Deep Depression on Campus (College Health Guru)

[juliaheartz]

cheer up everyone for why you should be sad?>>?? yeah God save me from depression! be positive always!!

[madaobro]

@juliaheartz thx for cheering me up..... my family just fight over again :(

[madaobro]

@juliaheartz thx dude for saying such thing :)

[juliaheartz]

no need for any medication! yeah God save me from depression!

[RaikenXion]

Who actually finds these types of videos of sum typical smug guy in a suit who basically looks like hes got it all, explaining all he knows bout Depression in a nice calm voice, what bullshit. Id rather hear videos of REAL PEOPLE, speaking from the heart and sharing their experiences of the Illness.

[evoldevildogs]

america made suicide illegal ...

isnt that the stupidest shit you ever herd ...what are you gonna tell yourself ..."oh i guess i cant commit suicide because its illegal" as if it was made to be a deterrent

and what are the cops gonna do? arrest your dead body..its all just a fucking joke

[abby495]

@evoldevildogs yeah really lol

[Xtrakoolness]

My dad passed during my second year of college.. so much was lost..our home..the few belongings we did have..I'm broke and didn't have the resources to just take time off and vacation (i got to a private school with a lot of trustfund kids)..so it was mandatory that i have outside therapy in order to take time off, but wouldn't be able to get therapy at school. I wanna die, I have no hope..school seems impossible to finish..I just want to go to sleep and not wake up..things look so grim

[Gmancrap]

At least you guys got into college. Try getting rejected from every college you apply to (even a community college) and then being told things will get better from people who got into college and are living it up. I wish every night that I just wont wake up the next morning. But it never happens.

You guys have it so good you don't even know it.

[shanieeb]

@Gmancrap and bums on the street would probably tell you that you have it so good you don't even know it. there's always someone worse off, but it doesn't matter. depression can happen to anybody no matter how much or how little you have. don't be so naive.

[Gmancrap]

Perhaps, but people should also be great-full for what they have.  It's not like I'm rich or something. I'm just not homeless.

[XbLIcecoldkila15]

@Gmancrap And that's the paradox in your statement. Just as you're saying that people should be grateful YOU yourself should be grateful aswell. You may not be homeless but at least you're not dying in some war or living in famine.

[Gmancrap]

But that doesn't make someone happy, perhaps I'm not in Africa but I'm still not in college, learning. That's such silly thing to say to a suicidal person "Because you arent dieing you should be happy".

[XbLIcecoldkila15]

@Gmancrap I said nothing about being happy or having the feeling you should be happy...

[tonyhawksacriminal]

im in my final year (of four) of a graphic design degree in new zealand. I have struggled through the last three years and my anxiety has gotten to an all time high. i have been though hell. in the first year i got my first girlfriend ever pregnant, and that has plagued me since. i feel like scum every day. i procrastinate assignments to the last minute every time. i cant see any future in my degree and i am struggling to finish. i honestly cant wait to finish this bullshit

[ALoserMylifeIs]

Hey guys check my blog its about my depressing life and this is the only thing keeping me going so... if you take a look and read about it it would mean alot link is in my channel

[JayJayGrady4U]

I'm an electrical engineering student in my last year (5th year)...I have to deal with extremely difficult classes...always having to do multiple assignments at the same time...pressure to "hurry up and graduate"....this year, i just hit rock bottom...i literally felt like i was in quick sand...the more and more I tried....the more I sunk and the more I became tired...ON TOP OF DEALING WITH DEPRESSION AND LOW SELF ESTEEM SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL!!!!

[JayJayGrady4U]

@JayJayGrady4U con't...I literally said "fuck it" I completely stopped going to all of my classes, 5 weeks before the semester ended....I was so overwhelmed and fatigued that I just didn't care anymore, I got straight "F's" this semester n I really don't care because I'm always so sad and miserable..My classmates call my phone wondering what happened to me, but I just ignore them, don't want to be bothered...2010 was a horrible year for me...I have no idea when I will graduate or if I ever will

[happywallflower]

@JayJayGrady4U I'm also in my 5th year so I know what you're going through. I am currently taking antidepressants for my depression but I don't feel motivated to do anything. On top of that, I'm sleeping more on my antidepressants and become tired during the daytime. I understand what you're going through. I hope you are doing well.

[LouderisBetter1]

@JayJayGrady4U im a electrical engineer too. i know EXACTLY what you mean. ive realized graduating has become lower as a priority and more of the reward for just getting through this shit. social life sucks, always studying, never enough time in the day, never satisfied, always another exam coming up, always seeing other people happy and socializing. then realize "oh yeah im an engineer." goodluck man

[sjerads]

For guys: you don't want to take antidepressents. If you take antidepressents, you will become very depressed in the bedroom.

