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  • Love the topic, hadn't thought about it that way being an atheist and all, but excellent point.

    Love the make up. I once had a drag queen tell me black people should "NEVER" wear blue anything around the eyes. I see now he was dead wrong. You go girl.

  • @Perapparel Yes she was stupid....lol because any novice make up artist know the color that makes browns and yellows pop is shades of blue. My black skins is brown or yellow if the are light...and most of them have brown eyes so blue makes them stand out....so she obviously wasn a good drag queen...lol if you see didnt know the basic of make up

  • Your makeup is STUNNING!!!

  • @msck23 oh thank you....i felt drag queen-y...lol but i like that some tme

  • I love it! I have to find a color I like!

  • Wait a minute! I hadnt seen the new color! OMG! I LOVE this!!!!! HOT!

  • @TheIvyExpansion it lighter now

  • the hair is fab hon

  • This issue is much simpler if you don't believe in gods.

  • @sillyyetsuccinct but I do believe in God...so I look at issues through the eyes of a believer. Thats simple enough

  • @crispysince91 lmao the look with the most make up on.....lol i dont know how i feel about that...but thank you

  • this finger story reminds me of babies born with non conforming genitals, which is quite common too, then the parents and doctors lose their shit and try to 'fix it", but then cause major anxiety in the children when they are placed in the wrong gender. Maybe this is less of a trans vs society horror story, what with it just being a finger, (one that is perhaps useless, or.. Superhuman!) but its scary to have parents make these calls for their baby for the sake of what is "normal".

  • Luv the earnings and eye makeup

  • @Catpn lol thank you for giving them to me...lol

  • Yesssss

  • My little cousin had 6 fingers on each hand! They removed them, they were useless anyways. One didn't have a bone at all and was just hanging there; while the other only had half a bone. But she said she had the same thing when she was born!

  • yes i love the point u made. its just like plastic surgery also. u were born with a big nose, and u get a nose job and change it. your born a man but u feel like a woman so u change. its just that simple........

  • Omg Diamond your make-up and earrings are so gorgeous :-)

  • @Duvalroyalty thank you

  • You be splaining that shit dont you Diamond.

  • I would have left the "extra" finger, if it were me. Who knows what skills that child might have developed with the help of that extra finger? Recently I had a conversation about musicians who have lost limbs or fingers and then gone on to develop new techniques for playing, or even new approaches to composing music, for their particular situation -- and the result is unique. Our current "normal" features were once mutations too :) Abnormality is a good and necessary catalyst for growth +change.

  • @baiNEKO Abnormality is a good and necessary catalyst for growth +change.....i love that

  • What a beautiful mind, I love your perspective on life....I also love your sense of humor! Off the subject, you look amazingly sexy in this video...Keep up the great work, I enjoy it all...

  • @xervia3032 thank you hun

  • YOU LOOK GORGEOUS!!! You always do but this here is a whole another level girlfriend!!!! xoxo

  • YOU LOOK FUCKING AMAZING! 

  • @moviedan thank dan babe...:)

  • And yes, if my child was born with an abnormality that could be fixed, then ofcourse i would want that solution! Its hard growing up as it is without the pressure of kids ripping hell out of you for say what....an extra finger.....no sir.

  • I love it when people tell me, i shouldnt be changing gods image of me, as god makes no mistakes.....But when that person wearing glasses..... please... honey, God wanted yo ass to be blind as hell, so why da fuck u wearing glasses to see fo!....Lawd jesus

  • That is what I have always thought when people said that. My thing is, we dye our hair, pierce our skin, get tattoos and all sorts of things - and no one is throwing out *god made you a blonde, why do you want to be a brunette?* No one is complaining about that. But we decide to make a change that can improve just more than our images, and its an issue?

  • @ nochokin I see where u are going with this. And I agree with you to a certain degree. But I'm also aware that every person us different and not every transexual has the same story nor the same psychological reason for changing there outward appearence. For some the choice is simple - because they think are prettier that way...no matter what the reason is everyone has to live with there own decisions. Straight people change there appearence all the time. Why can't everyone ....?

  • This world is cruel and people have made it a practice to tease about things that are not familiar to them or things they don't know about. If I could save my child from shedding a few tears, I would have done the same thing. You look gorgeous by the way.

  • I couldn't agree more. The sad part is, even after watching this video, some people will still throw up their Christian stand point. To most people, we are the ultimate disgrace. In all actuality the only person we'll have in the end is ourselves. Not our own kind, but that's just it. Anyhow....GREAT video.

  • The word of the day is "adjusted" Speak on it Ms.Stylz!

  • i hear you very clear some time if not broke do not fix leave it alone don't f--k with it...

  • Diamond, you said it right the first time, You are a minister, because you do minister to God's trans community saddled with a more difficult life challenge. The bible describes a minister as one, anyone, who words and actions offer healing. The very mission of you channel.

