U're batting a Thousand, Vanae. Coaching can never start fr. where 1's broken. Even tho some gather that of themselves & yet persue it. The great thing that I'm seeing of U & from what you say U've experienced in being coached, that I wouldn't have guessed I'd gather otherwise, is just that there's nothing wrong,Coachees are right where they should/need to be,always. Good Stuff! Enjoying Ur Becoming. & I know it doesn't stop here/now. Lookin' forward. Steve/SF/Thousand Days/Paluka/FriscoDuck.
how do i know if my girlfriend still loves me? i mean she always trying to making fun of me in an inappropriate way and it keeps hurting my feelings but im so scared to lose her :( what should i do?
It's probably not such a good way to be, but yeah, when I least expect it, sometimes things that other people would consider to be "really wonderful" have happened to me. Those are the kind of things that I push away though, because if I'm not aware that something's gonna happen, then I get angry when it does, (I can't even really articulate why I act that way) and I push away ... actually sometimes fairly aggressively.
I met my current crush on the first day of school of the semester on my third year at my university. I walked in late to class and sat next to him by chance and we began talking. I'm working on it.
You're wrong..you're not whole..you are a coach on romance? I doubt you've ever been in deep love..if not, how can you coach?..your coaching would be wrong from the basics.
@FXNorm What she is trying to say is what any other advisor/coach would tell you. And that is that we have to rid ourselves of the idea that we are incomplete beings. Rather we should assume that we are all complete but we should always leave room for improvement. When we meet someone and fall in love, we don't complete each other, rather we complement each other nicely and overlap in all the right ways. The focus should be on ourselves and what we have to offer rather than what we lack.
I had this moment when i met this girl she was beautifull sweet and our eyes comtact when we met it was magical she ultimately became my gf my first love after 7,5 years she broke up with me and broke my self confidence i can never find some one to replace her
@Sungkawa it'll sound cliche, but time heals the wounds. Sucks now, but you will overcome this. So she broke your confidence? Man up, bro. Take this time to improve on yourself and I can guaran-damn-tee you will look back and be like "I was that guy before?! WTF was I thinking!?". And don't look for another like her, cuz if you do she'll do the same like that ex of yours. There's other fish in the sea, so don't stop looking until you catch yourself a mutha f'n mermaid.
I have got a 7 years relationship with my ex, and we broke out 10 years ago. because she found replacement. I totally lost confidants now. I am trying so hard to find one on the beginning of this year. I forcing myself to fall in love with this girl. because I got some signal from her that she is available. but I don't know why. Few months later, she told me she got a bf. I really don't know what is going wrong with me. What should I do now? and how to I build up my confidence again? I am lost!
Interesting. I agree with the not letting the other complete you. But humans are made to attach ... it is very suggesting. If you want to be friends, you should message me.
for me that moment was when I started to realize I'm falling in love with an old friend. It is great because just the simple thought of her gives me the inspiration to change myself for the better.
I met an amazing woman at a salsa workshop (who drove in from 250 miles away to take the workshop), and we had a great connection from our first dance. We met at a salsa club that night while she was in town, and her plan was to drive home (all 250 miles) right afterwards! I said "HECK no...stay at my place, get some sleep, and drive home when you're refreshed." She accepted, and I was going to give her my bedroom while I slept in my office in a sleeping bag. -- continued in reply --
@nautseuqcaj By the time we got back, we enjoyed a snack and some amazing conversation, and we eventually moved to my bedroom to be more comfortable. It wasn't until 6am when we were still talking (while getting closer, slowly but surely), that I brushed her hair from her face and kissed her. I had no idea I was going to meet someone at that workshop, and I had no intention of "scoring" by any means through the course of the night...but it just happened. Perfectly. :-)
I totally agree Vanae... I don't think its right to be looking for "the other half" to full fill whatever you don't have. You're gonna end up really disappointed when you can't find that person.
When I prepare myself to talk to a girl I previously told myself I'd talk to eventually, I never see her. I only see them when I least expect it; thus, I don't approach her =/
Getting side tracked, is that a train or an airplane passing by?(you can hear in the background the roar) No wonder the person below says you look tired, lol. Shit I think I pressed something on my phone earlier and I got unsubscribed, sorry. It has been my experience that when you least expect something is when it usually happens and when you wanted really bad or are searching for it, it eludes you. The greatest points for growth in my life have always been at my lowest points.
Giáo viên Vanae, you look a bit tired - everything OK? But to reply to your question - I have felt the best after breakup. I was in a relationship and going to the direction that was not good for me or good for us. And the reason I was going there was my limited understanding of who I am and what I want. So finally I realized this and wanted out, and I'm happy for learning new things about myself.
wow i haven't seen you vids in sooo long, you've changed so much
KamadiTV 3 months ago
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U're batting a Thousand, Vanae. Coaching can never start fr. where 1's broken. Even tho some gather that of themselves & yet persue it. The great thing that I'm seeing of U & from what you say U've experienced in being coached, that I wouldn't have guessed I'd gather otherwise, is just that there's nothing wrong,Coachees are right where they should/need to be,always. Good Stuff! Enjoying Ur Becoming. & I know it doesn't stop here/now. Lookin' forward. Steve/SF/Thousand Days/Paluka/FriscoDuck.
LandSnipe415 5 months ago
how do i know if my girlfriend still loves me? i mean she always trying to making fun of me in an inappropriate way and it keeps hurting my feelings but im so scared to lose her :( what should i do?