[Abrocrombie2012]

People at my school look at me weird because if my disability. I really hate it

[DanicaPatrickIndy]

no depression with amega

[TheIggy457]

If what your doing isn't helping you. Try what I have "Jesus". 100% success rate.

Bless you.

[tonyhawksacriminal]

@TheIggy457 jesus is an opiate for the masses, id rather be depressed and open minded than believing in a spiritual pool of vomit, sorry.

[BboyChunGViN]

i would rather smoke weed than take those dangerous pills

[TashaRichardsonFan1]

I saw a therapist on campus, but she was only allow six sessions, so now we are not seeing eachother anymore.

[ieatcement]

fucking fags depression depression ima kill myself im going to cut myself its all a call for attention

[nutmega009]

lets leave it at this you talk to a GRAD STUDENT!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT a professional

[cindy1000000]

I have depression,for about 5 months now.

[zz03]

ok i started 2 do bad in my classes n my instructor pulls me aside n tell me she thinks i need help an i have depression. of course im depressed! i cant afford 2 pay 4 gas 2 get 2 school, my credit rating's gone down hill, the classes r dumb n unnecessary, oh n did i mention im broke.

[fathersonnholyspirit]

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[Gloriamagnificens]

I've got a gun, it's loaded and pointed straight at my temple. Bye Bye, cruel world, FUCK YOU!!!

[climz1989]

@Gloriamagnificens haha nice man

[acemusta]

Don't think of it as depression, think of it as a overdose of reality.

Seriously, fuck everything.

[wowadogand]

@acemusta wow i love how u just said "fuck everything" i totaly agree we need t all just chill 4 a bit

[bqureshi21]

im in university and been depressed for past couple years... grades dropped.. i just see no intrinsic value or meaning in life, why bother waking up? we all die in the end anyway.

(ps please dont tell me God will save me.. in fact, dont bring up religion at all)

[C1ll3]

To me there is no ''right'' way of treating a depression. Thats individual. Its not like theres a recipe u should follow and then feel better.

What helped me through my depression was to find somebody I trusted, and then look inside myself to see exactly what I needed to move on. My inner strength came from the thought that I had to live for both myself - and the bf I lost in that car accident.. Im stil not 100% through the depression, but my situation now is better than almost 1 year ago..

[DanteMcLeod]

That´s so true all about that kind of Illness.

If you visit my Video about a few Life-Lessons.

perhaps can help someone.

Good Luck Boys and Girls ;-)

[eternallyempty]

the worst part about depression is that

1) no one will believe you

2) or if they believe you, it won't be seriously

3) of if they take it, you'll be treated differently

4) or you'll be told to suck it up, and you'll be isolated or labeled as weak or attention seeking . . . of course then many 'friends' don't even show signs they care in the slightest

[FIREYICEangel]

this doesnt help me at all i hate whenpeople tell me the syptoms orask whats wronge just freaking bite me i eathier hate or cry and i stay up all night i dont eat alot i think im fat im acualy normal for my sizebut i hate shcool and i worry alot about every thing thats wrong with me

[C1ll3]

It really is annoying when people seem to have no understanding for whats going on, and pretends like a chat for 5 mins will make u cry and then feel better afterwards..

If u dont want to talk to a professional my advice is to find a good friend, or something that inspires u to get better.

But u should consider maybe going to a doctor, people fear the pills, but they made a difference for me. (combined with my own will though)

I really hope u'll make it, and not end up like what I tried to..

[loovEdwardcullen]

it's so irritating when your friends dont get a shit! >:(

[dafunker00]

Holy shit. people saying they want to kill themselves is getting Thumbed UP??

ps ive had depression worse than anyone

first of all if you dont get the job done its only going to be worse when you wake up in the hospital.

[C1ll3]

U cant possibly be capeable of crowning ur own depression as the worst. And who care if urs was worse? People are still depressed and should be helped? If u got through ur depression, then why dont u tell them how to go through instead of making them feel even more different than they already do?

And the rest of what u said is just awful..

U should be ashamed of urself!

[dafunker00]

Youre right!! im such a bad person for giving practical advice. I feel so bad about it i think im going to kill myself.. no its okay its not your fault its all mine

im going to overdose on TYLENOL..

[C1ll3]

Practical advice? U were telling depressed people to get the ''job done correctly''?

Act like ur more than 11, please..

[dafunker00]

Uhhh yeah. Im pretty sure all the 11 year old here think that overdosing on tylenol is going to kill them. Well actually it can. if you dont puke your guts out first. Then youll die slowly over the course of a week, more or less, from liver failure.

Oh but im sure thats common knowlege right? What the fuck were you insinuating anyways?

[C1ll3]

What with all the other talk? Ur avoiding the subject..

