The 10 Things Black Women Do That Can Drive Black Men Away-Part 1

[truthisouttheir]

I think these issues apply to all races in varying degrees based upon personalities.

[true6lue]

the part about mind reading is so very true..say what mean and mean what you say, use your verbal skills..

[GGomar007]

The dude is focused on sistas because that's whom he is trying to inform to help both us brothers and our sistas. while all women do these things, this is not about race, it is about change. The guy is making valid points but, the ladies are upset because he is sharing this info with Black people only(he is trying to help by putting brothers and sistas up on game). Instead of being defensive, ladies need to take in the message. Don't look at things emotionally, instead analyze them rationally.

[xImJustSayingMan]

As a black woman, I cater to my husband & he tells me he is surprised I haven't done " the black girl flip"...I have learned I don't always have to be tough or hard....a lot of us black women don't get out of that mentality....we aren't at fault though...men hurt us and cause us to stay guarded & that's not a black thing, it's universal.

[GGomar007]

@xImJustSayingMan Women dog men as much as we dog you ladies these days. We have all been hurt, but if we don't stop blaming our actions on what happen in the past, we will never have healthy relationships. We need to stop passing the blame and communicate. We are by nature lovers of our chosen mates, if we only forget societies brainwash and be satisfied with True love.

[rowejam072000]

@midnitedawn because the subject is about black women, not all race of women

[crzune]

@midnitedawn probably because he's black and he can't speak for other races

[rowejam072000]

@crzune exactly

[commonman80]

I left my first wife who got Disgusting after we were together for about a year. This "Woman" would come in the bathroom and Dump her Tampon while I was shaving. LIKE IT WAS NOTHING. However, the straw that broke the camels back was, one day while I was in the bath tub, that Disgusting Pig came in, Plopped down on the toilet and started taking a shit. There was NO Excuse For That. WE HAD 2 BATHROOMS! Then she tried to make it seem like something was wrong with me for cursing her out.

[lovachica1]

@commonman80 hahahhahahhahahah that was so funny

[rowejam072000]

@commonman80 lolol thats love

[KickWhitesOutAfrica]

You brothas ALWAYS have criticism for black women but NO such criticism for FOREIGN women who are wringing you DRY. Let me see you create a cartoon with this title: The 10 Things Foreign Women Do That Can Drive Black Men to Complete and Utter Ruin. I bet you would rather cut off your arm and eat it, than create a video like that! STOP ATTACKING US, black men aren’t flawless.

[AllAreNames]

@KickWhitesOutAfrica Let me guess, you're black?

[KaylaLae5]

@midnitedawn LOVE THIS.

[backnthedaydawg]

So many black men DON'T understand what's going on. It's simple: black women pull this bs ONLY with black men because they don't respect them enough to try to get along. Then they're imitating June Cleaver when they date white dudes (and ANY dorky white guy would do). They don't even speak the same with non-blacks. All sweet with the "valley girl" inflection. Like . . . what-everrrrrr. White racism has effected how BW see BM.So they base their respect level on what whites think of BM.

[LATiNALOkA8]

@midnitedawn that is definately true

[lovedonend]

Good job expressing yourself brother..You get a standing ovation. I appreciate you brother. :)

[tnhiwatiwa700]

true for african-american women thats why they are such a terrror and many are single or baby mums. Real African women from Africa are raised up well, respectful and just wonderful. African-american women should learn from their African roots instead of being cultureless. When i look at blacks in America I see the tragedy of sllavery

[kingheinz57]

@tnhiwatiwa700 no

[1idea]

this shit is funny as hell

[kichaawetu]

total lie

[madiana101]

not every black woman is like this -_-

[bigkingsha]

"Noximma" lol

[mersamful]

omg this is soooooooo true i think everybody can learn from this cause i did

[cshiann]

I LOVE MY BLACK KINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!

[WizzoPro9476]

@cshiann Do u really?! Even the light-skinned ones from 5'5-5'10?!

[cshiann]

I have a man, a good man- and want to keep him so i thought I'd check this out, yeah it stung a little bit but the truth hurts sometime - I can say that this is helpful - thanks _ WE LISTEN! : )

[iqgray]

On point, but all in all I was blessed with a real good African woman from the African Continent, with a different mentality on how they should treat their men and how their men should should treat a woman.

[lilcoco770007]

BM and BW need to find a way to resolve this. It's hurting our children.

