Re: How To Find True Love

[EquinoxShane]

@Thefishsnacks I'm also 18 and I feel the same, I'm still not 100% sure with my inner feelings on things, and when you really want love I think first you need to know yourself fully and accept who you are, like for me there's some feelings I reject and need to get out (from many bad things in my life). Also there's always love for the type of person/personality you are, I think at 18 it would be best to find true love later in life.

[TheIntunecatu]

ur cute

[basharrimawiful]

your amazing true lover ..i wish every woman or a girl is like you god bless you everything u said was right though :)

[ShatteredMoon96]

i hate being alone. every day i hate myself since i wake up crying, since i spend every night dreaming about my perfect girlfriend and when i wake up shes not there.

[FIRSTconcentrate]

@ShatteredMoon96 then make her. theres a science to it ;)

[ShatteredMoon96]

@FIRSTconcentrate damn it i knew i should have taken that god degree

[FIRSTconcentrate]

@ShatteredMoon96 haha. nice. well, dont u think all those soulmate books explain at least part of it? my favorite is shakya kasi's. miller's is good too but not as complete. best wishes if u ever go down that path ;)

[ogitode]

im 15 and i still wonder how it feels *im an outcast btw...*

[TheFishSnacks]

I'm 18 and i'm at the point now where i just don't get phased by "hot" girls anymore like the preps or whatever. My eyes feel unclouded now it's a pretty good feeling. But every once in a great great while I'll see a girl that completely steals my heart. The word that keeps coming in my mind when I see that girl is "beautiful" not "hot". I think that's true love.

[gregmaister]

great example with the cards i hope to find my ace someday in the pile of cards im 16 now im single since my 13 now and the reason why is because there arent many girls in the world that can say such inspiring and logical words like you thank you and wish me luck cus somethimes i realy feel lonely in this world

[sspzindabad]

check this why true love is hard to find and how to find true love all tips hope u like comment there all abt love

[FIRSTconcentrate]

@sspzindabad true love is easy to find but not so easy to keep, depends on many things

[dhucke4assembly]

She makes some sense, but the little animations are a little annoying.

[hotshock88]

if think true love comes always unexpexdly

[zeROArts]

Kinder Happy Hippo Snacks :) Are from germany. ;)

[TheCookiemodel]

Hi, lovely story.

Thanks for that, even though it's 2 years old :)

Kinder is a german brand, which produces your beloved happy hippos. :-) I'm pretty sure you can order them at amazon.com. But I guess they sell them now everywhere in the US...I hope for you.

:-)

[individualimpact1]

Find true LOVE within your-SELF... (See - Individualimpact1 - channel)

[ItsChancePisces]

This is my new channel name I made a video on soul-mates might be interesting

[dreamyprettyangel]

nice video but ....

[00mrvip00]

ur off 2 a gud start keep goin u mite c sumthin that will catch yor attention

[slikster1765]

i love this video u made.

i think it's just so impossible for me though. i mean i have totally given up on everything.

[rriturajg]

u r sooo cute!

may u always be happy!

[judithprime]

yeah I agree with you...but, i have question. how does it feel if you touch your true love? I'm just curious...

[3ti3nn333]

I can't agree with you more!! I think that after some 2s or 5s I found my Ace .. nice video

[isildur555]

i say you'd make a fine pornstar.

have a NICE LIFEE

[FlowingGeisha]

You cougar Jen. I wouldn't go after younger men. You're tits are huge. It looks like an ass, breasts or testes.

[25Maz25]

Oh, you're talking about Kinder Surprises! They sell them here in Australia too- but not the ones that you have- they look yummy! Do they have 'Yowies' in the US? Yowies have little animals that you make out of tiny parts as an egg inside the chocolate mould.

BTW- very nice vid- but then again, all of your vids rock! :)

[ROBwithaB]

The asparagus story is cute.

[Geni2000]

Nice video girl

[crlyqmagee]

sweetest video ever

[ChristopherMast]

awesomeness

[JustBreath24]

this is very inspirational.

Thank you!

p.s. your baby is so cute!