    You might consider, that you already walk in this.

    You are beautiful, strong, and I have learned much from you on my journey.

    Thank you. Peace and huggs Sannara

  • wonderful insight, getting a little tearie.any who religious people seem to use the bible for what ever they deam as wrong or wright ,they view trans people as wrong so the bible is used agaisnt us,we can even say people should not go to the DR. when they are sicks its up to god if "he" wants you well its his will right, I feel what is in your heart & sprit is God Given what ever that means to you for me it means living the best life I can with what I have beenh given,

  • I really wish more people could see your videos :) You are such a great representative for the trans community. I admire your intelligence and calm nature. You seem to be a loving person. Been a subbie for some time now just wanna remind you why I am, now and then ;) Bless you!

  • ive thought about this b4..i think they should have kept the finger and let the child decide if they wanted it removed when they got older..if i was born with a extra digit that was functional..i'd keep it

  • Diamond you have done it yet again...mind blown...you expand my thinking! Thanks!

  • I must say that you are GORGEOUS! Luv your channel :)

  • its normal for babies to have extra digits..and for doctors to cut them off as babies !!

  • Girl... I love how you tell ur storys I coud not have said it any better. Im so reposting this

  • Very good comparison I think it is spot on and I feel it's the same thing ..I always find myself making similar comparisons to mKe others understand .., btw u look stunning with makeup on !

  • You look so beautiful, I love you in your natural hair. Where did you get the earrings from?

  • @hoopzsquared Captn on youtube gave them to me...he will be in my next video

  • This is a very good metaphor...and it really made me think about transsexual people in a different light. I still don't understand fully, don't think I ever will, but I feel a little more knowledgeable about it. You know that I adore you so much!!! God bless you, ma'am! (ps...the mug is BEAT, hontee!)

  • You working that bracelet too... Okay I done now lol love you gurl.

  • Oh love the earrings too ;-)

  • Gurl I love your makeup look at how pretty you are... work it gurl!

  • well said girl ....MAKE UP.........#SICK!

  • a Show where? And you beat that face for the Gods'!

  • @Tiavideovixen Yea i do a live show every 10,20, 30 of the month...i missed it one the 30 of july cause i was out of town so i did one tonight....the next one will be on the 10th

  • That make-up look is REGAL on you...just Beautiful!!! OMG!! Gorgeous!

  • U look so pretty as usual

  • I would do what I felt was right, I would adjust. There is nothing wrong with fixing something you don't feel comfortable with, the only time there is something wrong with change is if a person keeps going and going with no stopping that's when there would need to be an intervention because it'd be addiction.

  • great video...i need to show this to my ppl. You are beautiful as well.

  • Love the makeup

  • i was born with six fingers and my doctors wrapped a string around my sixth finger until it fell off because i just had a very thin finger and a nail hanging off of it.....i dont remember of course but i just think there's nothing wrong..i have a scar too...i think it's all adjustment and i agree with you totally.....oh and your makeup was on point love ya diamond!!!

  • Miss Dimond, you look so beautiful & I love your hair. Great analogy!

  • I understand how the mother must feel. But there's nothing wrong with having six fingers. I mean, so long as it isn't life-endangering you could let your kid decide when he/she is older rather than making the decision yourself. In a perfect world at least. For most of us, we can't buy ourselves into accepting neighborhoods free from society. So, we have to opt for these decisions. But it can be tricky for kids who are intersex. You can't go chop chop all willy-nilly.

  • @PrometheanFlame

    I feel like some cosmetic changes kind of hide the fact of how diverisity in human shape is actually pretty natural and common. We all imagine "perfect" bodies which only exist for someone but not everyone. The way the medical society eliminates defects and tries to "correct" things that are "abnormal" helps shape our understanding of what is normal and natural.

    It's interesting how they regulate what changes we can make to our bodies.

  • @PrometheanFlame

    For instance, in one of my classes I learned that there may in fact be limits on breast reductions. As if to say there is such a thing as too small breasts. Or as if the medical community echos some value of society that a woman's breasts can't be too small, even if she as a consenting adult wants to minimize them in a manner that will not affect her health. I found it interesting.

  • Man or woman, you are beautiful on the inside - and outside too for that matter! :)

  • I agree with you on this topic. People take the subject of changing genders and talk down on it...but they dont look at the other stuff. How about something as small as having your ears pierced. Nobody was born with pierced ears... but nobody points that out. Why should that be any different though? Things that make you go hmmmmm...

    ps... you are GORGEOUS in this video!

  • That's a real good question, i know the stereotypical thing to say would be him or her would be picked on by other kids, but we all went thru that in one form or fashion, in order to understand and relate you would have to be open minded and accept that my child was born this way and a gift from god.

