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  • Lovely! Christ forgave all of us when He did on the cross....

    He rose again on the third day and has still forgiven us.

    Amazing grace!

  • I've once heard that forgiveness isn't for others, but it's for ourselves, to set ourselves free from the spite and anger and hurt we feel. So it's true. We should all forgive others, so that we will be free.

  • The video was not bad, BUT the music was really boring. =P

  • real forgiveness only comes from Allah. Because when you die you will meet Him. You will be asked about you faith and your deeds. Weather you did them openly or secretly. When you die, the door of repentance is closed and the door of accountability is opened. So beg Allah for forgiveness now before its too late. And follow up a bad deed with a good deed!!

  • Thank you very much for this lovely video! God bless!

  • I forgive that dirty bastard for ripping me off and putting me through the grinder when I filed an arbitration case against him...and I WON!!!!! Yah...it feels good to release!

  • without LOVE, FORGIVENESS doesn't exist! keep loving :) nice one!

  • There is actually no forgiveness if we hope to be forgiven. The most painful (and healing)

    feeling is that we should forgive ourselves beyond the forgiveness of others.

  • Very nice. In case it still does not help:

    Remind yourself that they are not separate from you; they only appear that way. Then you will realize you are one, and it is yourself you are forgiving.

    Pain must go if it is right forgiveness. :-) Good luck folks

  • Forgiveness is bullshit if someone is going to do it over and over again and or is not sorry for what he/she has done. Or if something he/she did was so bad that will never forget

  • I ask for forgiveness everyday

  • NEW DAY

    New day, new slate the time moves fast.

    It's now too late to change the past.

    But present time is here to stay,

    the place where I'm going to live today.

    Trying to change time's memories

    is like trying to walk on the open seas.

    But under your feet is solid ground,

    and the God you meet is all around.

  • To live in memory is to fall asleep,

    but the present to be, is yours to keep.

    Will you open your eyes and really see

    each faintly realized mystery?

    What will you write on today's clean slate?

    What's in your sight, is it love, or hate?

    There's no better day then this day right now,

    for it's yours to say, "I lived, and how."

  • Free your souls ! Let the past go and look forward to future with a peaceful heart 

    « yesterday ist history...tomorrow is a mystery...today is a gift...thats why we call it present »

  • i just found this... it is nice. i just forgave H, too. so that is a coincidence. :) hugs and love, D

  • I can forgive but how do I make the pain go away ? That hurt...that's wedged so deeply inside. I dont' know how to get rid of it. :(

  • @evofemale good question...try not to say: i can forgive, but: i do forgive..see what happens, maybe it helps...Godbless

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  • Forgiveness does not mean that you've accepted what one has done wrong to you, but rather have identified the the wrong doings of another and have taken a mature step in recognizeing that it has made you a stronger person letting go of the feelings of hatred and revenge towards an individual and letting fate determine their destiny

    Revenge!!!!! is usually the only way and i will get my's !!! someday......

  • thank you, finally instructions on how to actually forgive. I forgive and set myself free...

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  • good stuff...

  • Beautiful:) someone knwos the title of this song by Secret Garden?

  • UNIVERSAL FORGIVNESS WILL SET US ALL FREE.... FORGINESS IS A JOURNEY...NOT A STATE OF ARRIVAL.....

    STACEY GOLDBERG HALE

  • This one helps.

  • Nice words, hope the politicians can use these words..

  • Thank you so much. I was living in a prison by my self for what I did in the past about 20 yrs back.I suffered so much. Also so many people hurt me. And those days I thought that I should revenge. .But eventually I understood that revenge is not the way but forgiving & extending love & kindness is the only way to set me free.I tried so hard & changed my ways, .Practiced love & kindness meditation to all around me including enemies. Finally I wish to say that I forgive every body who hurt me.

  • Thank you

  • I forgave my babysitter who physically and psychologically abused me in 1976-1978. I was locked in a closet with lights out, fed food which was contaminated, hit me with a wire hanger (don't joke about Christina Crawford either) on my penis, paddled me with a wooden paddle on my back,legs,thighs. She tormented me. I forgive her because to hate and have grudges makes one bitter and unable to let go.

  • Stupendo!!!

  • people tend to think that forgiveness means to deny what had happen but its not it simply means to let go & move on stop living in the past your doing this for your self not for them.

