Am I Gay/Lesbian? Here's the scoop :-)

[Smoke2Fly1]

you are beautiful :)

[TheGigiChannel]

@Smoke2Fly1 thank you sweetheart

[65736274735645643756]

you helped me so much :D

[TheGigiChannel]

@65736274735645643756 how so?



[65736274735645643756]

@TheGigiChannel for ages i was like " ugh, so does this make me gay or not gay or bi??? but now i know that i don't have to fit neatly into one category or put a label on myself :)

[65736274735645643756]

@TheGigiChannel for ages i was all confused thinking "ugh, does this make me gay or not gay or bi?" but from hearing you talk i know that I don't have to fit neatly into one category or put a label on

myrself :D great vid BTW!

[MultitaskFish]

@65736274735645643756 I agree! :)

[TheGigiChannel]

@MultitaskFish same for you. how so?

[MultitaskFish]

@TheGigiChannel I was so confused about me deciding what sexualorientation is I thought that i had to decide if I was Bi och Les ( I don't think I'll end up with a guy but you'll never know) , and after I watched your video I got that I don't have to decide what that. I can just be me :)

[TheGigiChannel]

@MultitaskFish Yay! Love that :-)

[shieldsff]

While I completely think that the Biblical arguments more than sufficient for you (they provide very compelling moral and socio-historical grounds). I would offer you the following:

search the youtube vid entitled: "Daughter of a gay man speaks"

Personally it effects you, me and everyone else, because 'marriage' is a SOCIAL institution governed by laws for the collective benefit of society.Socially,absent the current laws, nothing prevents other arbitrary definitions /configurations emering

[Muffmuncherotaku]

I agree with u. I've dated chicks and only chicks but I did meet a guy that I actually felt a conection with him. But I was not attracted to him, but I know his personality and gravitate towards him. Ur video helped me sort this out, thanks.

[TheMissMellaBella]

i feel the same way girl!!

[kicsikozi]

lol

[loversarelunatics]

i prefer calling myself a woman who loves women and queer. i only use lesbian when i feel forced too but i feel like saying im a lesbian is placing myself in a really tight box although i cant see myself falling for a man you never know what could happen

[TheGigiChannel]

@loversarelunatics right!

[joshipoo16]

i know what you are, your a gorgeous human being with great hair! mwa!

[TheGigiChannel]

@joshipoo16 Thanks sweetheart!

[3242dagirl]

people dont need 2 know cuz it dont matter.

[TheMingow]

I like you, i wish everyone had this mentality because then everything wouldn't be that big of a deal :) you are a really cool individual :D

[TheGigiChannel]

@TheMingow Thanks!

[amandagriman4]

umm, fuck labels im pansexual if that sounds right

[Stephanie693]

I feel that you can be non gender specific. I don't hate men, I love women, but I dont date men well haven't in 5yrs. And I feel you I'm not either, I call it non gender specific, I love people and it takes more than a penis or a couchie to get my attention. i fall for the person, personality, and how they make me feel rather than their sexual genetics.

[amandagriman4]

@Stephanie693 you took the words right out of my mouth last time i dated a guy was 6 years ago. the closest thing i can say is i am pansexual

[maggie84123]

why do people have to make a big production about everything? so you're a bisexual female who prefers women, whats the big deal?

[TheGigiChannel]

@maggie84123 I made the vid because people were curious. No big deal to me at all.

[cutdizzle]

If you don't have sex with men then you are a lesbian....that is all....period. Hey I understand how you feel cause I think pu**y is the bomb too!

[TheGigiChannel]

@cutdizzle :)

[evanescencefan2]

hmm she must be gayyyy lmao love the vid =]

[TheGigiChannel]

@evanescencefan2 lol

[ilovemandi99]

I feel the same way. I never been sexually with a female. But Kissing a girl and kissing a guy is totally different for me. I love kisses from girls and guys, I could really care less. I know i never fucked a girl... But I know i'd love it. but I love a guy. First and last love of men. Im just not sexually attracted to men anymore. if I watch a porn, I look at the chick

[2sweet428]

I agree.. I'm a woman that loves women too...I don't tell ppl my bizness either...

[J00oohanna]

Looks like a lot of people feel the same way :) Have you ever heard of the Queer Theories? They describe that there are no roles like "men" and "women" we are all just human! Just google it! Maybe it helps you as it has helped me!

[TheGigiChannel]

Interesting... I will have to check that out.... and how have I helped you might I ask?

[Mana949]

I hate when people think gay/lesbians have a look! Like.. all gay people don't have a look! It doesn't mean if ur a girl your bald-headed and dress with baggy pants and huge shirts. And it doesn't mean that if your a boy you have long hair and...just....shove the fact that you're gay in everyones face. The true gays/lesbians are the ones that no one would suspect,ppl that everyone goes "oh they're gay" usually aren't. The guys that act crazy over girls are usually the gay ones actually.

[TonyFresh001]

I feel ya. People are just to damn nosey. Get a fuckin life and get out of how im doin

[kkmweaver123]

u r a lesbian! wow u dont look like that.. lesbians r weird and stupid u GAY NON CHRISTAINS!!!!!!

[TheGigiChannel]

I'm confused on what you just said... ok let me confirm if this is what you are saying.... are u saying that usually lesbians are weird and stupid? And are you calling me a gay non christian or are you calling all lesbians gay non christians? And if you are saying yes than just an fyi, I am christian.

[dwarfdome]

I like this video. Me and my girlfriend discuss this all the time. Sexuality is fluid especially with women. There is no need to put a label on who you are. I am a woman who is in a relationship with woman, a lesbian relationship, but this is our first "lesbian relationship". But we both feel the same way, we can't say we would never have sex with men again but we both feel we would never be in a relationship with a man. For me it's an emotional thing I can't connect with men like that.

[OpalEl]

This is great I feel the same way!

Thanks for posting this. :)

[chocolatedream3411]

love the video i dont really label myself bcuz i have a bf and im attratced to women and i never been with a woman before

[TheGigiChannel]

Oh ok, I think you are bi curious... if that's what you consider as well.

[chocolatedream3411]

yeah thats me bicurious

[phaerei]

I'm a member of your club. Great vid.

[TheGigiChannel]

Awesome! Thanks

[detroits1finestgirl]

your gorgeous!

[TheGigiChannel]

Thank you!

[spiritualseeker02]

tehn you should call yourself tatu in russian means she loves her

[TheGigiChannel]

Awesome!

[Rhaediggity]

mmhmm..keep it on the down low then..lol.. But let me just say that I appreciate the fact that your keeping it real. Most people front and fake..show em' how it done then!~ Oh and I may have missed it but did you break up with ya gurl?

[TheGigiChannel]

*sigh* yeah we did break up. I made a video how I was still trying to get over it. It was hard for me.

[RootsRunDeeep]

perfect explanation. this is exactly how i see it.

[KarmaSultry]

whats the name of the song

[TheGigiChannel]

Trilogy by Kelis I believe...