How to get over a girl - Moving on after breakup - FOR MEN

[edwardj1211986]

Playstation,weed,alcohol and random pussy,trust me.

[unkownpker1]

party and fuk all the girls you can hang out with friends and stay out of contact with her if you see that bitch in the street dont even look at her just walk on girls are all dirty lieing cheats at the end of the day but yea guys are always the bad 1s and always the 1s that get accused of shit when u go out with a girl inside ure mind never beleave you will be together forever untill you witness never fall in love too soon and always have respect for ureself never let a bitch bring u down

[evoviper1]

No contact is the way forward,and dont wait till ur over a girl to get a new 1. New love is the best way 2 forget past love. Chin up lad's :D

[pimpinix32]

ill pm u.. i got fucked up...

[aznflipX5]

Ah I found this useful and thank you very much. But it's just ever since the breakup (2 months back) we've been talking, and she wants to go back with me but at the same time be with a different guy even though clearly it wouldn't work out due to their families. It's a long story. But I'm not so sure what to do

[vitalcoaching]

@aznflipX5 We need to have a chat as there are a few follow up questions I have to ask you before answering - it would be cool if you could sign up for a phone session with me - Check my site and go to the "coaching" link - it's super simple to sign up - I am sure that within just a 30 min call, we'll put in place the strategies you need - I'll give you everything you need to step out of this emotional dead end and really get your life back - Would you like that?

[vitalcoaching]

@aznflipX5 ... or would you rather stay in the break up zone for another few months? what do you REALLY want?

[vitalcoaching]

@aznflipX5 ... Or would you rather stay in the break up zone for another few months?

[dshowmaker]

what if your ex DOES keep coming back into your life...? man... i have a seriously messed up relationship... with two seriously messed up individuals involved... i would love to type the whole thing out and send you an e-mail... and get some advice... anyone u can message me an e-mail address?

[vitalcoaching]

@dshowmaker check my website - there is a link there for coaching - I can send you answers by email or we can have a chat if you like the idea

[yoboyjean]

fill the voied with wize choise wizdom god and self improvement with motivation. love loves you who ever man or woman . god first self first loge your self . no matter what its time for improvement. love , real love . can help and thats love you and find those and the one who realy loves. n keep ya head up know where you from n where you wanna go... period

[Chidon0]

love this should have looked at this a long time ago!

[IBBALLIN33USC]

ur fuhkin gay fag

[warrenrox]

ive ben in this "break up zone" for 6 months...im inna big pile of shit and dont got the shoes for it...

[omegablue22]

i guess there is a great thing about being single for 25 years and counting. never trust women because they can't be pleased. i feel bad for you who suffer

[MissElefante9]

I'm in the breakup zone... damn it...

I love your accent, btw

[10director]

play playstation 24/7 it helps a lot,

[thrashermario]

@10director trey 4 life

[Gottasuckit]

i really think the best thing to do is to do anything that doesnt involve on the ex girlfriend...listening to music, in my case doing physics homework helps ALOT....do something you have always been intrested in.

[Raz0rbl00d]

in broke up with my girl but she keeps calling and wants to get back together, but shes no good for me, she plays with my feelings and shows me no love and i give her the world, it hurts so bad, no i dotn answer the cals and i dont speak to her, but i cant move on..i need help...some on message me plz.

[DreamAwayTunez]

u sound just like me bro.=/

[azzans]

I had this I just flipped her off

[Brain704]

its like the worst thing in the world it still hurts

[ninpomagick]

just got out of a 4-year relationship, the hardest thing i've ever gone through, really feels like i'm losing myself. Thank goodness for people like this guy

[febryan1199]

its the most horrible feeling in the world

[10director]

not more horrible than loosing your dad. but its very feels bad.

[Jmf619]

My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 hours ago., I needed this, thank you

[hellocrazy1]

i have been trying to get over this girl

but i tried to get back with her

back in the day

we used to fight(not phisically)

and then make up

but she doesn't want to go though that anymore

but i have changed so now what?

[hellocrazy1]

na that won't help

BUT THANK YOU

[danlfc1983]

The best thing I reckon is having no contact what so ever. You won't heal or get over an ex if you're still in contact with them.