  • ik vergeef best snel oh mn trots met boosheid kom jy met iets me raakt my gevoel raakt iets liefs dan is alles weg ik ben los ik vergeef iedereen maar die niet op mn golflengte zyn geen gevoelsmensen ontwyk ik dat botst dit is filosofy erg mooi uit wikepedia kan je het daar in vinden van jou

  • Such a simple word to say, but pride or outside influence keeps people from actually doing. For some hanging onto the past is easier than to actually forgive. To forgive is to not throw things up in peoples face and keep a running tally for passed actions & to not blame others for everything that had ever gone wrong. We must be responsible for our own actions, our own words, our own choices & behavior.To completely & totally forgive ourself & others is the only way to actually ever be at peace.

  • @happyinlife39 I mostly agreeI think the key is to speak about events in terms of your emotions rather than name calling / metaphor. I'm really embarrassed by what I did. I hate that I did that. I'm upset by what she said to me. He was livid about what I did. I regret doing that, I wish I hadn't . I must not do that again, I must try to do this...instead. I hate what you did there, please don't do that again. Please take more care. I shouldn't have done that. I'm annoyed by that

  • I forgive the homophobes, the racists, the supremacists, the Republicans, the Conservatives, the religious right because one day you will ask the same for me.

  • I forgive everyone that has hurt me. Awkay!

  • @vibrantenergy I want to pass that down. TO all my relatives and people I knew, Whatever I said or did or whatever happened I forgive you as well.

    

  • brings tears to my eyes evey time Nameste

  • WHO FOREGIVES WHO...FOR WHAT... ...HOW... ... ...&WHY... ... ... 'MY QUANTITATIVE PSYCHOPHILOSOPHY' SAYS THAT EACH MUST RESPOND SATISFACTORLY TO THESE QUESTIONS WITHIN THEMSELVES PRIOR TO AN INCREASE IN POTENTIAL POSSIBILITY****

  • Wonderful video and wise words. To bad all of us can't always forgive, it would be a much happier world to live in.  <3 peace&love : )

  • love it 

  • although there is no past in the future, according to 'MY QUANTITATIVE PSYCHOPHILOSOPHY' the past had living possibiity that never were part of the present evaporating reality but a part of personal living hyperspacial quantity... ... ...

  • Beautiful!

    

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  • i want to forgive but it feels so raw...so so painful.I want to stop feeling the hurt and the pain.I want to let go and forgive.

  • I wonder if my girlfriend will forgive me for me yelling at her after she refused to lick my asshole last night...

    She ended up doing it anyways... she is def marriage material and I love her so much!

    Babe if you are reading this please watch this video and know that I love you more than anyone ever will.

  • @lstcall145 You have serious mental health issues! How trashy!

  • I will forgive myself and the family of StarGuide before the forty year (13 October 1971-2011) wait expires, I was six years old when it began in 1971 and now in 2011 I am forty-six years old..

  • I will forgive myself and the family of StarGuide before the forty year (13 October 1971-2011) wait expires.

  • i Forgive... all

  • I am unable to share this via my FB page...is there a reason? I get an error message...

  • @bjamin1775, I also see this and to rate it - it states I must be logged in even when I am.

  • thank you for sharing your beautiful videos. I often sent the link to my friends who find them very helpful and soothing. I love the way you use different music for the videos. I hope you continue to post them. Mahalo from Hawaii

  • Thank you for this beautiful message. Peace and Love always

  • i forgive the riich for not sharing with the poor .

  • so pleasant!

  • Thank you for this ~ Down to Earth ~ Make Sense ~ Wisdom!

  • i forgive george bush.

  • This is absolutely beautiful. It brought tears to my eyes and my spirit was lifted by the message presented. Thank you so much.

  • yes we must forgive because if God forgave us at the cross who are we not to forgive.

  • yes so very true

  • What a moving video for the essence of forgiveness! Captured and released with love.

  • YOUR perception of what YOU think "I" have done. YOU are hurting your children by turning your focus on me instead of the offenses they commit. We continually pray that this will change. YOU need to completely focus on the issue rather than a person. Forgive her Lord for she knows not what she does.

  • YOUR perception of what YOU think "I" have done. YOU are hurting your children by turning your focus on me instead of the offenses they commit. We continually pray that this will change. YOU need to completely focus on the issue rather than a person. Forgive her Lord for she knows not what she does.

  • I forgive Jesus & Yahveh / yahway...ect.

  • 'Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.' - Nelson Mandela

    Forgiveness is a gift and a blessing. Personally, a journey out of suffering, to live and love in the present. With hope for a bright future. 'I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.' - Carl Jung

    Thankful for all of those who have generously forgiven my errors too. Love and Blessings <3

  • Forgiveness: Focusing back to what is true to yourself. (withdrawal of attention to what we don't want)

  • i forgive myself..