I told u to not tell people their depression isnt nearly as bad as the one u went through, and not to tell them to killthemselves?

[dafunker00]

Ehh youre right. i wont do that anymore, i got depression from adderall a few years ago and its starting to go away.

Funny thing though!! i still feel like killing myself, but now that my depression is gone i feel like ther would be no point. Gah... wish i could just go back to being depressed

[C1ll3]

really? I wish I could get over mine :/

Im tired of crying.. tired of everything..

[fallenangel089]

i know this feeling well. i have come so close some time to just ending it. ive delt with depression on and off for a few years but its really bad this time and i just cry constantly :(

[metubeinfo]

it's not a forever burden - start by visualising happy outcomes in your life. Doesn't matter if they're not immediately possible, or even if just a fantasy, because while you are thinking depressing thoughts you are reinforcing this in your deep memory.Whereas new happy thoughts stored in your memory can now be your guiding motivation. Your deep memory/unconscious mind doesn;t distinguish between fantasy and reality, and acts on what thoughts you put in.

[frother]

who would pay a dollar to download this

[deepez19]

if u suffer of depression

quit drugs now!!!!!!!!!/additions

go see some true friends

ask help

get a job

if u still have probs,then i dont know

make ur own way to become happy

[Sobekkha]

My doctor told me that I had depression and anxiety. I wish I found out a few months ago, or at least before my coursework began to suffer. Man I feel like a failure. Its times like this I wanna kill myself.

[slauge]

Try working out really, really hard and often. Take yourself to extreme levels. It hurts a lot, which is satisfying, and the endorphins afterwards stave of the depression.

[CFC58]

i want to kill myself

[Nanumir]

DON'T TAKE MEDICATION!

[Ni83co]

it sucks dont take to much pills if you can manges whit out pil do so, pilss have ugly side effecks, if you take them, dont ake them to long of posibel

[SarahCR1]

Don't take paxil ffs! You won't be able to stop.

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[sweetypie000]

just so you didn't know he was a doctor they hung a stethoscope on him.

All shrinks know nothing imo.

If you want free advice - stear clear of anti depressants and the whole mental health system it does not work (unless you are someone famous and they pull out all the stops to give you what you need)

[jgally88]

College is a load of bureaucratic bull shit.

"lets just teach them the same boring shit each year and cut funding for creative courses"

My social life is still fun cause i drive to college from home and still see my old friends regularly.

This video does'nt help me, yer man sounds depressed himself with that dreary voice.

Prob another victim of "professional"indoctornation .

[xthatrandomguy]

A little help once in awhile is good, but i've worked with alot of depressed people before and they can become dependant on you all the time....

if you cant motivate yourself then your never going to get results.

[sweetypie000]

"and they can become dependant on you all the time...."

with a comment like that i recommend you stop working with depressed people immediately (for their sake)

i think maybe you are greatly over estimating your worth and any possible help you think you are giving.

[stuff12345678901234]

im more depressed i cant date girls and im 18 and i missed out on prom and never went to one highschool party and im IN stupid college but live at home

living out on my own not an option

not that i have a problem in my brain

but rents tell me love and friendship is dumb

[ShadyPOV]

awe love and friendship is what we live for, not success alone. you need to reach out to others, the best way to do that is join a club or sport. our parents try to teach us but they are not us and they can't live our live for us. so don't let your parents ideas get you down, you need to take risks and live for yourself. schools are full of clubs, you may not know anyone at first, don't give up. the longer you are in a club the better friends you make. good luck friend.

[stuff12345678901234]

except i like highschool girls pretty much

cause its like i missed out on my youth

and my college sucks when it comes to girls

[BigFeet5572]

You're only fooling yourself.

[stuff12345678901234]

about what?

what am i fooling myself about?

you dont know thats why you didnt say it

cant even complete your thought

so dont bother writing if you have nothing to say

[BigFeet5572]

Hahaha calm down son. I wasn't trying to insult you. But I think your attitude has you fooled about your condition. Believe me, there are LOTS of people elsewhere in the world that are much worse off than you are. True, I'm sure you feel that way and I know there are lots of other people that feel that way too. But I don't think it's worth the trouble. Of course, if you want to mope around anyway, there is no stopping you.

[stuff12345678901234]

it is fucked up man

you cant make the excuse ''its worse for other ppl''

then when will your problem be solved?

its not even my fault

if a kid isnt social or allowed to have friends or date the point is it CAN turn into the WORST problem

[BigFeet5572]

Why the hell wouldn't someone be allowed to have friends? Or date? Can't you do it in secret? I think there are ways around this problem.

