Vivian is quite talented. This is a deep song...and a very deep video. It is quite obvious he's so caught up in himself..he doesn't even realize that she's done. Isn't that how it usually happens...one party isn't aware of how bad things really are...until they wake up one day and are caught off guard the other person is gone. Pay attention to your loved one, their feelings and what they are saying. It's obvious most of the time. Been there. Done That. Got a Good Man Now! Hallelujah!
he didnt notice she was leaving becUSE IN THE REAL WORLD A MAN OR WOMAN WHO DONT REALLY HAVE THAT DEVINE LOVE IS HE OR SHE IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU ARE PROVIDING THEM MONEY CLOTHES ECT THEY DONT WONT YOU THEY NEVER DID SHE OR HE IS INVISIBLE THATS WHAT THE VIDEO IS ABOUT SHE TRIED AND TRIED AND IT WASNST RIGHT THATS WHY SHE GOTTA GO AND AT THE END HE STILL DIDNT WANT HER HE WANTS WHAT SHE CAN GIVE
he didnt notice she was leaving becUSE IN THE REAL WORLD A MAN OR WOMAN WHO DONT REALLY HAVE THAT DEVONE LOVE IS IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU ARE PROVIDING THEM MONEY CLOTHES ECT THEY DONT WONT YOU THEY NEVER DID SHE OR HE IS INVISIBLE THATS WHAT THE VIDEO IS ABOUT SHE TRIED AND TRIED AND IT WASNST RIGHT THATS WHY SHE GOTTA GO AND AT THE END HE STILL DIDNT WANT HER HE WANTS WHAT SHE CAN GIVE
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This video is hilarious. Dude was still talking shit on the phone while she's moving everything out and cutting up the credit cards. "I'm the king of this castle" my ass! LOL
"He thought he was running things"! "Vivian show his azz who was running things"!! "When he seen there was no food his azz came back to reality"!! "Hahaha"!!
Just browsin the tube and listenin 2 my fav artist, ran across a video no sitting by the phone Vivian Green starring Nyesha, this girl obviously likes her some Vivian.
Ex-wife told me this. Thought the grass was greener on the side. Four years later new house, new car,dude kicked her ass to the curb. Damn it feels good. Oh ya new wife.
@ladyyg100 THANKS!!! It took me a while to start back talkn to him on the phn but after being with a person for 3yrs you still care and love them. you're just not IN LOVE with them... Im very happy with my new life now and when I speak with him I let him know it lol. I reached a new point in my life and I did it without him. I proved my point. That I'm my own person and if I really want to get something accomplished then I have to set out and do it. Never settle when U knw U deserve the best:)
this song is helpin me so much 2get over my ex dude. he hurt and disrespect so much and he hurt me to the core of my soul. but what goes around comes back around! i did so much and gave so much but after awhile u get tired of tryin 2 make something work all by yo self and have to move on. i listened 2 this song packing HIS shit and ive been listening to it everyday since. its my motivation not to be taken advantage of and disrespected by no one. thanks so much vivian! no fool no mo!!!!!!!!
I've only heard her song Emotional Rollcoaster, but this is great. It makes me sick when someone like her who is genuinely talented can't get the recognition they diserve, but people idolize Gaga, Beyonce, Beiber, and all the other mainstream "artists". She deserves more fame.
they showing about how a man get so wrapped up in his life - he dont even see his woman sllipping right out from under him - so many times this happens in life.....
@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N pretty sure its supposed to be symbolic- he's a self centered prick that doesn't care about anything except himself... he's suck in his own little world... unaware of anything.
This is a great song..I still love this song..like i did the first time I heard it..OMG!..Thank You Vivian Green for making this song...You said it all..
To all women who are in the struggle ... We as women don't realize when we are done until that DAY when we wake up to that final decision and NOW we are DONE! This was the song that woke me up the morning that I left my ex-husband!! Vivian u put ur foot in this one girl.. cause if u have ever gone thru the pain u feel it in the song!! Thanks
i keep listenin to thiss song..but im dumb on fb i wrote hes on my mind then l8r i put this song up and lol its like i like or luv sum1 then i put a break up song...but yea wen i said hes on mind i culdve been tallkin bout any1 or anythin..so yep..i ended up deteing it anywys..lol i broke up wit my bf like last week soooo yea but then i kissed a guy so thts y i wrote hes on my mind but ...yea for my ex still kinda think bout him wen i hear this
This was my theme song when I finally left my ex husband. It got to the point when I heard his keys hit the door I would get soooo angry. Finally I had enough and kicked him out. I stayed 3 years too long.
