guy: I don't see either of you as marriage material.
modern women: I don't even know who you are, one third of marriages end in divorce, I have a career, and I never plan to get married, so...how is this a threat
To me, a 'slut' is someone who portrays themselves as one in the way you act etc rather than how many people you have slept with. The number of your sexual partners is not written on your head. I think in most cases you'd be surprised. I see nothing wrong with many sexual partners. I'm happy with the amount of people I've slept with. I'm young, confident and proud of myself and my sexuality.
lol@your dirty legs being soiled.....i have been watching you two all night...and yall remind me of two ladies i need as friends,,,i love you two!!! Keep it up!
Come to think of it, I take back saying that a person should have a very small amount of partners. It's more of a personal thing for me. Honestly, I wish I had more. A lot more.
I think my comment came from the hurt put upon by my judgmental mother after hearing that I had lost my virginity at 17. It was humiliating and part of what has withdrawn me.
When I move out on my own (I'm from NYC), I'm going to go on a fucking spree lol. Can't do it while Mom's lurking.
I really like the information they share, however I am in love and very happy with my boyfriend, I honestly don't need more partners but I respect everybody's opinion :-)
I'm cool with people doing whatever they want, whenever they want. Totally cool! But personally, I know that is not a world I'd like to be in where I'd have to have sex with ten people before I get married. I'm not about the double standard either. I'd love to marry another virgin and learn and teach each other as time goes by. I believe in love as a forethought to sex, I guess, for it to have any meaning at all. As much as I like them, life is not all about the many orgasms you have.
Will Farrell said it right in Old School that he's freaked out that he has to have sex with one person for the rest of his life.... get it out of your system before "taking the plunge".
saying that having too much sex because it makes you dirty implies that sex is dirty in general. it's the same as them saying eat fast food every day makes you fat, because fast food in general is fatty. there's some sort of imaginary line that people have made that divides the spectrum of how many sex partners you can have.
honestly what the hell is the point? if youre being safe and you're not leading anyone on (pretending you want them romantically to get them in bed) then whats the deal??
What's with women today? And why don't guys like to give oral sex? I've had 90% of my orgasms going down on girlfriends--there's nothing better!!!. Hell, I've even come while licking a girlfriend's belly! But that's just me. F*cking is only one of a countless number of ways to find pleasure (granted, a damn good one). Wow, Betty--you've had sex with more people than I've even fantasized about! My magic number is just 30 (and counting). But they were all amazing and I wish I'd had so many more!
I joke with my friends and tell them I am going thru my slut phase. But then when I really think about it I have always been sexually active. So now I have to say that it is more of an awakening of the power I have over my own body and what I do with it. Proud to be a SLUT!
I've had about 30 partners in 18 years of sexual activity... beginning at 21 and taking a seven year celibacy break.
I totally agree that we should not feel guilty. I used to...when I was a Christian. But not any more...I will never feel guilt or shame about what *I* choose to do with another consenting adult(s) in the privacy of my home!
i love that you really honestly and truely dont care, i think thats wonderful. im 19 so all my friends now are "sooooo" worried about being "sluts" or whatever and are really self conscious about how many people they've had sex with and it's sad that they add that frustration and anxiety to their lives. because honestly who cares if youre "a slut"? as long as youre being safe, fuck whoever you want and just experience LIFE!
Sluts of the world, UNITE! My hubby & I joke all the time about what sluts we both were before we met. BTW I just LOVE how you make 150 sound like a low number! Thanks for doing what you do! :)
@riley5228 It would be my humble opinion that as long as it isn't interfering with your job, obligations, or social or sex life and it isn't becoming painful, then there's no such thing as too much. It's not like we're born with a certain number of orgasms allotted to us...go for it.
I can understand where you guys are coming from but i think there is a line between the older and younger generations. When it comes to sexual journeys, for me at least, my sexual revolution is safe sex, not how many sexual partners I decide to have. Especially in todays world, you never know what you can catch and thats more important than how many sexual partners you think you need before you are happy with your sexual self.
