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  • I am tutched omg keep going your a strong beautiful girl and for the people who dislike this vid are hartless scum girl keep going stong things will get better xxx

  • after watching this im now going to get my brothers number off someone and ring him. he was taken from my family by police and it is illegal for him to enter our street. he is homeless but i want to see him because i love him so much. this video inspor

  • I lost my best friend recently from suicide, she has been my friend since we lived right next to eachother when we were both 4 and she was my other half. Just like my sister. "I Should've" told someone when I had found all the letters she had wrote to everyone saying goodbye and that she is sorry she was a coward. I never told her how jealous I was of her beauty, or that her boyfriend hit on me everytime I was around him. And it really does help if you right letters to her, she gets them. Trust

  • @RUDEREMARKS I am sorry for your loss,

  • I am so sorry for yhur loss I know exactly how yhu feel I just lost my Dad on Thanksgiving and everything yhu said is exactly how I feel

  • Im sorry about your sister. My sister was murdered when she was 19. I was 12 at the time. I know how you feel. I can tell you it gets better. But you never forget. One good tool to help is to write her letters. Tell her how you feel on paper.  It helps get your pain out and put it in your hands as something real. Something you can understand. And trust me she will hear you. Let God take ahold of your heart and it will all work out.

  • Chelsey!! Im So Sorry For Your Loss I Know How It Feels To Lose A Member Of Your Family... you have my deepest sympathy... i know some friends who can and will be there for you Do You Have A Twitter PLEASE RESPOND

  • I have watched this video at least 10 times, I cry everytime I see it! It's so sad! I'm so sorry she died, I think you are so inspirational to people everywhere...

  • she knows u love her she knows you are her best friend trust me i`ve been through it to.

  • She hears you sweetheart. Stay strong.

  • Your sister is with you everyday and knows you loved her very much.Talk to her out loud.She hears you ;) Stay strong sweetheart<3

  • U inspire me

  • Your sister is always watching over you, so all those things u wished you could've said, she heard, stay strong

  • By the end, i was trying not to cry :'( you are sooo strong Chelsey! You will see her someday!

  • As soon as you held up, "say hi to steph for me", I started crying. this is beautiful & I bet your sister is watching over you, all the time. -3 stay strong(:

  • Stay Strong <3 you keep saying that you "should've told her" all these things but she knows them now, sweety. She knows and she is watching down over you

  • Girly you made me cry ! That's the sweetest thing I've ever heard .

    Your sister knows you love her . I promise you , she's looking down on you right now saying 'thanks sis , love you too'

    Stay strong -3

  • She knows beautiful, she knows.

    I am sure of it <3

    You are so gorgeous! Your smile lights up the whole screen. And your story is incredible. Your strength is outstanding, thank you xx

  • Im sorry for your loss. The best thing you can do, it have trust in the Lord. Don't think negatively about her passing, she entered eternal life! Think positive! YOUR BEAUTIFUL. Your sister would be proud of your strength. Hang in there, put your faith in God, he will help you through this. -3

  • Heey,

    I know what your going threw. My mom died on June 23, 2011. I was only 13. Now my father is dying and it's just like my mothers death all over again, slow and painful. Anyways I'm still haven't forgiven my self because before she past away I didn't wanna go she her, you know I just thought that she was gonna come home in a couple of days. But days turned into weeks and then finally she died. I hated my self and I still do. I know how you feel we are sorta in the same boat, so stay strong

  • I am soo sory about your loss

  • Say strong hunny:) Stephanie knows! She does! Just keep strong and remember she's always with you -3

  • I'm sorry for your loss

  • 25 heartless assholes

  • @SuperPwnDude not to sound rude, but was assholes nessessary?

  • I wish Ben couldve seen this before he died..... Keep strong :)

  • It is always hard to lose someone you love. I lost my dad to cancer at a young age. And it did seem unfair at the time. But I know now that God works in mysterious ways and everything happens for a purpose. I am so sorry for your loss. It will get better though. I'm glad that the lord saved you. Just make sure you put all of your cares in His hands and He will def put peace in your heart (said often, but true). I pray that He will give you and your family comfort in this time

  • 25 heartless people... R.I.P, i had brothers that died before i got the chance to know them, and had many surgerys for life myself... So stay strong!

  • i adore you and this video. stay strong <3 God saved her from her painful life.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she's watching you in heaven right now and knows how much you love her :)

  • Im sorry For your lost stay Strong!

