I don't agree with the person who said she seems like a bully. Yes she does seem uniterested and insincere in what she is saying, but she could be uncomfortable talking about this subject because maybe she doesn't want to be seen as a "weak uncool bully victum" which is a mentality that a lot of teenage girls have, as immature as it sounds.
@HannahTheChatterbox exactly, people can't just 'assume' she's a bully, on twitter once, i remember her giving a fan tips becoz the fan told her she was getting bullied and she told her to listen to her song get weak :)
everyone who thinks pixie lott is a bully is complete dick. she is a lovely girl and she is always supporting bullying causes! she has released a free song on itunes for bullying! of course she cares!!
she wrote a damn song about bullying herself, "oh she looked at the floor wen she was talking!!!!" .....so just frm that , it makes her a bully? so pathetic of course she cares
@hkglitterz argh. why the bitterness? at least she's trying to do something about it by joining the campaign and raising awareness. what are you doing to stop bullying?
actually she DOES care about this. she was bullied herself, for not fitting in & not looking a certain way, & because she was very passionate about music. so don't accuse people of being bullies themselves if you don't even know!
I think youa re all reading way too much into this. She looks at her nails for like 3 seconds out the whole video and that means she is a bully?? WTF. She's obviously a bit nervous. I was never bullied and I cant really say I was bullied either but I'd probably act like this when talking about it too. Its a natural thing to find something to look at or play with when you are nervous or intimidated. She doesn't come across like a bully at all.Remember she's only 18 or maybe shes 19 now.
What happens is that the bullies think what they are doing doesn't matter and they just leave it, maybe if they are more rich or have more friends... Because whatever happens its not your fault its not even the bullies fault, its kind of other peoples for not saying anything or helping them... People who join in with bullying probably feel sorry for you but cant speak out or the bully will bully them...
Good idea, but unfortunately it doesn't work IRL to whine about bullies. You're just asking for it. Bullies need to be ignored, they get bored remarkably easily.
yes and no, ture if you pay attetoin to them they get off on it but before they taken the hint of your ignoring them im sure they would of hurt and or humlated you in some way before hand, i know what i said on my other comment and no Vilonce is not aways the answer, but some time just some it is, some times words have no meaning when they fall on deaf ears
I see from your profile that you are well out of school, think back to when you were at school, would telling the teachers really have made any bullying you were subjected to stop? Not saying you were bullied as a child but if you weren't just imagine you were. I know that when I was at school, the teachers couldn't do much to help us kids with bullies, it only made it worse to tell, and ignoring them meant they picked on someone else after a while.
if it works for you it all good, and jsut so you know buly are not jsut in school, i was in the army and it present there to if you hold your own, and officer might not be the phyiscal kind but it there and yes if you told a teacher back when i was young it made it worse now adays if a bully hits you and you defened your self you to blame as well, which is stupied, im not say eye for an eye, in every stuation but some time you have to defend your self and this nanny state us taking that away
lol bullies aren't full of issues like this lad suggests. I was bullied whilst a school (several) and it was always the popular, trendy people who thought it made them look cooler putting down the more individual people in the year.
If you tell a teacher several people are continually picking at your self esteem, nothings going to happen. not important enough in their eyes. just make yourself better than them by becoming successful and treat them with absolutely no respect whn they come running
Who the f*ck are you b*tch? Yet another shameless self promoting media whore giving their oh so valuable advice to us mere mortals then acting all smug and self satisfied, YOU ARE HELPING NO ONE, ACCOMPLISHING NOTHING! just lining your own pockets and giving yourselves self-satisfaction. Your demeaour offends me for you are simply a whore with a really stupid name. Please, please go and take a massive overdose of barbiturates and opiate and drown in your own blood! B*tch
Dude they're asking loads of celebrities to give their views on bullying. She's not getting paid for it, she's clearly not even prepared for this. She's just there to support this anti-bully week thing which pretty damn good of her.
for gods sake. these people who are getting bullied just need to nut up and shut up...nothing ever comes of this whole anti bullying crap. its very easy. deal with it yourself or tell a teacher. theres no need for a whole week of pointless propaganda.
these tips are all bull. if someone is harrsing you can just deal with it grow some skin but most bullying is physical and at the time you cant tell you're teahers when your being jumped or beaten up have to reolve to your own strength which is what i do and smack them so they dont get u or touch you again defend yourelfs
I knew Victoria (that's her real name btw) when she was still in Italia Conti before she was famous, she was really rude to alot of the kids there and made alot of people upset because she was so obsessed with herself. Hearing her say "Bullies are people who are insecure" really makes me laugh and feel sick at the same time.
I was in Chiselhurst, I think she moved to the one in London when she got a bit more successful. It is true, Conti does have a whole load of arrogant fucks in it, I just went because it was something to do on the weekend.
OMG, i know both of u XD. Hey ben, its nick from conti, i'm the guy from conti Mike is talking about XD. Hey Mike ^^. I hate Pixie Lott, and this video only adds more to it. She used to bully me when i was at conti, and the fact that she's talking about anti-bullying disgusts meeeee!!! And even if she has changed her ways she still doesnt have the right to be talking about it like she has never been one, even though we can probs all agree she clearly hasnt changed
She definitly seems like a bully to me - watch; she cant make eye contact with the camera - thats a sign of a guilty conscience, instead she fiddles with her fingers, looks down and about the room.
She then smiles and laughs a bit at the end as if shes not even taking it seriously.
@BenGordonBITCHSLAP sorry if im wrong, but i really dont believe you knew her or she used to bully people at Italia Conti. you are just trying to add more fuel to the rumours...
@mlccharlottex You can say I'm lying, because you don't know me, and for all everyone knows I COULD be just adding to rumours, but you could only really be sure of that if you actually went to Italia Conti, like me and N11cKs.
@BenGordonBITCHSLAP what her being a bully? because i can just tell she isnt like that, and shes a nice person, as everyone always says :) like she has so many friends and if she was some nasty person im sure she wouldnt be as loved as she is...but whatever.
