I am so sick of all the men hooking up with each other. We woman need some love too; soon there will be no more men left; then what are we going to do ladies? I really wish some men will just be real with a woman and let her know "I LIKE MEN IM GAY! Im a victim of a down low man and he showed no signs that he was gay we talked about marriage kids having a family everything you could think a woman would want. And it turned out he was having sex with transexuals while dating me.Im still shock
Wait, bi? If he were bi, it wouldn't matter, because bisexual guys still like women. That's the "bi" part. It's definitely not the same as being gay.
To the "ignorant" comments: If she were basing her suspicions on him being a little feminine, yeah, it'd be pretty ignorant. HOWEVER, if he's blatantly making eyes at guys AND fits into the gay stereotype, it's not ignorant to wonder if he's gay. It's common sense.
LIKE YOU SAID, YOU WOULD ASK HIM IF YOU WERE IN HER SITUATION. WHY DON'T SHE JUST BE A WOMAN AND TAKE A STAND. IF HE IS GAY SHE IS IN A NO WIN SITUATION, BECAUSE IF HE IS PLAYING FOR THE OTHER TEAM...SHE CAN'T COMPETE WITH A MAN. HE SOUND LIKE HE HAS A SWEET TOOTH TO ME, BUT YOUR FRIEND IS WRONG FOR NOT HAVING THIS DISCUSSION WITH HIM SINCE THEY ARE THE ONES IN THE RELATIONSHIP. SOME MEN COULD HAVE FEM WAYS AND NOT BE GAY. WOMEN BECOME VICTIMS OF STD'S WHEN THEY THINK A HARD MAN IS STRAIGHT.
It depends on how much she loves him. If she loves him, then stick with it, if it comes out that he is gay, then deal with it at that time & be happy and thankful for the good times they shared together. If he is straight, who's to say they might get in a fight & break up, or they could get married and live happily ever after. Whatever you do, Support whatever he is and love each other, even if you go separate ways, you could have a great friend for life.
I see where she is coming from but this video is pretty ignorant. Everyone has something that floats their boat even he may like charm bracelets or is comfortable with other gay people that doesn't mean he is gay. If his girlfriend does feel he is gay then she shouldnt be talkng to anyone but him about it and if she dislikes him based off of her assumptions then she should leave instead of telling her business to the world
I had the same feelings about my ex-husband & when I asked he denied it. Well after 4 yrs of marital HELL it came out that he WAS gay. I was devastated. A womans intuition is almost never wrong. My advice 2 her is 4 her 2 listen 2 that little voice in her head. God may be trying 2 warn her. Trust me, that's pain u don't ever want 2 experience. It's been 11 yrs & it still hurts.
Here man us not bi ya he's gay ass fuck.I mean so gay he can sit on a loly pop and know the cloer.oookk and she should grow up and love here self and know that she would never put here self in such a bad moment and know that she is better then that.and that maby it's not time for him to come the fuck up.it when he's found I'm self.and it's ok that you man likes booty from men's just let him go that way you can have a real nice gay that will do you like he should.
Don't settle for someone pushing boundaries where you settle for a bi/guy degrading your sense of self worth, disrespecting you as a woman. In a twisted world, this guy may deem himself the equivalent of her brother--and she's the equivalent of the other woman--not good enough for his booty shaking ass, basically competing with her, thinking he's better. Draw the line. Get him out of your bed. If you're hetero, re-assign him as platonic gay/bi friend--which he is, in your mind's reality.
Plenty of men appreciate women, and LUV making personal connection of sharing expressions face-to-face during intimacy. A woman doesn't need someone in her life coming up with nonsense about why he needs to keep a distance; bearding to reach her brother. Don't bother asking dude, she' s uncomfortable with him, leave him alone. Don't volunteer for more disrespect or insecurity. Find someone who meets more (stereotypical male) needs that push the buttons she's comfortable with.
Bigger picture: disrespect; 'catty' comment by the guy is also stereotypical gay bashing women. No doubt gf's picking up signals about herself as a woman. Lack of personal connection w/her needs as a woman, stereotypical hetero missionary intimacy. Strictly doggie style is impersonal, porn-ish, male oriented. Begs the question, whose backside does he really want? Someone is failing to meet her needs to feel secure in her role in his life--whether fearing unknown competition or not. Validation.
from what i hear so far "he's attracted to men. i think she should start giving him a whole bunch of attention, admiring his masculinity. affection,attraction,compliments about what she likes about him and if he starts to push her away, or ignores her or dont really care then there might be a problem. maybe he wants to be admired by men instead.. not for being manly but the same way men admire women??? :( yeah i know you love him and care but this is a big problem in society so dnt feel sad
NO NEED FOR THE TALK, LET THAT QUEEN GO HUNNY TRUST ME!!!!! HE IS AS GAY AS A FLAVOR COLORED TOOTSIE ROLL!!!!!!!! WHAT MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED?!? WAITING FOR THE HORSE TO SPEAK?! YOU BETTA GET OFF THAT PINK PONY AND GO GET YOURSELF A BLACK STALLION!!!!!!
HELLOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE IS GAY AND USING HER AS A DAMN COVER-UP!!!!! AND THIS IS COMING FROM A GAY MAN THATS BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS 2011 LADIES STOP BEING SO DAMN NAIVE!!!!! AND ON TOP OF THAT HE IS A FAMING FLAMBUOYANT QUEEN!!! BI? PLEASE!!!!!! HE IS GAY AND USING HER AS A COVER UP!!! BIG UPS TO HER SISTER FOR GIVING HER THE HEADS UP!!!! HE IS GAY POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!!
No talks , no conversations, no guessing , leave that fucker NOW! No man is worth that kind of life. If he would lie and lead you on about that he will lie about anything, Ladies we are worth more than that and if there is a question in your mind .....STEP NOW!
Talk down about gay men to the guy she finds. or it will backfire. Now, once she know. Either smoothly confort him. If he lie then move on. She must accept that in order to really have a real loving relationship each must be open and honest. It not enough to tell your partner you were afraid they would leave When honestly they are not what you want in the first place. Don't hate, just go from there and find what you want and leave him behind. You will only make him happy if you leave.(cont.)