I had idiots like him....... get u 2 'borrow' dem $40, cuz u really feel sorry 4dem being a bum. Then, they run & talk about u & brag dat they got a few dollars out cha, type dudes........SAD!!
its about communication, conveying your true feelings not hoping that your partner just picks up on them cause they should just know. if you gotta leave and the other person don't know why its your fault. thats why doctors ask where does it hurt, won't know what wrong unless you say!
Most men think they are slick and can run game on a female but what they fail to understand is they are the losers. Don't know in the bible wisdom is called "SHE"! Women try their damnest to love a man and his first thought is he laying it down and get the "BIG HEAD" and start to take Ur love for granted! WOO and BEHOLD! What a man don't understand is once a woman have had enough of the bullsh*t she's out the door and there is no turning back! MEN! What U have another man have one too! WAKE UP!
This song is my inspiration... Been with this guy for 3yrs and we have nothing together to show for it..everytime I say im done he begs me to stay but this time Im done. I wake up even angrier than I was b4 I went to sleep.. Time to work on the new me and this song is playing while im packing my clothes... NO TURNING BACK NOW...
@yamyam644 Im proud 2 say that I moved out and moved on. Im back in school and I'm working on getting my Bachelors in Psychology... I still talk 2 him on the phn every now and then bcuz we were 2getha for 3yrs but I make sure that FRIENDS are all we remain. My new place is in a new city that is over 50 miles from him. I love the new me and I'm not turning back!!!!! THANKS EVERYONE:)
i lovee him soooo much but i qet so tired of lovinq him soon as i tell him "i qotta qo i qotta leave so please dont make it hard for me i qave enouqh im tired of love" he always do rite & i fall for it ... need sonqs like this to help women like me !
Of course it's a lot of male bashing comments on here. Well for me this is one of my favorite songs because I can relate to it. This song is dedicated to my ex-wife. She treated me like shit which led to me leaving her. I don't wish her the best in the future. Women don't know when they have a good man as well until he leaves.
FOR WOMEN & MEN:Please know your worth.You have to love & care for yourself before trying to love & care for someone else. Life is full of men & women so dont waste your time crying over someone who disrespect you & treat you badly.There is always someone else who is willing to truly love & care for you.Dont rush into a relationship because its not healthy.Try to get to know the person of your interest before jumping into a relationship with them because only then will you know who they are.
@DiamondMa2008 and you cant hold on for the wrong reasons. your life will be hell and you will never be a happy soul. love you first and put god in your life and time will take care of itself.
When a woman have had enought of the bullsh*t ,she's outta there!Most men don't know when they have a good woman, they think the grass is greener on the other side! WOW! How dumb can you be?When you(the man) messing around on his woman with another woman,don't you know the other woman see what you doing?This other woman know how you are cut so she going to f*ck over you because she know you are no good! If you did this to the other woman you will do it to her! She's gone! FOOL!
I left one night and went back for my things the next day. He thought I was playing that I'm gonna give him a minute game. NOT, it was a wrap for my ex husband. It's been peace ever since.
i just have a question for all the women that watch this video....Why do yall blame all men when its just the men that you dated?.....think about it.......because i hope yall do know that there are some good black men out there u just have to find the one thats right for you.
@TheDCKiDDZ I dont blame all men for anything that has happened to me in any of my relationships. As a matter of fact, i dont blame men for anything. The truth is, a person can only do what you allow them to do to you. For people who stay in relationships that they know are wrong for them but want them to work out are only hurting themselves because at the end of the day, wishful thinking dont get you anywhere. I got out the bad relationship i was in and now i am in a great one.
@TheDCKiDDZ i think we blame all men because it makes it easier to deal with the pain an if we blame them all it helps us deal with the fact that they messed up an gives us strength to move on an become stronger individuals sometimes we blame them because its hard to imagine why someone would wanna hurt us an we have this mentality of thinking if ones no good all of them are because it keeps happening over an over again in a pattern so we have a fear it will happen again so we blame them all
* 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul Single "Emotional Rollercoaster" (nominated) * 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul Album of the Year "A Love Story" (nominated) * 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul or Rap New Artist "Emotional Rollercoaster" (nominated)Vivian Green (born July 6, 1979) is an American R&B and soul singer, songwriter and pianist. Green has credit for writing "Dear God" by Boyz II Men. Green received her big break at the age of nineteen when she became a backup singer for Jill Scott,
I had my man mve me ou thinkin he was stayin wit me, he did for a week, then he had to go. stuff was allready packed. he treated me and my family like dirt.. no more. im to smart and pretty to take anything. but love keeps you blind. for a while =]
A great song, this is what happends when a guy is only having eyes for himself, and at the same time being sure that he s lady loves him, so the 'job' is fully done. Thinking it s his great loving what makes her stay with him. He s egotripping
A great song, this is what happends when a guy is only having eyes for himself, and at the same time being sure that he s lady loves him, so the 'job' is fully done. Thinking it s his great loving what makes her stay with him. He s egotripping
This vid is funny to me because i stayed with my ex and i moved my stuff without him knowing. It took me a month to move my stuff out without him even noticing. Show how much he cared or paid attention. And one day we got into it and i left and when i didnt come back that week he freaked out and started blowing my phone up with apologies but it was far too later. Truth is i was over him way before the day i left. Sometimes you just cant take it anymore so you have to let it go. Im happier now.