    Sorry But i couldnt watch the whole video i started to tear up i couldnt think how it would be to lose my brother!

    Stay Strong!!

  • i was teary eyed the entire video but you you held up "say hi to steph for me" i started bawling. beautiful video. stay strong :)

  • you are an inspiration and you are so brave to share your story <3

  • This made me cry. 9 mounths ago my mom was Strangled by intrudes in our house she tried to defend her self but they put a plastic bag over her head and strangled her with a cord. My 4 year old sister saw it first. We still haven't got the killer. That man killed my mom for only her jewelry!

  • I believe...

  • Made meh cry so bad :'( I miss mah sis too

  • Just remember that GOD is watching over you. Your sister is probably sitting right next to him<3 Keep your head up and remember that she is in a better place and one day youll get to see her and tell her all the things you never did. Hope you get better hun xoxo

  • this made me cry..

  • im so sorry ;(

  • @bodybuildingispain what the hell is wrong with you?!?! this girl is in pain and thats all you have to say to her prick??? well maybe you should stop being a fucking asshole and think about what just happened to this girl and what you just fucking said to her! stop torchering girls and leave them alone you shithead!!

  • This was beautiful. My condolences to the family

  • That was touching:( i made a video on my channel last night and ik hiw much it helps to make these videos of you people have time id like you to watch mine:/

  • -3

  • i love what you said below. this is my story, you should post yours too. you are beuatiful . everyone has a rough time.

  • This is a beautiful tribute to your sister and to Ben. Keep your chin up, and know that you WILL see your sister again. I promise. Thanks for sharing! This brought a tear to my eyes and a lump to my throat. :)

  • I wish I had your courage to post this, thank you.

  • this is so sad. I'm praying for your sister and your family.

  • That is a wonderful tribute to your sister. I think she probably knows the things you didn't get the chance to tell her. I believe some day you will be able to tell her yourself. Be strong and thank your for sharing your story with us.

  • You should be so proud of your sister and never regret not even one moment with her, shes watching over you hun, this actually brought a tear to my eye girl.❤xxxxxxxxxx

  • Your sister knows sweetheart

  • Please ignore the twisted negative remarks by the obviously emotionally disturbed. Pray for them because it's obvious that they are in pain and in desperate need of serious mental and emotional repair. NO ONE in their right mind would ever say anything negative as a reaction to your video.

    Rest well knowing that your Sister is in a better place than all of us now.

    You did nothing wrong. You simply missed the opportunity to say some things to her. But she knows how you feel.

    Live life to the

  • wow, i watched ben's story,and yours poped up... i clicked on it. and wow :( im sorry <3 but remember, SHE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU! you may not see or know it. But she is in your heart.

  • Im not gunna lie....I started crying....I hope you and your family stay strong with the thought that your sister is in a better place now.

  • I cried, straight up, I'll admit it. I feel the exact same way about my dad

  • cunt

  • Your sis didn't die, she lives on inside you, carry on her legacy, loved the video, opened my eyes on life Im sorry for your list, stay strong

  • P.S. I cried..

  • Wow, this was more touching then I excpected it to be. Your sister is not gone, she's very alive with God right now. My bestfriend died in a boating accident, he also died the weekend he was coming visit. I hadn't seen him in forever. One day you'll see her again, ask Jesus to tell her that you love her and miss her. It works, trust me.

  • @AmericanAztec915 awesome if you think that then keep it to yourself instead of being an asshole and telling her shit that she doesn't need to hear. Stop being so disrespectful and get a life instead of writing hate on this girls video there is no need for that so grow up.

  • I'm so sorry

  • @AmericanAztec915 how could you ever say that. you have no heart.

  • Sorry for you're loss may she and Ben rest in piece -33*

  • I cried, im so sorr

  • aww poor girl, i'm so sorry for your loss! i literally started crying..))":

  • omg my name (chucky) is chelsea and my sister is setphanie..how ironic.

    JUST SAYIN.

  • Forgive yourself. Things happen for a reason. And it's ok to be upset sometimes we all just need a food cry. Stay strong ur sister loves u and always will. She's watching over u and protecting u. Stay strong!

  • Forgive yourself sweetheart. Most of the people on this earth have suffered very deep and profound grief. I have felt the deep grief I see in your face. For all the people like myself who have felt inconsolable grief, there is almost always a feeling of guilt and/or regrets also because no one is perfect and no relationship, no matter how great, is perfect all the time because we're human! Your sister is in a place now where everything is understood perfectly & all she feels for you is LOVE.