Take him on a day shopping with you. Be a bit loving as you walk the mall. like holding hands occassionaly giving him a kiss. What you are looking for is what men he pay attention to. If he is gay his type is in the mall and he will find them and they will find him. If she is sharp she will see it clearly. Its not over yet. Now that she know what type man he like. Then find that brother and put him to work on her man. Make sure he is someone that will report back to her. And make sure she(cont.)
condom. So, I say that to say this. Her last resort is to Fiend a Straight act DL Brother to approach him that knows what to do. Befriend him first and then introdued the idea of getting together. It must be smooth and he must not see it coming. His response will tell you whats going on. Guarenteed. This is important. Observe him and you will note the kind of men that he is attracted to. And that will be the kind that you seed to test him. How to find out what he is attracted to.(continued)
he is thinking of Adam and not Eve. He is invisioning his last encounter either from bending someone over or bending over or both. There are some men that wont even have sex with women without a condom and not out of fear of preg. But for safety. Those men would never dream of having sex with a man without a condom. Now there are those that hate condoms and don't use them. I say that to say this. Your friends life in waying in the balance because she don't know whether he is condom /no (cont.)
him instead of her. Now if she really want to know, and don't believe he will come clean.Then she should get an urge to play with his ass. during sex. If he resist. Mostly likely he is hidding an opening ass hole. meaning that her finger will just slid in with a little bit of spit. No this, No untaped ass is open. The are tight until they are opened. like a new rubber band or baloon. If he only get turned on by her rubbing his ass then there is something there. Trust me when he is(continued
is gay/bi or a dl faggot. He is hurting because he cannot live his life the way he want out of fear and the proof in that is all the little insenuations that come up. Trust me no straight man. And lets define a straight man will make such statements as she is not good enough for him. A straight man will see it the other way around. Like What the fuck is she doing with him. Also no straight man will even waste his time on such matters. What he is really saying is he wish it was (cont.)
Coming from a Straighi Man Who has been in the gay seane for a period of time in my life and Definately know a gay man when I see one. I can talk to a man for 10 min and know if he is Gay/bysexual. No I don't sleep with men. But I have paid really close attention to just about all types of men. Why Because I'm writting a book about DL/BS/HOMO/ and the FEMM man. even the FEMM man that is not gay or wouldn't think of sleeping with a man. So heres my response to you. If your friendsman(cont.)
I think it's bad when you know and don't do anything or say anything. If it's wrong to you, don't let him or her just get away with it. You have to be strong and let them know that you are aware of what they are. Even if you are with the program. One person aint going any farther than you let them go. This person is trying to keep the peace, but let me tell her, that guy is gonna hurt her in the end when HE decides which way HE wants to go. At least get him straight and go from there.
That guy seems like he is bi sexual or gay and pretty open with it, but a lot of guys are on the down low, not open and up front like her b/f though .. Very important for her and everyone to get tested .. Ladies yourself safe. Even if you think you are in a committed relationship, you never know.
Lol stop thinking in stereotypes. Just look at what he looks at. If he's looking at boys all the time, than you know. There is plenty of straight guys that wear girlish stuff, or do girly things.
Please don't take this wrong ladies....but yall can be some dumb creatures sometimes. Yall see with yall emotions and use very little logic. When you try to tell most females that their man might be DL....they go into instant denial and say no way not my man. Most dudes who are DL are usually very hard on gay dudes and they think that throws you females off their trail. They deflect by putting gays down alot. Most str8 dudes will not care nothing about it. Women STOP being vain and trust GOD.
alright 98.6% of all people would probably handle the situation in a less than perfect result even with assistance from youtube comments :P. besides, if he's bi its not really a big deal, especially if he aint even gonna be open about it. i think the best solution to this problem would be to host a giant roman orgy :D that would definately let everyone know what's what ;)
My man is striaght and I am bisexual and we good we have to togethere for 3 years:) In your situtation I guess she needs to confornt him and talk about it.
Yeah I think that nigga's gay myself, but the easiest way to find out is to get that nigga tipsy one night and get him into bed. After he dozes off, take out a deal doe and see how easy his ass accepts it. If he wakes up immediately then you're probably okay, but if that motherfucker goes up in that joint nice and smooth with not that much resistance, then of course you know what that means, that nigga is sweeter than a cup of sugar.
then again i understand the problem caus ehiv/aids is out there and high among al blacks.. ( im black too fyi ) ... but um.... men are dogs point blank.. imnto one im a good man but most are dogs.. but if he love her he will give up his habits and women and or men
A person actions such as likes in music and dancing dont make them "gay" or "straight" .. maybe if blacks actually BELIEVED IN STAYING TOGETHER RAISING A CHILD OTGETHER ALOT OF BLACK MEN WOULDNT BE SWEET OR BE FEM... its the father fault... Black weomen gossip a lil to much thats why those kind will die single and sad and lonely misery loves company
This is incredibly ignorant and playing on stereotypes, there is no clear cut way to know someone's sexuality by looking at there behaviour. Also, not all gay people act the same. This video does nothing but show the poster's ignorance towards the gay culture and should be removed as it is hurtful. I know many gay men who would be considered studs and many straight men who are feminine. Stop stereotyping.
@kingjonnyboy117 - grains of truth in stereotypes, when people want to represent themselves in a certain manner, they may use these 'signs' to communicate. When someone feels more comfortable ..the longer you're around them..the more who they are may show. Everybody doesn't embrace stereotypical behavior to rep themselves, but it's also true that minorities may let down their guard in a 'safe' zone. when people do not feel comfy or are not in a safe zone, they may elect to hide, avoid flags
I know someone who i originally thought was gay but he is bisexual. He is the out of town friend of a friend of mine who comes to town once a year and we all hang out during that time(the holiday season). This brother is masculine, in the military, has a lot going for himself. I found out through having conversation on my own with him that he still dates women and when i question the reason he says "I do whatever the fuck i want" How would address someone that has an attitude like that??
@theloyalone100 Wow...I wouldn't even know how to answer or even respond to such negativity. He's right...in a sense of doing whatever he wants! BUT...when you are dating the same sex and you think that opposite (lady friend) is not entitled for her own well-being, that is just low down dirty!!! That woman shld have every right to protect herself and this "nasty mofo" wanna be out there playing both sides!
communication is the key. date heavily before you marry. pay attention to clues. be friends first. go to church, ballgames, concerts, museums and on good walks. be kind to each other. spend a lot of time in bookstores and the library. discover each other. if a person is GAY it will show up. it may hurt at first, but love that person and excuse yourself from the relationship because you are fooling yourself. no need to be nasty at all.
Obama said it best!!! U can put lipstick on a pig but it's still a pig!!!! He's gay to tha 10th power!!! He's super gay with a cape on..... This type of thing is what gets black women jammed up!!! Don't no man call another man cute, that alone should've gave her the exit!!!! Ladies men give u all kinds of signs to let u know what kind of person they are from crazy to gay!! It's up to you to make that choice!!!!
Beyonce booty shaking? Her boyfriend commenting on her brothers looks? She has her man around her gay friends? Doggy style sex only? I think this girl already knows the answer, but choose to continue to be in denial.
Beautiful Black QUEENS ---We are contracting HIV at alarming rate.
I have a very handsome friend when women see him they turn into a FOOL. He uses that to his advantage because he doesn't want ppl to know that he is truley gay. Guess what he is HIV POSITIVE one woman went as far as saying I can change him. WOW you've got to be kidding lady!!!!! If you don't do anything LOVE YOURSELF sistah . IF they act like a duck or quack like a duck it usually is a duck.
Beautiful Black QUEENS ---We are contracting HIV at alarming rate.