@EnlargedPenis she had a lot of friends before she was even famous :S so dont see how that could work lol? im sure she doesnt have friends just because shes 'pretty' - dont know what planet you're living on!
Brooker spent a show parodying "self-help shows" such as "how to look good naked". He got Prof Geoff Beatty to analyse the effect of Gok's curing methods. Essentially proving that Gok is a wreckless and vacuous dick. It may have been on the screenwipes show. You'd have to see it really. It was on BBC TV about 1 or 2 months ago. IF I had the link I'd give it to you. Happy googling.
@wills966 naww.. she gives a shit, looking at her nails doesn't make her a bully, and if you look at other vids you'll see she looks at her nails there to.
@wills966 she does care as she tweeted me when i was gettin bullied im qyuite close to her now :) she was always aksing if i was okaay ect x shes lovely ! she got ullied herself and she helped me through my time :) and also met her on wednesday at her ocncetr shes amaazing such a sweet girl x
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truth is bullyings fun we all love it look at the media they terrorise people everyday. i think we should have a national bullying day were we all go to the nearest fat kid and give him a kicking. anyone else up for that??
Why don't we have a national grammar day, where we teach morons who don't understand capitalisation, punctuation or plural/possesive forms how to write at at least the level of a five year old so that when they attempt to make a 'cool' remark on YouTube people actually pay attention to them instead of thinking they're just an idiot?
everyone shut the fuck up you dont know if she gives a shit or not so stop lookin down your noses and realise wat it's really about.. not wat pixt lot fucking said but the fact that it's anti-bullying week and wether or not she's faking it.. shes showing some suppourt. JEEZ.
she's right tbf. bullies are just insecure people, who have so many insecurities, making an easy target feel smaller than them makes them feel better.. c**ts. pixie is hawt.
I thought that too. She keeps glancing at her nails as if she's more interested in whether or not her nail polish has chipped off than helping children overcome bullying. Also, her lack of interest and sincerity makes me incredulous. Saying this with an awkward grin on your face isn't convincing anyone.
She's probably the least sincere and articulate "celebrity" on this channel. Who's she kidding? She doesn't f*cking care. As long as she gets her own dressing room and a paycheck afterwards, clowns like her will do anything for 0:37 seconds of fame. Where does the blame land? The media's doorstep, of course.
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Who is Pixie Lott? You sounds like a peasant from 1780 or sumik. Do us a flavour love, you made ur millions, now piss off. And stop bumping ur gums about shit you would never care about, just coz BBC paid you, i would put love bites on her shit. I'll be ur toilet pixie, but just shut the fuck up.
I think when someone is keeping it in, it hurts. So the minute you see a bad comment or someone trying to threatern you, Ammediately block them and tell someone. Contact yt and make sure you leave no details out. Anyone asking for your password or personal info might be onto you. So block, Warn, Ignore, Or just leave them.
honestly, just workout, become a "tank" and they'll leave you alone... ive never been bullied cos of my size. ive never go in a fight before, not that im a "pussy", its cos im a nice guy who doesnt make people want to fight me,,, and also, just use ure head against em is the best advice i got on em
or, if your in a fight situation...... sand in the face, then bomb it..... only if they dont know where you live...... cause if they do... then ure stuffed
i was bullyed for about 40 seconds at school once till i split his nose open, i like bullys gives me someone hurt (well i hate them but i think you get my point XD) best way to deal with a bully is kicking hter fooking heads in, im a peaceful person(of sorts) till words are lots on z bully and htey only understand pain "it sad but true" (metallica 5:2)
i love psychologically destroying bullys, even if im not the target, like ill cut the buttons off his shirt, or cut a rip in his trousers, pour water all over his bag, and smash up his lunch, the peasant is none the wiser.
how do u 'rise above' someone attacking u?? answers on a stamped addressed envelope. I would honestly like to know. Assume that I don't fancy a trip to hospital
everyones moaning about her making it up on the spot... course she bloody is... she hasn't drafted what she is going to say, then it'd be fake people are talking like she is a bully trying to cover it up.. get a grip its the message that counts, people who are truely being bullied arent going to sit watching this and think "wait a minute... she isn't sincere!"
Yeah, the one's that deserved to be bullied are the one's with comments such as "some people deserved to get bullied" aswell as people bullying other's
You can tell she is making it up on the spot by her body language. She looks past the camera as if looking for answer, she stares down at her hands thinking of something to say.
"it's definitely the bully...thats like......got the problems" no, you have the problem if you're even noticing this kind of thing. You think you can go through life with everyone treating you like royalty and showing you respect? That's not how it goes. People aren't very nice in general. They can go off at you for any number of reasons at any time. Just get used to it and don't take it so seriously, unless it's physical in which case get down the muay thai/mma/jujitsu gym.
Modern celebrity driven culture like to sell you the myth that life can be a happy thing all the time, and that this is the way it should be.
That simply is not so, life his hard, and some people need to toughen up and get a thick skin, thats what 95% of being at school is for.. to teach you to get along with others.
But if noone intervenes, who is going to teach the bullys how to get along with others? Why does all the responsibilty lie with the victim. Surely the bullys are at fault as well. I simply can't agree with this idea that bullys are somehow performing a service to humanity.
You have an idealistic view and there is nothing wrong with that, but in terms of giving advice to someone being bullied that will actually help I would just say, "modify your behaviour as thats probably where the problem lies" everything else is just hopeful claptrap that wont help anybody.
Yes, I certianly agree that kids need to accept the tough realities of life. But are you condemning all efforts to reduce unnecessary suffering? anti-bullying campaigns aren't trying to wrap kids in cotton wool- they're just trying to make life a little more bearable for some, not eliminate all hardships. Surely that's a good thing?
(and by the way, about me being personal- I'm sorry if I upset anyone, I wasn't being serious)
If your being bullied and its not racially or gender motivated, then you are being bullied because of your own shortcomings, stop behaving the way you do, thats the only way to stop it.
lol good point...but sometimes a certain person makes a target out of you for no reason. it does happen. i was never bullied ,im just saying there are some guys that get their lifes made hell by certain individuals for no reason at all.