  • I'm sure you don't check your YouTube anymore. I'm hopeing you have a very well set and well put life now.

    I'm only thirteen. My sister died as a new born when I was five years old. But I wouldnt under stand the pain your going threw because I never met my sister. And you and your sister may have had a very good friendship. But I was my daddy's girl so this is the part that makes me under stand where your coming from March 4 2011 my dad died. He had this thing called Als. He had it for a loong

  • Stay Strong

  • Stay

    ...................

  • I am so sorry for your loss. This video is inspiring and I bet ben is in heaven watching it with your sister, never forget that you can still talk to her! I know it's not the same, i just lost my grandfather and I'm really struggling with that, but it's the only way now. Stay strong <3

  • @AmericanAztec915 you are a heartless fucking dick. This video is inspiring and you have no right to comment shit like this, if you dont have anything nice to say just stay the fuck off the page. damn.

  • Awwe may she RIP.

  • Why do u guys thin it is gay it is heart touching ro some pol now what would u do if ur sister or brother or mom or dad died and u didnt get tell them sinething u wanted

    Ben made a lit of ppl storng in the heart so go stfu about she was inspired by him not u Him

  • ^^^ hulurios  and gay

  • This hits me hard because my older brother lives six hundred miles away. I hardly ever get to see him; usually on summer breaks and rarely Christmas. Something could so easily happen to him...he doesn't have any health problems, but things happen...

  • :(

  • I'm really sorry for your loss. Your video really hit me hard and every time I watch it, I cry. Don't listen to ANY of the people who keep putting negative comments. They are just jealous that you actually had the guts to tell your story.

    Stay strong in everything you do(:

  • Im so sorry for yur loss R.I.P <3

  • Your sister feels everything inside you, that you have for her...I lost my sister too...she was 17...I was 15...and I know...she is my best friend too...Because...I believe...Hang tough girl...cause one day...we will all be together again...an...OH...BOY!!!..WHAT A MEETING THATS GONNA BE!!!

  • OMG you madr me cry :,(

  • This video brought me to tears, I am so so sorry for your loss :( After watching Ben's video it really does give hope that there is a better place and your sister and Ben and billions more wonderful people and in that better place now <3 R.I.P Steph xx

  • That kid is surely in heaven, just look at what he's caused and the people he's inspired.

  • its never to late to tell your sister y=what you 've always wanted to tell her . her physical body may be gone but her spirt is there. <3 imm sorry for your loss.

  • You keep your chin up, even though you didnt tell her the things you wanted, she already knew :)

    R.I.P Steph -3!

  • stay strong girl she will always be in your heart <33 R.I.P dont worry everything is going to be fine..(:

  • I was crying, which I usually don't do with youtube video's like these. I guess it is really comforting knowing that she's in a better place. Stay strong. <3

  • I'm so sorry. I cried through the whole thing. I believe she knew you loved her.. Always have always will R.I.P steph <3

  • Abcd you should be ashamed. This young girl doesn't deserve your shit, be sensitive.

  • @ABCD123kk Her sister died you fucking prick. I'd be a bit upset too.

  • @ABCD123kk you are the scum of the earth, she isn't feeling sorry for shit she's showing people what an inspiriation ben was to everyone! so grow the fuck up and get your negativity off of this page, you prick.

  • your sister would be so proud. <3

  • i'm so sorry about your loss... if i lost my sister i dont know what i would do :( RIP steph.

  • I am sorry for your loss, I cried :'(

  • I almost had tears in my eyes <3

  • R.I.P steph! She knew that you loved her :)

  • R.I.P steph. she'd be proud of you<3

  • I am sorry u lost your sister..and i am glad Ben helped u to express your pain....I am glad u believe....if your sister enters your night dreams means she was really thinking of you a lot that day....they are all around us...our loved one who have passed over to the next world...its hard bec. we can't see them but we can feel their love when we think of them...R.I. P. Steph

  • You're still able to tell you that she "IS" your best friend, every night. She will be looking down on you, and every night she will be looking over you! <3

  • awhh i cryed so much to this );

  • Sometimes myself and all of us are ungrateful because we don't have the latest phone or clothes. But by watching this story of Ben's Life I feel more grateful for not the things I have but my health. Anyone who is healthy should be so grateful to wake every morning and breath.Forget about everything whether you didn't have anything to eat last night or you got a whole bunch of clothes.To anyone suffering out there, Have hope there is a miracle out there for you.GOD RIP

  • stay strong.<3 nothing is harder than losing someone close to you. my sister is my best friend. your sister i guarantee is up in heaven smiling because she knows that you love her and she loves you and that eventhough it wasnt said she knows she was your best friend and vice versa. sometimes the best things are ones that the mind interprets and not what one says. realize everything you did for her made her stronger everyday. "A smile happens in a flash but its memory can last for a lifetime."