[vannessaka]

i loe thse happy hippoes toooo!

[kazzababe14]

I just had a really bad break up and what you said about the deck of cards is so true! I guess the last few guys were 2's and 5's and my Ace is still somewhere in the pile. Awesome video!

[dherae]

Very cool vid, Jen. Luv ya!

[nuglah]

omg chance and me are buddies! WEIRD COINCIDENCE! I loved this vid jen! it was adorable!

[chanceluckyindigo]

yep u should comment some of my videos nuglah long time see

[jenluv37]

That's so funny! How random!

[dbrocky]

asparagas pee smell all over that hizzy

[Elphyrafire]

So true... and it's also true that a good relationship is work. Sometimes it's fun work and sometimes it's not.

[OwlLove214]

=) loved it!!!!

[fairyfrenchfry]

I have sooo gotta make a video response to this...

[theanswerisegg]

oh myy, rhw asparagus story actually made me cry!! i love this video,it feels as if you're my older sister telling me all this lovely stuff. only my sister hardly ever does that. that's why youtube's so great! and why you're so great!

all the best to you and your loved ones!

x

[Goots]

We have those hippo thingies here in the UK and I often get them for my kids. I never really thought of the "inappropriate" bit though. I'm sure I'll have a quiet chuckle next time I see one :)

[GeebzTV]

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnn­nnnnnn!

[broons316]

nice too see you back i got too meet my wife when we were just 13 but parted a few months later but met up 7 years later and the rest is history so i got my ace

[amjPeace]

I spent about 30 years in this game, sticking with the first hand that was dealt, rearranging those cards, looking for 3 of a kind or even a pair. Then I woke up one morning and found what was there the whole time: a full house! We're celebrating our 36th anniversary in August. By the time we're through maybe it will be a royal straight flush! But some days I am really tempted to fold LOL

You are wise beyond your years ((HUGS))

[IamTDF]

This was a really cute video. Very inspiring, thanks.

I think the asparagus story was really cute too.

The last part made me laugh too.

[mastud]

The hippo head looked like a little butt! lolol! Im a sucker for kinder eggs. Myself and my other half still buy them for a laugh! In fact, only last night we had a couple of them after dinner. We are such kids but nothing wrong with havin a laff! Things like that add a certain spark. Never be too serious in a relationship we believe. You look lovely Jen btw! xxxxxxxM&N

[Brianswers]

Hey Jen, great video :)

it's good to see a video like this from you.. seems like a long time since you've done one!

[DaleATL2]

"Have fun storming the castle!"

:-D

Great thoughts Jen(true)luv!

<3

[sandieblack]

I've thought about this topic and my conclusion is feelings are ephemeral, but love is a verb. Act lovingly, and hopefully the feelings follow. I don't knock the feelings, they are an awesome byproduct.

[theanswerisegg]

oh wow, great comment!! you're right!

[Rashisha]

*sigh* I wanna be In Love :(

[UFGatorJenn]

Oh Jen, it's so good to see you! You're looking wonderful! I totally agree with your card explanation...great way to put it!

[Kylie1403]

i agree with what you said, it also give me hope teheheh

[evilspongebob]

In australia they are called kinder suprises. They are in like every shop lol

[Kylie1403]

mmmmmmmmmmmmm i wnat me a kinder surprise now! i havent had em in AGES

[perfectlittlelife]

I LOVE KINDER!! I didn't know it was available in the US.

I loved the asparagus story. And I also loved the cards metaphor. I've been lucky to date a few queens, and they were great. I can't wait to see how wonderful it is with an ace.

Love your videos. I think you're just great. :)

[papackar]

I don't understand about the playing cards.

Are you telling people to dump their significant others?

[kd5tmu]

Awesome post!

[Matrix8369]

I had found a place that sold the kinder eggs here in IL and loved them cause I used t get them when I was little back in the 80's. Sadly now the kinder eggs are not aloud to be sold in the states do to hazards to children. I have about 90 of the toys cause I had got so many when I found them again.