Great video Betty and Carlin! More women and MEN need to watch you both. I will watch you for as long as I live.... simply amazing ladies. I am 19 years old taking a human sexuality class for the first time this semester. Yesterday my step mother asked me how to achieve an orgasm during intercourse. She had NO IDEA what the G-spot was.... and I've known what it was for years. I explained it all to her, and I hope I helped her. Thank you ladies for all your great wisdom :)
i am 24 girl and i had 0 partners i live in really Conservative community no sex without marriage.
i am a virgin but i masturbate alot , i know what i like and what i want and thanks god i had orgasm every time i was masturbated . i had my first orgasm when i was 16 years old.
I've only had 7, 8ish the ish one is debatable. XD (I'm 27) You've made me realize that I am boring as all damm hell. Also fuck I need at least 3 more, hopefully I can get to Australia soon and shag my g/f. ^__^ Sometimes against my will I feel like a nun, and not in a good way. (I'm an Atheist so any nun feeling is in a bad way.) Also if I ever see you Betty I will call you a slut so I can get a kiss from you. ^__^ I adore you, you're like the friend I should have had.
I think that's my favourite of all your videos so far. Sluttiness and masturbation rule! Well, maybe they take turns. Whichever one is in the mood to rule my brain's pleasure centers at any given moment kind of just does. :)
This is an important part of the discussion. Women shouldn't be made to feel dirty about having sex with multiple sex partners... and definitely, they should be exploring more than just pleasing the male partner.
glad you brought up the kid thing. My son started exploring himself this past summer, I didn't make a big deal about it I just told him that he needs to do it in private because out in public it makes people uncomfortable. My mother in law told me I needed to stop it right away. I told her he was exploring his body and that there was nothing wrong with that. I wish someone had been an advocate when I was younger, It would have saved me a lot of grief later in life lol
guy: I don't see either of you as marriage material.
modern women: I don't even know who you are, one third of marriages end in divorce, I have a career, and I never plan to get married, so...how is this a threat
guy: oh fuck, I failed
ItsMoriashkiBitches 2 weeks ago
hahaha "we're dirty legs"!!! I love it!! you ladies are fabulous... speaking of - I am going to try "running the f**k tonight"! :)
8AAM 3 weeks ago
To me, a 'slut' is someone who portrays themselves as one in the way you act etc rather than how many people you have slept with. The number of your sexual partners is not written on your head. I think in most cases you'd be surprised. I see nothing wrong with many sexual partners. I'm happy with the amount of people I've slept with. I'm young, confident and proud of myself and my sexuality.
1310jordan 1 month ago
Yes super ann.
BobbyBigallo 1 month ago
I'm 18 and a virgin... I do masturbate I not ashamed of it. .. I don't mean to sound stupid but if u have sex a lot would your vagina be all lose?.
SuperAnn123 1 month ago
lol@your dirty legs being soiled.....i have been watching you two all night...and yall remind me of two ladies i need as friends,,,i love you two!!! Keep it up!
allnaturaltrini 5 months ago
Come to think of it, I take back saying that a person should have a very small amount of partners. It's more of a personal thing for me. Honestly, I wish I had more. A lot more.
I think my comment came from the hurt put upon by my judgmental mother after hearing that I had lost my virginity at 17. It was humiliating and part of what has withdrawn me.
When I move out on my own (I'm from NYC), I'm going to go on a fucking spree lol. Can't do it while Mom's lurking.
AntiMale 6 months ago 2
I'm a 22 year old woman, and I think I'm at 26 sex partners. Baby and STD-free. :)
Then again, I'm anti-marriage, so it's not like I'm waiting for anyone to sweep me off my feet, so the idea of "saving" myself sounds silly to me.
sakurabaka 7 months ago 21
I really like the information they share, however I am in love and very happy with my boyfriend, I honestly don't need more partners but I respect everybody's opinion :-)
BarbieJess77 7 months ago 3
I'll never have sex with more than like 6 partners... sorry lol
Valou2269 7 months ago
Hmm... let's see... I have had...9 sex parters and I'm a 17 year old gay male.
zRibzyMitzy7 8 months ago
I'm cool with people doing whatever they want, whenever they want. Totally cool! But personally, I know that is not a world I'd like to be in where I'd have to have sex with ten people before I get married. I'm not about the double standard either. I'd love to marry another virgin and learn and teach each other as time goes by. I believe in love as a forethought to sex, I guess, for it to have any meaning at all. As much as I like them, life is not all about the many orgasms you have.
rikusora1200 8 months ago
I've only had sex with one person. My husband.
