unfortunately because we don't know the full story, he could be protecting her from some bad business he has come across recently, he could be cheating on her and wouldn't like her to meet his girlfriend who lives 2 doors down. We don't know. The councelling would help him release either anger or fear of what will happen to her when she is alone and could create the answer she has been looking for........ I'm sorry for the situation. Hope all gos well
I believe ALOT of men like that turn like that BECAUSE of the women he has been use to.. I say that because of a male friend of mine's situation. My friend's ex REALLY has screwed him up emotionally..
Hey Liz, i think either she did something or he is doing something n he is guilty thats another reason when ur doing stuff u get paranoyed u know..........
I would recommend counseling as well for if this man doesn't stop his controlling/domineering behavior the woman is going to pull away and could possibly leave him. I will pray for her for this must be a difficult position to be in.
He sounds like a loser. What is so good about him. she keeps saying he a good man. she is a fool. next he will be beating her ass, if he hasnt already and next he will kill her.
More like the opposite, what has he done? She should check up on his ass and what he's doing when she is not around. Jealous ppl are the ones that are cheating.
yes there is defenitly some need for professional help here..that is not a healthy relationship..i agree find a way to get this situation resolved..for you and your families sake..
Shame shame shame. I think he is holding you back from being yourself. You have no support from the one person who is always suppose to be there. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't trust you? That's the most important question here.
That does not sound like a good relationship to me. That guy sounds like a dictator!
A guy like that is better off living on his own if he is that distrustful of her...she needs to really look at her priorities and examine whether or not she is getting what she needs out of that relationship.
Scare him by leaving with you and the kids over the Christmas break to somewhere on a temporary basis and demand changes because you can do bad all by yourself.
Never mind! Just leave his crazy but before you end up on the news.
if he is that damn jealous......9 times out of 10 he is physically abusive as well.....i feel for her.....no one should have to live that way.....it doesn't make sense.....
What i wanna know is what happens if she DOES do something that she is not "ALLOWED" to do??? Scary thought! If she has never "disobeyed" him, she needs to think about what might happen if she does!
This woman says she has a great relationship with her hubby but under the circumstances I have to wholeheartedly & respectfully disagree. Whether or not she's done something to make him so insecure is not the issue. They've obviously made a commitment to move forward which means setting all else aside and starting over. This man has huge control issues that are emotionally abusive. You can't have a relationship with an adult and set boundries like this for them. Counseling is the way to go.
there is no trust here...........without trust love is tarnished.......find a way to gain trust be it with assistance or no, else thisa is not going to end nicely, sorry
This situation is very common and it has 2 separate issues. One she has major self esteem problems, which accounts for her very weak emotional state. Two, he has major control issues which date back way before his invovlement with her. She is in the classic mental abuse relationship. He may even physically abuse her, but that part of the equation is not being told. He is a controller no doubt and is capable of anything to keep her under his control. This is a very volatile relationship.
i had sort of the same situation as this girl did. I have been with my fiance for four years and he always was so jealous, and overprotective of me. It caused us to get in unneccsary arguments all the time. I finally talked to him about it, and turns out he was insecure about something that had happened years ago with another girl. But after we talked and i assured him I wasn't like that, it has been great as ever!
unfortunately because we don't know the full story, he could be protecting her from some bad business he has come across recently, he could be cheating on her and wouldn't like her to meet his girlfriend who lives 2 doors down. We don't know. The councelling would help him release either anger or fear of what will happen to her when she is alone and could create the answer she has been looking for........ I'm sorry for the situation. Hope all gos well
looney7kid7killa 1 year ago
Thi seems suspicious, It could be he's done something that wasnt right and now hes projecting that onto her.
tedoymisojos 1 year ago
I believe ALOT of men like that turn like that BECAUSE of the women he has been use to.. I say that because of a male friend of mine's situation. My friend's ex REALLY has screwed him up emotionally..
maria39208 2 years ago
Hey Liz, i think either she did something or he is doing something n he is guilty thats another reason when ur doing stuff u get paranoyed u know..........