I have a very handsome friend when women see him they turn into a FOOL. He uses that to his advantage because he doesn't want ppl to know that he is truley gay. Guess what he is HIV POSITIVE one woman went as far as saying I can change him. WOW you've got to be kidding lady!!!!! If you don't do anything LOVE YOURSELF sistah . IF they act like a duck or quack like a duck it usually is a duck.
after watching this video, it just made me laugh out loud. our community is full of shit and double standards. black men can't be happy, can't dance, be friends with anyone and yet black women talk about there are no good black men and the DL seems to have taken over to the point that you black women wanting to control what a man is or isn't. you don't want black men to date white women, i am just fucking lost!!
peep this: the writing is on the wall. don't ask don't tell? just set him up and spy cam the event. play the video back and see for yourself. never make him feel uncomfortable, that is plain mean. he will walk right into his gayness. don't hate him. just love him real nicely and dismiss him. easy said, easy done.
Damn there are some ignorant black woman here. Trust me, some of you dating that manly man, ya that manly man that don't act gay at all, he be all man, people call him the ladies man. The macho one, the thug, the father of your babies, ya that one, he be gay. trust me, he don't have to have sugar in walk to like suckin on the sugar cane. Okay now! ummm hmmmm. Trust me ladies, I know.
@kikicreamify -Female bashing stereotypically gay. Thugs who hide? some don't (aside. jailbird sex residue). Spectrums of sexuality among hetero, bi, gay groups. Ignorant, experienced, liars, hiders, cheaters, savvy, liars, vulgarians & sweethearts in all. 'Feminine' men who are hetero. However, add up the different flags someone uses to communicate identity...you won't find many hetero men wearing charm bracelets+commenting about men+bootyshakin..+gay/bi use clique codes to bond (snap)=female
Please excuse me, but I dread this happening to me... like others said.. IF YOU GOTTA ASK, OR QUESTION, it usually is.
Absolutely nothing against gays.. but I want my man to be 100% man and just all into me, Us woman have enough problem keeping other woman off our men, no we gotta worry about other MEN!... no thank you.
i have almost the same problem...my boyfriend was acting kinda wierd when we were out with my gay friend...i've thounght about it and there are 3 options: 1. he is gay and he likes my friend 2. he is jealous of my friend or 3. he wants to know if he's gay or straight or bi... the only way to know if the answer is 1,2 or 3 is conversation
Another thing, if your boyfriend likes other guys, it shouldn't be a problem if he has feelings and a sexual attraction to you. If he's a homophobe and you can tell he's attracted to guys than you can be sure he's entirely gay, but if he's okay with homosexuality, you can be sure he'd be open about being gay if he were. as long as he has sex with you and gets it up, you can be sure he's attracted to you.
This issue is most likely resolved, but none the less. The whole doggystyle thing is a big, BIG, stereotype for Gay men. We have the same positions as heterosexuals, so to say that just because he likes Doggystyle is a direct result to mean he is gay? That would be wrong. Just food for thought...
Why doesn't she just sit down with him and discuss the things shes been seeing, and ask him to his face. She'd be able to see if hes lying or not through his reaction and facial expression, as in he could go quiet, or really defensive. I like this video :) but by what you have said I think hes gay. x
maybe gay or just has these cards against him, unless you see him with another guy or he tells you i wouldnt assume or have the talk. he might change who he really is just to please you
she's not overreacting. Let me tell you something from experience, cuz I used to talk to some dude..who was gay. First of all, any little thing that a person does is not a little thing. These things come from somewhere and whenever you see something, don't forget it...ESP IF THEY'RE STARTING TO ADD UP LIKE WITH THIS GUY!! Clearly your friend does not feel comfortable anymore with her guy's actions and dispositions so she should let him know. He's going to get angry and you'll know whats up!
she should just be on the safe side and leave him alone....its hard to believe that its brothas out here on the "DL" but its very much true...and hate to say it but sum are infect contracting hiv...please tell her to think smart and be safe.
There are major signs that a dude is living an alternative lifestyle, "mainly bi these days but still wants to say he's 100% straight when they are clearly living in a glassed house. I know it is hard to believe, but women don't want to believe it. They are often fooled by the swag. It is your normal shit talking/ loud talking dude who charm females and collect numbers only "but really don't want them" and this keeps the heat off them. Oh and watch out for them kats with booty bigger than yours.
uh i hope shes not with him i had to go threw the same thing i was dating my best friend and found out that he had a boy on the side something should have told me dat wen his tv stayed on the disney channel station this idiot use to be sooo hype to watch the cheetah girls. and wen he gives me tips on my hair n on the way i dress dats wen i should have known so i found out he is bisexual... and yes the guy ur talking bout is either gay or bisexual or is a lil curious
LOL yeah this guy is definitely either bisexual BUT he seems like he's turning gay! I HATE THIS though because I am a bisexual male and I tell both men an women RIGHT OFF AT THE VERY BEGINNING that I'm bisexual. However, I'm the type of person who sticks with ONE and only ONE period! This guy is very gay though booty shaking lol I don't even do that.....
Nice video I thought you gave her a very good answer to have a talk with him and really get down to business on the subject, but as for your commenters...
Well you people are seriously acting like morons, you think just because someone is gay or bi that you should get tested? Get educated about the subject and you won't come across as dumbasses.
Ok im kinda young and with my experiences with gay people he just mite be bi or a metro or he may be confused or in denial... dont drop him because he may need somebody to be there for him but definitely get tested and just be there for him IF he is gay or bi but if hes metro he may need to drop the charm bracelet and the booty shaking :D
I think if hes showing gay qualities whether hes gay or not that alone is enuff to separate. Unless shes comfortable with random booty shaking and charm bracelets on her "man". It would b best for her to call it quits and say hes juss not what shes looking for
What should she do? Break up with him and GET TESTED ASAP.
There are TOO many signs that he's playing for the "other team". Just because he's in the closet, doesn't mean that SHE needs to be as well. Be honest. Face the facts. GET TESTED!
@billwenham Beats me. The video isn't about cheating, neither was my post. People in relationships (or people who THINK they are in relationships) should get tested too!
@bengalsonly1fan Who says they didn't when they started their relationship? All these comments about getting tested though implies that someone who is a homosexual is promiscuous. Also, why did you say she should get tested? You singled her out. You didn't say they should get tested. Why is that? Exactly.
@billwenham Do you know these people? I don't. Just giving my two cents which I'm entitled to do. Not once did I say nor imply that homosexuals are promiscuous. I said she should get tested because that's what I think she should do since she is questioning whether or not he truly wants to be with her. I didn't know that advising someone to get tested was bad advice.
@bengalsonly1fan When you say she should get tested, and not him, you are implying that he is promiscuous. Which has nothing to do with the video. It's about questioning his sexuality. Even if he is not heterosexual, but in fact homosexual, that does not mean he doesn't want to be with her or that he's not faithful to her. The video wasn't questioning if he wants to be with her. He is with her. The girl in question just is questioning his sexuality. That's it. You've missed the point completely.