  • this video made me cry everytime when I saw the flashcard 'she was my best friend' ); I'm sorry for your loss :c

  • stay strong<3 i have a sister too that i adore and i think of her as my bestfriend and she doesnt know it and i just trap everything i want to tell her inside i have been for over a year now. sisters r just about the best thing ever but they are hard to talk to sometimes about serious things. im sure your sister doesnt want u to feel the way u do. she knows u love her thats all that matters! stay beautiful<3

  • You are gorgeous, in every way possible. 

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  • Stay strong<3 You are very brave to tell the world about your amzing inspirational story! Things will get better! I believe!(:

  • I saw this video &&' thought of everyone i've lost ... I actually cried . /:

    Guess what ? I believe <3 .

  • Bless you sweetheart. Your sister knew you loved and admired her, that is what love is all about. Thank you for sharing your story. Ben has done alot for all of us. It's How's hand leading us. Take care and my deepest condolences.

  • i admire your strength. this made me cry, because my sister is away at college, and every day i'm afraid something is going to happen to her. she is perfectly healthy, but i'm still afraid. i can't imagine losing her, or the pain you are going through. RIP Stephanie.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss and stay strong cause she will always love you and believe in you. R.I.P steph xxxx <3

  • I'm so sorry for your loss -- I can't imagine what it'd be like for me to lose my sister. I'm sure she knows how much you admired her. Stay strong <3

  • Your asking for help with the video sweetheart so let it be the 1st step, keep pushing your self to communicate. When we're forced to deal with endings we have no power of controling & there are issues you feel are unresolved, it makes you feel so helpless & frustrated . As hard as it is, we need to do what it takes to learn how to live with these things, we can't change them but we can find an acceptable understanding that will help us move on.Seeking help & advice is the way we do that.

  • Thank you for sharing you story. I have a sister and lately we have been distant. I want to tell her that I feel sad and want to be with her more.... Now I think I will. Thank you

  • omg, i cried so bad..

  • I believe she already knew how much you loved and cared about her, and I know for a fact she must have loved you too. She is watching over you.

  • im sorry for your lost u have inspired me to treat my sister wit respect n dont say hurtful things to her my sister didnt die but she was like urs shes older then me by 2 years n i did wat u did i nvr told her how much she means to me n how much i edmire her beauty and smarts, all i ever do is say hurtful things to her n hurt her feelings ...but now i shud be happy ii have a sister ... god bless you and dont worry your sister is in a good place now where no one can hurt her and she will be happy

  • Babydoll I hope your okay I understand there are a lot of things you would want to say but you have to let it go the night before my stepdad died he told me he loved me and he had hurt my mom and sister so much I couldnt say it back I think abut it lot I love him but I was so angry I didnt cry when they told me and now that I think about he changed for the better and i know he could have been good for me im 14 and my sis 17 and his son who is 2 say strong godbless you and your family <3

  • Stay strong. God loves you. He's never gonna leave you. Your sister is in a better place. You'll always miss her but you'll see her again someday and she wont have anymore seizures when you do. God bless you

  • I cried..:/

  • as i watching this i was thinking what it would be like i my older sister died, and shes a senior and were not as close right now cause she just tells stuff to her friends. but im sorry for your lost i would cry everyday if i knew i didnt have a sister anymore.

  • Live your life to the fullest and let others see God through you hon. You are beautiful and I know that your sister is probably happier than she has ever been. Keep the faith! God Bless You!

  • I can't possibly imagine the pain you must've felt or still feel. But I do know one thing. God is watching over you. God's taking care of them. Stay strong, and don't give up hope.

  • I have a story on my page I think some people would enjoy! It's pretty inspiring and it tells my story, i watched a video of another guy on here and it really made me want to share mine...It lets people know that no matter what struggles we may go through in life, you are NEVER ALONE! God stepped into my life and took over. I hope you all watch it! Thank you so much!