@DiamondMa2008 ur good sis! He left for work first, hit that corner and I had that uhaul packed before he got off work. When your tired your tired....like you said "Sometimes you just cant take it anymore so you have to let it go. I'm happier now." hurts sometimes but I rather deal with this hurt than be treated like i don't exist
we had one hell of a fight one night. th next morning, he got up and left for work and i packed up my stuff & the baby's stuff. he came home to an empty apartment.
@xprettynpaidx People never know what they have most of the time until its gone. majority of the time its gone for good. Its a sad lesson to learn but hey. I refuse to play the fool.
@DiamondMa2008 I agree. Amd alot of time its not that they don't know what they have til its gone ; It's just that they never thought they'd lose it. Men don't expect us to leave once they think we really need them.
@favoredmissnique I agree with you on that. But i have always been a "Show you better than i can tell you" type of person. I think a lot of people problems are they are all talk and no action, which makes other people believe they will not follow through with anything they say.
@DiamondMa2008 Honey I"m trying to get to that place where I can let it go COMPLETELY! When he stops crossing my mind daily and I get to the point where I don't feel like I"m missing anything, I'll be a lot better off. A lot better off!!!
@2whoiamtru Trust me when i say its not easy but its worth the battle within yourself. Its okay to think about the past but never visit it. The past is the past for a reason. I wish you happiness and strength.
@81kiema No he didnt notice. He only noticed that i didnt come back and thats what got his attention. But that was just another sign letting me know that i had to move on with my life.
@DiamondMa2008 Good for you! I find it funny how people appreciate or miss someone when they leave, where were all these feelings when their significant other was trying to tell them that the relationship is going downhill either in words or actions...............smdh!!
This whole album is GREAT!!! I normally don't buy full albums but Vivian knows how to get you from not skipping from song to song!
adamjcantu 1 week ago
As much stuff as she was moving out, Hell, He'd be packing his doo-rags and cell- phone charger.
31makiahkiah 2 weeks ago
She should have picked a different guy for the video. That's one thug ass nigger. And ugly too!
Shandra9000mail 2 weeks ago
@Shandra9000mail You could have just ended the sentence at guy. All the rest was not necessary.
Brandrica 2 weeks ago
39 people are crazy this song rocks
kato7100 3 weeks ago
She kinda resembles Anika Noni Rose
90sBabyNERD 3 weeks ago 4
lol i hated this song when it first same out still do. sucks that i found it again
emokidrell 3 weeks ago
@emokidrell ITS FUNNY HOW YOU WENT OUT YOUR WAY TO LOOK IT UP AGAIN,,,
mouse038 2 weeks ago
i love is song,because I see where she's coming from if your heart is not n it
pauldavis172 1 month ago
Vivian is quite talented. This is a deep song...and a very deep video. It is quite obvious he's so caught up in himself..he doesn't even realize that she's done. Isn't that how it usually happens...one party isn't aware of how bad things really are...until they wake up one day and are caught off guard the other person is gone. Pay attention to your loved one, their feelings and what they are saying. It's obvious most of the time. Been there. Done That. Got a Good Man Now! Hallelujah!