@bengalsonly1fan Sure, you can reply any way you want - I didn't know we were questioning that. Getting tested, as so many others have suggested, was not the point of the video. But it does imply an odd train of thought.
OMG! my ex dumped me 2weeks ago nd he was lyk that he only liked doggy style he only ever wantid to do it up the ass i tryd it nd dint lyk it he allso dancis round nd points out all the bad things on me and we allways argue nd he gets bitchy then he told me he was gay on weds it was so hard 4 me cuz i was gna try nd get him bk now i cant he told me i do nothin 4 him no1 dose get rid of ur bf be4 u get pregnant he tearns compleatly gay nd ur child has 2 go skl gettin picked ok 4 avin a gay dad :(
we live in a world of AIDS so NO I don't believe she is over reacting. this is her life she must take into consideration. if it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck....need I say more?
He is gay! In Brokeback Mountain the dude only liked to do it doggy style with his wife. As my father always use to say, you know a real man, there aint no questions. If you have to ask....there it is! Move on gurl!
@faibe7 bitch, what the fuck are you saying? gay men aren't real men? you're a stupid bitch. you're just as much a homophobic as the sweat down your daddy's ass crack.
i think she should have a talk with her man...i think he might be bi, gay or confused, i just don't believe he is straight...it really up to her on how she want to handle the situation...but you are right how can a women compete with a man? (I would let that one go) She should do the booty test to see how far he would let her go
Ask him.
KaliTP83 1 week ago
I am so sick of all the men hooking up with each other. We woman need some love too; soon there will be no more men left; then what are we going to do ladies? I really wish some men will just be real with a woman and let her know "I LIKE MEN IM GAY! Im a victim of a down low man and he showed no signs that he was gay we talked about marriage kids having a family everything you could think a woman would want. And it turned out he was having sex with transexuals while dating me.Im still shock
queenie493 3 weeks ago
HE IS GAY!!!!!!!!! charm bracelet really
takltome 1 month ago
Wait, bi? If he were bi, it wouldn't matter, because bisexual guys still like women. That's the "bi" part. It's definitely not the same as being gay.
To the "ignorant" comments: If she were basing her suspicions on him being a little feminine, yeah, it'd be pretty ignorant. HOWEVER, if he's blatantly making eyes at guys AND fits into the gay stereotype, it's not ignorant to wonder if he's gay. It's common sense.
alexshortforalex 1 month ago
LIKE YOU SAID, YOU WOULD ASK HIM IF YOU WERE IN HER SITUATION. WHY DON'T SHE JUST BE A WOMAN AND TAKE A STAND. IF HE IS GAY SHE IS IN A NO WIN SITUATION, BECAUSE IF HE IS PLAYING FOR THE OTHER TEAM...SHE CAN'T COMPETE WITH A MAN. HE SOUND LIKE HE HAS A SWEET TOOTH TO ME, BUT YOUR FRIEND IS WRONG FOR NOT HAVING THIS DISCUSSION WITH HIM SINCE THEY ARE THE ONES IN THE RELATIONSHIP. SOME MEN COULD HAVE FEM WAYS AND NOT BE GAY. WOMEN BECOME VICTIMS OF STD'S WHEN THEY THINK A HARD MAN IS STRAIGHT.
PLAYDIRTY1000 1 month ago
It depends on how much she loves him. If she loves him, then stick with it, if it comes out that he is gay, then deal with it at that time & be happy and thankful for the good times they shared together. If he is straight, who's to say they might get in a fight & break up, or they could get married and live happily ever after. Whatever you do, Support whatever he is and love each other, even if you go separate ways, you could have a great friend for life.
robertrayeinusa 1 month ago
i think its so funny when girls day such flamers and come on the internet are make threads on forums like "i think my boyfriend is gay :("
staceymp0wnz 1 month ago
I see where she is coming from but this video is pretty ignorant. Everyone has something that floats their boat even he may like charm bracelets or is comfortable with other gay people that doesn't mean he is gay. If his girlfriend does feel he is gay then she shouldnt be talkng to anyone but him about it and if she dislikes him based off of her assumptions then she should leave instead of telling her business to the world
jasmineheaven2 1 month ago
I had the same feelings about my ex-husband & when I asked he denied it. Well after 4 yrs of marital HELL it came out that he WAS gay. I was devastated. A womans intuition is almost never wrong. My advice 2 her is 4 her 2 listen 2 that little voice in her head. God may be trying 2 warn her. Trust me, that's pain u don't ever want 2 experience. It's been 11 yrs & it still hurts.
vaustin2 1 month ago
Here man us not bi ya he's gay ass fuck.I mean so gay he can sit on a loly pop and know the cloer.oookk and she should grow up and love here self and know that she would never put here self in such a bad moment and know that she is better then that.and that maby it's not time for him to come the fuck up.it when he's found I'm self.and it's ok that you man likes booty from men's just let him go that way you can have a real nice gay that will do you like he should.
Yogilatino 2 months ago
Don't settle for someone pushing boundaries where you settle for a bi/guy degrading your sense of self worth, disrespecting you as a woman. In a twisted world, this guy may deem himself the equivalent of her brother--and she's the equivalent of the other woman--not good enough for his booty shaking ass, basically competing with her, thinking he's better. Draw the line. Get him out of your bed. If you're hetero, re-assign him as platonic gay/bi friend--which he is, in your mind's reality.
snickersnafu 3 months ago
Plenty of men appreciate women, and LUV making personal connection of sharing expressions face-to-face during intimacy. A woman doesn't need someone in her life coming up with nonsense about why he needs to keep a distance; bearding to reach her brother. Don't bother asking dude, she' s uncomfortable with him, leave him alone. Don't volunteer for more disrespect or insecurity. Find someone who meets more (stereotypical male) needs that push the buttons she's comfortable with.
snickersnafu 3 months ago
Bigger picture: disrespect; 'catty' comment by the guy is also stereotypical gay bashing women. No doubt gf's picking up signals about herself as a woman. Lack of personal connection w/her needs as a woman, stereotypical hetero missionary intimacy. Strictly doggie style is impersonal, porn-ish, male oriented. Begs the question, whose backside does he really want? Someone is failing to meet her needs to feel secure in her role in his life--whether fearing unknown competition or not. Validation.
snickersnafu 3 months ago
Not gonna lie I booty shake
HipsterCatsWithTats 3 months ago
from what i hear so far "he's attracted to men. i think she should start giving him a whole bunch of attention, admiring his masculinity. affection,attraction,compliments about what she likes about him and if he starts to push her away, or ignores her or dont really care then there might be a problem. maybe he wants to be admired by men instead.. not for being manly but the same way men admire women??? :( yeah i know you love him and care but this is a big problem in society so dnt feel sad
r82006me 3 months ago
NO NEED FOR THE TALK, LET THAT QUEEN GO HUNNY TRUST ME!!!!! HE IS AS GAY AS A FLAVOR COLORED TOOTSIE ROLL!!!!!!!! WHAT MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED?!? WAITING FOR THE HORSE TO SPEAK?! YOU BETTA GET OFF THAT PINK PONY AND GO GET YOURSELF A BLACK STALLION!!!!!!
bubba198706 3 months ago
HELLOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE IS GAY AND USING HER AS A DAMN COVER-UP!!!!! AND THIS IS COMING FROM A GAY MAN THATS BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS 2011 LADIES STOP BEING SO DAMN NAIVE!!!!! AND ON TOP OF THAT HE IS A FAMING FLAMBUOYANT QUEEN!!! BI? PLEASE!!!!!! HE IS GAY AND USING HER AS A COVER UP!!! BIG UPS TO HER SISTER FOR GIVING HER THE HEADS UP!!!! HE IS GAY POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!!
bubba198706 3 months ago
Can you please give a update on this!!!!!!!!!
rissa9166 4 months ago
No talks , no conversations, no guessing , leave that fucker NOW! No man is worth that kind of life. If he would lie and lead you on about that he will lie about anything, Ladies we are worth more than that and if there is a question in your mind .....STEP NOW!