[stuff12345678901234]

yeah im trying that like getting this card so i can do this online dating thing

and figure out the rest from there

but yeah its messed up

my mom wont let me have friends cause she thinks they will talk about 'girls body parts' or some shit like that

even tho she doesnt even know them

and the fact she caught me doing some random chatroom thing

i lost her "TRUST" PFFT

forever for going to movies

its fucked

[BigFeet5572]

How old are you?

[stuff12345678901234]

18, yeah how pathetic right?

but some ppl drown in loss when the missed out the pivotal moments in their life

then everything else becomes confusing

[BigFeet5572]

Have you ever tried explaining to them how you really feel? Telling them that you are not happy in your current situation? They should know that it is possible to have good, helpful friends. It sounds like they are misunderstanding you.

[stuff12345678901234]

yeah i have and they say im stupid and selfish or something

when i never did any party or nothing

they think the first 25 yrs of your life are about work thats it, no social life

i mean wtf

[BigFeet5572]

They don't sound like very understanding parents.

[stuff12345678901234]

you think?

thats why im screwed

[BigFeet5572]

But I'm still convinced that there are ways around your problems.

[stuff12345678901234]

pfft not really

[BigFeet5572]

Yes really.

[stuff12345678901234]

hahaa dont play games man

its pretty fucked up okay

[BigFeet5572]

Ok, but you are 18 now. Time to grow up and tell them that what you do is none of their fucking business. And if they don't get that, MAKE them understand that. Don't back down. You'd be surprised what you can accomplish. MAKE them understand that YOU will not have it any other way. It will be ugly, but it's worth it. Don't fear the consequences they threaten you with. Prove your point. Be headstrong. You are a legal adult now in a court of law. They cannot order you around.

[stuff12345678901234]

true that man

but ive done that and said all that

all that results is tears

maybe possible throwing out of textbooks on the lawn or the loss of my computer

removal from university

and told how stupid and idiotic i am

and society is perverted and we dont want to be a part of your perversion

[BigFeet5572]

In my attempt to try and clear up this puzzle for you, let me ask you this: do your parents claim to be religious?

[stuff12345678901234]

yes and no

we arent religious per say

but have strict cultural values

i guess

like for me even kissing is wrong or being/dating someone who would eat me

or because other ppl have different ''hygiene habits''

anyways tho yes which just shows im screwed

[BigFeet5572]

What culture do they originate from?

[stuff12345678901234]

Hinduism and i meant ''eat meat'

from my last comment

[BigFeet5572]

Well sir, it sounds like your best chance is to operate in secret. I'm assuming that you have a driver's license and can go about on your merry way. That seems like a good option for you. And correct me if I'm wrong, but is one of the reasons you are on youtube for friends? Or are you on here for another purpose? Just wondering.

[stuff12345678901234]

haha uh if you think i had that option i wouldnt have done it by now???

and no i dont have that either

and im on youtube cause i have no life

and listen to sad songs

[BigFeet5572]

I see........... well I'm assuming you use facebook and myspace and all that good stuff, right?

[stuff12345678901234]

no not allowed to use those things

my parents say they are wrong, even having an email account

i use fb but barely because i rarely have time to access it and am not allowed to

so as you can see im just slowly falling apart

[BigFeet5572]

Ok so now dude just don't tolerate their shit anymore. You deserve better.

[BigFeet5572]

So they don't want you to use facebook, yet they let you use youtube? How does that work?

[stuff12345678901234]

not allowed its in secret

[BigFeet5572]

Well bummer dude.

[stuff12345678901234]

yeah duh

and people like me should be high on drugs and shit

but no ikeep myself away from that

but im crumbling and will never recover its just how it is

i know ppl who have everything who do those things and no probs

and im the fucking one who has to always be disappointed

fuck it

[lookforthelight]

dude if you need to talk I'm here to listen. Just send me an email

[TEKM0SIS]

wow, you really are a LOSER

[stuff12345678901234]

and your a fucking fag so stfu

[RobotzAreAwesome]

Can robots take Paxil?

[Naproxenum]

U mean human tools, like coffee shops workers and McDonald ?? guess they can

[sweetypie000]

they are already, millions and millions of them around the world

:o

[Amagdy1]

The problem with depression is that you'll keep always seeking help!

[Keyaira14]

First off, I'd say that no, you won't always keep seeking help, as long as the depression symptoms either become very light or disappear altogether, that is if there is a recovery. And, second, it's not like we have any choice in the matter anyway. We didn't chose to suffer from depression, and I think it's still better to seek help than to stay alone in such circumstances. Still though, in any case, depression sucks, a lot.

[Chicagokrzy]

@Keyaira14 I couldn't agree anymore. 

[86kerry]

FIRST

[BeautyOfWar]

FIRST TO FIRST

[stevo35972]

First to First to First

[propagandize]

Third to first?

[guitarpope]

urine

[semicharmed08]

whaaaa?

:)