[breathead]

That was a wonderful video. Thank you for sharing your wise perspective. You expressed some of the most difficult lessons I have learned in life---but I guess ultimately you have to live them to truly learn them.

[JoshThaNinja]

The princess bride. ;)

[scottishguy99]

jen your lovely

[jenluv37]

Thank you, hon! :D

[JennH0208]

Aww, that was a really great video Jenn!

Ive come to think that love will find me when Im least expecting it too.

I have to say your card theory is a good one. Alot of my friends my age have already settled down and have babies etc. And I think some of them may have just done that, settled. I really want to wait before I do that; make sure I have the right one.

So again, great video :D

[AndrewBattley]

I don't so much follow the thought that you'll find true love when you're ready too, but I really do believe that it comes when you least expect it and not looking for it (though on some level you could say that when you're not looking is when you're ready????)

Anyway, I think thats a wonderful story about you and John (and the whole Asparagus thing made me laugh).....great video hun.

[jenluv37]

<3 Andrew. Hope you're doing well! :D

[CinderFNRella]

GREAT VID! I agree 100% hun =D

[apehodet]

btw, don't you have kinder in the us?!

[jenluv37]

Nope. I don't think they package their candy to US regulations. I'm surprised that the little stand that John got them at is allowed to carry them!

[apehodet]

the princess bride, right?

[skooterx]

very good words :)

[Ranblv]

communication is definitely the key, the best ones I had were the ones we communicated the best.

[PinkPoley]

Jen as someone else said, if you love the hipps try a kinder bueno! YUM YUM! Loved the movie, do you think im realy REALLY romantic if I let my other half have the whole aspargus?

[Cormany10]

OMG, I love your card metaphor. And it looks like you've lost all the pregnancy weight. Congratulations!!! :)

[jenluv37]

Yay! Thank you! It must be the camera angle or something. Haha!

[bnessel1973]

This was an amazingly wise video. Thank you, Jen.

[K80Blog]

You look beautiful my dear!!!! We miss you.

[fullylaquered]

That is such a great analogy about the deck of cards. I will definitely always keep that in mind. Very nice video

[Poker115]

u craddle robber, he was only 20? lol.

[kenrg]

The asparagus story was cute. A little disgusting, but very cute.

[AnIrrationalRatio]

Aww, I think you and Johnny make the cutest couple, even since your New Years vid. Oh, and you have to try a Kinder Bueno!

Personally, every card I've drawn has cut me with its gilded edge. My hands are too sore to play cards anymore.

[imajeanyus]

this video completely made me warm and fuzzy :)

[jenluv37]

Yay! :D

[medos3]

You're videos are brilliant :)

[jenluv37]

Thank you! :D

[FlowingGeisha]

You couger Jen and I don't like it when the guy is younger than the girl. I liked some of the things you said and it was very touching.

I liked the last relationship that I was in because the making out was the minor sex was good. He was hot and I would want the exact same guy.

[chanceluckyindigo]

Love this Jen Thanks love Also that make alot of since also agree you won't meet the right person or get with the right person until that special time comes for you too.

[MrYowie]

I got a royal flush!!!

[jenluv37]

You're a polygamist??? Haha!

[MrYowie]

On the contrary, I was only using your card analogy to indicate that I managed to drawer the best possible hand (a royal flush) in what life dealt out in the way of my wonderful wife ♥

[acallaway1957]

Has anyone seen Mikma?

[SonOfDee]

"Aaaaaaaaaaaas Yooooooooooooou Wiiiiiiiiiish!"

[nellbeans]

Oh god THAT'S what I miss from Canada...KINDER SURPRISE! I'm getting my family to ship me some, thanks for reminding me hahahah

[jojomojo99]

I really do envy people that find the perfect fit. I think sometimes its hard to throw back the 10's because 10 is still a pretty good card ;)

We'll see.

Mad Luv back atcha!

