothers like you. Wanna be my baby momma, lol.

[JenniferBlogs]

idk what that thing is behind you on the top left but it kinda looks like the creepy burgerking man

[BigDaleT]

LOL. Oh, those are two small wicker baskets. I will move it for you.

[JenniferBlogs]

dont move it. i think its kinda neat... even though the burgerking guy is kinda creepy

[blaquestrength]

I was raised down south and where ever the offense was committed THAT IS WHERE YOU GOT THE BEAT DOWN!! Parents these days are too soft and they won't respect you when you don't keep your word..the kids know who they can get over on and who they can't...I like the principle of what are you saying but next time you could clean it up a bit lol..thanks...by the way what part of Cleveland was this?

[BigDaleT]

On Lee and Chagrin. Thanks for understanding my point.

[atiyah9369]

I totally agree with you, my aunt used to threaten my cousin with a spanking, my mother told her one day you need to stop threatening and start spanking.

[BigDaleT]

I agree with you.

[YannabellsMommy]

Boy you are a trip... This shit was funny. "Hold up... This is MY son!" I don't even know this chick but that phrase tells me so much about her. LoL. U crazy though. Favorited!

[BigDaleT]

Thanks Janet.

[angeleye1998]

Good video. Great video!

[BigDaleT]

Thank you Angeleye.

[angeleye1998]

Dag a crowd gathered!(smile)

[BigDaleT]

yea. Same people kept walking, slowly by.

[smileyousee]

five stars and added to favorite

[BigDaleT]

Thank you Smiley. I luv u, lol.

[smileyousee]

you had me cracking up. How sad, that poor child need to be parented.

[BigDaleT]

so does the mom, lol.

[1get0there2]

lmao @ whooping tickets I never had a threat just a straight up a** beating!!!!! My 4 year old knows what it is as well.

[BigDaleT]

that's how it should be

[pcrudup]

The terrible 2s and 3s are the bitch. Some parents don't like to beat their kids in public. But I would have tore his little ass up at home.

[BigDaleT]

But WHAT do you do in the store to rectify to situation at hand?

[pcrudup]

At 3 yrs old, not much. A beating is not the answer to everything. We need to stop beating our kids in public. I would have NOT given him the candy, but I would not publicly beat on my child. Why do our kids always have to be beat up? In slavery we use to beat them to keep ole master from doing it. Once I got him home though I would NOT FORGET to discipline him.

[BigDaleT]

See, kids do not ALWAYS have to be beat up. But if they understand that there are consequences for your actions, they will continue to do it. Why get a whoopin at home when you messed up somewhere else?

[ATLMicki]

I agree, I would never whip in public, but she could have just let him holler, or took him to the bathroom or car, straightened him out.

I personally have talked rationally to my daughter since before she could talk...

I guess they pretty much know who they can manipulate and who they cannot I'm thinking he might have been different if he was with his father, or grandmother?!? That child knew what he was doing.

[pcrudup]

So if they mess up in school, church, a party or @ the store, we jus whoop them on the spot, in front of their friends, strangers, everybody? A child IS going to MESS up. It's not the end of the world. Suppose somebody beat you up everytime you messed up. Someone has to show restraint. I luv you BigDale, but..... there are other ways to teach a child. We jus have to take the time.

[BigDaleT]

There you go with that EVERYTIME and ALWAYS thing. I never said that. But I think that it should be done enough for the kids to know NOT to do it. No matter who they are with. Kids mess up, sure. Once you say STOP, they should. Why negotiate good behavior.

[pcrudup]

I'm saying we should NEVER beat our kids in public. It is abuse and it is NOT good parenting. So what if he pitched a tantrum over some candy. Why add to it by getting all ugly and out of sorts. Someone has to keep their composure. And yes, I would be very upset if someone interferred or implied I should whoop my child.

[nubianqueen04]

Its' the same now! The only difference is the Master is the system. If we don't do it...the system (the streets, jail, the government) will be there later (There is just a silent Master)...If I had to: I have spanked in the restroom, wash their face and go on about my business. It ONLY took that one time, if at all...But we must keep our promises of: if we say we are going to spank or what ever we must follow thru!

Peace and Blessings!!!

[pcrudup]

Yes I agree we must follow up. I would start the dialog in the car letting them know their actions were UNACCEPTABLE, and they would be punished @ home, but not necessarily by a whipping.

[ATLMicki]

I knew it! I knew that boy was going to get that candy!

This single mom's story would never go that way. See you gotta beat them at home so that you don't have to threaten to beat them at the store.

[BigDaleT]

I wish that you could train that mother Micki. She needs it, lol.

[Quelz617]

LOL @ you just standing there and watching! I agree with you. Empty threats does nothing but encourage bad behavior. *5*

[BigDaleT]

Thank you for the rating Quelz

[geeweev]

your right, the world is full of sorry parents. I'm not saying she should have whipped to him but. She should not have bought him candy. as a matter of fact he should be punished and not allowed to have candy for at least a month. she was ruled by a child and rewarded the child for it. I feel soory for her when he's 5,6,7 8 peace big dale

[BigDaleT]

That's exactly right. Who was training WHO then? She is raising a disrespectful, manipulative kid that, sooner or later, will be released into society on us. What ever happened to the saying..."It takes a village"?

[mzebony]

Damn I would have dragged the candy out of his hand, put it back and then pinched his ear so hard and ask him if he was hard of hearing and I wouldn't be repeating myself at all LOL!! And if he cried out, I'd pinch the other ear and say cry out again cause he ain't going to like the next place I pinch. hmph....At least you had the nerve to speak out!!!

[BigDaleT]

I didnt mention that the mother looked as if she was going to cry. That was sad.

[RonaRandomRambling]

Awe That A mess BigDaleT But it Happen .. KIds ..

[BigDaleT]

I got beat INSTANTLY when I acted up in the store. I stopped that QUICK.

[bearr7]

you ok big dale! that is funny!

[BigDaleT]

That "scene" in the store was funny, at first.

[whitney8612]

lmao!! wow!

[BigDaleT]

HEY Whitney.

[foley15136]

That's funny as hell.

You're right. That's the way it is in my house. I have a 4½ year old and a 2½ year old. Both boys. There's no "I'm gonna count to ten!". There's no debate or discussion. No bargaining sessions over things like that. The answer is what it is and that's it. If you stick to parenting that way, it is a little easier down the road (especially when it happens in public). Staying consistent is key.

I do give my kids candy but they have to be good first.

[BigDaleT]

That's a great point. Just be consistent with what you say or do with your children. Great comment Foley.

[ALionessObsession]

So sad!

[BigDaleT]

aint it though. How have you been gorgeous?

[LECLARA]

Someone called the Police on me for whipping my kid when he was 8 years old.

When they arrived I asked if they would rather I Beat His Ass Now or,

They Beat His Ass Later?

Surprisingly enough,

They were on him like white on rice!

So, Tap those behinds,

It WON't Kill Them!

[BigDaleT]

Sure wouldn't. Kids need authority figures. Not older friends that feed them.

[BeYouBeTru]

yeah that was messed up. i tell my friend that all the time. She make empty threats sort of speak and her kids just ignore it. They don't fear her at all.

[BigDaleT]

Imagine what they will do when they get to be teenagers.

[LECLARA]

Kids today lives are based on lots of lies.

At home, The media, & their peers!

Maybe this explains their MINDSET!

So, So Sad!

[BigDaleT]

rememeber when you got rewarded for good behavior? Now kids get rewarded to be quiet.