[azumanation]

MA'AT Hotep

Excellent video "GOD" im going to check out pt2....

[Koolregg1014]

Hand clap... Standing ovation.

[totaly52]

relate not reltate

[MegaMalik30]

@totaly52

go away

MA'AT

[zstreet1]

You don't want her to wear hair rollers to bed, how do you expect her to look sexy in the morning?

[level242]

These computer voices annoys the shit out of me

[wuspopNmane]

@MRbossman1982 lol!

[moormagic1]

Black women & Black men all have issues that drive us away from one another. This type of video (among others that I seen) addresses problems that SOME of the Black men deal with. Ok, I got it, now what? What is this going to solve? I read the commemts & still no solution only bashing. If you have issues with SOME of us, leave us alone.Talk 2 your mothers & tell her how u feel. But 2 continue displaying OUR problems with no solutions, is 2 continue the work that white supremacy don't have 2 do.

[HeartlessOctober]

@moormagic1 Post 2of2 Both sexes have insecurities, and we must let our mate know that there is a concern and we want to foster positive dialogue to bring about change. It’s extremely difficult to discuss concerns without assigning blame; most aggression in arguments comes from the fear/frustration of not understanding or not being understood. Solutions start at listening more; even if you don’t agree with their feelings, please accept their right to have them. Peace&Respect.

[HeartlessOctober]

@moormagic1Post 1of2 Peace. A common misconception is labeling criticism as "bashing". The point of the video was not to solve the issues necessarily, but rather to open dialogue amongst the sexes. BW tend to handle criticism poorly and instantly resort to a defensive posture..."If you have issues with SOME of us, leave us alone." You're not sure what to do about the issue, but feel that you’re being blamed. This natural fear-based defensive posturing will only block positive communication.

[MegaMalik30]

@HeartlessOctober

There ya go....i have no idea how someone thinks of this as bashing, any sane person can see the attempt at healing between our sisters and brothers, thats why some of these sistersi can't even respond to online or off, because they act just like that when the truth is brought....now of course there's sisters that don't act like that, but its commonplace enough.

MA'AT

[ssgeorgiabreeze]

@HeartlessOctober To not expect a defensive reaction when OUR black men find fault with us is a deliate situaion.We as black women gave gone through so much ourselves and are HELD TO HIGHER STANDARDS by black men than other races. when we fall short of Never complaining, always be selfless, treat the Black Man like a King, hold down the household, finances, and bedroom. We are instantly bashed! Other woman can afford to just have a bad week or PMS. STOP THE SLAVE MENTALITY BLACK MEN!

[HeartlessOctober]

@ssgeorgiabreeze My dear Sistah, BM don’t hold BW to a higher standard. We expect the same virtues that any normal person requires from a mate. If you thought that even you as an individual maintained the ideals of which you spoke, then we wouldn’t be having this discussion. The sad reality is that most BW don’t treat BM like kings, never complain, etc. What specific aspect of “slave mentality” are you referring to? You’re using that term as a catch-all to manipulate & incite shame in BM.

[malarki5]

@NatTurnerIsAlive

very few Black women actually treat themselves with respect. the anger they feel towards BM is rooted in rage at the father for not taming the matriarchal mother, and allowing her to de-femininise the daughters we now see as mere Black women. They are not: they are pure products of the monstrous matriarchal family geared towards emasculating males & defeminising females.

This is but one reason BW are attracted to thugs...BM who won't hesitate to put them in their place!

[IamWhatIam081]

@malarki5 You really don't know what you are talking about. You might want to speak for yourself and stop trying speak like you know what is going on in a woman's mind. You, like most men have no clue.

[malarki5]

@NatTurnerIsAlive

Bro, I'm a fierce critic of most black women; I find them generally unfeminine and irrational. but to suggest they "look up to white men" i.e. respect them over and above Black men, is a laughable! Black women generally see white men as weaker i.e. less feminine than themselves. the group they look up to most are white women who behaviorally are polar opposites to themselves.

Whatsmore, they actually also envy Black men & deeply fear the BM WW pair up...just like WM!

[malarki5]

@NatTurnerIsAlive

"Most of them (Black women) hate us". Are you serious, brother?

[kemykat100]

@malarki5 you might just need to talk for your self thats your issue im sorry to hear that

[malarki5]

@kemykat100

no problem, will do.

[azumanation]

Hotep

Excellent video brother very good research & solutions to the black man & woman's

relationship problems & miscommunications....keep up the good family!