4evablackdiamonds 4 months ago
Omg...Now I want to see a picture of her friends boyfriend!
MsMopore 4 months ago
Ask him if he wants to have a three way with another guy, if he says yes then he's definitely gay.
twinkie13st 5 months ago 3
More can be said but that is enough. Now start at my first post and readback to this one. This is the end of my message.
From Honeysweet9 to your sister. Much Love.
honeysweet9 5 months ago
Talk down about gay men to the guy she finds. or it will backfire. Now, once she know. Either smoothly confort him. If he lie then move on. She must accept that in order to really have a real loving relationship each must be open and honest. It not enough to tell your partner you were afraid they would leave When honestly they are not what you want in the first place. Don't hate, just go from there and find what you want and leave him behind. You will only make him happy if you leave.(cont.)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
Take him on a day shopping with you. Be a bit loving as you walk the mall. like holding hands occassionaly giving him a kiss. What you are looking for is what men he pay attention to. If he is gay his type is in the mall and he will find them and they will find him. If she is sharp she will see it clearly. Its not over yet. Now that she know what type man he like. Then find that brother and put him to work on her man. Make sure he is someone that will report back to her. And make sure she(cont.)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
condom. So, I say that to say this. Her last resort is to Fiend a Straight act DL Brother to approach him that knows what to do. Befriend him first and then introdued the idea of getting together. It must be smooth and he must not see it coming. His response will tell you whats going on. Guarenteed. This is important. Observe him and you will note the kind of men that he is attracted to. And that will be the kind that you seed to test him. How to find out what he is attracted to.(continued)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
he is thinking of Adam and not Eve. He is invisioning his last encounter either from bending someone over or bending over or both. There are some men that wont even have sex with women without a condom and not out of fear of preg. But for safety. Those men would never dream of having sex with a man without a condom. Now there are those that hate condoms and don't use them. I say that to say this. Your friends life in waying in the balance because she don't know whether he is condom /no (cont.)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
him instead of her. Now if she really want to know, and don't believe he will come clean.Then she should get an urge to play with his ass. during sex. If he resist. Mostly likely he is hidding an opening ass hole. meaning that her finger will just slid in with a little bit of spit. No this, No untaped ass is open. The are tight until they are opened. like a new rubber band or baloon. If he only get turned on by her rubbing his ass then there is something there. Trust me when he is(continued
honeysweet9 5 months ago
is gay/bi or a dl faggot. He is hurting because he cannot live his life the way he want out of fear and the proof in that is all the little insenuations that come up. Trust me no straight man. And lets define a straight man will make such statements as she is not good enough for him. A straight man will see it the other way around. Like What the fuck is she doing with him. Also no straight man will even waste his time on such matters. What he is really saying is he wish it was (cont.)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
Coming from a Straighi Man Who has been in the gay seane for a period of time in my life and Definately know a gay man when I see one. I can talk to a man for 10 min and know if he is Gay/bysexual. No I don't sleep with men. But I have paid really close attention to just about all types of men. Why Because I'm writting a book about DL/BS/HOMO/ and the FEMM man. even the FEMM man that is not gay or wouldn't think of sleeping with a man. So heres my response to you. If your friendsman(cont.)
honeysweet9 5 months ago
I think it's bad when you know and don't do anything or say anything. If it's wrong to you, don't let him or her just get away with it. You have to be strong and let them know that you are aware of what they are. Even if you are with the program. One person aint going any farther than you let them go. This person is trying to keep the peace, but let me tell her, that guy is gonna hurt her in the end when HE decides which way HE wants to go. At least get him straight and go from there.
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funsweettreats35 5 months ago
hes definetly gay
wwerockaustinhhh 6 months ago
Maybe hes not into fat bitches
TeeEye84Plus 6 months ago
"Fuck that nigga that you think you found, he will take a dick when you are not around" *in my drake voice* lol
choklatgoddess88 6 months ago
That guy seems like he is bi sexual or gay and pretty open with it, but a lot of guys are on the down low, not open and up front like her b/f though .. Very important for her and everyone to get tested .. Ladies yourself safe. Even if you think you are in a committed relationship, you never know.
MichelleJ817 6 months ago
i love your hair and your nail GOOD VIDEO I LIKED IT
babygirl200922 6 months ago
TELL HER I'AM SORRY BUT HER BOYFRIEND IS A FAG!!!!
leviboyce803 6 months ago
Lol stop thinking in stereotypes. Just look at what he looks at. If he's looking at boys all the time, than you know. There is plenty of straight guys that wear girlish stuff, or do girly things.
laustudie 6 months ago
hey is very gay . she should end the relationship because he is using her as a cover. She needs to be with a straight man not a confuse man .
sabrinatai31 7 months ago
I think if she have that kind of question she must left him.
REVY25 7 months ago
I think he may be gay...
LaFemmesasa 7 months ago
Please don't take this wrong ladies....but yall can be some dumb creatures sometimes. Yall see with yall emotions and use very little logic. When you try to tell most females that their man might be DL....they go into instant denial and say no way not my man. Most dudes who are DL are usually very hard on gay dudes and they think that throws you females off their trail. They deflect by putting gays down alot. Most str8 dudes will not care nothing about it. Women STOP being vain and trust GOD.
READY4REVELATION 7 months ago
alright 98.6% of all people would probably handle the situation in a less than perfect result even with assistance from youtube comments :P. besides, if he's bi its not really a big deal, especially if he aint even gonna be open about it. i think the best solution to this problem would be to host a giant roman orgy :D that would definately let everyone know what's what ;)
HellKitsune69 8 months ago
My man is striaght and I am bisexual and we good we have to togethere for 3 years:) In your situtation I guess she needs to confornt him and talk about it.
MsChubbypanda 8 months ago
Yeah I think that nigga's gay myself, but the easiest way to find out is to get that nigga tipsy one night and get him into bed. After he dozes off, take out a deal doe and see how easy his ass accepts it. If he wakes up immediately then you're probably okay, but if that motherfucker goes up in that joint nice and smooth with not that much resistance, then of course you know what that means, that nigga is sweeter than a cup of sugar.
cthluthlu 9 months ago
@cthluthlu Are you for real? Straight men like anal, straight women like anal, gay women like anal, and plenty of gay men do NOT like anal.
