Hi gazwilwah. Things are a little easier now--thanks for asking. The hardest part for me was seeing the wife and her new boyfriend take my kids off on holiday. It sounds harsh, but if you get used to it. Try to not think about how 'bad' she's been, don't lose your temper in a way that can be played back or read out in court and don't rush to make yourself feel better---it takes time. Get some legal advice re the kids being so far away. Many solicitors will give you 1 hour for free. Do it now! :)
moving on is simple but wat u have left behind is hard to forget... my wife left me 2 yrs ago, something similar like your but not so drastic.. till today i'm still crippled in my heart... i've not seen my 4yrs old daughter for nearly 4yrs... i've onli seen her for 35 times... So whose day is worst?
Hey Bro, My Wife left me a week after our 10th wedding anniversary, which happened to also be our 15th anniversary as a couple. She took our Daughter. They live with a fellow we knew, but never liked. Tell me this gets easier...
Well in all honestly, it has to get tougher before it gets easier. It all depends how you handle the situation. If you can resist the urge to get nasty with your wife, she may cut you some slack. Remember: the law is on the woman's side in this case and if she had a grudge, she could really make things financially tough for you. The best advice I can give you is to keep your dignity and be there for your daughter. In time, people will see who the real villain is: and it's not you, buddy!
Thanks for your support. I'm over her but now I have to deal with the anger and the fact that 2 kids are involved. Guess I'll have to find a girl who likes my accent!
Thanks for your support. My wife knows she's made a mistake and I have now locked the door behind her, so it really is her loss and not mine. I feel a great sense of freedom not being with her anymore. It's just sad that she had to drag our children into it, but there ya go! Bad things happen to bad people, so time will straighten things out in the end.
Hi gazwilwah. Things are a little easier now--thanks for asking. The hardest part for me was seeing the wife and her new boyfriend take my kids off on holiday. It sounds harsh, but if you get used to it. Try to not think about how 'bad' she's been, don't lose your temper in a way that can be played back or read out in court and don't rush to make yourself feel better---it takes time. Get some legal advice re the kids being so far away. Many solicitors will give you 1 hour for free. Do it now! :)
mcfender 7 months ago
So hows things now mate? i've just found myself in the same situation. Been a week now and i'm walking around the house like you in the vid lol.
She's taken my son and hardest part is that its a 200 mile drive to go see him.
gazwilwah 7 months ago
i think its awsome she left she was obviously a bitch.. you should be happy!
BJUNKERLYNN 2 years ago
moving on is simple but wat u have left behind is hard to forget... my wife left me 2 yrs ago, something similar like your but not so drastic.. till today i'm still crippled in my heart... i've not seen my 4yrs old daughter for nearly 4yrs... i've onli seen her for 35 times... So whose day is worst?
andrewderoyale 2 years ago
pink t-shirt ? oh my god! lol
deboramb 2 years ago
It's not pink, it's red. And it's a tracksuit top... not a t-shirt!
mcfender 2 years ago
I'm taking the high road. Sure is really hard to not be 'that guy'. Funny how much I miss her though. Thanks for your kind words!
csfuntime 3 years ago
Hey Bro, My Wife left me a week after our 10th wedding anniversary, which happened to also be our 15th anniversary as a couple. She took our Daughter. They live with a fellow we knew, but never liked. Tell me this gets easier...
csfuntime 3 years ago
Well in all honestly, it has to get tougher before it gets easier. It all depends how you handle the situation. If you can resist the urge to get nasty with your wife, she may cut you some slack. Remember: the law is on the woman's side in this case and if she had a grudge, she could really make things financially tough for you. The best advice I can give you is to keep your dignity and be there for your daughter. In time, people will see who the real villain is: and it's not you, buddy!
mcfender 3 years ago
ouch dude hope u find some1 btr and i love ur accent lol
gangstas1010 3 years ago
Thanks for your support. I'm over her but now I have to deal with the anger and the fact that 2 kids are involved. Guess I'll have to find a girl who likes my accent!
mcfender 3 years ago
i am so sad for you.
go to a bar, get a woman and show that bitch that you dont need her!
skarpengland 3 years ago
Thanks for your support. My wife knows she's made a mistake and I have now locked the door behind her, so it really is her loss and not mine. I feel a great sense of freedom not being with her anymore. It's just sad that she had to drag our children into it, but there ya go! Bad things happen to bad people, so time will straighten things out in the end.
mcfender 3 years ago
Thanks for your support, buddy. The best way you can deal with a situation like this is to move on and enjoy life, which is what I'm doing right now!
mcfender 3 years ago
Fuck that bitch you'll find a new girl,that looks ten times better then her
crypter27 3 years ago