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  • This video is the shizz. every third thought you think it gives the answer or affirmation to. Thank you(:

  • I am starting from the beginning of this movie as many times as i want until i reach that forgiveness desired outcome

  • I forgive my ex.

    I forgive the bullies who abused me.

    I forgive the person who stole my iPhone.

  • Forgiveness is a lesson that the evil ones should learn. It is not fitted to the good ones who instead should learn to do a healthy revenge!

  • Just subscribed to your channel. Its awesome. Pennie

  • Forgive the people who made twilight princess and forgive justin bieber,.....

  • Beautiful video, lovely words... thanks for sharing and passing in on! ♥

  • there is nothing to forgive. evil is a part of physical live.

  • I forgive the forces that made/reincarnated me into a human

  • For we are all reflecting what is within ourselves, we are one whole, forgive your brother and forgive yourself.

  • Beautiful!!!

    Divine message, it is making the world a better place...

    Thank you so much!

  • I TOO HAVE 4GIVEN THAT SILLY RABBIT THAT DUMPED ME :/

    ALL BETTER NOW! :D

  • Beautiful video and a so usefull message!

  • This video brings me closer to walking away from "it all" and starting a new life. 

  • beautiful video and message for the hopless.

    Need help now see willann54 Miracle Prayer, please.

  • i have forgiven that man who hurt my soul. thank you so much for the post.

    

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  • This video is so beautiful and the message is perfect for me now. Thank you so much for posting

  • Nobody here seeks retribution? Where's your honor?! Take action against those who hurt you, they have no remorse for their actions!

  • One thing all the jilted women viewers need to understand is that men are simply not monogamous animals. Don't take it so hard when he cheats on you. It's not personal... guys just need a lot more sex than women realize. Women, all too often use sex to get their way in a relationship. That kind of behaviour just motivates men to screw around just to even the score. Just cause he screwed her doesn't mean he loves her more than you.

  • @dogterd remorse for what you've done? tssk. Assume.

  • @dogterd really, so how should jilted men feel?

  • @coffeelieesa For men, being jilted, two timed, doublecrossed, ridiculed and shat upon is all part of a normal day. Much of the cruelty that men inflict on everyone around them is regurgitated pain from their past experiences, and they are usually completely unconscious of their actions. Many men can hardly feel anything, and are terrified of facing their own emotions. Honestly, I don't know why all you women aren't lesbians. Men are usually nothing but ego driven narcissistic robots.

  • @dogterd

    LET GO of negitive feelings

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  • There is a person who hurt me beyond my understanding, and yet....the only way to be free is to forgive. Peace to her always.

  • i forgive those who have disliked this.

  • @gonnagetyababy Lmfao

  • If you can learn to how to forgive then there will be an easy step to accept everything in the past. The art of letting go is forgiveness and acceptance. Forgiving heart has no room for hatred but there is room for healing. I myself can attest to this. This is for the two most important people in my life.

  • I am now hopeful and perhaps healing....

  • I dont think I could forgive all that he's done to me but mayb I should let it go cuz it's juz too heavy to carry all the memories, misery, sufferings or even thoughts of revenge...

  • Thank you so much!

    I needed it so badly!

    Lots of LOVE and Thank you!!

    Gil :-)

  • forgiveness doesn't mean you have to forget. everyone makes mistakes. you just have to decide which ones are worth forgiving and which ones should be let go.

  • I will visualize self-forgiveness, self-love, and gainful relationships. Trust and attraction that take time to nurture.

  • But what do you do when you are constantly being used, bullied, or mistreated? Acceptance is hard.

  • Great video!

    Peace!

  • :-) Beautiful. God bless you

  • So Fab! However, it's so hard in real life to do so. Thanks for sharing!

  • AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET US FREE

  • Beautiful!!!

    

  • THE OPEN END of cacoon; and in My OUTBREATH; THINK : I AM filling this cacoon with UNCONDITIONAL PUR LOVINGNESS; I fill it up and then ask Goddess again to take another mightly finger and plug shut the hole I filled the cacoon with; I call out to stay there suspended in SPACE; as the NEG/Energies disolve TOTALL; AS we awaken the rest for ascention.<3 TO ALLL :-)

  • I FORGIVE THE Cabal--THE CHEMTRAIL SPRAYERS--I forgive ALLL THOSE that bring on Humanities pain and suffering: I cacoon them in my White Light From the Center of the Universe; do My meditation-->Ending with enfolding the WHOLE WORLD --GLOBE within My Blanket/Cacoon; wrapping it totally around the EARTH; plugging the one end with God/Dess FINGER; and the other end I on My intake of breath; pull in Mother Nature energies; then I go and BLOW OUT INTO

  • I don't get modern attitiudes on forgiveness. if one party hurts another, is there no room for remorse on the aggressor's part? it seems we think that the victim has to bear the brunt, and the aggressor is never held to account.