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he didnt notice she was leaving becUSE IN THE REAL WORLD A MAN OR WOMAN WHO DONT REALLY HAVE THAT DEVINE LOVE IS HE OR SHE IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU ARE PROVIDING THEM MONEY CLOTHES ECT THEY DONT WONT YOU THEY NEVER DID SHE OR HE IS INVISIBLE THATS WHAT THE VIDEO IS ABOUT SHE TRIED AND TRIED AND IT WASNST RIGHT THATS WHY SHE GOTTA GO AND AT THE END HE STILL DIDNT WANT HER HE WANTS WHAT SHE CAN GIVE
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he didnt notice she was leaving becUSE IN THE REAL WORLD A MAN OR WOMAN WHO DONT REALLY HAVE THAT DEVONE LOVE IS IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU ARE PROVIDING THEM MONEY CLOTHES ECT THEY DONT WONT YOU THEY NEVER DID SHE OR HE IS INVISIBLE THATS WHAT THE VIDEO IS ABOUT SHE TRIED AND TRIED AND IT WASNST RIGHT THATS WHY SHE GOTTA GO AND AT THE END HE STILL DIDNT WANT HER HE WANTS WHAT SHE CAN GIVE
1280money 1 month ago
She made her point very clear, just gotta luv this track.
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demonavalentine101 1 month ago
never realized how fine she is lol
naptowngill2005 1 month ago
I LOVE this song! She's only singing the story of what some females go thru..deep!
ma2real 1 month ago
BTW...Itssa 2 way road...
#IfMenAreDogsGuessWomenReallyCanBeB*tches..ROTFLMAO
a78capricorn 1 month ago
she got very beatiful face and I really like her hair
indiawilder1992 1 month ago
This video is hilarious. Dude was still talking shit on the phone while she's moving everything out and cutting up the credit cards. "I'm the king of this castle" my ass! LOL
MsBlueGemini 1 month ago
True story!!!
bossladiideb 2 months ago
She is HOT!!
unclesirkn0809 2 months ago
Big "G" in this video!!! What up DC in da house!!!
lathomp34 2 months ago
@lathomp34 HHHEEEYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!
lilhavin 1 month ago
vivian green ------luv ya
BabyCS123 2 months ago
I sooo love this video.... Sorry son
gmgpulliam 2 months ago
still remember every word! ha!
felice0913 2 months ago
"He thought he was running things"! "Vivian show his azz who was running things"!! "When he seen there was no food his azz came back to reality"!! "Hahaha"!!
REALSOUL4 3 months ago 2
#THTS HW U LEAVE A NICCA!!! SON! LMAO!
1kenyanna 3 months ago 4
I love her music! (*_*)
treewescott 3 months ago
@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N It's supposed to be like he gives her no attention and ignores her, ect... Thats why he doesn't "notice" ....
imthatnawfsidenigga 3 months ago
i love dis song somuch and ihve always loved it forever
zara5230 3 months ago
Just browsin the tube and listenin 2 my fav artist, ran across a video no sitting by the phone Vivian Green starring Nyesha, this girl obviously likes her some Vivian.
xoxo1KissesandHugs1 3 months ago
HE NOTICED SHE WAS GONE WHEN HE SEEN THAT FRIDGE EMPTY,.! LMMFAO.
riaboo100 3 months ago 9
Got me thru some hard times Vivian
buttmonkey216 3 months ago 5
THIS IS WHAT UM GON BE TELLING SOMEBODY THREE YEARS WAISTING MY LIFE.....LIFE TO SHORT I GOTTA GO GOTTA LEAVE......
shortladyj1982 3 months ago 4
True story thats how it is sometimes. Shes running out the moment you finally decide you want to walk in.
STYcK5387 4 months ago
Oyv'ndmA
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KEN29ist 4 months ago
Ex-wife told me this. Thought the grass was greener on the side. Four years later new house, new car,dude kicked her ass to the curb. Damn it feels good. Oh ya new wife.
Simp308z 4 months ago
@Simp308z wow. that's mean.
beautylov5 4 months ago
She's so pretty!
rassledassle82 4 months ago in playlist Work Jams
GOTTA GO GOTTA LEAVE
2sweet63 4 months ago
I feel hate towards my someone. i need a good listen.
livinglife22ful 4 months ago
my SHIT..................
Babysaw89 4 months ago
Thanks for checkin out my channel and subbin me! Luv ya! <3
TheMusicmind99 4 months ago
Luv her! This song is great!
rassledassle82 4 months ago
@ladyyg100 THANKS!!! It took me a while to start back talkn to him on the phn but after being with a person for 3yrs you still care and love them. you're just not IN LOVE with them... Im very happy with my new life now and when I speak with him I let him know it lol. I reached a new point in my life and I did it without him. I proved my point. That I'm my own person and if I really want to get something accomplished then I have to set out and do it. Never settle when U knw U deserve the best:)
4tarrel 4 months ago 29
this is my shit
drudafuture1 4 months ago
really, he paid that lil attention that he didnt notice her packn all round his ass, just from the kitchen an bakk!! she can help me packup then!!
dashenell2010 4 months ago
I KELLIE LIKE THIS SONG
MaDeBelivaZ 5 months ago
GOTTA GO GOTTA LEAVE
2sweet63 5 months ago
Wish I heard this way back when then maybe I wouldn't be up this late
mellymel1985msw 5 months ago
this song is helpin me so much 2get over my ex dude. he hurt and disrespect so much and he hurt me to the core of my soul. but what goes around comes back around! i did so much and gave so much but after awhile u get tired of tryin 2 make something work all by yo self and have to move on. i listened 2 this song packing HIS shit and ive been listening to it everyday since. its my motivation not to be taken advantage of and disrespected by no one. thanks so much vivian! no fool no mo!!!!!!!!