SuperYouloveit 5 months ago
Yeah what's the poem mon?
phototristan 5 months ago
Where's the poem?
armondo22 5 months ago
you're yummy
whyeff21 5 months ago
It's probably not such a good way to be, but yeah, when I least expect it, sometimes things that other people would consider to be "really wonderful" have happened to me. Those are the kind of things that I push away though, because if I'm not aware that something's gonna happen, then I get angry when it does, (I can't even really articulate why I act that way) and I push away ... actually sometimes fairly aggressively.
Kaiya027 5 months ago
I met my current crush on the first day of school of the semester on my third year at my university. I walked in late to class and sat next to him by chance and we began talking. I'm working on it.
theawesomelizeth 5 months ago
You're wrong..you're not whole..you are a coach on romance? I doubt you've ever been in deep love..if not, how can you coach?..your coaching would be wrong from the basics.
FXNorm 5 months ago
@FXNorm What she is trying to say is what any other advisor/coach would tell you. And that is that we have to rid ourselves of the idea that we are incomplete beings. Rather we should assume that we are all complete but we should always leave room for improvement. When we meet someone and fall in love, we don't complete each other, rather we complement each other nicely and overlap in all the right ways. The focus should be on ourselves and what we have to offer rather than what we lack.
theawesomelizeth 5 months ago
@Soljah37 Thnx
Sungkawa 5 months ago
I had this moment when i met this girl she was beautifull sweet and our eyes comtact when we met it was magical she ultimately became my gf my first love after 7,5 years she broke up with me and broke my self confidence i can never find some one to replace her
Sungkawa 5 months ago
@Sungkawa it'll sound cliche, but time heals the wounds. Sucks now, but you will overcome this. So she broke your confidence? Man up, bro. Take this time to improve on yourself and I can guaran-damn-tee you will look back and be like "I was that guy before?! WTF was I thinking!?". And don't look for another like her, cuz if you do she'll do the same like that ex of yours. There's other fish in the sea, so don't stop looking until you catch yourself a mutha f'n mermaid.
soljah37 5 months ago 17
WILL YOU MARRY ME?
ace50105010 5 months ago 11
@ace50105010 no.
Randomdudeudontkn0w 5 months ago
@Randomdudeudontkn0w You are not Vanae
ace50105010 4 months ago
I have got a 7 years relationship with my ex, and we broke out 10 years ago. because she found replacement. I totally lost confidants now. I am trying so hard to find one on the beginning of this year. I forcing myself to fall in love with this girl. because I got some signal from her that she is available. but I don't know why. Few months later, she told me she got a bf. I really don't know what is going wrong with me. What should I do now? and how to I build up my confidence again? I am lost!
leongjardin 5 months ago
love SUCK sex is AWESOME
kotkaable 5 months ago
Interesting. I agree with the not letting the other complete you. But humans are made to attach ... it is very suggesting. If you want to be friends, you should message me.
blackwidow161 5 months ago
why do I attract crazy women?
235RB 5 months ago
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Nimzowitz 5 months ago
If that other person will "complete" you, he/she also has the power to take away your completeness..Think about it, let it marinate for a bit
frejordan23 5 months ago 3
for me that moment was when I started to realize I'm falling in love with an old friend. It is great because just the simple thought of her gives me the inspiration to change myself for the better.
hexlhieA 5 months ago
I met an amazing woman at a salsa workshop (who drove in from 250 miles away to take the workshop), and we had a great connection from our first dance. We met at a salsa club that night while she was in town, and her plan was to drive home (all 250 miles) right afterwards! I said "HECK no...stay at my place, get some sleep, and drive home when you're refreshed." She accepted, and I was going to give her my bedroom while I slept in my office in a sleeping bag. -- continued in reply --
nautseuqcaj 5 months ago
@nautseuqcaj By the time we got back, we enjoyed a snack and some amazing conversation, and we eventually moved to my bedroom to be more comfortable. It wasn't until 6am when we were still talking (while getting closer, slowly but surely), that I brushed her hair from her face and kissed her. I had no idea I was going to meet someone at that workshop, and I had no intention of "scoring" by any means through the course of the night...but it just happened. Perfectly. :-)
nautseuqcaj 5 months ago
I totally agree Vanae... I don't think its right to be looking for "the other half" to full fill whatever you don't have. You're gonna end up really disappointed when you can't find that person.
TheGLOSSette 5 months ago
When I prepare myself to talk to a girl I previously told myself I'd talk to eventually, I never see her. I only see them when I least expect it; thus, I don't approach her =/
RyanOrteez 5 months ago
Getting side tracked, is that a train or an airplane passing by?(you can hear in the background the roar) No wonder the person below says you look tired, lol. Shit I think I pressed something on my phone earlier and I got unsubscribed, sorry. It has been my experience that when you least expect something is when it usually happens and when you wanted really bad or are searching for it, it eludes you. The greatest points for growth in my life have always been at my lowest points.
huatuo1668 5 months ago
Very well said Vanae :)
xxlovedtobelovedxx 5 months ago
Giáo viên Vanae, you look a bit tired - everything OK? But to reply to your question - I have felt the best after breakup. I was in a relationship and going to the direction that was not good for me or good for us. And the reason I was going there was my limited understanding of who I am and what I want. So finally I realized this and wanted out, and I'm happy for learning new things about myself.
samikalastaja 5 months ago
hi
thesmithfamily99 5 months ago
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gamez103 5 months ago