Learn NLP Patterns without NLP courses or NLP training

[stuarttan]

@mrsbwallace not at all. NLP itself is a modeling tool/skill. Therapists can use NLP, but so can teachers. But both require the competency of effective communication. NLP can help with competency modeling regardless of profession.

[calciumsupplements]

You seem a very knowledgeable practitioner... can you tell me why I should come to you for training rather than someone like Tony Robbins?

[stuarttan]

@calciumsupplements it's not mutually exclusive. Nobody should give up a chance to see Tony. I do my best to facilitate learning of skills and knowing when to execute which strategy. so you're welcome to either attend Tony's before mine or vice versa :D

[KharamiSunato]

model a effective public speaker. the headline and the content are not effective for retaining the viewer in the first 60 seconds.

[stuarttan]

@KharamiSunato Well Kharami, there's only a specific audience I'm targeting in my message/meta message. I don't quite want to think about the others, because it spreads my planning and message development too thin.

[kurtattard]

he has green walls i dont like green walls ....

[deeloko]

Hi Stuart, I ve tried to find some of your audios on your websites but couldnt, also wanted to participate to your teleseminar but still nowhere to click?

Any hint? Thanks

[deeloko]

Hi Stuart, I ve tried to find some of your audios on your websites but couldnt, also wanted to participate to your teleseminar but still nowhere to click?

Any hint? Thanks

[koldblooded1]

you are a true guru capable of teaching at the same level you understand, i bow to you stuart

[crookhunter]

Do you know Steve and George Gold? Great guys. They helped me reach my full potential in ESP and SS (shapeshifting)

dlpmind dot com / nlptraining

[urbandenizen]

I will investigate further! Thankz! :)

[jibikao]

Thank you for taking the time to explain more in depth of what NLP can help and cannot help. The typical "step process" on the sales of NLP program is a sales technique to attract learners.  I really appreciate your theoretical explanations on common NLP techniques out there. It's through understanding the theory behind NLP that one can internalize the process and utilize on his or her clients. Thank you Stuart! You being an Asian inspires me to take on NLP world.

[stuarttan]

@jibikao appreciate it. NLP itself is just one layer, although it is quite an important layer of skill and competency development.

[marcelocbacchi]

Thanks for sharing this great information. I loved it. You have a great collection of videos. Thanks.

[emergence999]

all in all thou excellent Vid - ill be making some of my own which focus on the Therapy side of it ^^

[emergence999]

modelling only comes from the master level thou...practitioners lvl is just that...practitioners which is used mostly for therapy...AND it is the most effective therapy around because it works with the individuals unconcious mind - there is no disappointment in the therapy side of NLP - how could you possibly be disappointed in helping someone getting rid of a phobia in 20 minutes? I have done some incredible work with clients and I can work with any individual.

[stuarttan]

@emergence999 Well, I think modeling comes naturally. It's just that most people have forgotten about it. As children, we all knew how to model instinctively. As for therapy, you're absolutely right. There is a lot more out there tho, that people are not capitalizing on. Modeling upright behavior, discipline, effective politicians (sic), leadership, etc. Therapy IMHO is just a small speck of human capability.

[emergence999]

@stuarttan agreed but I truly feel that its the therapy aspect of NLP that is going to free the minds of so many. Modelling is fine and all but without the therapy before hand you still leave yourself open to distored perspectives and world views...can you imagine someone with bad intent who decided to model excellent individuals? - for me modelling is a byproduct after doing the therapy and the therapy is the most important as it clears out alot to make room for real change.

[emergence999]

@stuarttan dont get me wrong i think modelling is fantastic and I model myself often to get into certain states when i need them. I just feel that the therapy aspect is so powerful and it really gives ppl a new lease on their lives, a fresh start, like an emotional reset switch ^^ - i remember the first time i got rid of the big 5 and how i had to react to pre existing situations as if it was the first time it happend but this time with new learnings and perspectives.