What if you are being bullied because someone happens to think studying hard at school is 'geeky' and warrents you being abused?
Or what if you have a speech impediment. With correct therapy the impediment might be cured, but you haven't had the therapy yet. Does that make it your fault if you are bullied because of it?
Or how about someone who is bullied because they like collecting stamps? Should they just accept the bullying as a natural result of their interest?
OK 2 good examples... I would say, the 'geek' is learning that our society shuns intellectualism in general, and that they will have to 'hide their light under a bushell'
The speech impediment person is learning how cruel our society can be to people who are different, and also learning defensive strategies to cope with this. Go and see Daniel Kitson, he is a brilliant stand up comedian with a profound stutter.
But why should these people have to hide anything? Surely, as a society we should be focussing on changing the attitudes of the people who think it's ok to bully people, rather than encouraging the victims to hide their true selves in a effort to fit in with some ill-defined, and hopelessly vague notion of 'being normal'.
I agree that learning to fight back and disregard the opinions of those that bully you is a good thing, but to just say we have to accept bullying as 'just part of life'. People get murdered/raped/tortured all the time as well, but surely it doesn't follow that we should just accept these things and do nothing to try and prevent them.
That is a really badly constructed sentence, you don't use capitals and the punctuation is just all hyphons and exclamations, the exclamation point, always a sure sign of a lack of education!!!!!!!!
Ok I don't know you personally or anything, but by reading your comments just now... you're the one who's making themselves seem the bully here. People get bullied for no reason A LOT of the time, not because they have failed or whatever you said. & who cares about spelling! It's friggin youtube, not a spelling bee... everybody makes typo's. I don't mean to be rude towards you but the things you were saying irritated the heck out of me, you're not superior to anyone on here! Why act it?!
Thats a ridiculous thing to say, im not a bully at all, im just discussing my opinions, just because were discussing bullying and you dont agree with me then you label me a bully. But im not.
Whatever you weasily bleeding hearts say, if your being bullied, its probably because of flaws in your own behaviour, and no amount of telling anyone is gonna solve it, the only thing that will stop it is sorting your shit out.
What? Blongers1, that's ridiculous. That's like saying- "black people bring racism on themselves, because they're black".
You cannot say people bring any social injustices upon themselves. You cannot shy away from the fact that evil is being done, just to make it seem okay.
I worked with teenagers for years and years and in almost every case of bullying I ever came across the victim was socially inadequate in some way, this includes myself, I can now see why I was bullied for a while when i was young and also why it stopped, I was socially inept.
Racist Bullying or Bullying for Sexual/gender reasons thats completely different.
Yes, I am not hiding the fact that many victims of bullying are socially inept, but you've missed my point. That does not mean that they 'bring it on themselves'. The bullies bring it on the victim, due to the ignorance of bullies.
As I've said, there's no doubt that people who are victims of racism towards black people are black. Does that mean that the black person brought it upon themselves? No. It's the ignorant racist's fault.
No, I reject that ascertion, If you see bullying as the social response to the behaviour of the victim, then it is normal and natural, the bullied child must correct their behaviour in order to avoid the bullying, the bullying is the social response that ensures we all learn the social rules that bind us together. Watch a group of chickens or a group of dogs, or any 'pack' animal, the same sorts of things happen.
Also I want to seperate normal bullying, from racially or gender motivated bullying as that is completely different and an issue as you say of prejudice and ignorance.
@Blongers1 no, you're wrong. What's so different about being socially inadequate? Can people help lacking social skills any more than they can control their race/gender/whatever? Does anyone chose to lack social skills? If not, they don't deserve to be bullied any more than people of different races etc. and even if they do somehow choose to lack social skills, even if they do bring it on themselves, so what? Does it mean they deserve persecution?
I'm going to find out where Blongers1 lives and then beat him up. While he's living bleeding on the floor, I'm going to ridicule and mock him. This will be a 'good thing' for society as it will teach him to get along with other people and help to reinforce the social norms that bind our society together. Anyone spotted the flaw in his logic yet?
That just doesnt hold water, without bullying how would individuals problems with social interaction ever get corrected.
Bullying is a social correction mechanism reinforcing the groups opinions of correct and incorrect behaviour and ultimately correcting them and ensuring a better society for all.
Can people help lacking social skills any more than they can control their race/gender/whatever?
Also often a young person will say they are being bullied, when in actual fact all that has happened is they have been rejected by their friendship group, again usually because they have made social faux pas. You have to consider that bullying is much more common in children than in adults, this is because adults have better social skills to protect themselves.
Can you define what your mean by 'socially inadequate'?
I don't think that finding flaws in the victim is necessarily the most effective way of addressing the problem of bullying. I also feel your argument veers dangerously close to saying that victims of bullying bring it upon themselves, owing to the 'social ineptitude' that you mention.
Victims of bullying may well suffer as they do partially as a result of their social abilities, but it is often the process of bullying that hinders...
...their ability to develop these skills in the first place. Teaching victims to be more assertive, and trying to help them develop more confidence in themselves, will certainly help, but laying the blame at their door, rather than at that of the bully's, may simply result in a reinforcing of the belief that they are the ones at fault, and that the duty is on them to 'do better'.
I don't feel that the right to not be bullied is something that has to be earned, rather, it is a universal right.
In actual fact I would go so far as to say bullying is a good thing, it ensures people learn to get along with another and reinforces the social norms which bind societies together.
I don't agree with the person who said she seems like a bully. Yes she does seem uniterested and insincere in what she is saying, but she could be uncomfortable talking about this subject because maybe she doesn't want to be seen as a "weak uncool bully victum" which is a mentality that a lot of teenage girls have, as immature as it sounds.
