Dating: Understanding Men : Why Do Guys Lose Interest?

[reiluna010]

why go through that trouble? Men like that are replaceable, best thing to do is find a guy you can trust will love and respect you for forever.

[GremlinsPayday]

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[packerfan748]

is this guy for real

[WombofHathor]

i was told years ago that the same thing it took to get a man is the same thing its going to take to keep him. and yes, be your own person all the time.

[SexyRaww]

@juneride Well, you're just saying that all men are a messed up species. lol.

[ptk51]

how to be a loving men to have a close and wonderful relationship. Why we don't see that? First there need to be an interest on both sides to have to love. I had it and I know what I speak of. The men was interested and carying, compassionate, listening and helpful. HUMAN QUALITIES that attract one human to another, not I don't understand women so I watch footbal.

[ptk51]

WHAT ABOUT HOW TO keep the interest of a women?? Not with footbal. why men don't think about that? I knew a man who cared about women, period, so he was interested more than in football. And if they both care & interested that is when it works. Men need to show interest in relationship & want to know how to make it work as much as a women. Every post here is just about how to understand a men, how to attract a men, how to men, men men THIS IS WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE TO HAVE BALANCE and true love!

[ptk51]

WHAT ABOUT HOW TO keep the interest of a women??? Not with foodbal. why men don't think about that. I knew a man who cared about women , period, so he was interested more than in football.. And if they both care and interested that is when it works. Man need to show interest in relattionship, and want to know how to make it work as much as a women.

[loneamaruq]

Why is it that all men like sports but they all don't like you? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you, but change yourself.  Keep making those changes, girl. Because men are only interested in new things. We can't help it if we become attracted to new and exotic women. So fufill our fantasy by changing into different women, develop new personas, every season. So get a new perfume, dress real exotic, straighten your hair. and remember if I'm not interested, it must be your fault.

[imafuckinglunatic]

this isn't as stupid as it seems, some of these techniques really work, thanks dr paul

[may22v84]

thank you so much for the advice Im so glad there is people like you to help us specially to those who are hopeless and bad at relationship! they could be the most prettiest and gorgeous men in earth but if someone doesnt know how to handle relationship it will all fail

[may22v84]

thank you so much for the advice

[superchick76]

I taken your advice and it didn't work! Now what??

[MsComplicatedmelody]

this is really helping thankx :)

[frdrcksncn]

What about the guy who are more on the aesthetic side?..

[YoungBlackStud95]

@JBthree24

[MBPKyle]

@JBthree24 too bad thats what love is nowdays its all about what you get from the relationship not what you give. love nowdays is were you try to make chemistry rather than let it happen. people have made it what it is. and what is nowdays is an object, a benefit you gain from someone else. and to everyone who dosent do that they get tricked and heartbroken by those who do.

[juneride]

First of all I'm a man, not a woman.

Second of all, every woman WANTS to be a sex object. And she wants to do it for free. I dated many women and I never had to support them.. Women prefer successful men when they look for husbands. When they want to date just for fun, they don't care how much money you make (nor can they know that).

I'm a guy women date for fun. You're a guy they'll marry. Congratulations!

[JBthree24]

...hmm, i like tha! lol

[juneride]

Every woman wants security in life. Every woman can lose interest in a guy who had initially misrepresented himself.

She fell in love with a strong guy who turned out to be a paper tiger. I can't blame her for that.

[fee20luv]

ohhhh.. i seee  ok . good stuff doc. :)

[superchick76]

good advice

[menonfire12]

Great insight Dr. Paul

[Mokurentate]

if you lose interest in someone, you don't love them anymore (or maybe you never did). it's as simple as that.

[JBthree24]

@Mokurentate you received two thumbs down but im going to thumb up your comment. because it's true

[Mokurentate]

It is true. I've seen people give up on their relationships because they lost interest or both parties lost interest and called it quits. D:

[StilettoKix]

My father never asked my mother to change this or be that. He loves her for who she is, with all her faults. Never cheated, never played games. He's the real deal, 60+ years! The problem is, men get bored and easily just go somewhere else. Give me a break! I'm a 48-year-young attractive woman and I'd like to wake up to something that looks good!" Men, you need to keep it exciting...and for goodness sakes, keep up your appearance!!

[nampoma]

You are soooo GOOD! I think all women should see this..

You really are giving me some handy tips..

Dont Stop your video's carry on..!!

[swtsacrifice]

exactly a new season not a new girlfriend... everyone loses that spark after being years together u dont get butterflies in ur stomach or get nervous or shyness all those things are fun when u meet sumone new that u like and u kiss them for the first time u can never get that back with a person u been with for years cuz ur comfotable already with them and it sucks i miss those fun feelings too

[BraziliAna]

It´s best not to count on those fun feelings (ie butterflies, nervous) in adulthood. They can be substituted by simply being happy and comfortable around the loved one.

[sneakernight8789]

agreeing with you

[SexyRaww]

@swtsacrifice Sure, but that was for teenagers. If you rely on those "fun feelings" as the determinate of your relationships, you're destined to be single for the rest of your life because you're not opening your door for true love. True love is about COMFORT, trust and being yourself freely. You're going to realize soon that it is very hard to find a genuine person because everyone is searching for that "fun feeling" but it won't lead you to anything real and deep.

[swtsacrifice]

@SexyRaww i like your answer

[Meangirlhaha]

These are GOOD advice!!! Thank you so much!

[tawnteens]

I love you! You are hilarious!  Keep posting these. .