[emergence999]

@stuarttan its just that the therapy aspect of NLP has so much potential to do so much good in this world and because it is so quick, digestible, and tailored to the individual I truly feel this is something our governments should take a closer look at to maybe even fund some techniques to be incorporated into schools....can you imagine what the next generation would be like if the teachers taught in NLP ways? it would be a step towards true peace, and its what im aiming for in the UK :)

[stuarttan]

@emergence999 I ain't arguing with any of that at all. Plenty of potential to target whatever needs to be achieved. All the best in your endeavors!

[mrsebwallace]

Makes me think about The Structure Of Magic v1, in the first chapter it says NLP was modeled from therapists and is developed for therapists and their interventions.

[stuarttan]

@mrsebwallace therapy is partly communicating effectively.

[mrsebwallace]

@stuarttan After watching this video a few months on, what you are saying does make more sense now, but the fact is NLP is about analysing and improving people and their performance - does that generalize as being theraphy? Although theraphy is about dealing with mental/emotional issues, improving performance (ie modeling) is just the next step from that.

[RoyalHim]

How do I model great poker player?

[ScarlettPluto]

Very good stuff my friend. Just about to take an exam- recorded to video. Nice little boost to my confidence. Thank you. Good luck!

[stuarttan]

Bill Gates, not yet, and thanks for the suggestion, I'll work on it! Leonardo, has been modeled by Dilts inhis book Strategies of Genius.

[cherokeewarcry]

@stuarttan Hey yeah Great!! Thanks a lot! i LOVE blow-your-hair-back books that change how I think :-) I'll have to check that on Amazon...

[stuarttan]

@cherokeewarcry LOL - I have to model good hairstyles xD

[cherokeewarcry]

Have you modeled Bill gates or Leonardo da' Vinci? I'd *kill* to see those results!!

[ioanonissimo]

no offense stuart

but im a little skeptick

??

my question is the how ??

reprogramming yourself > if you know what i mean

cheers

[stuarttan]

@ioanonissimo You know what - I totally respect skeptics because they question and test all there is out there.

Reprogramming is not tough. It's about finding out patterns. In psychology, the term they use is "scripts" and "schema". Patterns in our brain will then need to be uncovered. Check my video on Triggers.

Some tools include reframing (changing your perspectives), submodality shifts (changing the way you represent information) and anchoring (conditioning your behaviors).

[mikeklein888]

lol....mucho mumbo jumbo nonsense.....you talk a lot but say very little.....

[stuarttan]

Well, I appreciate the feedback, but I can't do documentaries Mike. That's your job. :)

[DennyPify]

@mikeklein888 Maybe you can look into it before you make such statements?

[rayyan2222rayyan]

Gr8 stuarttan , keep goimay i know who was your trainer ?

[stuarttan]

Richard Bandler, John LaValle, Judith DeLozier  and Robert Dilts. :)

[MadArab2012]

lolz i like how he smiles for a few seconds at the very beginning so as to establish an anchor of friendliness and trust. BUSTED!!

[techwg]

lol, not charged for anything... YET... ;)

[cr4zyd4n666]

I want to learn everything there is to know about NLP. Im on a self improvement rampage, Im tired of being unconfident and unsuccessful! And yes im heading to the website you've convinced me!! You are a really great speaker though that is something I aspire to. Im no good at holding conversations or speaking confidently

[frearpark]

Good video, I like the precise way you talk, could I learn or model that even though I know nothing about NLP?

[stuarttan]

@frearpark absolutely. I've modeled many people and I'm the end result. It's not mysterious. But learning NLP can accelerate the process. :) Watch more presenters on YouTube, including standup comedians. they have a strategy to keep the audience going too!

[koldblooded1]

@stuarttan can we get some more videos on how to model ppl more affectively?

[CRSJ78]

Good Job! I enjoy your videos, and perspectives on NLP.

Making this information available is great!

Keep up the great work!