FlavourLikeIceCream 2 months ago
All i heard was it all needs to be out rather then in.
wowspoof 4 months ago
looking round a room or looking at your nails doesn't make you a bully.
maybe she was bullied, maybe she was looking round the room cos she felt uncomfortable cos of maybe she had experiences?
don't judge when you don't know someone.
lovattchloe 4 months ago
FOR ALL OF YOU WHO THINK SHES A BULLY, LISTEN TO HER SONG, GET WEAK, K, THEN YOU WILL THINK TWICE OF CALLING HER A BULLY
HannahTheChatterbox 6 months ago
@HannahTheChatterbox exactly, people can't just 'assume' she's a bully, on twitter once, i remember her giving a fan tips becoz the fan told her she was getting bullied and she told her to listen to her song get weak :)
pretty4princess 4 months ago
INSTEAD OF SAYING SHES ABULLY MAYBE SHE WAS BULLIED.... EVER LOOKED AT IT THAT WAY!!!!!!!!!!! ????
adweston 7 months ago
@adweston EXACTLY, THATS WHAT I THINK.
karengillanwannabe 7 months ago
everyone who thinks pixie lott is a bully is complete dick. she is a lovely girl and she is always supporting bullying causes! she has released a free song on itunes for bullying! of course she cares!!
TheMsGlitz 8 months ago 5
These bullying tips are embarrasing!
knowledgeisthepower1 9 months ago
she wrote a damn song about bullying herself, "oh she looked at the floor wen she was talking!!!!" .....so just frm that , it makes her a bully? so pathetic of course she cares
pretty4princess 10 months ago 3
I'd tap that shit.
StimSullRisirch 1 year ago
WOW. shes fucking stupid.
EnlargedPenis 1 year ago
@hkglitterz argh. why the bitterness? at least she's trying to do something about it by joining the campaign and raising awareness. what are you doing to stop bullying?
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
actually she DOES care about this. she was bullied herself, for not fitting in & not looking a certain way, & because she was very passionate about music. so don't accuse people of being bullies themselves if you don't even know!
10musicaddict 1 year ago
Bullies are basically people who are too afraid of others who are different from them to react normally.
KirneH004 1 year ago
I think youa re all reading way too much into this. She looks at her nails for like 3 seconds out the whole video and that means she is a bully?? WTF. She's obviously a bit nervous. I was never bullied and I cant really say I was bullied either but I'd probably act like this when talking about it too. Its a natural thing to find something to look at or play with when you are nervous or intimidated. She doesn't come across like a bully at all.Remember she's only 18 or maybe shes 19 now.
xBeautifulOrdinaryx 1 year ago
shut up, pigsie
RovennaR 2 years ago 4
I agree with Pixie,
What happens is that the bullies think what they are doing doesn't matter and they just leave it, maybe if they are more rich or have more friends... Because whatever happens its not your fault its not even the bullies fault, its kind of other peoples for not saying anything or helping them... People who join in with bullying probably feel sorry for you but cant speak out or the bully will bully them...
xHanna7colax 2 years ago
my bullyproof tip, give em a left right goodnight see if they bully you again =/
Pr3d4t0R6sic6 2 years ago
shame the bbc deleted all our comments about cheryl cole, it was epic!!! Hopefully it'll be all over the papers tomorrow and they'll scrap her tip!
dannipittboot16 2 years ago
haha i was well chuffed with my comment on cheryl cole, hypocritical bitch
mikeymandem 2 years ago
lol like she was ever bullied...
tiddlywinks98712 2 years ago
she was the bully (used to go to italia conti with her and shes a real bitch)
N11cKs 2 years ago
Bullying is normal and natural, its just survival of the fittest, those who are not the fittest will loose out exactly as nature intended.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Good idea, but unfortunately it doesn't work IRL to whine about bullies. You're just asking for it. Bullies need to be ignored, they get bored remarkably easily.
simonrichards150 2 years ago
yes and no, ture if you pay attetoin to them they get off on it but before they taken the hint of your ignoring them im sure they would of hurt and or humlated you in some way before hand, i know what i said on my other comment and no Vilonce is not aways the answer, but some time just some it is, some times words have no meaning when they fall on deaf ears
ubernagash 2 years ago
I see from your profile that you are well out of school, think back to when you were at school, would telling the teachers really have made any bullying you were subjected to stop? Not saying you were bullied as a child but if you weren't just imagine you were. I know that when I was at school, the teachers couldn't do much to help us kids with bullies, it only made it worse to tell, and ignoring them meant they picked on someone else after a while.
simonrichards150 2 years ago
if it works for you it all good, and jsut so you know buly are not jsut in school, i was in the army and it present there to if you hold your own, and officer might not be the phyiscal kind but it there and yes if you told a teacher back when i was young it made it worse now adays if a bully hits you and you defened your self you to blame as well, which is stupied, im not say eye for an eye, in every stuation but some time you have to defend your self and this nanny state us taking that away
ubernagash 2 years ago
lol bullies aren't full of issues like this lad suggests. I was bullied whilst a school (several) and it was always the popular, trendy people who thought it made them look cooler putting down the more individual people in the year.
If you tell a teacher several people are continually picking at your self esteem, nothings going to happen. not important enough in their eyes. just make yourself better than them by becoming successful and treat them with absolutely no respect whn they come running
RawPower 2 years ago 3
she looks like Chloe from uncharted 2
theStonedDuke 2 years ago
yes she does
TheCALLUMR 2 years ago
These confidence tips are completely useless for children. Bullying is a child's issue and these adult solutions are completely redundant. FAIL
metalebd 2 years ago
yea all these adults are going tell a teacher, that dont do crap, my dad sad if u getting bullied kick the crap outta him.
skillage444 2 years ago
Who the f*ck are you b*tch? Yet another shameless self promoting media whore giving their oh so valuable advice to us mere mortals then acting all smug and self satisfied, YOU ARE HELPING NO ONE, ACCOMPLISHING NOTHING! just lining your own pockets and giving yourselves self-satisfaction. Your demeaour offends me for you are simply a whore with a really stupid name. Please, please go and take a massive overdose of barbiturates and opiate and drown in your own blood! B*tch
ArkhanTheBlack1 2 years ago
Dude they're asking loads of celebrities to give their views on bullying. She's not getting paid for it, she's clearly not even prepared for this. She's just there to support this anti-bully week thing which pretty damn good of her.