AnachronisticAlien 9 months ago 2
thats a good lacefront!!!
bigtasty210 9 months ago
then again i understand the problem caus ehiv/aids is out there and high among al blacks.. ( im black too fyi ) ... but um.... men are dogs point blank.. imnto one im a good man but most are dogs.. but if he love her he will give up his habits and women and or men
playboyquan 10 months ago
A person actions such as likes in music and dancing dont make them "gay" or "straight" .. maybe if blacks actually BELIEVED IN STAYING TOGETHER RAISING A CHILD OTGETHER ALOT OF BLACK MEN WOULDNT BE SWEET OR BE FEM... its the father fault... Black weomen gossip a lil to much thats why those kind will die single and sad and lonely misery loves company
playboyquan 10 months ago
This is incredibly ignorant and playing on stereotypes, there is no clear cut way to know someone's sexuality by looking at there behaviour. Also, not all gay people act the same. This video does nothing but show the poster's ignorance towards the gay culture and should be removed as it is hurtful. I know many gay men who would be considered studs and many straight men who are feminine. Stop stereotyping.
kingjonnyboy117 10 months ago 13
@kingjonnyboy117 - grains of truth in stereotypes, when people want to represent themselves in a certain manner, they may use these 'signs' to communicate. When someone feels more comfortable ..the longer you're around them..the more who they are may show. Everybody doesn't embrace stereotypical behavior to rep themselves, but it's also true that minorities may let down their guard in a 'safe' zone. when people do not feel comfy or are not in a safe zone, they may elect to hide, avoid flags
snickersnafu 3 months ago
my x had me thinking he was so shit i dumped him better single than sorry yuck
kayhollywood92 10 months ago
shawty u fine as hell…and your wig is on point
nessserious 10 months ago
I know someone who i originally thought was gay but he is bisexual. He is the out of town friend of a friend of mine who comes to town once a year and we all hang out during that time(the holiday season). This brother is masculine, in the military, has a lot going for himself. I found out through having conversation on my own with him that he still dates women and when i question the reason he says "I do whatever the fuck i want" How would address someone that has an attitude like that??
theloyalone100 10 months ago
@theloyalone100 Wow...I wouldn't even know how to answer or even respond to such negativity. He's right...in a sense of doing whatever he wants! BUT...when you are dating the same sex and you think that opposite (lady friend) is not entitled for her own well-being, that is just low down dirty!!! That woman shld have every right to protect herself and this "nasty mofo" wanna be out there playing both sides!
cindypltnm 10 months ago
communication is the key. date heavily before you marry. pay attention to clues. be friends first. go to church, ballgames, concerts, museums and on good walks. be kind to each other. spend a lot of time in bookstores and the library. discover each other. if a person is GAY it will show up. it may hurt at first, but love that person and excuse yourself from the relationship because you are fooling yourself. no need to be nasty at all.
AveolarD 11 months ago
Obama said it best!!! U can put lipstick on a pig but it's still a pig!!!! He's gay to tha 10th power!!! He's super gay with a cape on..... This type of thing is what gets black women jammed up!!! Don't no man call another man cute, that alone should've gave her the exit!!!! Ladies men give u all kinds of signs to let u know what kind of person they are from crazy to gay!! It's up to you to make that choice!!!!
kalolemar 11 months ago
I would Not Believe What No One sezAbout MyFiance I Would Watch For Myself And If I See Feminend Ways Then It Time For Us To Have A Talk
prateranita 11 months ago
Well, I will put it this way...
If she gets married to this guy, it is her own fault because she is going into it with eyes WIDE OPEN!!!
How many warnings does she need?
LauraBeachnut 11 months ago 4
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He's gay !!!!!
msprettybrowneyes10 11 months ago
BISEXUAL
ifunanya24 11 months ago
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA !!!!! HA-HA-HA-HA ... HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! HOOO ! WUH-HA-HA WHOO!!!! TEE HEE HEE ! SHEEEEEEEEEEE-IT !
JUSTREADMYBOOK 11 months ago
Beyonce booty shaking? Her boyfriend commenting on her brothers looks? She has her man around her gay friends? Doggy style sex only? I think this girl already knows the answer, but choose to continue to be in denial.
MrJuly1990ish 11 months ago 3
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RealDealCards 1 year ago
Girl, your man is gay. Very much so. Just let it go if you can't hang. Too many other sexy, fine, gorgeous men in the world. Have fun!
shinjitsu85 1 year ago
a man comfortable with himself is considered gay? No wonder many black women are single...Ignorance and judging will keep u single forever.
ChocMami 1 year ago
after watching this video, it just made me laugh out loud. our community is full of shit and double standards. black men can't be happy, can't dance, be friends with anyone and yet black women talk about there are no good black men and the DL seems to have taken over to the point that you black women wanting to control what a man is or isn't. you don't want black men to date white women, i am just fucking lost!!
mrsidney38 1 year ago
peep this: the writing is on the wall. don't ask don't tell? just set him up and spy cam the event. play the video back and see for yourself. never make him feel uncomfortable, that is plain mean. he will walk right into his gayness. don't hate him. just love him real nicely and dismiss him. easy said, easy done.
AveolarD 1 year ago
walk like a duck, quack like a duck, girrrrrrrrrrrrrl you betta.............
AveolarD 1 year ago 2
...probably
dabestgirl 1 year ago
Damn there are some ignorant black woman here. Trust me, some of you dating that manly man, ya that manly man that don't act gay at all, he be all man, people call him the ladies man. The macho one, the thug, the father of your babies, ya that one, he be gay. trust me, he don't have to have sugar in walk to like suckin on the sugar cane. Okay now! ummm hmmmm. Trust me ladies, I know.
kikicreamify 1 year ago 40
damn right @kikicreamify
macron12 8 months ago
@kikicreamify girl u sound like this happened to you! i sure as hell no it happened to me!
ThatSims2Maniac 5 months ago
@kikicreamify -Female bashing stereotypically gay. Thugs who hide? some don't (aside. jailbird sex residue). Spectrums of sexuality among hetero, bi, gay groups. Ignorant, experienced, liars, hiders, cheaters, savvy, liars, vulgarians & sweethearts in all. 'Feminine' men who are hetero. However, add up the different flags someone uses to communicate identity...you won't find many hetero men wearing charm bracelets+commenting about men+bootyshakin..+gay/bi use clique codes to bond (snap)=female
snickersnafu 3 months ago
definitely should talk to him as well as follow her gut...oooowwweeee
SAMMIESURRENDER 1 year ago
gay...
mrsprettybarbie 1 year ago
Please excuse me, but I dread this happening to me... like others said.. IF YOU GOTTA ASK, OR QUESTION, it usually is.