  • its had to forgive someone but its the best thing to do ....iam still in love with my darling beki butterfly even tho we have split up 7 months ago from my silly mistakes ...she is with someone else now and i would forgive her for that and how she treated me leading up to her meeting someone else /. as she has moved on ......but istill love her and all her children ....she has inspired me in so many ways ....love to her ..x

  • (My mother calls my dreams, God-given dreams) Over a year ago I had a dream about a little boy in the middle of nowhere, on a beautiful countryside. I approached him & after a few questions I soon realized I was speaking with Jesus. I asked why me. He then said I've heard your prayers and what I want from you is to have the heart of child, pure. I want you to forgive, go and tell everyone about me for I am coming soon. I will never forget it. That dream has changed me forever & those I tell.

  • wow i luv this...

  • I believe i have a forgiving heart...even the TRUST has gone...just that it is a matter of two or more, i guess forgiveness works when the other person/s will ASK FORGIVENESS, isn't it. Yet, on my side, by the Grace of GOD i forgive myself and have forgiven them...for my own healing and in order for me to move on living with Peace and sound mind...Thanks! for this lovely video message, this helps to change peoples lives....God bless!!!

  • I forgive osama bin laden.

  • @Studsforchicks1 as bold and noble as that sounds, pray none of his victims harm you.

  • @Studsforchicks1 i do too.

  • @Studsforchicks1 Forgive him for what exactly ?

  • Nicely done...! Wonderful message too....! Did you make this with PhotoStory 3 ?

    Just curious..?

  • @rodbo no, it was done with windows movie maker

  • @butterflygris I would love to share this with my therapist and nursing students in psychology classes. How would I obtain access to paste the link or obtain a copy?

  • How much do you think someone can forgive?Is it possible to love someone that much that you forgive him endlessly because you believe in him so badly?

  • THANK YOU , FOR SHARING !!!!!

  • forgiveness is easily said than done...its really painful knowing that the person you really love is cheating on you...may99603 is correct, the pain is really killing me.

  • What if i cant forgive myself for something i've done? I feel horrible.And i thought i was past what i did and promised myself and god that i was never going 2 do it again.Then 5 years later i did it again.I failed i cant seem to forgive myself. ever again.Please someone reply.

  • i will start forgetting you but forgiving you i think it will takes time...you hurt me so much!!! I know if God can forgive why can't I someday it will come eventually but ror now for me your the worst person I ever meet..thank you for hurting me this way!!! i just hope Karma will not arrive you!!

  • God grant me the Serenity to Accept the things I CANNOT change, Courage to change the things I CAN & Wisdome to KNOW the difference. "Let God & Let God

  • God grant me the Serenity to Accept the things I CANNOT change, Courage to change the things I CAN & Wisdome to KNOW the difference.

  • Oh man, you don't know just how much forgiveness and letting go has helped me in my life....I feel free....

  • Beautiful! Congratulations!

  • This is easier said than done but true! I think sometimes we do things that we are not proud of so therefore we have to forgive ourselves for are own mistakes and learn from them

  • When my world became too tough for me to bear any longer I retreated home on a mountain in self protection. I have spent years here for long periods in silence, wondering if there was anywhere in the world where I could fit in as I didn't seem to know how to feel ok anywhere. Today I'm getting that as a little person I decided things about my world that aren't true for me now. Today I forgive the world and the little person I was in my innocence. Today I change my whole life script and trust.

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  • AMAZING----I FORGIVE YOU DADDY FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME

  • Forgiveness is the key to love. Love opens the door to perfection.

  • THANK YOU!! AMEN TO THE WORDS AND PICTURES. HUGS, CINDY

  • I love this vedio its really toching and beautifull, if i wanted to convince someone to forgive someone i would show them this vedio :) i lovee this vedio

    i will save it in my favourites

  • There's a great (free) article on the lifestoogood website (dot co dot uk) which should interest those who like this video...

  • good thinking

  • @caroljohnson168 thank you. Maybe it will take a little more time for me,the wound is still fresh.I know that i have to make a decision bec.i really want to get out fr.this place of sorrow that's killing me now..Thank you for taking time reading n responding to me.