Yukahotanashi123 11 months ago 22
Will Farrell said it right in Old School that he's freaked out that he has to have sex with one person for the rest of his life.... get it out of your system before "taking the plunge".
silverboyzzz 1 year ago
saying that having too much sex because it makes you dirty implies that sex is dirty in general. it's the same as them saying eat fast food every day makes you fat, because fast food in general is fatty. there's some sort of imaginary line that people have made that divides the spectrum of how many sex partners you can have.
honestly what the hell is the point? if youre being safe and you're not leading anyone on (pretending you want them romantically to get them in bed) then whats the deal??
losermilkshake10 1 year ago
What's with women today? And why don't guys like to give oral sex? I've had 90% of my orgasms going down on girlfriends--there's nothing better!!!. Hell, I've even come while licking a girlfriend's belly! But that's just me. F*cking is only one of a countless number of ways to find pleasure (granted, a damn good one). Wow, Betty--you've had sex with more people than I've even fantasized about! My magic number is just 30 (and counting). But they were all amazing and I wish I'd had so many more!
00s00m 1 year ago
I joke with my friends and tell them I am going thru my slut phase. But then when I really think about it I have always been sexually active. So now I have to say that it is more of an awakening of the power I have over my own body and what I do with it. Proud to be a SLUT!
lavenderdrgfly 1 year ago 2
I <3 these videos
destynnee 1 year ago 3
This video is amazing! You ladies touched on some great points. Thanks!
bbcandle325 1 year ago
Betty you've taught me that the fountain of youth lies within owning my sexuality and forgetting the double standards, thank you!
-vii
BayleighVII 1 year ago
I have a lot of catching up to do! LOL
I've had about 30 partners in 18 years of sexual activity... beginning at 21 and taking a seven year celibacy break.
I totally agree that we should not feel guilty. I used to...when I was a Christian. But not any more...I will never feel guilt or shame about what *I* choose to do with another consenting adult(s) in the privacy of my home!
debbieomi 1 year ago
Really REALLY!!! good video
thank you very much
zeusbark 1 year ago
i fucking love you guys.... :)
jordylanelllove 1 year ago
i love that you really honestly and truely dont care, i think thats wonderful. im 19 so all my friends now are "sooooo" worried about being "sluts" or whatever and are really self conscious about how many people they've had sex with and it's sad that they add that frustration and anxiety to their lives. because honestly who cares if youre "a slut"? as long as youre being safe, fuck whoever you want and just experience LIFE!
losermilkshake10 1 year ago
Sluts of the world, UNITE! My hubby & I joke all the time about what sluts we both were before we met. BTW I just LOVE how you make 150 sound like a low number! Thanks for doing what you do! :)
rachelkmac 1 year ago
I love you ladies! I wish you made more videos! I always wait to see a new one from you!
Brittanytime 1 year ago
What about God?
junglesurvivalcamp 1 year ago
@junglesurvivalcamp what god?
eedTV 1 year ago
@eedTV His LAT has her menstrual cycle.
Azoicum 1 year ago
@junglesurvivalcamp We would only have to worry about him if he existed.
debbieomi 1 year ago
wait how many did carlin have???
alldayeveryday88 1 year ago
Betty your a slut :)
ohgreatwiseone 1 year ago
I've never been able to escape the suspicion that they'd be very interesting to hang out with.
grievouserror 1 year ago
i am 23.. and i'm still a virgin.. and waiting for that special person.. and thanks for doing a video, like i said =)
onomatopoeia162003 1 year ago 3
@onomatopoeia162003 same here =)
jessicavm 1 year ago
@jessicavm that's good. thumbs up
onomatopoeia162003 1 year ago
I agree with everything except making it illegal to marry the first sex partner.