MissMonay2010 5 months ago in playlist vivian green 4
In da famous words of Judge Mablean (Divorce court)
"LOOK DEEP BEFORE YOU LEAP"
Yolireals1 5 months ago in playlist Angie Stone, Jill Scott, Lauryn Hill, ect...
@Yolireals1 A,mem
MzCnajohnson 5 months ago
this song has the same beat of some white guys song.
sabrinaaxlovee 5 months ago
I love this!!!!
MRSBaddB1tch 5 months ago
she is hot! ♪♫
Mbeebeelove 5 months ago
I've only heard her song Emotional Rollcoaster, but this is great. It makes me sick when someone like her who is genuinely talented can't get the recognition they diserve, but people idolize Gaga, Beyonce, Beiber, and all the other mainstream "artists". She deserves more fame.
cocobrownallaround 5 months ago
they showing about how a man get so wrapped up in his life - he dont even see his woman sllipping right out from under him - so many times this happens in life.....
mystikal1231 5 months ago 2
those 33 people are probably the aabusive ones you got leave .
promisebell 6 months ago 3
How the hell didn't notice she was leaving when they were taking out everything in-front of hes face? O_O
ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N 6 months ago 25
@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N its a metaphor like he wouldnt even notice if she left all music tells a story ;)
thebadestnozzo 6 months ago
@thebadestnozzo oh, I'm so dumb -_- lmfao thanks.
ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N 6 months ago
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@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N...was just showing how much he paid attenion to her
Crip52Crazy 3 months ago
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@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N it meant that he was paying attention to her
TheLovelyday247 3 months ago
@TheLovelyday247 Wasnt*
TheLovelyday247 3 months ago
@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N pretty sure its supposed to be symbolic- like he doesn't care about her.
badhumana0o 2 months ago
@ZWiNKii4DDiCTi0N pretty sure its supposed to be symbolic- he's a self centered prick that doesn't care about anything except himself... he's suck in his own little world... unaware of anything.
badhumana0o 2 months ago 3
I ♥ dis song
deewest33 6 months ago
This is a great song..I still love this song..like i did the first time I heard it..OMG!..Thank You Vivian Green for making this song...You said it all..
MoanLuvsLijah2010 6 months ago
what got me is nigga steal tryna watch tv as they takin it away. how stupid could u be?
ComeliaO7 6 months ago
.9248554% don't like this song
the haters couldn't even get to 1%
diamondinarough14 6 months ago in playlist SOOOOO Amazing 3
omg i love this song....sing it Vivian <3
TheSassy2005 6 months ago
Run dat shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ez2njoi123 6 months ago
Yessss!
LayDLuv 6 months ago
true music
Sparklely14 6 months ago 3
not a bad song, just a bit long
th3oceanBlu 6 months ago
you can tell she took care her man and he didn't even care lab
thesunwillshineonme 6 months ago
-thats sooo embarassing.
LaTieshaBoyd 7 months ago
havent heard this song in forever. i didnt know there was a video.
ily2cc 7 months ago
maybe because she's dirty fake azz hoe and not really love him huh?!
blackboysports 7 months ago
Sing it, Girl..!!!! Preach!!!
Gozeski 7 months ago
Love this video
iK33RockRainbow 7 months ago
so wait he aint she she packin wtf he talk to much mon lolol
liveyourlife19900 7 months ago
Yeah tell em Vivien! Get the f-ck out and take your sh-t with you!!!!!