Learn to love man.
connorDorothy27 2 years ago 4
for gods sake. these people who are getting bullied just need to nut up and shut up...nothing ever comes of this whole anti bullying crap. its very easy. deal with it yourself or tell a teacher. theres no need for a whole week of pointless propaganda.
JamleLong 2 years ago
these tips are all bull. if someone is harrsing you can just deal with it grow some skin but most bullying is physical and at the time you cant tell you're teahers when your being jumped or beaten up have to reolve to your own strength which is what i do and smack them so they dont get u or touch you again defend yourelfs
danbreen13 2 years ago
I knew Victoria (that's her real name btw) when she was still in Italia Conti before she was famous, she was really rude to alot of the kids there and made alot of people upset because she was so obsessed with herself. Hearing her say "Bullies are people who are insecure" really makes me laugh and feel sick at the same time.
BenGordonBITCHSLAP 2 years ago 4
dude i know someone in conti aswell, personally i cant stand the place cuz its full of arrogant fags bt what one did u go to? answer priv if u want
mikeymandem 2 years ago
I was in Chiselhurst, I think she moved to the one in London when she got a bit more successful. It is true, Conti does have a whole load of arrogant fucks in it, I just went because it was something to do on the weekend.
BenGordonBITCHSLAP 2 years ago
omg what a small world =o i went for like a summer thing when i was younger and thats the one i went too ;D
mikeymandem 2 years ago
OMG, i know both of u XD. Hey ben, its nick from conti, i'm the guy from conti Mike is talking about XD. Hey Mike ^^. I hate Pixie Lott, and this video only adds more to it. She used to bully me when i was at conti, and the fact that she's talking about anti-bullying disgusts meeeee!!! And even if she has changed her ways she still doesnt have the right to be talking about it like she has never been one, even though we can probs all agree she clearly hasnt changed
N11cKs 2 years ago 3
She definitly seems like a bully to me - watch; she cant make eye contact with the camera - thats a sign of a guilty conscience, instead she fiddles with her fingers, looks down and about the room.
She then smiles and laughs a bit at the end as if shes not even taking it seriously.
I was actually a fan until i watched this vid.
Not impressed.
BayIt 2 years ago 19
@BayIt maybe she was nervous?
Riannaellen 2 years ago
@BayIt lol bit of a strong reaction
Bethnal 1 year ago
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@BayIt shut up. what the fuck to you know. she is really nice
billtrump10 3 months ago
@BenGordonBITCHSLAP sorry if im wrong, but i really dont believe you knew her or she used to bully people at Italia Conti. you are just trying to add more fuel to the rumours...
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
@mlccharlottex You can say I'm lying, because you don't know me, and for all everyone knows I COULD be just adding to rumours, but you could only really be sure of that if you actually went to Italia Conti, like me and N11cKs.
BenGordonBITCHSLAP 1 year ago
@BenGordonBITCHSLAP exactly, i dont know you so i find it hard to believe what you say. i also find it hard to believe Pix was a bully at school lol.
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
@mlccharlottex Why is it so hard to believe?
BenGordonBITCHSLAP 1 year ago
@BenGordonBITCHSLAP what her being a bully? because i can just tell she isnt like that, and shes a nice person, as everyone always says :) like she has so many friends and if she was some nasty person im sure she wouldnt be as loved as she is...but whatever.
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
@mlccharlottex People dont give a fuck aabout how "nice" she is! the reason she has friends is because SHES "PRETTY" and RICH! Nothing else.
EnlargedPenis 1 year ago
@EnlargedPenis she had a lot of friends before she was even famous :S so dont see how that could work lol? im sure she doesnt have friends just because shes 'pretty' - dont know what planet you're living on!
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
I LOVE PIXIE!
MrANdY9800 2 years ago
lol, i like how she was staring at her fingers rather than the camera when she was saying that bullies are insecure.
lolzords234 2 years ago
It's funny how all the people below who like bullying "truth is bullyings fun" are nearly always the bullies. No wonder the world hates teenagers.
MyTigerLikesPenguins 2 years ago
Pause at 0:07 when she says "...people how are jealous or insecure of themselves or have a lot of issues".
Staring at her nails. Shallow and superficial. Are any of these celebs fat? Hang on, what does that say in the description?
"Pixie Lott gives you her confidence tip to help you bullyproof yourself"
Is there a video with Gok Wan in it? "It's all about the confidence". The Charlie Brooker analysis of Gok Wan's show says it all.
TableWolfMusic 2 years ago
dude explain ur gok wan charlie brooker thing? sounds interesting but i dunno what your talkin bout =)
DamjanS16 2 years ago
Damjan
Brooker spent a show parodying "self-help shows" such as "how to look good naked". He got Prof Geoff Beatty to analyse the effect of Gok's curing methods. Essentially proving that Gok is a wreckless and vacuous dick. It may have been on the screenwipes show. You'd have to see it really. It was on BBC TV about 1 or 2 months ago. IF I had the link I'd give it to you. Happy googling.
TableWolfMusic 2 years ago
cool thanks, and that is very interesting. =)
dfo something to think about.
DamjanS16 2 years ago
she doesnt give a shit she just lookin at her nails bet she was a bully
wills966 2 years ago 29
@wills966 naww.. she gives a shit, looking at her nails doesn't make her a bully, and if you look at other vids you'll see she looks at her nails there to.
Victoriastrand 1 year ago
@wills966 she does care as she tweeted me when i was gettin bullied im qyuite close to her now :) she was always aksing if i was okaay ect x shes lovely ! she got ullied herself and she helped me through my time :) and also met her on wednesday at her ocncetr shes amaazing such a sweet girl x
weechloexox1 1 year ago
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@wills966 shut up. what the fuck to you know. she is really nice
billtrump10 3 months ago
who the fuck is pixie lott
dogspawn 2 years ago
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truth is bullyings fun we all love it look at the media they terrorise people everyday. i think we should have a national bullying day were we all go to the nearest fat kid and give him a kicking. anyone else up for that??
scammadan 2 years ago
HAHAHAH GENIUS
xGeorgiiaaBaybiix 2 years ago
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MyTigerLikesPenguins 2 years ago
Why don't we have a national grammar day, where we teach morons who don't understand capitalisation, punctuation or plural/possesive forms how to write at at least the level of a five year old so that when they attempt to make a 'cool' remark on YouTube people actually pay attention to them instead of thinking they're just an idiot?