  • @may99603 My heart really does go out to you. I am preaching at myself as much as to anyone else. You are right, it is a battle to let go and not perseverate. In the past two years, I have had total devastation in my family, one event after another. My bitterness lies in the responses of those who I tho't loved me, whom I have supported thru' thick and thin for 30 years. It is a slippery slope of despair when I think on the hurt, so I am also fighting a battle with bitterness.

  • @may99603 I turned to a friend recently for help because the hurt of it all was swallowing me up. She suggested that I forgive, and immerse myself in God's Word. For you, perhaps because it is so fresh, your need may be different. Bitterness is a prison that imprisons the bitter person; I just don't want to see another person held captive. Praying for you, God loves you very much.

  • Beautiful.

    

  • @caroljohnson168 IM A CHRISTIAN TOO BUT SORRY THAT I DONT AGREE WITH YOU THAT LOVE IS NOT AN EMOTION! IF LOVE IS NOT AN EMOTION,WHY WE FEEL HURT?IF ONLY IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE IS NOT AN EMOTION THEN IT MIGHT BE EASIER FOR ME TO FORGIVE.IF IT'S NOT AN EMOTION IT'S EASIER TO CHOOSE WHOM ARE WE GOING TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SO WE MAY NEVER BE HURT! I DID'NT CHOOSE TO BE HURT AND BEC.LOVE COMES FROM THE HEART WE GET SO EMOTIONAL."NOTHING GOES THROUGH THE MIND WHICH WILL FIRST PASS THRU THE SENSES"

  • @may99603 I don't mean to sound like Spock, but we should not let our emotions control our decisions. Emotions are real, yes, but are we to let them run our lives? How can you obey God is you are run by your emotions? Which will you obey? It really comes down to a choice of the will. Being controlled by the senses is carnality, our flesh, which according to Romans, is at war with the Spirit of God within us. I would strongly suggest reading and meditating on God's Word. Bless you.

  • buterflygris your so wonderful! forgiveness alone makes saints out of sinners. men alone find foregiveness extremely difficult, but there must be at least justice in every situation. so that the one we love to forgive might learn the sense of right and wrong. I presume this Forgiveness applies to a woman betrayed by a loverboy.

  • sometimes "forgiveness" is not an easy thing to do.....

  • Blessings of love !

  • I expereinced a great lover of mine cheating, and it was the hardest thing to overcome, but from expereince I can say that all you can do is remember who you are and what you want in your life..and go and get them..its not that I am giving the advice to push these feelings away...more doing the opposite of where you are now. Meditate on why this has happened..take acccountability for your part in the situation and move out of the energy of victim..his choices are his..be strong..I send u love!

  • is there anyway to get a copy of this video sent to me...my email address is moorelinda41@yahoo.com...I'd really appreciate it.

  • @ssjadam the more i love him now makes me hate myself...the more i make him happy the more i make myself sad.It hurts like hell!!!im a little less sad when im with him but im not happy too without him.IM CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF GOODBYE.Now that im done with forgiveness letting go is even harder.I just love him so much.

  • This is beautiful. The words of presentation are so powerful that my only suggestion would be to slow the timing/pace down on similar videos in future. I used the pause button many times to better 'absorb' and will watch this many times. Thank you. :)

  • What's the name of the song?

  • it is important to me to give an insight of the feelings of the 'betrayer'

  • everytime i hear or read about forgiveness ,its always about forgiving the other ..i cannot forgive myself for hurting my ex boyfriend ,i know that things go the way they go and that its just a part of life ,mentally i totally get that ,but in my heart i still feel so very sorry for hurting him ,so bad that i have psysical problems from it ,in a moment of desperation i called him and asked him to forgive me ..it only made him more mad so i am the one who has to do the forgiveness

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  • I ´ve been searching for this song for such a long time! Oh, I´m so happy I found it! Beautiful! :)

  • How could you forgive the person that you love for a long time and found out his cheating on you? its so painful after almost 23 yrs of married this person been cheating !!!!!

  • For those who cant FORGET and FORGIVE, Watch this..

    I give up!!!! I let go!!

    I forgive... (^_^) Sarap sa pakiramdam..

    Say "no" to Bitterness.

    IM HAPPY =D

  • to moala100 who would'nt want to get out from this place right now... where tears just can't stop..thanks anyway that somebody cared to just comment on the things i say... it's been a year now and i don't know if someday i'll be able to say the things you say to me now...i just hope so...

  • @may99603 Get involved in LIFE...plant a seed, draw a picture, study an instrument, adopt an animal. being in nature helps everything.