I love it!!!!!!!
honeegrrl 7 months ago
@honeegrrl lol
tanyatmr 6 months ago
she looks like my mom
lashimaful 7 months ago
To all women who are in the struggle ... We as women don't realize when we are done until that DAY when we wake up to that final decision and NOW we are DONE! This was the song that woke me up the morning that I left my ex-husband!! Vivian u put ur foot in this one girl.. cause if u have ever gone thru the pain u feel it in the song!! Thanks
gwengrove 7 months ago 3
IM SOOO N LUV WITH THIS SONG
divagurl091 7 months ago
man i luv this song
nanadysheeda 7 months ago
i keep listenin to thiss song..but im dumb on fb i wrote hes on my mind then l8r i put this song up and lol its like i like or luv sum1 then i put a break up song...but yea wen i said hes on mind i culdve been tallkin bout any1 or anythin..so yep..i ended up deteing it anywys..lol i broke up wit my bf like last week soooo yea but then i kissed a guy so thts y i wrote hes on my mind but ...yea for my ex still kinda think bout him wen i hear this
TheSexybribri 8 months ago
This was my theme song when I finally left my ex husband. It got to the point when I heard his keys hit the door I would get soooo angry. Finally I had enough and kicked him out. I stayed 3 years too long.
cympira79 8 months ago
I'am really starting 2 feel like this!!!
nc7434 8 months ago
I had idiots like him....... get u 2 'borrow' dem $40, cuz u really feel sorry 4dem being a bum. Then, they run & talk about u & brag dat they got a few dollars out cha, type dudes........SAD!!
81kiema 8 months ago
good for you diamandma. cnt wait till i can say. "im happier now" love this song and all it is saying I GOTTA GO MAN
ranksgirliguess99 8 months ago
@ranksgirliguess99 I hope one day you can say the same too. Stay strong.
DiamondMa2008 7 months ago
its about communication, conveying your true feelings not hoping that your partner just picks up on them cause they should just know. if you gotta leave and the other person don't know why its your fault. thats why doctors ask where does it hurt, won't know what wrong unless you say!
urbangutta 8 months ago
luv this song ..escpcially if ur goin thru a break up
TheSexybribri 8 months ago
this the song !!! and did he notice that she taking everything
jasminesocute123 8 months ago
this the song !!!
jasminesocute123 8 months ago
3:27 He doesn't know there is a problem until he opens the refrigerator door and sees there is no food left? lmao
stingstungme 8 months ago 2
Luv this song!
latdiahil 8 months ago
Sang it girl!
MsPrettySmile26 8 months ago
FUCK MEN
tasila101 8 months ago 2
i like this song this is a good sound for you vivian.
latricehatten1234 8 months ago
Wrds right out of my mouth
Netty410 9 months ago
gota go gotta leave ...love it!!!!!
agentm6009 9 months ago
How this dumb muthafucka not see she was moving the shit right in front of him lol but Vivian can blow
mrsfreemanjay 9 months ago
Most men think they are slick and can run game on a female but what they fail to understand is they are the losers. Don't know in the bible wisdom is called "SHE"! Women try their damnest to love a man and his first thought is he laying it down and get the "BIG HEAD" and start to take Ur love for granted! WOO and BEHOLD! What a man don't understand is once a woman have had enough of the bullsh*t she's out the door and there is no turning back! MEN! What U have another man have one too! WAKE UP!
REALSOUL4 9 months ago
feelin this way
sweety0931 9 months ago
My favorite song of 2005
Lynette6601 9 months ago
This song is my inspiration... Been with this guy for 3yrs and we have nothing together to show for it..everytime I say im done he begs me to stay but this time Im done. I wake up even angrier than I was b4 I went to sleep.. Time to work on the new me and this song is playing while im packing my clothes... NO TURNING BACK NOW...
4tarrel 9 months ago 60
@4tarrel You go girl
Ladysessh05 9 months ago
@4tarrel good for you.. hope everything works out!
yamyam644 5 months ago
@yamyam644 Im proud 2 say that I moved out and moved on. Im back in school and I'm working on getting my Bachelors in Psychology... I still talk 2 him on the phn every now and then bcuz we were 2getha for 3yrs but I make sure that FRIENDS are all we remain. My new place is in a new city that is over 50 miles from him. I love the new me and I'm not turning back!!!!! THANKS EVERYONE:)
4tarrel 5 months ago
@4tarrel wow you go girl!!! Very inspirational to a lot of girls! God bless
yamyam644 5 months ago
@yamyam644 THANKS HUN:)
4tarrel 5 months ago
@4tarrel Its hard but you can do it. You need to do it for yourself!!!
kelgreen99 4 months ago
i lovee him soooo much but i qet so tired of lovinq him soon as i tell him "i qotta qo i qotta leave so please dont make it hard for me i qave enouqh im tired of love" he always do rite & i fall for it ... need sonqs like this to help women like me !
keke29ify 9 months ago
Of course it's a lot of male bashing comments on here. Well for me this is one of my favorite songs because I can relate to it. This song is dedicated to my ex-wife. She treated me like shit which led to me leaving her. I don't wish her the best in the future. Women don't know when they have a good man as well until he leaves.
brockbridge 9 months ago 3
This song is dedicated to my ex Robert.