Oh wait, nevermind.
1) There already is a 'National Grammar Day'
2) People will always think you're an idiot.
Fouldini 2 years ago
Why not a paedophile instead?
suzannedrakie 2 years ago
yeah a paedo would be better, their harder to find tho
scammadan 2 years ago
Pause at 0:24
p12jsum 2 years ago 2
In fairness this is the least patronising of all the videos, but lets face it there is no real advise given in ANY of these videos
chapmasi 2 years ago
everyone shut the fuck up you dont know if she gives a shit or not so stop lookin down your noses and realise wat it's really about.. not wat pixt lot fucking said but the fact that it's anti-bullying week and wether or not she's faking it.. shes showing some suppourt. JEEZ.
nettlie07 2 years ago
sterotyping idiot ..
notice how at 0:26 she says "he's proberly got the problems"
sad ...
ihyl3r1di 2 years ago
@ihyl3r1di im sure it was a mistake.....chill.....:)
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
She's a moron
and to people who agree
bullies are not always insecure, sometimes you are probably being a dick
05glanza 2 years ago
looks that could kill, but thick as two short planks =/ shame really ;) NOT! lmfao
StaindRemains 2 years ago
she's right tbf. bullies are just insecure people, who have so many insecurities, making an easy target feel smaller than them makes them feel better.. c**ts. pixie is hawt.
hendrixisnotgod 2 years ago
she likes to play w/ her fingers
pureawesomenesscom 2 years ago
Look at her. She doesn't fucking care about this, she's more interested in her fingernails.
DecMan41 2 years ago
she looks live shes nervous to me the way shes playing with her hands
gibsonmozart 2 years ago 2
I thought that too. She keeps glancing at her nails as if she's more interested in whether or not her nail polish has chipped off than helping children overcome bullying. Also, her lack of interest and sincerity makes me incredulous. Saying this with an awkward grin on your face isn't convincing anyone.
waIIflower 2 years ago 2
Mate, that was too funny :P made my day, seriously, she seems so thick and annoying. I thought these muppets were media trained?
StretfordEnder15 2 years ago
She's probably the least sincere and articulate "celebrity" on this channel. Who's she kidding? She doesn't f*cking care. As long as she gets her own dressing room and a paycheck afterwards, clowns like her will do anything for 0:37 seconds of fame. Where does the blame land? The media's doorstep, of course.
waIIflower 2 years ago
Maybe "bullies" are just people who want to have fun :)
AkiraMoa 2 years ago
OR genuinely hurt someones feelings.
forgiveyoursoul 2 years ago
shes soo hot !
065bowr 2 years ago
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Who is Pixie Lott? You sounds like a peasant from 1780 or sumik. Do us a flavour love, you made ur millions, now piss off. And stop bumping ur gums about shit you would never care about, just coz BBC paid you, i would put love bites on her shit. I'll be ur toilet pixie, but just shut the fuck up.
ihatethelaw 2 years ago
ha ha ha bumping you gums
im well using that
mosesman01 2 years ago
Thanks for the tip pixie!
I think when someone is keeping it in, it hurts. So the minute you see a bad comment or someone trying to threatern you, Ammediately block them and tell someone. Contact yt and make sure you leave no details out. Anyone asking for your password or personal info might be onto you. So block, Warn, Ignore, Or just leave them.
xHanna7colax 2 years ago
honestly, just workout, become a "tank" and they'll leave you alone... ive never been bullied cos of my size. ive never go in a fight before, not that im a "pussy", its cos im a nice guy who doesnt make people want to fight me,,, and also, just use ure head against em is the best advice i got on em
Alterbridge4evr 2 years ago
Exactly, or get good with words.
You can argue your way out of most things, even against drunken people. Drop a line that confuses them, whilst they're pondering; bloody well do one!
xxxIRossHi 2 years ago
or, if your in a fight situation...... sand in the face, then bomb it..... only if they dont know where you live...... cause if they do... then ure stuffed
Alterbridge4evr 2 years ago
yh sure you did lol
BlackBananaMan999 2 years ago
i was bullyed for about 40 seconds at school once till i split his nose open, i like bullys gives me someone hurt (well i hate them but i think you get my point XD) best way to deal with a bully is kicking hter fooking heads in, im a peaceful person(of sorts) till words are lots on z bully and htey only understand pain "it sad but true" (metallica 5:2)
ubernagash 2 years ago
i love psychologically destroying bullys, even if im not the target, like ill cut the buttons off his shirt, or cut a rip in his trousers, pour water all over his bag, and smash up his lunch, the peasant is none the wiser.
shootitup21 2 years ago
ur just the bully if u do that
GunDude345 2 years ago
i didnt write that comment Kunal did, and he admits he dont do that kind o thing anyway, he just wanted o sound tough. lol.
shootitup21 2 years ago
oh ok soz
GunDude345 2 years ago
but i like keeping me being bullied to my self.
GothGemma 2 years ago
id like to bully her ass
bangthatdrumb 2 years ago
Oh yeh its really that easy mann, :(
YasAndHorses 2 years ago
Yeah speak out, good advice.
