What Makes a Man Fall in Love and Commit - Secrets He Wants You to Know

[maneatermileena1]

did you hear that knocking??? I think somebody is fucking while she videoing this!!! Damn, get me his number!!!!

[F3MM39]

ya'll dont know shiet

[kayla2642]

How long should you wait to have sex...3 months???

[donald347]

This is lulzy bullshit. Not only is it unhealthy to try and manipulate men by holding out on sex but it's also EXACTLY how manipulative men want you to think. All we-- I mean they have to do this pretend to be in love and it's over just as fast as if it was a straight up club girl

[moorebounce]

I believe you have to test drive your new potential partner. You wouldn't buy a car w/o test driving it and a relationship is more exspensive than a car IMO. You might be physically attracted and emotionally connected while you're waiting or holding out then find out you aren't sexually compatible. To truly know if you and your partner can make it you need to live together. We need to see the great powerful OZ behind their curtain first.

[Youngd2007]

Im a man and This is RIDICULOUS! It doesn't matter if you have sex with me in the first week/day/hour or year. You can't force a man to "WAIT" for anything, all he will do is get another woman until you're ready. Just be yourself and let whats going to happen, HAPPEN. If you let it flow then you will find someone someday!

[designofmovement]

I'm a man, this video feels like she is describing men as animals your trying to trap.

Here's tip number one, BE YOURSELF. and let things develop naturally.

[Youngd2007]

@designofmovement EXACTLY!!!

[polly10022]

@designofmovement I don't like how you guys say "Be yourself and this will happen" she goes into to what happens and how it happens. There's a reason it's not happening and it's because we simply don't connect on all levels. Lets say you have a lottery ticket, you get 1/3 stars - It's like..wops try again! and I just understood that now. Sheh as taught me a life lesson! I'm not saying I'm going to trap a man like some kind of animal, I just know now what we need in order to have a relationship!

[cheaze69]

How to get me to marry you? Make more money than me. Being the provider sucks!!! It dehumanizes you. This is the 21st century, time for women to know the stress we've dealt with for millenia.

[emerse111]

I still don't get what emotional connection is. Is it that me and the man have things in common, the same interests, communicating? What specifically does the "emotional connection" involve and how do you know when you've established it with a man?

[WeedBaggerx3]

@az097637 lmfaooooo funniest comment ive read all night !

[TehNemoz]

idk,i agree with not just rushing with being physical with someone and taking it slow but there is a sense of an emotional connection that comes with being physical as well,they kind of go hand in hand. you'll know when you've found that connection with someone, when you two can be 100% real with each other,sharing a bit of each other together.being completely non physical might make it seem like you're trying to avoid him. not saying that you should throw yourself all over him but a kiss&hug...

[TehNemoz]

@TehNemoz (continued) a kiss and a hug won't hurt :)

[az097637]

" SOME GOOD PUSSY AND HEAD WILL DO IT ALL THE TIME"

[az097637]

" SOME GOOD PUSSY AND HEAD WILL DO T ALL THE TIME"

[br2788]

Great Vid from another Black man. You got it right. Men can go on physical attraction alone until they find out you have emotional problems and then back off. Work on your inner self and be happy with you before you try to get a man to commit. No man wants to be with a woman who is impossible to make happy.

[pogistarr]

I'm a Black Man & I agree w/ this message BUT, if you're going 2 make him wait, it's VERY IMPORTANT 2 remember that U have 2 B interesting enough 4 him 2 consider U worth the wait! Any woman can try 2 make a man wait but he will only wait 4 someone who is interesting enough w/o the sex. And by "interesting" I don't mean anything other than your true self, but the best things about U! Not all @ once though-spread it out. Show him new things. Surprise him, give him suspense, bond w/ him, etc.

[thesunwillshineonme]

@pogistarr Hey black woman here, I was wondering how do you get your husband to fall back in love with you. Apparently he is in lust with someone else but we agreed to work it out, but there is no connection.i am a good woman and we have lots in common but it seems like we're at a standstill, 18yrs of my life has been invested in this. what do you suggest.

[thesunwillshineonme]

@pogistarr sex is not an issue we have always been sexually compatible, I'm not shy when it comes to that. I would rather have more of an emotional connection rather than physical.

[pogistarr]

@thesunwillshineonme I'm sorry. I am just now getting your question 2 months later! Are you still in that situation?

[thesunwillshineonme]

@pogistarr No things have gotten better, hopefully it last a little while. You know how things can sometimes seem like their getting better but not really. Well, we're working it out and we pray a lot so wish me luck and God bless.

[pogistarr]

@thesunwillshineonme Good luck, queen. You're both worth the effort.

[mickster1965]

thanks so much for the advise! I just fall in love inand getting to know him but I let him wait for a few months because i think the most imported thing is the emotional atraction,

oh im in love! and its spring time! also a beatiful combanation!

[Annazayla]

Ok...well how does one built this emotional connection after being together for about one year and a half?

[dilioss]

Omg your hot babe

[Annazayla]

I totally agree with you on this one....but if you read the trend mags, a woman is convinced that she has to look a certain way, be great in bed, cook, do double flips and and so forth and so on.....that just isn't totally true. If the guy doesn't have an emotional connection with woman he is more likely to cheat, leave you for someone else, or just bullcrap you around until someone else comes along that he has an emotional connection with.

[Brownsuka1]

love your vids.

[HeresSeem]

u might think i'm crazy, but so true that relations done fast last longer than those which get built over a long period of time.

[lynbria]

how do you know when you built the emotional connection?

[girlfriend2wife]

@lynbria You will know when you've built the emotional connect when a man when his interest level increases to the point where he wants to stop dating other women and date you exclusively. The deeper a man's emotional connection with you, the more he pursues exclusivity. For example, he'll start out wanting to date you only, then he'll want to make you his girlfriend, then he may move further by asking you to live with him, he'll take the next step of fiance, then marriage.

[lynbria]

@girlfriend2wife thank u so much for the advice and also for responding in such a timely manner

[lynbria]

@girlfriend2wife thank u so much for the advice and also for responding in such a timely manner, oh and luv your vids by the way.

[Annazayla]

@girlfriend2wife But what if the man isn't dating other woman, but still doesn't have that emotional connection towards you thus not taking the relationship to the next level?

[PoohLET00000]

Thanks great advice! ^_^ more more pls lol ^_^

[mariaanasademj]

thank u! continue...you'r very nice ;)

[laurinkiii]

cool..trying that out right away

[OOOJimPanseOOO]

Basically I agree with the content of the video. But not giving herself away too easily, is what every girl does anyway (or people call her a Slut). So this can't be the key to seducing a man.