[thetigertony]

this man is smart 5 stars

[thetigertony]

i need help .=(

[PrimeX]

hey your tips helped me a bit.. ill just have to keep them glued to my head, so then she wont be a problem to me anymore :D

[Legitbusiness]

yo me and my girl just broke up and its hard as hell to get over her...im really feeling the pain right now...but i guess it'll pass, i just gotta push threw it.

[hurricaneivan117]

is 4 months to long to be in the "sad zone"?

[Paulinaa28]

i here ya! im at 6mths. its sad

[hurricaneivan117]

at least i'm not the only one =/

man i wish i could just erase all those beautiful memories...

memories i wish could last forever....

[qweasddsa]

how long was the relationship?

[hurricaneivan117]

ah about a year...

what about you? :)

[Paulinaa28]

2 & 1-2 yrs.

[hurricaneivan117]

i'm sorry Paulina! This verse helped me in my times of trouble

Psalm 34:18

The LORD is near to the brokenhearted And saves those who are crushed in spirit.

[30secstomars30stm]

hurricaneivan117 - you have no idea... god cant help love if there is no god to get help from

[vitalcoaching]

yes! 4 months is too long! - Imagine what you can actually miss in these 4 months!

[cancerxofxpassion]

I'm at 5, man....=/

[MaxiMachine]

Can you tell me how to get over a girl that is going out with my Best Friend when he just met her and ive known her for 9 yrs but am a wuss so never asked her out?

[bcbs15]

same shoes man .. well 3 years friends..i asked her the other day (also a wuss lol) "im apparently considered as a friend" so yer rejected :/... you should ask her (you never know) or just slowly stop seeing her .. thats what im doing although i feel better knowing the truth

[RideTheLightning1989]

You just have to realize that there are a lot of girls out there.

From my point of view: There are too many women out there to be getting stressed over one. Women...all women are replaceable.

[greycloud24]

its too late you are friend material to her. stop being her friend and wait for them to break up (don't encourage the breakup). be warned that you may damage your friendship with your best friend if you start dating her after she breaks up with him.

write back if you want a lot of advice from someone who has been there done that with many things and has taken the psychology courses to look back with hindsight and see everything with clarity.

[TheLizGang]

er... i feel bad now...

[ogkudo]

fuck that i dont wanna pay for that

[Pushin4daCushin]

First of all ur ex is probably way over u, First step.. u gotta fix ur dorky face... two.. u gotta stop being so much of the bitch.. let the girl do all the crying and bitching and three... u gotta keep ur pimp hand strong. apperantly ur shits weak. getta g/f who can give good head and bomb ass sex.. ull get over ur ex in no fukn time.

[morristauch]

i just recently got dumped...so hard to get over her...i fucked it all up...things were great..its even harder we have a class togoter in collge...then after class we hang out...i cant get over her..i feel like she still wants me but she is scared...its been 2 weeks now but its hitting me really hard rite now....ahhhhh

[NyloStar]

Thanks man. She still calls me out of the blue, and it used to confuse me to no end. I can see now that she just wants to feel a certain kind of comfort; she's not keeping the door open to get back together. I'm glad I found that out this soon. I won't be taking anymore calls or texts from her again; they keep me too tied to the past.

[pro1562]

I watched most of your videos. I have to admit is realy hard to think the way you do when the heart is broken, but you make a realy strong point. You have made me realize what's important in my life. I wish I had known about you sooner. I'll let the word out. Your a great help. god bless you.

[vitalcoaching]

thanks

[redwingfan94]

hey ti has been mounths since we broke up and i still cry my self to sleep. what do i do now? message me back plz

[vitalcoaching]

I know how it feels - look, is there any way you can get back to my site and get my "break up for men" system - You can trust me with that! It will save you loads of time and trouble + give you a serious power kick to move on with your life

[KoRayInc]

hello, i would like to get some help from you sometime, please email me or msg me.