Dall5000 1 year ago 2
I'm 29, Married with 2 children. I've been married for 10yrs and only had one sexual partner before him.
My husband and I have a nice amount of sex, we try new things all the time, and our sex life is in no way boring.
I have no feeling of want to have sex with anybody else.. is there something wrong with me then? lol
befuddledinc 1 year ago 4
@befuddledinc Haha, heck no, I don't think so.
Cream234 1 year ago
ok, how often should a guy masterbate?
riley5228 1 year ago
@riley5228 It would be my humble opinion that as long as it isn't interfering with your job, obligations, or social or sex life and it isn't becoming painful, then there's no such thing as too much. It's not like we're born with a certain number of orgasms allotted to us...go for it.
debbieomi 1 year ago
I can understand where you guys are coming from but i think there is a line between the older and younger generations. When it comes to sexual journeys, for me at least, my sexual revolution is safe sex, not how many sexual partners I decide to have. Especially in todays world, you never know what you can catch and thats more important than how many sexual partners you think you need before you are happy with your sexual self.
Cream234 1 year ago
Great video Betty and Carlin! More women and MEN need to watch you both. I will watch you for as long as I live.... simply amazing ladies. I am 19 years old taking a human sexuality class for the first time this semester. Yesterday my step mother asked me how to achieve an orgasm during intercourse. She had NO IDEA what the G-spot was.... and I've known what it was for years. I explained it all to her, and I hope I helped her. Thank you ladies for all your great wisdom :)
serinastar7 1 year ago
That's a bit risky...
Gdayguy36 1 year ago
i am 24 girl and i had 0 partners i live in really Conservative community no sex without marriage.
i am a virgin but i masturbate alot , i know what i like and what i want and thanks god i had orgasm every time i was masturbated . i had my first orgasm when i was 16 years old.
dreamqq 1 year ago 3
@dreamqq Hehe, I thought I was the only one. I'm the same age, same partners, and same overly conservative town.
Ryushai 1 year ago
@Ryushai LOL me too i was think i am the only one .
dreamqq 1 year ago
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yulkaluna 1 year ago 3
I've only had 7, 8ish the ish one is debatable. XD (I'm 27) You've made me realize that I am boring as all damm hell. Also fuck I need at least 3 more, hopefully I can get to Australia soon and shag my g/f. ^__^ Sometimes against my will I feel like a nun, and not in a good way. (I'm an Atheist so any nun feeling is in a bad way.) Also if I ever see you Betty I will call you a slut so I can get a kiss from you. ^__^ I adore you, you're like the friend I should have had.
MistressArte 1 year ago
I think that's my favourite of all your videos so far. Sluttiness and masturbation rule! Well, maybe they take turns. Whichever one is in the mood to rule my brain's pleasure centers at any given moment kind of just does. :)
ScentedNectar 1 year ago
@tattooskin72
You are absolutely right!
If men have many partners its like: Hey you are badass *high 5*
If women have many partners they are just called sluts.
Thats totally unfair!
I have/had only 1 partner. :-)
xel78 1 year ago
This is an important part of the discussion. Women shouldn't be made to feel dirty about having sex with multiple sex partners... and definitely, they should be exploring more than just pleasing the male partner.
I can't say it enough... I love you both :)
tattooskin72 1 year ago
glad you brought up the kid thing. My son started exploring himself this past summer, I didn't make a big deal about it I just told him that he needs to do it in private because out in public it makes people uncomfortable. My mother in law told me I needed to stop it right away. I told her he was exploring his body and that there was nothing wrong with that. I wish someone had been an advocate when I was younger, It would have saved me a lot of grief later in life lol
Corrinrr 1 year ago
Sluts of the world UNITE!
Divinity33372 1 year ago
how do you know if you've got the right product if you dont shop around right? :)
hungryfordreams 1 year ago