[DamNationDiplomat]

Some relationships have the indefinable 'it', some don't, and that's just...it. I'm still very young, but in my experience, it's very odd what makes you happy. I had a girlfriend that was totally compatible with me. I was even friends with her parent (i still keep in contact with him), but 'it' wasn't there. Later on, i had a one that was a bossy chore of a woman who insisted we keep our relationship a secret, but i would have run in to a burning building pushing a cart of kerosene for her.

[culwin]

Life is like a box of choc-o-lates.

You never know what you're agonna get.

[jossmoss111]

Nice analogy...but I like my king...he's not perfect and we have our problems but even though hes not an ace, I bloody well love him and he RULES my world ;) bad pun. If I were to throw him away just cos we have a few negative issues (nort serious ones) then I'd be forever throwing away.

[mikma]

MIKMA WAS HERE

[wpgpeanut]

here you are!

[mikma]

Its about time I have been waiting forever for you to show up. :)

[missdivinestalls]

This was great. I have a lot of issues with the whole love thing and this was a nice analogy.

[myloflex]

it's so true...too bad for me I'm no where near finding my one and only :(

[jenluv37]

I'm sure that's because the girls you meet are probably really stupid.

[R4ndomCrap]

another: be careful with the "I've got a 10, I want an Ace" thing. Sometimes you think you've got a 10, which is an ace, and vice versa.

[jenluv37]

And oftentimes a 10 to one person is an ace to another . . .

:D

[R4ndomCrap]

Nice video. Random thoughts: it also helps not to be insane and also to be a "good person" with some spiritual associations (like being active in a religion or other spiritual enhancement program). What I mean is, if you are not pretty OK with yourself, and also have good belief systems towards honoring other people, you will have a hard time "falling in love' and having continuing good relations.

[CommentorX]

Love. n. affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. That is, UNTIL SHE STABS YOU IN THE FUCKING BACK, RIPS YOU OPEN, AND TEARS YOUR BEATING HEART OUT THROUGH YOUR SPINE, CRUSHING IT INTO A MILLION JAGGED, BITTER, FIERY PIECES OF HATE THAT FOREVER TEAR AT YOUR SOUL LIKE MEAT HOOKS STUCK THROUGH YOUR TENDER FLESH OVER AND OVER AGAIN FOR THE REST OF YOUR HELLISH EXISTENCE.

Yes, I'm divorced. Was that over the top? I never can tell.

[kayleewyatt]

I remember you, lol

[jenluv37]

Hahahaha!

[mdrproductionz]

your an awesome lady!

[musicfan2012]

I'm still lookin' for an ace

[tavin15]

Kinder is german for Childreen

it's a german company.

the eggs are called, Kinderüberraschung ( Childreensuprise).

But they don't sell them in the summer, because of the heat (they say so).

[Marcus854]

That was very cool, I agree with you. There are just things that happen when they happen and when you look too hard you seem to miss things. Awesome seeing videos again.

[ChristineDaaePhan07]

Your vid made me tear up. I hope that one day I'm as lucky as you, and that I find that stupid ace :)

[jenluv37]

I believe with all my heart that you will. :D

[Zarbod]

That's pretty cool about love and all. I think I'll pass though. Too much to deal with. Just not my style...at least for now.

[OHTXAZ]

I Think You Are Sweet. ;0)

Roberta

[jenluv37]

Thank you, hon. :D

[blackcat2enterprises]

Princess Bride. I love that line too. =)

- Heidi

[stefs24]

good advice :)

[proffmongo]

A Princess Bride!!!

[ujdo]

The first time I saw my wife, I just kind of new that there was something special. It's like I was smacked by an angel trying to get my attention saying "Your suppose to be with that one so what are you waiting for??"

Life's scarafices are not burdens whe done for love. :)

[OHTXAZ]

The First Time I Saw My Husband Was On A Blind Date. Didn't Care For Him. Couple Years Later He Kept Calling, So I Finally Went Out With Him, So That He Would Quit Calling. 6 Months Later We Were Engaged. ;0)

Roberta

[DDRking23]

I think I heard that quote from the princess bride. Not sure...And oh btw how's the baby?

[jenluv37]

Baby is good. She's starting to get really fun. :D