Absolutely nothing against gays.. but I want my man to be 100% man and just all into me, Us woman have enough problem keeping other woman off our men, no we gotta worry about other MEN!... no thank you.
sokewt 1 year ago
He's gay !!!!!
PeppermintPatty0630 1 year ago
i have almost the same problem...my boyfriend was acting kinda wierd when we were out with my gay friend...i've thounght about it and there are 3 options: 1. he is gay and he likes my friend 2. he is jealous of my friend or 3. he wants to know if he's gay or straight or bi... the only way to know if the answer is 1,2 or 3 is conversation
VirtualGirl92 1 year ago
How did u did ur hair on this videos
UPTHOTTEST 1 year ago
I THINK THEY SHOULD HAVE THE TALK...BUT FR REAL I THINK HES BI...OR GAY WHICH IS OKAY BUT HE NEEDS TO BE REAL WITH HER...
ANDRIALANDERSON 1 year ago
this guy is gay in my opinion. but she should ask before leaping.
nyncblue 1 year ago
GAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feenyjai53 1 year ago
she should get her a girlfriend
trq155 1 year ago
Another thing, if your boyfriend likes other guys, it shouldn't be a problem if he has feelings and a sexual attraction to you. If he's a homophobe and you can tell he's attracted to guys than you can be sure he's entirely gay, but if he's okay with homosexuality, you can be sure he'd be open about being gay if he were. as long as he has sex with you and gets it up, you can be sure he's attracted to you.
imfunnyreally100 1 year ago
This issue is most likely resolved, but none the less. The whole doggystyle thing is a big, BIG, stereotype for Gay men. We have the same positions as heterosexuals, so to say that just because he likes Doggystyle is a direct result to mean he is gay? That would be wrong. Just food for thought...
GloriusSingSong 1 year ago
@GloriusSingSong He wont have sex while looking at her face is the problem lol
jjg35 1 year ago
he is ay no doubt about that. they should talk cause no straight guy would do any of those things.
gregoryin07 1 year ago
Hell yes, hes gay......Really I mean REALLY....open up ur eyes. Yes he is !!!!
Lovpin 1 year ago
How many red flags do you need?
kdnbella 1 year ago
Dame it just seems like u talk 2 dame much lol.
1976tech 1 year ago
Yes. Apparently he is bi-sexual.
kbeautylicious 1 year ago
TTTTHE MOTHAFUCKINGASSBITCH IS gayyyy
shandia16 1 year ago
hes gay send him my way
g3org13music 1 year ago
Well look at her she looks ike a dragqueen hmmmmmmmmmm so who is she talking about .
tylercnnn 1 year ago
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tyananatehoward 1 year ago
Why doesn't she just sit down with him and discuss the things shes been seeing, and ask him to his face. She'd be able to see if hes lying or not through his reaction and facial expression, as in he could go quiet, or really defensive. I like this video :) but by what you have said I think hes gay. x
LauraL3716 1 year ago
hey i got a problem i wanna get a boyfreind
shyshy000 1 year ago
@shyshy000 ill be ur bf
4598232 1 year ago
@4598232 oh haha funny;) i already have one
shyshy000 1 year ago
hey i got a problem i wanna get a boyfreind
shyshy000 1 year ago
maybe gay or just has these cards against him, unless you see him with another guy or he tells you i wouldnt assume or have the talk. he might change who he really is just to please you
tawmio334 1 year ago
she's not overreacting. Let me tell you something from experience, cuz I used to talk to some dude..who was gay. First of all, any little thing that a person does is not a little thing. These things come from somewhere and whenever you see something, don't forget it...ESP IF THEY'RE STARTING TO ADD UP LIKE WITH THIS GUY!! Clearly your friend does not feel comfortable anymore with her guy's actions and dispositions so she should let him know. He's going to get angry and you'll know whats up!
beki784 1 year ago
you look like my 12th grade english teacher
Vietnamemperor12346 1 year ago
ok he's gay
Glamchic01 1 year ago
As the lady said go with your gut and if your gut says he is gay bi on the dl - believe it
then trust and love yourself enough to insist on a condom it will save your life
silentfades 1 year ago
you lookin good
mybnz190 1 year ago
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LCSALL 1 year ago
man, dat negga a FRUITCAKE period..
malik2010ism 1 year ago
she should just be on the safe side and leave him alone....its hard to believe that its brothas out here on the "DL" but its very much true...and hate to say it but sum are infect contracting hiv...please tell her to think smart and be safe.
buckleyb17 1 year ago
guess what? i just found out my boyfriend is GAY, yippee. T_T
cubehead978 1 year ago
There are major signs that a dude is living an alternative lifestyle, "mainly bi these days but still wants to say he's 100% straight when they are clearly living in a glassed house. I know it is hard to believe, but women don't want to believe it. They are often fooled by the swag. It is your normal shit talking/ loud talking dude who charm females and collect numbers only "but really don't want them" and this keeps the heat off them. Oh and watch out for them kats with booty bigger than yours.
paglioccimusic 1 year ago
her boyfriend is gay
AnimeLoversMI 1 year ago
My boyfriend and I just looveee you! hahaha c:
DeathToPickles 1 year ago
is that a lace wig? u look great
eveluvcb 1 year ago
He's Hella Gay Or Bi
BreeeBabiee 1 year ago
he fruity in da bootyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
loverzhighway 1 year ago
that stuff about compitition works both way...
Jeffyfolife 1 year ago
OMG HE IS SOOOO GAY
Mommylonglegs09 1 year ago
my bf is bi and i had the talk with him about it and he told me by face. just have the talk
buttonxxxx 1 year ago
Oooooo HE'S GAY !!!
LaRinaEbonyEyes 1 year ago
on to the next one....if you have to ask you know the answer
Leta589 1 year ago 20
So gay, i'm sorry.
RachelRani 1 year ago
He's probly Bi
mastervictor123 1 year ago
uh i hope shes not with him i had to go threw the same thing i was dating my best friend and found out that he had a boy on the side something should have told me dat wen his tv stayed on the disney channel station this idiot use to be sooo hype to watch the cheetah girls. and wen he gives me tips on my hair n on the way i dress dats wen i should have known so i found out he is bisexual... and yes the guy ur talking bout is either gay or bisexual or is a lil curious
jimora16 1 year ago
LOL yeah this guy is definitely either bisexual BUT he seems like he's turning gay! I HATE THIS though because I am a bisexual male and I tell both men an women RIGHT OFF AT THE VERY BEGINNING that I'm bisexual. However, I'm the type of person who sticks with ONE and only ONE period! This guy is very gay though booty shaking lol I don't even do that.....
MrSexxxy20 1 year ago 2
Nice video I thought you gave her a very good answer to have a talk with him and really get down to business on the subject, but as for your commenters...
Well you people are seriously acting like morons, you think just because someone is gay or bi that you should get tested? Get educated about the subject and you won't come across as dumbasses.
dummbatz48 1 year ago
You look like Ciara right here.
Your hair is too Beautiful right here!