[vitalcoaching]

check my site and sign up for a session - that's the best way to go

[dipengrey]

hey dudes , broken heart will just make you stronger , and straight your heads up guys , i used to feel the same like you guys , depressed , but now i moved on, find another girl , just browsing utube find funny videos , or sticked with your ps3 or whatever , itll surely help lol

[crazycracker81]

i forgot to mention that we agreed to stay committed to each other and put the divorce off but she says she wont change her mind then she says she dont know what could happen in the next year.we still love each other, but we never really got along and i cheated on her. she took me back, but now she actually filed divorce. advice?

[vitalcoaching]

stay committed? Divorce? Children together? - That's a very complex situation... Is there any way you can go back to my site and sign up for a couple of coaching sessions? - Free tips here won't be enough - I need to speak with you

[crazycracker81]

i understand. its a very difficult situation rite now. ive got a "date" with her tonite. im broke rite now with the moving and buyin all new stuff for my house. i want you to know it sounds like you really know what you r talkin bout. i just cannot afford anything rite now. thanx.

[vitalcoaching]

no problem - your call - good luck and get in touch when you are ready ;)

[crazycracker81]

dude, im gettin a divorce. i moved out, but we still "sleeptogether". i love her, but she says this is what she wants. then she wants me to stay the nite once a week but im a truck driver, so im everhome. so what was the piont of me movin? should i sign divorce papers? dont really know if i should let go or nor. i have a 3 yr old daughter with her, so i cant just leave altogether.?

[homie3626]

Thanks..this helped.

I'm in the 8th grade..and I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago..and I truly believe we were in love. I broke up with her for personal reasons, reasons I dont regret..but I still miss her a lot..and it's hard to explain.

I still just want her in my life..but I still feel like an asshole for breaking up with her.

[vitalcoaching]

yes, I know how you feel - forgive yourself and think of the future - you need to stand behind your positive choices in life and move forward, even if those choices look like hard calls sometimes

[homie3626]

ok, thanks a lot. :)

[o0FreakinStein0o]

RICKY, WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL!!

[sumeatsdownfall]

hey um this girl broke up with me and i really liked her she said 2 wait a week so she could think about us and then 3 days later shes out with some other dude, so im like fuck her and then shes like im missing us then im like lets go back out but she dosent wanna hurt the other guy what should i do

[vitalcoaching]

she's playing with you - when she says "I miss you" it does not mean "let's get back together" - This is one of the key break up traps guys fall into - Get the break up files on my site - It will save you loads of time and trouble

[ZeroSaber]

Thank you so much for this video my friend.

But I have just one question.

Today I was just blindsided by my girlfriend telling me that she wants to take a break and that she is having a lot of problems in her life, yet she's off going out with friends and doing stuff with them.

She left me in the dust, my friend.

What can you tell me about that?

[vitalcoaching]

women often give you a lame excuse for breaking up - Very often it does not make sense - They make up something because they know the real reason would hurt you or you would get angry - they don't want that

[AznAngel333]

Finally I got over this girl who said she needed some time alone and we shouldn't talk anymore after a week I told her I loved her and now I got MY LIFE BACK NO MORE FEELING DEPRESSED(btw Im a grade 6 so it was hard for me to handle because I have no experiance but now its ok)

PS:SHE CAN GO TO HELL NOW FOR ALL I CARE!!!!!!!!!

[vitalcoaching]

well done! - Don't be rude, no need to

[jayq503]

thank you

[vitalcoaching]

you're welcome

[Armypat8594]

thank you my friend

[vitalcoaching]

hey! You're welcome

[Joconnor007]

i cant buy that stuff.. can you just give me some advice on here dude i really need help. i cant get this girl off my mind and ive tried everything.

[vitalcoaching]

Check my other break up vids on my channel, they are packed with a few good hints - If you don't want to get my material, you simply miss 95% of the solution, though - Not sure what holds you back, but It's your call of course

[Joconnor007]

hey man i just recently broke up with this girl and she was the love of my life, and now shes been talking to all other boys and doing stuff with them. i do not want to be her friend, i dont want anything to do with her. i just want her out of my life if i cant get back together with her (which isnt happening) i dont know what to do, your a really intelligent man at this and i was just wondering if you or anyone else could help me.. just respong to this comment, thanks alot guys.. i need it.