  • omg i cried. i think i might make a story

  • :)

  • Your beautiful . Stay strong .

  • Your sister would be so proud of you for being so strong. She's always around, watching over you and your family. I was in tears as you are so inspirational. It sometimes helps if you sit in your room and thinking or talk out loud as if she was right there with you, I do that when I miss my best friend.Stay strong and Rip Stephanie :) xxx

  • I don't think I've ever cried so much at a YouTube video! If I was your sister looking down on you I would be so so proud. And just because you never told her she still knows. Believe that she believes and that she's always around you forever! Your inspirational to me and have made me realise how much loved ones mean! Rip stephanie! Stay strong xxxx

  • Don't beat yourself up for not telling her how you feel, she knows now and she knows how much love you have for her. Stay strong Chelsea(:

    RIP Steph-3

  • Stay strong. God bless you.

  • @blenderguy2008 you know Ben was INSPIRED by Keiran Miles to do that. So, everyone else doing the same thing was inspired by Breedlove and/or Miles. It doesn't mean they're copying what they did.

  • whoever disliked this has no heart, what is wrong with you guys?

  • Literally started crying and i could tell you wanted to . Let it out dont hold back , remember its not your fault , no one knew that day was coming . R.I.P Steph , stay strong Chelsey

  • Would you guys stop being so mean. I mean she was obviously crying and it's kinda hard to speak and have people understand you when your crying. So just shut up and get a life.

    Don't listen to them. I'm sorry for your loss. Be strong.

  • Be strong...

  • Stop using flash cards and speak.

  • @donalese1217 hi I was wondering if you could explain to me what lupus is. my mom has it . no one ever cared to tell me.. you could message me ... I'm sorry for your lose. I wish you strength:)

  • I also lost my sister when she was 25 if Lupus. I started to watch your video and had to stop as it was too much like my own story to bear. I was 6 months pregnant with my second son and never let myself deal with her loss. It's been two years, 5 months tomorrow and it hits me harder than it did when she passed sometimes. I absolutely know exactly how you feel. But I do take solace in the fact that she is not in pain anymore. She too lived a life she did not deserve. But she is always with me j

  • Its never to late to tell her, just say it, she will hear you, this story made me cry. I bet ben and her will become friends in heaven(: I promise you will see her again! <3

  • ''say hi to steph for me'' that just killed me :'( </3. stay strong!

  • The problem with this things is that everyone now is looking for publicity copying all what Breedlove did. The Flash Cards and weird stories that we do not know if they are true or not. Please be original and do not copy what he did.

  • Hey. I just want to let you know, that you're very strong. But, you can't live with the burden of never telling your sister these things. I bet she probably already knew all of these things. Stay strong -3

  • I am seeing the most vile comments left on Ben's YouTube Videos......it really disturbs me....I strongly suggest we all contact YouTube and get them to squelch these losers who prey on those who've lost a family member.

  • i know the pain your feeling .. it's hard but all you can do is pray, every night .

  • The hardest part of loosing someone is not being able to tell them everything you've ever wanted to. I feel your pain and if I could I would give you a hug.

  • these cards are really hard to read with tears in your eyes :'(

  • You have the most beautiful smile. You also have so many regrets, as a lot of us do. In time, hopefully you will see that God has a plan. Things happen for a reason. And I believe in Him 2.

  • i never belived in god before watching bens video <3 but god is with us and loves to see us smile.so smile beautiful girl, SMILE :D

  • You're sister knows everything you wanted to say to her. She knows you love her. 

  • Maybe you never got to say those things to her in person, but I bet she's seeing this video and looking down on you with a smile.<3

  • Shut up comment below she's not a drama queen

  • This drama queen

  • Don't blame yourself, your sister loves you and I'm sure she knows your her best friend. Don't cry, she wouldn't want you to, stay strong :)

  • Stay strong !!!! -3

  • Beautifully Inspiring.Stay Strong Sweetheart<3

  • it's people like you and Ben who give everyone the strength to keep going. god bless<3

  • You're perfect. I admire you. Stay strong, darling. ♥♥♥

  • Ben would be proud that you made this video for your sister. Stay strong ♥

  • Don't blame yourself. You're amazing for telling your story. Ben would be proud of you.

  • Woah...

    

  • your sister know that you're her bestfriend, dont cry:) she leave this world not to see you cry

  • Just saw your video and want to tell you to keep your head up and carry on, you're sister will always be with you. she's not just an angel now she's gunna be your guardian angel x