MuzikleLyric 1 year ago
ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Solana8 1 year ago
She needs to trust her instincts! He's probably gay, time to move on. They can be friends, but they shouldn't be lovers.
cutebrownbabe159 1 year ago
Ok im kinda young and with my experiences with gay people he just mite be bi or a metro or he may be confused or in denial... dont drop him because he may need somebody to be there for him but definitely get tested and just be there for him IF he is gay or bi but if hes metro he may need to drop the charm bracelet and the booty shaking :D
martykaver 1 year ago
I love the way you answered this question. You sounded very sophisticated, and me being gay and always being around gay people, he is gay.. =)
ohitzjeremy 1 year ago
Dude is GAY! Get an H.I.V test and get away from him. Usually your gut feeling is correct. By the way,you are smoking hot!!
mbsunlimited 1 year ago
That ni**a is Juicy Fruit Basket.
Brownocean 1 year ago
Asap get tested yes he is gay
myadestiny99 1 year ago
I think if hes showing gay qualities whether hes gay or not that alone is enuff to separate. Unless shes comfortable with random booty shaking and charm bracelets on her "man". It would b best for her to call it quits and say hes juss not what shes looking for
thedymound 1 year ago
Is he gay? Yes
What should she do? Break up with him and GET TESTED ASAP.
There are TOO many signs that he's playing for the "other team". Just because he's in the closet, doesn't mean that SHE needs to be as well. Be honest. Face the facts. GET TESTED!
mannrogers 1 year ago
@mannrogers I love how everyone on here assumes that just because he might be gay she automatically needs to get tested.
billwenham 1 year ago
@billwenham
Ugh so many of these commenters are just posting uneducated bullshit and acting like gay or bi people are dirty.
dummbatz48 1 year ago
@dummbatz48 I've noticed. *frowns*
billwenham 1 year ago
@billwenham She needs to get tested whether he's gay, straight, bisexual, trisexual or whatever. HIV and AIDS doesn't discriminate.
bengalsonly1fan 1 year ago
@bengalsonly1fan Where in the video was it said she was being cheated on?
billwenham 1 year ago
@billwenham Beats me. The video isn't about cheating, neither was my post. People in relationships (or people who THINK they are in relationships) should get tested too!
bengalsonly1fan 1 year ago
@bengalsonly1fan Who says they didn't when they started their relationship? All these comments about getting tested though implies that someone who is a homosexual is promiscuous. Also, why did you say she should get tested? You singled her out. You didn't say they should get tested. Why is that? Exactly.
billwenham 1 year ago
@billwenham Do you know these people? I don't. Just giving my two cents which I'm entitled to do. Not once did I say nor imply that homosexuals are promiscuous. I said she should get tested because that's what I think she should do since she is questioning whether or not he truly wants to be with her. I didn't know that advising someone to get tested was bad advice.
bengalsonly1fan 1 year ago
@bengalsonly1fan When you say she should get tested, and not him, you are implying that he is promiscuous. Which has nothing to do with the video. It's about questioning his sexuality. Even if he is not heterosexual, but in fact homosexual, that does not mean he doesn't want to be with her or that he's not faithful to her. The video wasn't questioning if he wants to be with her. He is with her. The girl in question just is questioning his sexuality. That's it. You've missed the point completely.
billwenham 1 year ago
@billwenham And you've missed this point: I can post and reply any way I want to. You have a great day. This ends our e-argument ☺
bengalsonly1fan 1 year ago
@bengalsonly1fan Sure, you can reply any way you want - I didn't know we were questioning that. Getting tested, as so many others have suggested, was not the point of the video. But it does imply an odd train of thought.
billwenham 1 year ago
clutching my pearls ! You better RUN bitch! Don't grab anything. Silly ass female. He was GAY at the charm bracelet.
MsDivaJonelle 1 year ago
yea, he's gay no doubt. if my man ever starts doin the "booty shake" or says my brothers is "too cute" for his girlfriend.....i'm quitin him
MsSourNSweet 1 year ago
OMG! my ex dumped me 2weeks ago nd he was lyk that he only liked doggy style he only ever wantid to do it up the ass i tryd it nd dint lyk it he allso dancis round nd points out all the bad things on me and we allways argue nd he gets bitchy then he told me he was gay on weds it was so hard 4 me cuz i was gna try nd get him bk now i cant he told me i do nothin 4 him no1 dose get rid of ur bf be4 u get pregnant he tearns compleatly gay nd ur child has 2 go skl gettin picked ok 4 avin a gay dad :(
gibbonatior2k7 1 year ago
I'd like to know, I'm going through the same frickin' thang!!
sweetmisvixen 1 year ago
She should just follow her heart. if she is seeing the signs listen to them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
vandi135 1 year ago
This girl is being too hopeful! He wants a dude! The girl can't cut it for him.
OptimisticHIVictim 1 year ago
we live in a world of AIDS so NO I don't believe she is over reacting. this is her life she must take into consideration. if it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck....need I say more?
MsKittenz1 1 year ago
follow ur heart
tricey4chris 1 year ago
I believe scientists have already identified his like as homoerectus gayasfuckus.
blueprophet9 1 year ago
HE IS gay
kristiana9898 1 year ago
He is gay! In Brokeback Mountain the dude only liked to do it doggy style with his wife. As my father always use to say, you know a real man, there aint no questions. If you have to ask....there it is! Move on gurl!
faibe7 1 year ago 13
@faibe7 omg my man comes doogy stule only ... he's gay!! well i had the doubt!!!
ezyccn30 1 year ago
@faibe7 Yes because Brokeback Mountain is the definitive movie when it comes to homosexuals.................................
billwenham 1 year ago
@faibe7 bitch, what the fuck are you saying? gay men aren't real men? you're a stupid bitch. you're just as much a homophobic as the sweat down your daddy's ass crack.
imfunnyreally100 1 year ago
i think she should have a talk with her man...i think he might be bi, gay or confused, i just don't believe he is straight...it really up to her on how she want to handle the situation...but you are right how can a women compete with a man? (I would let that one go) She should do the booty test to see how far he would let her go
luvnmoi23 1 year ago
omg hahaha and she cant tell he is gay
SuperNewhorizon 1 year ago
The you can get it eye! Yes I think he is gay but you always have them down low brothas that you cant tell they only get caught!
MsEthnicBeauty 1 year ago
That nigga gay yo. Charm braclet? Only doggy? Every real man loves to be rode. If he listens to any Lil Wayne or 50 cent. I'd say he's 100% gay.
Besides he said your brother was cute. Gay.
therealmikebrown 1 year ago
y is she even ask u that, she know that fool is a doo-doo chaser she need to pack her shit and gooo!!!!!
sssfield 1 year ago
She should have the gay friends test him to verify his sexuality.
jholleyjr2 1 year ago
wooooooooooooooooooo honey! booty shakin, charm bracelets and doggystyle!?!?
in the first place honey if she has to question it then he must be.
charm bracelt?....really???!
colormepinkkk 1 year ago