Tell as many people as you can.
marycunningham2010 2 years ago
Milf? shes about 18.
sparkybaz77 2 years ago
Is she a mother?
marycunningham2010 2 years ago
how do u 'rise above' someone attacking u?? answers on a stamped addressed envelope. I would honestly like to know. Assume that I don't fancy a trip to hospital
Boorsu 2 years ago
MILF
chailizard 2 years ago
fuck yeah :]
ZackiiBean 2 years ago
everyones moaning about her making it up on the spot... course she bloody is... she hasn't drafted what she is going to say, then it'd be fake people are talking like she is a bully trying to cover it up.. get a grip its the message that counts, people who are truely being bullied arent going to sit watching this and think "wait a minute... she isn't sincere!"
chikenchasa 2 years ago
fucksake.
if you watch the one cheryl does she seems to be really sincere and thinking about her answer.
pixie lott is clearly not only a talentless twat, but also cant take a subject like bullying seriously.
and she sounds like a pikey tbh.
kritz101 2 years ago
Blongers is right
NoWayFolding 2 years ago
Yeah, the one's that deserved to be bullied are the one's with comments such as "some people deserved to get bullied" aswell as people bullying other's
Kara024 2 years ago
hot
hcasperk 2 years ago
This is a joke.
You can tell she is making it up on the spot by her body language. She looks past the camera as if looking for answer, she stares down at her hands thinking of something to say.
What is the point of this?
xxxIRossHi 2 years ago
yeh she has no idea, your completley correct mate
zXFreeStyleXz 2 years ago
legend "some people deserve to be bullied" fair enough
rh05watta 2 years ago
?? wtf. vv?
bunnybooduude 2 years ago
true
xmarius9 2 years ago
Rawrrrrrr
Misiire 2 years ago
You can just tell she used to be one of the bitchy, bullying girls when she was at school.
Rosaliemarie94 2 years ago 2
haha, no-one's going to listen to you if you act like a child!
mrsdengler 2 years ago
"it's definitely the bully...thats like......got the problems" no, you have the problem if you're even noticing this kind of thing. You think you can go through life with everyone treating you like royalty and showing you respect? That's not how it goes. People aren't very nice in general. They can go off at you for any number of reasons at any time. Just get used to it and don't take it so seriously, unless it's physical in which case get down the muay thai/mma/jujitsu gym.
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Matthewkilb 2 years ago
Modern celebrity driven culture like to sell you the myth that life can be a happy thing all the time, and that this is the way it should be.
That simply is not so, life his hard, and some people need to toughen up and get a thick skin, thats what 95% of being at school is for.. to teach you to get along with others.
Blongers1 2 years ago
But if noone intervenes, who is going to teach the bullys how to get along with others? Why does all the responsibilty lie with the victim. Surely the bullys are at fault as well. I simply can't agree with this idea that bullys are somehow performing a service to humanity.
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
You have an idealistic view and there is nothing wrong with that, but in terms of giving advice to someone being bullied that will actually help I would just say, "modify your behaviour as thats probably where the problem lies" everything else is just hopeful claptrap that wont help anybody.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Yes, I certianly agree that kids need to accept the tough realities of life. But are you condemning all efforts to reduce unnecessary suffering? anti-bullying campaigns aren't trying to wrap kids in cotton wool- they're just trying to make life a little more bearable for some, not eliminate all hardships. Surely that's a good thing?
(and by the way, about me being personal- I'm sorry if I upset anyone, I wasn't being serious)
mrsdengler 2 years ago
Not you again, fuck off numbnuts
Blongers1 2 years ago
who is she, is she a bully?
samadbaksh 2 years ago
@samadbaksh no shes not a bully...
mlccharlottex 1 year ago
If your being bullied and its not racially or gender motivated, then you are being bullied because of your own shortcomings, stop behaving the way you do, thats the only way to stop it.
Blongers1 2 years ago
lol good point...but sometimes a certain person makes a target out of you for no reason. it does happen. i was never bullied ,im just saying there are some guys that get their lifes made hell by certain individuals for no reason at all.
CityBoyMillionaire 2 years ago
OK, but you can learn ascertive behaviour that will prevent you from being victimised.
Blongers1 2 years ago
I agree. What I disagree with is the notion that the burden of solving the problem of bullying lies entirely with those being subjected to it.
Matthewkilb 2 years ago 2
What if you are being bullied because someone happens to think studying hard at school is 'geeky' and warrents you being abused?
Or what if you have a speech impediment. With correct therapy the impediment might be cured, but you haven't had the therapy yet. Does that make it your fault if you are bullied because of it?
Or how about someone who is bullied because they like collecting stamps? Should they just accept the bullying as a natural result of their interest?
etc etc etc
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
OK 2 good examples... I would say, the 'geek' is learning that our society shuns intellectualism in general, and that they will have to 'hide their light under a bushell'
The speech impediment person is learning how cruel our society can be to people who are different, and also learning defensive strategies to cope with this. Go and see Daniel Kitson, he is a brilliant stand up comedian with a profound stutter.
The stamp collecting one is just silly.
Blongers1 2 years ago
But why should these people have to hide anything? Surely, as a society we should be focussing on changing the attitudes of the people who think it's ok to bully people, rather than encouraging the victims to hide their true selves in a effort to fit in with some ill-defined, and hopelessly vague notion of 'being normal'.
Matthewkilb 2 years ago 3
I agree that learning to fight back and disregard the opinions of those that bully you is a good thing, but to just say we have to accept bullying as 'just part of life'. People get murdered/raped/tortured all the time as well, but surely it doesn't follow that we should just accept these things and do nothing to try and prevent them.
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
To Blongers1 - Why should somebody have to change themselves to please others? Completely defies the point of being an individual.
jukeboxjokes 2 years ago 2
but before I go- spelling! pot-kettle-black
mrsdengler 2 years ago
Your trying to tell everyone my opinions on bullying are wrong, but i'm not the one behaving like a bully - your pathetic.
Blongers1 2 years ago
That is a really badly constructed sentence, you don't use capitals and the punctuation is just all hyphons and exclamations, the exclamation point, always a sure sign of a lack of education!!!!!!!!