The low life son of a bitch. I hope you never get another hard on again.
honeegrrl 9 months ago 3
Ooo this is my song
ashanti301980 9 months ago
thiz song peaks volumes.....
ilove thiz song ssoooo much.....
and iit will never get played out XD.....
1reazen 9 months ago
FOR WOMEN & MEN:Please know your worth.You have to love & care for yourself before trying to love & care for someone else. Life is full of men & women so dont waste your time crying over someone who disrespect you & treat you badly.There is always someone else who is willing to truly love & care for you.Dont rush into a relationship because its not healthy.Try to get to know the person of your interest before jumping into a relationship with them because only then will you know who they are.
DiamondMa2008 9 months ago 79
@DiamondMa2008 COULDNTVE SAID IT BETTER
4lboo 6 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 and you cant hold on for the wrong reasons. your life will be hell and you will never be a happy soul. love you first and put god in your life and time will take care of itself.
diamondblaksr1 5 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 That was so R3al TRu3 Shit G!Rl
3YECANDY08 5 months ago
OOooo love this jam!
MultiplicityMe 9 months ago
When a woman have had enought of the bullsh*t ,she's outta there!Most men don't know when they have a good woman, they think the grass is greener on the other side! WOW! How dumb can you be?When you(the man) messing around on his woman with another woman,don't you know the other woman see what you doing?This other woman know how you are cut so she going to f*ck over you because she know you are no good! If you did this to the other woman you will do it to her! She's gone! FOOL!
REALSOUL4 9 months ago
Guys don't' KnoW how to treat a woman. Jus look at his actions in the video
vintageclassik1990 9 months ago
I left one night and went back for my things the next day. He thought I was playing that I'm gonna give him a minute game. NOT, it was a wrap for my ex husband. It's been peace ever since.
Sweetniz12 9 months ago
Listen to angel: youtube.com/watch?v=omx5NjQ_o3M
rpawcio 9 months ago
Listen to angel. View a video of my account! Incredible!
rpawcio 9 months ago
this my shit....where she been
mrsbarnes23 9 months ago
Dude is a LOSER!
dontwanyaman 9 months ago
what his saying on the phone is jokes this dude is an og
abdiwell121 10 months ago
where is she now? She's good.
Saran2701 10 months ago
i just have a question for all the women that watch this video....Why do yall blame all men when its just the men that you dated?.....think about it.......because i hope yall do know that there are some good black men out there u just have to find the one thats right for you.
TheDCKiDDZ 10 months ago 2
@TheDCKiDDZ I dont blame all men for anything that has happened to me in any of my relationships. As a matter of fact, i dont blame men for anything. The truth is, a person can only do what you allow them to do to you. For people who stay in relationships that they know are wrong for them but want them to work out are only hurting themselves because at the end of the day, wishful thinking dont get you anywhere. I got out the bad relationship i was in and now i am in a great one.
DiamondMa2008 9 months ago 3
@TheDCKiDDZ i think we blame all men because it makes it easier to deal with the pain an if we blame them all it helps us deal with the fact that they messed up an gives us strength to move on an become stronger individuals sometimes we blame them because its hard to imagine why someone would wanna hurt us an we have this mentality of thinking if ones no good all of them are because it keeps happening over an over again in a pattern so we have a fear it will happen again so we blame them all
mrsputitdown 8 months ago
* 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul Single "Emotional Rollercoaster" (nominated) * 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul Album of the Year "A Love Story" (nominated) * 2003: Best Solo R&B/Soul or Rap New Artist "Emotional Rollercoaster" (nominated)Vivian Green (born July 6, 1979) is an American R&B and soul singer, songwriter and pianist. Green has credit for writing "Dear God" by Boyz II Men. Green received her big break at the age of nineteen when she became a backup singer for Jill Scott,
loosestudios 10 months ago
did he really not realize she was packing EVERYTHING???
bstokeling91 10 months ago
@bstokeling91 'baby you taking dem boxes to the salvation army right?" thas my girl
buddydagoat 10 months ago
only issue is with the realism ... i would notice a lack of Ms. Green..kinda like right now...where she at?
buddydagoat 10 months ago
Slim Charles play in this video! True song.....
beverlflo 10 months ago
I had my man mve me ou thinkin he was stayin wit me, he did for a week, then he had to go. stuff was allready packed. he treated me and my family like dirt.. no more. im to smart and pretty to take anything. but love keeps you blind. for a while =]
Ms18Virgo 10 months ago 4
men don't know when they got it good! smh
psw706 10 months ago
I restore myself when I'm alone. Marilyn Monroe
AlliRGee 10 months ago
31 people couldnt leave.