[vitalcoaching]

go back to my site and get the break up system - It's the best thing you can do, really!

[negamatt]

hey mate, listen. i kinda need your help. ive been on and off with this girl i was deeply in love with for 6 years. and i stopped talking to her 4 months ago after i couldnt take her shit anymore. however, i really miss her. shes the only person ive ever loved and i cant get over her. i hate her so much. but when i close my eyes all i think about is her. how can i get rid of her forever?

[vitalcoaching]

a good place to start is to get rid of any traces of ehr in your personal space, email, cell phone, etc. That's step one! Stpe two, actively connect with other girls. There is much more on my break up system on my site. Get it now! Really! - The link is on the side bar and it will save you loads of time and trouble

[negamatt]

yeh, i have read what i can on you site, without downloading anything. i connct with other girls. ive even gone ne after the final break up. its just i consistanly think about her still. like there is unfinished business.

[vitalcoaching]

well that's precisely why I recorded 50+ MP3 audios power kicks, wrote two e-books and dozens of articles on the topic - This IS the solution. It is 10 times harder to access the solution if you don't download the material

[Purplexold]

in a way i want to get over my breakup but then again i dont.. i dont know whats wrong with myself

[vitalcoaching]

This happens to most guys because they believe there is still a chance of getting back together - You are ok ;) - It does take focus and determination to claim your emotional freedom back. Go to my site and get the "Power back" system. It will give you a new refreshing boost and show you how to overcome that specific challenge

[tgtk]

Man, i'm not sure if you'll read this, but recently i've started liking this girl. I hate it because there Is no way I can have her. I need to quit it but the problem is, she's going to be at a party im at next week.

what do I do. I need to quit this.

[vitalcoaching]

Two things! - Improve your game so that you STOP putting her up there as if she was above you in any way. Next: actively flirt with other girls on that evening. If you get it right, you can use this exact challenge to boost your dating power. Turn your "fear or doubts" into total and abolsute confidence by not letting these feara or doubts hold you back. Move forward! - Don't stand still!

[vansavage08]

a girl broke up with me a while ago that i was with for 2 years and yes it hurts  real bad. but... what i did was completely ignore her. they will miss you and want to be with you again. stop calling or texting her and she will go crazy! it worked for me

[digitolwonder]

SOOO true ;)

[twan701]

well im trying to do that but its taking a little longer for me to get over her i guesss then her getting over me. the problem is ive been out of the game for so long i forgot how to flirt with girls or even be really friendly. ive been too used to having someone.

but seeing her everytime i go hang out with my friends doesnt help either...

[vitalcoaching]

Sure! The real challenge for you now is to improve your game and get back out there, chatting and flirting with new girls, right? Once you start doing that and realize there are a million girls out there excited to spend time with you, everything will seem VERY easy.

Go back to my site and get the "Power back for men" system. All strategies to win this challenge are right there! REALLY!

[twan701]

hey... what if we still do talk to eacother at least once a day and we used to date for 3 years but shes friends with all my friends now and i cant help but hang out with her every now and then. plus she is a very attractive girl and i have to see her at the bars with my friends and other strangers dancing and getting risky with other guys? i dont know what to do...?

[vitalcoaching]

Sure, it's an extra challenge.

What about you? Are you actively flirting with other girls and inviting them into your life or are you still hooked on your ex?

[b88sharkha]

hey there coach, I spent the last little while looking/reading as much as possible from your videos and website.

My problem is, I don't think I want to move on, I still want to be with her, a lot!!!

we broke up about 2 weeks ago(after 1 year of going out)all she talks about is space, and that she doesn't want to see me/talk and that she will let me know when we can finally hang out. But I don't want to be "just friends" I want to be with her, and I don't know what to do...

[vitalcoaching]

It takes two people to make a relationship work. Your will power alone is not enough. 6 months from now, you might still be in the same place... WAITING. Deciding to let go is a step YOU ONLY can take.

[houman6a6]

thanks man! I needed this video!

[vitalcoaching]

You're welcome