Blongers1 2 years ago
Is this an example of you 'improving society' by bullying someone? lol
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
you havn't been paying attention have you? this dengler person started it all, i was just discussing sociology, she made it personal.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Rise above it then. Or perhaps you need more bullying to 'strengthen the ties' that 'bind you to society' etc ect
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
Ok I don't know you personally or anything, but by reading your comments just now... you're the one who's making themselves seem the bully here. People get bullied for no reason A LOT of the time, not because they have failed or whatever you said. & who cares about spelling! It's friggin youtube, not a spelling bee... everybody makes typo's. I don't mean to be rude towards you but the things you were saying irritated the heck out of me, you're not superior to anyone on here! Why act it?!
xBarksx 2 years ago 2
You should organise your thoughts and then start writing, this is a little too disorderly for me to actually formulate a response to.
Blongers1 2 years ago
You're just another online bully. End of convo.
xBarksx 2 years ago
Thats a ridiculous thing to say, im not a bully at all, im just discussing my opinions, just because were discussing bullying and you dont agree with me then you label me a bully. But im not.
Blongers1 2 years ago
stop bulling everyone
billywiz21 2 years ago
ah, you and I just made society a tiny bit better. Feels good?
now I'm bored of this stupidity
mrsdengler 2 years ago
Your such an idiot. Do you not see the hypocrisy in the messages you have written.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Whatever you weasily bleeding hearts say, if your being bullied, its probably because of flaws in your own behaviour, and no amount of telling anyone is gonna solve it, the only thing that will stop it is sorting your shit out.
Blongers1 2 years ago
yeah, cos your mum
mrsdengler 2 years ago
no im not your mummy, call me miss like all the other children.
Blongers1 2 years ago
NICE HAUNDS
chay0707 2 years ago
yes? I'm 8'10" and I eat rugby players for dinner
mrsdengler 2 years ago
Is that your way of saying you want to suck my dick?
Blongers1 2 years ago
Oh yeah like I'm gonna take advice on bullying off a Pixie.
ImHereToAnnoyYou 2 years ago 3
correct behavior! ensuring a better society for all!
mrsdengler 2 years ago
Probably the only advice that made a bit of sense though I think we all hear it at the start of every school year
TheHumanXwreckage 2 years ago
Bloody hell the way she kept smiling and looking at her finger nails, felt asif she actually fancies the bully type haha
jjb1989 2 years ago 2
What they wont tell you is that if you are bullied by other kids its probably because of problems with your own behaviour.
Bullied kids bring it on themselves, usually because they lack social skills.
Blongers1 2 years ago
What? Blongers1, that's ridiculous. That's like saying- "black people bring racism on themselves, because they're black".
You cannot say people bring any social injustices upon themselves. You cannot shy away from the fact that evil is being done, just to make it seem okay.
magicmartin18 2 years ago
No its not, and no your wrong.
I worked with teenagers for years and years and in almost every case of bullying I ever came across the victim was socially inadequate in some way, this includes myself, I can now see why I was bullied for a while when i was young and also why it stopped, I was socially inept.
Racist Bullying or Bullying for Sexual/gender reasons thats completely different.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Yes, I am not hiding the fact that many victims of bullying are socially inept, but you've missed my point. That does not mean that they 'bring it on themselves'. The bullies bring it on the victim, due to the ignorance of bullies.
As I've said, there's no doubt that people who are victims of racism towards black people are black. Does that mean that the black person brought it upon themselves? No. It's the ignorant racist's fault.
magicmartin18 2 years ago
No, I reject that ascertion, If you see bullying as the social response to the behaviour of the victim, then it is normal and natural, the bullied child must correct their behaviour in order to avoid the bullying, the bullying is the social response that ensures we all learn the social rules that bind us together. Watch a group of chickens or a group of dogs, or any 'pack' animal, the same sorts of things happen.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Also I want to seperate normal bullying, from racially or gender motivated bullying as that is completely different and an issue as you say of prejudice and ignorance.
Blongers1 2 years ago
@Blongers1 no, you're wrong. What's so different about being socially inadequate? Can people help lacking social skills any more than they can control their race/gender/whatever? Does anyone chose to lack social skills? If not, they don't deserve to be bullied any more than people of different races etc. and even if they do somehow choose to lack social skills, even if they do bring it on themselves, so what? Does it mean they deserve persecution?
mrsdengler 2 years ago
I'm going to find out where Blongers1 lives and then beat him up. While he's living bleeding on the floor, I'm going to ridicule and mock him. This will be a 'good thing' for society as it will teach him to get along with other people and help to reinforce the social norms that bind our society together. Anyone spotted the flaw in his logic yet?
Matthewkilb 2 years ago 2
Are you a teacher or have you ever worked in a school, you will find that the majority of teachers would agree with me.
By the way, you could come and try and beat me up, but i play County Rugby and im 6'7" so I would wipe the floor with your scrawny arse.
Blongers1 2 years ago
That just doesnt hold water, without bullying how would individuals problems with social interaction ever get corrected.
Bullying is a social correction mechanism reinforcing the groups opinions of correct and incorrect behaviour and ultimately correcting them and ensuring a better society for all.
Can people help lacking social skills any more than they can control their race/gender/whatever?
Yes! thats exactly the point.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Also often a young person will say they are being bullied, when in actual fact all that has happened is they have been rejected by their friendship group, again usually because they have made social faux pas. You have to consider that bullying is much more common in children than in adults, this is because adults have better social skills to protect themselves.
Blongers1 2 years ago
Can you define what your mean by 'socially inadequate'?
I don't think that finding flaws in the victim is necessarily the most effective way of addressing the problem of bullying. I also feel your argument veers dangerously close to saying that victims of bullying bring it upon themselves, owing to the 'social ineptitude' that you mention.
Victims of bullying may well suffer as they do partially as a result of their social abilities, but it is often the process of bullying that hinders...
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
...their ability to develop these skills in the first place. Teaching victims to be more assertive, and trying to help them develop more confidence in themselves, will certainly help, but laying the blame at their door, rather than at that of the bully's, may simply result in a reinforcing of the belief that they are the ones at fault, and that the duty is on them to 'do better'.
I don't feel that the right to not be bullied is something that has to be earned, rather, it is a universal right.
Matthewkilb 2 years ago
In actual fact I would go so far as to say bullying is a good thing, it ensures people learn to get along with another and reinforces the social norms which bind societies together.
Blongers1 2 years ago