  • I'm an atheist and I've seen babies being born with too many birth defects, both harmless and death inducing, to accept anybody telling me that their deity made them "perfect". And while I don't want to ever have kids, I feel conflicted. I understand the mother wanting her kid to live a "normal" live, but at the same time, she should have let her kid make the decision when he's old enough. I don't know.

  • @gir908922 I agree with you . I hate the term normal . Its just another reason for society to come down on people who don't look typical

  • I love your videos my sista. So intelligent and so beautiful!

  • YOU look so beautiful like always !! I like your hair

  • You look Ovah my sista, I love the video!!! Awesome analogy

  • That was an excellent analogy! Well said Diamond. :)

  • My brother was born the same with 6 fingers.It's pretty normal.He also had it removed.As time go's on you will never know it was there and sometime babies are born with 6 toes and webbed feet..Mothernature is Beautiful!

  • ohh Diamond your hair is pretty..i love it..

  • 6 fingers 1 hand...i thought it was a porn reaction video when i saw the title lol

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  • O.M.G! BEAUTIFUL, BELLE, BELLA!!! My mom, uncle and several of my cousins were born with 12 fingers in total. They all had them removed and now have a little bump where the 11th and 12th fingers were removed. You posed a great question btw!

  • I would fix my babys finger, jus so they would not be picked on growin up or feel awkward. I think its comparable to a trans adjusting themselves. I feel like their adjustin themselves to feel normal in their own skin and be who they know they are.

  • the 6 fingers is so common in my family lol...some had that surgery some still have it and say its part of them lol..

  • Great video, I love how you keep us thinking!!!

  • Yea I Came To That Realization Shortly After That Message Because I Believe We Will Always Be The Same Person Wether Or Not We Change Our Outside Appearance. Our Souls Are Not Altered.

  • beautifully said

  • 100% love it !! love you !! and your makeup is on point ! :)

  • ...but, you have to understand that transgendered folks are grown to make such decision on how one may appear to be. Infants don't have that option because babies don't know nor understand what is consider natural which is to why parents make these decisions. I get the point though.

  • I love the color!

  • Great points you can even go as far as Christians getting prosthetic legs if they legs was amputated or plastic surgery so a person can fixed the flaws like a boob job or nose job, etc, but people are hypocrites they don't see it that way because of societies norms of what's accepted and what not. I'm not hearing people saying that's not natural. Most people have short sided views on things because they only see things one way.

  • great vid.. your makeup is BANGING!! can u do a tutorial on it

  • @cynmille2000 i will put and link to the make up tutorial i got it from in the begin of the video and infor bar

  • Great outlook on this subject... Best Wishes

  • being that she has a son that she consented to surgeries to fix his intersexed genetalia at age 4 and then again around 10, and she has another son whom she is emotionally invested in remaining a man (me) because I'm her son. But really their thinking, and most of Christiandom's thinking in this area, is totally contradictory when you begin to really look at the reality of gender anomalies and how they've been dealt with, and how these same Christian's think about those realities.

  • great message!

  • You look super cute makeup and hair is popping !

  • and their response was "well of course thats OK because your helping them to be normal". I would guess that most Christians would respond like this, and so this really exposes the falseness of their ideas in this area, because they're basically sayings SRS is OK when imposed on a baby to make them "normal" but not OK for someone to choose for themselves, so they can live a life that feels right for them. Of course my mom has an emotional investment in both statements...

  • so true it makes sense sis, love you, and i love the look . xoxoxoxoxo, see you tonight!!

  • Its funny but I was just having this conversation with my mom and grandma as I was trying to tell them that I may still transition. They were, of course, throwing these ideas at me and telling me of God giving us our gender and that its wrong to have surguries to change our gender (SRS). I then mentioned, "well what about intersex babies that have SRS done at very young ages to make them congruent with societies norms" such as was the case with my brother...

  • Thank you fir pointing that out

  • GREAT POINT AS WELL!!! I AGREE!! HUMANS AS A WHOLE MAKE RIGHT OF WHAT THEY WANT TO BE RIGHT..I CALL IT "JUSTIFICATION SYNDROME"!!!

  • Nice topic but you can't compare the two that's like apple and oranges your sexualty and what you like isn't something that you just change

  • I didn't see a link to the other vid. Could you add it in the description or something? Love you.

  • you can't have a testimony, without a test. I wholeheartedly agree with this video. I believe God put me through it so I can help others get through it.

  • @BlondeCbella so true

  • I like the message and you look good

  • WERKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK­!!! LOVE THE EYES!!!

  • hun your face is FLAWLESS!

  • Good vid and you look amazing. =0)

  • I met someone with a fully grown 3rd pinky finger.... Every time i saw him i couldnt help but look at it. He was a gorgeous spanish man but that finger!!!!!!!!

  • @DukeofBeauty lol you silly

  • Holy moly Diamond... you're gorgeous in this video!

  • Love the new hair color, makeup and jewelry!!!

  • thank boo

  • I really liked this message.

  • HOT JEWELRY

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