Mari23221 2 years ago
I would recommend counseling as well for if this man doesn't stop his controlling/domineering behavior the woman is going to pull away and could possibly leave him. I will pray for her for this must be a difficult position to be in.
Blessings.
NikiD40 2 years ago
He sounds like a loser. What is so good about him. she keeps saying he a good man. she is a fool. next he will be beating her ass, if he hasnt already and next he will kill her.
cynmille2000 2 years ago
More like the opposite, what has he done? She should check up on his ass and what he's doing when she is not around. Jealous ppl are the ones that are cheating.
wendy3711 2 years ago 4
yes there is defenitly some need for professional help here..that is not a healthy relationship..i agree find a way to get this situation resolved..for you and your families sake..
lat1na1 2 years ago
Shame shame shame. I think he is holding you back from being yourself. You have no support from the one person who is always suppose to be there. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't trust you? That's the most important question here.
Jacklynuh 2 years ago
That does not sound like a good relationship to me. That guy sounds like a dictator!
A guy like that is better off living on his own if he is that distrustful of her...she needs to really look at her priorities and examine whether or not she is getting what she needs out of that relationship.
mllee2008 2 years ago
that mofo sounds crazy den a MUGG!
BelgiumChoco 2 years ago
Eggshells=Get the Hell out of there!
or:)
Scare him by leaving with you and the kids over the Christmas break to somewhere on a temporary basis and demand changes because you can do bad all by yourself.
Never mind! Just leave his crazy but before you end up on the news.
itshot123 2 years ago
if he is that damn jealous......9 times out of 10 he is physically abusive as well.....i feel for her.....no one should have to live that way.....it doesn't make sense.....
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago
What i wanna know is what happens if she DOES do something that she is not "ALLOWED" to do??? Scary thought! If she has never "disobeyed" him, she needs to think about what might happen if she does!
Missmandy29 2 years ago
This woman says she has a great relationship with her hubby but under the circumstances I have to wholeheartedly & respectfully disagree. Whether or not she's done something to make him so insecure is not the issue. They've obviously made a commitment to move forward which means setting all else aside and starting over. This man has huge control issues that are emotionally abusive. You can't have a relationship with an adult and set boundries like this for them. Counseling is the way to go.
scrumps101 2 years ago
leave him gurl!!!!!! thats not a happy situation!!!!!
LOVERSPT 2 years ago
i think some jealousy is flattering but too much is too much..
s00pahsl1ck 2 years ago
I hope that they can find a way to sort out their issues before it turns abusive. Good luck sweetie!
luvinmysailor08 2 years ago
there is no trust here...........without trust love is tarnished.......find a way to gain trust be it with assistance or no, else thisa is not going to end nicely, sorry
MystSilverDragon 2 years ago
Hi Liz:-) Hi Steve.
Mslady41 2 years ago
This situation is very common and it has 2 separate issues. One she has major self esteem problems, which accounts for her very weak emotional state. Two, he has major control issues which date back way before his invovlement with her. She is in the classic mental abuse relationship. He may even physically abuse her, but that part of the equation is not being told. He is a controller no doubt and is capable of anything to keep her under his control. This is a very volatile relationship.
tube8seven 2 years ago
Love you both. Rosa
HairNailsBeautytips 2 years ago
He is that way. Control issue. That is a learn behavior. That Oxytoxcin is controling them.
HairNailsBeautytips 2 years ago
i had sort of the same situation as this girl did. I have been with my fiance for four years and he always was so jealous, and overprotective of me. It caused us to get in unneccsary arguments all the time. I finally talked to him about it, and turns out he was insecure about something that had happened years ago with another girl. But after we talked and i assured him I wasn't like that, it has been great as ever!
tabithacesefske 2 years ago