PatricioElMalo 10 months ago 3
Wonderful song ur very talented
nataee111 10 months ago
This is 1 of my fav songz :)
Izdattt02 10 months ago
love her<3<3
laM0M0911 11 months ago
Beautiful song for those women dealing with ungrateful men .!
modelstatus347 11 months ago 6
is that slim Charles
TheGregwilli 11 months ago
I love this song
renae8365 11 months ago
This is the best Freedom song ever..
NothinButAwesom 11 months ago
u never lie
peanut4555 11 months ago
With a voice that beautiful..man wifey all the way..She is So BEAUTIFUL..WOW
DrezNoir 11 months ago 4
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A great song, this is what happends when a guy is only having eyes for himself, and at the same time being sure that he s lady loves him, so the 'job' is fully done. Thinking it s his great loving what makes her stay with him. He s egotripping
Men like that should marry there homies.
Gr,
Warda
MultiPoppetje 11 months ago
A great song, this is what happends when a guy is only having eyes for himself, and at the same time being sure that he s lady loves him, so the 'job' is fully done. Thinking it s his great loving what makes her stay with him. He s egotripping
Men like that should marry there homies.
Gr,
Warda
MultiPoppetje 11 months ago 5
This vid is funny to me because i stayed with my ex and i moved my stuff without him knowing. It took me a month to move my stuff out without him even noticing. Show how much he cared or paid attention. And one day we got into it and i left and when i didnt come back that week he freaked out and started blowing my phone up with apologies but it was far too later. Truth is i was over him way before the day i left. Sometimes you just cant take it anymore so you have to let it go. Im happier now.
DiamondMa2008 11 months ago 251
@DiamondMa2008 True words of wisdom. I dig it!
zion8zoemom 11 months ago
@zion8zoemom Thank you.
DiamondMa2008 11 months ago
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@DiamondMa2008 ur good sis! He left for work first, hit that corner and I had that uhaul packed before he got off work. When your tired your tired....like you said "Sometimes you just cant take it anymore so you have to let it go. I'm happier now." hurts sometimes but I rather deal with this hurt than be treated like i don't exist
Gbeans10 10 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 i did the same thing to mine..
we had one hell of a fight one night. th next morning, he got up and left for work and i packed up my stuff & the baby's stuff. he came home to an empty apartment.
xprettynpaidx 9 months ago
@xprettynpaidx People never know what they have most of the time until its gone. majority of the time its gone for good. Its a sad lesson to learn but hey. I refuse to play the fool.
DiamondMa2008 9 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 I agree. Amd alot of time its not that they don't know what they have til its gone ; It's just that they never thought they'd lose it. Men don't expect us to leave once they think we really need them.
favoredmissnique 9 months ago
@favoredmissnique I agree with you on that. But i have always been a "Show you better than i can tell you" type of person. I think a lot of people problems are they are all talk and no action, which makes other people believe they will not follow through with anything they say.
DiamondMa2008 9 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 So true! I feel you! I'm like that as well.
favoredmissnique 9 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 Honey I"m trying to get to that place where I can let it go COMPLETELY! When he stops crossing my mind daily and I get to the point where I don't feel like I"m missing anything, I'll be a lot better off. A lot better off!!!
2whoiamtru 9 months ago
@2whoiamtru Trust me when i say its not easy but its worth the battle within yourself. Its okay to think about the past but never visit it. The past is the past for a reason. I wish you happiness and strength.
DiamondMa2008 9 months ago
@2whoiamtru it comes with time think of the reasons you left to begin with and you'll realize that he's not worthy of any time or energy on your part
crhillsmith80 8 months ago 2
@DiamondMa2008 He didnt even notice? Hes an idiot!!!!
81kiema 8 months ago
@81kiema No he didnt notice. He only noticed that i didnt come back and thats what got his attention. But that was just another sign letting me know that i had to move on with my life.
DiamondMa2008 7 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 brave and courage! ur comment is amazing xx
sexygreen2010 7 months ago
@sexygreen2010 Thank you. I really appreciate it.
DiamondMa2008 7 months ago
@DiamondMa2008 Good for you! I find it funny how people appreciate or miss someone when they leave, where were all these feelings when their significant other was trying to tell them that the relationship is going downhill either in words or actions...............smdh!!
tanyatmr 7 months ago